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I can't imagine the pressure and anxiety that comes with being a content creator. You see so many analytics and it must be impossible to not judge yourself based on that.
@@jayus2033 Can you stop that? No one invalidated or even compared what Kris does to what a single mother of three would do. And guess what, creating content every day is hard and incredibly hard on your mental health. Stop being a douche by invalidating people's work and effort, cause we can go down that road forever. A single mother of three isn't even hard compared to mothers who are trying to get their kids out of a warzone right now.
Kris really hits the nail on the head about having the thoughts of, like "no one will miss me, it's me" but then feeling devastated when your friends or family have those same thoughts
See for me it's almost the opposite. I know my friends and family would be utterly torn up if I died, but then I think about them dying and I feel almost nothing
@Chr0n0s, your brain can't fully process how you'd feel until it happens nor can you predict what you would do of feel, greif is never the same no matter how many times you go through it. Hope your doing okay❤
@Nevada m Maybe you're right. I just think about it sometimes and this emotionlessness is something I feel quite frequently, and I feel kind of bad about it. Not in a "I'm a terrible person, why don't I feel?" kind of way, but more like a "This is different from what other people say they feel. There might be something objectively wrong with me" and I've just kind of accepted it as fact? Anyways I'm rambling. Thank you for the kind words and hopefully I never have to know the grief of losing those I care about🫠🤗
@@chronosclaimsall You might be a number of things. I would look into Aplatonic and Afamilial personality or low empathy and see what best fits your lived experience.
Anthony's is one of the few remaining "authentic" channels. No clickbait, no BS, no exclusively discussing trending matters for views, simple and honest hard work. He deserves all of the views and attention he gets and much more.
I also love how he's developed a method to chat with the person before hand to see what they want out of the discussion. It's just an amazing, thoughtful and such a simple thing to do... But no one does that in interviews anymore... Except, actually the Hot Wings dude (forgotten his name) coz he's bloody amazing at his research, thinks on the spot, but also shows absolutely respect in his interviews. Anthony does that and more by seeing what the person wants to tell the world about themselves, what direction they want to go in... So it can go down that path lol. Love how authentic and amazing Anthony has become over the years. I loved Smosh but you kinda grow out of that humour. And I'm glad Anthony has found his way to this channel and being the way he wants to be here. ❤❤❤
It happens to a lot of us who suffer from similar conditions. I believe she, at some point, admitted her ADHD along with depression. I’m autistic, and depression seems to come naturally despite my efforts to be positive and happy.
I feel that, too. Once my therapist told me, that the way I deal with stuff, with positivity and optimisim is what they want their clients to get to. And I sat there, aware that that's is just another coping mechanism, masking the issues, shoving it down and away instead of solving it. That was crushing, honestly. Because if where I was back than, was the goal? Damn, life would only get worse. That therapist was looking back a really bad fit anyway.
The therapist saying she's too self aware and there's nothing she could do. I was like "yay it's not just me who's had that experience." But then again I know how much that sucks too XD
@@jsokalski123 I was in a similar boat before I started EMDR therapy. You don't need "blockbuster trauma" (as I call it) to benefit from EMDR. Like other therapy modes you get what you put into it.
One of the best therapists I had used that as an opportunity to be curious. "Ok so what don't you know about yourself?" "Are you sure that's the only reason?" He was a hypnotherapist firstl, so he was better at noticing people's trends in thinking. I've had what Kris had too. I just thought they were under trained
@@Firegen1that's very interesting! :O I have a similar problem with being very self aware. My therapist shifted into sort of a conversation which helps me think in a structured way and also open up without the feeling if it being out of place or too tiring for my friends.
Is it really impossible to help when someone is self aware or were the therapists just being lazy? Like, you can be aware of your issues but also accept methods to help with symptoms? I’m just a little confused because a therapist is supposed to do more than make you self aware of your issues, please let me know thank you
@Femto lmao her tiktok fans aren't going to watch a 26 min video even if the algorithm did wobble them to it, they have the attention span of bumblebees
This interview deserved to be at least twice as long. Didn't realise Kris was in the youtube/tiktok space for such a short amount of time, it feels like she was always there! Such a gem!
Same here. I thought she had been going for Few years first before my partner started watching her. He got me onto her content. We love watching her videos!! I think we must have started maybe towards the end of 2020, beginning of 2021? So not that early in but still earlier on in the past 3 years
In the middle of the pandemic, Kris was my beacon of light through the loneliness of the lockdowns. I still follow her on every platform she joins. Thank you for everything, Kris!
For me it was game grumps with covid. They have a couple of sleep aids that is 8hrs of their content. I was in and out a lot but they were there with me for it. Kris was there for my second case. Gotta love being an "essential" worker
The discussion about feeling like it's your responsibility to not be a burden...I relate so much. It's such a lonely feeling, and it hurts to know others feel that way too, but at the same time I'm glad I'm not alone
Thank you I battle depression and anxiety. Now my daughter who's 11 suffers as well. She loves watching you and I hope your words will echo in her mind until she feels comfortable communicating with me. Thank you Kris
Thank you for appreciation and letting us know that it touches your life and inspire your daughter. More motivational stories ti inspire more people with different struggles in life
@@PwnZombieyes it should be their biggest problem but sometimes it isn't. It's not always because the parents have done something, there are many ways to get depression it doesn't matter what age. It could be genetic, because shes getting bullied or just for a reason she doesn't have, sometimes people get depression where they don't even know why. Don't assume it's the parents fault that is only rude.
Kris with the whole "hating the sound of your own voice" thing was a mood and sent me down a self discovery rabbit hole. I hate hearing my name called. By anyone. It makes me cringe, recoil, and my skin crawls. Just your average childhood trauma. Doesn't make it any less real or any less valid. Just means we're all fucked up and that's why we need to stick together.
For me, it feels weird having someone say my name. I get really self conscious. I didn’t grow up with too much trauma, but I’m autistic. Never felt part of any group even with my family. So saying my name weirds me out.
That is so interesting; definitely something I didn’t realize people felt, thanks for sharing! Do either of you (psyche and boba) ask friends to call you by a nickname? Would that even help?
I always hated anyone saying my name but I think that was because I'm non-binary and wasn't comfortable with what was my name back then because it didn't really feel like 'my' name.
Same! I have never liked my full name, in my 30s I started appreciating the meaning behind it, because dating back to the 1500s my family has had Elizabeth’s, and of course there are so many famous Elizabeth’s to look up too… but despite that, i still don’t like my name. I’d rather be called Liz, or “hey you” works fine too 😂
I'm uncomfortable with names too. I avoid calling someone by name as much as I can, i dunno why but it feels too weird/personal or something. Same thing with my name. Sure, it grabs my attention when someone calls me by name but it never really feels like it's "me".
It’s so sad to hear that Kris got kicked out of Sunday school for asking too many questions, a church should love questions and answer them enthusiastically.
Or atleast just simply say I don't know, as a Christian people will ask hard questions that not even scientist can answer lol just have to learn to simply say, good question , I don't know but I will look into it.
@@rogercolon619You're absolutely right but I feel like for many christians it's to difficult to admit that they don't know the answer because their faith is enough to them to explain hard questions in life ("god is the reason for this or that")
Well as we all have heard and most of us like myself would have personal experience/truama from the thing of.. well... you know... there isn't much out there as hateful/intolerance as Christian love is lol
I completely agree, a church should encourage questions. As a Christian, you should grow faith and be connected to God, you have to ask questions, and you have to be curious to strengthen the faith.
This was honestly one of the best and the most raw interview on the channel. plus the way they both bounced off each other u can see a friendship blooming there, it also somehow turned into a therapy session for both of them. i honestly just did not want this to end. these two r some of the only ppl on the internet whom i have seen talk bout mental health so openly. Kris is definitely one of the best ppl to ever possibly exost. This was somehow the most raw and fantastic interview ever and honestly deserves a part two.This was 2 very much mentally mature, who understand and relate to each others situation and have a big grasp of concenpt on mental health, have a conversation and honestly we need more of it
I really enjoyed this one! I would absolutely watch/listen to a podcast of the both of them together. It felt so authentic and relatable, but also just really addictive (as in it pulled me in and I want more!) The vibe between them reminded me of some of my best friends, I hope they become good friends honestly :)
It's amazing how vunerable they are being with each other. Two "strangers" in front of a camera where millions of people are bound to see and listen to their conversation. Major props to you guys for being able to do this for us!!! Love y'all!
I love that Kris is so open and honest about her mental health. So many people, myself included, need to hear they are not alone and that it's OK to not be ok. Love and light to both of you.
I HAVE NEVER IN MY LIFE MET SOMEBODY ELSE WHO WAS KICKED OUT OF SUNDAY SCHOOL FOR ASKING TOO MANY QUESTIONS!!! What a LEGEND, I don't follow Kris or anything but was curious and I'm blown away. I was literally convinced that was something that only happened to me. I've also bounced around a lot between therapists because they haven't been helpful, and I talk exactly like she did- I've never been told that I am too self aware to be helped, but now I'm thinking maybe I should have been.
I’ve been thru multiple therapists. Never seemed to help. And now I’m thinking, compared to other humans, maybe I am to self aware. When she said that, I felt it.
I was, too!!!! I was never satisfied with the "God made it happen" answers. I distinctly remember asking about how Noah got EVERY species on the ark when lots of species of animals were on different continents... and why didn't the animals eat each other... and what DID the animals eat for that long... and how did they all fit!?!? I would ask questions like this in rapid fire succession until finally I was removed from the class and they asked my mom to not to bring me back 😂😂😂😂😂
I never knew I resonated so much with Kris. When she was talking about growing up in that environment and the “your too self aware” and “too curious” thing like I can just completely understand. I am also the oldest child and feel like I grew up too fast.
Yes! I’m so happy you talked with Kris. She’s changed the lives and brightened up millions of people’s days and one day I hope to do that to even a tenth of people she has.
The amount of times she said "hopefully" in the video, when Anthony talked about her amazingly positive influence on the world and complimented her. Oooof. You are an amazing person Kriss, never doubt yourself
14:06 I think the fact that Kris made this video without a script really helped it feel more human and shows that even if a person looks/acts happy constantly on camera they might not be happy 23:33 I relate to this as a kid who is a only child because my parents only have me so there is a lot of pressure for me to be doing things or being good at things so they can tell people about it. Its one of the main reasons I hate attention as I always feel like im onstage with a massive spotlight on me at all times and I have to be perfect
Hey, like Kris said, you're not alone! I'm an only child too.. seems like having siblings is fun. I always get along with OTHER people's siblings.. but maybe that's because I'm not related to them. And it's physically not POSSIBLE to be perfect. I take COMPLETE pride in not being perfect! Let's go, imperfectionists! (Are you SERIOUS, google? It's not a word? GOOGLE IS AGAINST US!!!!)
As a long time traveler of depression disorder and a person who raised up in very strict atmosphere, this interview was like a finger scratching the itchy part of my back... I deeply appreciate them🙏🙏🙏
this got so deep. I have multiple friends struggling with depression and I feel like I can't talk with them about what I feel. This convinced me to start talking. Thank you!
My first year in high school, we had the biggest jump in suicide in my area (2015-2016) that was what pushed me into really forcing my parents to find me a therapists
I've always wondered why I was so attracted to Kris and at first it was just for her sense of humor and skits, but now I realized that it was also because I feel connected in a way. I understand what she meant about masking, trying to make people happy, and using humor as a coping mechanism, etc. Watching this definitely opened up my mind to trying to reach out and open up to people a lot more. Thanks Kris!
relatability is definitely one of the reasons why we love Kris. we can look at someone with success and feel like they understand what were going through, big or small. hope she continues to make amazing content and her platform never disappears
I absolutely adore her. She has definitely changed my personal humor, and let me be super silly even if its not attractive. Thank you so much for making me a better, and happier person. Also thank you Anthony ♡ your content has opened many doors into mental health topics and I greatly appreciate you.
Please don't think being silly and being attractive are mutually exclusive (if that is, what you meant to say). I know there is this generally accepted image of attractiveness but I'd say it's more a thing of "who's attractive and who's not - to you". Seems intuitively more like one of those "to the eye of the beholder"-things to me because I know for a fact that even the pimple faced dork from my highschool class got a partner, so somebody must have found that guy attractive 😄 (got noting against pimple faced dorks btw, before this starts a riot. I'm a weird, unconventional idiot myself 🙃) Hindsight - Why did I have the kneejerk reaction to write this? Idk, but it stays. Took too long to write this out 😆
Kris had such a beautiful soul. She’s such a light and hearing her struggles and relating really does make u realize that we’re all just ppl in the end and we all feel different things and we all need love.❤
Kris is perhaps the most unique and amazing person I’ve discovered on the internet. I think it is very cool that he took the time to interview her. And Anthony being very polite in everything he is saying and when listening to Kris
Anthony, I must asked, how badly damaged is your roof by now? Every video you're breaking through it, is it just easily replaceable? Cheap? Do you have a guy that on the sidelines ready to patch up your roof every time you break it to make an introduction? And, despite your talents, you won't be making one-take wonders every time, this will take multiple shoots and therefore multiple repairs! Do your guests have to wait an extra day each time you stuff up an introduction to properly record, or do you film the intro last and edit them together? Regardless, Anthony, for the sake of your ceiling reinvent yourself a little, please. From a concerned fan.
I've watched a lot of these interviews but none of them really hit home as much as this one. Hearing Kris talk about depression and being vulnerable I could really relate. Thank you to you both for putting this interview together ❤️
This video was so raw and vulnerable for both of them and it made me feel so validated knowing other people went through the same things I currently am going through and they're still alive. Thank you for this video.
GOSH! The not wanting to be a burden thing hits hard! I see that in my 13-y-o daughter, and I have no idea how to "reach" her and get her to understand that she is not..
Love love love. It’s so hard, I’ve felt this too. And the feeling and reaponse can happen formal many different reasons. For me i had issues from being abandoned by my father, and rejected by my sister. So I basically just thought I wasn’t good enough, so I tried coping with the feeling by 1) minimizing myself so I can’t be rejected, but also 2) controlling and helping or fixing-making sure everyone else was ok even if they didn’t ask me to because I thought I had to Perform to be loved, I need to prove I was worthy to even be there.
I'm not about to lecture on parenting but I believe reassuring her that you're on her side no matter what and that you love her with words AND actions could help. Saying that you love her often and not being judgemental or hesitating when she comes for help too. At least that's what would've helped me as a child
I can really relate to using joking around as a coping method. I’ll purposefully joke about serious things so they don’t feel serious because I can’t handle that very well. Kris’s mental health video helped me a lot, as someone who also struggles with that kind of thing. I’m so glad you did an interview with KallMeKris, she’s such an amazing UA-camr and person as a whole.
A simple human brought joy to my life with her humor when the world wasat a stand still. I always thought she was an influencer for years and years. She was just like us at one point.
Holy shit, so much of this reflects my life and it makes me feel less alone. I have Tourette's Syndrome and my symptoms started at 4 but I wasn't diagnosed until I was 17. My older brother was blind and diabetic and when he was diagnosed with type one at 8 years old (I was 4) my parents gave me instructions on how to look for signs of low and high blood sugar and what to do in those emergencies. All the things Kris talked about, being called X persons sister, the masking, making my parents laugh to get out of trouble, even getting kicked out of Sunday school lol.
One time Kallmekris liked one of my comments, and I saw that and was so happy I didn't think that comment would get any recognition. It helped me really see how much Kris loves looking through those comments.
IM SO HAPPY YOU HAVE KRIS ON HERE!! I found her on UA-cam a few years ago and I've been a huge fan since. She makes me laugh even when I'm having the worst day. She makes me feel normal that I have mental illness too. She's perfectly imperfect and we love that about her ❤ stay weird, everyone!
i love when people (like kris) on tiktok make like a few silly “imagine if this happened” videos and it erupts into this crazy full blown series lmao, it’s amazing
Post non stop on tiktok and UA-cam without a break is such a bad ass thing to do, but I also do hope Kris relaxes time to time...social media algorithms sucks
Ugh I can relate to her so much when she said the social meter runs out really quickly . & being “ on all the time” because of never wanting to seem like a boring person
I love seeing how people are talking about their mental health because it makes people feel like it is normal and they are not alone. I have been feeling like my older sister is better than me at everything and that I don’t have a good hobby.
yk Kris is self aware a lot when she basically psycho analized herself on 20:30 saying she got a positive response from her parents and basically why she enjoys the reaction when making ppl laugh goddamit Kris u beautiful creature stay awesome
I absoletely love her. She just seems so sweet and I love how she is honest. Not a lot of people will talk about the things she has and the fact that she did helped a lot of people I think. She deserves so much.
Man I wish these videos were longer, but I see why they should be around 20 minutes for the algorithm. Could you start doing maybe extended version interviews? You could even make them exclusive to spotify for money 🤷♂️
I've literally been watching Anthony and Kris's videos back to back so it was nice to see them in one frame. I totally get how making people laugh does help ! Thank you guys!
What a great conversation - it’s so hard to be vulnerable, particularly with people you’ve never met before and in front of a large audience. The way Anthony empathises with his guests and shares his personal experiences to relate to whoever he’s talking to makes all the conversations on this channel so powerful. I loved hearing from Kris in this space too ❤️
I love you both, Anthony and Kris, you guys are amazing people! I share in the struggle with mental health and I’ve learned a lot about how different the many disorders that exist are. I’ve also seen the common ground we all share. Anthony, I’m glad you got to work all that out with your mom. Kris, I’m so glad you’re working through all of it. TBH I’m struggling, I tried having conversation with my parents (I grew up in a strict religious environment like Kris), but they are still holding onto stigma, and disregarding so much of my childhood experience (lots of trauma). NGL I’m jealous that the both of you have made it to that point in your mental health journey, I so wish that opportunity was available to me (for my parents to get it). For now, I guess I’ll just keep watching you both and try to encourage and cheer you on, maybe I can just try to make it by vicariously seeing your growth 🥹🥲😭❤
I work on Crisis team and my days can be so mentally draining and overwhelming. I watch UA-cam to unwind and Kris is one of the people that make me laugh daily. TY Kris
Thank you so much for talking with Kris! I hope more people get to know who she is from your interview because she's one of the most humble creators I've seen and she's so funny! She deserves all the good things.
09:53 I really felt that, the other day I was talking to my new therapist (I've been visiting her weekly since the last mont or so and she's still trying to know me) The point is, I was there, talking to her about how that same morning I was crying because ✨life happens and sucks✨ and then I followed talking about how I calmed and approached the situation in a constructive way. And in that moment she told me (like really serious) "Get out of here, you don't need a therapist, like really, you don't need a therapist, you already know the stuff" And I was like ;-; (Listen, I know that I know the stuff, but even therapists have their own therapist)
24:00 this part really really got to me, and i feel so understood. hearing that made be tear up. so thank you to anthony for speaking up about that, but also to anyone else who relates to that i want you to know that you are not alone
I literally haven't seen her break character before, and all I seen about her was raw UA-cam algorithm, this feels like a fever dream. On second note, her stuff is really good! Smart videos, get me a chuckle every time.
When she was talking about her friend that took their life it opened something in me that had never gotten opened before. I've thought about taking my life, but it would hurt people so bad I don't think I'm ever going too.
Don't give up & Then One Day when you least expect it you will find the inner strength To let Go of all your Fears & Truly Live !! just in time to Die.
Kris gives me so much comfort and she’s someone I can relate to and she makes tiktok to me so much less toxic and honestly one of my favourite comedians
Never really realised how much I resonated with @Kallmekris. I’m a hairdresser, I was always that kid that felt older than my years. The chatty ( maybe too much) goofy kid, but always wore that as a mask. When I was 16. I told my mum I just was done with this world and she was so, so supportive. I got diagnosed with anxiety and depression and sometimes feel I’m a fraud at work in front of clients because I’m always the bubbly, smiley chatty one. Most times I come home exhausted for putting that front on for the day. You don’t know how much this video has made me just say to myself “ it’s okay to not be okay, I’m normal”. Just want to say thank you so much for this video🥰
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I had such an amazing time chatting with you man!! Thank you for having me on the show!
First reply! Love you Kris
We love u gurl😩🤍
I promise I’ll stay so silly and so quirky!
Been following you since the LTT colab. Love your humor and can relate to the mental struggles.
🌚 I'm always weird
“Why are your hands so big” got me😂
Pfft yeah
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Its Steven!!!
What the hail, this comment should blow up!
It's crazy how Kris posted multiple times a day for a whole year. She really deserves a break.
I can't imagine the pressure and anxiety that comes with being a content creator. You see so many analytics and it must be impossible to not judge yourself based on that.
I love khris do much and I think she works harder than any north Korean labourer!
@@jayus2033 Can you stop that? No one invalidated or even compared what Kris does to what a single mother of three would do. And guess what, creating content every day is hard and incredibly hard on your mental health.
Stop being a douche by invalidating people's work and effort, cause we can go down that road forever. A single mother of three isn't even hard compared to mothers who are trying to get their kids out of a warzone right now.
@@jayus2033 projection lmao
@@jayus2033 wrangling crotch goblins is not an accomplishment
Kris really hits the nail on the head about having the thoughts of, like "no one will miss me, it's me" but then feeling devastated when your friends or family have those same thoughts
See for me it's almost the opposite. I know my friends and family would be utterly torn up if I died, but then I think about them dying and I feel almost nothing
@Chr0n0s, your brain can't fully process how you'd feel until it happens nor can you predict what you would do of feel, greif is never the same no matter how many times you go through it. Hope your doing okay❤
@Nevada m Maybe you're right. I just think about it sometimes and this emotionlessness is something I feel quite frequently, and I feel kind of bad about it. Not in a "I'm a terrible person, why don't I feel?" kind of way, but more like a "This is different from what other people say they feel. There might be something objectively wrong with me" and I've just kind of accepted it as fact?
Anyways I'm rambling. Thank you for the kind words and hopefully I never have to know the grief of losing those I care about🫠🤗
@@chronosclaimsall You might be a number of things. I would look into Aplatonic and Afamilial personality or low empathy and see what best fits your lived experience.
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Anthony's is one of the few remaining "authentic" channels. No clickbait, no BS, no exclusively discussing trending matters for views, simple and honest hard work. He deserves all of the views and attention he gets and much more.
I also love how he's developed a method to chat with the person before hand to see what they want out of the discussion. It's just an amazing, thoughtful and such a simple thing to do... But no one does that in interviews anymore... Except, actually the Hot Wings dude (forgotten his name) coz he's bloody amazing at his research, thinks on the spot, but also shows absolutely respect in his interviews.
Anthony does that and more by seeing what the person wants to tell the world about themselves, what direction they want to go in... So it can go down that path lol.
Love how authentic and amazing Anthony has become over the years. I loved Smosh but you kinda grow out of that humour. And I'm glad Anthony has found his way to this channel and being the way he wants to be here. ❤❤❤
@@Kewlausgirl bruv you legit wrote an entire essay. You’re right though
@@KewlausgirlSean Evans! Fucking love that guy. Great interviewer, and seems like an incredibly genuine dude. He does an amazing job.
@@fotiskordatzis9378if you think that's an essay, you should see some of the comments i post 😭
Plus He is The Hottest man in the world ik rn
When Kris said she had a therapist tell her she was too self aware - I felt that so much in my soul. I’ve had similar happen.
It happens to a lot of us who suffer from similar conditions. I believe she, at some point, admitted her ADHD along with depression. I’m autistic, and depression seems to come naturally despite my efforts to be positive and happy.
I feel that, too. Once my therapist told me, that the way I deal with stuff, with positivity and optimisim is what they want their clients to get to. And I sat there, aware that that's is just another coping mechanism, masking the issues, shoving it down and away instead of solving it. That was crushing, honestly. Because if where I was back than, was the goal? Damn, life would only get worse.
That therapist was looking back a really bad fit anyway.
Anyone who isn't self aware won't have any benefit from therapy because they're an NPC
...Same. Mine keeps telling me to not make appointments until I absolutely need her because she has no idea what else to say to me Lol
Me too..
The therapist saying she's too self aware and there's nothing she could do. I was like "yay it's not just me who's had that experience." But then again I know how much that sucks too XD
SAME!!! I know all the DBT skills and CBT skills and all but I’m still feeling shitty and my therapist just doesn’t know what to do.
@@jsokalski123 I was in a similar boat before I started EMDR therapy. You don't need "blockbuster trauma" (as I call it) to benefit from EMDR. Like other therapy modes you get what you put into it.
One of the best therapists I had used that as an opportunity to be curious.
"Ok so what don't you know about yourself?" "Are you sure that's the only reason?"
He was a hypnotherapist firstl, so he was better at noticing people's trends in thinking. I've had what Kris had too. I just thought they were under trained
@@Firegen1that's very interesting! :O I have a similar problem with being very self aware. My therapist shifted into sort of a conversation which helps me think in a structured way and also open up without the feeling if it being out of place or too tiring for my friends.
Is it really impossible to help when someone is self aware or were the therapists just being lazy? Like, you can be aware of your issues but also accept methods to help with symptoms? I’m just a little confused because a therapist is supposed to do more than make you self aware of your issues, please let me know thank you
Wasnt aware she was that big but totally deserves it, genuinely one of the funniest content creators
Wdym she's only 5' 7"
@@yourfellowhomosapien5448 I don’t know if you’re joking, but I’m pretty sure they meant in followers lmfao
@@infanttoes they were for sure joking lol
@Femto it’s almost like the majority of her audience is on tiktok
@Femto lmao her tiktok fans aren't going to watch a 26 min video even if the algorithm did wobble them to it, they have the attention span of bumblebees
This interview deserved to be at least twice as long. Didn't realise Kris was in the youtube/tiktok space for such a short amount of time, it feels like she was always there! Such a gem!
Sane! This made me realize I was watching her when she first started and I honestly didn't even realize
Same here. I thought she had been going for Few years first before my partner started watching her. He got me onto her content. We love watching her videos!!
I think we must have started maybe towards the end of 2020, beginning of 2021? So not that early in but still earlier on in the past 3 years
Yes I was like wait rewind did I skip is it finished?
I found out who she was from Sam and Colby's videos and I was always happy to see her in their videos
This is actually a shortened version, there’s a full version on Spotify I think.
In the middle of the pandemic, Kris was my beacon of light through the loneliness of the lockdowns. I still follow her on every platform she joins. Thank you for everything, Kris!
For me it was game grumps with covid. They have a couple of sleep aids that is 8hrs of their content. I was in and out a lot but they were there with me for it. Kris was there for my second case. Gotta love being an "essential" worker
i love how anthony padilla is always so nice, asking if she is comfortable to say something
he’s a wonderful listener, i hope people can be as comfortable in my presence some day
@@devyanshatharv1861 uh
@@devyanshatharv1861 lmaoo
what do y'all not understand about the most simply put sentence tf
@@devyanshatharv1861 =))))))
Kris is very relatable. She is one of my favorite people on social media just because she tries to make everyone's day little better through humor.
Kris certainly puts a lot of smiles on this guy’s face, I’ll say that.
I hope someday she takes a vacation, and enjoys herself.
kris is like the only person who can mass produce content and it not peak or lose the charm
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@@RENX5Cough Moist Critical cough
I don’t watch either of those anymore because they felt like they lost the soul of the content
The discussion about feeling like it's your responsibility to not be a burden...I relate so much. It's such a lonely feeling, and it hurts to know others feel that way too, but at the same time I'm glad I'm not alone
Thank you I battle depression and anxiety. Now my daughter who's 11 suffers as well. She loves watching you and I hope your words will echo in her mind until she feels comfortable communicating with me. Thank you Kris
Thank you for appreciation and letting us know that it touches your life and inspire your daughter. More motivational stories ti inspire more people with different struggles in life
If an eleven year old is depressed, the parents have done something to them. An eleven year old's biggest problem should be xbox and candy.
@@PwnZombie sometimes it can be genetic
@@PwnZombieyes it should be their biggest problem but sometimes it isn't. It's not always because the parents have done something, there are many ways to get depression it doesn't matter what age. It could be genetic, because shes getting bullied or just for a reason she doesn't have, sometimes people get depression where they don't even know why. Don't assume it's the parents fault that is only rude.
@@PwnZombieyou are either 79 or 5. that isn’t the only thing.
Kris with the whole "hating the sound of your own voice" thing was a mood and sent me down a self discovery rabbit hole. I hate hearing my name called. By anyone. It makes me cringe, recoil, and my skin crawls. Just your average childhood trauma. Doesn't make it any less real or any less valid. Just means we're all fucked up and that's why we need to stick together.
For me, it feels weird having someone say my name. I get really self conscious. I didn’t grow up with too much trauma, but I’m autistic. Never felt part of any group even with my family. So saying my name weirds me out.
That is so interesting; definitely something I didn’t realize people felt, thanks for sharing! Do either of you (psyche and boba) ask friends to call you by a nickname? Would that even help?
I always hated anyone saying my name but I think that was because I'm non-binary and wasn't comfortable with what was my name back then because it didn't really feel like 'my' name.
Same! I have never liked my full name, in my 30s I started appreciating the meaning behind it, because dating back to the 1500s my family has had Elizabeth’s, and of course there are so many famous Elizabeth’s to look up too… but despite that, i still don’t like my name. I’d rather be called Liz, or “hey you” works fine too 😂
I'm uncomfortable with names too. I avoid calling someone by name as much as I can, i dunno why but it feels too weird/personal or something. Same thing with my name. Sure, it grabs my attention when someone calls me by name but it never really feels like it's "me".
It’s so sad to hear that Kris got kicked out of Sunday school for asking too many questions, a church should love questions and answer them enthusiastically.
Churches are not about Christ at all. They are about control and money.
Or atleast just simply say I don't know, as a Christian people will ask hard questions that not even scientist can answer lol just have to learn to simply say, good question , I don't know but I will look into it.
@@rogercolon619You're absolutely right but I feel like for many christians it's to difficult to admit that they don't know the answer because their faith is enough to them to explain hard questions in life ("god is the reason for this or that")
Well as we all have heard and most of us like myself would have personal experience/truama from the thing of.. well... you know...
there isn't much out there as hateful/intolerance as Christian love is lol
I completely agree, a church should encourage questions. As a Christian, you should grow faith and be connected to God, you have to ask questions, and you have to be curious to strengthen the faith.
I love how the interview switched and kris started being the therapist for Anthony it was so cute and wholesome
Kallmekris didn't accidentally get 100,000,000 followers, she earned it 💕🎉
uuuuh what she do to deserve it? also, 56 million over multiple platforms is not 100 000 000
@@pred7949she deserves it because she’s her also it’s: what DID she do to deserve it? Unless you mean she did deserve it (wich she did)
@@pred7949why u r mad ??
@@pred7949round it, then it's 100m
This needed to be said👍🏾
Kris says "making people happy makes me happy" when you help others you will always end up helping yourself
This was honestly one of the best and the most raw interview on the channel. plus the way they both bounced off each other u can see a friendship blooming there, it also somehow turned into a therapy session for both of them. i honestly just did not want this to end. these two r some of the only ppl on the internet whom i have seen talk bout mental health so openly. Kris is definitely one of the best ppl to ever possibly exost. This was somehow the most raw and fantastic interview ever and honestly deserves a part two.This was 2 very much mentally mature, who understand and relate to each others situation and have a big grasp of concenpt on mental health, have a conversation and honestly we need more of it
Honestly I could sit through a couple hours long podcast with these 2. Just hearing them talk so freely and genuinely is so comforting
@@101falcon yeah samee
Same i wasnt ready for it to end so quickly
@@101falcon These two were great together. I don’t blame you.
I really enjoyed this one!
I would absolutely watch/listen to a podcast of the both of them together. It felt so authentic and relatable, but also just really addictive (as in it pulled me in and I want more!)
The vibe between them reminded me of some of my best friends, I hope they become good friends honestly :)
It's amazing how vunerable they are being with each other. Two "strangers" in front of a camera where millions of people are bound to see and listen to their conversation. Major props to you guys for being able to do this for us!!! Love y'all!
I love that Kris is so open and honest about her mental health. So many people, myself included, need to hear they are not alone and that it's OK to not be ok. Love and light to both of you.
Yea your not alone and it can be rough, try to find someone to talk to if you can...And maybe I will take my own advice too lol Be safe and well.
I HAVE NEVER IN MY LIFE MET SOMEBODY ELSE WHO WAS KICKED OUT OF SUNDAY SCHOOL FOR ASKING TOO MANY QUESTIONS!!! What a LEGEND, I don't follow Kris or anything but was curious and I'm blown away. I was literally convinced that was something that only happened to me.
I've also bounced around a lot between therapists because they haven't been helpful, and I talk exactly like she did- I've never been told that I am too self aware to be helped, but now I'm thinking maybe I should have been.
I’ve been thru multiple therapists. Never seemed to help. And now I’m thinking, compared to other humans, maybe I am to self aware. When she said that, I felt it.
All I have to say: YOU NEED TO FOLLOW KRIS IMMEDIATELY. Waste no more time. ❣️
As a Sunday School teacher, I will tell you your teacher was very wrong to kick you out. Ask questions.
I was, too!!!! I was never satisfied with the "God made it happen" answers. I distinctly remember asking about how Noah got EVERY species on the ark when lots of species of animals were on different continents... and why didn't the animals eat each other... and what DID the animals eat for that long... and how did they all fit!?!?
I would ask questions like this in rapid fire succession until finally I was removed from the class and they asked my mom to not to bring me back 😂😂😂😂😂
Absolutely love this woman to bits. Such positivity in a world full of hatred and terror. Thankyou, Kris!
I never knew I resonated so much with Kris. When she was talking about growing up in that environment and the “your too self aware” and “too curious” thing like I can just completely understand. I am also the oldest child and feel like I grew up too fast.
Sadly that is me as well
Older siblings who asked too many questions, always got in trouble, and were/are way too self-aware gang!😂
So happy to see Kris and Anthony making peoples’ day together! 😍 Love both of them so much!
When I heard she was a hair dresser, I was like, “SHE TOTALLY LOOKS LIKE A HAIR DRESSER”
😂 me too!
I feel so bad for Kris and everything she had to go through. She really deserves the world, I wish her all the best, good luck and a lot of strenght
I'm so happy for Kris. She deserves all the success.
Yes! I’m so happy you talked with Kris. She’s changed the lives and brightened up millions of people’s days and one day I hope to do that to even a tenth of people she has.
The amount of times she said "hopefully" in the video, when Anthony talked about her amazingly positive influence on the world and complimented her. Oooof. You are an amazing person Kriss, never doubt yourself
14:06 I think the fact that Kris made this video without a script really helped it feel more human and shows that even if a person looks/acts happy constantly on camera they might not be happy
23:33 I relate to this as a kid who is a only child because my parents only have me so there is a lot of pressure for me to be doing things or being good at things so they can tell people about it. Its one of the main reasons I hate attention as I always feel like im onstage with a massive spotlight on me at all times and I have to be perfect
Hey, like Kris said, you're not alone! I'm an only child too.. seems like having siblings is fun. I always get along with OTHER people's siblings.. but maybe that's because I'm not related to them. And it's physically not POSSIBLE to be perfect. I take COMPLETE pride in not being perfect! Let's go, imperfectionists! (Are you SERIOUS, google? It's not a word? GOOGLE IS AGAINST US!!!!)
As a long time traveler of depression disorder and a person who raised up in very strict atmosphere, this interview was like a finger scratching the itchy part of my back... I deeply appreciate them🙏🙏🙏
I was drawn into your comment as I was scratching THe itchy part of My back!!!
Can we just appreciate how much respect they showed each other these are two such amazing people in one video
Props to this guy for risking his life every episode dropping through a rooftop. ❤
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I can't describe how much I love Kris because of how much I relate to her and how she always manages to make me smile
Kris feels like she has been around forever and I love it. She's so comforting. ❤️
this got so deep. I have multiple friends struggling with depression and I feel like I can't talk with them about what I feel. This convinced me to start talking. Thank you!
My first year in high school, we had the biggest jump in suicide in my area (2015-2016) that was what pushed me into really forcing my parents to find me a therapists
I've always wondered why I was so attracted to Kris and at first it was just for her sense of humor and skits, but now I realized that it was also because I feel connected in a way. I understand what she meant about masking, trying to make people happy, and using humor as a coping mechanism, etc. Watching this definitely opened up my mind to trying to reach out and open up to people a lot more. Thanks Kris!
Yep!
relatability is definitely one of the reasons why we love Kris. we can look at someone with success and feel like they understand what were going through, big or small. hope she continues to make amazing content and her platform never disappears
FINALLY!! Of all people Kris deserves her own video the most 👏 👏 👏
She’s terribly unfunny
I was just waiting until Anthony did it
@DontReadMyProfilePhoto_3 You're not funny.
Idk even know how she is so I wouldn't say the most
@@InnerAnimations "I don't know even know?"
I absolutely adore her. She has definitely changed my personal humor, and let me be super silly even if its not attractive.
Thank you so much for making me a better, and happier person.
Also thank you Anthony ♡ your content has opened many doors into mental health topics and I greatly appreciate you.
she’s not funny she’s loud and annoying
Please don't think being silly and being attractive are mutually exclusive (if that is, what you meant to say). I know there is this generally accepted image of attractiveness but I'd say it's more a thing of "who's attractive and who's not - to you". Seems intuitively more like one of those "to the eye of the beholder"-things to me because I know for a fact that even the pimple faced dork from my highschool class got a partner, so somebody must have found that guy attractive 😄 (got noting against pimple faced dorks btw, before this starts a riot. I'm a weird, unconventional idiot myself 🙃)
Hindsight - Why did I have the kneejerk reaction to write this? Idk, but it stays. Took too long to write this out 😆
Kris had such a beautiful soul. She’s such a light and hearing her struggles and relating really does make u realize that we’re all just ppl in the end and we all feel different things and we all need love.❤
Kris is perhaps the most unique and amazing person I’ve discovered on the internet. I think it is very cool that he took the time to interview her. And Anthony being very polite in everything he is saying and when listening to Kris
Kris is my favourite influencer because not only is she funny but she is also real and relatable
Reason why at least I love kris, is she's so relatable, and it feels like she's actually talking to you
I love this conversational style of interview that sorta just feels like some friends chatting
it’s honestly really nice to see someone who’s so kind and deals with the same kinds of things :’))
kris is such an icon‼️‼️
She is such a beautiful human. So genuine and sweet. ❤
Beautiful lady with a sense of humor. I hope she’s enjoying herself.
Anthony, I must asked, how badly damaged is your roof by now? Every video you're breaking through it, is it just easily replaceable? Cheap? Do you have a guy that on the sidelines ready to patch up your roof every time you break it to make an introduction? And, despite your talents, you won't be making one-take wonders every time, this will take multiple shoots and therefore multiple repairs! Do your guests have to wait an extra day each time you stuff up an introduction to properly record, or do you film the intro last and edit them together? Regardless, Anthony, for the sake of your ceiling reinvent yourself a little, please.
From a concerned fan.
I've watched a lot of these interviews but none of them really hit home as much as this one. Hearing Kris talk about depression and being vulnerable I could really relate. Thank you to you both for putting this interview together ❤️
In Those Moments I felt the honesty & humanity & i relate on That level.
This video was so raw and vulnerable for both of them and it made me feel so validated knowing other people went through the same things I currently am going through and they're still alive. Thank you for this video.
We need more people like Kris in the world.
GOSH! The not wanting to be a burden thing hits hard! I see that in my 13-y-o daughter, and I have no idea how to "reach" her and get her to understand that she is not..
Love love love. It’s so hard, I’ve felt this too. And the feeling and reaponse can happen formal many different reasons. For me i had issues from being abandoned by my father, and rejected by my sister. So I basically just thought I wasn’t good enough, so I tried coping with the feeling by 1) minimizing myself so I can’t be rejected, but also 2) controlling and helping or fixing-making sure everyone else was ok even if they didn’t ask me to because I thought I had to Perform to be loved, I need to prove I was worthy to even be there.
I'm not about to lecture on parenting but I believe reassuring her that you're on her side no matter what and that you love her with words AND actions could help. Saying that you love her often and not being judgemental or hesitating when she comes for help too. At least that's what would've helped me as a child
I love Kris! She's really down to earth and chill, and this interview definitely proves it. She's a vibe
I can really relate to using joking around as a coping method. I’ll purposefully joke about serious things so they don’t feel serious because I can’t handle that very well. Kris’s mental health video helped me a lot, as someone who also struggles with that kind of thing. I’m so glad you did an interview with KallMeKris, she’s such an amazing UA-camr and person as a whole.
A simple human brought joy to my life with her humor when the world wasat a stand still. I always thought she was an influencer for years and years. She was just like us at one point.
Holy shit, so much of this reflects my life and it makes me feel less alone. I have Tourette's Syndrome and my symptoms started at 4 but I wasn't diagnosed until I was 17. My older brother was blind and diabetic and when he was diagnosed with type one at 8 years old (I was 4) my parents gave me instructions on how to look for signs of low and high blood sugar and what to do in those emergencies. All the things Kris talked about, being called X persons sister, the masking, making my parents laugh to get out of trouble, even getting kicked out of Sunday school lol.
One time Kallmekris liked one of my comments, and I saw that and was so happy I didn't think that comment would get any recognition. It helped me really see how much Kris loves looking through those comments.
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I NEEDED THIS I’ve been following her since the lockdown and him just after, the vibe is impeccable!
Kris is just such a wonderful ray of light to the world, I hope she gets all the love she deserves, and also a real vacation sometime!!!
IM SO HAPPY YOU HAVE KRIS ON HERE!! I found her on UA-cam a few years ago and I've been a huge fan since. She makes me laugh even when I'm having the worst day. She makes me feel normal that I have mental illness too. She's perfectly imperfect and we love that about her ❤ stay weird, everyone!
i love when people (like kris) on tiktok make like a few silly “imagine if this happened” videos and it erupts into this crazy full blown series lmao, it’s amazing
I seriously cried watching this. Thank you both for this interview, it means more than you could imagine.
Post non stop on tiktok and UA-cam without a break is such a bad ass thing to do, but I also do hope Kris relaxes time to time...social media algorithms sucks
Ugh I can relate to her so much when she said the social meter runs out really quickly . & being “ on all the time” because of never wanting to seem like a boring person
This interview brought me to tears, so amazing. Thank you both for all you do.
I love seeing how people are talking about their mental health because it makes people feel like it is normal and they are not alone. I have been feeling like my older sister is better than me at everything and that I don’t have a good hobby.
yk Kris is self aware a lot when she basically psycho analized herself on 20:30 saying she got a positive response from her parents and basically why she enjoys the reaction when making ppl laugh
goddamit Kris u beautiful creature stay awesome
I absoletely love her. She just seems so sweet and I love how she is honest. Not a lot of people will talk about the things she has and the fact that she did helped a lot of people I think. She deserves so much.
Love you Kris. You've helped me through so much and I genuinely don't know if I'd still be around without you.
Kris is amazingly talented. She deserves every bit of her success. I love you, Kris, thank you for inspiring me and millions of others every day
Man I wish these videos were longer, but I see why they should be around 20 minutes for the algorithm. Could you start doing maybe extended version interviews? You could even make them exclusive to spotify for money 🤷♂️
I've literally been watching Anthony and Kris's videos back to back so it was nice to see them in one frame.
I totally get how making people laugh does help ! Thank you guys!
I love Kris! Such a genuine and funny human being
What a great conversation - it’s so hard to be vulnerable, particularly with people you’ve never met before and in front of a large audience. The way Anthony empathises with his guests and shares his personal experiences to relate to whoever he’s talking to makes all the conversations on this channel so powerful. I loved hearing from Kris in this space too ❤️
That older sibling thing, not wanting to be a burden, hit me hard. I haven't ever mentioned that to anyone, I felt it was just me. Cool to know 🙂
It’s crazy didn’t expect the interview to have some deep thoughts and situations ❤
Kris: do I have to pay you afterwards for therapy?
Anthony: ... yes
I love you both, Anthony and Kris, you guys are amazing people! I share in the struggle with mental health and I’ve learned a lot about how different the many disorders that exist are. I’ve also seen the common ground we all share.
Anthony, I’m glad you got to work all that out with your mom. Kris, I’m so glad you’re working through all of it. TBH I’m struggling, I tried having conversation with my parents (I grew up in a strict religious environment like Kris), but they are still holding onto stigma, and disregarding so much of my childhood experience (lots of trauma). NGL I’m jealous that the both of you have made it to that point in your mental health journey, I so wish that opportunity was available to me (for my parents to get it).
For now, I guess I’ll just keep watching you both and try to encourage and cheer you on, maybe I can just try to make it by vicariously seeing your growth 🥹🥲😭❤
Shes super grateful, I can tell. She's lucky, not everyone has the motivation to push there social media to a point of it being a career.
i love the way Anthony doesn’t make it seem like an interview but more like an actual conversation.
I work on Crisis team and my days can be so mentally draining and overwhelming. I watch UA-cam to unwind and Kris is one of the people that make me laugh daily. TY Kris
Thank you so much for talking with Kris! I hope more people get to know who she is from your interview because she's one of the most humble creators I've seen and she's so funny! She deserves all the good things.
Honestly her videos bring me so much joy ❤️
09:53 I really felt that, the other day I was talking to my new therapist (I've been visiting her weekly since the last mont or so and she's still trying to know me) The point is, I was there, talking to her about how that same morning I was crying because ✨life happens and sucks✨ and then I followed talking about how I calmed and approached the situation in a constructive way. And in that moment she told me (like really serious) "Get out of here, you don't need a therapist, like really, you don't need a therapist, you already know the stuff"
And I was like ;-;
(Listen, I know that I know the stuff, but even therapists have their own therapist)
24:00 this part really really got to me, and i feel so understood. hearing that made be tear up. so thank you to anthony for speaking up about that, but also to anyone else who relates to that i want you to know that you are not alone
I love Kris! She's pretty much became my favorite UA-camr and I'd love to actually be friends with her. She's so chill and down to earth
I literally haven't seen her break character before, and all I seen about her was raw UA-cam algorithm, this feels like a fever dream.
On second note, her stuff is really good! Smart videos, get me a chuckle every time.
I'm genuinly so happy Kris went on this show, congrats Kris!! Thanks for bringing our queen into the show Anthony!
Kris is literally so hard-working and such a inspirational person with such great humor, i love her sm!
When she was talking about her friend that took their life it opened something in me that had never gotten opened before. I've thought about taking my life, but it would hurt people so bad I don't think I'm ever going too.
Don't give up & Then One Day when you least expect it you will find the inner strength To let Go of all your Fears & Truly Live !! just in time to Die.
Kris gives me so much comfort and she’s someone I can relate to and she makes tiktok to me so much less toxic and honestly one of my favourite comedians
Anyone with her influence comes with power, and Kris doesn't strike me as someone who takes that for granted which is refreshing.
i love Kris so much. she's such a nice, genuine and funny person.
She is so adorable. I'm not native speaker and sometimes it is hard to understand but I always derive pleasure from her videos
Never really realised how much I resonated with @Kallmekris. I’m a hairdresser, I was always that kid that felt older than my years. The chatty ( maybe too much) goofy kid, but always wore that as a mask. When I was 16. I told my mum I just was done with this world and she was so, so supportive. I got diagnosed with anxiety and depression and sometimes feel I’m a fraud at work in front of clients because I’m always the bubbly, smiley chatty one. Most times I come home exhausted for putting that front on for the day. You don’t know how much this video has made me just say to myself “ it’s okay to not be okay, I’m normal”. Just want to say thank you so much for this video🥰