A Calm NYC Morning Routine | staying grounded in a big city

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  • Опубліковано 15 гру 2022
  • My morning routine to stay grounded in NYC.. ft my bestie
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  • @cherierose356
    @cherierose356 Рік тому +1099

    This is so random but Ive always been made fun of for how quite and ‘slow’ I am in the mornings by partners and family. Its just so profoundly comforting to see how common it is and watching it be accepted

    • @aimeev.5551
      @aimeev.5551 Рік тому +35

      I have as well and being an adult now I realize how small minded and unaware they are.

    • @anasofia87mex
      @anasofia87mex Рік тому +9

      Same ❤️

    • @johnschoen-mccullough6251
      @johnschoen-mccullough6251 Рік тому +20

      taking it slow in morning is wonderful! however long someone needs/wants to get ready is good :)

    • @samslayerr
      @samslayerr Рік тому +3

      Your not alone

    • @keikei1943
      @keikei1943 Рік тому +1

      @Trinity M I understand what you mean but alot of people these days don't have a sense of humor and are overly sensitive

  • @yourbigsis
    @yourbigsis Рік тому +469

    She's the sister, the mother, the best friend and the grandma that we all need to have 🥹

  • @amirahatoum6056
    @amirahatoum6056 Рік тому +559

    The life you've created for yourself is one of the most beautiful things I've ever seen, from your friendships, to the practices you do. You are art in human form.

  • @maddyG7414
    @maddyG7414 Рік тому +433

    I love people that you can be silent and introverted around. Those are the most accepting and wholesome friendships. 🌿

  • @melinaasad4722
    @melinaasad4722 Рік тому +176

    so beautiful at 4:48 i noticed how hitomi has her palms turned up (receiving) and D has her palms turned down (grounding), such harmony and wholeness in each other's presence. much love xoxo

  • @SuppremeSapp
    @SuppremeSapp Рік тому +69

    Your friendship is so beautiful, I aspire to have a friend like her :)

  • @sharon5259
    @sharon5259 Рік тому +5

    Not talking for the first 2 hours of the morning sounds like heaven...

  • @Raven.and.Eggs999
    @Raven.and.Eggs999 Рік тому +27

    Omg thats so amazing that you and your best friend spent the first 2hrs of the day in silence / practice. Some people do not get it at all.

  • @Amagaisie
    @Amagaisie Рік тому +150

    I’m going through some brutal seasonal depression right now and your videos always bring me so much peace 🤍thank you so much for that, I love your energy xx

  • @valeriajimenez119
    @valeriajimenez119 Рік тому +77

    I love Hitomi's friends so much, they all always seem so warm

  • @smustipher
    @smustipher Рік тому +10

    I am ALL for this. The first 2 hours of my day are for reading, drinking tea, puttering around and just being and collecting myself before I get out into the world. No talking, no emails, no phone calls before 10 unless it is an emergency. Life is short, enjoy as much of it as you can.

  • @jkesewa
    @jkesewa Рік тому +82

    Such a beautiful sisterhood connection ❤

  • @_Alimm
    @_Alimm Рік тому +115

    Hitomi, could you make a video on how to establish affectionate friendships? I have friends and even though we're deeply connected there no physical affection and being that my love language is physical touch that makes me kinda sad. I wish I could express that without it being awkward. Did you ever have a convo with your friends about being physically close or it just happens that way?

    • @Ravioli-uw9uy
      @Ravioli-uw9uy Рік тому +1

      💯💯

    • @Kristinaetoja
      @Kristinaetoja Рік тому +2

      I was wondering too

    • @molamola721
      @molamola721 Рік тому +1

      I was just having this convo with my friend exactly 2 days ago

    • @araschanne1
      @araschanne1 Рік тому +14

      me too! something that I've been trying to do more of is just simply ask for it, "can I have a hug?". And I'd love to eventually just ask my friends in conversation one day, "how do you feel about physical closeness like cuddling and hand holding? It makes me feel closer to people and makes me feel happy so it would mean a lot to me if we could do more things like that". What do you imagine yourself doing? :)

    • @ameliam9981
      @ameliam9981 Рік тому

      I struggle with physical connection but my best friend loves it. We recently had a conversation about it; they brought up how they like physical affection, we spoke about how it makes me feel, and both recognized that it would be nice to work bringing about more physical connection in ways that are comfortable for the both of us. I would say that if your connections with your friends are deep and honest, they will be happy to talk with you about this. Why not try bringing it up ❤

  • @beinggreen24
    @beinggreen24 Рік тому +8

    Your friendship is so lovely. My best friend and I cuddle .. I love her braiding my hair.. walks.. I do her make up.. same stuff we did at 10 years old .. to our 30s now.

  • @immaclam
    @immaclam Рік тому +3

    This community has helped me to take care of myself this week. Love you all!

  • @amandarainbow1111
    @amandarainbow1111 Рік тому +40

    Your videos prove to me that we are all going through similar experiences as a collective group of human beings. When ever you bring something up I find that I am always going through a similar situation and it amazes me how in sync we can all be without knowing each other. You are able to communicate to the collective what lessons you are learning. We are able to learn from you what our lessons are and that’s why we are drawn to you

  • @1994chrissypooh
    @1994chrissypooh Рік тому +5

    It’s nice to see friends be each others safe space and be intentionally healing together.

  • @frejaemilia5588
    @frejaemilia5588 Рік тому +21

    your presence reminds me i'm home! we're all home. even in our funny introverted ways. like, seeing others in their slowness and acting so tenderly, affirms/gives a little hug to those qualities in me, that i sometimes feel a bit of an odd sock for. hitomi, and all of us here, it's like a lil soul fam. i feel it

  • @gillustrative
    @gillustrative Рік тому +31

    I love all of the genuine laughter and connection in this 🌼

  • @elisan.
    @elisan. Рік тому +25

    So good to see you back on here! in this weird world made of technological interconnections! Always speaking the truth earth sister ! staying grounded no matter what grant us deepness and intensity; an everyday retreat from the chaos and superficiality outside us x

  • @asldgn8966
    @asldgn8966 Рік тому +79

    how did you find people like this? im so happy for you. I wish i was a part of something like this

  • @xoyouaremysunshinexo
    @xoyouaremysunshinexo Рік тому +4

    wowow! I'm definitely the kind of person who needs silence in the morning. When I was living at home my dad would constantly be playing music on speaker at 4-5am and it really agitated me. I agree that being able to be silent with someone without it being awkward or uncomfortable is a form of intimacy. I'd love to see more content about how you formed such intimate friendships!

  • @nadiabarmasse5294
    @nadiabarmasse5294 Рік тому +9

    You're so kind Hitomi 🥺 ❤ Sending you lots of love and light ❤

  • @NYKIRA
    @NYKIRA Рік тому +15

    💕 that practice of daily creativity resonates, I hold creative sunrise sessions for myself too twice a week, I really loved hearing your intention & seeing you anchor 💕

  • @goldisdarkblue
    @goldisdarkblue Рік тому +8

    your videos have been becoming part of my morning routine, bringing me so much calm and connection and reminding me that there are people out there that are like me while having to be around my family❤️🌿

  • @alicemes_
    @alicemes_ Рік тому +13

    I always feel so much calmer after I watch your videos! Thank you for bringing positivity into this world

  • @PeoniesCoffee
    @PeoniesCoffee Рік тому +3

    I just adore you. I hope you continue to share your light with us. ❤

  • @jonibeuckeleers
    @jonibeuckeleers Рік тому +4

    I'm so thankful you keep making video's of your life and knowledge. Thank you! You are so wanted and loved 🧡

  • @theworldsonheroin
    @theworldsonheroin Рік тому +2

    i aspire friendships like this. beautiful.

  • @Kiki-el9dr
    @Kiki-el9dr Рік тому +3

    Thank you for being a beautiful example of what it means to slow down. ❤

  • @penguinshearts86
    @penguinshearts86 Рік тому +2

    I’m so glad that I’m every video you sprinkle in reminders of self love and slowing down. I’ve really forgotten that this past week. Thank you Hitomi

  • @lorelailuna
    @lorelailuna Рік тому

    I love my mornings and easing into the day with intention is so important to me. This was so relatable, validating and inspiring, thank you for sharing always 💚

  • @grainofsalt2113
    @grainofsalt2113 Рік тому +2

    obsessed with this friendship

  • @startpage717
    @startpage717 Рік тому +5

    AWESOMENESS...able to BE and NOT have to talk OMG!! the BEST person to be around...OMG!! Happy for the BOTH of you...

  • @rosaalcala821
    @rosaalcala821 Рік тому +6

    Hitomi always reminds me that its okay to look for friendships that aren't just superficial. I can't wait to find my own sisters someday 🤍

  • @MagentaKia
    @MagentaKia Рік тому +7

    I'm currently in bed with a hot pad processing my next moon cycle that should start soon. Watching your videos always bring me so much peace and this is exactly what I needed. Je t'aime Hitomi :)
    Lots of love from Canada

  • @ariannamancuso597
    @ariannamancuso597 Рік тому +3

    happy to see you in nyc smiling again, love you as always sweet thing

  • @ilikefood420
    @ilikefood420 Рік тому

    Watching your videos makes me feel so emotional because connectedness is such a challenge for me (childhood traumas etc) watching you be so intimate in your friendships is truly heart warming

  • @agostinaesquivel5966
    @agostinaesquivel5966 Рік тому +1

    Wow that friendship looks so beautiful

  • @florenceduchet5116
    @florenceduchet5116 Рік тому +7

    I love the production of this video! So beautiful

  • @anarchiona
    @anarchiona Рік тому +4

    Thank you for sharing Hitomi❤️ I love to witness your journey🌱🫂

  • @NPolk7
    @NPolk7 Рік тому +1

    Your videos help me get through my depression and calm my anxiety

  • @forest-fairies
    @forest-fairies Рік тому +3

    Thank you for being here, Hitomi 🤲🏼💚

  • @NazASMRSA
    @NazASMRSA Рік тому +4

    Loving this simplicity of this video ✨✨

  • @meghanmccormick1201
    @meghanmccormick1201 Рік тому +2

    The 2 hours of not talking to someone in the am sounds amazing.

  • @oheysha
    @oheysha Рік тому

    your outros are always my favorite, they're so comforting

  • @marialidia008
    @marialidia008 Рік тому +5

    I absolutely love everything about you and your channel🤍

  • @gigisnippets6525
    @gigisnippets6525 Рік тому +2

    your energy is seriously so attractive

  • @Re_joyce
    @Re_joyce Рік тому

    Your drawings are really beautiful, would love to see more of your art practise! Thank you for inspiring us to slow down & to invest more energy into our creativity

  • @Jojobaa
    @Jojobaa Рік тому

    You are so inspiring! You’re the reason I started my own channel. Thank you so much for existing

  • @katiel4772
    @katiel4772 Рік тому

    I love you so so much. Thank you for your elegant, wisdom filled, gentle offerings 🤍

  • @rh3a.sunshine
    @rh3a.sunshine Рік тому +2

    Thank you Hitomi! 💕

  • @earthtohannah
    @earthtohannah Рік тому

    Your energy is so grounding 🤍

  • @clairehackett6693
    @clairehackett6693 Рік тому +5

    those are the nicest pyjamas i've ever seen

  • @faroutriv9737
    @faroutriv9737 Рік тому

    I’ve loved you for years and will always love you

  • @lizf3325
    @lizf3325 Рік тому

    This was such a beautiful recommendation. Thankyou, this was special to add to my own morning journey 🍀💛

  • @alaerelifestyle
    @alaerelifestyle Рік тому

    thanks so much for sharing thredup! I prefer sustainable shopping and haven't really bought any clothes this season-this is literally just what I needed! ✨

  • @aleiathebean
    @aleiathebean Рік тому +2

    I have never been this early and I am so happyyyyy. Hope you are doing well, Hitomi!

  • @ErinThePsychicWitch
    @ErinThePsychicWitch Рік тому

    It’s so good to have friends you can do that with

  • @ellamarierunesdatterwolden5702

    All the best to you❤️ come and explore the scandinavian winter in 6 months. It’s very special.

  • @angelicnic777
    @angelicnic777 Рік тому

    i LOOOOOOOVEEEEE when u n D reunite!!! i love her music so much and ur soul energy together….. divine. i love it

  • @elizabethdesousa8290
    @elizabethdesousa8290 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Hitomi. ❤❤❤❤

  • @giulialombardini1935
    @giulialombardini1935 Рік тому +5

    Hi Hitomi,
    In order to get the benefits of the herbs when you infuse them, you should cover the cup for 6-7 minutes. Then you can enjoy a powerful tea :)
    Hug of light✨
    Giulia

  • @yahayabristonchama4598
    @yahayabristonchama4598 Рік тому +1

    Love your energy

  • @icequeen7025
    @icequeen7025 Рік тому

    i agree with maing art for myself!! i love doodling and i'm trying to start knitting little ornaments and decor items

  • @Shayla_MOON
    @Shayla_MOON Рік тому +4

    Honestly I’ve been living in Japan for over 4 years but I’m inspired to move to New York now ❤

  • @ArushiSharma14
    @ArushiSharma14 Рік тому +1

    Loved every moment of it

  • @hannahj988
    @hannahj988 Рік тому

    u have no idea how much i needed this video like right now haha thank you

  • @JourniM
    @JourniM Рік тому +6

    I’ve always had this ignorant belief that we’d be good friends- but everytime I watch a new video of yours, that belief becomes less and less ignorance based haha Warmth & love to you!

  • @analysamiller8849
    @analysamiller8849 Рік тому +1

    i’m so early!!!! i love you hitomi!

  • @canfieldcreations8528
    @canfieldcreations8528 Рік тому +3

    Friendships like this 🙌

  • @summerlogan8778
    @summerlogan8778 Рік тому +1

    Your content is so inspiring and healing to my inner child. You feel like the older sister I never had

  • @brookebonetti6253
    @brookebonetti6253 Рік тому +2

    need that mac and cheese recipe☺️🙏 also i love your videos they are always so calming and positive🫶🏼

  • @dorcasluyeye2887
    @dorcasluyeye2887 Рік тому +4

    What A Good Sister👩👩❤❤

  • @razaan222
    @razaan222 Рік тому +1

    Your NYC vlog is giving major throwback :^)

  • @xhyvonne
    @xhyvonne Рік тому

    I absolutely love this ❤

  • @talyamatz1706
    @talyamatz1706 Рік тому

    I love you Hitomi!!

  • @OliviaStJohn-cr9ml
    @OliviaStJohn-cr9ml Рік тому

    so lovely as always

  • @wellbycami
    @wellbycami Рік тому +1

    Love you hitomi!

  • @ChocoBabiChan
    @ChocoBabiChan Рік тому +2

    I crave friend relationships like this. Never had one.

  • @gabi119lool
    @gabi119lool Рік тому +1

    TWO UPLOADS LETS GOOO

  • @rainashah4901
    @rainashah4901 Рік тому

    Thankyouuu u motivated me to get up and do something!!!

  • @Softonme
    @Softonme Рік тому +4

    I love the idea of buying garments that aide in manifesting

  • @ev4836
    @ev4836 Рік тому +1

    Bowing down right back at you wonderful being 🌹🙏🌹

  • @josedosanjos2200
    @josedosanjos2200 Рік тому

    Merry Christmas !!

  • @marylouminati
    @marylouminati Рік тому

    u guys r so cuuuute❤

  • @hailey.jade28
    @hailey.jade28 Рік тому +2

    Love this!! More content with dianna please

  • @saramcdonald5624
    @saramcdonald5624 Рік тому +1

    YALL ARE THE CUTEST

  • @Bro-lv5vw
    @Bro-lv5vw Рік тому

    I love Hitomi in NYC era

  • @jamaninone2889
    @jamaninone2889 Рік тому +1

    I miss having a friend like this

  • @Amagaisie
    @Amagaisie Рік тому +1

    Also love your still life’s!

  • @stellaacometaa5061
    @stellaacometaa5061 Рік тому +1

    the fact that i would feel so safe to be around you

  • @i123456987654
    @i123456987654 Рік тому +1

    omg i love reformation...i should try shopping on thredup

  • @k8rll
    @k8rll Рік тому

    your videos are my rest. 💌

  • @samb8732
    @samb8732 Рік тому +2

    i was just rewatching all your nyc videos so i’m so happy they are back for a little :)

  • @Bellaloveslife_
    @Bellaloveslife_ Рік тому

    I love your videos so much!! Thank you Thank you !!! Also do you know what top that is? I love it so much!! :))))) There are others that are similar but that one is divine!!! :)) Thank you , Hitomi!!!

  • @isseythegr8
    @isseythegr8 Рік тому +1

    ran into you at grumpy's in greenpoint! the energy was v good :)

  • @rosysalucio
    @rosysalucio Рік тому +1

    love your videos

  • @CruzR-W
    @CruzR-W Рік тому

    Attracting y’all friendship with guys✨

  • @KCboden
    @KCboden Рік тому +1

    I really like your pajamas!