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I catch so many Hate from so many People. I cant fight everyone of them. I fight last year against maybe 100 Guys and im still alive. I dont want this😅😂 anymore.
I found a piece of paper today that fell out of a girl’s diary today. She described this man that she really, really liked. She wrote that she loved him and the way he made her feel, and she said “the way he carries himself makes me weak at the knees. I love him” I must learn these ways
Every man wants to be respected and we all want to be considered "alpha" by society's standard, but the problem comes when we as black men are caught up in the stare-down contest to prove who is more intimidating. I feel that the black community has this the worst because a lot of us were raised in constant "survival mode" in sub par environments. We feel we can't afford to smile, be friendly and enjoy life. I feel it's a shame that we have to be super serious all the time and if we don't then we're considered punks or not worth basic human respect. I agree I want to be perceived as alpha, but I also have to deal with challenges of other black men trying to size me up, stare down contests, and white people afraid to talk to you. It can be exhausting at times.
DaMusicMane1 TRUE COMMENT VERY VERY TRUE LOOK AT IT LIKE THIS THEY DON'T MATTER GET YOUR PAPER BECUZ WHEN YOU GET OLDER THEY WON'T LIVE AS LONG AS YOU. ..
You're exactly right... I used to be the type to have the "staring contest" to see if dude will turn his head first which symbolize to me weakness... now until I actually thought about it. Everything we consistently do becomes a unconscious habit. Therefore if I want to conduct business with others who are further along than I, approaching them with a stare isn't going to help cut a deal... smiling, speaking, being polite doesn't make a man less alpha etc ... it actually makes a man more alpha because he understand who he is and doesn't care what anyone else thinks...
A man is about power & wisdom (knowledge + work) , learn everything you can learn in life, a man who doesn't know about things is not much useful to himself or others. Master a subject you love! Know the good & know the bad!
A firm handshake is well respected, however, a handshake that is obviously overdone and too hard subtly conveys just as much insecurity as a handshake that is too weak. If someone were to shake my hand overly hard, it would make me think of Sun Tzu's "act strong when you are weak," quote and I'd read them for insecurity and weakness.
Sometimes its just an enthusiastic handshake, learn gauge the person themself buy merit not buy an overdone handshake, id say the opposite for a limp one.
Sometimes a overtly strong handshake is a way for the person committing that act to throw you off balance intentionally. A good example would be Trump’s famous handshake where he pulls you off balance. It’s actually a very effective technique in order to establish dominance and gaining power over someone else.
Black News I hate when a guy grabs your four fingers and not the hold damn hand and they crush the shit outta it....lol i be like "bruh we gotta redo that handshake" lmaooo
@@KingMJM7 next time that begins to happen and slide up and grab the wrist Australian life-saving handshake lol and then tell him that’s how you save a man’s life wrist to wrist show him how to do the Australian handshake and look them in the eye
I just realized why most people are so afraid of talking to me! When you start making people know how to address you, they start to know you're not to mess with..
Great point about eye contact. I notice alot of dudes in my generation and even some older gentlemen are very uncomfortable when we converse and I look them in the eye. They do whatever they can to break eye contact. To me, that shows weakness among other things.
It's crazy how much this relates to myself. I've heard some people mention how I carry myself as well. I'm prior military so that may have a lot to do with it. People especially women can easily pick on a man's inner energy even if he doesn't say anything.
the way you describe yourself is exactly how my Step Pops is and i Never Seen a Man Really Live by His Principles The Way he Does. He Carry's himself like a next Level Dude. People Def Show Him a Different Kind of Respect.
Hey Rom Wills thank you so much for dropping this video. Cause I'm a 28 year old young black man. Learning how to become a man. I never knew who my father was and my mother was not much of a mother. So your videos have help greatly. Keep up the good work.
MUCH LOVE/RESPECT ON THIS 1! U GOTTA DROP MORE KNOWLEDGE LIKE THIS BIG BRO, YOUNG MEN IN THEIR TEENS AND 20's NEED THIS TYPE OF GAME. IT'S CHALLENGING AT TIMES 2 HOLD THAT OLD SCHOOL TORCH BUT I SHALL.
u speaking to my soul old man with that look and aura stuff....i thought i was the only 1 built that way until i heard u. ppl look at me like "nah im good, he might tear some shit up"...it dont make it no better that im the most quiet and calculating 1 in the room. I'm a peace maker first...i'm only afraid of blacking out and going to that dark place too lol. And I snap out of it and be facing 25 to life for acting out on it.
I get the same thing Rom, with so many black men acting like clowns some of us got to get down to the serious business of upward mobility. It appears that most black women don't know how to talk to that kind of brother. They definitely don't see themselves dating cats like that.
I have a request. Could you do a video about how rejection affects women, since women rarely experience sexual rejection. It would be good to see how women react to it and what it does to their ego
Kirjath Hockaday Women do experience sexual rejection, just not the way men do. The sexual rejection that damages, often crushes a woman's ego, is when the man she loves and trusts cheats on her. When an affait or cheating is discovered, a lot of women immediately start to pick themselves apart and doubt that they were meeting their man's needs sexually. They ask "Why would he need to seek sex elsewhere if I was satisfying him? What does she have that I don't, etc....) Trust and believe we women do experience sexual rejection and it HURTS! Both men and women experience rejection, just in different ways. Hope that helps.
I've gotten weak handshakes from my boss at my second job. I've even politely addressed the handshakes with him. He looks out for me and helps me with my future business plans though. What could I do? He runs a black owned business, is successful at 52 yrs old, out of shape average looking and dates pretty women younger then me. I'm 35. I've been told you'd be surprised of how people can be insecure and jealous of you. :)
You've gotten too comfortable with your mentor. He's probably wondering why you haven't moved on yet. If you stay an apprentice long enough, you become a rival period.
Im actually moving out of Northern cali to washington state to start up some of my business endeavors. He actually has offered me greater positions and to run one of his businesses in southern cali!
Rom Wills my brother , you are the truth. I've subscribed yesterday. Listened to exactly 20 of your videos , all consistent, tone of voice doesn't rumble and you know what you're talking about. Great to have the opportunity to learn from you.
As a young dude of 26 I hate that shit too when i get into conversations with other dudes and they ain't man enough to look me in the face when he got something to say. I stop taking them seriously
Facts I’m getting this a lot lately I’ve noticed this a lot too since COVID that shit really emasculated men most men today don’t give respect even when it’s earned dudes today pussy af it’s almost embarrassing that they allowed to call themselves Men it also could be that they envy you when they don’t look at you in the face
peace,king.yea all said was real...I move same way...yea I don't smile alot or even talk alot...GODWILING WE MEET EACH OTHER ONE DAY...WE DO SOME REAL BUSINESS...REAL RECONIZE REAL...STAY UP KING RON.
As a black man, I carry in a way than what is perceived there are others who assume that I am "behaving white." My response, " I hope you have a good day!" Adding that with eye contact and a smile. When you change the misconceptions about yourself, people will either disarm themselves and talk with you or they may see you like something as "not being black enough." My learning of carrying myself was reading the book "Superman to Man" by J. A. Rogers.
Im scared of my darkside as well, like it might consume me as a whole. Last night I dreamt I was aniken skywalker and was persuaded by the sith, no lie. Ive had to monitor myself when dealing with people all my life and its hard. People like to push buttons then play victim when it get too hot. And if you dont like to make people feel bad, theyll use it against you to fuck you up. Its almost 2017, people are getting worse and the darkside has won me lol.
There are quite a few men walking around with great power but to fit in they hold themselves back. Many people don't understand what real power is and how easy it is to be corrupted.
My boy I’m right there with you I feel like a king sometimes not even on no cocky shit just I feel good I’m hitting the gym but then dudes wanna always test or give you the cold shoulder and it always the lame dudes that I know can’t pull hoes or have the charisma of a turtle with no balls the dark side already got me and I’m not going back to being a Jedi simp bitch
This man Rom Wills is the Truth.. I wish I had a father like him growing up to teach me the ways of this evil world. If I did I would have turn out to be a dangerous individual!
Rom found your channel n you helping this generation. Never had a father figure the way you described like with the bike, n that's why I appreciate the content you making. Keep grinding
First of all I want to say thank you for helping this generation of young men to become the best they can be and I really appreciate it. After carrying yourself in a certain way. What’s the difference of someone thinking they shouldn’t mess with you and just being fearful of you ? Or are they the same thing? What I’m trying to see if there’s balance where people don’t step on you but at the same time not being fearful of you
Thorough presentation. Birds of a Feather in terms of the drawing respect from others thing. My best friend told me he knew who I was by how people spoke of me when I wasn't around and how much people respected me in person when he first saw me. I've had girlfriends tell me how much they feared disappointing me... Just had this recently, in fact... I've gotta work on the Cop thing... I always feel the fear from them and it makes me extremely nervous, especially when I don't do things to draw attention from law enforcement.
good content Brother, what your saying is real!, eye contact, presence, strong hand shakes!, some of these cats with bigger statures like some of these wanna be thugs will try to intimidate you covertly it's the silent interactions that take place and how you handle them that define your character.And you are right, it's your body language how you speak and how you carry yourself that makes you a man!, people make perceptions off of that. I,am just now starting back on my workout it makes me feel better and it adds to my confidence, and I like the fact that if a asshole tries to size me up even if he,s bigger than me, fuckin with me will not be a walk in the park!, but I know there is more to a man the just muscle!, but you have to stand up for yourself. our community and some of the younger generations are fatherless!, I had a father but he wasn't active, so I was still fatherless. Some of them think that saggin there pants is being hard are savage and this is supposed to strike fear in those who encounter them , and it in some strange way makes them feel Manley or powerful ,but in the penitentiary it's a while different situation, it doesn't translate.a man should carry his self like a man! but be smart enough to side step the B.S that might try to bring him to a lower level. Thank You Brother for this video!!! This is Confirmation For Men.
First time listening... I carry myself exactly the way you do.... I also use to fear unleashing my dark side.... until the day i did and realized i am capable of wielding it without being angry... I would really love the chance to converse on a deeper level... Dope Vid!
One of your realest vids I done watched this one at least 10x straight 🔥🔥🔥 make me think about when I was a lil one in the neighborhood it was level of respect we had for the men that they demanded from us. It’s hard to respect the males in those positions these days.
I've always wondered why? I have talked to different women and the courtesy that I received would leave me scratching my head. Alot of them would address me as sir. I wouldn't go out of my way to impress them. There have been times I would just say hello, her response would be "hello sir". I am 46 years old. I figured I was just getting up there in age. However, women around my age and older, same thing. I've been asked many times. "Have you ever served in the military"? The answer is no. My question is how can I make my demeanor work for me even more.
Interesting story u told. I’m a black young man and for as long as I can remember when I used to walk into a store or something dudes would be sagging but would always pull their pants up after seeing me walk in. This happens almost every time without fail. Something in my initial demeanor I guess
Man that was one of my running routes I would go up Buchanan and go along the railroad track on to Taylor st. I lived on 13th PL right off Michigan ave we were neighbors.
In prison I learned that actually everyone respects you there’s really nothing anyone can do to you if you feel threatened by others remember the first part
13:48 LOL XD THAT'S THE SAME THING MY DAD TOLD ME WHEN I WAS A KID! MY DAD TAUGHT ME HOW TO SHAKE HANDS WHEN GREETING ANOTHER MAN WHEN I WAS LIKE 5 OR 6!
yea i kinda miss that tho because it felt like i was part of some underground society now alot of people gonna know about this haha going great! when my music is more perfected i'll send you the content! bless up!
Continental African..hahahaha...I like that term. In a way there is so much we can all learn from other cultures man. The continental African men are really that way bro...Their women respect their prescence. When they are around their women don't bullshit...lol
Handshakes is one thing because personally I don’t ever think about it, granted I don’t have a weak handshake so I don’t have too. So personally I wouldn’t hold it against someone unless they really given a weak handshake, some shit you do with a girl. But the eyes, yea, you can’t look me in my eyes(no homo) then yea I find it weird. I’ve been told I’m intimidating too, so any dude who can carry a conversation with me without batting away instantly gets more respect then the next guy. Not saying we have to have a staring contest, cus that shit is weird as hell. Only time I won’t look a dude in the eye is in that case, and it’s only because at that point its like we staring into each other’s souls, which I only do with females, and they love it when I do dat lol
I noticed that some of these women fall in love with the wrong men some less masulant some of these men today are making the women in charge of and controlling. I remember back in the 80s and 90s growing up witch I was born in 1977.. I was with my father riding my bike when I ask him to borrow one of his wrench when I took my own training wheels off..Also in the mid 90s my step father teach me how to drive when I went to driving school Iand got my license in the end of 96 when i was in high school. I remember back in the day my mom work and my dad work and took me and my sister to day care they were working class. Also while back my father used to travel as we lived in Houston then moved from Boston and that we moved to New York then Pennsylvania. My life changed since I was little it was very interesting we had a 4 bedroom house was like one of the houses with gates and the swing set. Can I had a hamster as a pet in my parents had a goldfish. It was very interesting I look back on how I prove myself. It was a great life back then more than it is now.
My Dad always told me to walk with purpose. When you're walking, walk like it's a sunny day even when the rain is pouring down!
"The world turns aside to let any man pass who knows where he is going."
-Epictetus
As a man, you must be ready to die for you honour at any moment. Disrespect from anyone, should never be tolerated.
I catch so many Hate from so many People. I cant fight everyone of them. I fight last year against maybe 100 Guys and im still alive. I dont want this😅😂 anymore.
Men respect men with a King's Mentality regardless of race or background.
Truth.
I found a piece of paper today that fell out of a girl’s diary today.
She described this man that she really, really liked. She wrote that she loved him and the way he made her feel, and she said “the way he carries himself makes me weak at the knees. I love him”
I must learn these ways
I just started having my 16 year old son listen to your videos...He's a fan now
I'm honored sister.
Great mom
Beauty Secret thank you for doing that. Most of us never had our mothers love us enough to show us the truth. God bless you. Thank you again
Show him #stephiscold he may like his videos too
Beauty Secret also salute to you and I wish I had a mom like you ❤️💯
Every man wants to be respected and we all want to be considered "alpha" by society's standard, but the problem comes when we as black men are caught up in the stare-down contest to prove who is more intimidating. I feel that the black community has this the worst because a lot of us were raised in constant "survival mode" in sub par environments. We feel we can't afford to smile, be friendly and enjoy life. I feel it's a shame that we have to be super serious all the time and if we don't then we're considered punks or not worth basic human respect. I agree I want to be perceived as alpha, but I also have to deal with challenges of other black men trying to size me up, stare down contests, and white people afraid to talk to you. It can be exhausting at times.
Yeah it's as if Black men are expected to be certain stereotypes as opposed to be being human.
DaMusicMane1 Real Talk Brotha. I Feel That.
DaMusicMane1 TRUE COMMENT VERY VERY TRUE LOOK AT IT LIKE THIS THEY DON'T MATTER GET YOUR PAPER BECUZ WHEN YOU GET OLDER THEY WON'T LIVE AS LONG AS YOU. ..
DaMusicMane1 well put!
You're exactly right... I used to be the type to have the "staring contest" to see if dude will turn his head first which symbolize to me weakness... now until I actually thought about it. Everything we consistently do becomes a unconscious habit. Therefore if I want to conduct business with others who are further along than I, approaching them with a stare isn't going to help cut a deal... smiling, speaking, being polite doesn't make a man less alpha etc ... it actually makes a man more alpha because he understand who he is and doesn't care what anyone else thinks...
A man is about power & wisdom (knowledge + work) , learn everything you can learn in life, a man who doesn't know about things is not much useful to himself or others. Master a subject you love! Know the good & know the bad!
Great advice.
A firm handshake is well respected, however, a handshake that is obviously overdone and too hard subtly conveys just as much insecurity as a handshake that is too weak. If someone were to shake my hand overly hard, it would make me think of Sun Tzu's "act strong when you are weak," quote and I'd read them for insecurity and weakness.
Good observation.
Litterally just happened to me last week
Sometimes its just an enthusiastic handshake, learn gauge the person themself buy merit not buy an overdone handshake, id say the opposite for a limp one.
Sometimes a overtly strong handshake is a way for the person committing that act to throw you off balance intentionally. A good example would be Trump’s famous handshake where he pulls you off balance. It’s actually a very effective technique in order to establish dominance and gaining power over someone else.
I hate when I shake another man hand and it be weak asf i feel the same
I can't stand it.
Black News I hate when a guy grabs your four fingers and not the hold damn hand and they crush the shit outta it....lol i be like "bruh we gotta redo that handshake" lmaooo
Michael McGee lmao facts. Be trynna catch you off guard like nah bruh REDO!!! 😂
@@KingMJM7 next time that begins to happen and slide up and grab the wrist Australian life-saving handshake lol and then tell him that’s how you save a man’s life wrist to wrist show him how to do the Australian handshake and look them in the eye
I just realized why most people are so afraid of talking to me! When you start making people know how to address you, they start to know you're not to mess with..
Great observation.
Legacy Jones True. People will try and ruin your rep with how they greet you .. you have to check & train people how to greet you
Don't be afraid of unleashing the Dark Side of the Force, my young Padawan.... let the hate flow through you and fulfill your destiny!
I knew you were going to say something. I keep it under control because I'm a Grey Jedi.
Heh heh heh....
If only you knew the power of the Dark Side of the Force, my young Apprentice...
doncalypso LOL!
"VooDoo Child X the Dark Side of the Force is a pathway to many abilities some would consider.... unnatural."
---Darth Sidious---
Great point about eye contact. I notice alot of dudes in my generation and even some older gentlemen are very uncomfortable when we converse and I look them in the eye. They do whatever they can to break eye contact. To me, that shows weakness among other things.
Many men haven't been given those life lessons.
It's crazy how much this relates to myself. I've heard some people mention how I carry myself as well. I'm prior military so that may have a lot to do with it. People especially women can easily pick on a man's inner energy even if he doesn't say anything.
That's the truth.
A powerful presence is everything for a man🤴🏾
the way you describe yourself is exactly how my Step Pops is and i Never Seen a Man Really Live by His Principles The Way he Does. He Carry's himself like a next Level Dude. People Def Show Him a Different Kind of Respect.
Thank you. Some men still follow the old ways.
How does a man begin 2 develop life principles ?
Looking in the mirror is one of the hardest things to do as a man.... But it needs to be done to improve
Hey Rom Wills thank you so much for dropping this video. Cause I'm a 28 year old young black man. Learning how to become a man. I never knew who my father was and my mother was not much of a mother. So your videos have help greatly. Keep up the good work.
Thank you. I'm here to help.
MUCH LOVE/RESPECT ON THIS 1!
U GOTTA DROP MORE KNOWLEDGE LIKE THIS BIG BRO, YOUNG MEN IN THEIR TEENS AND 20's NEED THIS TYPE OF GAME. IT'S CHALLENGING AT TIMES 2 HOLD THAT OLD SCHOOL TORCH BUT I SHALL.
We have to bruh. Things getting out of control out here.
Crazy. My Uncle Taught me The Same Things. Look at Man in The Eyes.
Also Vibe is Everything!
Correct.
Excellent content. You are what you present on first encounters.
Thank you.
u speaking to my soul old man with that look and aura stuff....i thought i was the only 1 built that way until i heard u. ppl look at me like "nah im good, he might tear some shit up"...it dont make it no better that im the most quiet and calculating 1 in the room. I'm a peace maker first...i'm only afraid of blacking out and going to that dark place too lol. And I snap out of it and be facing 25 to life for acting out on it.
I feel you fam.
I’m the same lol
OG am 19 yrs old how do u develop your aura ?
OG how do u develop that aura & look to yourself ?
More powerful game from Pastor Rom. Thank You brother
You're welcome.
I get the same thing Rom, with so many black men acting like clowns some of us got to get down to the serious business of upward mobility. It appears that most black women don't know how to talk to that kind of brother. They definitely don't see themselves dating cats like that.
NkrumahTure I'm addressing in my Wednesday video.
Another great talk! Please keep them coming. A lot of young men need to hear your message.
Thank you.
Black Manhood must be developed,cherished,and protected at all costs.
Superb and magnificent wisdom for Men. Thank you for telling the truth about this.
You're welcome.
I have a request. Could you do a video about how rejection affects women, since women rarely experience sexual rejection. It would be good to see how women react to it and what it does to their ego
That's a good one because women do not take rejection very well.
Kirjath Hockaday
Women do experience sexual rejection, just not the way men do. The sexual rejection that damages, often crushes a woman's ego, is when the man she loves and trusts cheats on her. When an affait or cheating is discovered, a lot of women immediately start to pick themselves apart and doubt that they were meeting their man's needs sexually. They ask "Why would he need to seek sex elsewhere if I was satisfying him? What does she have that I don't, etc....) Trust and believe we women do experience sexual rejection and it HURTS! Both men and women experience rejection, just in different ways. Hope that helps.
I've gotten weak handshakes from my boss at my second job. I've even politely addressed the handshakes with him. He looks out for me and helps me with my future business plans though. What could I do? He runs a black owned business, is successful at 52 yrs old, out of shape average looking and dates pretty women younger then me. I'm 35. I've been told you'd be surprised of how people can be insecure and jealous of you. :)
Yeah that's why I'm careful about the people I keep in my circle.
You've gotten too comfortable with your mentor. He's probably wondering why you haven't moved on yet. If you stay an apprentice long enough, you become a rival period.
Im actually moving out of Northern cali to washington state to start up some of my business endeavors. He actually has offered me greater positions and to run one of his businesses in southern cali!
Dub-B-Tre Good, then you will be out of his sight and he will be out of yours. Mentorships always have an expiration date.
right..but not until spring or Sumner of 2018
Rom Wills my brother , you are the truth. I've subscribed yesterday.
Listened to exactly 20 of your videos , all consistent, tone of voice doesn't rumble and you know what you're talking about. Great to have the opportunity to learn from you.
Thanks for your support. Welcome aboard.
As a young dude of 26 I hate that shit too when i get into conversations with other dudes and they ain't man enough to look me in the face when he got something to say. I stop taking them seriously
MY uncle taught me to always look a man in the eye.
Facts I’m getting this a lot lately I’ve noticed this a lot too since COVID that shit really emasculated men most men today don’t give respect even when it’s earned dudes today pussy af it’s almost embarrassing that they allowed to call themselves Men it also could be that they envy you when they don’t look at you in the face
Hoey bro how do u develop that side ?
peace,king.yea all said was real...I move same way...yea I don't smile alot or even talk alot...GODWILING WE MEET EACH OTHER ONE DAY...WE DO SOME REAL BUSINESS...REAL RECONIZE REAL...STAY UP KING RON.
Thank you brotha.
Fuck what people think. Some will like you... some won't. You'll like certain people and dislike others. The reasons will vary.
That's how it is in life.
These old videos are gold.
The most powerful form of confidence is non-verbal.☯️☯️☯️🐉🐉🐉🐅🐅🐅
OG how do u develop the non verbal energy ?
As a black man, I carry in a way than what is perceived there are others who assume that I am "behaving white." My response, " I hope you have a good day!" Adding that with eye contact and a smile. When you change the misconceptions about yourself, people will either disarm themselves and talk with you or they may see you like something as "not being black enough." My learning of carrying myself was reading the book "Superman to Man" by J. A. Rogers.
Im scared of my darkside as well, like it might consume me as a whole. Last night I dreamt I was aniken skywalker and was persuaded by the sith, no lie. Ive had to monitor myself when dealing with people all my life and its hard. People like to push buttons then play victim when it get too hot. And if you dont like to make people feel bad, theyll use it against you to fuck you up. Its almost 2017, people are getting worse and the darkside has won me lol.
There are quite a few men walking around with great power but to fit in they hold themselves back. Many people don't understand what real power is and how easy it is to be corrupted.
Rom Wills glad to know theres people who understands this
Man I love yall brothers so much. I finally feel home. I just don't fit in normally with most brothers, but here, I feel so comfortable.
My boy I’m right there with you I feel like a king sometimes not even on no cocky shit just I feel good I’m hitting the gym but then dudes wanna always test or give you the cold shoulder and it always the lame dudes that I know can’t pull hoes or have the charisma of a turtle with no balls the dark side already got me and I’m not going back to being a Jedi simp bitch
Funny how I find this video as I'm getting ready to go to an interview. Well done with the video. I agree 100%.
This man Rom Wills is the Truth.. I wish I had a father like him growing up to teach me the ways of this evil world. If I did I would have turn out to be a dangerous individual!
Rom found your channel n you helping this generation. Never had a father figure the way you described like with the bike, n that's why I appreciate the content you making. Keep grinding
I know exactly what you speak of Rom. We are similar in that light.
Thank you.
First of all I want to say thank you for helping this generation of young men to become the best they can be and I really appreciate it.
After carrying yourself in a certain way. What’s the difference of someone thinking they shouldn’t mess with you and just being fearful of you ? Or are they the same thing? What I’m trying to see if there’s balance where people don’t step on you but at the same time not being fearful of you
Damn , I wish I knew you 20 years ago , I would have done a lot of things differently
I think the same thing many times.
Hahaha. I agree with the shaking hand thing. It pisses me off too. It’s like that’s how you shake a hand, man? Damn.. it screams weak.
Thorough presentation. Birds of a Feather in terms of the drawing respect from others thing. My best friend told me he knew who I was by how people spoke of me when I wasn't around and how much people respected me in person when he first saw me. I've had girlfriends tell me how much they feared disappointing me... Just had this recently, in fact... I've gotta work on the Cop thing... I always feel the fear from them and it makes me extremely nervous, especially when I don't do things to draw attention from law enforcement.
Bro how did u develop that side of u ?
You must have balance carrying yourself like a man don’t be no bully bro it’s guys out here will check that shit out
Felt like I was in church after hearing this. This needs to be the in 1st chapters of man law. I def consign on hating weak ass handshakes
Thank you.
Subscribed to my brother Rob. Only sharing this to other like-minded black brothers that can handle this and be articulate.
Thanks for the support.
i still come back to these videos big bro
This one hit home. Appreciate what you're doing on this channel Rom. 🇯🇲
Walk like Alonzo Harris in Training Day.
good content Brother, what your saying is real!, eye contact, presence, strong hand shakes!, some of these cats with bigger statures like some of these wanna be thugs will try to intimidate you covertly it's the silent interactions that take place and how you handle them that define your character.And you are right, it's your body language how you speak and how you carry yourself that makes you a man!, people make perceptions off of that. I,am just now starting back on my workout it makes me feel better and it adds to my confidence, and I like the fact that if a asshole tries to size me up even if he,s bigger than me, fuckin with me will not be a walk in the park!, but I know there is more to a man the just muscle!, but you have to stand up for yourself. our community and some of the younger generations are fatherless!, I had a father but he wasn't active, so I was still fatherless. Some of them think that saggin there pants is being hard are savage and this is supposed to strike fear in those who encounter them , and it in some strange way makes them feel Manley or powerful ,but in the penitentiary it's a while different situation, it doesn't translate.a man should carry his self like a man! but be smart enough to side step the B.S that might try to bring him to a lower level. Thank You Brother for this video!!! This is Confirmation For Men.
You're welcome brotha. You get it totally.
OG how do u develop that side of u from d mindset, eye contact, voice, body language etc
Great video; great message; got NOTHING but love for you Bro!
Thanks fam.
First time listening... I carry myself exactly the way you do.... I also use to fear unleashing my dark side.... until the day i did and realized i am capable of wielding it without being angry... I would really love the chance to converse on a deeper level... Dope Vid!
Thanks brotha.
OG how do u begin 2 carry yourself well and develop real life principles ?
One of your realest vids I done watched this one at least 10x straight 🔥🔥🔥 make me think about when I was a lil one in the neighborhood it was level of respect we had for the men that they demanded from us. It’s hard to respect the males in those positions these days.
Been going through alot of your videos. Alot of the stuff you spoke on my mom told me. Wish I would of listen
I've always wondered why? I have talked to different women and the courtesy that I received would leave me scratching my head. Alot of them would address me as sir.
I wouldn't go out of my way to impress them. There have been times I would just say hello, her response would be "hello sir".
I am 46 years old. I figured I was just getting up there in age. However, women around my age and older, same thing. I've been asked many times. "Have you ever served in the military"? The answer is no. My question is how can I make my demeanor work for me even more.
Just go with it. Accept the respect they are showing.
Excellent video sir.
Thank you.
General Rom-my UncleLester said the same thing-“Boldly look another man in the eye.”
Stare down champion 😁
Interesting story u told. I’m a black young man and for as long as I can remember when I used to walk into a store or something dudes would be sagging but would always pull their pants up after seeing me walk in. This happens almost every time without fail. Something in my initial demeanor I guess
How do I develop that kind of demeanor ?
This is a classic. I'm definitely taking notes.
sir, I appreciate your message. I want to say this though, honor and respect are good. pride is a sin.
I can relate to that cause time to time some male comment without mine provocation or something "I'm not afraid of you" or mistaken for a wiseguy.
Rom for President Ladies and Gentlemen.
I'm honored.
Carry yourself is definitely a DC term.
LOL! Anacostia and North Michigan Park!!!
Man you must have ESP I';m from North Michigan Park how ironic
mrstanbmw I used to live on 6th St. right off Puerto Rico ave and Buchanan St.
Man that was one of my running routes I would go up Buchanan and go along the railroad track on to Taylor st. I lived on 13th PL right off Michigan ave we were neighbors.
mrstanbmw Oh snap. I know where you at. I used to go to Brookland and then went to Carroll for High School.
You remind me a lot of me. :)
Thank you.
I know right! I'm a big fan!
I’m a naturally smiley person - can I still cultivate my seriousness in other ways? AKA: being in great shape, good eye contact
In prison I learned that actually everyone respects you there’s really nothing anyone can do to you if you feel threatened by others remember the first part
No nonsense approach to life AKA having a low tolerance for bullshit..Just as it should be.
Here, take this W! lol.
Yeah, man. A weak handshake irks that hell out of me. I be ready to throw that shit back at'em. That's worst then not acknowledging me at all.
Old school.
99% is the East Coast that does that Background decisions on how where that person carried themself Because I can relate to it.
13:48
LOL XD
THAT'S THE SAME THING MY DAD TOLD ME WHEN I WAS A KID! MY DAD TAUGHT ME HOW TO SHAKE HANDS WHEN GREETING ANOTHER MAN WHEN I WAS LIKE 5 OR 6!
He taught you correctly.
Subscribed. Good stuff.
Thank you. Welcome aboard.
Omg I'm scared of that to I'm experimenting with a control release.
damn!
Hi rom, remember when you had like 2-4 comments a video.. they're starting to catch up!
What's up fam!! Yeah they catching on. You were there from the beginning though. How's your career going?
yea i kinda miss that tho because it felt like i was part of some underground society now alot of people gonna know about this haha going great! when my music is more perfected i'll send you the content!
bless up!
Continental African..hahahaha...I like that term. In a way there is so much we can all learn from other cultures man. The continental African men are really that way bro...Their women respect their prescence. When they are around their women don't bullshit...lol
Felt like this video was specifically for me
Handshakes is one thing because personally I don’t ever think about it, granted I don’t have a weak handshake so I don’t have too. So personally I wouldn’t hold it against someone unless they really given a weak handshake, some shit you do with a girl. But the eyes, yea, you can’t look me in my eyes(no homo) then yea I find it weird. I’ve been told I’m intimidating too, so any dude who can carry a conversation with me without batting away instantly gets more respect then the next guy. Not saying we have to have a staring contest, cus that shit is weird as hell. Only time I won’t look a dude in the eye is in that case, and it’s only because at that point its like we staring into each other’s souls, which I only do with females, and they love it when I do dat lol
Thx I'm 17 I've never truly heard this
Thanks. I'm catching you at the right time then.
Easy to workout too
Remain stoic
Intensity personified sound like the sign Scorpio?
I guess. I'm not big on Astrology.
I always smile.
Already
I noticed that some of these women fall in love with the wrong men some less masulant some of these men today are making the women in charge of and controlling. I remember back in the 80s and 90s growing up witch I was born in 1977.. I was with my father riding my bike when I ask him to borrow one of his wrench when I took my own training wheels off..Also in the mid 90s my step father teach me how to drive when I went to driving school Iand got my license in the end of 96 when i was in high school. I remember back in the day my mom work and my dad work and took me and my sister to day care they were working class. Also while back my father used to travel as we lived in Houston then moved from Boston and that we moved to New York then Pennsylvania. My life changed since I was little it was very interesting we had a 4 bedroom house was like one of the houses with gates and the swing set. Can I had a hamster as a pet in my parents had a goldfish. It was very interesting I look back on how I prove myself. It was a great life back then more than it is now.
great video!
Thank you.
Gives me s ghost from power type of vibe
i needed this Rom😏
You a L.A. cat?!? I don't know why I always thought Chicago or D.C.
I was born in LA but I grew up in DC.
gr8 video
Thank you.
Women I meet constantly tell me they like how I carry myself.
How did u learn 2 carry yourself like that ?
I appreciate the content Rom. Is there an email address where I can send you a question?
Hit me up here, www.romwills.com/contact-rom.html.
I often get asked if im African by Africans as well. I never plugged it to that.
Looking in the mirror will really open your eyes
I find that hard to belive ,you rarely had check a woman... especially sista I check more sista than brotha.
I look at women in a way that lets them know not to try me.
This some real some knowledge
game see game!
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Thank you.
Gems