We’re Warm, Weighted Blankets For Each Other | {THE AND} Andy & Sharleen

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    Married couple Andy (he/him) and Sharleen (she/her) enter {THE AND} space and immediately jump into talking about how they met at an event, where they were both there out of a result of some out-of-character actions. The two then talk about their hopes for the future, as well as how they connect with each other when they're feeling a little distant, including talking about Andy's fears, and how he gets out of the 'doghouse' with Sharleen.
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    EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR | Topaz Adizes
    DIRECTOR | Nick D'Agostino
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    AUDIO | Ernesto Pantin
    PRODUCER | Nick D'Agostino, Sydney Laws
    ASSOCIATE PRODUCERS | Alison Goerke
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    WITH THE PARTICIPATION OF | Andy & Sharleen
    We’re Warm, Weighted Blankets For Each Other | {THE AND} Andy & Sharleen
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 248

  • @LizEsguerra
    @LizEsguerra 3 роки тому +378

    When Sharleen said: “I would tell you that you’re enough.” That got me 😭🥲. So beautiful!

    • @DaMixta
      @DaMixta 2 роки тому +4

      This literally broke me. That’s all I ever wish for someone to say to me and I didn’t even know it until hearing her say it.

    • @Callmelucky
      @Callmelucky 2 роки тому

      Ngl this got me too felt like she was speaking to me

  • @Black_Rose1234
    @Black_Rose1234 3 роки тому +386

    When Sharleen said she doubts her decisions in life but choosing Andy is the one decision in her life she is absolutely sure of. Wow! ❤️

  • @ashleya6320
    @ashleya6320 3 роки тому +319

    I’ve watched this conversation twice and cried each time. When Sharlene said, “I want to do everything with you”, followed shortly by “there’s just not enough time”, my eyes welled with tears. This love is timelessly beautiful!

    • @claudiafegari5116
      @claudiafegari5116 Рік тому

      And they are so young... Can you imagine the people that happen to find love later in life? 🥲

  • @Iwish387
    @Iwish387 3 роки тому +164

    This is what LOVE should be like.
    What does my love feels like “It feels like super power.”
    They’re just in love and I love them. What a beautiful couple? May God bless their union until eternity.
    Wow.. My bf told me “He feels at home with me.”
    I couldn’t have asked for more.

  • @texasseastar
    @texasseastar 3 роки тому +54

    The fact that Andy is wearing a real shirt with buttons instead of his rumpled white v-neck tee has me shook.
    Love Sharleen and Andy aka Shandy!

  • @Woodlyne00
    @Woodlyne00 3 роки тому +35

    When she said :"There's not enough time" I was done. Made realize what I'm looking for. So beautiful!!!!!

  • @rukeyafataar5324
    @rukeyafataar5324 3 роки тому +71

    This couple has really set bar on so many levels. I genuinely hope I'm equally as luck as you two are, just to be able to have this authentic, raw and unapologetic relationship is goals. And your responses could not be more subtle and powerful in the same breath. Beautiful ❤

  • @carlosspicyweiner7734
    @carlosspicyweiner7734 2 роки тому +17

    He loves her. I know it’s obvious but man, it deserves to be said. She loves him too, but… man he loves her.

  • @SheBYaya
    @SheBYaya 3 роки тому +93

    "I love you and see you, on the deepest of levels." 💜
    Such an authentic love that they share.. 🌼

  • @LaceyLoveWalker
    @LaceyLoveWalker 3 роки тому +118

    "I want to experience everything with you...There's not enough time." I felt this so hard. 💔😭

    • @claudiafegari5116
      @claudiafegari5116 Рік тому

      And they are so young... Can you imagine the people that happen to find love later in life? 🥲

  • @whatareudoindude
    @whatareudoindude 3 роки тому +21

    When she said, "we're tough in different ways.", it's like a greatest line to define "mars vs venus"

  • @lesbethtacioni1733
    @lesbethtacioni1733 3 роки тому +311

    When she said there's not enough time to experience everything they want. My heart started to race😧

    • @Black_Rose1234
      @Black_Rose1234 3 роки тому +8

      I started to cry 😭

    • @Whimswirl
      @Whimswirl 3 роки тому +3

      Same! I wonder if one of them is sick?

    • @Black_Rose1234
      @Black_Rose1234 3 роки тому +17

      @@Whimswirl Gosh, I hope not... I didn't think of it this way... I just thought about there not being enough time to experience everything about life in general... I hope not.

    • @havenasnip5110
      @havenasnip5110 3 роки тому +3

      That was the sweetest thing 😭❤️

    • @kikib8434
      @kikib8434 3 роки тому +7

      Same here - that just got me hard in the feels. I've had great relationships in my life so far but, when I find "the guy", this is how I want to feel and their dynamic is very much what I want 😊❤.

  • @Gutsey131
    @Gutsey131 3 роки тому +88

    The answers they give truly show you just how strong their foundation is. Andy said they tell each other everything, communication is key for them and they really understand that about each other. Ugh, so good. This one got me a couple times and I am with everyone else - when Sharleen says, "you are enough", LOST IT. LOL

  • @VJolie3
    @VJolie3 3 роки тому +151

    "I can see infiinity, it's a heavy burden" Lol I feel you. Truly a beautiful couple though thank you for letting me witness a healthy relationship for 15 minutes and 44 seconds.

    • @MaximovaTatiana
      @MaximovaTatiana 5 місяців тому

      They ve podcast about healthy relationship

  • @Rachel-rs7jn
    @Rachel-rs7jn 3 роки тому +38

    My partner is the same way about hesitating to share his deepest secrets/demons/things he hates about himself. And I have the same reaction as Sharleen, that I wish he would share more because I feel closer to him when he does.
    P.S. Recently subscribed to Shandy's channel - they are awesome! Super intelligent and insightful but in a really genuine and open way. No affectation.

  • @atlien5320
    @atlien5320 3 роки тому +275

    am i the only person who remembers her from the bachelor? she was way too smart and classy for the dude her season. glad to see her here! this is a truly beautiful relationship.

    • @Varaidzo1
      @Varaidzo1 3 роки тому +29

      They also have a podcast here on youtube called "Dear Shandy" Where they recap bachelor/bachelorette and give relationship advise

    • @atlien5320
      @atlien5320 3 роки тому +3

      @@Varaidzo1 oh thanks for sharing! will check it out.

    • @Rachel-rs7jn
      @Rachel-rs7jn 3 роки тому +16

      Yep, I do! And I remember at the time thinking "this show's not good enough for her" lol.

    • @Sdority905
      @Sdority905 3 роки тому +13

      She' too smart for the whole franchise. She definitely brought the bachelor stock up

    • @gloriakajjumba
      @gloriakajjumba 3 роки тому +9

      I remembered her...opera singer and damn! Juan Pablo ieeeshhhhh I don't want to remember him. This guy is smarter

  • @irakohler5591
    @irakohler5591 2 роки тому +5

    Crying...their love is so deep. Beautiful!

  • @viktoriak3461
    @viktoriak3461 3 роки тому +25

    Such a beautiful couple inside and out. Touching!

  • @NalaBalenciaga
    @NalaBalenciaga 3 роки тому +32

    May we all experience a love like this before we die 🥺💙 damn love is fuckin beautiful this makes me wanna cry I hope I’m loved like this by someone

    • @lwazimandilivematiwane3044
      @lwazimandilivematiwane3044 3 роки тому +1

      And that you also love someone like this! I hope and pray we both experience this kind of love it really is beautiful. 🤍

  • @Iwish387
    @Iwish387 3 роки тому +50

    Here again…I feel blessed to have this channel in my life. The storm to my chaos. Love the skin deep.

  • @laurens4479
    @laurens4479 3 роки тому +59

    She’s got a beautiful smile and this warmed my heart.

  • @Phepwp
    @Phepwp 3 роки тому +30

    I hope they have a long loving happy live together

  • @bronwyn117
    @bronwyn117 Рік тому +11

    She is so beautiful and I love listening to her laugh and speak. What a beautiful couple!

  • @ayeeshahm9078
    @ayeeshahm9078 3 роки тому +46

    This is my favorite UA-cam crossover that I didn't even know I needed. I totally adore dear Shandy, and skin deep is one of my most beloved series on YT.
    Thanks for this ❤️

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  3 роки тому +3

      So glad you adore all of us! We adore you!

  • @LadyBaguette
    @LadyBaguette 3 місяці тому

    I truly think they have one of the purest and most profound relationships I’ve ever witnessed. Hearing them speak to each other is like reading age old love story made out of poems. I can only hope to one day experience such a deep connection with someone.

  • @FantaandDarwin
    @FantaandDarwin 3 роки тому +60

    These are difficult conversations to have! But you can tell they know and understand each other on a level we can’t see. They talk with their eyes 10:25 when she said “you know what I mean”

    • @Black_Rose1234
      @Black_Rose1234 3 роки тому +5

      Yup... They are on the same wavelength and understand each other.

    • @ayeeshahm9078
      @ayeeshahm9078 3 роки тому +4

      They truly do. They have the most adorable podcast on their channel - dear Shandy they do bachelor recaps but even better are their q & a's and relationship series called love fest. They're so in love, in sync and grounded and I totally admire them.

  • @constancemuller9775
    @constancemuller9775 3 роки тому +12

    Sharleen and Andy, thank you for sharing. Listening to you speak about your relationship makes me happy. You both add sparkle to our world!

  • @enhancingcreativity5515
    @enhancingcreativity5515 3 роки тому +20

    The one person that has disliked the video at this point, is probably the girl he was supposed to meet.

  • @TheChristineVan
    @TheChristineVan 3 роки тому +23

    this 1 on 1 is way better than juan pablo ever could xD

  • @shannon.a.smithh
    @shannon.a.smithh 3 роки тому +74

    I am a big “shandy” fan and this video was so wonderful because it showed an even deeper side to their connection than maybe we have seen before. I absolutely loved it. These two are the real deal, and I hope everyone gets to experience even a taste of this kind of love in their lifetime! ❤️

  • @wendy7915
    @wendy7915 3 роки тому +22

    They really really dig eachother. Like they Dead ass like eachother. 😍♥️

  • @hconf
    @hconf 3 роки тому +9

    This is truly a dream come true. The best couple with the coolest concept. Love this pairing so much.

  • @painttheworld7376
    @painttheworld7376 3 роки тому +24

    I cried watching them and see the deepest love they have for each other. Such a beautiful couple

  • @luciamariarossi4120
    @luciamariarossi4120 3 роки тому +29

    How beautiful and touching! She comes across as not just confident but also warm and funny at the same time. So inspiring to watch.

  • @Katijaaj
    @Katijaaj 3 роки тому +33

    I wish he’d share his dark existential fears with her! 🥰🥰🥰 they seem lovely

  • @klaasm950
    @klaasm950 3 роки тому +28

    This is one of my favorites on this channel. You're both beautiful souls

  • @gloriachan7720
    @gloriachan7720 3 роки тому +4

    My favourite couple, so mature, so open and SO respectful ❤

  • @reemmansoor2204
    @reemmansoor2204 3 роки тому +16

    "So you got me for life, sorry"
    Relationship goals.

  • @harlene1526
    @harlene1526 3 роки тому +8

    Praying for a love like this 😭

  • @amosquito9968
    @amosquito9968 3 роки тому +19

    My god, this filled me right up! What a beautiful relationship to get a peek into. Adore Shandy!

  • @DreamCatcherSince199
    @DreamCatcherSince199 3 роки тому +14

    This love has magic and divine timing written all over it. ❤️ moving to my soul, to see an authentic healthy relationship such as theirs. ✨

  • @kimlaffont9951
    @kimlaffont9951 Рік тому

    I love you two so much. Thank you for being on this planet with all of us and sharing yourselves with us.

  • @tobeyc2962
    @tobeyc2962 3 роки тому +17

    Damn you, Shandy! Got me crying in my cinnamon apple oatmeal

  • @KarlaElaine100
    @KarlaElaine100 Рік тому +6

    Wow! I’m almost speechless. These two have what many dream of, hope for but sometimes never find. They would be amazing parents.

  • @dnd1007
    @dnd1007 3 роки тому +4

    Loved this couple. They remind me of my husband and me. So nice to watch.

  • @Sonny1065LV
    @Sonny1065LV 3 роки тому +20

    This channel has helped our relationship in many ways thank you all so much!

  • @energymaven7537
    @energymaven7537 3 роки тому +7

    I love these two.

  • @thenopedetective
    @thenopedetective 2 роки тому

    For some reason I always saw this as a childfree couple. This brings a bit of background to the conversations they have with podcast guests who have kids ❤️
    Myself and my partner are not having kids for a variety of reasons (largely mental health/illness related). But I often feel he'd make such a great dad and such an example of positive masculinity. It will never happen for us, but it's still a lovely quality to see in someone in all the ways it shows up.

  • @jigoooku
    @jigoooku 2 роки тому

    When he said id kms, he never thought about leaving her, hes so inlove that he cant handle being without her, love these people

  • @trinaolson7131
    @trinaolson7131 3 роки тому +1

    I love the answer - your love feels like a super power

  • @astronautZZ
    @astronautZZ 3 роки тому +15

    they're literally so perfect for eachother, no questions asked !!!

  • @stephaniejzhu3046
    @stephaniejzhu3046 3 роки тому +1

    The love between them… it is so special

  • @mariamm6387
    @mariamm6387 3 роки тому +7

    I love when two good looking people get married

  • @cvill0045
    @cvill0045 3 роки тому +12

    😭😭😭 This is so beautiful! "Your love feels like a super power." This love is so liberating! 💛

  • @charitymap2679
    @charitymap2679 3 роки тому +11

    Oh my!!!! Those last few questions and the answers you gave literally gave me chills , deep beyond words!!

  • @bethnshermy
    @bethnshermy 3 роки тому +1

    I could have watched this for hours (future Dear Shandy episode???) It cured my headache. Thank you.

  • @SalwaKud
    @SalwaKud 3 роки тому +13

    My two favorite worlds colliding!❣️Nice shirt Andy 😜

  • @MissMusic4Lifexx
    @MissMusic4Lifexx 2 роки тому +8

    Her face when she got asked about their last conversation you could see happiness drain from her :( but that’s love. Wow I love them as a couple

  • @ndem658
    @ndem658 3 роки тому +11

    so much love from this couple. you can see how much they care about each other.

  • @janetatum8966
    @janetatum8966 3 роки тому

    I'm not crying, you're crying! Love the love!❤

  • @rosarioochoa3734
    @rosarioochoa3734 3 роки тому +1

    You two are simply inspirational! ♥️

  • @nicoledawnyoga
    @nicoledawnyoga Рік тому

    I’m so glad I clicked on this.😭♥️

  • @flowersafeheart
    @flowersafeheart 3 роки тому +8

    This just feels really great. It feels close and loving and supportive and sincere.

  • @RachelOnAWhim
    @RachelOnAWhim 3 роки тому +1

    I love Dear Shandy! Happily surprised to see this video.

  • @tangled55
    @tangled55 3 роки тому +7

    10:45 "I want to do everything with you; it's hard...there's not enough time..." :'(

  • @mjlippai8608
    @mjlippai8608 3 роки тому +1

    Well this is a beautiful couple, on many levels. Nice to see.

  • @Black_Rose1234
    @Black_Rose1234 3 роки тому +11

    Wait, what?! Sharleen and Andy 😍😍😍

  • @mika2639
    @mika2639 3 роки тому +10

    This channel is the reason I believe in real love. This made me cry...💚

  • @hconf
    @hconf 3 роки тому +12

    Gosh the love you have for each other and share together is pure magic.

  • @kilaa3417
    @kilaa3417 3 роки тому +1

    I love them!! The only podcast I listen to 😂

  • @MagpieMaggie
    @MagpieMaggie 3 роки тому +5

    You can feel the love with Sharleen and Andy. This is what relationships should be like - and we should not settle for less.

  • @victoriasilva8925
    @victoriasilva8925 2 роки тому +1

    these two are so charming wow

  • @dollymagojo7130
    @dollymagojo7130 3 роки тому +1

    I’m patiently waiting for my better half 😊

  • @melistudio3653
    @melistudio3653 2 роки тому +4

    My favorite for sure. I see a whole lot of love but I also see reasonable adults, great sense of humour and loads of caring for each other. Beautiful humans that bring the best out of each other's.

  • @No1RicanBeauty
    @No1RicanBeauty 3 роки тому +5

    Omg, these two are my fav couple! Such a beautiful energy exchange, and the conversation so warm and genuine! 🥰💖

  • @kaylinealsen8536
    @kaylinealsen8536 3 роки тому +5

    One of the best feelings is when someone can't get to a word that's on the tip of their tongue and you get it for them.

  • @GodisGood794
    @GodisGood794 3 роки тому +1

    So sweet!

  • @BeLLaChiCa1231
    @BeLLaChiCa1231 2 роки тому +1

    This is such a beautiful video.

  • @yoliswaonverwacht3029
    @yoliswaonverwacht3029 Рік тому +1

    God it’s me again 😢🥹

  • @agentbey
    @agentbey Рік тому +3

    I love their thoughtfulness. That was skin deep to the bone.

  • @Theimmortalmisfit
    @Theimmortalmisfit 3 роки тому +2

    Tinder is that old? Lmao damn time flies

  • @lolmmlol
    @lolmmlol 3 роки тому +2

    Shalreen is seriously pretty 🤩

  • @MissMusic4Lifexx
    @MissMusic4Lifexx 2 роки тому

    I’m tearing up 😭😭😭😭

  • @harrylederman1679
    @harrylederman1679 Рік тому +1

    I can feel the weight of this warm blanket and the depth of your unbreakable love for each other..... And I know why everybody loves seeing you both together because it gives us all a little bit of a sense of that beacon[ that Beacon that we all strive for].... And what great love does for all of us who can maintain that in a very healthy, high functioning loving relationship [where u are THE YNG TO EACHOTHER'S YANG]

  • @tamaradc7238
    @tamaradc7238 3 роки тому +3

    I could never do this with anyone coz I'd be crying from the very first question 😭

  • @qazifaisal5
    @qazifaisal5 3 роки тому +3

    When She said that I would tell you you're enough wow right in the feels .

  • @TephaRhi
    @TephaRhi 3 роки тому +12

    So heartwarming💞

  • @xenafb3799
    @xenafb3799 3 роки тому +3

    Where is CC? I don’t understand any word. 😢 Please have this episode subtitled. I love watching “The Skin Deep“.😊

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  3 роки тому +2

      Just added! That was a mistake on our part. Thank you for bringing it up!

  • @BellaNoir3
    @BellaNoir3 3 роки тому +4

    I don't even know them and I love them together!

  • @cherryvee5585
    @cherryvee5585 3 роки тому +2

    Ah “I’d tell you that you’re enough”, I’m not crying you’re crying! So beautiful!! 😍❤️

  • @Beebz108
    @Beebz108 3 роки тому +3

    This truly warmed my heart! I hope to experience this kind of love someday 💙

  • @Whimswirl
    @Whimswirl 3 роки тому +5

    I really hope to experience a love like this one day❤️

  • @cathleendemacedo9384
    @cathleendemacedo9384 3 роки тому +1

    Wow I love them 😢

  • @BWE-100
    @BWE-100 3 роки тому +3

    Why do I or anyone settle for less then this

  • @Lulu-kt6gr
    @Lulu-kt6gr 3 роки тому +2

    Wow thank you for sharing. I want what you have.

  • @r.r911
    @r.r911 3 роки тому +4

    Beautiful couple....love their love. ❤

  • @xakitad
    @xakitad 3 роки тому +8

    Sharleen is from The Bachelor right?

  • @QurVgn
    @QurVgn 3 роки тому +2

    Ssssshhhhaaaaaannnnddddddyyyyyyyyy 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

  • @simini1837
    @simini1837 3 роки тому +12

    A really lovely couple. If I might add a negative comment: I think ditching a date the way Andy did at the festival (sneaking away without saying hello) is not a very nice and kind thing to do. People: please don't do this!

    • @90MysteriumFascinans
      @90MysteriumFascinans 3 роки тому +2

      I guess he could have introduced himself to say he had to back out of the date because he just didn’t feel like it was right for him. I wonder if he just texted that or something. You’re right, that would suck to be stood up like that without a face-to-face explanation.

    • @jamface17
      @jamface17 3 роки тому +3

      They explain the story more in depth on their own UA-cam channel Dear Shandy. Their video gives more context and explanation to where I don’t think Andy was necessarily being rude/unkind : )

    • @bethnshermy
      @bethnshermy 3 роки тому

      @@jamface17 definitely seems less bad in the full story.

  • @LaDiiGiggleZ718
    @LaDiiGiggleZ718 3 роки тому +3

    She is a beautiful❤