If you are still Ross's boyfriend 1 year later, please pass on to him how important and meaningful his talk was to me and so many people. His intelligence and compassion will continue to reverberate to many people worldwide for years to come. He is helping to change the world. You -- and his students -- are very lucky to have such a man in your lives. 👍🙂🙏
Thanks to my parents and Madonna I never wanted to be 'like the rest'. I never have any doubts about myself. I am very lucky and this is very sad because this should be a regular situation for everyone, not some 'lucky'.
I fully understand being outside the circle! But why is there nobody in the audience??? It's like no body is listening.. Very sad! We all have the right to live and thrive!😢 Amen
This event was organized by my school and run completely by the students. Initially it was a closed event, only for students and school staff, but only two weeks before the talks did the school decide to open it to the public, so I'm afraid it wasn't advertised as much. The picture you saw of the empty seats was a slide in my presentation and not the audience I was speaking to.
As a survivor of the bashings at Stonewall, they have never managed to silence this lifelong 75 year old activist. I fear we are having all our work undone now. Vote Blue.
I think it’s amazing you lived through Stonewall, but can you really call yourself a “survivor of the bashings” when no one died? To quote Willam, “Nobody was killed at Stonewall.” You definitely endured something and I’m not trying to minimize that. I just don’t want people to read this and misunderstand the history of the event.
By 1:30 I started crying My whole life I have waited to be accepted or rejected. I never understood it in those terms and I’m 53 and it’s STILL happening!!!!! It’s so lonely. I have many loving friends, family, and a reasonable number of romantic prospects and yet I am still lonely, vigilant and stuck.
It was an event run by my school and the students actually planned and set up everything. Initially it was a closed event only meant for students and teachers but only later did the school decide to open it up to the public. By then, there wasn't enough time to do proper advertising. Also, I'm in Taiwan, so not a big English speaking community.
Thank you and God bless you I'm 63 and it's been a very hard road I don't know any other road though. To all the young children hang in there it does get better and sometimes it gets worse but hang in there live your life change the world Make it better there's enough hate here We're here for love. Don't let them distort unconditional love. 💙🏳️🌈🙏😇 And vote blue cuz fascism is at the door again. Anytime LGBT children are free and to live happy the fascist come after us. But we won this war.
I decided to be in everyone's face all the time. If we don't speak up for those who are being persecuted we don't deserve anyone speaking up for us if/when it happens to us.
Thank you, Ross. I am 68 years old and, yes, I’m damaged to this day (“permanently”) despite all the changes in our world that have occurred over recent decades of my life. I am of the LGBTIAQ people. Today, for example, I so endorse the inclusiveness that has now arisen, at least within this division of people. However, it should never be forgotten that it wasn’t until 1984 that the illegality of homosexuality was removed from the statutes in NSW (I worked on that campaign), and a fuller law reform did not occur in that state until 2003. Both basic and fuller law reform emerged only on a piecemeal basis throughout the states and territories of Australia. And then, this is only pertaining to the law of course; the rest is even harder to achieve (as this video well captures some of the myriad of other aspects). When I see worthwhile presentations such as this, and portrayals of other LGBTIAQ matters (along with matters relating to humanitarianism, or considerations of ‘the other’), I often want to ‘show and tell’ to people significant to me. My sister, for example, remains as one of those people (she is the only example of a family member still available to me today). I guess, via this kind of process, I am forever seeking recognition, understanding and ‘validation’ for my ‘outsider’ status. But, doing this is difficult because one just feels as though one is climbing onto a soapbox each time (& that’s not really acceptable, somehow)! There seem to be no solutions.
Same here. Hi my brother who fought the good fight in NY. 63 years fighting and watching our hard work become undone and if Republicans get their way they will kill us for real instead of slow psychological death
I'm 35 and I feel my life has been a waste, simply because society doesn't accept people like me. I'm lost ..... don't see how things will get better. I enjoyed this talk at least
I'm sorry that you're feeling like that. It's not always easy but try to surround you with people who love and accept you for who you are. Thank you for watching❤
the malignant mythology of religion and the repression of anyone who is 'different' can be deadly when shame and blame are used to manipulate. Find and be your true 'self'. Orientation is not a lifestyle choice, religion is.
But for the speaker to blame the current totalitarian regimes' rampant bigotry ingrained in radical Islamism in most of the middle east on Western colonialism from hundreds of years ago - while simultaneously overstating the alleged openness of the middle east society prior to colonialism - is simply ahistorical nonsense. It's a prime example of presentism - that is, taking what you want to be true and backing history into that lens while being intentionally devoid of all nuance. This talk was of exceptional poor quality and framing even if you agree with the overall message.
@@backhand4In other words, the militant Islam is their own doing? Of course that's true. Islam is quite abhorrent on it's own and you see this every day. Moderates are just not following the book to the hilt. Just like Catholicism and the now quite insane the evangelical cults. Moderate Christianity is just not following all texts. All the Abrahamic religions destroy knowledge given complete power. Of course the colonists put in place horrendous laws. All religion stinks.
@@backhand4thanks for your comment. This TEDx Talk was organized by a group of grade ten students and for a first time organozing an event like this I'd say they did a pretty good job.
New Iran people are more where of homosexuality In big plac like Tehran its far mor accepting specially in yung generation its far more accepting but out tahran whete people are closed minded and religion such crimes will hapen i lucky i live in tehran but thos who are out of tehran are in danger with far more% and taht so 😭😭
Because of our heteronormative society, I grew up in the 80s & 90s thinking I was a broken straight woman. It wasn't until my late 30s that I first heard the word Asexual. It took me until I was 40 to realize I was actually Ace & bi-romantic. More conversations like this need to happen.
Its amazing how much hate there is towards lgbtq and still alive. People have done so much to shape the opinions of people towards discrimination of others for anything to differentiate one another, although we are all gods creation. How many messed up straight people do you know? Why is someone so obsessed over someones elses bedroom....thats sick
Very moving, compassionate and painfully real speech. I hope we can continue to support our younger generation to develop a healthier sense of self without the stink of homophobia.
I find this talk unconvincing. I'm 60 years old and even though underrepresentation was the norm. But zero representation certainly wasn't the case. Also, colonialism isn't the only reason why homosexuality is problematic in the non-Christian parts of the world. To represent it as such is more an expression of the imperial mindset than the speaker realizes. Other cultures can come up with ghastly outcomes just as easily. Don't deny their agency just because you ruled them for a short while.
Yes, you are right, but if you trace back to the origins of early Christian thought, rejection and criminalization of homosexuality are geographically correlated with it. In very few places was homosexuality a problem until Christianity and then western thinking based on Christianity spread.
@@vorpal22 That is absolutely untrue. Homosexuality as you know it today was not socially accepted in Greek or Roman Societies, and it may have in fact been more accepted in Christian medieval Europe than in classical antiquity. Widepread homophobia and criminalization of homosexuality is a Rennaissance-era idea.
Difficult and complex topic to address in a TED nutshell format. Major kudos for his courage and willingness to be who he is and state his Truth. We all need to watch out for our brothers, sisters and others, no mattah what. ❤ Love always wins.
Nope, not kidding and I am fully aware of and understand your sentiments. It is a perspective for which you are equally entitled. I just wish you could have expressed it more respectfully in a social media context, but hey we all need to thicken our skin if we value the 1st amendment, right?
@@joecutro7318thanks for watching. I think it comes down to the way we listen. We either listen to get offended or we listen to understand. And you are right, everyone is entitled to their opinion but if your opinion demerits the existance of someone else I think it's time to take a look in the mirror. Once again, thanks fro your encouraging comment, I really appreciate it.
“We won’t die secret deaths anymore. The world only spins forward. We will be citizens. The time has come. Bye now. You are fabulous creatures, each and every one. And I bless you: More Life. The Great Work Begins.” Tony Kushner
Well said, much needed...but how many will listen? More than previously I hope. Most societies need to change their outlook on LGBTQ+ people, because they are people that should have the same behaviors exhibited to them as non LGBTQ+ people.
…well said and will still sadly resonate in the decades to come. One thing I am grateful for is my entire extended family who always has been there for me. My exceptional folks has been the key to my well being. My Filipino Father, an immigrant conservative engineer who had a worldwide Industrial Engineering Corporation who with my modern American born Mother who is understandingly kind who instilled my sense of awareness and self worth which gave me the confidence to be who I am. Then my 2 sets of Grandparents who has showed me the value of respect with a good dose of humor will lead to an amazing journey. Now at 54, comfortably aging and happy to be where I am in life.
@@cuahutemocrex2871 I’m sure it can in many many places. He can still speak on his experience without blanket statements. This is how stereotypes happen.
The entire talk, sound, video, and organization was done by the students of my school and I think they did a good job. I also wish the sound could have been better❤
I don't even to pretend to understand it, but it seems that Islam is as varied as Christianity and like Christianity there're groups that have opposing views on many things. I know that in Poland the Muslims who've been living there since at least the 1400's and the Muslims who've moved there recently apparently disagree on many things.
this need for validation he is talking about in a society which claims to favour individualism and diversity comes down to our mores and morals ludicrously out of date with modern standards. why? because most mores and morals go way back and were formed long before our modern laws were introduced, let alone modern concepts like being free of discrimination etc. sure, mores and morals change but it takes time - we are talking many decades here. our modern laws get changed all the time but most we adhere today are much younger than 100yrs old while the law itself often is influenced by the mores and morals of the day it was introduced. discriminating against homosexuals and practically outlawing it climaxed in Victorian times with criminal codes all over the world made in the 1860s. that was a time when modern concepts of basic human rights and liberties had a different ring to it. just remember what was accepted back then (slavery in the US, death penalties all over the globe, no female suffrage etc pp.) - heteronormativity was accepted back then and the christian churches were preaching it for several centuries before. unfortunately, many things the churches preach do not pass modern standards but are very difficult to get rid off. people needlessly suffer for it. we need to accept the fact that heteronormativity only serves roughly 90% of any population, the rest is left out and discriminating against 10% of any population who can't escape it is neither democratic nor just, sustainable or fair, especially when their needs to live a normal life do not harm anyone. heteronormativity therefore needs to get discarded in all walks of life asap
If your intention is to educate and teach the world to be and act in a certain way - what a sisyfos job and impossible. Change your inner world instead because there is nothing on the outside that is not on the inside. Much easier - not easy but possible. But I do not exclude that what you are doing might be your mission - who knows.
So depressing speaking to an empty auditorium, what the point? I guess if it's posted here that helps get the message out. I think most straight people are not interested. They have their traditional families and don't have the need to questions. They are probaby often horrified about what gays in bed. On the other hand, bravo for him standing up and doing the talk anyway!!!
I believe that was just a slide in his presentation, meant to illustrate some of his arguments. You can hear the live audience clapping towards the end of his talk.
Yes, that was just a slide in my presentation to represent the stage I "perform" my life on. There was an audience, although not big, but I live and work in Taiwan so the language barrier also contributed to not as many people showing up. I appreciate the support though❤
First of all, thanks for the compliment. Secondly, privilege is one of the numerous topics I discuss in my Grade 12 elective course. If we are aware of our privilege we can use it to do good. I volunteered to do this TEDx Talk and a lot of research and preparation went into it. It was open to anyone and I wasn't chosen😊. If my privilege as a white "handsome" man can get me on a stage to talk about something that matters, I'll use that privilege and do just that❤
A brave speech. But it’s a little easier to pontificate when you’re as fit, young, and handsome as Ross. Ask yourselves honestly if you would’ve even bothered to watch if the speaker had been a senior, overweight, and very plain. Yeah, didn’t think so.
Privilege is one of the numerous topics we discuss in my Grade 12 elective course and if we are aware of our privilege we can use it for good. To answer your question, yes, I personally listen to the content instead of judging the looks❤
This shows just what a miserable, hate filled person you are. One of the people who thinks God will welcome them into heaven with open arms, and then gets told by him for your hatred "I never knew you", and sends you to the fire. Enjoy your hate, and misery. So sad.
And yet I did this talk at my school in Taiwan and the entire event was organized by the students, also teach a subject on social awareness, my students love it😊 Thanks for watching❤
I am so proud of you, and so happy and proud to have you in my life as my boyfriend! You did incredibly well!❤
Ditto❤
Geluk julle twee!
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If you are still Ross's boyfriend 1 year later, please pass on to him how important and meaningful his talk was to me and so many people. His intelligence and compassion will continue to reverberate to many people worldwide for years to come. He is helping to change the world. You -- and his students -- are very lucky to have such a man in your lives. 👍🙂🙏
What a lovely, and brave, young man.
Thank you Kelly. Far from brave but I try haha
Thank you, Ross, for speaking up to society.
Thanks for the comment Chris.
One of my favorite TED Talks. Thank you, Ross! You inspire me!
I'm honored❤
Superbly presented....
Your courage is applauded.
Bravo....
Thank you, I really appreciate it.
Thanks to my parents and Madonna I never wanted to be 'like the rest'. I never have any doubts about myself. I am very lucky and this is very sad because this should be a regular situation for everyone, not some 'lucky'.
Your parents are golden!
This video was a great find, at the right time. Thank you for your vulnerability, it helps those of us that relate.
I'm glad that it meant something to you. If this touched one person, then I've reached my goal.
So enlightening especially on British colonialism. Thank you for your courage. I loved the symbolism of moving out of the red circle.
Thanks for watching Thomas. ❤
WTF are you dating about British Colonialism!??? LMFAO!!!
That doesn't explain Russia, China and the rest of the red terror
And I'm still very very far to idolizing any religion. Except Pastawhatever they all basically the same. Old tales that ruins people lives.
This was so moving. Thank you! Made me emotional ;-;
No, thank you❤
Thank you for shining light & clarity
Thank you for your kind words
I fully understand being outside the circle!
But why is there nobody in the audience??? It's like no body is listening.. Very sad!
We all have the right to live and thrive!😢 Amen
Of course there's an audience! What you saw, the empty hall, was the Parliament building!😊
This event was organized by my school and run completely by the students. Initially it was a closed event, only for students and school staff, but only two weeks before the talks did the school decide to open it to the public, so I'm afraid it wasn't advertised as much. The picture you saw of the empty seats was a slide in my presentation and not the audience I was speaking to.
As a survivor of the bashings at Stonewall, they have never managed to silence this lifelong 75 year old activist. I fear we are having all our work undone now. Vote Blue.
I’ll do my best to make sure your work isn’t undone. Thank you for fighting for our right to exist. ❤
Good for you!
I think it’s amazing you lived through Stonewall, but can you really call yourself a “survivor of the bashings” when no one died? To quote Willam, “Nobody was killed at Stonewall.” You definitely endured something and I’m not trying to minimize that. I just don’t want people to read this and misunderstand the history of the event.
Thanks, but I don’t need a political party to validate my life. My friends and associates make a difference in my life, not political parties.
@@donhamill5939 congratulations? 🤷♂️
A beautiful presentation of the truth.
Just sad that some are blinded by the truth. Thanks for watching❤
Beautifully done!!! Well, done!!
Thank you so much❤
By 1:30 I started crying
My whole life I have waited to be accepted or rejected.
I never understood it in those terms and I’m 53 and it’s STILL happening!!!!!
It’s so lonely. I have many loving friends, family, and a reasonable number of romantic prospects and yet I am still lonely, vigilant and stuck.
You're a warrior man❤
Wish I could give you a hug. Beautiful eyes like that should never see a tear.
Agreed. To all. Where is the audience?
It was an event run by my school and the students actually planned and set up everything. Initially it was a closed event only meant for students and teachers but only later did the school decide to open it up to the public. By then, there wasn't enough time to do proper advertising. Also, I'm in Taiwan, so not a big English speaking community.
First, he is stunning, just saying wow very handsome. And great Ted talk
Haha😂 thanks
I had to watch this again 👍
Thankyou
I'm glad you liked it. Thanks for the watch❤
@wernerrossouw8479 Anytime ❤
@wernerrossouw8479 what a wonderful presentation. Eloquent, insightful and heart-felt. Congratulations and thank you.
I appreciate the kind words. Thanks for watching😊
Thank you for your beautiful presentation…😊❤️🙏
Thank you for watching!
Thank you for what you are doing here. How wonderfully explained 👏👏.
Thanks for watching ❤
Thank you for continuing to speak for all of us. You have the soul of a beautiful Human Being.
🌈🥰👍
Plus, Ross is so handsome looking as well 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Thank you for watching. It means a lot to me.
Thank you Ross for this talk!
Thanks for watching Curt❤
Thanks, Ross. Like any day on the freeway, I am grateful for those who use their mirrors. 😉 🪞 Keep the faith. 🏳️🌈👍🏼☮️
Thank you for your kind words
I can only hope that the audience in these Ted Talks learn something from this. 😊🏳️🌈
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I am exhausted scared and nervous what life has inspired for me I wish I can live in peace I feellike as if I am glitch in the algorithm
Ross...brilliant! Thank you....
Thanks for watching. I really appreciate it.
Thank you and God bless you I'm 63 and it's been a very hard road I don't know any other road though. To all the young children hang in there it does get better and sometimes it gets worse but hang in there live your life change the world Make it better there's enough hate here We're here for love. Don't let them distort unconditional love. 💙🏳️🌈🙏😇 And vote blue cuz fascism is at the door again. Anytime LGBT children are free and to live happy the fascist come after us. But we won this war.
Thank you for watching and for this beautiful comment
It’s depressing. Good talk, but we have two options: disappear, or be on everybody’s face all the time, which is exhausting
I decided to be in everyone's face all the time. If we don't speak up for those who are being persecuted we don't deserve anyone speaking up for us if/when it happens to us.
Both are exhausting - Disappearing and being in others face and costly.
Normal, that's the take away❤
Thank you, Ross.
I am 68 years old and, yes, I’m damaged to this day (“permanently”) despite all the changes in our world that have occurred over recent decades of my life. I am of the LGBTIAQ people. Today, for example, I so endorse the inclusiveness that has now arisen, at least within this division of people. However, it should never be forgotten that it wasn’t until 1984 that the illegality of homosexuality was removed from the statutes in NSW (I worked on that campaign), and a fuller law reform did not occur in that state until 2003. Both basic and fuller law reform emerged only on a piecemeal basis throughout the states and territories of Australia. And then, this is only pertaining to the law of course; the rest is even harder to achieve (as this video well captures some of the myriad of other aspects).
When I see worthwhile presentations such as this, and portrayals of other LGBTIAQ matters (along with matters relating to humanitarianism, or considerations of ‘the other’), I often want to ‘show and tell’ to people significant to me. My sister, for example, remains as one of those people (she is the only example of a family member still available to me today). I guess, via this kind of process, I am forever seeking recognition, understanding and ‘validation’ for my ‘outsider’ status. But, doing this is difficult because one just feels as though one is climbing onto a soapbox each time (& that’s not really acceptable, somehow)! There seem to be no solutions.
Amen Brother!
Thank you ❤
Same here. Hi my brother who fought the good fight in NY. 63 years fighting and watching our hard work become undone and if Republicans get their way they will kill us for real instead of slow psychological death
There are still good people out there, keep the faith. Thanks for watching❤
Bravo ❤ thank you
Thank you for watching :)
Yes, I am a lost soul.
You're not❤
I want to meet and know you!
Do you ever come to Australia?
@@cowinwatts9025moving there in a year
@@wernerrossouw8479 are you Serious?? Keep me informed 👍
@@wernerrossouw8479I think of the song by SKIDROW, WASTED TIME . Have A Listen ? Maybe you could change my life 😊
I'm 35 and I feel my life has been a waste, simply because society doesn't accept people like me. I'm lost ..... don't see how things will get better. I enjoyed this talk at least
I'm sorry that you're feeling like that. It's not always easy but try to surround you with people who love and accept you for who you are. Thank you for watching❤
It will get easier.
Ça ira mieux.
the malignant mythology of religion and the repression of anyone who is 'different' can be deadly when shame and blame are used to manipulate. Find and be your true 'self'. Orientation is not a lifestyle choice, religion is.
But for the speaker to blame the current totalitarian regimes' rampant bigotry ingrained in radical Islamism in most of the middle east on Western colonialism from hundreds of years ago - while simultaneously overstating the alleged openness of the middle east society prior to colonialism - is simply ahistorical nonsense. It's a prime example of presentism - that is, taking what you want to be true and backing history into that lens while being intentionally devoid of all nuance. This talk was of exceptional poor quality and framing even if you agree with the overall message.
@@backhand4In other words, the militant Islam is their own doing? Of course that's true. Islam is quite abhorrent on it's own and you see this every day. Moderates are just not following the book to the hilt. Just like Catholicism and the now quite insane the evangelical cults. Moderate Christianity is just not following all texts. All the Abrahamic religions destroy knowledge given complete power.
Of course the colonists put in place horrendous laws. All religion stinks.
The only difference between mythology and theology is faith
@@backhand4thanks for your comment. This TEDx Talk was organized by a group of grade ten students and for a first time organozing an event like this I'd say they did a pretty good job.
New Iran people are more where of homosexuality In big plac like Tehran its far mor accepting specially in yung generation its far more accepting but out tahran whete people are closed minded and religion such crimes will hapen i lucky i live in tehran but thos who are out of tehran are in danger with far more% and taht so 😭😭
Sorry to hear this, but glad you're safe❤
I grew up in country Western Australia 1969, life was tough.
Same in South Africa. Thanks for watching
Beautiful
Thank you for watching.
Because of our heteronormative society, I grew up in the 80s & 90s thinking I was a broken straight woman. It wasn't until my late 30s that I first heard the word Asexual. It took me until I was 40 to realize I was actually Ace & bi-romantic. More conversations like this need to happen.
I'm so happy for you. Thanks for watching, I really appreciate it.
Its amazing how much hate there is towards lgbtq and still alive. People have done so much to shape the opinions of people towards discrimination of others for anything to differentiate one another, although we are all gods creation. How many messed up straight people do you know? Why is someone so obsessed over someones elses bedroom....thats sick
I don't get it either❤
Because “it’s a bad example for society” apparently
He is a natural speaker ! Very well done .
Thank you so much. I really appreciate that
Needed this video so badly. Thank you.
I am so happy to see that it touched you and helped you in some sort of way. Thanks for watching ❤
Very moving, compassionate and painfully real speech. I hope we can continue to support our younger generation to develop a healthier sense of self without the stink of homophobia.
Thank you so much. You paved the way for us and therefore I had the privilege of going on a stage. Thanks for the watch❤
This is one of the BEST TTS EVER. Well thought through with impeccable logic and meaning. A+++
@@bayrum9803 no hes not..troll
Some time people show hate by not saying nuthing and treating it like its not a problem, silence can be louder then word's
This👆 and thanks for watching. I appreciate it.
I, too, knew from an early age. You beautiful human ❤
Appreciate, thanks for watching
Beautiful Presentation! Thank You.
Thank you for watching❤
100% agree and empathize
Baie dankie Ross❤
Ditto & BRAVO To You! :) Great job. I could listen to you all day long.
Really appreciate it, thank you so much
I find this talk unconvincing. I'm 60 years old and even though underrepresentation was the norm. But zero representation certainly wasn't the case.
Also, colonialism isn't the only reason why homosexuality is problematic in the non-Christian parts of the world. To represent it as such is more an expression of the imperial mindset than the speaker realizes. Other cultures can come up with ghastly outcomes just as easily. Don't deny their agency just because you ruled them for a short while.
This talk is utter nonsense...
see buddist Thailand !!!!! not evere Religion eats the Brain !!
Danke schön für diesen Beitrag!!! You are great ❤
Thank you for watching❤
Beautiful speech 👏🏽
Thank you so much
What country is this?
Taiwan, I'm South African though
The hatred of us has existed for centuries, not years.
Yes, you are right, but if you trace back to the origins of early Christian thought, rejection and criminalization of homosexuality are geographically correlated with it. In very few places was homosexuality a problem until Christianity and then western thinking based on Christianity spread.
@@vorpal22 That is absolutely untrue. Homosexuality as you know it today was not socially accepted in Greek or Roman Societies, and it may have in fact been more accepted in Christian medieval Europe than in classical antiquity. Widepread homophobia and criminalization of homosexuality is a Rennaissance-era idea.
@@stinookehow sure are you about your claim on the Greeks😉
Thanks for watching❤
Thank you Ross. 🏳🌈🏳⚧
No, thank you Jared❤ I appreciate
thank you for this interesting and very well delivered speech. I really appreciated the perspective and the message.
Thank you for watching, I appreciate that❤
This has been the honest and caring thing I have ever seen on UA-cam it is so true and hit me to my very soul
I am so happy that you enjoyed watching this and that it meant something to you. I appreciate that a lot, thanks❤
Difficult and complex topic to address in a TED nutshell format. Major kudos for his courage and willingness to be who he is and state his Truth. We all need to watch out for our brothers, sisters and others, no mattah what. ❤ Love always wins.
Nope, not kidding and I am fully aware of and understand your sentiments. It is a perspective for which you are equally entitled. I just wish you could have expressed it more respectfully in a social media context, but hey we all need to thicken our skin if we value the 1st amendment, right?
There is no such thing as "his truth". Truth is not relative. This is his opinion.
@@joecutro7318thanks for watching. I think it comes down to the way we listen. We either listen to get offended or we listen to understand. And you are right, everyone is entitled to their opinion but if your opinion demerits the existance of someone else I think it's time to take a look in the mirror. Once again, thanks fro your encouraging comment, I really appreciate it.
“We won’t die secret deaths anymore. The world only spins forward. We will be citizens. The time has come. Bye now. You are fabulous creatures, each and every one. And I bless you: More Life. The Great Work Begins.”
Tony Kushner
Love this. Thank you so much for sharing and for watching❤
I feel validated!
Well said, much needed...but how many will listen? More than previously I hope. Most societies need to change their outlook on LGBTQ+ people, because they are people that should have the same behaviors exhibited to them as non LGBTQ+ people.
Outstanding--much needed--vital--common sense, for heaven's sake! Thank you, Ted Talks and Ross R-- :)
I chuckled at this. Thanks for watching and putting a smile on my face😂
…well said and will still sadly resonate in the decades to come. One thing I am grateful for is my entire extended family who always has been there for me. My exceptional folks has been the key to my well being. My Filipino Father, an immigrant conservative engineer who had a worldwide Industrial Engineering Corporation who with my modern American born Mother who is understandingly kind who instilled my sense of awareness and self worth which gave me
the confidence to be who I am. Then my 2 sets of Grandparents who has showed me the value of respect with a good dose of humor will lead to an amazing journey. Now at 54, comfortably aging and happy to be where I am in life.
This is beautiful and I'm so glad you have such amazing support from your family. I really appreciate the watch, thanks you❤
He must have had to work hard to get up the courage to speak in such a huge space
I have awesome friends and colleagues who supported me.
😇🙏💖💕🌈🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🌟✨
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Wow - great, brave talk - thank you so much! Perfectly said, and the message needs to continue to be carried forth.
I really appreciate this. Thank you so much for watching.
Well spoken! Thank you!!!
Thanks so much❤
Wow. Thank you. Very brave.
Thanks for watching. I really appreciate it.
BRAVO!
Thank you
Dankie dat jy jou storie so professioneel met die wêreld deel.
Di's 'n groot plesier❤
I highly disagree with him and wish he’d just speak on his experience. It’s really not that difficult.
well it depends on society, community and people around you growing up
It can be.
@@cuahutemocrex2871 I’m sure it can in many many places. He can still speak on his experience without blanket statements. This is how stereotypes happen.
Nice talk. Too bad there wasn’t a live audience there to appreciate it.
Agreed! Weird, then, that there is such a weird problem with the sound.
There was an audience, I was there.
@@ldh781 oh good! 😊
The entire talk, sound, video, and organization was done by the students of my school and I think they did a good job. I also wish the sound could have been better❤
Islam permissive!??
What a thing was should not be confused with what a thing is
I don't even to pretend to understand it, but it seems that Islam is as varied as Christianity and like Christianity there're groups that have opposing views on many things.
I know that in Poland the Muslims who've been living there since at least the 1400's and the Muslims who've moved there recently apparently disagree on many things.
Historically yes....but not any more
Homosexuality was prevalent there once upon a time indeed
Anyone has his IG or social media? He’s brilliant.
this need for validation he is talking about in a society which claims to favour individualism and diversity comes down to our mores and morals ludicrously out of date with modern standards. why? because most mores and morals go way back and were formed long before our modern laws were introduced, let alone modern concepts like being free of discrimination etc.
sure, mores and morals change but it takes time - we are talking many decades here.
our modern laws get changed all the time but most we adhere today are much younger than 100yrs old while the law itself often is influenced by the mores and morals of the day it was introduced.
discriminating against homosexuals and practically outlawing it climaxed in Victorian times with criminal codes all over the world made in the 1860s. that was a time when modern concepts of basic human rights and liberties had a different ring to it. just remember what was accepted back then (slavery in the US, death penalties all over the globe, no female suffrage etc pp.) - heteronormativity was accepted back then and the christian churches were preaching it for several centuries before. unfortunately, many things the churches preach do not pass modern standards but are very difficult to get rid off. people needlessly suffer for it.
we need to accept the fact that heteronormativity only serves roughly 90% of any population, the rest is left out and discriminating against 10% of any population who can't escape it is neither democratic nor just, sustainable or fair, especially when their needs to live a normal life do not harm anyone. heteronormativity therefore needs to get discarded in all walks of life asap
Thanks for watching, I really appreciate the support❤
If your intention is to educate and teach the world to be and act in a certain way - what a sisyfos job and impossible. Change your inner world instead because there is nothing on the outside that is not on the inside. Much easier - not easy but possible. But I do not exclude that what you are doing might be your mission - who knows.
The intention is to educate, I however was told to be and act in a certain way. Thanks for your comment❤
So depressing speaking to an empty auditorium, what the point? I guess if it's posted here that helps get the message out. I think most straight people are not interested. They have their traditional families and don't have the need to questions. They are probaby often horrified about what gays in bed. On the other hand, bravo for him standing up and doing the talk anyway!!!
I believe that was just a slide in his presentation, meant to illustrate some of his arguments. You can hear the live audience clapping towards the end of his talk.
Yes, that was just a slide in my presentation to represent the stage I "perform" my life on. There was an audience, although not big, but I live and work in Taiwan so the language barrier also contributed to not as many people showing up. I appreciate the support though❤
Story of my life...
I'm sorry, keep on living your truth and shining your light.
Thanks for watching btw❤
So trots op jou Werner, wel gedaan!
❤️🏳️🌈❤️
Dankie Mia❤❤
Another Ross! We're rare.
Are we? Haha, thanks for watching❤
What a strange coincidence that all these queer struggle tedx videos are of classically handsome white men.
First of all, thanks for the compliment. Secondly, privilege is one of the numerous topics I discuss in my Grade 12 elective course. If we are aware of our privilege we can use it to do good. I volunteered to do this TEDx Talk and a lot of research and preparation went into it. It was open to anyone and I wasn't chosen😊. If my privilege as a white "handsome" man can get me on a stage to talk about something that matters, I'll use that privilege and do just that❤
Great talk... is Ross single? asking for a friend...😉
Nope!😂
Thanks for watching❤
@@ldh781 😄
🥱🥱🥱🥱
thank you
No, thank you for watching and for being you❤
'nuff already!!!
come to 🇲🇾 and u will understand.
danke...cheers... spasibo... merci..
Thank you for watching❤
nice!
Thank you❤
A brave speech. But it’s a little easier to pontificate when you’re as fit, young, and handsome as Ross. Ask yourselves honestly if you would’ve even bothered to watch if the speaker had been a senior, overweight, and very plain. Yeah, didn’t think so.
Privilege is one of the numerous topics we discuss in my Grade 12 elective course and if we are aware of our privilege we can use it for good. To answer your question, yes, I personally listen to the content instead of judging the looks❤
He is talking about individualism, but I bet he’s a socialist
Thanks for watching.
Wrong is wrong no matter who says it’s right!
What are you talking about?
Right is right no matter who says it's wrong...
If I'm not mistaken, slavery wasn't considered a bad thing.... so wrong is right depending on who decides it's right? Don't know, you tell me?
@@wernerrossouw8479 Some people just enjoy dictating other people how to live...
This is what indoctrination looks like.
What part specifically?
I'm curious too?
The love that dare not speak its name won't shut the f up.
Boooooooo
This shows just what a miserable, hate filled person you are. One of the people who thinks God will welcome them into heaven with open arms, and then gets told by him for your hatred "I never knew you", and sends you to the fire. Enjoy your hate, and misery. So sad.
Filled with sht, can't learn
You've got 8 'o's in that one. I guess there's no more in the letter pot?
Lost me at the acceptance in the schools.
And yet I did this talk at my school in Taiwan and the entire event was organized by the students, also teach a subject on social awareness, my students love it😊
Thanks for watching❤
thank you