Let's talk vat ‘n sit (cohabitation), gender roles and sex

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  • Hi favs
    I hope you enjoyed and benefited from this discussion.
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    #movingin #southafricanyoutuber #honesty #cohabitation #beautifulgirls #advice #love #genderroles #marriage #couple
    Thanks,

КОМЕНТАРІ • 39

  • @nondumisomazibuko2867
    @nondumisomazibuko2867 Рік тому +9

    Mandy needs to invite you to her channel, that sit-down will not only be liiiiitttt but it's also going to grow your channel.

    • @nolu_mqina
      @nolu_mqina  Рік тому +1

      Thank you, sis ❤ we will think of a topic we can both contribute to and that align's to her audience.

  • @LolokaNkitha
    @LolokaNkitha 4 місяці тому +1

    i loved this seat down👌👌👌❤❤❤

    • @nolu_mqina
      @nolu_mqina  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you sis🥹❤️

  • @nwabisajijana586
    @nwabisajijana586 Рік тому +5

    Like you said Nolu we grew up nabazaloo that would never understand why si vat and sit. Personally I wouldn't do it ndiyadikwa mntase I love my space, which is why again ndonqena nomtshato,I think I'm one of the percentage of girls that don't even dream about umtshato ..I know it's weird
    Yabona la sex topic 🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️ I still have a 5 year old so by the time she'll want "the talk" I'll be ready I guess.. but my sister just turned 20 my mother wants me to talk to her 🙆🙆
    Im kinder sort of like Mandy , I'm demisexual I have to connect nawe inorder for me to actually have sex, back then I didn't care it was just njee, not its a big deal
    Love love love your channel ❤️ 💛 💖 topics are spot on

    • @nolu_mqina
      @nolu_mqina  Рік тому +2

      Haibo mtase 😂😂 but I understand you especially when it comes to ispace! You just like uAmanda she really doesn't care for it.
      Uzoyiqala ngaphi la sex talk 😂 ndizithanda mna eza awkward vibes 😂😂😂
      Thank you mtase I really appreciate it!

    • @thobekaphanyeko4358
      @thobekaphanyeko4358 Рік тому

      You and me both sis. I love my space and demi too. The entitlement that comes with marriage is wild!

  • @MrsL
    @MrsL Рік тому +3

    Loved this conversation. You touched on some challenges that we face in marriages and the dynamics we face as wives. This is the reality that many of us need to be mindful of going into these marriages. It is hard work but it is also beautiful.

  • @life_with_pontsho
    @life_with_pontsho Рік тому +4

    Maaandy!! Facts and facts on the upbringing of boys and girls,I hate it so much. I'm a boy mom and I don't like how most boys were/are broad up...maybe that's why we have relationship problems because we've always been told ukba "who is gonna marry you when you cannot do this and that" but boys? None of that is said to them,they do as they please and kuthwa "boys will always be boys" yhuu ay sana 🤦🏽‍♀️ sisekakeni...lol I can talk the whole day about this lemme leave it here

    • @nolu_mqina
      @nolu_mqina  Рік тому +2

      Gender roles and boy moms are exhausting.

  • @sharonthebe1135
    @sharonthebe1135 Рік тому +3

    Enjoyed listening to this.
    Thanks for sharing Gimmie

    • @nolu_mqina
      @nolu_mqina  Рік тому +2

      Shaz bathong! I knew it was you because of the Gimme ☺️☺️

    • @sharonthebe1135
      @sharonthebe1135 Рік тому +2

      hahahaha, it's me, my darling.
      Keep doing what you're doing. I love the content and enjoy watching your video's

    • @nolu_mqina
      @nolu_mqina  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for the support ❤️

  • @evelinpanduleni5769
    @evelinpanduleni5769 Рік тому +5

    Combination deadly 🔥…..loved every bit of it❤️

  • @wandilehlabangane3484
    @wandilehlabangane3484 Рік тому +3

    Yohhh, this conversation is beautiful and so very important!!! Loved both perspectives 🫶🏽💐🌻🍃

    • @nolu_mqina
      @nolu_mqina  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much Wandile. I’m glad you enjoyed it ❤

  • @lynettenene9218
    @lynettenene9218 Рік тому +5

    Vat en sit is right when you do it with the man ongasanga ozimisele ukubanonkosikazi ozokwenza izinto ezifanele

    • @nolu_mqina
      @nolu_mqina  Рік тому +1

      You are right! Both parties should have clear expectations and the ideal end result 🤞

  • @BuuujeJwaaa
    @BuuujeJwaaa Рік тому +1

    Mendy ufana nam i think its one of the reasons im single

  • @Mabotjakhomotjo
    @Mabotjakhomotjo Рік тому +3

    Am like amanda, watching intimacy even wen am alone makes me uncomfortable

  • @nondumisomazibuko2867
    @nondumisomazibuko2867 Рік тому +4

    Azange ngibe confused kanje ngendaba zabantu, so Mandy lived with Milani's dad.
    Kanti ushade nini lomuntu 😭😭😭

    • @TheMillennialMom1
      @TheMillennialMom1 Рік тому +3

      Yeyi Nondu. That man played me so much. Hehe, we lived together for months on end. It’s a long story 😂😂

    • @nondumisomazibuko2867
      @nondumisomazibuko2867 Рік тому +2

      @@TheMillennialMom1 I'm so sorry Mandy, I hope you find your one soon ❤️

    • @asimbongencube1216
      @asimbongencube1216 Рік тому +1

      Yazi i had the same thought. Some men though😑

    • @Yassmiinn.
      @Yassmiinn. Рік тому +2

      Sis, I'm here because I'm also confused.
      She said she found out when she was 4 months pregnant that he was married, and his wife was also 4 months, so how were they staying together in 2020?
      Nah Mandy, we need a storytime la because the math isn't mathing sis 😭😂

    • @nondumisomazibuko2867
      @nondumisomazibuko2867 Рік тому +1

      @@Yassmiinn. This is confirmation that men will dribble you 😭

  • @lindymokhatu1044
    @lindymokhatu1044 Рік тому +4

    Amanda please visit your therapist very fast regarding the talk because am coming to you for the talk too. 👄

  • @lesibamashaba3898
    @lesibamashaba3898 Рік тому +4

    Marriage for men is a debt for women it's a reward...if your person is not considerate you will suffer,both partners must be considerate, a woman should be domesticated if she is with a traditional man but the man must also not kill his wife with labour unnecessarily

    • @nolu_mqina
      @nolu_mqina  Рік тому +3

      I love this so much! Living together should focus on making each other’s life easier and bearable.

  • @vuyiprecious5157
    @vuyiprecious5157 Рік тому +4

    100% would not recommend. My experience was hell. The bottom of the barrel!

  • @lynettenene9218
    @lynettenene9218 Рік тому +3

    You were to young to do then you did not know how to act when he do wrong to you bekuyinja ungakhali abanye abafana basile