Too little friction=no warmth. Too much friction=Fire. There’s gotta be balance. Relationships grow stronger through conflict resolution like trees grow to become stronger through weathering storms.
you always hurt those closest to you - expect nothing in return, youll have true friendship and youll WANT to help them if they ask for it. - friendships aren’t crutches they’re supports
Lasting relationships in my life are based on: optimism, moral values, reciprocal honest and confrontational communication, confidence, willingness to be wrong, and some degree of success standards. If you’re a generally decent person directing their conduct towards good, who isn’t afraid to say what they think whether it hurts my feelings or not-while at the same time being able to have their opinions challenged without taking it personally, that’s what I think a successful relationship is built on. Whether it’s platonic or not. And some degree of ambition. I don’t care how much money you make. I’d you’re broke but trying to better yourself, I rank you higher than the millionaire consultant who is miserable to be around and thinks his life is horrible.
Awe PBD, I'm old enough to be your dad but I allowed you to teach me from a blind side of me in which I hadn't previously recognized. Now I will exercise that knowledge muscle you introduced me to and enjoy it's future benefits. Thank you and God bless you.
I always fought with my best friends first, before becoming friends as a child. I recommend joining jiu-jitsu as an adult with your spouse and kids! Roll forever and build that bond .
When I first met the woman who would eventually become my best friend, we did not like one another. It took us going through some conflict to realize how much we appreciated and respected each other. That was 20 years ago. She is still my ride or die.
What he is saying hard times distinguish good friends from fake friends, that is why i love bad times because it shows me the people in them true color
Damn Pat! PERFECT timing. Had an encounter with my teen daughter (these relationships are hard) the other day, I didn’t handle it the best way. But I’ll take this and make sure she knows I’m trying to build her up to be a strong, resourceful, and compassionate leader
Alot of people could learn alot from just letting people talk and understanding that you do not have to agree or support what is said. Just let the person speak their peace. Who knows, it may be a brilliant idea or trigger a brilliant idea.
Your a true inspiration sir. I grew up in a housing project and made my way out. I work a 9 to 5 but I'm working toward a fulfilling career and your a serious mentor to me I just wanted to let you know if nothing else your helping me. P.s. are you hiring?
No long term relationships don’t always form in these ways I’m sorry but I have no long terms yet everyone always tells me how reliable, sweet, caring, dependable etc I am but nobody stays Pat. Not a single one I’ve been alone the entire 20 years I’m not angry I’m not upset and I haven’t given up on trying my best to make those relationships. My family is standoffish always have been and any friends I make always use me as a last resort and a backup I don’t care I just don’t associate anymore unless I choose too. Because nobody’s picking me even when I’ve been by their side through thick and thin and even when I still am with them after it all. And that’s okay.
Dude I feel you on every sentence here. Always have been the reliable one. Even to the point that i remember everyone’s birthday & not just rely on Facebook reminders but every year no one even remembers my birthday & thats family included. Not sure how this plays out.
You're watering the wrong relationships. I regularly evaluate who puts in the effort and who doesn't. If there's no effort from their side, I am out. If they're willing to reciprocate, I am in. Its all about the boundaries you set and respect you have for yourself.
Clearly something isn't working here. You say you aren't mad, you are, of course you are. But you are doing something wrong. You might be either too tolerant, or not tolerant enough. I can't tell you, because I dont know you, of course.
Currently I have a very bad relationship with my parents, they are constantly insulting me very badly, since a few days I'm very focused on building my business and that didn't make money yet, but I hope it will soon. But my parents think that I'm wasting my time and can never do this,its better to focus on studying and going to college .
The secret is you both must be in love and then work through problems instead of getting divorced, because starting over will amount to the same thing over again
Dudes who are loaded bring a natural leverage to the table working class dudes only had before feminism. It's like a bird teaching 'how to fly' classes to fish. 99% of dudes will never be loaded. Fellas, just play the field. Don't settle down. It's the only way to keep down the amount of ways she can destroy you when she gets bored.
Pbd is always talking about last phase if his life is for giving back but, him sharing his knowledge as a well moraled and strong charactered male is invaluable for alot of people
This content is a beacon of enlightenment. Reading a book with akin themes was a life-changing experience. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
Combat does the same thing.people bond in similar situations under pressure/stress. You find out about people's character. Patrick keep up the good work.peace Mon Ami
Don't get married. My friends who have lasted the longest are the ones who have not got married. Or don't get married early anyway. 11 of my friends who never got married are still married over 30 years on. The 14 that got married split up after 10 -17 years. 20 years in and happily not married. But each to their own.
**Rock solid relationships are "forged through Fire of Friction adversity" "Iron sharpens iron" "Struggle & Survival Bonds" "Overcoming Adversity together Forges bonding life long Trust" "We ride together...We fight together...We live & die together"
PBD we will meet soon I have a good business in the build. This comment will become a reality! I have been watching your videos daily while working on building my project. I really appreciate your videos, you are my mentor today.
In Indian culture, we don't worry about worry particularly Marriage relationship. In our culture it is built-in to last life time. Once we married (mostly by arranged marriage or parents participated) we don't have to worry much about breaking! Our marriage are very strong it won't break for any silly reason/s. Particularly when couple have children, that cement strong marriage and responsibility for the couple! Western world does not believe reincarnation and based on materials - we believe marriage are fixed in heaven and continue for 7 life! So Indian DNA is inculcated this way and this thinking. But because of western influence and their materialism spoil Indians now! It does not matter how poor her husband or physically handicaps, they never leave their husbands and try taking part in his difficulties and feel proud for doing that.
This is genuinely good advice. I share his sentiment and analysis fully. It’s true at work, it’s true in marriage, it’s true among friends - it applies broadly. I encourage you to think inside this paradigm and go into life intentionally seeking to overcome friction, as a happy warrior, in the relationships you value. The people who you value and value you want to reduce friction too, whether they know it consciously or not. By entering into difficult conversions with this type of positive frame of mind, that friction is something to be overcome and strengthens, you will be a better listener and choose your words more thoughtfully, and give yourself greater peace and grace in the process. I’m an old man and I approve of this message.
Individuals are still buying and holding crypto coin? I didn’t know that , I guess a few know about integrating into the micro economy to help substitute FIAT or usdt for a more tangible exchange Experience, it more like capitalization with about 43.307% profits/ ROI weekly though.. ps.. Valerie Anne got me covered thanks
Because lifelong friendships are more common than lifelong romantic relationships. Girlfriends come and go, don’t be the guy that forgets his brothers every time he gets a new girlfriend.
@@michaelburrell4685 so it’s true then. That’s pretty sad because your partner is supposed to be your best and most valued friend. So there we go we solved why so many relationships don’t work out because a woman is trying to be best friends with her husband and values him above all while he seems to value everyone else above her, mum, friends etc. maybe if you sobs were more loyal and less gay so many children wouldn’t have to grow up in broken homes.
Sounds like Pat is going through a divorce from his wife. A wife who's daddy owns many oil wells. Basically Pat married into money. And this was ultimately Pat's capital investment into the insurance company.
Think about if you could have your own fate which is possible with Amazons AMM77X. What do you think happens after inflation? I am sure they will keep living cost high and even if the whole war finally gets to an end that still doesn't fix anything for us. Truth is we are getting ripped of every day and there's not much to do about it except for using the projects which actually HELP
What a statement, damn. So it's said that Amazons AMM77X is just about to launch and I think that will really change a lot of what was happening in the previous years, 2023 will shine yay
I love the content but that channel name gets me every time I read it lolol How could someone so smart think Valuetainment was a good choice ? This Podcast coulda been named anything and it woulda been successful
Too little friction=no warmth.
Too much friction=Fire.
There’s gotta be balance.
Relationships grow stronger through conflict resolution like trees grow to become stronger through weathering storms.
you always hurt those closest to you - expect nothing in return, youll have true friendship and youll WANT to help them if they ask for it. - friendships aren’t crutches they’re supports
Lasting relationships in my life are based on: optimism, moral values, reciprocal honest and confrontational communication, confidence, willingness to be wrong, and some degree of success standards.
If you’re a generally decent person directing their conduct towards good, who isn’t afraid to say what they think whether it hurts my feelings or not-while at the same time being able to have their opinions challenged without taking it personally, that’s what I think a successful relationship is built on. Whether it’s platonic or not. And some degree of ambition. I don’t care how much money you make. I’d you’re broke but trying to better yourself, I rank you higher than the millionaire consultant who is miserable to be around and thinks his life is horrible.
Treat your relationship like a business. Clear limits will unlock higher goals. Respect is earned doing this and will last forever.
Awe PBD, I'm old enough to be your dad but I allowed you to teach me from a blind side of me in which I hadn't previously recognized. Now I will exercise that knowledge muscle you introduced me to and enjoy it's future benefits. Thank you and God bless you.
I always fought with my best friends first, before becoming friends as a child. I recommend joining jiu-jitsu as an adult with your spouse and kids! Roll forever and build that bond .
When I first met the woman who would eventually become my best friend, we did not like one another. It took us going through some conflict to realize how much we appreciated and respected each other. That was 20 years ago. She is still my ride or die.
What he is saying hard times distinguish good friends from fake friends, that is why i love bad times because it shows me the people in them true color
Life uses trials, difficulties, and failures as a filtering process
Damn Pat! PERFECT timing. Had an encounter with my teen daughter (these relationships are hard) the other day, I didn’t handle it the best way. But I’ll take this and make sure she knows I’m trying to build her up to be a strong, resourceful, and compassionate leader
My girls are all teenagers now...I understand and goodluck!
women are worse leaders, stop trying to make her a man
I could have sworn the video started at 2x speed. But I checked my settings and it was at Normal.
Alot of people could learn alot from just letting people talk and understanding that you do not have to agree or support what is said. Just let the person speak their peace. Who knows, it may be a brilliant idea or trigger a brilliant idea.
The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do.
The secret to lasting relationships is purpose.
you deserve all thumbs up
Committed relationships are bringing people to the Highest Hight’s & create stability in Peoples Lives & their Children!
Thanks Patrick you the best.
Thank you .very wise words .
We have a media platform, and the creatives fight all the time. We learned who really wanted to be successful.
Thank you Patrick 🙏
Your a true inspiration sir. I grew up in a housing project and made my way out. I work a 9 to 5 but I'm working toward a fulfilling career and your a serious mentor to me I just wanted to let you know if nothing else your helping me. P.s. are you hiring?
No long term relationships don’t always form in these ways I’m sorry but I have no long terms yet everyone always tells me how reliable, sweet, caring, dependable etc I am but nobody stays Pat. Not a single one I’ve been alone the entire 20 years I’m not angry I’m not upset and I haven’t given up on trying my best to make those relationships. My family is standoffish always have been and any friends I make always use me as a last resort and a backup I don’t care I just don’t associate anymore unless I choose too. Because nobody’s picking me even when I’ve been by their side through thick and thin and even when I still am with them after it all. And that’s okay.
Dude I feel you on every sentence here. Always have been the reliable one. Even to the point that i remember everyone’s birthday & not just rely on Facebook reminders but every year no one even remembers my birthday & thats family included. Not sure how this plays out.
You're watering the wrong relationships. I regularly evaluate who puts in the effort and who doesn't. If there's no effort from their side, I am out. If they're willing to reciprocate, I am in.
Its all about the boundaries you set and respect you have for yourself.
Clearly something isn't working here.
You say you aren't mad, you are, of course you are. But you are doing something wrong. You might be either too tolerant, or not tolerant enough. I can't tell you, because I dont know you, of course.
thank you !!
I need this right now , thank u thank u thank u so so much for this .
Great advice thank you
From experience l see that the effort to want to get past any friction has to be from both sides and to the max level of willingness.
Fruitful video just like the one you made on conflict resolution.
I personally prefer your videos without background music, your content your choice.
Currently I have a very bad relationship with my parents, they are constantly insulting me very badly, since a few days I'm very focused on building my business and that didn't make money yet, but I hope it will soon. But my parents think that I'm wasting my time and can never do this,its better to focus on studying and going to college .
I wish you success in your new business. Keep trying for it.
I'm loving this channel so much. It is not giving into the woke narratives.
Love this information. Always providing great value P. Respects.
Thank you for this message, thanks to you I just handled friction with a colleague in a really positive way!
I’m in that spot right now
Good morning...Let Love and Light continue to flow from Jesus freely through us all today, filling us with Joy, and overflowing into others lives.
By friction do you mean conflict? Is there a reason you are not using the word conflict?
Very nice advice.. Please reduce the background music sound
Valuetainment, you’re Spot On with this one, this how you separate the strong from the weak and chaff!!!✝️✝️✝️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🧐🧐🧐🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
Create those long lasting relationships!
Dauphin River First Nation Manitoba Canada 🇨🇦
I believe in this, Rich in relationships is my goal.
Very essential advice, man!!! Well done!
It would be a great interview if you had Douglas Murray on the podcast
What's the book called he's always recommending? Like 100 questions to ask before you get married or something like that
EXCELLENT.
What if you don’t have any relationships?
Excellent video!
beautiful video
To have a successful relationship is simple. Don’t be a narcissist or a sociopath!
Is you want to understand relationship you should truly understand the core etymology of those set of letters in that word.
Love your channel
what is friction ?
taking no advice from anyone
but your partner
know when he or she lies
let them lie until
come light
Turn... volume. ... up... when.. making.. video...
That’s something I’ve learned from being in the military.
This advice should be given much more. I personally practice it and I can say, without a doubt that the few relationships that I have, are meaningful.
Great video
I like this advice 😊
The secret is you both must be in love and then work through problems instead of getting divorced, because starting over will amount to the same thing over again
I want old black board pbd
Unfortunately now days many relationships are just based on money, salary, status, class.😮
Lake St. Martin First Nation Manitoba Canada 🇨🇦
Believe in your partner!!!
McQueen?
Did you use these tips with Jason Whitlock?
Dudes who are loaded bring a natural leverage to the table working class dudes only had before feminism.
It's like a bird teaching 'how to fly' classes to fish.
99% of dudes will never be loaded.
Fellas, just play the field. Don't settle down.
It's the only way to keep down the amount of ways she can destroy you when she gets bored.
Pbd is always talking about last phase if his life is for giving back but, him sharing his knowledge as a well moraled and strong charactered male is invaluable for alot of people
This content is a beacon of enlightenment. Reading a book with akin themes was a life-changing experience. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
The secret is finding the right person. Someone with high morals.
You will be dead by then 😂
A filtering process ..
Love it ..its good to know that.
There isn't much people in me top 5 ...I got a lot out of this
I got value from this video. Thanks.
Combat does the same thing.people bond in similar situations under pressure/stress.
You find out about people's character.
Patrick keep up the good work.peace Mon Ami
Is your McQueen t-shirt promoting the feminization of men?
Who's Mario?
Don't get married. My friends who have lasted the longest are the ones who have not got married. Or don't get married early anyway. 11 of my friends who never got married are still married over 30 years on. The 14 that got married split up after 10 -17 years. 20 years in and happily not married. But each to their own.
CAN YOU PLEASE TALK ABOUT PALESTINE OHIO, WE NEED YOUR HELP
look at China and America what a great partnership, what happened 20 years ago?What made them become best friends now
**Rock solid relationships are
"forged through Fire of Friction adversity" "Iron sharpens iron"
"Struggle & Survival Bonds"
"Overcoming Adversity together Forges bonding life long Trust"
"We ride together...We fight together...We live & die together"
wow
💯
Boraturı la balıstıce
Omul e creat dupa asemanarea luı Dumnezeu
The music is very annoying. This video would’ve been much more impactful without it.
MEGA
Have crazy money that she somehow can't get to. That is the only way, that's the no bullshit truth.
MUHC KWEEN!!
Thanks, Pat!
Going along with the program is not good for the organization. Honest conversations will grow your organization.
Now I see how people call this guy "the adult version of Andrew tate"
So very True, I cherish my close friends ❣️
PBD we will meet soon I have a good business in the build. This comment will become a reality! I have been watching your videos daily while working on building my project. I really appreciate your videos, you are my mentor today.
I really like the new 60 frame camera we are improving😂
In Indian culture, we don't worry about worry particularly Marriage relationship. In our culture it is built-in to last life time. Once we married (mostly by arranged marriage or parents participated) we don't have to worry much about breaking! Our marriage are very strong it won't break for any silly reason/s. Particularly when couple have children, that cement strong marriage and responsibility for the couple! Western world does not believe reincarnation and based on materials - we believe marriage are fixed in heaven and continue for 7 life! So Indian DNA is inculcated this way and this thinking. But because of western influence and their materialism spoil Indians now! It does not matter how poor her husband or physically handicaps, they never leave their husbands and try taking part in his difficulties and feel proud for doing that.
This is genuinely good advice. I share his sentiment and analysis fully. It’s true at work, it’s true in marriage, it’s true among friends - it applies broadly.
I encourage you to think inside this paradigm and go into life intentionally seeking to overcome friction, as a happy warrior, in the relationships you value. The people who you value and value you want to reduce friction too, whether they know it consciously or not. By entering into difficult conversions with this type of positive frame of mind, that friction is something to be overcome and strengthens, you will be a better listener and choose your words more thoughtfully, and give yourself greater peace and grace in the process. I’m an old man and I approve of this message.
That McQueen t shirt is just as cringe as the podcast theme song lmao
Not as cringe as that profile pic 😂
Don't get into one, you can last forever that way
Individuals are still buying and holding crypto coin? I didn’t know that , I guess a few know about integrating into the micro economy to help substitute FIAT or usdt for a more tangible exchange Experience, it more like capitalization with about 43.307% profits/ ROI weekly though.. ps.. Valerie Anne got me covered thanks
Her good reputation already speaks for her last month i invested over $100,000 with her and I've already made over $250,000 profit.
She's awesome, perfect and a genius. I've made up T0 $162,050 trading.
I have also been trading with her, The profits are secured and over a 100% return on investment directly sent to your wallet
Same here, I earn $13,000 a week. GOD bless Valerie Anne Yarvin, she has been a blessing to my family.
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Sometimes it feels like men value their male relationships more than their romantic relationships, they seem to put more effort in.
Because lifelong friendships are more common than lifelong romantic relationships. Girlfriends come and go, don’t be the guy that forgets his brothers every time he gets a new girlfriend.
@@michaelburrell4685 ugh hate those.. I see it all the time
@@michaelburrell4685 so it’s true then. That’s pretty sad because your partner is supposed to be your best and most valued friend. So there we go we solved why so many relationships don’t work out because a woman is trying to be best friends with her husband and values him above all while he seems to value everyone else above her, mum, friends etc. maybe if you sobs were more loyal and less gay so many children wouldn’t have to grow up in broken homes.
Save you 6 minutes! just communicate your issues with business partners/partners/teammate/etc!!.. BAM , you're welcome 😆
Sounds like Pat is going through a divorce from his wife. A wife who's daddy owns many oil wells. Basically Pat married into money. And this was ultimately Pat's capital investment into the insurance company.
Pat is an entrepreneur, he has his own wealth.
@@MakeMeLo no. Pats wife ran to her daddy for a start up investment. (Skeleton in his closet)
Great message. Stupid shirt.
Think about if you could have your own fate which is possible with Amazons AMM77X. What do you think happens after inflation? I am sure they will keep living cost high and even if the whole war finally gets to an end that still doesn't fix anything for us. Truth is we are getting ripped of every day and there's not much to do about it except for using the projects which actually HELP
Flush your head in the toilet a few times. Scammers are pathetic
Scam scam scam
What a statement, damn. So it's said that Amazons AMM77X is just about to launch and I think that will really change a lot of what was happening in the previous years, 2023 will shine yay
I love the content but that channel name gets me every time I read it lolol How could someone so smart think Valuetainment was a good choice ?
This Podcast coulda been named anything and it woulda been successful