Is erectile dysfunction all in your head? | Psychogenic ED
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- Опубліковано 2 лип 2024
- Did you know that you can get ED from psychological factors, such as having performance anxiety, relationship issues, and even mental health disorders like depression?!? In this video, we'll talk all about Psychogenic Erectile Dysfunction. Watch until the end to learn whether or not you have it, and to know what you can do about it!
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Performance anxiety is a factor. I was so nervous about performing rather than enjoying the moment.
Imagine how it is when you add SSRIs to the mix.
How did you overcome it?
This can happen even after many years of marriage and successful lovemaking. Marriages can fail and depression can drastically affect sexual relationships.
@@terryrose6208 Sure happened to me. I still can't do ONS. I never had a single problem until I divorced.
@@rajvo7406 I had a near death experience and had a trauma. Talked to a psychiatrist and she prescribed me those. When I read the side effects of the medicine I threw them immediately away lol. All of the sudden I didn't feel anxious enough to get chronic impotence and death wish (probably resulting from the former).
Remember boys. *YOU ARE HIM!* Get in there and give her the time of her life!
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.
Nice way to develop performance anxiety
Right.. when you’re a 30 year old virgin, and your new/first ever gf has had 10 guys before you.. good luck being the “best”
Sleep and proper nutrition are very important. Not just any sleep, but good sleep. Stay away from computers, tablets, and phones hours before you go to bed. You'll experience the difference.
I'll have to start doing this here in the next week.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.
Update pls@@optimusprimus89
Aww man im addicted to my phone
Important topic. Cynicism of love (knowing it's fake or transactional) can lead to the emotional - depressive elements. Dysthymic PTSD due to marital failure may be common. Passion (infatuation) and Intimacy (both wanting same things) are necessary for true romance. Finding the right partner is often a problem. Peace.
Of course its always about the darn money and I ain't going to find a partner I prefer to off myself to be non corporeal
That's not necessarily true _if_ a marriage is _de_ _facto_ transactional (id est, simply a working business contract) and your interpersonal relationships remain a separate thing. I would know given my above comment, which isn't factually exaggerated except that I wouldn't consider having a sexual relationship with anything but a machine anymore... I'm more than happy to consider something with a person, but my experience has been this is _transactual_ and temporally limited, as well. I think if one examines the human genome and scrutinizes you will find what I am saying is true. Also, you merely need look at the Bible if you doubt all science and treat every word there as factually accurate. I've actually had some decent years long relationships in the past and sometimes people either just change or you jump into something over and over again out of a sense of responsibility hoping things will change.
Now, if I did decide to completely forego further human contact and stick with machines... well, you'd have a small point because the machines would want a power cord or tx source thereof, where'd my objective would be the same with my damned fists...
You can't always find "the right" partner, singular, either, so I take a small issue with that assumption. Again, I'll point out the biological record of the human genome as my proof.
I do value what you've said... let me make that clear, because there are some people who are made for ideal single life partners. My counterpoint was merely that this is not always what life lays out as possible for us, which could also result in depressive illnesses if that's all you've been taught is normal to expect from the universe.
@@testrabbit yes well we all know that it's the 21st century full of debauchery deviancy and its always about the money I don't have long till I decided to end it all about every woman I like never understands me and why I refuse to have kids
I battled sexual performance anxiety for almost a decade, back then I didn't even know this was a medical condition. Things changed when I turned 30 because I started to do some reading on this subject. Information is essential: the more you know about sex, the less stressful it will be. Read books, talk to doctors, visit informative websites.
I struggled with it for years too until I experienced something similar to you too. The day I realised that it was all in my head when doing research on it and I gave myself permission to relax, I experienced an erection immediately after the fact, which is something that I hadn’t experienced like that for years. I always felt like I was forcing erections which didn’t help at all, but once I relaxed and let it happen naturally I just could not believe how much pressure that I put on myself for that whole period of time in my life
@@PC.NickRowan Absolutely! Information is the #1 ED treatment. Most men suffer in silence and don't seek help because they don't even know this is a medical condition (and easily treatable).
@@connormurphy1964 Anything written by Tom F. Lue, a brilliant American urologist.
I'm in my twenties but I notice I am experiencing ED. The confusing part is that, I get a very strong early morning erection but during sex I don't get enough erection for penetration. I really need a doc to speak to.
@@darlingtonumezuruike3791 people would say because of masterbation. Also i dont have morning erection but when am with my partner i erect so much and having a sex but morning erection to me itsa big trouble i can spend 24hrs and having one erection but not good erection last year i was in depression so bad. using different kind of supplement Omega 3 fatty acid no help,Horny goat weed but i stop using them i just dont like the way it works on me,Jump to Gingko biloba actually it work due to my Cognetive function disorder and increase blood flow to my brain,jump to macca root capsule i take it through a night yeah it works on sexual activity but still no morning erection i think its Physichogenic i dont know.
You are absolutely right. I went through this for a long time, and it repeats itself when during the intercourse my mind recalls my previous low performance. I just want to cease this opportunity by saying that women need to be educated about this as well because word and behaviors can linger in man's mind for a long time. In many cases women tend to be angry and disappointed, thinking that they are not attractive enough. The words and mood will hunt the man for the rest of his live. I have spoken to many men, and this is what they told me: She was rude, she gets up very quick and dress up. Please make a video for us, educating women on how to treat a man who fail to perform. They should support and motivate their men instead of blaming them. I don't care how long it takes but I will watch your vides one by one to share your expertise with the world. Thank you so much.
You are amazing Rena, you explain things in a very easy way to understand. Better than any other doctors.
This is a fact. Not to dismiss that us fellas can take longer to get going many times. But the thoughts or fears of performance are a huge problem. They have been for me. I'm 58 and am just now finding this out. The loss of the basics seems to be a big part. Romance, erotic thought, slowing down and enjoying the moment. A patient and understanding partner is key as well. I could get it up, and keep it up, untll drum roll please. the actual act was about to take place and I was like a popped tire.
As always, really solid and helpful information presented in a very clear way. Great job Doc!
Dr. Malik, we know that u r so honest, & diligent, that u could tellus that the sky is falling & we would still love & appreciate u & those of us with minimal ED would immediately begin to get rock hard.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b
You provide such great, real life data and information about anything relating to below-the-belt physiological and/or psychological matters. Being a 50+ male with a host of comorbitities, I sincerely appreciate your videos and its informative content.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.
It should not be last video, you must educate as long as possible. Stay with us, post many videos on health and sexual life. Your videos are so useful. Love you❤
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.
Self esteem is huge...loss of a job, loss of or drop in income for a man is difficult...that is a major source of depression in men and very common..one I have treated OFTEN..Sybil Francis PhD CLINICAL psychologist /professor
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b
Another very good (and clearly much needed) video, thank you.
Thanks to *Super Long Night 72* I've regained control over my intimate life. No more ED! 💥🎉
Any pro tips bro
I believe I’m the only female subscribed to this channel.....not that there’s anything wrong with that!!! Dr. Malik, very informative video! 👍💖😎
There's plenty of women who subscribe to the good doctors video's
She covers women's urological issues also.
Charlene, you are not the only female to subscribe. It is refreshing to know that more women are subscribing to her channel. In truth, Dr. Malik has a way of explaining things without making one feel embarrassed or shameful, no matter if it's men or women. So, I salute you to subscribing to an informative channel. May you learn a lot and dispel any myths you come across.
Lol a female that knows more about a guy’s penis then most guys know lol 😂 by watching Dr. Malik
GOOD MORNING CHERIENE .HAVE A NICE DAY MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY I'M FROM SRI LANKA
Thank you doc. You're amazing. I can relate to this. I wish I could email you with questions I have on the subject or if there's maybe a link you can recommend. This is the best video you've done. 🌹
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.
I'm hooked on your talks, very very helpful...thank you
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b
Amazing video. Thank you Dr. !!! This is exactly what I needed. Sooo informative!!
The last time my wife and I tried to do the deed… I couldn’t maintain an erection.
I have been too apprehensive to try again …. That was 4 yrs ago.
From this video I now know that there are a number of factors attributing to this.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.
Thanks soo much Rena
YOUU COVERED ALOT !
If your NOT going limp during masturbation and only struggling during sex then you need to step your cardio UP, get on the treadmill for 30 minutes a day because your going limp due to oxygen and blood. Push yourself for 30 minutes minimum a day and enjoy your life properly, I also recommend less meat portions and heavier vegetables. Max blood flow and STAMINA is key, stop buying BS and get healthier dudes
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a
I like your video presentation. It is informative too, at the same time. Thanks a lot for your guidance!
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a
Excellent video as always. Thank you!
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a
I like how you move things along with your words I don't know another way to describe it but then again I do thanks for your video's and advice
I wish I could have a doctor like this person.
So, true! Hey, there are some really smart ones near me! That's New England, tho, don't know where you are...
@@testrabbit thanks for that but I’m in Alabama. Pretty limited here.
@@dmitriuswatley6728 most of the doctors will have some sort of professional online profile and you could have a meeting with them before deciding if you are going to be able to establish a trusting relationship with them. There should be sites that show physicians in your area taking new patients and what their professional profiles are like.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a
ED, is often a mind-body conflict, complex,profound, often hard to resolve, particularly after age of 40.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.
Thank you doc Rena for all your advice on your videos enjoy your day you've earned it. ps you have a pretty smile I hope your appreciated for it
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b
I watch your videos, and the contents are really good and helpful.
Thanks a lot! 😘😘😘
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a
Thank you for the work you're doing.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a
Wonderful Presentation 💖
Erectile dysfunction causes my depression.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b
Just think of trump and u will get hard
That's great to learn many more things from your sharing and I thank you so much from heart to wish you the great success and great enjoyable life ahead 😊👍🙏💗💗
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b
Thank you. Learned a few things!
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a
smart doctor. it's a good assumption because generally if a person rises high enough mentally your body will only follow regardless of your physical problems unless your body is damaged beyond repair due to serious injury.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a
Very informative one of a kind doctor you giving to others on all situations godbless
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b
The problem is, it's not in anywhere! Joking apart, thank you for another informative video/download. x
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b
Thank you so much. I've wondered about this for sometime as it has gotten so much worse. Combat PTSD and post Prostate cancer. The cancer treatment doesn't seem to have physically affected, but the severe anxiety especially in these times is greatly affecting my mental health. Unfortunately, the VA is only a band aid option and I've got years for Medicare to kick in. 😑
Your Videos are very helpful, great job
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b
Thanks for all your work.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b
Good job Dr love all your videos. Thanks.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a
You are so very true, I thought it was just me, but I have experienced the partner and performance issues. So I need to find a new woman. I have always thought that I could change her, but she has ruined me. Thanks for confirming that it's not me.
Thanks for your video sugar levels and cholesterol have a lot to do with Erctions the problem I see is food is 2x the size of years past causing fat and tirednesses the first challenge is health then mental you are helping millions mentally and different life challenges but to me the biggest challenge is Work Stress it can bring you way down and then some.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b
Thank y for your wisdom and work!!!
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b
Terrific share. Thx very much!
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c
Thank you for making easy to understand videos. I'm not going into detail for private reasons but I can turn on one of these videos and leave the room and someone will finally get some answers to questions they aren't willing to ask a doctor. And it helps that you are attractive, (it keeps him interested in the videos). Thank you again.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a
Renik is Frank and her videos are helpful and good to know.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c
such an important video. This will change someone's life !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b
Very good information
Its hepl alot
Gorgeous personality
Beautyfull voice
Dr. Malik
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c
You think you can do a video explaining how certain anti depressants such as prozac affects one's ability to ejaculate in a reasonable amount of time? Love you your videos. They're very informative.
Yes! A number of years ago I was on either Wellbutrin or Paxil and I would get a terrific hardon and could have sex for hours without having an orgasm. It was the best sex ever. And my wife would have so many orgasms just from riding me. I was a porn star.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.
Thank you doctor for all the 411 you give us your followers. Congrats on Doctors
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b
Happy Doctors day Dr Rena 👍
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. JAnd we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c
I think the operative problem is it *isn’t* in my head lol
But yeah really important information as usual Doc!
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a
Really smart woman she knows everything
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. JAnd we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c
Could you list the peer reviewed research on changes in the brain that cause psychogenic erectile dysfunction? I would really love to read the peer reviews research on that. Thanks!
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.
Thank You Doctor ! 👍
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b
This is true, I have been so anxious and nervous a time before that I was able to form an erection. Thank you for your knowledge
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.
Useful information 🙏😊
Love from DeKalb Mississippi USA 🇺🇸
thank you get me in the ballpark I can remember the plays!
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c
You always give interesting and important content. Thank you!
My social life is so bad that ED doesn't really matter.
You're not alone. 50% of men get only the bottom 5% of females to compete for. See Wheat Waffles channel which explains everything fast. Or, see Colttaine (gender attraction differential) and many other very thoughtfully presented facts. Peace.
@@bobbruce4135 I've heard something of that kind from Better Bachelor.
Society is failing. I think both men and women need to improve themselves to be more attractive to the opposite sex. All of us need to work to be better. We also need to work to stop being stupid about these things. Men are always going to be drawn to physical beauty. Women are always going to be drawn to self-confidence. We shouldn't be shaming either sex for these natural desires. We should work to make ourselves more appealing to the opposite sex with an understanding of these desires.
On the other hand, we need to act wisely regarding how we spend what we have. No one should do things that will ultimately devalue himself or herself in pursuit of someone who just isn't going to be a worthwhile match. A guy who is a 6 should not turn himself into a 4 by spending all of his money and energy on a 9 who is never going to have feelings for him. A woman who is a 6 should not turn herself into a 4 spreading her legs for a guy who is a 9 and will never give her more than casual sex.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a
@@Toppgg-ci9er Thanks, but my health has failed. None of that is possible for me. I feel good just taking a short walk every day.
It's not allot but when he doesn't want to work at 100% it's definitely all in my head. Mostly just worrying that he isn't going to work.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c
I have been diagnosed with severe depression. I haven’t been in a relationship in nearly a decade. I don’t know what is most important. But I do live with MS.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b
Great advice here, you covered some of the thoughts I had!
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.
I enjoy listening to you Dr so interesting
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. JAnd we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c
This is so true
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. JAnd we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and we can love others physically.
A dear friend of mine was seriously concerned about his inability to become erect within the relationship and questioned what medicinal sources might be effective in helping. In short order, discussing that relationship and its emotional troubles and clearly understanding becoming erect wasn't a problem but for when he was with "her", he finally realized after admitting it was the psychological issues in the relationship and not the physiology, the ED quickly remediated.
so did they break up?
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.
Thank You for this video
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. JAnd we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and we can love others physically.
I first went to see a doctor when I was 28. That’s just about when I started having numbing toes from bad blood circulation and I was in better health and I’m better shape back then. Now not so much. I’m ok but I do need to lose weight and take care of my body better. But doctors back then kept asking if it was in my mind and that was the first time I’ve ever heard that and I thought that was crazy, but no. Now I don’t even get any more morning woods. And I’m 34 now. Things will change this year
Sensate focus exercises, or physical touch with no expectation of sexual activity to follow.
That’s a complicated description of a common issue. We call it “marriage.” And the diminishing frequency often seen in long term relationships has certain effects on the higher-drive individual, particularly men, that are most disturbing.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a
Thanks for the video
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. JAnd we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and we can love others physically.a
Please do a video on the PSSD. I have been suffering devastating long-term side effects from taking an SSRI in the late 1990s and no doctor has been able to give me any answers or remedies...
This is me all over. Been like it 10 years now
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a
Same bro it’s so wounding! I’ve been with my partner ten years, have a 4 year old together and it kills me knowing I can’t please her properly when i really want to! N I know it’s all in my head!
6:36 psychology drives biology. biology drives psychology. Understanding what's going on between these is so important to look at the core issue not just the symptomatology...
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b
This is very informative 🤔
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c
Definitely have it with my position/condition.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. JAnd we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c
Please do a video on PT-141 I would like a doctor's view.
Thank you very much.
after a traumatic brain injury ADHD became a huge problem in bed Especially if I’m with a partner that doesn’t communicate or do anything to keep my interest. Sometimes It’s like come on man am I with a woman rn or a pillow 🙄
Then the anxiety about performance happened, and now I’m here. 22 healthy, hormonal and the advertisements on all these pills and tools market to middle aged, and old gray to graying men. It feels really bad. Worst of all is I’m between partners rn, so it’s all just not been going my way for awhile now 😔. I just keep idk. Well I’m off to a good morning cheers boys 😞
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b
If you simply think about it, it will happen. I'm going through that from time to time.
Ha! This is what I mean by "I am a thesis waiting to happen".
My wife and I met when we were 17. I am or was 2 months older than her ( She passed in 09).
As time is, there were opportunities for "An extra Slice" as it were but very few, mebbe 3 or 4 that went further than looky looky stuff. I was even at the brink.. but this big cotton ball formed just below my rib cage in my belly and it "Deflated Things" long story short. I have not been able to overcome this to this day. 12 years widowed and a girlfriend and I still have real issues with the "Cotton Ball".
Hi 👋🏻 there absolutely beautiful & Intellectual Dr. Rena M. I myself, Personally LUV Having ‘normal’ ERECTIONS but unfortunately
I Do suffer from E.D. Frustration and disappointment take OVER!!
My E.D. is mainly caused from
Bad side effects of a Prescription medication -
(BACLOFEN) - a Muscle Relaxant I have to take for
My chronic Neuromuscular
Condition I was diagnosed with 12 Years Ago! Thanks 🙏
Babe! Luvvin YOU & Your TOP
VIDEOS!! Cheers 🥂 Dr. Malik
Luv from Craigy L. 😘❣️🚀🇦🇺👍
i love your channel
When I was 18-23, I was having sex 2-3 times per day. Even at 30-33 years old, I wanted it (and got it) twice per day. Now, I'm 39 and I'm finding it difficult to keep my mind on what I'm doing. (This includes intercourse) Roughly two months ago, I started using 2 to 4 Mg. of Sildenafil before intercourse and I've had no problem since. The weird part is that twice, I only took a very small piece, probably equal to half of a Mg. and I felt the same confidence as if I had taken 4 Mg. I had no problem at all that night. I've always been sometimes overly-anxious before having sex and now I'm certain that my issue stems from anxiety, usually brought on by racing and invasive thoughts. Images that I don't want to see, and have to exude extreme mental effort in order to clear my mind and relax. I'm going to try Cialis this month and see if it works better for me. Another crazy thing is that Viagra makes me more confident even when interacting with women in non-sexual situations, this includes women that I don't even know if I have a chance with, or not. It's exactly the same confidence I feel while making love to my woman. A confidence that I used to have, but had lost before I started Viagra about 2 months ago. I also take a testosterone supplement. Test X-180 Boost is what I use. If I'm working, I use the Test X-180 Ignite. This vid caught my attention because I've always known that I had performance anxiety. It usually takes a week or two before I even start to feel comfortable with being naked around a chick that hasn't seen me naked before. Great vid!
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a
ED was a weird side effect of choosing to live an alcohol-free lifestyle for me. With no alcohol, I wouldn't be as relaxed going into sex, which led to the odd poor performance.
This led to performance anxiety and a snowballing effect as shown in the simple (but very accurate) diagram in this video.
We had a poor sexual experience last night, and as the guy, I'm already worried about the next try. It's a vicious circle... It upsets my wife, that makes me more worried, it gets worse.
Happened to me also. It's a nightmare!
Happened to me aswell bro
Hop on cialis bro 10Mg you can get a script
Thanks for the video Dr. that was very interesting and informative I have a Doctors appt. coming up and plan on talking to her about it even though my Doctor is a woman I think I can talk to her about it, Thanks.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c
She should do a video on gooning
The movement makes sense. Some of y’all are just dismissing it because of the way it looks. You would rather do something that looks cool, but is completely useless or illogical. The movement here looks weird as fuck but, it makes sense to have your rifle retracted, close to your body and oriented straight ahead while you move through small/tight spaces. Maybe I’m wrong though. I’m very familiar with room clearing techniques and manipulating whatever platform i’m using but, i’m certainly no pro and i don’t train nearly enough to offer a conclusive opinion, really.
Yes, it is all in the head.
And the shaft.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c
I've heard about certain possible life events such as miscarriages, toxic relationships or physical diseases such as multiple sclerosis or other neurological and endocrine problems as well as lymphadenopathy causing ED. I also recently read an article showing that medications like Suboxone causing this. What does someone do if they're suffering from an autoimmune condition (exempli gratia, MS & lymphatic damage) do to resolve the problem hypothetically?
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.
@@ryu7964 so it's ectogenesis, fertility clinics & genetic engineering that are destined to cure the declining birth rate problem afterall... I my detractors regarding this will be eating their words in the end.
@@testrabbit the intention of loving physically has liberated me. I share this Text of mine to many people. Hoping it may help others as it has helped me. I wish you all the best.
@@ryu7964 back at you
Might want to look into the static sounds/white noise in the video. Very high pitched
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. JAnd we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and we can love others physically.a
Hey, Rena! Love your videos, but please equalize the audio between the main video and the intro!
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c
And I'm very happy with that too seeing it would be embarrassing not to during many public events ....like church
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. JAnd we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and we can love others physically.
Thank you dr
Welcome 😊
@@RenaMalikMD Hi Doc would xanax help?
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. JAnd we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and we can love others physically.a
All of the above
Trimix cured whatever performance anxiety I had.
What is that, some type of medicine?
@@g_mason8867 yes for penile injections.
Were you able to give up Trimix after using it a few times?
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c
I definitely notice that life stress can cause psychogenic ED for me. I'm 31 and experiencing basically zero libido and ED issues right now cause of life stresses. I don't have a partner of any kind but that's not the point, I'd still like to enjoy having them anyway and not having them be reliable can be a negative feedback loop that can give you anxiety about dating again.
Fellas? Am I alone in this?
Are you getting morning wood or not?
@@justflow1401 Haha yeah I do and it will be fully functioning in the middle of the night if I happen to wake up, so I definitely think this is all mental.
@@s0urp0wer5 same with me i get morning wood but as soon as I notice it it goes away.
Yes its all in my head and shaft. Big Dave just won't stand to attention anymore.
It's depressing but, not as depressing as having chronic kidney failure and have catheters and stents and scopes and Lazer wires to break up several kidney stones.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a
Definitely, guilt or fear of failure
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c
I'm Sorry
For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which kept shifting as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tormented myself for many years. Until I realized that the one I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Torturing creates suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "Yes" are the words that allow me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back on the hamster wheel, to apologize for certain things or to torment myself. But I say, "I apologize to myself anyway." And I apologize to others if it's my free choice. And I use these two methods for that. By apologizing either to the people personally or to the person within, if I don't want to do it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.
Awesome video. There might be some problem with your mic, there is a whistle very low happening in this video.
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c
Thanks for the advice I just hope everyone realizes I'm more old fashioned.
That one night stand stuff is not my cup of tea
Making Love
The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c