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    The most important details in this text are the five must-do tasks parents should do before a daughter gets married. These tasks include getting finances in order, spending time with her, befriending her future in-laws, taking care of medical issues, and resolving broken family relationships. Traditionally, the bride's family foots the bill for the wedding ceremony and reception, so it is important to be prepared. Modern couples foot the bill themselves or split the bill in some way with their families. Open a separate account for her wedding fund and put away a set amount of money each month.
    Evaluate your finances and determine how much you can afford to spend on the wedding. Spend time with her family skiing, design pictures/LJM photos/thinkstock, and plan one last family vacation. Pull out old photo albums and cozy up on the couch to remind her who she is and where she came from. Plan one last family vacation or set aside the first Thursday of every month until the wedding.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 71

  • @SyedaMateen-q5p
    @SyedaMateen-q5p Рік тому +5

    Allah tallah ap ko or ap k ghr walo Ko hamsha Khush or slamat rakhy Deen or dunia ki Namaty ap ko mely .
    Sir ma na ap k shukria Ada krna tha sir ma Holland ma rahti ho 3 Saal ho Gy hai ABI 2, month phaly Allah tallah na mujhy batay sa nawaza hai Mary 3 bachy hai mashallah ak Raat ma bht preasan thi Ksi baat sa or sari Raat ro ro k Allah sa duaaya magati Rahi k Allah tallah mujhy koi rasta dakha Dy phr next Dy ma mobile p Kuch dakh Rahi thi ap ki ak video ma na dakhi Mary Dil na Kaha k ya dakhni jahy or us ko sunany k bad sa mari life change ho gai hai ab koi b mushkil ay Kuch b ho ma Khush rahti ho or Allah k shukr Ada krti ho ap bht Acha km kr rahy hai Allah tallah ap ko hamsha slamat rakhy ameen

  • @syedshaheer5485
    @syedshaheer5485 2 місяці тому +1

    Jazak Allah khair

  • @bilalsheraz7168
    @bilalsheraz7168 11 місяців тому

    Good information apni beti ko guide karny ky laiy

  • @naeemahmadfazal4763
    @naeemahmadfazal4763 Рік тому +2

    Jazakallah Khair for useful information on Family Life.❤

  • @ambrinakanwal5696
    @ambrinakanwal5696 Рік тому +19

    Did you give any advice to men and boys too...

    • @rajarizwan2031
      @rajarizwan2031 Рік тому +2

      They will never follow it 😂 sir is smart

  • @zubaidaqayyum2260
    @zubaidaqayyum2260 Рік тому +3

    boht helpful video

  • @zohraansari6942
    @zohraansari6942 Рік тому

    Assalamualaikum
    Kamal sir kitni khubsurti se itne nazuk or hissas pehluo ko bayan Kiya hai alfaz nahi hai apki tarif ke liye la jawab bhut sari duaie apke sath hai humari jazak Allah sir

  • @NoobGaming-oi2uo
    @NoobGaming-oi2uo Рік тому +1

    Bht acha smjatay hen ap

  • @saneelaaltaf4905
    @saneelaaltaf4905 Рік тому +4

    Nice video.

  • @naziakanwal1626
    @naziakanwal1626 Рік тому +2

    Thanks so much sir

  • @bilalsheraz7168
    @bilalsheraz7168 11 місяців тому +1

    Good 👍

  • @quickandeasyhomeremdes4672
    @quickandeasyhomeremdes4672 Рік тому +11

    Sir je boyss ko sekhaein ghr kesaay basaataaay hn....wo immature larkion ko bhi handle kar sakty hn....but ak mature larki kubhi ak kamaqal mard ko change nae kar sakti......

  • @thememories2153
    @thememories2153 Рік тому +2

    Keep it up good job👍🏻❤

  • @akifaali6926
    @akifaali6926 Рік тому +2

    Good video

  • @shaguftashamim4149
    @shaguftashamim4149 Рік тому

    Thanks❤️

  • @usamazafar4236
    @usamazafar4236 Рік тому +4

    betun ki maa ko kahen k betun ko smjhain sb kuch khud hi acha ho jaye ga

  • @TahiraJaved-j3s
    @TahiraJaved-j3s Рік тому +1

    Ap NY btai h ye batin apni betion ko

  • @rashidhussain8143
    @rashidhussain8143 Рік тому +1

    Bohat lengthy talk

  • @NoobGaming-oi2uo
    @NoobGaming-oi2uo Рік тому +1

    😊

  • @zararehman2754
    @zararehman2754 Рік тому +5

    Lerrkun ko na smjana k wo hi ik du din sebr kren, pehly hi din frz nai ha. Sari umr k liy wo uski b. V ha sirf ik din k liy nai

    • @saneelaaltaf4905
      @saneelaaltaf4905 Рік тому +2

      True.

    • @anex3267
      @anex3267 Рік тому +3

      Yh masla in ko kasy pta ho sakta h .yh bat to islamic scholar b btaty h but bcz yh chacha g khula bolny k adi h rozi roti lgi hui iski .larkay m tori aqal ho to wo sabar krly mehmano m bezit ho e na .but is jahil k nazeek walima halal ni hona phr 😅 adv faiz ko suno ya tauha ko jo islamic scholar h jo quran o hadees janty ha.asy masil ka bta sakty h k first ko krna koi lazmi e ni h .neem hakeem counselor h yh

    • @haiderabbasshah7674
      @haiderabbasshah7674 Рік тому

      ​@@anex3267 i wish u got married to someone jo tume tarsa tarsa k maray. Or majboran tme kahien or mu marna pry.

    • @anex3267
      @anex3267 Рік тому +3

      @@haiderabbasshah7674 why r u so hurt bro? 😂 u r looking so frustrated right now . bat izzat bezati kr rahy yh chacha g .jiska khud ki language bazari h...!! Shohar agr mehmano m bezit ni hona chahta to ruk jye tora hosla krly phly bivi k sath understanding tou krly jhan dosti hogi wahan asy masly hongy e ni .wahan sakoon aur khushi hogi bina darr aur khoof k. Zabrdusti ka kya faida? .aur bhai kisi islamic scholars ko suna kro wo zada achy sy husband wife sas and bahu k role ko define krty h na k sasty counselor ko.auntio wali batein h iski .Adv Faiz & Eng Ali Tauha, Muhammad Ali jo Youth club k h unko suno. Apko achi b.v mily m tumhy bad dua ni dati tumhri trha

    • @haiderabbasshah7674
      @haiderabbasshah7674 Рік тому

      @@anex3267 o anti tu smj ni ri yar. This is not abroad this is pakistan. Idr log aisy e hoty. Kbi apni ama se pocha k ap ne 1st ni8 kya kiya tha. I believe Unhy to koi masla ni aya hoga. Ye masla ajkal ki girls ka hy. Jin k drmaybazi e khtm ni hoti.

  • @zafarhan4878
    @zafarhan4878 Рік тому +1

    Sir... Buhut khoob. Baeti kay liye ap nay bataya. Ab shadi kertay baitun kay liye bhi bataen. Aik maa baetay ki shadi kay waqat ussay kia samjhaaey?

    • @saneelaaltaf4905
      @saneelaaltaf4905 Рік тому

      I think same cheezein samjhani chahiye

    • @zafarhan4878
      @zafarhan4878 Рік тому

      @@saneelaaltaf4905
      Laikan baetay ku Batanay maa kay liye sharam aur haya kay lahaaz say aur bhi masaeel hain.

  • @shaguftashamim4149
    @shaguftashamim4149 Рік тому

    Aoa

  • @maryamkhan4808
    @maryamkhan4808 Рік тому

    wex krna to koi gunaah nahi hai,,fir kyon samjhennge..aur agr koi cheez hai to samjhna hai use..

  • @noshbee7782
    @noshbee7782 Рік тому

    Sir kash meri ami ne ye video dekhi hoti bar wakt..meri or unki kitni help ho jati

  • @usamazafar4236
    @usamazafar4236 Рік тому +2

    bharkati to bv k lye hain k bv ko kharcha na dena us k maikay walon ki qadar na krna unko be izat krna bv ko nechay laga k rakhna lekin phr aik din yeh sb ulat ho jata hy beta jb maa behno se be zaar ho jata hy phr inko mun ki khani parti hy kyun k larkay ki adat bn chuki hoti hy buri tarbiyat ki waja se is lye phr woh apni maa behno ki be izti krnay se bhi baaz nai ata

    • @vipmobile320
      @vipmobile320 Рік тому

      Kash mery husband ko b aqal ajae or mera or humary bachy ka b kbi soch ly

    • @usamazafar4236
      @usamazafar4236 Рік тому

      @@vipmobile320 sabar kren aik din dekhna ap k shohar ko khud hi aqal ajaye gi dair se hi sahi lekin aye gi zarur aur dear ap ka to masha Allah baby hy meri to aulad bhi nai hy bilkul akeli hun

    • @vipmobile320
      @vipmobile320 Рік тому

      @@usamazafar4236 Allah apko aulad jesi nemat sy nawazy😢mera baby abhi dunya mein aya nae ha any wala ha jb sy pregnant hun tb sy apny parents k pas hun kbi susral walo ny pocha tk nae

  • @rabia8733
    @rabia8733 Рік тому +2

    Plz sir baki sab baatain apni jagha theek hain aap ki par plz jis baat se Allah ne mana kiya hai uss pe ye mat kahain k gunnah sawab mein na paren.. hum musalman hai aur humara yaqeen Allah pe hona chahiye.. wo chahay ga tu ghar banain gay.. plucking islam mein allowed nae hai so wo hum nae karwa saktay.. just unibrow remove kar saktay hain and thats it aur iss k baray mein bht sakht hadees hai.. kindly full research kr k wo bhi share kar den sab se

    • @AkhterAbbas
      @AkhterAbbas  Рік тому +5

      مردوں سے مشبابہت سے سختی سے منع فرمایا گیا ہے۔۔مردوں کے چہرے بازووں ٹانگوں پر بال ہوتے ہیں ۔۔۔ہم آدھی ادھوری بات پر ایمان لاتے ہیں اور جب مرضی ہوتی ہے راے بدل لیتے ہیں ۔۔نیک سے نیک خاتون شادی پر ویکسنگ تھریڈنگ میک اپ سب کرتی ہیں ۔۔۔یہ دینی مسلہ ہے ہی نہیں سماجی مسلہ ہے تہزیبی ایشو ہے ۔۔چار چھ برس میں ہمارے ہاں بھی فل باڈی ہیرلیس کلچر ہو جانا ہے صرف افورڈیبلٹی کا مسلہ ہے ۔۔۔

  • @rubinahafeez9507
    @rubinahafeez9507 Рік тому

    😂mun bagar billy wala 😅❤❤

  • @affannaeem39
    @affannaeem39 Рік тому

    Shadi ka mndap? Seriously sir

  • @HassanAli-yh5pt
    @HassanAli-yh5pt Рік тому +1

    Tum apni beti ku ya sab samjana

  • @anex3267
    @anex3267 Рік тому +1

    Islam m kidr likha h b.v shohar k lye eyebrows bnwaye ? Refrence h tou do phly??? bad m khna mou bagar billy wala.

  • @horainkhan1725
    @horainkhan1725 Рік тому +7

    Itni Khuli aur Vulgar batein why? ap din ba din bahut open content daty h ..and one thing keep in mind its ur duty to educate both Genders without taking their sides. And always Give reference of hadith. U always do the victim blaming u Need to upgrade your Mind its high time now.I Always feel hesitation while opening Your videos bcz I know there must be a vulgar talk.

    • @amalik1171
      @amalik1171 11 місяців тому

      Whats bad, its reality, he addressed complex issue in very decent way.

  • @rabia-kd7jx
    @rabia-kd7jx Рік тому

    M lanat bhjti hu shadi pr

  • @rabeeyarehman2092
    @rabeeyarehman2092 Рік тому +1

    Sir " bachiyan " tu aap ki bat sun'ny k lye tayyar hi nhi wo kehti hain pehly beton ki maaon ko mashwra do k wo apny beton ko samjhaen.. or dejeye mashwry ..aaj kal tu maaen betiyon ko ye samjhati hain k kesy shoher ko qabo kerna hai or saas nand ko kesy thal'ley lgana hai ..

  • @NinjaThinker
    @NinjaThinker Рік тому +5

    Bohat open language 😢

    • @haiderabbasshah7674
      @haiderabbasshah7674 Рік тому +3

      Cls room m sb kuch uchal uchal k discuss krti ho. Or idr kam ki bat ho ri to madam ko ye open language lag ri.

  • @anex3267
    @anex3267 Рік тому

    Yh purana zamna ni h jidr log betiyo ko khty thy k ab tumhri lash e ani chye log ab samhjdar h khud ko badlo sirf views lany k lye dosro py apni third class soch mat thoppo.ak number k tharki lgty ho jb asi open batein krty ho.tum sy achy to islmic scholors scholars h jo in laws aur husband wife k relation ko seerat e pak ki roshni m btaty h.try to learn first sasty couneslling

  • @anex3267
    @anex3267 Рік тому +1

    Yh naya zaviya ni h purana ghissta phita zaviya h jo a k day jty ho .Islam ko zara parh k ayo phly kasy Allah k Nabi ny Apni bivio sy husan e Sulook kya islam ny shohar ko kha h k bivi ko aleda ghar ly k dy agr susral sy ni bnti to phly islam seekho jnb ap khud kisi kis islami schlor ko suno taky tumhra sakht dil m narmi aye kusi bhn aur beti k lye .aur yh behayi phelna bnd kro 😈 apni umar ka khyal krlo chlo.tumhri batein mashray k lye toxic h .is society m deen ki kami h aur tmhri videos toxic aunties dakh k aur toxic hori h.