I blocked my narcissist at Whatsapp. You want to read something funny? I never added her at Facebook never. How I knew she was playing games? The moron blocked me at Facebook. I didn’t blocked her at FB because, she wasn’t added anyway. So I felt was unnecessary to do so. I went to look up if she was playing and there she went. Then at whatsapp she didn’t blocked me until a few week laters. She was obviously was trying to play. No thank you!!! Pass!!
M Ladd difference was i did refused her. My point was to see If she was playing games. And she was. Difference was I didn’t play. That’s pissed her off. Temper tantrum like, because the baby jesus didn’t want her. To a point that have received 5 different friend request at FB from Wtf profiles after that. Flying Monkeys.
Don't be quick to move on before you heal. Pray and Heal 1st guys, then slowly pursue another relationship. Learn from your past or even present mistakes. Bless all.
exactly !!! and use your insight of how you feel as reintegrated holly as you test the waters again- these are massive programs of separation consciousness...may take years to return to full balance and we can be very ok with being on our own vs hell... yikes...
I've tried dating since my ex abandoned me while pregnant (after assaulting me & also pregnant)... im still not ready it seems.. which is fine.. I've got a beautiful baby girl to focus on right now. God's love has moved me back to the path I strayed from while with my ex. Peace and strength to all ♡♡♡
Wow! Yes the Peace I felt when I finally had the chance to block this person, enjoy their facades. Masks are all they have? Yes, there are good people out there that we are compatible with, especially when their in the Lord too. No better way to live, with real support, Love, peace of mind and likeness that nothing can compare. Awesome! God bless your channel brother Dave and all the listeners seeking peace, Love, healing etc. Jesus is the answer for everything. God bless and take care.
Child of Christ I’m sorry to hear that. They are here as well :-( especially in super religious societies. This is the most devout Catholic country in the world
Simply Seeking Truth yes. The initial few weeks & months of the “escape” are torturous but once you reach the moment you can hit the block button it’s all downhill & your life becomes beautiful again. Lovely genuine people, who appreciate other lovely genuine people. Xx
Yes! Blocking is amazing! I did that 2 years ago. It was hard at first, cuz you miss the person you feel in love with. But in a day or so you start feeling that weight lifted off your shoulders! Freedom! Anxiety and stress vanish, at least from that area of your life! ❤☺
We were conned. They sold us our dream and delivered a nightmare. The person that we loved never existed. We have to block the con artist. Thank you Dave
They hate being blocked, especially if you changed your number and they can't contact you, they go into a rage probably punching holes in the wall, for sure they take out on one of their toys in the harem garage!
Yes! I changed my number so he has no way to contact and so I would in no way give in to him...and omg I still have holes in doors that I recently began patching up. Over a year now he’s been gone and life is peaceful.
I blocked my ex narc, and he found me somewhere else. He messaged me asking me not to block him, and said “Please, I’m desperate to talk”. I blocked him there too. Best decision I have ever made
Yesss, he’s leaving me blocked voicemails “I really need to talk to you” he’s still arrogant, and not once has he said I miss you I love you I need you .... he won’t even say my name!
@@tellnolies8530 yes! They are definitely arrogant!! They think we will just drop everything for them. I’m so glad you are staying strong and not responding!!
@@212morningstar And then remove the floor away from our feet, without ever giving an explanation. Then it is our lonely journey to try to land on the ground without destroying ourselves. What a journey.💪🏻😂
Yep my ex narc told me he loved me right before discarding me for a girl half his age. Then, when they got in a fight he emailed me that he still loves me. Lol stupid.
@@paulalemieux9005 Hard to deal with that. But the weird part is that some part of me was feeling free. It hurt a lot at that time, still healing after 2 years but I had also a feeling of breaking the chains of some unconscious slavery and somehow I felt free. Floating in chaos but free.
Grey Wolf I completely understand that. It’s been almost a year for me. Unfortunately, I am legally obligated to leave one form of communication open bc we have a child. He of course abuses his privilege of being able to still contact me. It feels empowering to ignore his emails though. I only answer if it’s regarding our daughter which has sadly been never.
Yes. It makes me feel like I hold the power now and I never ever wanna give him that power back. It has always only been about a power struggle with him. If I made ANY contact or responded to an attempt it would only give him the upper hand again. As long as I keep my stance he has nothing on me anymore. I win.
@@kellymoen7176 U nailed it. Was a massive power struggle b/w my nex and I. Any kind of communication during/after a fight was communicated in a way that gave him the power, the play, and the moves. I used to think it gave him the outcome 4 us, too. But, we give ourselves the outcome. It’s painful but we can change our outcome and path. I have the power now, like u, and like u...I’m hanging onto it! Keep thriving, sister. Bless u.
@@luizak500 luckily, it was enough for me to block his number and all social media. I cleaned out my social media "friends". I get weird request.. could be him, maybe not. Thankfully I moved a month after the discard 👏🏽
“I’ve always had a crush on you”. They stalk your social media, gain information about you. Then pretend to be the perfect person for you. Pray for discernment because they are wolves in sheep clothing.
When you finally block the Narc, do it for yourself to heal and move on, rather than seeking revenge. I blocked my narc on social media and on my phone, but found myself still checking on her social media by looking at mutual friend's social media and also doing drive by's past her house. These covert operations will only make you feel worse when you see happy pictures posted with the new supply and seeing the new supply's car in the driveway or them being together outside. When you go NO CONTACT it must be complete.....let go completely and never look back!
Gary what the hell man. I found you on another video about how accurate your comment was! And yet here you are literally talking for me. Lmao what the hell. Yeah man, this is really tough, it hurts and I’m not too sure how this will all play out.
@@PZJJProductions Yeah, it is tough and it does hurt and it is very hard to do the right thing! The right thing is... We have to be strong and stick with the plan of total no contact and try our best to get them out of our minds.
Post Narcissistic Stress Disorder PNSD when you look for a therapist find someone who specializes in Trauma domestic violence or sexual abuse because we live in a war zone when we are with Narcissist on pins and needles
The narcissists are blessing blockers, so it is only fair that we continue to block them from further ATTEMPTS that's not conducive to our happiness.....They should never have access to us beautiful empaths again. NEVER🧡 Stay encouraged survivors & keep winning 💯
yesss i told him you act like you the only man has loved me he said...no man will love you like me, i said if this is how you love your friend... i dont want to be your enemy
My ex narc used to say "I'm marrying my best friend..(he was also still married to his wife) and he would say I fell in love the first time I saw you.. You're the best thing that has, ever happened to me.. I never want you to cry...we can go retire wherever you want to in the future" the list is endless.. They kinda, tell you what you wanna hear and realise that you are kind hearted and they try and imitate you. They are nothing but low life and heartless creatures.. Mine was still married and had other women on the side when he got with me...tgey still expect you to carry on as normal after they've been exposed... DO NOT fall for their fake apologies and stay away.. Block block block them out of your life! 🏃♀️
These people are just emotionless beings.. They abuse you in every which way they possibly can, physically emotionally and will force themselves on you after building up trust. You feel you can't do anything about it cos you've allowed them into your life and trusted them so much and put yourself in that position.. May we heal slowly but surely, as these people will never be happy, this is their punishment xx
Haha I think most of them have all the signs of being a classic narc but some are more psycho than others.. My one is a psychopath too and would throw innocent things back in my face that I had told him and accuse me of allsorts.. They are pathetic creatures... I hope I can get away from mine without any more hassle 😩🙄
My ex would try to get me to move in with him. I’d say there’s nowhere for any of my stuff. He would get a measuring tape start walking around the yard blocking out the huge add-on that was going to be mine with a deluxe kitchen hot tub etc. Not one nail or board was ever lifted. I dated him on and off for years and took care of his home his children his animals the cooking decorating furniture EVERYTHING and after his triangulating me with all his exes and skanky business associates, devaluing and discarding me until I was DONE- his exiting comment that he screamed at his daughter was he needed someone who would take care of his house and be there for his kids LOL. His daughter said well dad you know that’s all Cali did -you did it to yourself. He threw an ashtray at her head and it shattered on the wall behind her. Block that mothah and you will be glad you did.
Like it's a magical spell we get hypnotized ,it's like a surreal dream ,it's only when we have distance that we become clear of their intentions . Blocking is the Best ! ✨✨✨
Oh it makes them CRAZY and then comes the stalking and creating fake accounts ..etc. This is why you should NEVER assume they can't see what you are doing on social media even if you have them blocked. Trust me.
Just do what I did and delete all that shit. Social media is in itself extremely narcissistic and bad for your mental health. The only time I would support social media usage is for business enterprise
I blocked one narcissist because I was tired of his endless nagging and all his emotional baggage that he kept on throwing at me. He called me lamenting why I had blocked him. He sounded so wounded by being blocked. He begged me severally to unblock him. So, when I did, he sent me two text messages then ghosted me for some days. I didn't block him again but refused to reply his messages nor answer his calls. Narcissists can't handle any form of rejection whether being blocked, being abandoned or ignored.. It causes a massive narcissistic injury that may take ages for them to recover from.
I think blocking them takes them back to their childhood trauma so they will feel , pain, rejection over and over again possibly for the rest of their life if they are not self aware.
Ladenna Young people ask me that so often, there are ways upon ways upon ways. I block a lot of people and never in my life did they bother me after that like the narcissists entitlement leads them to do. It’s so causal too. They carry on the convo like you never blocked them. Shows how detached from self awareness/the pain they caused you they are. Scary. I told mine I’m contacting the authorities next time he HARASSES me. Cause that’s what it is.
Change your number. I changed mine yesterday. My dad said its the best. And it was a good plan! My ex narc had the audacity to ask me in the hoover if I'm still angry at him after a 1year and 7months no contact.They are that sick!heat checking me, fucking narc! He Lost.I gave him a huge narc injury! Things are not going good for him! The new supply failed that he tried to replace me with, that's why he accused me out of the blue. My dad also blocked him and my whole family. They never stop. I am thankful to God for exposing the fake!I will never ever go back.
Unfriend and block. It’s just that simple! If they send you a friend request from another page, and they possibly will, ignore it. Narcissists do not deserve to have access to you. When you cut off supply to them it is going to drive them insane. Set yourself free! Your narcissist will remain miserable for the rest of their lives. You, on the other hand, will be healed and living a prosperous life. My narcissist had the audacity to send me a friend request from his real estate property page on Facebook. In my mind, I said to myself, hell no! To this day, it is still pending. I cannot and will not support someone who set out to destroy me.
The Touchofklass. I already unfriend in my Facebook account . My ex narcissist. So after that he send me couple friends requests . So I accept one . But I figured out now it is was my ex narcissist. This people they ghost as. They are evils people. After he discarded me for his New supply . He bring his new women working in his Job. He put front me . His New supply in front my face. He is cheater and Liar. They are bad people.
Why do they love real estate business lol. Mine wanted to use me on his building spree to get his real estate empire, said our first and only child came at the wrong time. His cup begun to get full from then
Amen... I am waiting for a like minded man in my life. One who chooses God. One who chooses Good over Evil I am in the healing process. I need to get over the “why” he didnt LOVE me & “how” could he treat me so mean when I was so good to him. Only God and time will heal this pain.
@@sonyamilana7677 stay strong and positive, take this time to love yourself. Know you are worthy! God is with you and keeping you safe away from the narc. You have WON! 👍♥️
Awesome Dave, you always nail it! A few bs lines from my narcissistic. 1. You are so cool 2. You are special 3. I find you interesting 4. I’ve never met anyone like you 5. You are different from the rest I could go on.....when I look back it make me now chuckle. He’s alway hoovering and convinced I will forget the abuse, gaslighting etc. That was the old me, he has met the new me that won’t give him the time of day, it only makes him want that control s much more. Never happening, what a bore!
I did it. I blocked him. I have known this man since we were teenagers. I am 63. We were married, divorced, but for some reason I continue to let him back into my life. I finally blocked him. I am sad but relieved. He doesn’t really love me, he loves having me around for his own deep need to control. Well, I cut those ties today. Please pray for me to be strong.
My ex narc said: "I've been looking for you my whole life. I wish we had met years ago!" And also, "I haven't been living right, I love your relationship with God. I have been praying for a woman of God." All were lies, but they worked because he pretended to love the Lord Jesus Christ as much as I do.
Yep, the reason I stayed so long... thought our marriage was "in the Lord" - lol They're reprobates, literally, that's what the Bible calls them psychopaths. There's no salvation for reprobates. God is clear on that. ⚘
I change my number because I just don't need that back and forth drama in my life 13 months free and I am loving me like I should and I'm putting God first and now after 13 months i feel so good.
After a few weeks,of total love bombing he said to me....."Don't ever change, if you are still the same in 5years, I will marry you" Ofcourse I wasn't the same, he made sure of that. I managed 13 years with him, but not without breakdowns and mental health issues. I am still picking up the pieces and healing with Gods help. Finding it difficult to think with my own mind as he crawled inside my head, but God willing I know I will get there. I am so happy that God made me strong enough to leave him in the past. Ready to embrace my new life without a narcs fake love. Mrs A all the way. God bless you all
It's amazing how God talks to me through you!! I was extremely sad because of a narc. He's been blocked for a while now but I felt very sad today without purpose I felt emptiness. I prayed and cryed then I decided to watch a video of yours and the first video that popped up was this one. I truly truly believe that God has spoken to me with this video. Thank you!!! I'm in process of healing. Very hard but I know it will be worth it! 🙏🏻
My ex narc would tell me, "You’re the one," very early on after meeting me. He would also often say, "You’re mine. You’re my property." When I'd call him on 'the property' comment he would say, 'well I shouldn't have said it like that'. I am not a possession. I am a person with free will. Our interactions didn't last long.
Hi 👋 buddy!!! They go crazy!! I just can’t take the stalking (riding past my home, befriending my friends, talking to my family members). Their obsession with us should be against the law!!!
It is , I'm compiling all the information I have from the time he hunted me down and stalked me all the abuse all the doctors visits the harassing and continuing to interact with my son and my niece to get information about me and my personal life driving past my house all times of day and night spreading lies and rumors ,. EVERY SINGLE thing I can think of including the therapy and 🤬 medicine I have to take from all the stress and abuse ...it's the only thing they understand...it's a civil matter so start NOW we have wasted enough time that is why they are so comfortable... blind side him if you don't stop him WHO WILL? with no proof
ONE LOVE very true that’s why I have cameras installed outside of my home. Thinking of getting one on my car! We HAVE to stop 🛑 them bc nobody or even believe us!!
@@SONAAwareness It's unnerving and infuriating the stress and pressure they put on us and I'm going to invest in cameras and Dave's seal team ASAP you and another survivor said the same thing I was apprehensive about buying it I thought maybe it would be too complicated for me but it's worth a try
My aunt divorced her husband and he went around and made friends with each and every one of her immediate and distant family members and for 40 years has come to each and every family event. I feel my aunt was betrayed by her family. What torture, to never be free of your ex. I can see once in a while the ex being invited for the sake of the kids but this was an extreme violation of my aunts boundaries. Nothing was ever done and it goes on to this day.
They don't respond well to anyone who doesn't stroke their egos. Block them and they will put every ounce of their negativity energy into smearing you to anyone who will listen and if there is already new supply they will take out their rage on them. Everyone is a punching bag when they aren't getting their needs met. Block them, change your number, ignore them if you see them, do whatever is necessary to keep your peace. They are damaged for life and will do anything to inflict that on the good people.
Also Dave, Never had or wanted a Facebook ,No Instagram account, I am so glad I never use it. I am GOOD meeting the old fashion way. I confess Jesus, and willing to serve my father rest of my LIFE.
My ex said he couldn't understand fb or how it worked. So he never had an account, didn't seem interested. After I went NC there he was in fb. Lonely and alone. I seen a comment he made on some post. Blocked before he made contact.
Dave , is like you speaking to me . I just got out a one yr relationship with a full blown NarC . It’s been three weeks , after begging this fake person I decided to move on . I have blocked the devil from everything . Thank you so much , your videos have been great 🙏🏼💙
@@salonsavy6476 me too! but I also changed everything he ever knew about me. He has no way of contacting me,I made sure if that. We are strangers that never met, because he never existed. He will forever be forgotten.🙏🦋💜
Whenever I feel like there might be a tiny bit of hope. You put out a wonderful message like this it makes me so strong all over again. I logically know and am fully aware it won’t work. However, feelings and the brain operate different. I have conquered forgiveness. However, now the devil attacks me with dreams of my narc every night. It brings all the feelings back to hen I wake up. The emotion is so strong. But in reality I’m fully aware and don’t have those feelings. Pray for me please. The dreams are every night. If I wake up. And fall back asleep the dream picks up right where it left off all night long every night. lol thank you for your prayers!
Stay strong, I still get those occasionally, it's a side effect of the trauma bond. Just remember who you have feelings for doesn't really exist, all an act! 🙏
Try to be mindful that you didn’t fall in love with a person, you fell in love with the idea of a person. The person you “loved” doesn’t exist. It was all fake, a fraud, a con. You deserve better. You deserve authenticity. Go ahead and long for love - rather, to be loved authentically.
Every time I feel like I’m drifting away from my healing process, his videos just pops up on my UA-cam page and I’m back on track again. God made you apart of my healing process. Thank you for doing this we really appreciate you.
I blocked my narc and he went nuts. Eventually he got so drunk & pilled up he called the police and told them to meet him at my house to force me out of my house to talk to him. It worked to my advantage because I had been reporting his crimes to them and they didn’t believe me. Now they believe me.
This channel NEEDS to grow Be grateful you came across it. The devil uses these people to destroy you. You can follow this channel and learn how to identify them but you NEED the Holy Spirit to discern especially in the dark times ahead.
I blocked someone on everything and even changed my number… next thing I know I had two emails from this person. How do I get rid of them for good? This is mentally exhausting.
It's almost 2 years since I blocked and I ran away from the city and the home I had and I still heal, I'm so grateful I'm alive 🙏 I've learned a lot about myself the last few years, and I have learned a lot about narcissist, I thank God for this knowledge 🙏 Amen 🙏❤️🙏
I have to put this out there. Had my narc not died, I truly don't know when I would have gotten out. I'm in no way saying that I'd wish anyone dead and I grieved terribly inspite of the horrendous abuse but it took this permanent removal from my life for me to end up here and healing.
After being blocked, my ex narc started harassing my elderly parents via email and text- until I taught them how to block, too. "Low hanging, naive fruit..." Yep, that was me! Thank you, Dave.
I have never felt this way about someone before.... I want us to grow old together... I can’t believe I have finally found my soulmate... I wish I had met you earlier in my life... you are the better version of me... you bring out the best in me.... Dave... the list is endless 🥵 They are FULL of faecesl💩
I had all those exact words said to me too, his actions didn't back them up though. Like banging your head in a brick wall time and time again 🙄 my head is no longer sore 2 mnth no contact and getting stronger by the day 💪
" you taught me how to be a man" yet, turned around saying before the discard, " you have a different definition of what a man is." All because he didn't want to do better apparently. I'm disgusted.
I think blocking them then changing your number is also a good idea because they like holding on to people numbers and pictures a lot for years. They can even ring you off other numbers come hoover time.
The best phrase EVER is HAREM GARAGE. I'm so glad that's always been a part of your channel. That description of being "Mr A or Mr B" too. I never heard that word or phrase "HAREM GARAGE" until your channel like 5 years ago...AND those words got me out of a bad relationship. I realized I was being a "Mrs B," as you call it, while I was settling for a not so good, one-sided, FBW interaction with an ex-girlfriend I used to have a relationship
I wish I heard this when I was trying to understand how he moved on so quickly and so fast and was ‘so happy.’ This is a great channel, spread the word against these demons
Blocking was a lot easier than to stay in that hell hole of a relationship void of anything to do with love, embrace the experience because if you cant get over it you will never love yourself...
I was the person who needed this...I have had no contact for 45 days of no contact but I would unblock him and then reading his texts and listening to his voice mails was dragging me back into the mud...I will block and delete!!! Thank you!!! I love your approach and your passion!!! I prayed last night and asked God for help and “found” your channel tonight❤️Be blessed!!!!
"I will love you forever" "There are no deal breakers" "You are such a good provider" And lets not forget the classics: "I only lie to protect myself" "You made me do drugs and drink constantly for 25 years" They best way to know they are lying is if they are speaking. Beware of unsolicited information offered by the narc because it is a lie. Their existence with you and everyone else is a lie. Does their personality or demeanor change when they are drunk or high becoming friendlier or more intimate? Do they flirt with others when they are drinking or high? Red flags!
His tone was so heavenly and I thought everything he said was sarcastic. He said love u without ever getting to know me ... and anytime I’d talk about emotions he would hang up and not discuss it with me
After 20+ years of bs, I’m Mr. B no more. Blocked on every social media and all photos gone. First day of a new chapter. Praying that I can finally heal for real. Dave, thank you for everything.
“I get it now,” “I was stupid,” “I know I hurt you and I’m just happy you’re letting me talk to you after what I did (all while tearing up and holding my hand). “I love you so much, guess I’m not very good at showing it.” Bla bla bla bla bla...🙄
"I've been waiting all my life for someone like you " 🤣 also said we've been together a year and I can't wait for the next year then discarded me the very next day
At a time I did not block my x narcissist, then i was tricked on letting her stay overnight in my spare room as she had nowhere to stay that night. After helping her a few weeks later i discovered she told my friends I was going into her room that night and was troubling her? True i did go into her room a few times but to see why she was crying. I talked to her to comfort her but she failed to say that when she made her claimes to my friends. Everything you do and say will be twisted and used against you. Block the narcissist and never help them. You will never find a more dishonest twisted and evil person in all your days of life. So drop them, stop them and never help them. Narcissist work in this way all the time and don't care about you even when you help them. Lucky for me this back fired on my x narcissist so she left the area where I lived and never came back. When the truth came out everyone new it, being the coward she was she did a runner. She could not stand the fact that she was caught lying and being talked about was too much for her. This is what can happen if you don't block them. They are dangerous trouble to everyone.
“Everything you do and say will be twisted and used against you” “Never help them” HALLELUJAH ‼️👏👏👏 you are preaching my TRUTH‼️ They are master manipulators and BIG pathological LIARS🤥
Is true Brian Wilson. Narcissist is demons. Destroy you feelings. And twisted everything they do . They are cheaters and Liars. We need to finish with this people evils . For the rest are life. They are bad people.
You are so right. Its important to block them off for faster healing. Its helped me a great deal. Amen may the Lord shut them out for good I pray in Jesus mighty name Amen
After my Narc husband left me and we separated for three months he came back and said that “God” spoke to him and he’s a changed man! so year later he leaves me again no reason no closure! 🤷🏻♀️ but this time I filled for a divorce I’m really happy about that!👏😃 no contact , no contact , no contact is the best way
I was in a narcissistic abusive relationship for five years. The therapist suggested at one point that I was dealing with covert narcissism. As I begin to look through it battling being thrown away by the narcissist I watched your videos religiously. And a year later I am staying strong after blocking him and his attempts of contacting family and such. Your videos have gotten me to stay strong. Thank you so much
It was very difficult for me to block him totally. But it was the best decision ever. Since i blocked him...I felt peace coming back. Thank you again Dave for this great post. 💪
So true...locking me down so fast! He talked of marriage. I said no way... block the bastard forever! Trickster...he had been doing this his whole life!
It’s amazing you are almost at 100K, you deserve all the success after being with a narcissist yourself. I started watching your videos and subbed when you was only a at few hundred subs. More success to come!
The ex narc couldn't care less if I've blocked him. He is too busy juggling between supplies. It pains me that he is off in the sunset having a blast whilst I have to deal with the brokenness he left behind.
They're not "in the sunset having a blast"... you need to remember how miserable they are inside to begin with and every time they have to find a new supply that has to cause anxiousness, anger & hurt in them... they're only really maybe happy for the first few days that they find somebody new and even then it's a fake happy cuz we know they have no joy in themselves.... Stay focused on you and know that God is right there with you wanting to move you forward in your life 🙏🙌💞
I relate this to my mom. She is my narc. And I have blocked her and my gma for almost a year. Healing is happening but it’s still hard. When I took away her supply I found there was nothing but a fake phony relationship. She’s turned a whole family of 30 ppl against me. I’m so thankful you mention God. God bless you
Same... haven’t seen her in 6 years, blocked for 6 months, never felt better. Found out from my dad she drove 3 hours to drive by my apt but I was out of town.
For all that is seeing this video he is telling the truth about it all because I have been through every single thing he's saying listen learn apply it be it do it I pray you do always listen to the ones that have been there done that and successfully came out of it and you become what you never thought you would ever be victorious it's a wonderful you know victory but can only be won through God Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit without him we could do nothing but with him we could do all things through Christ that strengthens us🌈🌈🌈
Dave, you've helped me understand so much about this terrible epidemic that we face in this world. Thank you for everything you do. It would be really cool if you did a video on why they leave possessions behind and or take some of your things when they leave. Currently dealing with that myself. Either way take care, bother in arms.
Go to the throne, Mrs A all the way, shut them down. Nice one Dave, more amour for me to carry and confirm. Have a great wkendr, greetings again from UK
The relationship with the (alcoholic) narc I was with ended 1 month ago after over a year of being together. I knew he had been talking to another woman for months on facebook.. I asked him about her numerous times and was always assured I had nothing to worry about, she also lived in a different state (Sydney, where he was originally from). He had to go up there at the start of July for a family commitment, I spent a few days with him before he left and even got him a cab to the airport, and a few days after he got there border between our states was closed indefinitely due to a covid 2nd wave in my state, which made my anxiety and stress go into overdrive knowing he probably wouldn't be back for at least a month.. We were messaging and calling most days he was there saying he loved me and missed me and that everything was going to be ok. 2nd week he was there, told me he was going to meet up for a drink with the woman he'd been talking to on facebook for the last few months. I was extremely panicky.. He called me before he went to meet her to say he was nervous, but I encouraged him to go because he said he "just wanted to make a new friend" and had reassured so so many times I had nothing to worry about.. He called me after they'd hung out too and was on his way home, telling me he'd had a good time and was proud of me for trusting him and that we'd broken through some paranoia etc.. After that phone call to me, he was on his way to her house to have sex with her. Went along for a week after that acting normal, but was a bit distant. I kept asking if he was ok and would just give 1 word responses. I was so confused and knew something was coming. A week after he'd first slept with her he called me and was being really aloof, then told me he wanted to break up because "He wasn't commited to the relationship as me" what an understatement.. I started crying and trying to ask questions, he hung up on me, and blocked me from social media as well as my phone. Saw all the nasty messages they'd sent each other after that which was absolutely sickening and traumatising. A month later and I'm still having daily anxiety attacks and urges to try to get in touch because I just want answers.. or something. But I know I'll never get any truth or accountability from him. Despite all this though I'm happy to be free from living with the burdens he put on my life, with the constant covert abuse, drinking even violence and crossing my boundaries sexually.. The toll being with this person took on my life was like being on a death march to hell. I lost everything, from my job, house, health, friends, myself and the things I valued most about myself. I became a reclusive, terrified wreck.. Slowly starting to come out of it though, videos like these and other channels have helped immensely and I'm so grateful to not feel alone in my suffering and confusion. My mantra right now is one day at a time.. some days it is very hard to not get out of bed, but I persevere. I want the person I was back before she was slowly ground down into a quaking wreck, I want her back but wiser and stronger so that no toxic, narcissistic scum bag can ever rob me like this again!
Luan Phoenix just remember there’s NOTHING to see there so move along. The mask the narcissist wears applies to every relationship they have so in the end it doesn’t go well⚡️
Went through the same, he used us a charging battery to lock onto the new supply, don't worry he ll do the same to her...and he will be back...and he will end up completely devastated and miserable...without a job, looking like a recluse....trust me...you will overcome this a comeout stronger...at least you know, I wasted 3 years of my life trying to figure out what the hell was happening to me...draining me of all of my energy...being steady and loyal for a few months until he felt fed enough to go out hunting...catching his next prey...trust me you the more you know, the more it hurts the quicker it will heal. A word of advice, when you meet the next man, no wife benefits of any kind before marriage...that is the key...that is where you failed. It's courting without any kind of phisical intimacy and a period of time where you will observe who this man is before you marry, and you get up front about it from the start. Praying for you...I know the trauma...I wouldn't wish it on anyone...I wanted to die...Jesus saved me, I died the day I realized what he had done to me...the pain was so severe I actually hang on to him spiritually for 2 years because I wasn't ready to handle the intensity of the pain, I knew intuitively that he went with someone else but I didn't want to believe it, so trust me its good God didn't give you a way of thinking it didn't happen...it would have been much worse...cry it out and rise Queen 👑🙏🙌. Praying for you ♥️🙏
I mean it was pretty obvious the lies and deceit as soon as I blocked boom new Supply was thrown in my face. So if you suspect something block them and you will find out very quickly. Great video Dave!!! And that is so true new Supply was laughing in the background. Going to take everything I got if I ever run into him I promise to people that I wouldn't do anything and I have to keep that promise please God give me strength!!!!
Getting bent outta shape yelling and cursing and putting ur hands on him will tickle him. U gotta understand narcissist LOVE CHAOS!!! U would be doing home a favor, he would feel empowered like he won if u retaliate. Ignore him and any girl he’s dealing with because trust me she’s already getting the business because he mad that u left😂😂!!! I’m telling u this from experience. My ex narc Keyed my car after I blocked him and I got zero revenge. The Lord said “vengeance is mine. Ignoring him NO MATTER WHAT HE DOES AND BEING HAPPY will sting sooooo much more trust me❤️
My ex definitely used terms like that in the beginning; "you're the best man", "you're my dearest person", "you're my soul mate", and so on. They are exceptional actors until you have them figured out, then you will see just how broken they are.
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I blocked my narcissist at Whatsapp. You want to read something funny? I never added her at Facebook never. How I knew she was playing games? The moron blocked me at Facebook. I didn’t blocked her at FB because, she wasn’t added anyway. So I felt was unnecessary to do so. I went to look up if she was playing and there she went. Then at whatsapp she didn’t blocked me until a few week laters. She was obviously was trying to play. No thank you!!! Pass!!
Another words at one time you were also low hanging fruit that could not refuse them!
M Ladd difference was i did refused her. My point was to see If she was playing games. And she was. Difference was I didn’t play. That’s pissed her off. Temper tantrum like, because the baby jesus didn’t want her. To a point that have received 5 different friend request at FB from Wtf profiles after that. Flying Monkeys.
@@TheChispi25 Sorry, my reference was to narc ology unscripted! Best to never ever even show that they existed and act that way on social madia!
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Don't be quick to move on before you heal. Pray and Heal 1st guys, then slowly pursue another relationship. Learn from your past or even present mistakes. Bless all.
I completely wholeheartedly agree. For right now, being the bride of Christ is all I want.
exactly !!! and use your insight of how you feel as reintegrated holly as you test the waters again- these are massive programs of separation consciousness...may take years to return to full balance and we can be very ok with being on our own vs hell... yikes...
Nope, I'm joining a monastery for nuns and never dating again after the Hell I went through.
@@araliyaflowers3681 yes this crossed my mind as well...
I've tried dating since my ex abandoned me while pregnant (after assaulting me & also pregnant)... im still not ready it seems.. which is fine.. I've got a beautiful baby girl to focus on right now. God's love has moved me back to the path I strayed from while with my ex. Peace and strength to all ♡♡♡
The peace is incomparable. Blocking really is the million dollar answer to the problem. Massive hugs to you Dave! All the way from Poland
And I thought I was going to be the first to say that
Wow! Yes the Peace I felt when I finally had the chance to block this person, enjoy their facades. Masks are all they have? Yes, there are good people out there that we are compatible with, especially when their in the Lord too. No better way to live, with real support, Love, peace of mind and likeness that nothing can compare. Awesome! God bless your channel brother Dave and all the listeners seeking peace, Love, healing etc. Jesus is the answer for everything. God bless and take care.
Child of Christ I’m sorry to hear that. They are here as well :-( especially in super religious societies. This is the most devout Catholic country in the world
Simply Seeking Truth yes. The initial few weeks & months of the “escape” are torturous but once you reach the moment you can hit the block button it’s all downhill & your life becomes beautiful again. Lovely genuine people, who appreciate other lovely genuine people. Xx
Yes! Blocking is amazing! I did that 2 years ago. It was hard at first, cuz you miss the person you feel in love with. But in a day or so you start feeling that weight lifted off your shoulders! Freedom! Anxiety and stress vanish, at least from that area of your life! ❤☺
We were conned. They sold us our dream and delivered a nightmare. The person that we loved never existed. We have to block the con artist. Thank you Dave
She kept calling me blocked just to say how you doing then not call for a few days with the same thing so today I changed my number
They hate being blocked, especially if you changed your number and they can't contact you, they go into a rage probably punching holes in the wall, for sure they take out on one of their toys in the harem garage!
Yep, and then the current toy gets the wrath!! Lived it
agreed Shar!
Agreed
Yes! I changed my number so he has no way to contact and so I would in no way give in to him...and omg I still have holes in doors that I recently began patching up. Over a year now he’s been gone and life is peaceful.
Sue Ristovska my ex wasn’t violent either
I blocked my ex narc, and he found me somewhere else. He messaged me asking me not to block him, and said “Please, I’m desperate to talk”. I blocked him there too. Best decision I have ever made
Love it!
@@lovelylinda8891 thank you! 💕
Yesss, he’s leaving me blocked voicemails “I really need to talk to you” he’s still arrogant, and not once has he said I miss you I love you I need you .... he won’t even say my name!
@@tellnolies8530 yes! They are definitely arrogant!! They think we will just drop everything for them. I’m so glad you are staying strong and not responding!!
Yes Queen just keep blocking him he don’t deserve access to you
They also love to say " I love you forever" the day before the discard.
That's some good future faking right there. They plan it right down to the last nano second.
@@212morningstar And then remove the floor away from our feet, without ever giving an explanation. Then it is our lonely journey to try to land on the ground without destroying ourselves. What a journey.💪🏻😂
Yep my ex narc told me he loved me right before discarding me for a girl half his age. Then, when they got in a fight he emailed me that he still loves me. Lol stupid.
@@paulalemieux9005 Hard to deal with that. But the weird part is that some part of me was feeling free. It hurt a lot at that time, still healing after 2 years but I had also a feeling of breaking the chains of some unconscious slavery and somehow I felt free. Floating in chaos but free.
Grey Wolf I completely understand that. It’s been almost a year for me. Unfortunately, I am legally obligated to leave one form of communication open bc we have a child. He of course abuses his privilege of being able to still contact me. It feels empowering to ignore his emails though. I only answer if it’s regarding our daughter which has sadly been never.
No contact and blocking really gives power and healing. Forever miss A for the narc
Yes. It makes me feel like I hold the power now and I never ever wanna give him that power back. It has always only been about a power struggle with him. If I made ANY contact or responded to an attempt it would only give him the upper hand again. As long as I keep my stance he has nothing on me anymore. I win.
@@kellymoen7176 U nailed it. Was a massive power struggle b/w my nex and I. Any kind of communication during/after a fight was communicated in a way that gave him the power, the play, and the moves. I used to think it gave him the outcome 4 us, too. But, we give ourselves the outcome. It’s painful but we can change our outcome and path. I have the power now, like u, and like u...I’m hanging onto it! Keep thriving, sister. Bless u.
Pressed the block button 2 days ago....felt so good claiming my power back
@@carolclowes2221 Congratulations!!!!!💪🏽🎊
@@kellymoen7176 THEY NEVER HAD ANY POWER! ITS A ILLUSION!
BLOCK AND DELETE!!!!!
change the telephone number if you have to,you don't need that in your life
@Sue Ristovska Move to a new country if you can and change your name. The ex narc tried to kill me
@@luizak500 luckily, it was enough for me to block his number and all social media. I cleaned out my social media "friends". I get weird request.. could be him, maybe not. Thankfully I moved a month after the discard 👏🏽
missma I am glad for you
You can’t with “KIDS” involved
“I’ve always had a crush on you”. They stalk your social media, gain information about you. Then pretend to be the perfect person for you. Pray for discernment because they are wolves in sheep clothing.
They love bomb and throw out those breadcrumbs ...then ghost sometimes for days, weeks ...so much better to cut the cord, block and move on ...
Katherine Beth Cowan yes!
I did the lord show me I walked way the pain is great but I love my self more them this fake love
This vidio was for me brother thank you
I was told that lie and when I start tearing the lie apart, crickets.
When you finally block the Narc, do it for yourself to heal and move on, rather than seeking revenge. I blocked my narc on social media and on my phone, but found myself still checking on her social media by looking at mutual friend's social media and also doing drive by's past her house. These covert operations will only make you feel worse when you see happy pictures posted with the new supply and seeing the new supply's car in the driveway or them being together outside. When you go NO CONTACT it must be complete.....let go completely and never look back!
Gary what the hell man. I found you on another video about how accurate your comment was! And yet here you are literally talking for me. Lmao what the hell. Yeah man, this is really tough, it hurts and I’m not too sure how this will all play out.
@@PZJJProductions Yeah, it is tough and it does hurt and it is very hard to do the right thing! The right thing is... We have to be strong and stick with the plan of total no contact and try our best to get them out of our minds.
Sound advice. Thank you for speaking up.
I'm feeling so bad today. I got discarded and kicked out of my house, 6 months and it still hurts!
How r u doing now, Gary??? Today is 6wks for me. Hurts terribly. It’s very very hard but I’m trying.
blocking is necessary so you have space to heal from the PNSD post narc stress disorder. you heal co dependency & ptsd/pnsd
Hallelujah 👍
PNSD i Love that!!
What's PSND?
Post Narcissistic Stress Disorder PNSD when you look for a therapist find someone who specializes in Trauma domestic violence or sexual abuse because we live in a war zone when we are with Narcissist on pins and needles
Healing 🙂
The narcissists are blessing blockers, so it is only fair that we continue to block them from further ATTEMPTS that's not conducive to our happiness.....They should never have access to us beautiful empaths again. NEVER🧡 Stay encouraged survivors & keep winning 💯
Sure are. U get so obsessed with the rollercoaster. Sometimes I forgot to pray. 😞
What a great comment! Thank you
'blessing blocker' is the most accurate description of this principle that I've ever heard.
Blessing blockers. >>That is so on point!
Arlene Andrea Totally Agree. When I blocked the narcissist. A person I never expected. Started to talk to me. Yepeee!!!
"nobody will ever love you as much as I do" is a big one.
Absolutely! They all say that. It's not a compliment
yesss i told him you act like you the only man has loved me he said...no man will love you like me, i said if this is how you love your friend... i dont want to be your enemy
My ex narc used to say "I'm marrying my best friend..(he was also still married to his wife) and he would say I fell in love the first time I saw you.. You're the best thing that has, ever happened to me.. I never want you to cry...we can go retire wherever you want to in the future" the list is endless.. They kinda, tell you what you wanna hear and realise that you are kind hearted and they try and imitate you. They are nothing but low life and heartless creatures.. Mine was still married and had other women on the side when he got with me...tgey still expect you to carry on as normal after they've been exposed... DO NOT fall for their fake apologies and stay away.. Block block block them out of your life! 🏃♀️
Mine was the exact SAME
These people are just emotionless beings.. They abuse you in every which way they possibly can, physically emotionally and will force themselves on you after building up trust. You feel you can't do anything about it cos you've allowed them into your life and trusted them so much and put yourself in that position.. May we heal slowly but surely, as these people will never be happy, this is their punishment xx
Same story 😔
Haha I think most of them have all the signs of being a classic narc but some are more psycho than others.. My one is a psychopath too and would throw innocent things back in my face that I had told him and accuse me of allsorts.. They are pathetic creatures... I hope I can get away from mine without any more hassle 😩🙄
My ex would try to get me to move in with him. I’d say there’s nowhere for any of my stuff. He would get a measuring tape start walking around the yard blocking out the huge add-on that was going to be mine with a deluxe kitchen hot tub etc. Not one nail or board was ever lifted. I dated him on and off for years and took care of his home his children his animals the cooking decorating furniture EVERYTHING and after his triangulating me with all his exes and skanky business associates, devaluing and discarding me until I was DONE- his exiting comment that he screamed at his daughter was he needed someone who would take care of his house and be there for his kids LOL. His daughter said well dad you know that’s all Cali did -you did it to yourself. He threw an ashtray at her head and it shattered on the wall behind her. Block that mothah and you will be glad you did.
The first date involves intense eye contact where everything in the back ground fades away and you are hypnotised by this monster.
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So true
Like it's a magical spell we get hypnotized ,it's like a surreal dream ,it's only when we have distance that we become clear of their intentions . Blocking is the Best ! ✨✨✨
ohh yes and his next toy gets tormented because he is still angry at you......
Amen sister!
Facts!!!!
@@rawrecovery8701 lolol
Oh it makes them CRAZY and then comes the stalking and creating fake accounts ..etc. This is why you should NEVER assume they can't see what you are doing on social media even if you have them blocked. Trust me.
Yes they do this even if they blocked you... smh
Kelly Marie. Really. I don’t that. I was acept someone strange friend request. And them. Maybe is was my ex narcissist. Thanks. I figured out now.
Very true. My Narc had someone who was on Facebook in my friends list sharing what I was posting. Hopefully I cleaned out my friends list correctly.
Just do what I did and delete all that shit. Social media is in itself extremely narcissistic and bad for your mental health. The only time I would support social media usage is for business enterprise
I block new pages that look sketchy lol
I blocked one narcissist because I was tired of his endless nagging and all his emotional baggage that he kept on throwing at me. He called me lamenting why I had blocked him. He sounded so wounded by being blocked. He begged me severally to unblock him. So, when I did, he sent me two text messages then ghosted me for some days. I didn't block him again but refused to reply his messages nor answer his calls.
Narcissists can't handle any form of rejection whether being blocked, being abandoned or ignored.. It causes a massive narcissistic injury that may take ages for them to recover from.
good!
I think blocking them takes them back to their childhood trauma so they will feel , pain, rejection over and over again possibly for the rest of their life if they are not self aware.
How did they call you if you had them blocked?
@@rifashion8639 that is something they need to learn to get help with.
Ladenna Young people ask me that so often, there are ways upon ways upon ways. I block a lot of people and never in my life did they bother me after that like the narcissists entitlement leads them to do. It’s so causal too. They carry on the convo like you never blocked them. Shows how detached from self awareness/the pain they caused you they are. Scary. I told mine I’m contacting the authorities next time he HARASSES me. Cause that’s what it is.
You are absolutely right !!..I blocked him and started spending time with God..I got peace instantly.
He has been blocked for 6 years now. I get regular text messages telling me 'I know you have blocked me but...' The hoovering never stops y'all
Might you block his phone as well?
Change your number. I changed mine yesterday. My dad said its the best. And it was a good plan! My ex narc had the audacity to ask me in the hoover if I'm still angry at him after a 1year and 7months no contact.They are that sick!heat checking me, fucking narc! He Lost.I gave him a huge narc injury! Things are not going good for him! The new supply failed that he tried to replace me with, that's why he accused me out of the blue. My dad also blocked him and my whole family. They never stop. I am thankful to God for exposing the fake!I will never ever go back.
There is never closure for them.
I hope it does. I finally blocked and changed my number
How can he contact you if you have him blocked?
Unfriend and block. It’s just that simple! If they send you a friend request from another page, and they possibly will, ignore it. Narcissists do not deserve to have access to you. When you cut off supply to them it is going to drive them insane. Set yourself free! Your narcissist will remain miserable for the rest of their lives. You, on the other hand, will be healed and living a prosperous life.
My narcissist had the audacity to send me a friend request from his real estate property page on Facebook. In my mind, I said to myself, hell no! To this day, it is still pending. I cannot and will not support someone who set out to destroy me.
The Touchofklass. I don’t know the Narcissist send friends requests to as. In Facebook with a diferent name.
Milagro Dominguez They will find many ways to contact you.
The Touchofklass. I already unfriend in my Facebook account . My ex narcissist. So after that he send me couple friends requests . So I accept one . But I figured out now it is was my ex narcissist. This people they ghost as. They are evils people. After he discarded me for his New supply . He bring his new women working in his Job. He put front me . His New supply in front my face. He is cheater and Liar. They are bad people.
Why do they love real estate business lol. Mine wanted to use me on his building spree to get his real estate empire, said our first and only child came at the wrong time. His cup begun to get full from then
Milagro Dominguez I understand. Narcissists are all about attention and validation. They are truly evil and pathetic human beings.
I am no longer the naive low-hanging fruit. I completely blocked the ex narc from everything. Thank you Dave for these awesome motivational videos!
Me neither 👍👍🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊
Amen... I am waiting for a like minded man in my life. One who chooses God. One who chooses Good over Evil
I am in the healing process. I need to get over the “why” he didnt LOVE me & “how” could he treat me so mean when I was so good to him. Only God and time will heal this pain.
@@sonyamilana7677 stay strong and positive, take this time to love yourself. Know you are worthy! God is with you and keeping you safe away from the narc. You have WON! 👍♥️
I've lost the only person who truly loved me. Those are the key words to tear my walls down. 5 months narc free. 🙏😎💪🏋️♀️
Yup… mines told me that too an your different from other woman
Awesome Dave, you always nail it! A few bs lines from my narcissistic.
1. You are so cool
2. You are special
3. I find you interesting
4. I’ve never met anyone like you
5. You are different from the rest
I could go on.....when I look back it make me now chuckle. He’s alway hoovering and convinced I will forget the abuse, gaslighting etc. That was the old me, he has met the new me that won’t give him the time of day, it only makes him want that control s much more. Never happening, what a bore!
I did it. I blocked him. I have known this man since we were teenagers. I am 63. We were married, divorced, but for some reason I continue to let him back into my life. I finally blocked him. I am sad but relieved. He doesn’t really love me, he loves having me around for his own deep need to control. Well, I cut those ties today. Please pray for me to be strong.
My ex narc came back and was like "you know me and you got this special bond".... BLOCKED!!
Sounds familiar. The last message I got from the ex-narc before blocking him was: "we will always have a connection no matter who we're with"
Lmao, made me laugh.
Dave your the bomb, your one of my favorites, God is surely using you to get the message out, God Bless 🙏.
Thanks Shar!
Is true . Shar Hughes. Narcissist people they are bad people. Destroy people heart. They are demons. We have to block them for the rest are life.
This message is for me and I receive it in Jesus name🙏🏾
Amen!
Still a message for me ❤ two years later
My ex narc said: "I've been looking for you my whole life. I wish we had met years ago!" And also, "I haven't been living right, I love your relationship with God. I have been praying for a woman of God." All were lies, but they worked because he pretended to love the Lord Jesus Christ as much as I do.
Yep, the reason I stayed so long... thought our marriage was "in the Lord" - lol
They're reprobates, literally, that's what the Bible calls them psychopaths. There's no salvation for reprobates. God is clear on that.
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They messed up!
Yup mines would praise God an play an sing gospel everyday all while drinking… I told him get on his knees an repent
Jesus is amazing... He has always been there for me even when i mess up. I love him so much.
I change my number because I just don't need that back and forth drama in my life 13 months free and I am loving me like I should and I'm putting God first and now after 13 months i feel so good.
Any chance of a date
After a few weeks,of total love bombing he said to me....."Don't ever change, if you are still the same in 5years, I will marry you" Ofcourse I wasn't the same, he made sure of that. I managed 13 years with him, but not without breakdowns and mental health issues.
I am still picking up the pieces and healing with Gods help.
Finding it difficult to think with my own mind as he crawled inside my head, but God willing I know I will get there.
I am so happy that God made me strong enough to leave him in the past. Ready to embrace my new life without a narcs fake love.
Mrs A all the way. God bless you all
lol...wow
What a pretentious pos! I’ll marry you in 5 years if you don’t change! Lmfao! These people are insane!
I heard the same. Don't ever change.
@@Nancy-pv7wk Tell me about it 😊
No contact . It's the only way .
It's amazing how God talks to me through you!! I was extremely sad because of a narc. He's been blocked for a while now but I felt very sad today without purpose I felt emptiness. I prayed and cryed then I decided to watch a video of yours and the first video that popped up was this one. I truly truly believe that God has spoken to me with this video. Thank you!!! I'm in process of healing. Very hard but I know it will be worth it! 🙏🏻
Me too
My ex narc would tell me, "You’re the one," very early on after meeting me. He would also often say, "You’re mine. You’re my property." When I'd call him on 'the property' comment he would say, 'well I shouldn't have said it like that'. I am not a possession. I am a person with free will. Our interactions didn't last long.
Always say…. Your mines an your not goin no where
Dave! You are my favorite person to have coffee with! ☕️ thank you for keeping us strong!
Wow, thank you! coffee buddy!!!
I’m so happy I blocked him and now I’m walking in my healing process leaving the narcissist was one of the best things I ever done
Hi 👋 buddy!!! They go crazy!! I just can’t take the stalking (riding past my home, befriending my friends, talking to my family members). Their obsession with us should be against the law!!!
It is , I'm compiling all the information I have from the time he hunted me down and stalked me all the abuse all the doctors visits the harassing and continuing to interact with my son and my niece to get information about me and my personal life driving past my house all times of day and night spreading lies and rumors ,. EVERY SINGLE thing I can think of including the therapy and 🤬 medicine I have to take from all the stress and abuse ...it's the only thing they understand...it's a civil matter so start NOW we have wasted enough time that is why they are so comfortable... blind side him if you don't stop him WHO WILL? with no proof
So true
ONE LOVE very true that’s why I have cameras installed outside of my home. Thinking of getting one on my car! We HAVE to stop 🛑 them bc nobody or even believe us!!
@@SONAAwareness
It's unnerving and infuriating the stress and pressure they put on us and I'm going to invest in cameras and Dave's seal team ASAP you and another survivor said the same thing I was apprehensive about buying it I thought maybe it would be too complicated for me but it's worth a try
My aunt divorced her husband and he went around and made friends with each and every one of her immediate and distant family members and for 40 years has come to each and every family event. I feel my aunt was betrayed by her family. What torture, to never be free of your ex. I can see once in a while the ex being invited for the sake of the kids but this was an extreme violation of my aunts boundaries. Nothing was ever done and it goes on to this day.
They don't respond well to anyone who doesn't stroke their egos. Block them and they will put every ounce of their negativity energy into smearing you to anyone who will listen and if there is already new supply they will take out their rage on them. Everyone is a punching bag when they aren't getting their needs met. Block them, change your number, ignore them if you see them, do whatever is necessary to keep your peace. They are damaged for life and will do anything to inflict that on the good people.
Also Dave, Never had or wanted a Facebook ,No Instagram account, I am so glad I never use it. I am GOOD meeting the old fashion way. I confess Jesus, and willing to serve my father rest of my LIFE.
My ex said he couldn't understand fb or how it worked. So he never had an account, didn't seem interested. After I went NC there he was in fb. Lonely and alone. I seen a comment he made on some post. Blocked before he made contact.
Dave , is like you speaking to me . I just got out a one yr relationship with a full blown NarC . It’s been three weeks , after begging this fake person I decided to move on . I have blocked the devil from everything . Thank you so much , your videos have been great 🙏🏼💙
It’s the best thing I did to block him, and I haven’t heard from him since that (since New Years). Feeling so much better now ❤️
Glad you did it. This is the best revenge ever. Block, delete, move on, improve your life and live happy.
Me too 🕊
I did too new year's eve 2018.
Good for you, it gets Better
They do make fake accounts to stalk.
@@salonsavy6476 me too! but I also changed everything he ever knew about me. He has no way of contacting me,I made sure if that. We are strangers that never met, because he never existed. He will forever be forgotten.🙏🦋💜
Whenever I feel like there might be a tiny bit of hope. You put out a wonderful message like this it makes me so strong all over again. I logically know and am fully aware it won’t work. However, feelings and the brain operate different. I have conquered forgiveness. However, now the devil attacks me with dreams of my narc every night. It brings all the feelings back to hen I wake up. The emotion is so strong. But in reality I’m fully aware and don’t have those feelings. Pray for me please. The dreams are every night. If I wake up. And fall back asleep the dream picks up right where it left off all night long every night. lol thank you for your prayers!
Stay strong, I still get those occasionally, it's a side effect of the trauma bond. Just remember who you have feelings for doesn't really exist, all an act! 🙏
Because God has us Seb!
Daniel Smith thank you for letting me know it’s not just me. That helped a lot. And thank you for the wise words.
@@sabastiantaylor7209 thank you for posting this, I thought I'm going crazy 😕
Try to be mindful that you didn’t fall in love with a person, you fell in love with the idea of a person. The person you “loved” doesn’t exist. It was all fake, a fraud, a con. You deserve better. You deserve authenticity. Go ahead and long for love - rather, to be loved authentically.
Every time I feel like I’m drifting away from my healing process, his videos just pops up on my UA-cam page and I’m back on track again. God made you apart of my healing process. Thank you for doing this we really appreciate you.
I blocked my narc and he went nuts. Eventually he got so drunk & pilled up he called the police and told them to meet him at my house to force me out of my house to talk to him.
It worked to my advantage because I had been reporting his crimes to them and they didn’t believe me.
Now they believe me.
There is healing in the arms of Jesus. Read Matthew, Mark, Luke and John. God will heal you.
@@VoxLesPaul sorry but there is way too much god talk here. Not everyone dealing with narcs have these religious beliefs like you.
Hi, @@kristinnoguera8632 Those that the message is intended for will receive the intended message. Let's ease up on that censorship pedal, shall we?
@@kristinnoguera8632 agree.
This channel NEEDS to grow
Be grateful you came across it.
The devil uses these people to destroy you. You can follow this channel and learn how to identify them but you NEED the Holy Spirit to discern especially in the dark times ahead.
Yes!!!
Amen!
One of his line with the most genuine look in his eye : ” I have wasted half of my life by not knowing you before “!
Oh what a line...yes
😂 the cheese is real! They’re all the same.. these lines are so repelling now..
Where were you all this time
I blocked someone on everything and even changed my number… next thing I know I had two emails from this person. How do I get rid of them for good? This is mentally exhausting.
It's almost 2 years since I blocked and I ran away from the city and the home I had and I still heal, I'm so grateful I'm alive 🙏 I've learned a lot about myself the last few years, and I have learned a lot about narcissist, I thank God for this knowledge 🙏 Amen 🙏❤️🙏
Amen...way to be strong
❤️You’re on the right path..
Caron Thank you🙏Bless you 🙏❤️🙏
Block you soul mate lol
😂😂😂
This is the end friend. Lol.
@@ladennayoung2939 LOL
Warrior Lissy 🤣
@@caliblue2 🤣🤣🤣
I have to put this out there. Had my narc not died, I truly don't know when I would have gotten out. I'm in no way saying that I'd wish anyone dead and I grieved terribly inspite of the horrendous abuse but it took this permanent removal from my life for me to end up here and healing.
After being blocked, my ex narc started harassing my elderly parents via email and text- until I taught them how to block, too.
"Low hanging, naive fruit..." Yep, that was me!
Thank you, Dave.
I have never felt this way about someone before.... I want us to grow old together... I can’t believe I have finally found my soulmate... I wish I had met you earlier in my life... you are the better version of me... you bring out the best in me.... Dave... the list is endless 🥵
They are FULL of faecesl💩
Right I heard it all…. An especially…. You not goin nowhere…. Blocked
I had all those exact words said to me too, his actions didn't back them up though. Like banging your head in a brick wall time and time again 🙄 my head is no longer sore 2 mnth no contact and getting stronger by the day 💪
" you taught me how to be a man" yet, turned around saying before the discard, " you have a different definition of what a man is." All because he didn't want to do better apparently. I'm disgusted.
@@ingrid_inthesky They take a great deal of rubbish!!!
My narcs favorite line:
"You feel like home to me"
CHEERS 🥂 YES HES BLOCKED‼️
Cheers yesssss!!!! 🤣👏 🥂 😎🔱🔱🔱
I think blocking them then changing your number is also a good idea because they like holding on to people numbers and pictures a lot for years. They can even ring you off other numbers come hoover time.
The best phrase EVER is HAREM GARAGE. I'm so glad that's always been a part of your channel. That description of being "Mr A or Mr B" too.
I never heard that word or phrase "HAREM GARAGE" until your channel like 5 years ago...AND those words got me out of a bad relationship.
I realized I was being a "Mrs B," as you call it, while I was settling for a not so good, one-sided, FBW interaction with an ex-girlfriend I used to have a relationship
I wish I heard this when I was trying to understand how he moved on so quickly and so fast and was ‘so happy.’ This is a great channel, spread the word against these demons
God bless you. Thanks for sharing. You are sharing Godly wisdom and understanding. Again thank you for sharing. God bless you.
Blocking was a lot easier than to stay in that hell hole of a relationship void of anything to do with love, embrace the experience because if you cant get over it you will never love yourself...
I was the person who needed this...I have had no contact for 45 days of no contact but I would unblock him and then reading his texts and listening to his voice mails was dragging me back into the mud...I will block and delete!!! Thank you!!! I love your approach and your passion!!! I prayed last night and asked God for help and “found” your channel tonight❤️Be blessed!!!!
"I will love you forever"
"There are no deal breakers"
"You are such a good provider"
And lets not forget the classics:
"I only lie to protect myself"
"You made me do drugs and drink constantly for 25 years"
They best way to know they are lying is if they are speaking.
Beware of unsolicited information offered by the narc because it is a lie.
Their existence with you and everyone else is a lie.
Does their personality or demeanor change when they are drunk or high becoming friendlier or more intimate?
Do they flirt with others when they are drinking or high?
Red flags!
yes, classics
100% accurate.... they match them all
no contact for 6 months now!!!!! and i feel great! (was a family member) good riddance!!!
Peggy -Well Done!! Family members were the hardest for me.
Oh another classic "I ve done everything and can't seem to get you outta my mind...I miss u"
His tone was so heavenly and I thought everything he said was sarcastic. He said love u without ever getting to know me ... and anytime I’d talk about emotions he would hang up and not discuss it with me
After 20+ years of bs, I’m Mr. B no more. Blocked on every social media and all photos gone. First day of a new chapter. Praying that I can finally heal for real. Dave, thank you for everything.
Dave...I had to watch this again to hold strong. This is so true. Listen to Dave. He speaks the truth. Thank you for the shot of strength.
“I get it now,” “I was stupid,” “I know I hurt you and I’m just happy you’re letting me talk to you after what I did (all while tearing up and holding my hand). “I love you so much, guess I’m not very good at showing it.” Bla bla bla bla bla...🙄
"I've been waiting all my life for someone like you " 🤣 also said we've been together a year and I can't wait for the next year then discarded me the very next day
Thank you so much. You opened up my eyes....you are a beautiful soul*
At a time I did not block my x narcissist, then i was tricked on letting her stay overnight in my spare room as she had nowhere to stay that night. After helping her a few weeks later i discovered she told my friends I was going into her room that night and was troubling her?
True i did go into her room a few times but to see why she was crying. I talked to her to comfort her but she failed to say that when she made her claimes to my friends.
Everything you do and say will be twisted and used against you.
Block the narcissist and never help them. You will never find a more dishonest twisted and evil person in all your days of life. So drop them, stop them and never help them.
Narcissist work in this way all the time and don't care about you even when you help them.
Lucky for me this back fired on my x narcissist so she left the area where I lived and never came back.
When the truth came out everyone new it, being the coward she was she did a runner. She could not stand the fact that she was caught lying and being talked about was too much for her. This is what can happen if you don't block them.
They are dangerous trouble to everyone.
“Everything you do and say will be twisted and used against you” “Never help them” HALLELUJAH ‼️👏👏👏 you are preaching my TRUTH‼️ They are master manipulators and BIG pathological LIARS🤥
Is true Brian Wilson. Narcissist is demons. Destroy you feelings. And twisted everything they do . They are cheaters and Liars. We need to finish with this people evils . For the rest are life. They are bad people.
First time seeing this but you’re communicating such truth!! I’m not even done the video. Thanks for this, an absolute gift. Epic stuff!!
You are so right. Its important to block them off for faster healing. Its helped me a great deal.
Amen may the Lord shut them out for good I pray in Jesus mighty name
Amen
"You're my person" - damn. Those were her exact words. Many lessons learned, most the hard way. But life is good without that toxicity in my life.
After my Narc husband left me and we separated for three months he came back and said that “God” spoke to him and he’s a changed man! so year later he leaves me again no reason no closure! 🤷🏻♀️ but this time I filled for a divorce I’m really happy about that!👏😃 no contact , no contact , no contact is the best way
Toxic people can really ruin normal Individuals, I can’t wait to genuinely laugh and be myself again
I always feel God uses you to speak about what I'm going through! Thanks a lot Dave, you are a tool in God's hands.
I was in a narcissistic abusive relationship for five years. The therapist suggested at one point that I was dealing with covert narcissism. As I begin to look through it battling being thrown away by the narcissist I watched your videos religiously. And a year later I am staying strong after blocking him and his attempts of contacting family and such. Your videos have gotten me to stay strong. Thank you so much
It was very difficult for me to block him totally. But it was the best decision ever. Since i blocked him...I felt peace coming back.
Thank you again Dave for this great post. 💪
So true...locking me down so fast! He talked of marriage. I said no way...
block the bastard forever! Trickster...he had been doing this his whole life!
It’s amazing you are almost at 100K, you deserve all the success after being with a narcissist yourself. I started watching your videos and subbed when you was only a at few hundred subs. More success to come!
Thank you brother- for your courage, faith and enthusiasm. Love is bold- and so is His Message and His Messengers. Peace be with you Dave.
The ex narc couldn't care less if I've blocked him. He is too busy juggling between supplies. It pains me that he is off in the sunset having a blast whilst I have to deal with the brokenness he left behind.
oh they do care, but not in the way we think
@@Narcologyunscripted Amidst the pain, I have been maintaining no contact following his discard over a year ago.
They're not "in the sunset having a blast"... you need to remember how miserable they are inside to begin with and every time they have to find a new supply that has to cause anxiousness, anger & hurt in them... they're only really maybe happy for the first few days that they find somebody new and even then it's a fake happy cuz we know they have no joy in themselves.... Stay focused on you and know that God is right there with you wanting to move you forward in your life 🙏🙌💞
Goblins, shapeshifters, tricksters.
. You're channel is one of the only one's that talks of God, thank you 🙏 bless us all 🙏
I relate this to my mom. She is my narc. And I have blocked her and my gma for almost a year. Healing is happening but it’s still hard. When I took away her supply I found there was nothing but a fake phony relationship. She’s turned a whole family of 30 ppl against me. I’m so thankful you mention God. God bless you
Same... haven’t seen her in 6 years, blocked for 6 months, never felt better. Found out from my dad she drove 3 hours to drive by my apt but I was out of town.
I am so sorry to hear that. I pray for you!
Thank you Dave. All true real. Done.
I do not care how my Narcissistic Ex handles being blocked. After years of his abuse I'm concentrating on ME!! 🍒
Rock on @Cherry Bacon!
@@KatWoodland 👍🍒
I have the spirit of discernment and you are Blessed and Highly Favored! Thanks so much I appreciate you!
Escape exactly like Andy Dufresne in the movie Shawshank Redemption.He kept his tool inside the Bible!
Get busy living!
Healed in a week, after 3rd hoover
Fire in my belly for my Lord yeshua
Your God is a fraud but you're not going to listen to me, I'm just some kind of narcissist on the internet right?
For all that is seeing this video he is telling the truth about it all because I have been through every single thing he's saying listen learn apply it be it do it I pray you do always listen to the ones that have been there done that and successfully came out of it and you become what you never thought you would ever be victorious it's a wonderful you know victory but can only be won through God Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit without him we could do nothing but with him we could do all things through Christ that strengthens us🌈🌈🌈
Beautiful message, thank you so much!! God bless you!!
Dave, you've helped me understand so much about this terrible epidemic that we face in this world. Thank you for everything you do. It would be really cool if you did a video on why they leave possessions behind and or take some of your things when they leave. Currently dealing with that myself. Either way take care, bother in arms.
I've been waiting for you my entire life.
I’m accepting what happened, it’s time for someone new
Amen
Me too ❤️
Stuntbaby me Three💞 blessings to you guys🙏🏾
So I shouldn't be shocked that I'm not the only one who heard, "You're my man. My best friend. The only one."
Go to the throne, Mrs A all the way, shut them down. Nice one Dave, more amour for me to carry and confirm. Have a great wkendr, greetings again from UK
Words and phrases; "we were made for each other", "amazing", "you're the love of my life"
The relationship with the (alcoholic) narc I was with ended 1 month ago after over a year of being together.
I knew he had been talking to another woman for months on facebook.. I asked him about her numerous times and was always assured I had nothing to worry about, she also lived in a different state (Sydney, where he was originally from).
He had to go up there at the start of July for a family commitment, I spent a few days with him before he left and even got him a cab to the airport, and a few days after he got there border between our states was closed indefinitely due to a covid 2nd wave in my state, which made my anxiety and stress go into overdrive knowing he probably wouldn't be back for at least a month..
We were messaging and calling most days he was there saying he loved me and missed me and that everything was going to be ok.
2nd week he was there, told me he was going to meet up for a drink with the woman he'd been talking to on facebook for the last few months. I was extremely panicky.. He called me before he went to meet her to say he was nervous, but I encouraged him to go because he said he "just wanted to make a new friend" and had reassured so so many times I had nothing to worry about..
He called me after they'd hung out too and was on his way home, telling me he'd had a good time and was proud of me for trusting him and that we'd broken through some paranoia etc..
After that phone call to me, he was on his way to her house to have sex with her.
Went along for a week after that acting normal, but was a bit distant. I kept asking if he was ok and would just give 1 word responses. I was so confused and knew something was coming.
A week after he'd first slept with her he called me and was being really aloof, then told me he wanted to break up because "He wasn't commited to the relationship as me" what an understatement.. I started crying and trying to ask questions, he hung up on me, and blocked me from social media as well as my phone.
Saw all the nasty messages they'd sent each other after that which was absolutely sickening and traumatising. A month later and I'm still having daily anxiety attacks and urges to try to get in touch because I just want answers.. or something. But I know I'll never get any truth or accountability from him.
Despite all this though I'm happy to be free from living with the burdens he put on my life, with the constant covert abuse, drinking even violence and crossing my boundaries sexually.. The toll being with this person took on my life was like being on a death march to hell. I lost everything, from my job, house, health, friends, myself and the things I valued most about myself. I became a reclusive, terrified wreck.. Slowly starting to come out of it though, videos like these and other channels have helped immensely and I'm so grateful to not feel alone in my suffering and confusion. My mantra right now is one day at a time.. some days it is very hard to not get out of bed, but I persevere. I want the person I was back before she was slowly ground down into a quaking wreck, I want her back but wiser and stronger so that no toxic, narcissistic scum bag can ever rob me like this again!
Luan Phoenix just remember there’s NOTHING to see there so move along. The mask the narcissist wears applies to every relationship they have so in the end it doesn’t go well⚡️
Went through the same, he used us a charging battery to lock onto the new supply, don't worry he ll do the same to her...and he will be back...and he will end up completely devastated and miserable...without a job, looking like a recluse....trust me...you will overcome this a comeout stronger...at least you know, I wasted 3 years of my life trying to figure out what the hell was happening to me...draining me of all of my energy...being steady and loyal for a few months until he felt fed enough to go out hunting...catching his next prey...trust me you the more you know, the more it hurts the quicker it will heal. A word of advice, when you meet the next man, no wife benefits of any kind before marriage...that is the key...that is where you failed. It's courting without any kind of phisical intimacy and a period of time where you will observe who this man is before you marry, and you get up front about it from the start. Praying for you...I know the trauma...I wouldn't wish it on anyone...I wanted to die...Jesus saved me, I died the day I realized what he had done to me...the pain was so severe I actually hang on to him spiritually for 2 years because I wasn't ready to handle the intensity of the pain, I knew intuitively that he went with someone else but I didn't want to believe it, so trust me its good God didn't give you a way of thinking it didn't happen...it would have been much worse...cry it out and rise Queen 👑🙏🙌. Praying for you ♥️🙏
Great video, brother. So sad, but so true. Been through all of that. God bless from Germany.
I mean it was pretty obvious the lies and deceit as soon as I blocked boom new Supply was thrown in my face. So if you suspect something block them and you will find out very quickly. Great video Dave!!! And that is so true new Supply was laughing in the background. Going to take everything I got if I ever run into him I promise to people that I wouldn't do anything and I have to keep that promise please God give me strength!!!!
Getting bent outta shape yelling and cursing and putting ur hands on him will tickle him. U gotta understand narcissist LOVE CHAOS!!! U would be doing home a favor, he would feel empowered like he won if u retaliate. Ignore him and any girl he’s dealing with because trust me she’s already getting the business because he mad that u left😂😂!!! I’m telling u this from experience. My ex narc Keyed my car after I blocked him and I got zero revenge. The Lord said “vengeance is mine. Ignoring him NO MATTER WHAT HE DOES AND BEING HAPPY will sting sooooo much more trust me❤️
Wow!! Thanks for this message!!
My ex definitely used terms like that in the beginning; "you're the best man", "you're my dearest person", "you're my soul mate", and so on. They are exceptional actors until you have them figured out, then you will see just how broken they are.
yes you are the best man I had that