"She abandoned her children to enjoy life in the Philippines"
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- Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
- Who worries about the well-being of my children, don't worry, please. I promised them to come back if they missed me that much that would not be able to be without me. They have there for them, loving grandma and dad. That age children can already stay without mom for some time. When it was not possible for them I didn't leave them even for a half day.
So interesting when I was with kids in Philippines and they father in Germany, no one person told that it is something wrong, only when I leave them for a short time and being a public person, it's like open platform to judge.
Even if I don't find a perfect place at least I have had vacation and fulfilling my dream to sea the Philippines. of course, sometimes I'm sad thinking, oh would be nice if children also could see that, or experience. oh, how happy they would be to meet this people, try this food, or surf again. But I hope to be able bring them to the Philippines back to share all this experiences with them again ❤️🤗
I understand why you are in the Philippines. Don't let these naysayers get to you. These folks are quick to judge when they should mind their own business. In Filipino culture it is called Chismosa (female) or Chismoso(male). Live your life and grow the channel. This is kinda like your job now. You are a UA-cam personality now.
Or...maritess
Oo nga parang OFW lang si Jelena, pabaliktad nga lang kumpara sa mga pinoys na OFW na iniiwan din mga anak at pamilya para kumita.
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Crab mentality yan. Keep on singing Tagalog and Visayan songs! Your kids will be fine. ❤
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I think she is a good mom. She can’t just take them out of school and pack to go to the Philippines. She already said she is bringing her kids in the Philippines it would just take time to do so. I hope you find a permanent home that you and your kids can enjoy.
Why mind them? Go and enjoy, life is so short. Don't be stressed by the negative people.
Don’t mind the haters. Haters are going to hate. They are just jealous. Your videos showed how good of a mother you are. Enjoy!
We are so sad to hear that dear Jelena 😪 It is hard to be a vlogger. You only see about 5% of a person's life here on UA-cam. Watching a UA-cam channel doesn't mean you know a person. Unfortunately, viewers just judge. That's mean. Stay strong. God bless you richly dear Jelena 🙏🏼❤️
Dont welcome any negative comments. They dont know the meaning of happiness.❤❤❤
No need to explain further Jelena, as you said your kids are fine with your family . Enjoy your vacation 😊
Abandoned is different from left for a while to look a place and work for settling. Just go your plan and don't mind negative vibes.
There are people who think they know what is good for everybody. You have your own problems that only you can navigate.Dont mind these busy- bodies who have nothing positive to offer.
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Over Acting bashers... That's not true.... Keep doing your stuff... ENJOY YOUR TIME... YOU DESERVE IT... Don't mind them..❤
Don't pay attention to those who tell you that you are a bad mother, they have no honesty to judge you because it is your life, enjoy the life where you are happy, we will support you because we love you and you remain in our hearts❤❤❤🇵🇭
Its..okay atleast your kids they are in a good hands they are safe.with your parents.i know you have plan to moving here in philippines with your kids...god bless you jelena❤😊
You’ve made the right decision. You are also entitled to enjoy life. Your kids are taken care of very well by their grandma and dad. Don’t mind negative people. There will aways be people that are jealous of you and make you feel bad. I will always support your channel because you are a beautiful, kind and lovely person. Good luck on your search!👍🏼❤️
Enjoy life here in the Philippines but always remember your children to bring them and and enjoy every single day in the Philippines so that your whole family could be happy.
Hello jelena dont mind the negative your supporters understand you and your situation. You have a purpose when you went to the phil so keep going enjoy keep vlogging more vlog more fun more income we can support you by always watching your videos without skipping ads take care...
Just enjoy. Good luck finding the perfect place for your kids
Live life to the fullest don’t mind the negativity as long as you prioritize your kids.
You don't need to explain to other people who don't understand, you have your reason and I'm sure it's for your good and the good of your children. Don't mind those bad comments.enjoy your stay.we love you Jelena ❤🎉😊
Just enjoy go to the fullest joy because life is to short ignore the bitter and crab mental people ❤❤❤ watching love from Hongkong
Enjoy your life jelena ignore the haters
enjoy life my friend --- time for yourself and time for your kids is in you.
She never abandoned her kids. In fact she came back here in the Philippines to look for a suitable place for her and her kids.
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You are a truly now affect by Filipina hearth it's normal to us to leave our own country (OFW) to seek for a better future for our Family and there's no different for your dreams to give a better future and happiness for your Kids.
Well explained yeah just enjoy life and promote a place to be a tourism someday.
Dont mind the idiot people who are commenting about you personal life, just continue your work, thats all
The people who are saying negative comments about your vacation in the Philippines are shallow minded people. Please enjoy your vacation and remember, you are an awesome mother to your children!❤️
mind your own play ground guys, thats personal matter.go ahead Jolina
Don't mind negative comments ❤❤❤
Jelena, i know what you're going through, that's why we're here to support you. ❤
Samal is a good place. No storm and simple living and less expensive.
She can find good schools in Davao City that she dont know about. Besides its cheaper there and life is not fast paced. Not so much tourists, but she has options if she doesnt want to live anymore in Davao. Moreso, not affected by storms typhoons etc than in other areas in Phil.
What u think and do for yourself as single mom is what impt than what others think of u. Keep doing what is best and pleases u and settle after you've chosen the most livable peaceful place for your children.
Just be yourself..no need to explain.
How beautiful you and your kids together enjoying here in Philippines, that's great 👍😃
Why did you abandoned your children ????? Who will comport them, our children is our treasure,
Our prescious jewel in. our life.
Here comes another basher!
Dont mind them, and pls.forgive them Miss Jelena 🙏they dont know your situation they must ask first before they judges you. Just enjoy your vacation in the Philippines and keep safe.
U should move 2 the Philippines 🇵🇭 with ur kids to be happy 😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀 an u can practice singing 🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶 Tagalog
Oh please, we are not only moms but also individual woman 😂😀 bet these people have no children. 😂😂😂 ❤❤❤ enjoy your time
Hey beautiful mom of Em and Dom,...
I know why you're here: to work. Let's face it, vlogging is work, a nice and enjoyable job. It's not just part of vacation and travel, as some of us here know, but vlogging is work. I understand from one of your videos before coming here that you said you're now an OFW or something like that, so I know you're 90% working and 10% enjoying/vacationing here at the PH.
Thank you so much 🤗 but right now in only 10% working 🤭🤣 but that's true vlogging take a lot of time especially if there is no videographers and Editors for you!
Yes Jalena, I see your point of view, and hopefully you get to at least 300 thousand subscribers so you can earn more. That would be a good time to move your kids to the Philippines. The timing will be better too because they will be older and won’t need close supervision like you used to do.
Mind them God bless you always and have a nice day keep safe always 🙏
Your kids can now spend some quality time with their Dad. You’ve worked very hard taking care of them and now it’s his turn to step up…….you deserve to have some rest and relaxation also. Ignore the haters and enjoy your vacation💪🏼🙏🏼
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You deserve a time alone now 😊 the kids i know is happy for you 😊
Don’t worry about what people think!! Be happy,live your life, your kids are with their Daddy and your mom is also helping you out!! You’re a wonderful mom!
just enjoy life ❤
Jelena!!!❤❤ We love you and your children❤❤ we know what is in your heart, to find a good place for your beautiful kids!! ❤❤❤Stay Positive!!!❤❤
just enjoy your stay,ignore the basher its always around ..❤
Why are you offended ? Natrural bec.u r a vlogger....enjoy lng habang nandito ka sa 🇵🇭
She is aloving mother it was just happpened that her children is not yet available to go w/ here in the philippines as they are still studying in Germany , i’m sure she will fetch them from Germany when they are available for vacation
My friend’s wife and kids left for the Philippines and the husband left for Brazil. Nobody’s left at home and everyone is on vacation. 😂😂😂
CAMIGUIN ISLAND madam, it’s better place to live.
consider Dumaguete CIty in Negros Occidental.
THESE PEOPLE ARE SO QUICK TO JUDGE?just because her kids is not with her it doesnt meant she abandned them
instead of judging her why dont you ask nicely why her kids are not with her this time like the last time
then maybe just maybe shell answer you. but shes not obligated to answer to you
its her private life
Try checking on Dumaguete. I don't suggest touristy places in bringing up children.
I understand you Jelena my friend, ignore the other comments, continue your work, remember my friend the lord bless you. Continue your work vlog. God bless you. My friend.
DONT MIND OR ENTERTAIN NEGATIVE ENERGY,THOSE PEOPLES WHO JUDGES YOU Doesn’t KNOW NOTHING, THEY JEALOUS AND MISERABLE IN THEIRS LIFE….. Doesn’t KNOW THE MEANING OF A HAPPINESS ENJOY YOUR LIFE JELENA, LIFE IS TOO SHORT NOT TO ….. YOU Don’t WANT ANY REGRETS, THE COULD Da Or WOULD Da Stuff That You Should DONE ✌️✌️✌️💕👍👍👍👍💪🙏👌🇺🇸❤️
Don't Mind The Haters, Welcome Their Negative Comments and Accept Them But Don't Take Them Seriously. Just Laugh at it. You Know and We Know it's Untrue. We Live in a Sea Of Negativity. The Important Thing is Being Yourself. and Acting Like Yourself. That's Harder. But it's That Path That Leads To Personal Power.
It Means Forgetting About What Others Want You To Be and Being Who You Are. It Means Living Up To Your Values.
We Truly Understand Your Situation, You Love The Philippines and Filipinos So Much and We Truly Appreciate Your Honesty.
Stay Safe and Healthy.
God Bless. ❤🙏
Just ignore the haters, enjoy your vacation..may God bless you always 🙏🙏🙏♥️❤️❤️
If they commenting negative means your popular. Many are watching.
Keep on going what you think is right. Be happy and be strong. GOD BE WITH YOU AND TAKE CARE.
Stopping those nonsense comments are to stop reading them,just go on with life welcome back...ENJOY!!
Don't mind about the bad comments about you....dnt entertain bushers...we know what you want to do and what plan you have for your kids....
Hi Jelena, If you punish all the damage done to you, you will also damaged . So many toxic here in the Philippines, if you don't mind comments is the most important but don't punish the damage OK. That's my advice, pick up the good not the bad comments. Thanks a lot Jelena See you on your next videos and please take care of your self and safe. GOD guide and bless you always 🙏💝🙏💛🙏💜🙏💓🙏💙🙏💖🙏💚🙏💗🙏
Wanna see you with your husband and kids,and travel together so it won’t be hard for you alone traveling with kids.
Better to Tavel with FAMILY…the Family that Travels Together Stays Together.
You are like our OFW's, finding work overseas wherever opportunity is. sacrifice and hardwork are their strenght..for the family..
Dont allow yourself to be affected by negative people.. always think how our kabbayans fo in foreign lands..thats you now..
Dont mind those negative people,they are just envious,jelous.Relax and enjoy😘
Eversince I understood your reason, Jelena. You did mention it in your previous vlogs. It was a touching content. You're a good person and the awesomest MOM to your kids. PS., all comments I read from Barbie Island vlog is.. Wow, that's Jelena. You're so famous.🎉
What I was really puzzled,one time you and your children are both in the Philippines
And Your Husband Came Too…then all of a sudden…you and your husband wants separation.
That’s kinda sad for kids…I hope you guys reconciled and travel together with your children.
You shouldn’t pay attention to the haters on UA-cam who have nothing better to do than criticize and second guess others with dumb opinions. As long as you and your children are happy, that is all that matters.
I am a single mother too, believe me, those who criticised you for being a bad mother because you’re enjoying and taking your time off for yourself having fun and relaxing with friends are simply ignorant and jealous! Having kids in the Philippines has a great deal of differences than in Europe, in the Philippines you have family members or friends that could look after your kids, however, in Europe you’re on your own. It’s a different culture and different ways of living! Just don’t mind them, live your life to the fullest possible and recharge your energy, HAVE FUN AND NO STRESS 😎 kids will understand that you’ve been there literally with them ever since they were born!
Ohhh dont be bothered by such impressions of other locals.. Just go on your business .. Dont mind them anyway.. Enjoy your day
You're doing it for them which only a few will understand. A sacrifice only a mother will do. keep going! be consistent.
Don't listen to them, there's a lot of marites in comment section. They always judge other people. Keep going explore beautiful of Phillipines enjoy
I fully understand you Jelina. But you must also understand why people are asking "where's the children?" that's because you are known to us with your children around especially when they were going to school in Samal. It's just surprising to many of us you come back without the kids. Anyways, Ignore the Marites... It's none of their business 🤣🤣🤣
Just let them bash you its not your loss,you are actually making more money with their nonstop bashing😂just laugh at them behind the camera😅kaya nga siya nandito sa pinas kasi dito siya kumikita sa pagbavlog kasi pag nasa russia lang siya bagsak ang yt nia kasi wala masyadong supporters.
Cebu is the best place to live.There is an International School their for the study of your 2 kids Emma and Dominic .Cebu is a good city and very simple to live in like in the city.Godbless be happy exploring the other island here in the Philippines.❤❤️❤️🥰
They didn't watch her previous videos 😂😂.. love you Jelena
Don't mind those meaningless comments. Just enjoy your journey in life & find your own happiness in life. Some comments are meant to be ignored Enjoy your journey!!!
Ow 😂 Take Care Always Everyone 🤗❤️🙏 i see all comment's but my answer is MAYBE 😁
Your rigth Jelena explore other places in the Phillipines so that you can choose which is the best place to stay for the best for the kids.I am happy for you now that you visit Siorgao and meet Barbie.God bless to another journey of your life.👍❤️❤️❤️🥰
All mothers need a break to be mentally and psychologically happy. Your kids are spending quality time with their father and grandma.
People really don't understand... There's a reason why Jelena didn't bring her kids... They are the worse people.. They should mind there own business
Don’t listen to them! Because they don’t watch some of your previews videos that’s why they don’t understand. Enjoy your staying and observe and continue if you can live with your family someday in the Philippines 🇵🇭 I do understand you so much. People don’t judge her if you really don’t know about her situation.
Don't mind people commenting like that ...they don't you ,they don't watch your videos that's why they don't the reason why you're in the Philippines...
Stay strong ,keep safe and God bless you always 🙏🇵🇭
No need to explain.. leave those negative toxic comments,
Your vacation matters enjoy it!
For the best living with your kids Samal is recommendable!
Pray for God's direction and wisdom with regards to your plan...i know you're a good mother and very loving.to them. Disregard negative comments of people who hate.
Dont listen to the people who are inquisitive. I watched most of your blog videos .I can say you are a loving and responsible mother. Sometimes you need time of yourself Jelena 😂. Take care and God Bless 🙌 🙏 ❤
Since you're very talented, have you tried doing part-time jobs here like singing/hosting in events/parties? I feel like it would help you with your expenses :)
Ignore those basher, Jelena. They don't understand you. They don't know your plan. They don't know your whole stories.
Some parents are with their kids, but they portray bad parenthood. Some parents don't leave their children, but they raise their children the wrong way. So, who are these people to judge you. They know nothing about you. They only see 15 minutes video of your life's journeys, and they want to judge you by that.
Welcome to the world of being a Public Person. You will see more and more comments like that, so don’t worry. It only means you are becoming more and more popular. 😂. Keep your character intact, people who love you will keep loving you, while bystanders and critics will always have something to say against you. 🙏🏼
I think your stay in the Philippines is paying off. You look younger now than the first time I watched you. You deserved alone time and what a better way to spend it exploring our beautiful country! Keep it up Jelena!
Enjoy your staying in Philippines don't worry about those judgemental people maybe they are just jealous 😮
Obviously, people misunderstand your motives in leaving your children in Germany temporarily. Please don't listen to them. They are shortsighted. They missed your long-term plans. They are quick in their criticisms when they do not understand at all. Please enjoy your search and journey for the best place for you and your children to live and stay in the Philippines, long term.
Kng pwede lang sana sa mga pinoy kng wala naman kayo masabe na mabuti wag nlang magsalita. Hindi yan nakakatulong at yan ay loss loss situation wala ka makukuha kundo negative dn. Buhay nya yan at d nyo alam kng ano ang reason negative comment sometimes gnagamit natin pra e boost sarili natin. It is another form of pagbubuhat ng bangko ang worse you step on others using the cloak of consern. Hope we spread positivity look for positive marami yan mas marami pa sa negative.
nahhh miss Jelena.. don't mind those comments.. you deserve what you have now.. they don't know what's going on in your life..
just continue whatever you want..
like @becomingfilipino he has citizenship.. so if you really want to stay here in the Philippines .. then keep going and hope you find your purpose here in the Philippines..
I hope you don't do too much thinking about what happened.. just enjoy no pressure..
we know struggling is there but please always charge yourself to face those things!
Check out Roxas, Iloilo. Great place to settle and raise kids. Lots of beautiful beaches just like what you wanted.
Stay strong beautiful Jelena just focus your vlog, that's life sometime people judging outside appearances, they don't understand of other, why you do good for the sake your kids, that you want to be free and find freedom here in the Philippines that make you plan happy; with your kids, God bless you.
Those people are too ignorant and not updated! Or, non-viewers. They just love to reading thumb nails and comments. Judging the vlog creator according to the comments and replying non-sense!
Enjoy your vacation Jelena don't mind the negative comments
You don't need to explain
Just Go on your purpose, ignore those people because we can’t please anybody. Better to stay in Davao, it is a good place for you and your kids, very near in samal island. There’s a lot of oportunity that you can plan to stablize for a new beginning of your life, Davao City I a very stablised City in the Philippines second to Manila , if you want to work as well as vloging . Good luck for your good purpose for your family, God is always with you, God blessed!❤
Don’t worry about this bad comments , you dont have to explain yourself to them.