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Prof Dr Javed Iqbal is a surgeon with special interest in laparoscopic and cancer surgery. His professional qualifications are FCPS, FRCS, FACS, FICLS, MCPS-HPE.
He is one of the pioneers of laparoscopic surgery in the region. He has trained more than 50 surgeons formally as their supervisor and thousands more who have worked with him in various capacities during his four decades long professional journey. He is an official mentor of Royal College of Glasgow and International Course Director of American College of Surgeons for Advance Trauma Life Support (ATLS). He is a well known medical educationist and has been a part of College of Physicians and Surgeons, University of Health Sciences and Nishter Medical University as faculty of medical education.He is on the reviewers panal of various index medical journals. He has more than twenty five research publications on his credit along with a book on surgery entitled "The Operative Surgery"He is a published poet, short story writer, critic and broadcaster. His current areas of effort are teaching and training of soft skill at various national and international fora. He is very active on social media and his team runs a very well subscribed youtube channel covering versatile topics& interests. He is regularly being invited on national & international TV shows for his intellectual contribution. He is an influential speaker. Millions of people are getting benefit from his videos on medical education, FCPS training, parenting, relationships, human wellbeing and various other social issues.
Govt of Punjab has recently assigned him the role of member, Punjab Health Policy Board.
Unexpectedly awesome answers and the girl didn't interrupt him like other typical anchors.... Good job
I wish girls are also up to the mark in our society and should not only follow money.
You must be a brainwashed feminist
There is difference in anchor n host ? @saleha alvi
@@EnSabahNur-ir5mw stark reality
@@EnSabahNur-ir5mw chutia hai kia. English main parha nhi jata tu phly parh likh ja.
For the first time a man saying these words.he is absolutely right that male child needs more training bcoz he has to do more duties n responsibilities in future.mother’s should listen.
"The happiest man is he to whom Allah has given a good wife".
Hazrat Ali (R.A)
And which is very rare as most of the girls in our society don't want to form a family. They are being hijacked by feminism.
@@azee6532 what problem do you have with the beautiful concept of feminism? Feminism means equal rights for both genders. Like he said at 5:45
@@ummabdullah7601 Equal rights is what? And beautiful concept, how come?
Sir kindly correct the statement...it is Allah has given a good wife!
@@therandomeow2131 sorry everyone
It's my mistake 😔😔
Larkon ki ankhu pe haya ka parda dalna zruri hai " this line mind blowing 100% true
For the very first time I'm seeing a video where finally someone is trying to teach men on how to treat their wives
Kash koi larkio ko b samjhaye ky standard dakhna chor dyn .achy larky standards main hon zarori nhi .
@@Maazfamily standards dekhne ka haq hamey mazhab ka diya gaya hai mard ko sirf financial supremacy di gai hai
Ab tum kanglay ko supremacy bhi chaiye aur tikkay jaib mai nahi
Follow sunnah and you would not need anything else. Divorce rate is increasing because of so-called modernism. Shaadi se pehly 1000 times soch k decision lo aur phir dutt jao
اللہ کے رسول صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کی احادیث کو پڑھنے کی آپ کو توفیق ملتی تو یہ بات نہیں کہتے
But girls still dont know how to treat their husbands.
پڑھی لکھی.جاب کرنے والی لڑکی سے شوق سے شادی کی جاتی ہے اور اسے ان پڑھ خاتون کی طرح سلوک کیا جاتا ہے
بدسلوکی کرنے والا فرد اسے جاہل ثابت کرنا چاہتا ہے
حسن سلوک تو سب کے لئے یکساں ہونا چاہئے
Well said
💯
Respect should be for everyone
Modern ya padhi likhi orat har mard ko achi lagti hai but Jese hi shadi hoti hai uske bad woh us orat ko itna zaleel krte hai k woh bechari aik jahil orat ban jati hai
@@bushrashabbier9845 غور طلب ہے کہ ایسا کیوں ہوتا ہے...حسن سلوک سے جو گھر جنت بن سکتا ہے..وہ مردوں کی انا اور احساس کمتری کی نظر ہوجاتا ہے
Dono aik dusre ki izzat karenge hr lihaz se e.g emotions likes opinions etc ghr jannat banega aur bache bhi confident aur comfortable hinge aur wo bhi izzat kerna seekhenge.Allah hmse wo kam lele jo khalis uski raza k he Aameen
Sir
I suffered alot 22 years in sake 9f my parents izzat but atpast I got khulah
3 daughters 1 is an electronic engineer 2 are doctors
Allah apki betion ky naseeb achy kry ..ameen
Dear Sister, I wish you a very happy and content life ahead. I am a lawyer. I handle family cases and as a lawyer I am a social engineer. I want to talk about Awan families. I have had a keen observation of Awan's family system and it's on the brink of collapse. No other family (caste) has such a weak family system than Awans. I am really sorry in advance, I don't mean to offend you neither I am judging you specifically. But, you have three daughters. Before marrying them, do teach them the value of a family unit and after you married them off, don't interfere in their day to day affairs. Sorry again. Wish you and your daughters all the luck.
آ پ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے اپنی بیویوں کو الگ گھر میں رکھا تھا اور شہزادیوں کی طرح رکھا تھا آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم گھر کچن کے تمام کاموں میں اپنی بیویوں کے ساتھ ہاتھ بٹاتے تھے آ پ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے اپنی کسی بیوی کو کبھی یہ نہیں کہا کہ آ پ کو یہ نہیں بنانا آتا وہ نہیں بنانا آ تا۔ آ پ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم اپنے کام خود کیا کرتے تھے۔ آ پ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے اپنی کسی بیوی پر کبھی غصہ نہیں کیا تھا۔
SUBHANALLAH..... MASHALLAH..... ALHAMDULILLAH..... ALLAHUAKBAR..... JAZAKALLAH
.....❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
عورت پہ ظلم ہو اور عورت کو انصاف ملے تو یہ مرد کی شکست نہیں بلکہ انسانیت کی جیت ہے.
Agr orat agay zuban chalai aur mard nokr smjhay apni makarian jaerri rakhen
ڈاکٹر صاحب نے بہت ہی اچھے طریقےسے بات سمجھائ ہے ۔
حدیث مبارکہ ہے ۔نیک عورت دنیا کی بہترین متاع ہے ۔
عورت اک طاقت ہے ۔
عورت اک قوت ہے ۔
نیک عورت کا فرمایا ہیں نا کہ اس عورت کا جو گھر سے باہر آزادی چاہتی ہیں ۔
I agree with only last sentence. جس شخص میں اپنے حقوق کا جتنا احساس بڑھے گا اس کی نفسانیت اتنی ہی پروان چڑھے گی۔ اس کے برخلاف جو اپنے فرائض پر نظر رکھتا اس کی روحانیت ترقی کرے گی۔ یہ اصل میڈیٹشن ہے۔ انڈیا ۔
I SS your comment.
We need more people like you Sir..jazak Allah million times for making such videos...and yes its true that if we are educating our Daughters or bringing educated Daughter In Laws we should also change our mindsets ..
yeh bat bohat achi kahi hai k aurat mazeed aurat ho aor mard mazeed mard ho. yeh baat agar shadi main ho to hardly shadian fail hon gee. auraton ka kam ghar aor bachon ki daikh bhal aor mard ka kaam in sab ki daikh bhal aor ghar apnay paisaon say chalana hota hai. aj kal masla yeh hai k auratain ghar k kaam kerna haqeer samajhti hain jab k bahir kam kerna aor work place main jali katti batain sun'na pasand kerti hai.
Hon'ble Professor Dr Javed Iqbal Saheb,
You have elleborated very nicely👌,
the Socio-cultural factor of contemporary society.
With regards 🙏🌹
Dr Akhilesh Singh YADAV Mainpuri UP India
Shukar ha kisi nay beton ki tarbiyat ka zikar b Kiya,es muashray mein.
You spoke my heart out! Broughtup is equally important but men side needs greater grooming as its bit deprived area.
زبردست اصلاح ڈوکٹر صاحب۔ آپ کو سن کر اکسر میری سوچ کو ایک نیا زاویہ ملتا ہے۔ آپ مجھے اچھے لگتے ہیں اور میں آپکی بہت عزت کرتا ہوں۔ اللہ نے توفیق دی تو کبھی آپ سے ملاقات کا شرف حاصل کریں گے۔ اللہ آپ کو خوش رکھے
There are still families who would never accept their daughter back at all once they did her marriage.
They would always tell their daughter to have patience until she dies.
Murdon sy brdasht he nhi hota k aurat apny huq k liye bolay
Zarorat se ziada parhi likhi lagti han ap
@@AbbasAbbas-wt3bo Ye qis qisim ki tanqeed hy samjh nahi aya
So true
Mjhe Dr.shab ki yeh baat bht achi lagi hy.. K ab hmri society ko change hona chyea..jahan larkoun ki tarbiyat bht zarori hy..specialy haya k mamle me..yahan sirf hum larkion per zor dete hain or larkuon ko ignore ker dete hsin..jis ki waja se larka apna farz samjh ker her bura kam kerta hy. Or hmri society me khud urtein b kehti hain us ne yeh kr diya to wo mard hy ..tum to larki ho na.. Jab hum larke or larki ki baraber tarbiyat karein gaya .larkon ki or b mazboot tarbiyat karein gaya.. Tab hi 1 healthy society bane gi..werna her zamane me ase hi hota rahe ga..
logical answer...zbrdst trakeay se explain kiya..Mard ki b Tarbayt itne ee zruri ha jitne orat ki...
Jzakillah khairan kaseeran Kaseerah ❤ Sir Very Well Said .Allah hm sb ko Aqal or Deen ki samajh ataa kry Ameen suma Ameen
Belated happy teacher's day, sir!
Listening to you has been transformative for me at many levels. I prefer listening to you over listening to filmi songs.
You words add a strong sense of anchoring to my life. And the youngsters like us in the subcontinent need this guidance.
Much love, from India.❣️
Stay blessed brother
Same i also listen his lecture as a replacemnent of entertainment his lectures are very unique and enjoyable i am so proud of him
Best answer, and I pray for you to have a peaceful life. Alkhumdulilllah we have people like you.
Assalamualaikum, JazakALLAH Khair ...
Dil se ap k liye Dua hy...
ALLAH ap logo ka says hm pr salmat rakhe.
Apko salmti,sehat,darazi Umar bilkhair ar hr hr Kam mai aasaniyn aata frmai. Aameen
Well said sir! To live a peaceful and successful conjugal life, both husb n wife should demonstrate great patience and always be thankful to each other.
Sir plz working women k challenges per bhi video banain....they are. Suffering overburden of responsibilities....no one is helping them....this is general situation
اوور برڈنڈ ۔۔ودھ ۔۔رسپونسیبلیٹی
دی ۔۔جنرل ۔۔سچویشن
Sir may Allah SWT bless u and may all the men in our society think like u... JazakAllah
6:15 jitni tareef kare kam hai Masha Allah bahut khubsurat baat 😌
Great content, Doctor Sahib. 🇮🇳
Belated happy teachers' day Dr. Javed sir. You taught me how yo live. I have attained many soft skills from your teachings. Thank yous can't do enuf. Love & Respect from Indian Hindu Sir 🥰
Why mention 'hindu '
To tell hindu's are not against muslims. To show how hindu's loved and respect muslims who deserve that kind of love and respect.:)
Same here bhai, we being Muslim in majority love and respect hindus as well ❤️🙏🤝
@@ayoushidhall2557 we love u and respect your thoughts......from a Muslim brother..❤❤❤❤
Thank u so much brother. Mu h love to you as well.🥰
جزاک اللہ خیرا کَثیرا، سر جی
👏 zabardast Sir AAP k words sirf words Nhi balke Golden words hn r samjany ka style b boht Aala 👏
This is known as enlightment!!! Allah reward him
Bohot achi baat kahi aapne Momin ko ba haya hona chahiye. 👏
Behtreen Sawaal and Dr is always the best Stay blessed.
Mashallah every one watch this video . Kya behtareen speech hai.
Doctor jb ghr mein esi discussion hoti hy toh me kehti hon k zamana khrab hi na ho agr parents sirf sheyr ki nzr beti k bjaey betoun ko bhi dekhein , tabiyat beti k sath betoun ki bhi krein tameez tehzeeb sikhaein jo k nhi krty parents esa,
Ye sb kehti hon toh batein sunti hon aagy sy,
Lekin kheir, mjhy abhi ap ki ye bt sunn k behad khushi hoi k ap ny bhi yehi javab diya k male ki tabiyat zyada ehtemam sy krni chahiye
Aj kal society change ho chuki hai. Gurls ko b utna hi educate krna cheay jitna larko ko. Jab rights dono k equal rkhnay hain tu educate krna b dono ko rqually hi cheay.
Thanks for speaking my thoughts! Much respect!
PLZ DUA FOR ME TO GET A GOOD JOB SOTHAT I COULD GET MARRIED 🙏🙏🙏
I NEVER WANT TO INDULGE IN ANY HARAM RELATIONSHIP
Bro why looking for job go for a business food stuff
Same bro, I'm stuck in the same situation :/
IN SHA ALLAH WE'LL GET Halal Relationship
Dua'a hai mere dost. Sab accha hoga.. sabr se aur shukr se, maangte rahein bas upar waale se.
What about getting married at whatever possible, and keep working hard for better financial stability?
Wah sir apne dil chu liya ......kash k apke jaise hr mard ki soch bdle...🙏🙏
WOW, THANKYOU PROF! such an articulate, graceful talk on exploitation, evolvement of gender roles and the need for positive parenting 👏🏽
Patience is the name of the game.
3:53 Masha Allah bahut khubsurat baat ki aap ne
Rekshaws are more fun
Zamanay ko bura na kaho zamana Allah ki zaat se jura hai Allah ko ni Pasand is trhan kehna
MASHA ALLAH sir u are 100% right🎉
Very well explanation of relationship between genders and the role of men and women in society. May Allah rewards you and increase you in knowledge.
we need to be positive to be a good citizen n human beings.
Ma Sha Allah, What a nice way of talking you have sir!!!. Barakallaahu fee ilmika. 🌹🌹🌹🌹
Your way of perception and acknowlegment of life is mind blowing ....
Plz dr.sahab aap aur interview post kare bahut hi achha laga,aap ki zahniyat Masha Allah 🥰🥰
Great lectures sir mashallah your every lectures Is amazing and very helpful for our society Than you so much for all videos
Impressed by your way of talk and knowledge.. Allah barkat day mazeed aap KO
Men who need to watch this video will never be able to overcome their ego long enough to actually sit down for it
Sir, you are speaking the words circulating in my mind. I really enjoyed listening to this question.
A great teacher & human being who is educating the society about the challenging circumstances of modernism. Hats of to Doctor Sahib ❤️❤️❤️👏👏👏
Bangali
Hats off *
All those girls commenting here, please educate yourself too and come at par with what is requiredfor a good relationship. Taali dono hatho sai bajti hai. Haqooq ka sab orto ko bataya jata hai albatta faraiz kisi ko pata nhi hotay. Please apni girls ki usi tarah sai tarbiyat karein jaisay ap apnay sath karwana chahti hain
Generally speaking men are more dominant in our culture, therefore women suffer alot of abuse.
In an abusive relationship, your theory of ' tali dono hath ' ...
Does not apply. Men need to be educated that it is sunnah to treat women with kindness and abuse is intolerable.
Your little speech tells us exactly what side of the fence you are on. Everyone knows their rights these days and the other person's rights...It is the abuse of these rights that is the problem.
Great person may Allah keep him always happy
Jazakallah khair sir, stay blessed.
Beautiful talk ❤❤
You are doing a great job
It's so sensitive topic
But you elaborate it well
6:39
Absolutely right
Sir ek ek lfz ap ka mjy qeemti lga.💝
Allah ap ki r ap ki team ki zindgyun m asanyun ki rehmt kry
Aameen!
Amazing 😍😍 Sir very amazing... Meray Dil ki BAAT keh d
Golden Words..
What a great scholar ♥️
May Allah reward all ur team in both worlds
U always have amazing words
emotional support of family should be more,so man can fight with whole world.
جزاك اللّٰه خيرًا
Great lectures
A great scholar and teacher who always teaches the society in an honourable way
@@arshadsyed6628 g Alhumdulillah i m married
Thank you
Sir sory for typing mistake I like very much your all heart touching lessons.Thanks
Brilliant speech,following up Sir Javeed iqbal
Well said sir!
Short and sweet information. Thank you Sir.
Its amazing sir
A very psitive video regarding women rights👏👏
Sir greetings frm Congo Africa
Absolutely True 💯🌹🌹🌹
Good answers sir your golden word are very helpful in my own life
As always, and as expected. Brilliant. 👍👍
Assalamalikum beautiful discussion 👌
What a great msg dr sahib,.....i luv ur thoughts nd ideas......u r great
💯 k lrkon ki tarbiyat pr tawajo ki ziyada zrort h
Excellent words....
Exact' Sir we should keep focus on balanced behaviors.
Good topic sir. Thanks for this.
Very very important topic
I appreciate you Sir
Keep it up 🌹🧘🧘🧘
Great work!
Thank you so Much Sir....
modern wife doesnt mean parhi likhi..parhi likhi is educated.. atleast make it right in the video thumbnail
بہت بہترین 👌
Salam ji sir aap kaise hain u r really great person right &true i agree with u 👍may Allah bless u with good health and happiness ameen 🤲🌷💐
Sir you are absolutely right 👍👍
what a great teacher, love you sir
You are right sir but when a woman is victim of abuse violence and cruelty then how a woman live in that house. We have to stand for our right
Sir absolutely right God bless you
کسی انگریز کی قرابت دار
MashAllah you are with great thinking
Great personality dr sb
Outstanding nice information sir