@@stephanienelly90 I'm a guy. Don't play stupid petty games like this. Unblock and learn to communicate like adults. This isn't a disney movie. A girl did this block and unblock thing to me a couple of times and now she's been blocked for 2+ months straight on my account.
Get some standards. Keep them no matter what. If he is not treating you with respect be done with it. There is no excuse for a man to treat you poorly EXCEPT for the fact that you except it. PERIOD.
If they really wanted to reach out, they would. Either via email or text (if blocked on socials, they have your number/whatsapp, or vice versa). If they don't, they really never cared. Blocking is usually more about you than them... you do it so YOU can break free and not see anything about their whereabouts because it's painful if you're not over them.
I just blocked a guy I really really liked. Broke my own heart. He was just extremely disrespectful of my time & not communicating in the most basic ways but would say he loved me. The words never matched his actions. I said to myself “ If I stay I’d be a fool. “ * blocked* lol
I’m doing this right now!! I’m letting us both grow separately by blocking I don’t need his bs anymore and if he changes and wants me back he will have to try harder otherwise he’s just wasted energy
Guilty as charged! I don't block people to play games, though - I do it so that I don't have to see their name pop up and agonise about it. I always end up regretting it too :(
@@iheart3dprinting951 Maybe I'm misunderstanding the question but I have no idea if it's a common sentiment. I only know about me. Btw I heart 3D printing, too.
My blocking trick: I remove their contact photo, change their first & last name to ZZ, remove any identifying information from the contact, and block it. Blocked people sit at the bottom of my contacts, I can't tell who is who, and I can't backtrack in a moment of weakness. We are done.
@@cosmicGiGGles Yah. When Im experiencing life stress I have a nasty habit of trying to regain stability by re-engaging with people I had a previous relationship with HAD TO PUT A STOP TO THAT
100% told this guy I’m dating I need to hear from you daily and I would like to see you frequently. If this is too much for you I understand but let me go. THREE times I told him. The last time he said he promised he would get better. The next day I texted him good morning. A full 24 hours went by and he didn’t respond. BLOCKED because why you playing with me. Now if you want me you either going to step up or leave me alone. The block is so you can’t keep tabs on my life from a distance. If you want to know how I’m doing be in my life.
Exactly the same thing happened with me. I was in a 4 month relationship, and I told him several times that Plz call me at least once a day . He always promised me that give me time and I will change. Last night I called him and he said he will call me back but he never did. I called him again and he said that he is busy. I was angry and I cut the call but he didn't even bother to give me a call back and calmed me down. I am so hurt 💔 I blocked him and he didn't even make any efforts to contact me. He made all the false promises and took my virginity. I feel guilty and used 😖. I feel anxiety because of him, I am dying
Blocked him after many times of letting him know what I wanted... he ghosted me at one point... he would become distant .. we broke up 3 times and I would just let him come on back in and we would do the cycle all over again.. finally blocked him for both my well being and his!!
@Elliot Scott I actually called him out on inconsistency and we have not spoken in 2 weeks. It was one of the hardest things I've ever done but I'm proud because I know it will be easier and I will do it much sooner in the future. It also makes it easier not to text him knowing he's not serious about me.
If he’s hittin you up out of the blue it’s because some other chic broke up with him or they fell out. Then he hits and quits it with you and goes back to her or a new one
If his response is to distance when you point out inconsistencies, then he's showing you he doesn't give two shhhhhiiitttz. Leave that guy. You're worth so much more than that
Elliot Scott and Tony Gaskins should do a collaboration video. The two best coaches on UA-cam! You guys are straight to the point, no fluff and filler, not wasting my time! Thank you!!
I’ve found another guy who is wonderful. And yes I unfriended him all together, the other guy on social media and I do t care if he sees it or not. But I dang sure let it known I’m in a relationship. The ex situationship is over and I’ve been talking to a man who is consistent, positive, and brings the best of us both. ❤️❤️
So Brutal but so true and I love it!! Value and respect yourself and don’t unblock them!! They are not worth your time and love at all and you obviously have your reasons if your watching this video! You deserve more always remember that! Block the 💩 head!!!
How do you make him feel like you’re actually gone? They only come back when you leave for real like you don’t care. When you fake leave they don’t come back.
Well Nickie If you make him feel like you want to go , any decent guy will let you go. You girls keep doing this, you will end up with wrotten guys. No relationship is perfect. You might be giving up the best relationship for you just because someone tells you "you deserve more".
@@WanM786 The men we are blocking are literally toying with our emotions because they don’t care about us. Everyone in the comments has been clear about what they want/need/expect and these emotionally unavailable men - but those men still ignore calls, make no effort, lack consistency and string us along - which is a huge waste of your precious years. So we aren’t giving up the best relationship. Especially when it was never a relationship to begin with.
I just blocked my ex. He pushed me to the limit. I can safely say that I tried. I’m ready to move on to better things. Thanks for your video. Very enlightening.
Every comment of those people who block disrespectful people is a huge support to those who are trying their best not to unblock them in the first few weeks. Thank you people. We should stay strong.
To me, blocking the person is for my peace of mind so i can finally move on! Otherwise i feel there's always a connection, a subconscious expection that he might see my posts/like them/reach out to me.. its totally stupid but i cant help it. So i block them FOR me, the time i need to get myself back together. At the same time, i dont want to shut all doors.. and a part of me feels that its childish, but as someone said in the comments, if they sincerly want to reach out to you, they'll find a way 🙏
I block and then wait two to four weeks and then on the down low I unblock and wait to see a) if they notice, b) if they come back with an apology and c) if there is an attitude of change
He will still get low quality muffins if he is attractive, but he won’t get the best muffin for a happy relationship because he ruins his chances with his misbehaviour and end up alone regretting the way he treated potentially fulfilling relationships.
But what if you unblock and still genuinely want nothing to do with them? like you want them to see you moving on with your life and letting them know they didn’t stop a show
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Well, Eliot is right! However, I didn't block, but I removed him from everything; social media, phone book etc ... truth is he already had been working on something else so he doesn't give give damn anyway, but I'm not going to sit there and be spied on from a distance if he felt like it. You want me gone, I'm gone - no problem.. thankfully I've had no communication from him at all.
“If you haven’t met the guy yet, I don’t know what you are even talking about” Have you never felt a deep connection with someone you can’t touch, but start to fall for someone on a mental level alone? It’s easy to attract one another in the physical, but holding a long distance connection with someone you have not met yet takes real mental attraction and that’s powerful. Please don’t dismiss that as not being real, because I have found sometimes having the emotional and mental connection without physical connection yet can be just as powerful.
This blocking shit is mental. Girl blocks me I think they don’t want me. She unblocks over a week later, I don’t react. She messages “what’s up?”. I’m busy at the time and hurt by being blocked in the first place so I let it sit. 24 hrs later she ends it. When I go to respond I’m blocked again. That pisses me off as she’s not willing to hear me say my parting piece. It’s just mental miscommunication. I loved this girl but all she did was give mixed signals and blocking mind games! Tell me why you blocked me… otherwise it seems you just want to mess me around
Going through the same my boyfriend blocked me from the blue his done this before and I chased him now . He blocked me yesterday I went on Whatspp I was blocked I’m shocked . I didn’t take any action this time really people are heartless
@@johndtwaldron oh man I will just move on this time .. even though we love some people we need to accept certain toxic things ain’t good for us … surely I’m still shocked and questioning how evil people can turn to
@@teerich2011 picture gone, one tick on WhatsApp. Same as before really. After a while I stopped checking and a little while ago I blocked her back to feel a little better. Thing is I have her email from when we were pals years ago. I’m seriously debating sending a short note to get things off my chest just to let it go and move on. Checked with a few people to make sure the letter reads ok and is gracious sounding and hits right note.
lol this thumbnail is such a hot take and I’m so ready for it 😅 sounds like game playing next level and I’m too old for this but ready to hear it anyway
Iv just found u & u r so brutal it’s hilarious 😆 makes it easier to hear - I wona know if a guy is keepin his options open / grass is greener syndrome & comes back wen he realises it isn’t , Yh like Duh! ! Who’s settling, is it normal process or acceptable?
Well, fuck, I’m just going to make an Elliot Scott playlist for my UA-cam. I probably could’ve used some of these blunt and honest exclamations as a young girl. I was raised to be a people pleaser and that is hard to overcome. Throw in a narcissistic guy and you’re pretty much screwed.
Yeah consistency is key...he disappears fir weeks at a time ...I've allowed it fir too long and sucked it in. I finally decided to block him after telling him due to his inconsistencies and unwilling to prioritize me....he then emailed me 2 weeks later and apologized w a "sorry for everything".....well a simple sorry doesn't cut it so he's still blocked. I've known him for several years...he stays blocked I deserve better...took me too long to figure out...he wanted to marry me 3m ago..go figure
My ex and I don’t follow eachother anymore , it’s been two months since the breakup but he watches all my stories. Should I go private and make him curious or leave my account open for him to watch?
I’ve been dealing with this guy for nine years. He cheated on me a couple times I took him back only to find out he was continuing to cheat, but getting away with it being sneakier we were still being intimate and I still was seeing him of course because I’m very comfortable with him and I love him, but he keeps taking me for granted and he started to me repeatedly and always made an excuse as if it was his phone or he was busy working And actuality, I caught him with a woman at his shop where he supposedly was working. He begged me not to leave him. I came back only for him to continue to ghost me. It hurt me, but I have to block him and hopefully follow through with it this time
That’s the exact situation I was going through days he wasn’t texting me so imma do the same to him in return 😈 I’m not gonna block him tho cuz I wanna see him squirm lol 😂 he already texted me I haven’t said a word 🤣🤣🤣
i tried giving him 12 chanches he blocks me for weeks when angry cheated on me and always cuss me out n leave my house then try coming bk n forth says noone ever loved him like his mom but cussing me out last time im like nooo more
I was blockied by my ex and i didn't do a thing wrong. I treated this woman like a queen. SHe told me she had no time for me, all i did was the mature thing by respecting her decision. I am done chasing women with the fake breakup shit.
I blocked him cause he was extremely jealous over everything and I told him over and over to stop. Its not healthy. I gave him so many chances and it caused so many fights. Treated me like I was a cheater and I never gave him reason to question me. I blocked him and he ended up blocking me 😒
Its really dependent i like a boy who also said he like me but he talk to me when he want and i become insane i dont what to cry for him so i block him on one app and call ..but he didnt try to contact me on other app 😂i want to say if he want you he will do anything ..and i understand things okay 😢
Well a guy stopped contacting me recently, about 2 weeks after telling me I was his gf. I gave him 24 hours to reply to the text communicating my concern about not hearing from him much considering he said I was his girlfriend. I had seen him a few days ago and he never replied. So I blocked him and got myself back on dating sites. Has anyone experienced this with someone who actually said they were your in a relationship? I never heard of it before.
Unfortunately if you’re what the average man would consider to be a ‘nice’ girl/woman, they will use the gf title for easy sex. After a few rounds they’re on to the next easy one....but keep in mind that the woman with standards will always be the priority.
@@rickimcfarland2269 you lost me at woman with standards being a priority versus being "nice". I don't appreciate your comment for being labeled as someone without standards or being labeled as too easy. I told him I don't have sex unless I'm in a relationship. That IS having standards. I did this with my last two boyfriends. They respected my boundaries, they waited until after we committed and didn't ghost me. If I was too nice I would have slept with this liar without any discussion of commitment obviously which is what most women who have this problem do. I can't believe people are agreeing with your nonsensical comment.
@@OrchidRose83 do you see how he profited from your standards? he lied about giving you a relationship, got his needs met and bolted. He is telling you that a relationship is not a guarantee that someone is committed and genuine. Next time, after the guy asks you to be his GF, take time to meet his friends, coworkers, family and make sure he invests sufficient social capital and resources in your relationship (aka, it will cause some issues if he randomly disappears). That way, you have time to understand if the guy is honest and how much he is willing to publicize your relationship.
@@aliceland992 I never met friends and especially not family before entering a relationship, usually that's after two people agree that they're compatible. One of the deciding factors is if you think the person would get along with your friends and family. But the relationship isn't about their friends or family, it's about the couple. And coworkers? Who meets coworkers before you get into a relationship? lol Btw I could have been married twice before so I know how to form a relationship with a man. He tried to weasel his way back in this month after he disappeared too and the women who are "too nice" would have been thrilled, ready to jump back in. I didn't. It should be obvious to you that he has done this before. I wonder if you or the other person who decided to be critical are even married or have been close to it? Because in my personal life it was only single women who give unsolicited bad advice that were so ready to tell me what I did wrong. lol The married ones and other guys were empathetic to me. I think the problem is that the critical women don't wait to have sex until after entering a relationship so my standard (which used to be very common) makes them feel uncomfortable. My takeway from the situation is that it happened too fast and that guys have gotten more dishonest about their intentions. If I had waited longer I would have seen signs. End of story.
No standards sleeping with men who is clearly not into you..Orchid you do not want to hear the truth! Keep your legs closed until you are married or at least engaged..everyone is telling you the same thing and you refuse to listen.. RE READ what you are writing..you are an EASY target and the guys knows it You on boyfriend number 3 or more and sleeping with all them? Oh my god are you listening to yourself You need to take a break from dating and do some self love
Called him out… he never responded when i opted to talk on better terms he never reached out again. In my book thats a forfeit of position and almost a were later I unfollowed him on everything because thats it. He responded to that but chapter is closed I didnt answer him… i do not accept combative energy when calling a dude out on his bs
So basically, I really liked that guy, I loved him, we broke up then got back together then he started being cold and he stopped calling and caring I waited and waited till I couldn't, he left my message delivered, I gave gim time to reply, but he didn't.I blocked him. Ps: my last message that he didn't reply to was"but I love you"
Hey elliot I have a question How would I know he's coming to me if he's blocked ? I can't seee blocked texts on WhatsApp or insta and my number has changed.. u think a guy who's willing to find a way he will?
I blocker him after sort of getting back together. His communication went down, and the reason I did is he claimed his " joke" was a cultural thing they say to joke? But he disrespected me and I told him point blank he could blame this time on himself. And I'm done. And I won't be unblocking him. Nope done!
The guy disappeared suddenly, but Im positive about how he feels about me, no matter how much I try to convince myself that he might lost attraction,It just doesn’t makes sense to me
5:30 no, this is not a game. Never unblocking the guy is your arrogance. Remember, you are not here to fight with him. You are here for love. He is not getting that message if you block him.
They know where to look for you, if you block him on whatapp he will chat you up with another number if he truly love you. When a man loves you he will do anything possible to get you back.
@@florenceawazie9992 yeah but pretty clear signal a girl is not interested anymore… I’d do anything to make it right if I thought it would work… but at some point if they don’t communicate 🤷♂️ gotta have some self respect
There is always calling from friends phones . Honestly there is no excuse to no get ahold of u .. there is *67… there are many text apps …. You can change your number … trust I’ve been in the other end of being blocked . Being blocked never stopped me from contacting who I want if I messed up . If he don’t find a way he either is slow or just doesn’t want to !!!
Don't unblock them.
If they want you they know where to find you. If they really wanna work things out with you they will find a way to get to you.
This is what I've been saying... glad to see someone else has the same mindset. YES!
@@unkn0wnr0ckstar me too! I’ve always felt this way! That’s how my brother got his gf back and they’re married.
@@stephanienelly90 I'm a guy. Don't play stupid petty games like this. Unblock and learn to communicate like adults. This isn't a disney movie.
A girl did this block and unblock thing to me a couple of times and now she's been blocked for 2+ months straight on my account.
You block me then expect me to still look for you 😂. There are billions of holes sweetheart.
@@lubegahamos6559 sometimes Dey should be reasons to wat leaded to the blocking !
If you have to block a guy, he is not on your level.
💯 exactly
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😅😅😅
Mhm sure 😂
I had to block him. He was fighting and arguing way too much. Couldnt take it anymore
REMEMBER: a situationship is NOT a relationship. It's a manipulationship.
Omg 💯💯💯💯💯 I was going crazy by it 😢
He was bread crumbing me and then there was disrespect at the end so I blocked
Get some standards.
Keep them no matter what.
If he is not treating you with respect be done with it. There is no excuse for a man to treat you poorly EXCEPT for the fact that you except it. PERIOD.
If they really wanted to reach out, they would. Either via email or text (if blocked on socials, they have your number/whatsapp, or vice versa). If they don't, they really never cared. Blocking is usually more about you than them... you do it so YOU can break free and not see anything about their whereabouts because it's painful if you're not over them.
How to know whether you want me to reach you or whether I should just respect your space and no longer act upon my feelings for you ?
That’s true - if they wanna reach out there’s apps they can use to hit you up
@@WanM786that's why you should not block unless It's unevitable, and It's veery very few cases, women abuse block feature
I just blocked a guy I really really liked. Broke my own heart. He was just extremely disrespectful of my time & not communicating in the most basic ways but would say he loved me. The words never matched his actions. I said to myself “ If I stay I’d be a fool. “ * blocked* lol
U did the right thing !! May Allah bless you with a better caring lovely husband ❤
Same here! His words and actions didn’t match, and even though I liked him, I blocked him and I’m not going back
Same here! He said he is interested but he was not, I liked him a lot .
It's a hurtful step to block him, but I did it for myself.
Same😢
I’m doing this right now!! I’m letting us both grow separately by blocking I don’t need his bs anymore and if he changes and wants me back he will have to try harder otherwise he’s just wasted energy
Guilty as charged! I don't block people to play games, though - I do it so that I don't have to see their name pop up and agonise about it. I always end up regretting it too :(
Don't doubt yourself! You did the right thing for you.
I also do it for myself so I don't see anything about them because it will hurt.
Is this a common sentiment?
@@iheart3dprinting951 Maybe I'm misunderstanding the question but I have no idea if it's a common sentiment. I only know about me. Btw I heart 3D printing, too.
My blocking trick: I remove their contact photo, change their first & last name to ZZ, remove any identifying information from the contact, and block it.
Blocked people sit at the bottom of my contacts, I can't tell who is who, and I can't backtrack in a moment of weakness. We are done.
Wow? I do the exact same thing. Literally... Highly recommend.
@@cosmicGiGGles Yah. When Im experiencing life stress I have a nasty habit of trying to regain stability by re-engaging with people I had a previous relationship with
HAD TO PUT A STOP TO THAT
100% told this guy I’m dating I need to hear from you daily and I would like to see you frequently. If this is too much for you I understand but let me go. THREE times I told him. The last time he said he promised he would get better.
The next day I texted him good morning. A full 24 hours went by and he didn’t respond. BLOCKED because why you playing with me.
Now if you want me you either going to step up or leave me alone. The block is so you can’t keep tabs on my life from a distance. If you want to know how I’m doing be in my life.
Exactly the same thing happened with me.
I was in a 4 month relationship, and I told him several times that Plz call me at least once a day . He always promised me that give me time and I will change.
Last night I called him and he said he will call me back but he never did.
I called him again and he said that he is busy.
I was angry and I cut the call but he didn't even bother to give me a call back and calmed me down.
I am so hurt 💔
I blocked him and he didn't even make any efforts to contact me.
He made all the false promises and took my virginity.
I feel guilty and used 😖.
I feel anxiety because of him, I am dying
@@vaishnavityagi4680oh my god girl I hope you’re okay ❤️ sending you lots of love and comfort
What if he was camping lol
😂@@BeForFreakingReal
Blocked him after many times of letting him know what I wanted... he ghosted me at one point... he would become distant .. we broke up 3 times and I would just let him come on back in and we would do the cycle all over again.. finally blocked him for both my well being and his!!
Exactly the same thing.
But this time I blocked him and he didn't even bother to make any contact.
@Elliot Scott I actually called him out on inconsistency and we have not spoken in 2 weeks. It was one of the hardest things I've ever done but I'm proud because I know it will be easier and I will do it much sooner in the future. It also makes it easier not to text him knowing he's not serious about me.
its still so sad..made me feel BAD about MYSELF!
If he’s hittin you up out of the blue it’s because some other chic broke up with him or they fell out. Then he hits and quits it with you and goes back to her or a new one
I honestly think u dodged a bullet
If his response is to distance when you point out inconsistencies, then he's showing you he doesn't give two shhhhhiiitttz. Leave that guy. You're worth so much more than that
Elliot Scott and Tony Gaskins should do a collaboration video. The two best coaches on UA-cam! You guys are straight to the point, no fluff and filler, not wasting my time! Thank you!!
I’ve found another guy who is wonderful. And yes I unfriended him all together, the other guy on social media and I do t care if he sees it or not. But I dang sure let it known I’m in a relationship. The ex situationship is over and I’ve been talking to a man who is consistent, positive, and brings the best of us both. ❤️❤️
I block when they don’t respect me and I call it out all the time and he still don’t get it so I block and keep them blocked.
This is exactly what I’m doing now !!!
So Brutal but so true and I love it!! Value and respect yourself and don’t unblock them!! They are not worth your time and love at all and you obviously have your reasons if your watching this video! You deserve more always remember that! Block the 💩 head!!!
How do you make him feel like you’re actually gone? They only come back when you leave for real like you don’t care. When you fake leave they don’t come back.
The energy that you send to the universe.
Well Nickie
If you make him feel like you want to go , any decent guy will let you go.
You girls keep doing this, you will end up with wrotten guys.
No relationship is perfect. You might be giving up the best relationship for you just because someone tells you "you deserve more".
Cos when u fake leave ur playing a game so they dont take u seriously
@@WanM786 The men we are blocking are literally toying with our emotions because they don’t care about us. Everyone in the comments has been clear about what they want/need/expect and these emotionally unavailable men - but those men still ignore calls, make no effort, lack consistency and string us along - which is a huge waste of your precious years.
So we aren’t giving up the best relationship. Especially when it was never a relationship to begin with.
I just blocked my ex. He pushed me to the limit. I can safely say that I tried. I’m ready to move on to better things. Thanks for your video. Very enlightening.
Every comment of those people who block disrespectful people is a huge support to those who are trying their best not to unblock them in the first few weeks. Thank you people. We should stay strong.
Disrespect, manipulating, yelling, gaslighting, all reasons to block and keep blocked.
this man So knows his stuff!
To me, blocking the person is for my peace of mind so i can finally move on! Otherwise i feel there's always a connection, a subconscious expection that he might see my posts/like them/reach out to me.. its totally stupid but i cant help it. So i block them FOR me, the time i need to get myself back together. At the same time, i dont want to shut all doors.. and a part of me feels that its childish, but as someone said in the comments, if they sincerly want to reach out to you, they'll find a way 🙏
„If you haven’t met yet who cares” lol😂
your words are so on point man wish someone can guide like this in real life
People in LD relationships matter too. He knows it’s a relationship even without the title. Relating together is a relationship that’s the truth.
Yep 💯
I block and then wait two to four weeks and then on the down low I unblock and wait to see a) if they notice, b) if they come back with an apology and c) if there is an attitude of change
Childish games
@@genallen769 no, it’s called consequences and opportunity for second chances
Absolutely pointless. Keep them blocked..
Blocking him is for your mental health, what your describing is “games” - not healthy
Sometimes I think Elliot is a hypnotist. Thanks Ells!
Im not doing all that once i see you acting funny and i see red flags blocked ✌🏽..if a man want you trust he will find a way to contact you…
I’m not demanding or blocking just letting go with love.
If a guy treats females disrespectful only speaks about his lack of character and his only fault only …….that guy doesn’t deserve any “ muffin “ .
He will still get low quality muffins if he is attractive, but he won’t get the best muffin for a happy relationship because he ruins his chances with his misbehaviour and end up alone regretting the way he treated potentially fulfilling relationships.
But what if you unblock and still genuinely want nothing to do with them? like you want them to see you moving on with your life and letting them know they didn’t stop a show
"you're gonna be this dudes bitch.." 😂😂
Hard truth 😂 LOL
That hurrrrtttt
I was cringing at all the times I blocked guy then unblocked and reached out like a dummy 😩😭
Yes, I have never blocked someone but twice, to a GF who cheated with my BF, and to a guy who clearly disrespected me ..
...and a simple sorry doesn't cut it
How much each of you give and how little each of you take for granted, will determine the success of a relationship.
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Well, Eliot is right! However, I didn't block, but I removed him from everything; social media, phone book etc ... truth is he already had been working on something else so he doesn't give give damn anyway, but I'm not going to sit there and be spied on from a distance if he felt like it. You want me gone, I'm gone - no problem.. thankfully I've had no communication from him at all.
“If you haven’t met the guy yet, I don’t know what you are even talking about”
Have you never felt a deep connection with someone you can’t touch, but start to fall for someone on a mental level alone? It’s easy to attract one another in the physical, but holding a long distance connection with someone you have not met yet takes real mental attraction and that’s powerful. Please don’t dismiss that as not being real, because I have found sometimes having the emotional and mental connection without physical connection yet can be just as powerful.
😂😂😂😂😂🤣 facts
No
If it was meaningful he would have travel to meet you already
So true!!!
Awesome Elliot. So damn true! Just want I’m going through now. I blocked him yesterday
If he knows what he's doing, then why call him out? Just block
You're right. Just leave gracefully, no text or nothing just blocked 😂
Period. They're not children, they know what they want. Men are simple, take it from me I'm a dancer lol @@wezimhango4439
You nailed it! Thank you for the extra push to move on
Thanks Elliot..I needed this one! You’re the bestest! 💋 🤗 💜
I love your phrasing of outcome dependent.
Another awesome video! Great subject. If they don't respect you , their not worth it. Keep it up!!👍🥰
Maybe if they hear it from a guy it will STICK!! 📢📢
This blocking shit is mental. Girl blocks me I think they don’t want me. She unblocks over a week later, I don’t react.
She messages “what’s up?”. I’m busy at the time and hurt by being blocked in the first place so I let it sit. 24 hrs later she ends it. When I go to respond I’m blocked again. That pisses me off as she’s not willing to hear me say my parting piece. It’s just mental miscommunication.
I loved this girl but all she did was give mixed signals and blocking mind games!
Tell me why you blocked me… otherwise it seems you just want to mess me around
Going through the same my boyfriend blocked me from the blue his done this before and I chased him now . He blocked me yesterday I went on Whatspp I was blocked I’m shocked . I didn’t take any action this time really people are heartless
@@Sandrahans happy to chat lol. This had a profound effect on me
@@johndtwaldron oh man I will just move on this time .. even though we love some people we need to accept certain toxic things ain’t good for us … surely I’m still shocked and questioning how evil people can turn to
@@johndtwaldron how do you know you were blocked the second time when you tried replying to her text?
@@teerich2011 picture gone, one tick on WhatsApp.
Same as before really. After a while I stopped checking and a little while ago I blocked her back to feel a little better.
Thing is I have her email from when we were pals years ago. I’m seriously debating sending a short note to get things off my chest just to let it go and move on. Checked with a few people to make sure the letter reads ok and is gracious sounding and hits right note.
Much needed video. Thank you.
Thank you so so much for sharing this message
Imagine when said homie in question is almost 50….sigh.
Age doesn't matter. Last player I cut loose was 62 and still doing all this nonsense.
@@lauriepeifer7297 so discouraging….
It's TERRIBLE out here 🥴.
Mine was 47..old clowns 🤡 they can get blocked too
I think if he doesn’t respond every 4-8 hours you are not a priority 😅
I think so too! That's why I blocked his ass. Kept me waiting for about 18 hours first and then 12 hours. I was done 😹
@@carolinechitra_888this shit hurts.
lol this thumbnail is such a hot take and I’m so ready for it 😅 sounds like game playing next level and I’m too old for this but ready to hear it anyway
Not harsh at all. I needed to hear it. I needed to learn
Iv just found u & u r so brutal it’s hilarious 😆 makes it easier to hear - I wona know if a guy is keepin his options open / grass is greener syndrome & comes back wen he realises it isn’t , Yh like Duh! ! Who’s settling, is it normal process or acceptable?
Thank you Elliot..U are great🤗
Well, fuck, I’m just going to make an Elliot Scott playlist for my UA-cam.
I probably could’ve used some of these blunt and honest exclamations as a young girl. I was raised to be a people pleaser and that is hard to overcome. Throw in a narcissistic guy and you’re pretty much screwed.
So I blocked him without discussing my standards. He pulled back so I blocked. 😂 I’m missing steps😂
I want to block him to because he’s making me wait days after he told me he would call me. I hate waiting for him
masterpiece🙌 so eloquent
Yeah consistency is key...he disappears fir weeks at a time ...I've allowed it fir too long and sucked it in. I finally decided to block him after telling him due to his inconsistencies and unwilling to prioritize me....he then emailed me 2 weeks later and apologized w a "sorry for everything".....well a simple sorry doesn't cut it so he's still blocked. I've known him for several years...he stays blocked I deserve better...took me too long to figure out...he wanted to marry me 3m ago..go figure
My ex and I don’t follow eachother anymore , it’s been two months since the breakup but he watches all my stories. Should I go private and make him curious or leave my account open for him to watch?
I’ve been dealing with this guy for nine years. He cheated on me a couple times I took him back only to find out he was continuing to cheat, but getting away with it being sneakier we were still being intimate and I still was seeing him of course because I’m very comfortable with him and I love him, but he keeps taking me for granted and he started to me repeatedly and always made an excuse as if it was his phone or he was busy working And actuality, I caught him with a woman at his shop where he supposedly was working. He begged me not to leave him. I came back only for him to continue to ghost me. It hurt me, but I have to block him and hopefully follow through with it this time
That’s the exact situation I was going through days he wasn’t texting me so imma do the same to him in return 😈 I’m not gonna block him tho cuz I wanna see him squirm lol 😂 he already texted me I haven’t said a word 🤣🤣🤣
i tried giving him 12 chanches he blocks me for weeks when angry cheated on me and always cuss me out n leave my house then try coming bk n forth says noone ever loved him like his mom but cussing me out last time im like nooo more
I was blockied by my ex and i didn't do a thing wrong. I treated this woman like a queen. SHe told me she had no time for me, all i did was the mature thing by respecting her decision. I am done chasing women with the fake breakup shit.
I blocked him cause he was extremely jealous over everything and I told him over and over to stop. Its not healthy. I gave him so many chances and it caused so many fights. Treated me like I was a cheater and I never gave him reason to question me. I blocked him and he ended up blocking me 😒
Its really dependent i like a boy who also said he like me but he talk to me when he want and i become insane i dont what to cry for him so i block him on one app and call ..but he didnt try to contact me on other app 😂i want to say if he want you he will do anything ..and i understand things okay 😢
Thank you so much 😊 i got my answers
Well a guy stopped contacting me recently, about 2 weeks after telling me I was his gf. I gave him 24 hours to reply to the text communicating my concern about not hearing from him much considering he said I was his girlfriend. I had seen him a few days ago and he never replied. So I blocked him and got myself back on dating sites. Has anyone experienced this with someone who actually said they were your in a relationship? I never heard of it before.
Unfortunately if you’re what the average man would consider to be a ‘nice’ girl/woman, they will use the gf title for easy sex. After a few rounds they’re on to the next easy one....but keep in mind that the woman with standards will always be the priority.
@@rickimcfarland2269 you lost me at woman with standards being a priority versus being "nice". I don't appreciate your comment for being labeled as someone without standards or being labeled as too easy. I told him I don't have sex unless I'm in a relationship. That IS having standards. I did this with my last two boyfriends. They respected my boundaries, they waited until after we committed and didn't ghost me. If I was too nice I would have slept with this liar without any discussion of commitment obviously which is what most women who have this problem do. I can't believe people are agreeing with your nonsensical comment.
@@OrchidRose83 do you see how he profited from your standards? he lied about giving you a relationship, got his needs met and bolted. He is telling you that a relationship is not a guarantee that someone is committed and genuine. Next time, after the guy asks you to be his GF, take time to meet his friends, coworkers, family and make sure he invests sufficient social capital and resources in your relationship (aka, it will cause some issues if he randomly disappears). That way, you have time to understand if the guy is honest and how much he is willing to publicize your relationship.
@@aliceland992 I never met friends and especially not family before entering a relationship, usually that's after two people agree that they're compatible. One of the deciding factors is if you think the person would get along with your friends and family. But the relationship isn't about their friends or family, it's about the couple. And coworkers? Who meets coworkers before you get into a relationship? lol Btw I could have been married twice before so I know how to form a relationship with a man. He tried to weasel his way back in this month after he disappeared too and the women who are "too nice" would have been thrilled, ready to jump back in. I didn't. It should be obvious to you that he has done this before.
I wonder if you or the other person who decided to be critical are even married or have been close to it? Because in my personal life it was only single women who give unsolicited bad advice that were so ready to tell me what I did wrong. lol The married ones and other guys were empathetic to me.
I think the problem is that the critical women don't wait to have sex until after entering a relationship so my standard (which used to be very common) makes them feel uncomfortable. My takeway from the situation is that it happened too fast and that guys have gotten more dishonest about their intentions. If I had waited longer I would have seen signs. End of story.
No standards sleeping with men who is clearly not into you..Orchid you do not want to hear the truth! Keep your legs closed until you are married or at least engaged..everyone is telling you the same thing and you refuse to listen.. RE READ what you are writing..you are an EASY target and the guys knows it You on boyfriend number 3 or more and sleeping with all them? Oh my god are you listening to yourself You need to take a break from dating and do some self love
Thanks, I needed it noww
Called him out… he never responded when i opted to talk on better terms he never reached out again. In my book thats a forfeit of position and almost a were later I unfollowed him on everything because thats it. He responded to that but chapter is closed I didnt answer him… i do not accept combative energy when calling a dude out on his bs
I just blocked this guy, and it’s not coming unblocked.
So basically, I really liked that guy, I loved him, we broke up then got back together then he started being cold and he stopped calling and caring I waited and waited till I couldn't, he left my message delivered, I gave gim time to reply, but he didn't.I blocked him. Ps: my last message that he didn't reply to was"but I love you"
Hey elliot I have a question
How would I know he's coming to me if he's blocked ? I can't seee blocked texts on WhatsApp or insta and my number has changed.. u think a guy who's willing to find a way he will?
I blocker him after sort of getting back together. His communication went down, and the reason I did is he claimed his " joke" was a cultural thing they say to joke? But he disrespected me and I told him point blank he could blame this time on himself. And I'm done. And I won't be unblocking him. Nope done!
Elliot! I hv a question, should I trust my gut feelings about how a guy feels about me?
The guy disappeared suddenly, but Im positive about how he feels about me, no matter how much I try to convince myself that he might lost attraction,It just doesn’t makes sense to me
He’s blocked
Your the male figure I should’ve had in my life ❤ - great advice
What about when he blocks and unblocks you ?
Immature, toxic and emotionally abusive
I like you man! Super hilarious
Love this
Is there a timeframe for leaving
5:30 no, this is not a game. Never unblocking the guy is your arrogance.
Remember, you are not here to fight with him. You are here for love. He is not getting that message if you block him.
Just blocked him
Why would a guy do this to you?
👏well said
I blocked him and I will not unblock him.
i always call it out
Thank you
Thanks.
💃 lets go E
me watching this for a guy i've never even met ... im so embarrassed rn
So true that what do 😊
Bravo 👏🏼
I agree 💯 % but if they change their minds, how do they reach you?
Exactly. Especially if a girl has no socials
They know where to look for you, if you block him on whatapp he will chat you up with another number if he truly love you. When a man loves you he will do anything possible to get you back.
@@florenceawazie9992 yeah but pretty clear signal a girl is not interested anymore… I’d do anything to make it right if I thought it would work… but at some point if they don’t communicate 🤷♂️ gotta have some self respect
There is always calling from friends phones . Honestly there is no excuse to no get ahold of u .. there is *67… there are many text apps …. You can change your number … trust I’ve been in the other end of being blocked . Being blocked never stopped me from contacting who I want if I messed up . If he don’t find a way he either is slow or just doesn’t want to !!!
@@johndtwaldronthat’s not true . I’ve blocked guys I still had feelings for . But because I feel disrespected my pride came first !
I unblock him and let the bird go. I felt released.
How is he going to show you he’s making the investment to be unblocked if he’s blocked and can’t talk to you? Lol
Never unblock.
Amen
He said 'It's just the way I am'
Ok Mr 59 yr old with zero accountability...
Yes i blocked a low investment guy
I unblock pple coz i don't want to see them evn in block list. Setting them free. Ignore if they try to contact me again
1000% agree I unblock because I dont want to even see your name. I am done with you. I have released you. If you contact I ignore
Exactly 💯
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