Ap ny jo b kaha 100% sahi kaha mainy bht bara nuqsan uthaya ha r ab ja k itni thokro k bad mje smj i ha .. susral main chaplosi krny se ue ghr abad hota ha .. baqi umeed kesi se nhe lagani chahye Allah apny hath pao salamat rkhy bs .. hum bahu lakh susral ko sanwarny ki koshish kry pr ik larki 10 logo ko nhe thk krskti .. han shyd wo un jesi zaror van jati ha.. mainy to yehe 3 sal k experince se sekha ..
After marriage I have to face many these things but nobody tells me what to do even my mother and elder sisters I have faced many things I can’t tell you but now after twenty year I have a good adviser now i am being able to tell all these things to my daughter
yaar hamari maa hamy samjha bhe dy tu hamari bari behny hamy or cousins asy mashory deti hy k ager ap un per amal ker ly tu Zindagi tabah hojye...... 💔
Bilkul ghlt bt susral main straight forward bn,na bahu ko bht mehnga pahnga par jata ha .. r ye wqt main guzar chuki hu .. chaploai krny main he faida ha bs kesi se umeedy nhe lagani chahye ..
Sar. y mushkil kam appny wife per rakhy hain per appki nasehyatain bohat acchi hain mashalla bohat samajdar hain sarizindagi isshi trha zindaygi guzari abb akely rehney ka behi asan taraeqa baya daiin38 sal bad Allaha ky paschaley gaysas khaingee dekha y ko ajarbeth jati hai bara saber karnapertahai abto yi be aqi kitanhaiguzarnay ezat ky sath bachey abad ho acchi baho ajayin ameen
Sir ap boht achi tarbiyt krty hyn like my mother but ajkal ka susrali ghar asy ethics k kabil nahi ...har dam hushyar or chuknna rahna parta phir b joti k neechy e rakhty
Sir mra swal h agr lrki ny shadi sy phly prda kia ho to( koi bht zyda religious family sy nai h) to kia shadi py agr wo veil carry kry( chahy saas mind kry) to kia kr skty hen?
Jazakallah best video like ever. plz sir recommend me urdu books names which I read , awr uss se meri aqal , feham hikmat , daanish me izafa hu. And I can able to solve my day to day problems. ( in susral ) plzzz muje 2006 se talash hy k kesy me aqal danish hikmat seek lu but cant find any clue. May Allah bless u . I hope u write me books names.
Sir ek sawal hai family main frndz mai. sub k pass car nhi hai chand logo k pass jin k pass nhi wo mangty hain jab do tu care nhi karty na do tu naraz ek ko do dosry ki na do wo muh bana lety plz koi tip deyn
Kisi ko itna free na kro k wo car jesi mehngi chiz mang le. Sab ko unki had mn rakho. Agr himmat hai to nah kehna bhi seekho zindgi mn agr darte ho to jo mangte de diya kro.
1.شوہر کی ماں بننے کی کوشش کرتی ہےbig mistakes Wife means to follow to love to create new generation to making a good dishes... 2.ساس جیٹھانی دیورانی سے مقابلہ نہیں کریں کبھی بھی. 3.شوہر کے آنے سےپہلے تیار ہو کر ساس کےپاس بیٹھ جاٸیں اور شوہر کو بتائيں ابھی ہم یہ بات کررہے تھے ایک خوشگوار ماحول قاٸم کریں
Asslamualaikum sir shohar ko follow to sirf ALLAH Aur RASOOL k guidelines me hi krna h agar deen se dur hua shohar to fir follow krna thik nhi.. Aur dusra ap kh rh k sas se phle mile bat kre jbki ek hadees h ki sbse phle biwi se mile.. Sahi kya hoga ?? Is tarah se to deen implement hi nhi ho rh ye galat pattern chlta ja rh .. misguided pattern ko khi to rokna hoga .. pardon me if i m wrong..
Unhon ne kab kaha shohar ko Allah aur Rasool صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ke ilawa follow karna hae? Kagi biwiya to ajkal shohar ko Allah aur Rasool صلى الله عليه وآله ke mutabiq bhi follow nahein karti, koi na samjhna chahe to elehda baat hae
Sir mujhe is baat ka btaen k mian bahar rehta ho or saray paise apne biwi bacho ko dene ki bajaye apne bhai ko deta ho jiski waja se bhai bhabi ka lifestyle tou acha ho or apne biwi bachy unke mohtaj. Aise mian se baat kro tou wo agay se ghussa hoty
ji bohot achi video hai magar ap kuch mashwarey sason ko bi dain ap sirf jahil sas ki bat kyuon kartai hain educated sas k liyai koi mashwara hai ap k pas jo joint family mai rehti hai
Mujhy bura ni lgta mry husbnd jab ghar aty hn behr tb sab se phly mre sas ame ati hn kamry me ar mre sas mjy kud khti hn k mre fala bahu ko acha ni lgta k beta aiy ghar to maa kamry me ohly na aiy maa bth na kry bs mre yhi dua hy k jsy hm sas k susr shoahr k sath hn wsi hi hmry ghar me bhabi ho ar asa hota hy mre to bhabi bi achi hy
*W Sir Naei Naei Shaadi HO Tab bhi ShOhar Tawajah na Dein TOu kya Karein?? MaaOn se baat Krnay k liye ghanta ghanta time hOta hai biwi k liye adha ghanta bhi nhe nikalta...* 🥺🥺🥺
بیٹا یہی تو چیلنج ہے ۔۔ایک انجان آدمی کی جان بننا ہے صبر اور محبت کے علاوہ کوی راستہ نہیں ۔۔۔چڑ چڑ کرو گے تو دل سے مزید اتر جاو گے ۔۔میٹھے اور محبوب بنو
Psychologists hi marriage counselling krty hain... how cam you say k sahi jaga ap hi hain mashwary k liye ? Ham yeh kaha ja skta h k kisi baray experienced bndy se raye li jaskti Ya sb sebhtrbnda Islamic scholar h.. jo islam k mutabik batye..
Agreed . in sahab ki batein b baz okat baised hoti h . some time hansi ati h is k mashwaro py .purani anti asy mashwary dy sakti h to in sy counselling Ku krwye koi 😂
SAS ko koi nhe smja skta jb tak wo khud na smjna chahy .. qk usy koi farq nhe prta bety ka ghr abad ho ya barbad usny dosri krk le Ani ha .. bahu ko bht compermise krna prta ha qk wo dosry ghr se I Hoti ha .. SAS ka to APNA ghr hota ha woto raaj kr rhi Hoti ha usny to us ghr main qadam jamaye hoty haina .. isi lye bahu ko he compermise krna prta ha .. bht aisi b sasy Hoti ha Jo itni strong nhe Hoti jiski ghr ma nhe chalti r bahu NY wahan qadam jamaye hoty ha ..
Very wrong english...bv means ReProduce.....secondly...kindly focus on Damad ki duties towards his in laws...hr wqt Aurat Aurat mat kro....Pakistani aurat ab independent hy MashaAllah..badboodaar mard b Ab Insaan bny
Thank God koi to bola k Pakistani aurot independent h warna to yh uncle 1970 ki aurot bnana k rahy gy sab ko .Jo apny rights ko chor dy aur toxic susral m rahy jidr uski lash e ani chye wala concept bechty h yh chacha g.
@@horainkhan1725 inki hr video k neechy criticize kro...aurat ko bura bol bol k inki mun ki halat dykh lo....afsos....Nasha krny waly cheracterless aadmi k sath b ye aurat ko conpromise ka kahty hn....i guess apni family ki khwateen ko b yahi mshwra dyga ye
@@amirishaq4133 bilkul critics to banta h .pta ni kasy yh insan itni khuli language use kr laita h aur kisi b measly ka hal ni hota h isky pass siway k brdasht kro ap lrki ho idiot baba.
Yehi soch apki talaq ko am krne me help krty ha. Zamana koi b ho jibilat ni badalty. Orat ko brdasht krna prta ha mry ami ne kia mry sisters b krty hain or even as man hm b bht moqon pr krte hain even insan hone k natay b insan ko maslihaten chalna chye wrna phir ek woi european soch or mashra develop hoga jis me na kisi ko pta mra bap kon or ladies sirf ek symbol smjha jata ha. Akhtar Abbas sahb bht acha kam krrya hain. Allah ap ko sehat tandrusti den. Bht se asy uljhano ko suljha ditay hain jo kahin se b ni sulajh paty. JazakAllah sir. Independent oraten mere ghar me b hain mry ami army me captain hain or sisters ek doctor hain UK me or ek Japan me phd krrae hain. Mry wife b Japan me MBA kr k job krrae ha but maslehat or izzat me hi khandan ki baqa ha.
میرا چوتھا مہنیہ ھے پلیز دعا کریں کہ اللّٰہ تعالیٰ مجھے نیلی آنکھوں والا خوبصورت بیٹا دے آمین نیلی آنکھوں اور خوبصورت بیٹے کے لیے وظیفہ اور خوراک بتائیں پلیز پلیز پلیز پلیز
Mje bolye agar husband ne affair apni babhi se rakha ho aur .even mery husband ne apni babhi k sath physical relation b rakhi hai Even ek month b nhi nikalne Diya biwi ko apne ghar mai nikala apne biwi ko ...even biwi k samne jethani k saath chahkar chala raha tha...bas usko moka nhi aata hai apni babhi k saath to biwi ko ghr se nikala ...to biwi ko kya Krna chahiye jab jethani aur husband usko Ghar se nikale
Ap ny jo b kaha 100% sahi kaha mainy bht bara nuqsan uthaya ha r ab ja k itni thokro k bad mje smj i ha .. susral main chaplosi krny se ue ghr abad hota ha .. baqi umeed kesi se nhe lagani chahye Allah apny hath pao salamat rkhy bs .. hum bahu lakh susral ko sanwarny ki koshish kry pr ik larki 10 logo ko nhe thk krskti .. han shyd wo un jesi zaror van jati ha.. mainy to yehe 3 sal k experince se sekha ..
After marriage I have to face many these things but nobody tells me what to do even my mother and elder sisters I have faced many things I can’t tell you but now after twenty year I have a good adviser now i am being able to tell all these things to my daughter
Ap Tek kehty ho ,meri October main shadi Hain s le phle hi sir Ka video deka thanks sir jee
Bht zabrdast video ha ❤
Kaaash ye sab batain hamari mother's hamay bta dia Karain 🥺
yaar hamari maa hamy samjha bhe dy tu hamari bari behny hamy or cousins asy mashory deti hy k ager ap un per amal ker ly tu Zindagi tabah hojye...... 💔
What a wisdom.. MashaAllah
جزاک اللہ 💞
agr lecture dna hn to is bt pe dn k susral waln k mis behviour ksa deal krna ha qk mis behave to unhn ny krn e ha wrna wo susral to na huaa
Sir gee bhat shukeriya ju itne pyari baatin batay ho Allha aap ko zindagi sehat dy.🌷
mre khyaal se hmen butterng ni krni chahea straight forward hona chahea zda achaa ni bnna chahea zda achaa bnna koi achi bt ni ..........
Bilkul ghlt bt susral main straight forward bn,na bahu ko bht mehnga pahnga par jata ha .. r ye wqt main guzar chuki hu .. chaploai krny main he faida ha bs kesi se umeedy nhe lagani chahye ..
Very nice advice
Thanks and welcome
jitna mrzi orat achi bn la achi b v achi bahu bhaabi kch b ...... end pe wo buri e ha chahay jitni b achi bn la
Blkul asy hi hy
Saii baat haii
True
Well said
Sir buhat buhat buhat shukriya ap nahi hoty tu hamy kon samjhata Qk hamari maa hamy nahi samjhati itni positive baty ❤
Zabarst ❤
شکریہ
Sar. y mushkil kam appny wife per rakhy hain per appki nasehyatain bohat acchi hain mashalla bohat samajdar hain sarizindagi isshi trha zindaygi guzari abb akely rehney ka behi asan taraeqa baya daiin38 sal bad Allaha ky paschaley gaysas khaingee dekha y ko ajarbeth jati hai bara saber karnapertahai abto yi be aqi kitanhaiguzarnay ezat ky sath bachey abad ho acchi baho ajayin ameen
Mashallah
پرفیکٹ 👍🇵🇰🇩🇪🙏
Assalam u alaikum... sir mujhy suggestion chahiye thi k main kese apny relationship ko save rakhun..? Please reply 😢
Ya Allah g mujhy esy hi bnana 😊😂or mery liye asaniyan peda krna ameen ❤
Kbi sas kosmjhiya k bahu ko beti na sahii atleast ouret hi smjh lia kry🤷♀️🤔
Awo jab saaas na khu sirf jitani awo dewrani hu to tab kiase handel kare
Sir mujhe apsy aik bht zaroori baat discuss krni hai.please reply me
Sir ap boht achi tarbiyt krty hyn like my mother but ajkal ka susrali ghar asy ethics k kabil nahi ...har dam hushyar or chuknna rahna parta phir b joti k neechy e rakhty
Sir ap baten to bht ache krty hen per rehnumai Sirf lrkiun ki krty hen kbhe susral walon k liye b koi video bnaen baho ko Kesy rkhna 😊
Sar is traha tou hmra mashara kabi nahi badal sakta unfortunately...
Plzzz exercise bta dein wrjn ki
Apny veil ko married life m different events py Bina behs ky kesy carry kren?
Ye hmara right h na sir!
Family pattern samjhna jaruri h
Jo shor apni Bvi sy bolta na ho os ka ilaj b bta dain
exercise bta dein wrjn ki
Sir mra swal h agr lrki ny shadi sy phly prda kia ho to( koi bht zyda religious family sy nai h) to kia shadi py agr wo veil carry kry( chahy saas mind kry) to kia kr skty hen?
Qayamat k din jawab Allah ko dena hai saas sahiba ko nahi.Baqi aap khud samajhdaar hain.
Shadi cy pehlay baat kr Lin k parda krna hai wrna koi or rishta dekh lo asy phir larki din Raat tang rhty k MN by parda hu
😊❤
Abbi g jb meyky sy Eid aa jyy or us my kapry hun to shoher khy kapry aa to gy to bnda Kya kary,jb k lyy k b na dn ,Eid k lyy
Jazakallah best video like ever. plz sir recommend me urdu books names which I read , awr uss se meri aqal , feham hikmat , daanish me izafa hu. And I can able to solve my day to day problems. ( in susral ) plzzz muje 2006 se talash hy k kesy me aqal danish hikmat seek lu but cant find any clue. May Allah bless u . I hope u write me books names.
Quran ki tafseer seekh leyn jis main apk daily problems ka solution hota ha
@@mkmalik5704 😅
@@haiderabbasshah7674 hansi q a rhi
Quran
Bethy maa k pas but maa ko shrem ani chihy kvo hmesha bahu n bety me iktqelaf dalti. Wife k khilaf kan bhrti
Sir ek sawal hai family main frndz mai. sub k pass car nhi hai chand logo k pass jin k pass nhi wo mangty hain jab do tu care nhi karty na do tu naraz ek ko do dosry ki na do wo muh bana lety plz koi tip deyn
Kisi ko itna free na kro k wo car jesi mehngi chiz mang le. Sab ko unki had mn rakho. Agr himmat hai to nah kehna bhi seekho zindgi mn agr darte ho to jo mangte de diya kro.
Unko Kaho gari ka fuel pump kharab hai
1.شوہر کی ماں بننے کی کوشش کرتی ہےbig mistakes
Wife means to follow
to love to create new generation to making a good dishes...
2.ساس جیٹھانی دیورانی سے مقابلہ نہیں کریں کبھی بھی.
3.شوہر کے آنے سےپہلے تیار ہو کر ساس کےپاس بیٹھ جاٸیں اور شوہر کو بتائيں ابھی ہم یہ بات کررہے تھے ایک خوشگوار ماحول قاٸم کریں
Sorry sir susral wale Pagal ker k rekh dette he.whole life of a woman completely destroy
Correct sying 1oopercent. Skon srf separate home me hy otherwise never n ever
Asslamualaikum sir shohar ko follow to sirf ALLAH Aur RASOOL k guidelines me hi krna h agar deen se dur hua shohar to fir follow krna thik nhi..
Aur dusra ap kh rh k sas se phle mile bat kre jbki ek hadees h ki sbse phle biwi se mile..
Sahi kya hoga ?? Is tarah se to deen implement hi nhi ho rh ye galat pattern chlta ja rh .. misguided pattern ko khi to rokna hoga .. pardon me if i m wrong..
Pakistani society intahai giri hoi society jis MN Deen ka Amal dakhal bs nikah tak ka hai
Unhon ne kab kaha shohar ko Allah aur Rasool صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ke ilawa follow karna hae? Kagi biwiya to ajkal shohar ko Allah aur Rasool صلى الله عليه وآله ke mutabiq bhi follow nahein karti, koi na samjhna chahe to elehda baat hae
orat hmri socity ma doll ha jis ny sb ko khush krna ha remote se chlna wali doll .... enough susraal na hua koi dozah o gaee ye krna ha wo krna ha
Har jagah aesa nahi, kai jagah mamla ulat hae feminism aur westenrism ki wajah se
Sir mujhe is baat ka btaen k mian bahar rehta ho or saray paise apne biwi bacho ko dene ki bajaye apne bhai ko deta ho jiski waja se bhai bhabi ka lifestyle tou acha ho or apne biwi bachy unke mohtaj. Aise mian se baat kro tou wo agay se ghussa hoty
Fahim Bhai Allah Apko hadayt dy sambal jao biwi apki sab kuch Hai Bhai Bhai kuch b nhi okay mun bnaty Hain tu bnany du
Ohh sirje kbi sasu maa or hubby ko bhi smjha dia krin plzzzzz😏🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Jis trah shohar khta maira bs to apni biwi pr chalta bs usi trah inhae bhi pta kamzor side ko hi smjha skta.
Q pochin sas se😏🤷♀️ub hm dressing bhi dosron ki mrzi se krin. Hud hy.
ji bohot achi video hai magar ap kuch mashwarey sason ko bi dain ap sirf jahil sas ki bat kyuon kartai hain educated sas k liyai koi mashwara hai ap k pas jo joint family mai rehti hai
🎉😊😊😊
Mujhy bura ni lgta mry husbnd jab ghar aty hn behr tb sab se phly mre sas ame ati hn kamry me ar mre sas mjy kud khti hn k mre fala bahu ko acha ni lgta k beta aiy ghar to maa kamry me ohly na aiy maa bth na kry bs mre yhi dua hy k jsy hm sas k susr shoahr k sath hn wsi hi hmry ghar me bhabi ho ar asa hota hy mre to bhabi bi achi hy
Mrd kotu ap ful rlx mahol dety tu ouret ko rlx mahol kon dyga🤔wah g mid night ko kon pagal uthy or ready ho. Kia fzool bat kr rhy🤷♀️😏
*W Sir Naei Naei Shaadi HO Tab bhi ShOhar Tawajah na Dein TOu kya Karein?? MaaOn se baat Krnay k liye ghanta ghanta time hOta hai biwi k liye adha ghanta bhi nhe nikalta...* 🥺🥺🥺
بیٹا یہی تو چیلنج ہے ۔۔ایک انجان آدمی کی جان بننا ہے صبر اور محبت کے علاوہ کوی راستہ نہیں ۔۔۔چڑ چڑ کرو گے تو دل سے مزید اتر جاو گے ۔۔میٹھے اور محبوب بنو
Jhapi to bnti h boss 😅😂❤
Psychologists hi marriage counselling krty hain... how cam you say k sahi jaga ap hi hain mashwary k liye ?
Ham yeh kaha ja skta h k kisi baray experienced bndy se raye li jaskti
Ya sb sebhtrbnda Islamic scholar h.. jo islam k mutabik batye..
Aam tor pe psychologist zehan ka expert hota hae na keh marital relations ka
Agreed . in sahab ki batein b baz okat baised hoti h . some time hansi ati h is k mashwaro py .purani anti asy mashwary dy sakti h to in sy counselling Ku krwye koi 😂
shadi aur susral sirf azab hy mn to pachta rahi hun shadi kr k
ساس ماہ جبین کو آپ نے نہیں سمجھایا
Kafi sari videos mae samjhaya hae
😂😂😂😂
Point😂
@@salmanarif6651sir inhon ne theek kaha😂😂😂
SAS ko koi nhe smja skta jb tak wo khud na smjna chahy .. qk usy koi farq nhe prta bety ka ghr abad ho ya barbad usny dosri krk le Ani ha .. bahu ko bht compermise krna prta ha qk wo dosry ghr se I Hoti ha .. SAS ka to APNA ghr hota ha woto raaj kr rhi Hoti ha usny to us ghr main qadam jamaye hoty haina .. isi lye bahu ko he compermise krna prta ha .. bht aisi b sasy Hoti ha Jo itni strong nhe Hoti jiski ghr ma nhe chalti r bahu NY wahan qadam jamaye hoty ha ..
Sasural or shadi niri musibat hi hai
🥺
To phir na karo😂😂😂
@@quratulainnoor2314 nhi ki 😂
Bilkul theek.
Pta hota to na hi krti
Hmesha men oriented bat krty ho app. Bs krdu plzzzz🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
جیسے حکم ۔۔ویسے متبادل بھی تو فرمایے۔۔۔ہر گھر میں گولیاں چلوا دیں اب ۔۔۔ آگ تو آپ خود ہی لگا دیں گی
Wah g bs kitchen sanbhlna or dishwashing krna. Respct kisny deni wife ko. Hud hy ap vali. Ajeeb one sided bat krty😏🤷♀️🤔
Very wrong english...bv means ReProduce.....secondly...kindly focus on Damad ki duties towards his in laws...hr wqt Aurat Aurat mat kro....Pakistani aurat ab independent hy MashaAllah..badboodaar mard b Ab Insaan bny
Thank God koi to bola k Pakistani aurot independent h warna to yh uncle 1970 ki aurot bnana k rahy gy sab ko .Jo apny rights ko chor dy aur toxic susral m rahy jidr uski lash e ani chye wala concept bechty h yh chacha g.
@@horainkhan1725 inki hr video k neechy criticize kro...aurat ko bura bol bol k inki mun ki halat dykh lo....afsos....Nasha krny waly cheracterless aadmi k sath b ye aurat ko conpromise ka kahty hn....i guess apni family ki khwateen ko b yahi mshwra dyga ye
@@amirishaq4133 inki counselling hoti e kya h just auntio Waly mashwary ... WO b Baised ..mgy to is bndy sy ab chirr hony lgi h
@@amirishaq4133 bilkul critics to banta h .pta ni kasy yh insan itni khuli language use kr laita h aur kisi b measly ka hal ni hota h isky pass siway k brdasht kro ap lrki ho idiot baba.
Yehi soch apki talaq ko am krne me help krty ha. Zamana koi b ho jibilat ni badalty. Orat ko brdasht krna prta ha mry ami ne kia mry sisters b krty hain or even as man hm b bht moqon pr krte hain even insan hone k natay b insan ko maslihaten chalna chye wrna phir ek woi european soch or mashra develop hoga jis me na kisi ko pta mra bap kon or ladies sirf ek symbol smjha jata ha. Akhtar Abbas sahb bht acha kam krrya hain. Allah ap ko sehat tandrusti den. Bht se asy uljhano ko suljha ditay hain jo kahin se b ni sulajh paty. JazakAllah sir. Independent oraten mere ghar me b hain mry ami army me captain hain or sisters ek doctor hain UK me or ek Japan me phd krrae hain. Mry wife b Japan me MBA kr k job krrae ha but maslehat or izzat me hi khandan ki baqa ha.
میرا چوتھا مہنیہ ھے
پلیز دعا کریں کہ
اللّٰہ تعالیٰ مجھے نیلی آنکھوں والا خوبصورت بیٹا دے آمین
نیلی آنکھوں اور خوبصورت بیٹے کے لیے وظیفہ اور خوراک بتائیں پلیز پلیز پلیز پلیز
Narial khaya karen
Mje bolye agar husband ne affair apni babhi se rakha ho aur .even mery husband ne apni babhi k sath physical relation b rakhi hai
Even ek month b nhi nikalne Diya biwi ko apne ghar mai nikala apne biwi ko ...even biwi k samne jethani k saath chahkar chala raha tha...bas usko moka nhi aata hai apni babhi k saath to biwi ko ghr se nikala ...to biwi ko kya Krna chahiye jab jethani aur husband usko Ghar se nikale
Aese ghatiya galeez shohar se talaq Lene chahye .....
Plzzz exercise bta dein wrjn ki
exercise bta dein wrjn ki