Jimmy Carr: "There's A Crisis Going On With Men!"

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 1 тра 2024
  • Jimmy Carr is an award-winning comedian, writer and TV host for shows including, ‘8 Out Of 10 Cats’, ‘Roast Battle’, and ‘Big Fat Quiz Of The Year’.
    00:00 Intro
    02:01 How Are You, Jimmy?
    03:07 Every Single Person Has Life Dysmorphia
    08:59 What Is the Point of All This Work?
    12:35 What Is Our End Goal?
    14:08 People Crave the Success Not the Journey
    16:47 You Should Be Feeling Imposter Syndrome
    18:45 I Entertained My Sick Mother
    19:54 The Unmeasurable Stuff Is the Important One
    24:29 Depression
    25:46 Men's Mental Health
    27:30 What Is It to Be a Man
    33:25 Losing My Religion
    33:52 How Do You Deal with Grief in Your Life?
    35:19 The Passing of Sean Lock
    38:27 Business Is Life
    39:12 The Issue Is Young People Are Not Given Enough Agency
    41:52 How Comedy Teaches You to Be a Good Communicator
    45:06 The Importance of Taking Risks
    52:38 How To Deal with Rejection
    55:31 Knowing Who You Are & What You Want to Do
    58:44 Is It Motivation, Luck or Talent?
    01:02:14 Being Cancelled
    01:06:12 Would You Erase Your Worst Moments?
    01:15:26 Artificial Intelligence
    01:26:37 Self Expression
    01:30:51 Jimmy's Eating Disorder
    01:35:31 Advice to Younger People
    01:38:25 Why You Should Sweat the Small Stuff
    01:42:45 Having Confidence
    01:43:40 Netflix Special
    01:46:09 Dave Chapelle Attack
    01:50:38 What Would You Tell Your Kids?
    You can watch Jimmy’s new Netflix stand-up special, ’Jimmy Carr: Natural Born Killer’, out on the 16th April 2024.
    You can purchase tickets for Jimmy’s brand-new international tour, ’Jimmy Carr: Laughs Funny’, here: bit.ly/49u9iex
    Follow Jimmy:
    Twitter - bit.ly/4awtUEe
    Instagram - bit.ly/3PULKbt
    UA-cam - bit.ly/3xrXsEc
    Join this channel to get access to perks:
    / @thediaryofaceo
    Follow our Shorts channel for more content:
    / @ucevqpcb1ljsn07ok1qrr2kw
    My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now - smarturl.it/DOACbook
    Follow me:
    beacons.ai/diaryofaceo
    Sponsors:
    Fiverr: www.fiverr.com/diary

КОМЕНТАРІ • 2,9 тис.

  • @TheDiaryOfACEO
    @TheDiaryOfACEO  18 днів тому +690

    Can I ask you all a favour? If you enjoy this episode, could you please hit the like button it helps us massively. Appreciate you all! 🙏🏽

    • @cjojay
      @cjojay 18 днів тому +14

      Why are you completely silent for much of the time that Jimmy is talking to you? There's no verbal encouragement or acknowledgment and it feels almost like he's talking to himself at times.

    • @peachesandpoets
      @peachesandpoets 18 днів тому +39

      ​@@cjojay
      Not everybody needs a cheerleader in order to talk. When a host notices a confident speaker and recognises that the speaker's contribution is consistent and valuable, the best thing for the host to do is be quiet. Jimmy didn't say much that needed challenging or a push. He either gave his opinion or gave facts, and never tried to demand that his opinion was fact.
      People are tainted by news networks being mostly opinion and argument and have forgotten about what journalism (small J) is. And yes, I know that most such people haven't or can't read this far.

    • @bearpaws5942
      @bearpaws5942 18 днів тому

      ❤🎉​@@cjojay

    • @lesleyhughes3174
      @lesleyhughes3174 18 днів тому +2

      ​@@cjojayI kind of think that he's obviously doing something right! Where are you in this life? Can you say the same?

    • @cjojay
      @cjojay 18 днів тому +7

      @@peachesandpoets
      Go back and listen to the interview, especially the first 20 mins. It's odd. In normal human communication, your listener makes subtle sounds of acknowledgment when you are speaking to them, especially when you sort of ask them questions, like right? Things like that. We give small gestures and sounds like mmhmm. Do you know what I mean?

  • @viktoriaberg8706
    @viktoriaberg8706 12 днів тому +1036

    "Every man has two lives; the second begins when he realizes he only has one." That hit a nerve. Great interview!

    • @JasonBong123
      @JasonBong123 10 днів тому +18

      Yeap. Great quote by Confucius

    • @JasonlaroseLaRose
      @JasonlaroseLaRose 9 днів тому +8

      Jimmy for President.

    • @AlerieHightower
      @AlerieHightower 8 днів тому +3

      Yeah, my hubs is currently having a very hard time transitioning into the second one.

    • @webmaster6269
      @webmaster6269 8 днів тому

      Golden

    • @fhe8584
      @fhe8584 7 днів тому +2

      I saw this quote on a kung fu panda video..

  • @Sagepage818
    @Sagepage818 17 днів тому +895

    " People don't want to live longer, they want more memories " hit me in the chest ❤

    • @WhitP5782
      @WhitP5782 16 днів тому +6

      Yes!

    • @GoogleGogole
      @GoogleGogole 15 днів тому +5

      Agree!

    • @EmergingForward
      @EmergingForward 15 днів тому +6

      Yeah, i want to live fully. This may sound off but i plan to create a death meditation in my breathwork meditation class, just to be AWARE of my mortality and live like I could die tomorrow. Stop wasting time you know?

    • @LifeGambler
      @LifeGambler 15 днів тому +5

      The only way to create memories is experiencing something new. We must keep traveling the unknown road

    • @frankythomas1032
      @frankythomas1032 15 днів тому +1

      I scrolled over your message at the exact moment he was saying this. That was pretty crazy. But yes I completely agree!

  • @daenglishpatient
    @daenglishpatient 5 днів тому +111

    .... I'm 60 years old. I've had a great life. Met a lot of interesting people.
    I think ... this is the best interview I've seen in my life.
    Seriously.
    Watch it all. Share it.

  • @carolinapaez5730
    @carolinapaez5730 9 днів тому +187

    "You cannot have an easy life and a strong character at the same time." So true. It makes me feel so proud of everything I have gone through.

    • @speedrunner9907
      @speedrunner9907 4 дні тому +4

      I can think of an Austrian painter who developed a strong character from a hard life.

    • @007nadineL
      @007nadineL 2 дні тому

      I know that's not true

    • @partiellementecreme
      @partiellementecreme 2 дні тому +2

      @@007nadineL do you know anyone with a strong character who’s had an easy life?

    • @richardhessian4725
      @richardhessian4725 День тому +2

      Totally agree with this statement. You'd think this wouldn't necessarily have to be true, but this is exactly what I observe in the real world (I'm 65). I've travelled the world and my favorite women are Filipinas. Know why? Because they have it rough compared to Western women. They are tough. Mentally and emotionally. They have character from their hardships that I never found in any American woman.

    • @LSSYLondon
      @LSSYLondon 17 годин тому

      I would much rather have an easy life. lol

  • @SenseofAwareness
    @SenseofAwareness 18 днів тому +1892

    Jimmy Carr's comedic style was never my cup of tea, so it is such a pleasure to find out what an interesting, insightful, and intelligent person he is! Thank you!

    • @churnetvalleyrunner3635
      @churnetvalleyrunner3635 18 днів тому +34

      Bruh it’s been uploaded for 45 mins, you haven’t even seen it yet, calm down

    • @peachesandpoets
      @peachesandpoets 18 днів тому +7

      ​@@churnetvalleyrunner3635right? Ridiculous of people. 😊

    • @elliotsober7042
      @elliotsober7042 18 днів тому

      😂😂😂​@@churnetvalleyrunner3635

    • @VanceRefrigeration
      @VanceRefrigeration 18 днів тому

      It’s not your comedic style because you’re a dull person

    • @SenseofAwareness
      @SenseofAwareness 17 днів тому +134

      @@churnetvalleyrunner3635 I never heard Jimmy Carr in an interview before, and when he was at Joe Rogan I didn't even listen because as I wrote I never liked his comedy style. I started to listen and in the middle I realised how incredibly insightful he is. I was so positively surprised so I decided to comment. If you find this to be annoying, well, good for you! Enjoy it!

  • @MacksWolfMusic
    @MacksWolfMusic 17 днів тому +499

    I'm 20 minutes in and Jimmy has already dropped so much valuable wisdom. What a guy.

    • @DrYouMrTube
      @DrYouMrTube 16 днів тому +6

      Agreed, in awe of the wisdom, far surprising many other "experts"

    • @exsapian
      @exsapian 16 днів тому +10

      I needed this podcast perfect timing

    • @prod.lburns3648
      @prod.lburns3648 15 днів тому +6

      honestly the outlook on life he has is amazing. I think the same way but couldn't articulate how I thought about life but Jimmy did a great job.

    • @cardjeh
      @cardjeh 13 днів тому +3

      I'm in the f***ing intro and he's already dropped some :D

    • @paul8972
      @paul8972 12 днів тому +3

      He's so wise remember when he believed the government about vaccine and belittled people with a different opinion

  • @yorkie23D7
    @yorkie23D7 3 дні тому +28

    His comedy style isn't something I go for but listening to him talk here is completely eye opening. Wise, thoughtful, warm. Great interview.

  • @CasMullac
    @CasMullac 9 днів тому +358

    My Dad always worked, 3 jobs sometimes, because he had too. I didn’t see much of him as a kid.
    When I was older (late teens maybe) he mentioned how he feels he missed everything, just off the cuff no real emphasis on it, while we were chatting and cooking.
    I stopped him and said “Even as a kid I knew why you did it, that you had to, that the reason I had food and a roof was because of you. Thank you for what you did. You didn’t miss my childhood, you made it possible.” I think he let go of years of guilt and tension.
    I’m sure he wanted to stop and help raise me one on one, but he couldn’t. You aren’t a bad person because you cant.

    • @teomosu
      @teomosu 7 днів тому +40

      The fact you acknowledged that shows that it was worth his sacrifice. Well done you

    • @ezo2161
      @ezo2161 7 днів тому +15

      That's lovely, I bet your dad is proud of you

    • @CasMullac
      @CasMullac 7 днів тому +34

      @@teomosu The poor guy broke down. I think he’d been told by numerous people he had “neglected” us or not supported my mum raising us, I think even told by my mum.
      I know they had their differences but they are both great parents.
      But everyone always praises the mother as having the “hardest job in the world” while Dads often work work work, never get to spend time with their family then get demonised for “Not being around”
      I know which kind of life seems hardest to me. I couldn’t imagine hardly seeing my kids then spending the rest of my life wondering if anyone noticed what I had to do, cared, was grateful, wanted me around while also saying I never helped.

    • @VanMan83
      @VanMan83 7 днів тому +10

      You're a good son.

    • @Clevelandsteamer324
      @Clevelandsteamer324 7 днів тому +2

      @@CasMullacno fault divorce means you don’t get to see your kids all the time

  • @vital.elements
    @vital.elements 16 днів тому +452

    14:55 "They're jealous of what you've got, they're not jealous of how you got it." - J. Carr 💯🖤✨️

    • @barbaragunter4957
      @barbaragunter4957 13 днів тому +1

      🤯🤯🤯

    • @missrob4538
      @missrob4538 12 днів тому +3

      That's right I have never heard a more truthful statement

    • @lachlanbrown409
      @lachlanbrown409 10 днів тому +7

      They don't see all the sacrifices made on the way😢

    • @john.premose
      @john.premose 7 днів тому +2

      Yeah and he implied that Mao was one of the "worst people". I lost a lot of respect for him there, not that I had much respect for his pseudo-enlightened platitudes anyway and his quasi-posh bourgeous persona.

    • @hugostiglitz1109
      @hugostiglitz1109 7 днів тому

      @@john.premoseMao has done many many dirty deeds. He ordered all educated people to die or take laborious jobs and become farmers instead. Let alone burning all the books containing knowledge.

  • @Slabbys
    @Slabbys 11 днів тому +255

    'Confidence without competence is madness', what a quote.

    • @JoseRRodriguez
      @JoseRRodriguez 8 днів тому +5

      that confidence is the narcissistic self-delusion

    • @lowieduthoit2741
      @lowieduthoit2741 8 днів тому +2

      Dunning-Kruger effect...look for the graph.

    • @JustGotALife
      @JustGotALife 8 днів тому

      famous pickup artist said more than 10 years ago "Confidence comes from competence"

    • @Riserm4n
      @Riserm4n 6 днів тому

      DJ Khaled

    • @M.Linoge
      @M.Linoge 6 днів тому +1

      "..is politics"

  • @dimitrabouzalas3090
    @dimitrabouzalas3090 7 днів тому +167

    As a retired teacher, I really felt our education system fails our people, especially males. There is hardly any emphasis on what makes a healthy human being. As a teacher, I just felt we were churning out sausages. Some would gain skills to be employed in the labour market, others would fail. There is so much more our education system could do to raise well adjusted individuals, and members of society.

    • @Niki-mp8qe
      @Niki-mp8qe 7 днів тому +15

      Yes I agree, I recently went back to working in a nursery school and it's the same there, kids can not be kids or learn naturally anymore, all need to be doing the same, not given room to be imaginative, it's all a bunch of box ticking and paperwork that takes precious time away, I saw the same in my sons education In primary school, homeschooled him in secondary and he thrived without the limitations and being told how to think

    • @TheDiaryOfACEO
      @TheDiaryOfACEO  6 днів тому +10

      Wow thanks for sharing your insight!!

    • @booshank2327
      @booshank2327 6 днів тому +10

      That stuff is supposed to be parents job, but hardly any of them bother these days.

    • @Draggonny
      @Draggonny 3 дні тому +11

      ​@@booshank2327It's impossible to raise a well adjusted individual when you're not a well adjusted individual. Abuse, neglect and emotional issues run through families because it becomes learned behaviour. People only break the cycle when they are exposed to people who are emotionally intelligent and that's usually someone outside of the family unit.

    • @gnosisdespirit
      @gnosisdespirit 3 дні тому

      School = indoctrination camps

  • @mattjagger4360
    @mattjagger4360 8 днів тому +449

    I'm 43. I recently had an experience with my sons friends popping round. And they were absolutely jaw dropped. I spent the day fixing a car, mechanically then did a bodyshop worthy patch repair to a panel. Came in, and told them to quiet down I need to do some work on my dissertation. The confident one piped up and proclaimed how??? How can you do so much stuff! I replied. I grew up poor. But with a dad. I had to become self sufficient or...metaphorically die. And I guess the hardships I look upon as perceived trauma while growing up. Actually. Make me who I am and are to be celebrated. What a privilege. To not need bank loans. To never need a mechanic or a bodyshop. Never need a builder, a plumber or an electrician. To never need much more than myself. What a gift. Now...many will see this as a pointless comment. I'm sure. It's not about setting up a business having passive income and a ferrari. But. I think it's key to be thankful and celebrate who you are and what you can do. Not be depressed about what you can't. Jimmy touched on being thankful. And that's a rewarding mindset.

    • @ethanbenjamin4141
      @ethanbenjamin4141 7 днів тому

      Vv yum

    • @piersoncepeda4010
      @piersoncepeda4010 7 днів тому +26

      This comment isn’t pointless. Appreciate you sharing 🤙🏽

    • @malcolmferguson2771
      @malcolmferguson2771 7 днів тому +15

      The opposite of pointless friend

    • @biggerbitcoin5126
      @biggerbitcoin5126 6 днів тому +21

      Random thought 80's babies are the smartest generation ever.....we have experienced life before the internet and after the internet

    • @indyjones1135
      @indyjones1135 6 днів тому +5

      Nice, good post.

  • @BobbyHoskins1016
    @BobbyHoskins1016 15 днів тому +472

    " It's your quality of life, minus envy, that's how happy you are " ...wow that hit true

    • @banedon8087
      @banedon8087 13 днів тому +9

      Too simplistic by far.

    • @pootytang69
      @pootytang69 12 днів тому +14

      @@banedon8087 It is reductive but I'm not sure it's simplistic to the point of being incorrect - I feel it does pretty accurately sum up how happy someone generally feels.
      You can have very little, envy even less and feel generally pretty happy so long as your survival isn't in constant ambiguity.
      Vice versa you can have everything a person could want and still perceive the world as needing to give you more to be satisfied, and live eternally unhappy.
      Obviously most of what we envy is subconscious, but if we can work out why we're chasing what we're chasing, we might realise we're on a bunch of wild goose chases and everything we actually need is a lot simpler to attain.

    • @banedon8087
      @banedon8087 12 днів тому +3

      @@pootytang69 It does not take into account the despair of seeing what you love in society being destroyed in the name of "progress" and watching things go into clear decline.

    • @pootytang69
      @pootytang69 12 днів тому +6

      @@banedon8087 I believe that would be covered by envy - though he's using envy in the sense to mean you're wanting for something you feel denied of.
      Another applicable quote he used in regards to what you said is the Nietzsche one "If you think someone ruined your life, you're right, it was you."
      In your example it's the perspective that "things aren't as they ought to be" that is harming the individual.

    • @banedon8087
      @banedon8087 12 днів тому +4

      @@pootytang69 Still too simple. When I look around and see that others - many others - feel the same way as myself and we all started off independently, then it's not just a "me" thing. In addition, these things matter at the core of people. This isn't envy or jealousy, but watching what is happening with the newer generations and seeing them despair, seeing people taking advantage of that and radicalising them against themselves and society. And that's just that start of it. Sometimes the issue isn't the individual.

  • @user-dd6nv6jv1v
    @user-dd6nv6jv1v 17 днів тому +367

    Steven, yes we want three hours of jimmy Carr talking about life. We demand it! Brilliant stuff

    • @DrYouMrTube
      @DrYouMrTube 16 днів тому +7

      Very re-watchable, unlike many other guests...

    • @lesleyjohnson8488
      @lesleyjohnson8488 13 днів тому +1

      Yes! ❤

    • @yellowmellow7814
      @yellowmellow7814 12 днів тому

      After hearing other intelligent people speaking then hearing this BS, it definitely wasn’t what I expected

    • @Astr0Dad
      @Astr0Dad 11 днів тому +3

      Jimmy is a great guy. To be honest I dont really enjoy his stand up performances, but I love listening him talk on podcasts

    • @BlowsTube
      @BlowsTube 7 днів тому +1

      @@yellowmellow7814So help us out here. What was BS?

  • @stephendownes6331
    @stephendownes6331 7 днів тому +16

    As a boy I wore calipers on my legs for 3 years, I did not learn to swim until I was 9 about 5 years late for an Australian boy. Every day I get to stand on my own 2 feet and walk or run I say thank you. Gratitude is the most underrated mental posture a person can have but only if you don't confuse gratitude with being complacent about what you should change.

    • @katee8147
      @katee8147 6 днів тому +1

      Yup - lovely share - glad for your insight.

  • @DrSamsHealth
    @DrSamsHealth 6 днів тому +9

    What a lovely soul he is! As a psychiatrist I was very glad to hear that Jimmy acknowledges that depression is a real disease and his thoughts on grief and personal development. Beautiful interview!

    • @kjmav10135
      @kjmav10135 2 дні тому +1

      Depression is a real syndrome. We need to take it seriously, absolutely. Is it a “disease,” as defined by the medical community? No. It’s some combination of symptoms observed in patients over a period of weeks by psychiatrists. In one person, the cause may be a thyroid issue. In another person, maybe it’s a lifetime of loneliness. For another, they need to overcome a lifetime sense of powerlessness. For another, they may well need lithium to function. There is a reason why meds don’t work 60% of the time. Depression is not one “disease” any more than abdominal pain is a “disease.” We’ve barely scratched the surface of helping people overcome their misery.

  • @thewebgp
    @thewebgp 15 днів тому +112

    Ok, I had to stop the podcast numerous times just to let the way Jimmy’s brain work sink in. The guy is just genius. Feeling grateful to both the CEO and Netflix for giving this man a podium.

    • @thatblondeart
      @thatblondeart 12 днів тому +4

      OMG I did exactly the same thing. I rewound it, listened again, paused it.. and let it marinade. "Your quality of life minus envy - thats how happy you are" really made me stop and smile.

    • @ess1163
      @ess1163 12 днів тому

      Me too had to go back a few time. Brilliant.

    • @dh1474
      @dh1474 11 днів тому +2

      Agree, I was doing the same. Definitely an interview I'll revisit a few times.

    • @Epoch-vu8cj
      @Epoch-vu8cj 9 днів тому +3

      Isn't this the guy that was mocking those who refused the jab(s). He lost all credibility in that moment.

    • @merovekh
      @merovekh 8 днів тому

      @@Epoch-vu8cj Only lost credibility to people whose credibility no one needs or values. Nothing of value was lost.

  • @robertthifault4080
    @robertthifault4080 18 днів тому +283

    "Great you have a hobby." ~Jimmy Carr
    Still! king of one liners.

    • @daritter
      @daritter 15 днів тому +6

      If only more people could hear this, the world would be a better place.

    • @shanghaiffgg
      @shanghaiffgg 14 днів тому +1

      Out was great how he snapped him back to the real world like that. It was an arrogant, entitled dream and he immediately stamped it out. Bravo

    • @adammm3259
      @adammm3259 4 дні тому +1

      "Put your hand up if your unpricked, now slap your self across the face", I lost respect for him when he started pushing the cool aid.

    • @greenwendal5056
      @greenwendal5056 2 дні тому

      @@adammm3259 He always came across as a pretentious posh boy to me. I bet he has a cellar full of his vintage bottled farts for when he hosts his candle light suppers.

  • @nerazim1893
    @nerazim1893 5 днів тому +17

    I got the *exact* lesson in gratitude Jimmy mentioned whilst depressed and broke. I realised there are people that would give up billions of dollars to trade places with me in a heartbeat. Really puts into perspective how much power and beauty we have, and how little money really means in the grand scheme of things. I'm still overwhelmed by material concerns and struggle to keep that gratitude in my heart day to day, it's great to be reminded of this by Jimmy.

    • @Bai_Su_Zhen
      @Bai_Su_Zhen День тому

      Life sucks but someone else has it worse. Well thank God lol

  • @johanlundqvistmattsson6382
    @johanlundqvistmattsson6382 6 днів тому +12

    I really belive Jimmy Carr is one of our greatest ”thinkers” of our time. Every clip I seen of him, he hits a point. Whenever it is a laugh or something deeper. There is allways a thought behind it. Also one of my top three standup comedians.

    • @kellzbaker
      @kellzbaker День тому +1

      Who are the other two?

  • @Mateusz143
    @Mateusz143 17 днів тому +54

    "Life dysmorphia" goddamn that's such a great way of framing this issue!

    • @lilme7052
      @lilme7052 15 днів тому

      Totally! Really makes me grateful.

  • @worthingdecorating8506
    @worthingdecorating8506 18 днів тому +338

    Sean lock was one of the best comedians to have ever lived.

    • @VanceRefrigeration
      @VanceRefrigeration 18 днів тому +3

      What’s a comidian?

    • @coal_91
      @coal_91 18 днів тому

      @@VanceRefrigeration don't be an asshole

    • @biadhoce
      @biadhoce 18 днів тому +5

      @@VanceRefrigeration What's a comEEEEEdiiiion

    • @sirianofmorley
      @sirianofmorley 18 днів тому +12

      I always imagine Sean playing with his imaginary old timey moustache

    • @worthingdecorating8506
      @worthingdecorating8506 18 днів тому +9

      @@biadhoce arrr sorry I'm dyslexic - & that's why I paint.

  • @MsBob314
    @MsBob314 5 днів тому +2

    One of the greatest interviews ever. Jimmy Carr is a superhero, a historically game-changing philosopher.

  • @MrSaemichlaus
    @MrSaemichlaus 4 дні тому +11

    One great thing about this channel is that Stephen continues to try and figure himself out, and he kind of measures and qualifies his guests by looking how applicable and tangible their stories are by measuring them on himself. It's something that Nathaniel Drew focuses on on his channel, it's a very authentic thing to do, and people easily feel engaged with it.

  • @AndyDavoBloodBowl
    @AndyDavoBloodBowl 14 днів тому +111

    I'm a first time listener and generally i "listen" to you tube while working. At 52 minutes in I caught myself fully looking at the screen and looked back at my work monitor and noticed that it had gone black - after 30 minutes+ inactivity. This is really engaging and I think I might have found something to listen to - and look forward to - on long drives.
    Bravo.

    • @triggerking135
      @triggerking135 10 днів тому +6

      Mate, if you feel compelled to watch the screen, maybe this shouldn't be your commuting companion?!?

    • @basternox5990
      @basternox5990 10 днів тому

      I agree. Jimmy is a terrible co-pilot.​@@triggerking135

    • @TuscanBrick
      @TuscanBrick 9 днів тому +8

      Plottwist: You're an air traffic controller

    • @basternox5990
      @basternox5990 9 днів тому +2

      @@TuscanBrick german wings tend to take you to the dark side.

    • @007nadineL
      @007nadineL 2 дні тому +1

      As long as you don't stare at the UA-cam screen while yr driving
      Yikes

  • @JohnCx
    @JohnCx 16 днів тому +43

    "Transition to value more of the immeasurable rather than the measurable".... life right there in a sentence.... amazing

  • @MrGrublet
    @MrGrublet 2 дні тому +2

    I work as a Nurse and specifically a hospice nurse for quite a while. Gave me a whole new perspective on life. Makes you want to go home and give your mom and best friend a call. Its easy to be driven by stuff, but sometimes we lose sight of all the important people we have.

  • @bobosmith8012
    @bobosmith8012 3 дні тому +3

    The idea that life is about the happiness of the Pursuit hit me hard, and it struck me that I have been chasing the wrong things for nearly my whole life. Something clicked in me when I heard this, and the concept kept playing in my mind, and as it did, I felt a huge weight lifting from me, as a sense of my priorities changed
    I then had the best night's sleep that I can remember for some time...
    This new mindset is so liberating.

  • @kristinl8894
    @kristinl8894 17 днів тому +89

    “Learn to lose gracefully” - so powerful!!

    • @MrMick560
      @MrMick560 9 днів тому

      So hard to do though.

    • @wastelander1015
      @wastelander1015 9 днів тому +4

      Its hard when its unfair. When manipulation is involved and you cant do shit except accept that the bad guys won. How do you do it gracefully? Well you dont.

    • @KwisBwown
      @KwisBwown 7 днів тому

      this man is a loser - he pushed the vax. nothing powerful about this sellout.

  • @RealSalica
    @RealSalica 18 днів тому +117

    I met him in the Amsterdam's aiport , we were on the same flight to London , and he talked to me for 20 minutes while we were waiting , and he was so nice . And his humour was really dark at the time , it was amazing to meet the person behind the mask . Oh and he was really surprised that I knew about him because I am Canadian , and I told him people were uploading his shows on You Tube :)

    • @EmergingForward
      @EmergingForward 15 днів тому +3

      oh wow that's really cool. How fun to meet him

  • @gregorypaterno8911
    @gregorypaterno8911 4 дні тому +4

    Here's your revised post:
    Mr. Bartlett, thank you for having Jimmy Carr on your podcast. I could replay his dialogue countless times without getting tired-he's so genuine, humble, and relatable. His insights really help me understand myself and navigate my inner struggles. Kudos to both of you, I'm truly grateful.✨

  • @catalyticcentaur5835
    @catalyticcentaur5835 9 днів тому +6

    "Thankfulness is the Mother of all Virtues."
    What a great information message!

  • @airlieconway3464
    @airlieconway3464 18 днів тому +189

    This conversation is f**king amazing. Wow!

  • @db4552
    @db4552 10 днів тому +130

    It's crazy how the best comedians are often the ones who are the most serious and insightful.

    • @AJBrownie
      @AJBrownie 9 днів тому +12

      Deep thinkers to find the funny side of reality

    • @KwisBwown
      @KwisBwown 7 днів тому

      this phony pushed the vax LMAO - be careful who you consider to be intelligent my friend

    • @malcolmferguson2771
      @malcolmferguson2771 7 днів тому +2

      And great actors

    • @hairlessape5107
      @hairlessape5107 7 днів тому +2

      I would expect the very best at anything to be serious and insightful.

    • @KwisBwown
      @KwisBwown 7 днів тому +3

      Remember when he outcasted the unvaxxed 🤣🤔🧐

  • @SongsoftheEons
    @SongsoftheEons 7 днів тому +7

    He is so incredibly right about gratitude being the most important virtue. Despite coming from a long line of depressives, it is the fundamental source of my happiness. We are living in an age of wonders, and so few of us realize it. Once you do, you'll never be bored or unhappy (for long, at least).

  • @bluesque9687
    @bluesque9687 3 дні тому +3

    Sean Lock is a legend.
    I have begun to feel sort of warmer towards Jimmy Carr, the human behind the entertainment, ever since he has spoken about Sean Lock's passing!
    We didn't ask for it from Jimmy (or even expect Jimmy Carr to be so moved by Sean Lock's death)... but really appreciate the warmth of friendship in their ties!!
    Love is warm ❤

    • @ktkee7161
      @ktkee7161 День тому

      I may watch, but it's hard to reconcile this with his heartless, puerile comedy.

  • @9ElevenGamer
    @9ElevenGamer 17 днів тому +145

    I've been Subscribed a while and I appreciate the fact you don't shove Adverts in my face every 5 minutes. Thanks.

    • @suewallis100
      @suewallis100 15 днів тому +1

      Is that the 3.99 join?

    • @9ElevenGamer
      @9ElevenGamer 13 днів тому

      @@suewallis100 What do you mean?

    • @007nadineL
      @007nadineL 2 дні тому

      UA-cam throttles artists monitize non stop and you complain about them hustling to make a dollar? Shame on you. see you next tuesday

  • @zapzippy2923
    @zapzippy2923 7 днів тому +4

    This is why I love comedians. If you want to be at the top, you have to have intense self-awareness. Jimmy Carr has transcended that state and reached wisdom. Thank you both for this, fellas. Subbed, and can't wait to go through your back catalog. All the best from the US.
    Oh, and an ancient Greek quote that I try my best to live by (re: nuclear power): Societies grow great when old men plant trees in whose shade they will never sit."

  • @brain0nfire
    @brain0nfire 3 дні тому +2

    I love how clear and sharp this guy is. And he manages to be respectful. Nice convo.

  • @freakerbell
    @freakerbell 15 днів тому +145

    ‘At no time in human history have the good guys censored stuff’💥
    SO MANY pearls of insight Jimmy! Thanks!
    Standup comedy is a vital index of how ‘humanity’, culture and society is tracking.

    • @paul8972
      @paul8972 12 днів тому

      Like the vaccine he pushed and the government censored any critical opinions. What a fraud

    • @odinsrensen7460
      @odinsrensen7460 10 днів тому +3

      When the truth gets buried under a spam-flood of bullshit, then I think a good case can be made to find and stop the parties responsible.

    • @paul8972
      @paul8972 10 днів тому

      Y t censored my comment

    • @paul8972
      @paul8972 10 днів тому

      Jimmy supports government censorship

    • @emmavink
      @emmavink 9 днів тому +5

      The presumption there is that people who don't censor things are inherently good.
      It isn't true. In a world where regardless of who was or wasn't censoring things, the worst atrocities were still able to happen, holding up the past as some ideal is not only dangerous, but extraordinarily disingenuous.
      If someone's comedy relies on hurting those who are already measurably marginalised in society, then it isn't comedy worth hearing.
      It isn't original. It isn't revolutionary or brave or unique or special. It's just ugly, petty and negative.
      Allowing hatespeech to have free reign has also never been a feature of a good or just society.
      It's really fking easy for people with privilege to make the arguments that men like Carr, Gervais, and even Chappelle are making.

  • @LabelsAreMeaningless
    @LabelsAreMeaningless 17 днів тому +74

    This is truly one of the best interviews I've seen on this program.

  • @TheScottishDad
    @TheScottishDad 8 днів тому +3

    "the good is the enemy of the best" ... wow, that hit hard.

  • @SubBrief
    @SubBrief 6 днів тому +1

    You (me) can be alone without being 'Lonely'. I call it Peace. find joy in who you are, not what people think you are.

  • @BuDDa100
    @BuDDa100 18 днів тому +74

    I watched a few interviews on this channel with amazing people but this one is by far the best, Jimmy shared some amazing wisdom without sounding pretentious and condescending.

  • @helenblake6867
    @helenblake6867 17 днів тому +66

    The way Jimmy explains anxiety in this episode has just blown my mind with clarity on my own anxiety. I’ve written it down - thank you Jimmy 🙏🏻

  • @computerbob06
    @computerbob06 8 днів тому +1

    Just what I love soooooo much!
    Two successful people talking about how we can all succeed, with hard work, setting daily goals etc, enjoying the journey, pushing ourselves further........
    Sometimes it doesn't work out like that of course, but we'll never get successful people telling us that!

  • @Violet_Lotus_
    @Violet_Lotus_ 17 днів тому +78

    "Having stuff isn't fun... Getting stuff is fun." I can so relate to this.

    • @hamishsomnthin8271
      @hamishsomnthin8271 13 днів тому +6

      Yes it’s a succinct way to describe how dopamine works

    • @AngelEyes-xm7el
      @AngelEyes-xm7el 9 днів тому +1

      I took care of my stuff because I never knew when I would get it again. The family has disappeared.

    • @007nadineL
      @007nadineL 2 дні тому

      Can you give me a specific example. What stuff is not fun ?

  • @Quinid1
    @Quinid1 12 днів тому +10

    I want to say I thank you for interviewing people like this.
    If it wasn't for you I would have never discovered that Jimmy Carr is a mentor that I never knew I needed.

  • @SmartyPantsQuizChannel-nt3lb
    @SmartyPantsQuizChannel-nt3lb 21 годину тому

    "The opposite of gratitude is resentment. If you think someone has ruined your life, you're right. It's you! Mike drop" -this piece of wisdom, I'll remember forever. Thank you!

  • @animatorFan74
    @animatorFan74 9 днів тому +9

    "Yopu don't get self-esteem from going to the gym and getting a six-pack, but you get self-esteem from being the kind of guy who goes to the gym every day." Absolutely freakin brilliant! That is golden words of wisdom right there..... I freakin love it :)

  • @missymel89
    @missymel89 18 днів тому +77

    Wow Jimmy Carr’s messages are tearing me up! He’s dropping so many gems 💎 what an inspirational person ❤

    • @kunivanu22
      @kunivanu22 18 днів тому +7

      Totally this! The saying with the "14 year old kids used to babysit, now they need babysitters" is one of them.

    • @KwisBwown
      @KwisBwown 7 днів тому

      what about the message of him pushing the vax? was that a gem? he sold his soul - he ll be banished to another realm

  • @VarrWillis
    @VarrWillis 12 днів тому +10

    Jimmy Carr doling out some of the most heart felt wisdom was not on my 2024 bingo card.

  • @heawin88
    @heawin88 14 годин тому

    Jimmy said that gratitude is the mother of all virtues. Addicts have been living by this and recovering for decades using gratitude.

  • @eliweinsteinlcsw
    @eliweinsteinlcsw 6 днів тому +1

    As a therapist and host of The Dude Therapist (and someone who works with men all the time) the Mens Mental health part was amazing

  • @AK-47-yall
    @AK-47-yall 17 днів тому +45

    I am only 15 minutes in and i am loving this. I have never seen this side of jimmy carr. He is brilliant and this conversation is so organic. Thank you for this.

  • @jeppekarlsson9550
    @jeppekarlsson9550 13 днів тому +28

    Jimmy is so insightful and I love how Steven gives him so much space to elaborate his points!

  • @Fjerid
    @Fjerid 9 днів тому +1

    I have only seen a few short clips of this guy roasting some dude in the audience.
    I have had several goosebump moments during this podcast.. Especially during the life and death talk. Never knew he was this intelligent and articulate.

  • @the_correct_ian
    @the_correct_ian 7 днів тому +1

    Jimmy Carr and Scott Galloway seeing what me and my friends are going through, and articulating the problem, has really given me so much hope. Just knowing I'm not thinking this alone means everything to me.

  • @ClaireWedgeworth
    @ClaireWedgeworth 18 днів тому +147

    *I love Jimmy, I also love that he’s become a reoccurring guest😂💕*

    • @moisturisedgnome1181
      @moisturisedgnome1181 17 днів тому +10

      Recurring. I agree.

    • @Ineluki_Myonrashi
      @Ineluki_Myonrashi 12 днів тому

      @@moisturisedgnome1181 He's not wrong you insufferable jacka$$
      Reoccurring and recurring can both be used as a verb and an adjective. In general, they can both mean “occurring again” or “happening again.” However, there is a difference in how they are typically used. Reoccurring is typically used to simply mean that something is happening again.
      He is becoming something that happens again.......after a few more times he will be recurring!

  • @99tisard
    @99tisard 18 днів тому +146

    This made me well up. I remember when I was working at a customer's house and my father called me to let me know that my brother had been killed in a traffic accident while he was driving his lorry the night before. And all I can remember is starting to laugh and cry at the same time. My poor customer's didn't know what to do.
    Ah fook!!!.....I'm crying again just thinking about it and this was 15 years ago. 😪

    • @KLTer-jo9jy
      @KLTer-jo9jy 17 днів тому +14

      Yeah, there is no right reaction. When my sister was killed, I went out and had a one night stand and then partied all summer. It took months before I could process it in a direct way. Everyone reacts differently.

    • @lindamacgregor8039
      @lindamacgregor8039 17 днів тому +9

      I'm so sorry. Grief has no script.

    • @williammorris1384
      @williammorris1384 17 днів тому +3

      Neither does time . I’m sorry to hear this . Sending you best wishes 👍

    • @99tisard
      @99tisard 17 днів тому

      @@lindamacgregor8039 thank you.

    • @99tisard
      @99tisard 17 днів тому

      @williammorris1384 thank you.

  • @marcgerome7966
    @marcgerome7966 8 днів тому +1

    This is like striking a vein of gold, one nugget of wisdom after another. Why aren't people like this world leaders?

  • @nerdomega974
    @nerdomega974 8 днів тому

    “It’s not the pursuit of happiness, it’s the happiness of the pursuit”.
    All I needed to hear. Brilliant.

  • @helenhelen3940
    @helenhelen3940 18 днів тому +71

    After watching the first interview with Jimmy Carr I was so inspired, I even checked his show tour and wanted to buy tickets to his show in Edinburgh in 2023.... I didn't in the end. Now, it's the second part, maybe the Universe is giving me a second chance, haha❤

  • @chrisbarraza7700
    @chrisbarraza7700 10 днів тому +12

    Jealous of what you've got, not how you got it - this is the most correct thing I have ever heard.

    • @007nadineL
      @007nadineL 2 дні тому

      So is: the sun is yellow
      Do stating obvious things = great insight ????

    • @danielc6106
      @danielc6106 День тому +1

      ​@@007nadineL I think you missed the point.

    • @chrisbarraza7700
      @chrisbarraza7700 День тому +1

      @@007nadineL The sun isnt yellow, its more orange to me, good work on your 'fact'.

  • @charleswilson1500
    @charleswilson1500 7 днів тому +3

    I heard Sean’s voice and had to stop. He was such a legend

  • @daimonddai
    @daimonddai 7 днів тому

    ive listened to Jimmy Carr for years and enjoyed some of his work.
    This interview was just brilliant. I loved being able to see the real person. His take on grief , life and happiness has been a joy to watch and listen too. Thanks Jimmy. i appreciate your journey and thanks for sharing .

  • @PC-ec4eo
    @PC-ec4eo 18 днів тому +34

    Great to hear Jimmy talk about his friend Sean Lock.
    I just love to rewatch episodes of 8out of 10cats. Belly laugh through many episodes.
    Thanks for the memories

  • @maxinesymmons9711
    @maxinesymmons9711 18 днів тому +52

    I think that's what I love and respect about you Steve..your learning from and respecting your guests...your not one of these hosts that think you know it all...never change lovely young man ❤ great channel 😊

    • @neillalchin1595
      @neillalchin1595 17 днів тому +4

      What a beautiful and accurate observation delivered as a much deserved compliment, I agree totally and whole heartedly. Much perpetual love and respect. NA1974🇬🇧.

    • @maitecatherinedewit
      @maitecatherinedewit 17 днів тому +1

      Yesssss

  • @melodireyes9687
    @melodireyes9687 3 дні тому +1

    Everytime I think this podcast has served up the most incredible wisdom, I'm amazed that you manage to surpass yourself! Kudos to Steve and JImmy. I am 76 and have learned a lot over the years. For me, life is more of an adventure than ever and it just thrills me to hear men, years younger than I, who really live on a different planet from me, recognizing the pain and effort life requires but continuing to strive and learn and find even greater satisfaction and insight every day. I am so grateful, Steve, for what you provide and Jimmy, for sharing yourself so completely. It gives me a lot of hope for the world.

  • @haktwld
    @haktwld 9 днів тому

    This episode really hit it in the gut. Thanks to both of you for recording the conversation. It's fantastically plain and honest.

  • @andrewandlm
    @andrewandlm 13 днів тому +14

    I have NEVER sat and watched anything like this before.
    This absolutely blew me away.
    Some really incredible thought provoking conversations, which I both relate to and hope to emulate in my personal life/ career.
    Loved it

  • @johncormican562
    @johncormican562 11 днів тому +18

    This is ASTONISHING!!!!! Was a massive fan of 8 out to 10 cats does countdown, so very familiar with Jimmy Carr, but this has completely blown my brains out!! I'm only 15 minutes in and I'm speechless as how to convey the awe Jimmy is creating in me! This is pure genius!!! Steven as always has the best talent and seemingly effortlessly, always gets the best of them. Gobsmacking!!

    • @Jules-dn9jl
      @Jules-dn9jl 3 дні тому +1

      I TOTALLY agree!!!!! The longer I listen, the more astonished and inspired I feel. I want everyone to watch this! How much wisdom can you cram into 2 hours! Bucket loads apparently!

  • @skinnyjimmy22
    @skinnyjimmy22 День тому

    wow ive never heard jimmy talk to seriously and honestly how humbling and honest is the guy in this video. I truly think he has so much more to give people then just comedy he is really a great spokesperson and he really has dealt with a lot, what a legend and great comedian. Keep doing what you do Jimmy.

  • @sighndlease
    @sighndlease 4 дні тому +2

    ive come back to watch this 3 times now. jimmy is so philosophically sound. he has such a vast amount of knowledge and the way he views life and the world are astounding. plus after his last special he is probably my favorite comedian right now. up there with luis ck and bill burr in my book

  • @AkshayKhurana
    @AkshayKhurana 15 днів тому +9

    Thank you for letting us in on this conversation, gentlemen.

  • @amyguthrie8119
    @amyguthrie8119 18 днів тому +33

    Incredibly thoughtful interview. I wasn’t expecting to feel so many emotions. Seeing Jimmy talk about Sean got me for sure. Much love to you both

  • @bgtsy
    @bgtsy 3 дні тому +1

    Thank me yesterday. So apt. He’s brilliant. And so is the interviewer to choose and be able to banter wuicky and intelligently with these individuals

  • @JustinT1025
    @JustinT1025 3 дні тому +1

    This is one of the best interviews I've ever seen. Jimmy is always brilliant but the interviewer( I don't recall the name right now,I apologize)is perfect. He's not talking over the guest,he's asking just enough questions and giving the answer time to breathe and keeping things going. Absolutely fantastic.
    I agree with so many things here. I'm a construction worker,46 from the states and last year decided to say fuck it and move to Europe. Not a great time to do it with the state of the world but I did it anyways. It's been difficult to say the least but I'm still grateful that I've done it. I've learned a lot about the world and myself and I've learned real gratitude for people. Most people don't speak English where I am so it's been a tough journey but even with the language barrier,everyone has been amazing to me. I didn't expect that at all. I never thought I'd be here but I'm glad I am. Just like this interview. Never thought I'd hear it but I'm glad I did and that's how life is. It's tough,it's easy,it's in-between and that's the beauty of everyday...
    I'll be subscribing for sure

  • @ladybarbarapinsonartist4052
    @ladybarbarapinsonartist4052 17 днів тому +10

    I found myself joining the conversation, while listening. You have hit on the very insights that accomplished people ponder. This conversation allowed me to understand why as my university degree I chose the most difficult of studies to simply prove to myself that I could aim, fail, try again and prevail . Fascinating topic, the self discoveries, challenges and evolving desires to contribute our talents and skills towards becoming, while acknowledging our moments.

  • @alexfrog1
    @alexfrog1 17 днів тому +9

    Jimmy has a lot of great points mentioned in here. My favorite he kind of references which is that worrying only makes tomorrow's problems more relavant today

  • @rodbryant1928
    @rodbryant1928 6 днів тому

    Jimmy, you made me cry and listen twice. Your understanding and delivery of of philosophy is phenomenal

  • @jirikovar8492
    @jirikovar8492 8 днів тому +3

    Love and thanks from czechia . One of the best eiposodes I've watched so far:)

  • @LushQueenPersonal
    @LushQueenPersonal 17 днів тому +10

    This might be my favourite episode yet. The critical thinking of these 2 together in a room is fantastic, I feel like I've learned so much!

  • @shameemahjahed3701
    @shameemahjahed3701 16 днів тому +8

    This was a beautiful podcast. Made me tear up a bit and rethink life in my 50s....which always comes back to gratitude. Gratitude...the great multiplier. Thanks Steve!

  • @therealpattypooh
    @therealpattypooh 8 днів тому

    Thank you Steve! Your videos/podcasts are almost the only ones I go from the start to the end! It's either in one shot or in several times, but i finish them. You and your guests are so interesting! Thx again!

  • @thesocialmediascientistmbe
    @thesocialmediascientistmbe 19 годин тому

    "The load doesn't get lighter, your back grows stronger".
    As with many at the top of their game, Jimmy is a very insightful, intelligent soul.

  • @astrologerdawn1200
    @astrologerdawn1200 14 днів тому +14

    So happy Jimmy's back. He was my first interview when I watched you and thought how wonderful the conversation was. Another brilliant conversation. As a business owner, I don't watch the Diary of the CEO for business "stuff" (behind the scenes is more like that). I watch for the conversations. I get a ton of ideas from your guests and the great questions you ask. Keep doing what you are doing.

  • @bluemoyie8618
    @bluemoyie8618 11 днів тому +4

    I feel the same, it's the memories that we make that carry us happily through life, not the things that we own. Giving an anonymous gift, going out for dinner, or treating a friend to dinner or a gift, that is worth more to me than most things. If we can cover the necessities in life, and have a little left over for some little treats, then we have "enough". And, when you know that you have "enough", then you can relax and enjoy life more. Forever striving for "MORE" is robbing us of life.

  • @timothyleapai7828
    @timothyleapai7828 8 днів тому +1

    The video is so enlightening with great advice, funny banter back and forth. I enjoy your style of interviewing, its engaging and gives them an opening and it feels authentic!
    A suggestion from me: if you could add in a clip or two of behind the scenes of the interaction with the guest before or after video i think it will also help the audience understand the connection you have with your guests!

  • @bobby-ql9yq
    @bobby-ql9yq 5 днів тому +3

    Relationships with others make us happy and we don't have that anymore.

  • @DeadManVlog
    @DeadManVlog 18 днів тому +55

    Jimmy Carr : what a great and genuine guy.

  • @GroundedTech
    @GroundedTech 11 днів тому +9

    Having a low tolerance for bs really is a good thing. I spent most of my twenties seriously ill from Crohn's Disease and in my 30's now I have little patience for people, especially those of a similar age or older, who still act and behave like they're in high school with no understanding of life at all.
    Cut off people dragging you down. It's freeing.

  • @LordJarvey
    @LordJarvey 5 днів тому

    Thank you for having this conversation.

  • @NC7491
    @NC7491 8 днів тому

    I am 50 year old at the throes of despair and depression after years of failure. This podcast has been a Godsend because Jimmy directly addressed a lot of things I 've been thinking about over the last couple of months.
    I can go back now to playing my video games with a new sense of purpose.

  • @artisticgoose2609
    @artisticgoose2609 7 днів тому +2

    I could seriously listen to Mr Carr all day long. What an interview. Brilliant!

  • @mat-mat420
    @mat-mat420 18 днів тому +34

    this is eye opening no other words for it the first 13 mins are a life coach lesson

  • @nickcauser727
    @nickcauser727 10 днів тому +6

    This is genuinely one of the best interviews I've ever watched/listened to. Jimmy is so eloquent and there are some fantastic nuggets of wisdom in here. Steven does well to just sit back and listen as Jimmy goes into detail. Too many interviewers would have jumped in too often. Really enjoyable and quite poignant in places.

  • @alexfox4647
    @alexfox4647 7 днів тому +2

    “As the family goes, so goes the nation and so goes the whole world in which we live.”
    ― John Paul II

  • @mustafahassan651
    @mustafahassan651 2 дні тому

    I watch most episodes, plus a lot of other podcasts….this has to be the best one I’ve had the pleasure listening to. Raw, honest, inciting, eye opening and the rest of it. Great, great stuff