u/darylprat, the Reddit Stalker
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- Опубліковано 10 тра 2019
- Back in 2015, creator Alanah Pearce would be met with an enigmatic and extremely overbearing online viewer. Tonight, we’re going to explore his online history and attempt to deduce where he might be today.
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Guy stalks girl
Internet stalks the stalker
There's always a bigger fish..
@@RobG93G Who will stalk the internet?!
@@XavielUA-cam NSA: Not us.
@@XavielUA-cam FBI
r/preyingmantis
"So I started telling their mothers"
This Legend
Bru
For real though. Legendary. I'm a grown ass man, but don't want my mom to find out shit I say or do. lol I'd get my ass beat, and not much you can do when it's your mom.
ARTEM DORDZHIEV ebic
I couldn't stop laughing when I heard that part, deserved it and I hope they get their ass beat lol
I remember hearing about her doing that and I lived for it lol. Peoples responses had me rolling
"I bet he didn't care about you until you opened up to him." Uh yeah. . .that's kind of how relationships work. You have to get to know a person in order to have feelings for them.
Yeah. I guess he meant, "I bet your boyfriend didn't obsess over your online persona and get obsessed with your social media presence before actually getting to know you, like I did"
Ya really think Daryl has ever had a real human relationship before 😭
From the way he was talking i think he meant "opened" as in "opened your legs". I'm not fluent at English though so maybe under this context that phrase doesn't fit or smth.
Jesus your forehead is so big I could dland a plane on there
@@miso_to_zari you okay?
Imagine being stalked and people having the absolute nerve to tell YOU to check on your stalker. The audacity is astounding
This has happened to me before and it made me so mad that people would tell me to give him a chance or check on him, or unblock him wtf
@@lavish_1717 that shits disgusting Id just cut ties with anyone that says that fuck them
And if she had then something bad happened she’d be blamed for “leading him on”.
Women literally can’t win in these types of situations
victim blaming
@@666xMajor it's a little more complicated than "just get off of reddit," this happens all the time even in real life.
"Sometimes young boys on Facebook send me rape threats, so I've started telling their mothers."
Boy, if that ain't a power move.
Every male's worst nightmare. Unless their mum is six feet under, that is.
@@DukeofRizz Oop
Love it! Great idea
@@DukeofRizz my mother would rise from the fucking grave
That was truly badass.
"Why are all females in a relationship and cant be single for one month"
Bro then goes on to complain about how shes not dating him. Thats a bold strategy cotton
Let's see if it plays out for em
Aaaaay, didn’t expect to find you here!! Loving the scary story readings btw, literally just binged them all yesterday. Keep up the good vids man. 🤙
Oh hey! Luv your videos man!
Shhh dont tell him single women exist...
bro how are you not verified yet thought you were a fake for a minute lmfao
"I don't see why this is wrong."
That's the scariest comment, just zero clue, no idea how unsettling his behaviour is.
That creeped me out too yea
He seems to be at peace. Maybe he came to his senses.
Everyone is scared of this guy. It just makes me sad. He so obviously is a slave to his emotions and hormones, and there is literally nothing in place to help him deal with it or figure it out. No program no support not even anyone trying to explain to him WHY his brain is putting her on a pedestal. Just crowds of people telling him he is a bad person. There has to be a better way to deal with this.
@@merlin4real A lot of comments tried to explain how what he was doing was wrong, why it was wrong, and resources he could use to overcome his problems, but they all fell on deaf ears.
@@General12th just don't like when anyone gets written off as just bad. Everyone is half good and half evil. People have so much fun painting a demon they don't even consider empathy. That applies far to often.
If you're studying the psychology of a stalker, this can be a really good case. He's literally explaining the mentality of a stalker, it's crazy how accurate all the "symptoms" are.
I can understand the questions he posed, about why it's considered stalking when he likes her. In his mind, as is with everyone else's definition, stalking is bad. But he thinks he's non-threatening because he likes her, which people like to be liked, so he thinks that's a good thing. But when you've been blocked, it's obvious they don't like your attention, you've crossed the line from just liking and into creepy, and YET you still persist, that's STALKING. And he's upset that she's causing him heartache. Well, everyone's gone through breakups. Difference is when someone breaks up with you, you deal with it, and not by harassing them, not by bothering them, which is what pushes it into stalking territory. You move on. You understand you can't force someone to be with you.
And no, mental help will not cure this. It will only suppress it until they're in a relationship and the person breaks up with them. In the meantime they're in the relationship, they're controlling and most likely abusive. And when their partner wants to leave, that's when they will likely either murder them or do a murder/suicide. Because this isn't about loving them. This is about controlling them.
@@aewtx The only way to “understand the questions he posed” is if you completely disregard the concept of consent. I cringe so much every time I witness a dude talking as though their interest in a woman is the only factor to consider. Is it really that difficult to remember that women are actual people with their own autonomy, desires, and thoughts?
@@alexwyatt2911No, those are valid questions. Everyone goes through that, except stalkers go through an extreme case that takes it from acceptable to creepy.
@@aewtx “Everyone goes through” what?
@@aewtxMaybe I’m just an optimist, but I do think therapy can help with this behavior. Obviously it depends on the therapist, but a good therapist can help someone who’s stuck in their mindset see a way out of that mindset.
Actual good content creators: *exist*
Dashlane/Dollar Shave Club/Skillshare: It's free real estate
Shrek Fanboy don’t forget Wix too
And honey
i love seeing how they inevitably bait you in at the end. "*something related to story*... and so thats why you need skillshare *exits*"
Audible too! Though Crunchyroll used to be more prevalent back in the day with the YTers I've watched.
Not to mention that anime subscription box from .... Crunchyroll (?) I forget where, but you couldn't go through videos a few years ago without a sponsorship about that subscription box full of "Otaku related goodies."
@t oh I'm sorry mr.grips I thought plagiarism was okay with you since you plagiarized Charles Manson and David Bowie in a single mixtape.
Telling their mothers is EXACTLY how that crap should be handled.
Blocked.
@@andrewjadan9177 No.
@10 Minute Physics kids?
believe it or not, kids in my high school did that a lot. Principal had cancer, this kid went ranting on his a main account about how shes faking it. Didn't end well for him lmao
i mean it works
‼️‼️Stalker victims please listen up‼️‼️NEVER refer to them as “MY stalker.” These people want to be associated with you in any way, shape or form. Call them “THE stalker.” Do not make them feel noticed. I know it sounds counterintuitive but if it hasn’t reached physical levels of stalking or threats of real life violence, don’t respond. I know it’s almost impossible to just ignore it, but whatever you do, do not let this person know you saw anything. You will want to document everything for yourself, but giving them that validation, urges them to continue because they know they can get a response. Obviously this isn’t the case for everyone, but a good majority will just give up eventually. If not, take all the evidence you’ve been building up, and report it to law enforcement. May or may not help, but you have to make a report regardless. Leave a paper trail. God forbid something does happen, you at least reached out for help and law enforcement was aware.
i never thought about it that way,,it sucks this is near the bottom of the comment section, i want more people to see this
that's what I was thinking
even better is “a stalker”
@@Ostreafmy thought too. This is really good advice though either way. I too discovered that any attention feeds these types.
also if the stalker actually needs some help, responding to his efforts might actually make him think that u are interested. and then doing what alanna did would just give him a reason to get to more dangerous levels.
"If she says 'Stop' I'll stop..."
This dude be lying as naturally as he breathes
It's like the person stalking someone online and then yelling at them to "block me!" Uh, how about you have some self-control and get some help?
I said “Bullshit” out loud when I heard that. He had been told to stop multiple times at that point.
if being blocked isn't a clear "stop" idk what is lmao...these kinds of people don't think anything besides the actual word no is a no, and even if she did come out and say no and tell him to stop he'd probably take that "no" as a "convince me"
I actually facepalmed irl when he referenced The Notebook as the reason why he thought he should keep going "until she said no".
I actually had no idea about the account asking about weapons etc., but I think I’d guess that’s a fake one too. It never made sense to me that he would make multiple accounts under the same name on Reddit, when he didn’t do that on my other social platforms. Still, very well made video, I’m sure you’ll have a million subs in no time.
Nice
Hey it's the one from the vidja
Its Alanah!! Im glad youre doing good.:)
Alanah Pearce , we love you Alanah and all hope you’re doing well. ❤️
Everybody gangsta untill Alanah comments
shoutouts to the mom who was just like 'omg little shit' lmao
I'd throw the whole kid away if they ever told someone that idgaf
Andrew V. that sent me too😂😂
ikr so good lol
Lol
*_”omg little shit”_*
Never underestimate the evil that can be committed by sexually frustrated teenagers
Teenager? didn't he say he had a job and couldn't allow himself to be sent to an asylum because he needed it?
@@namelessking111 okay yeah that makes sense
@@namelessking11118 is legal adult in most countries, yall edgy americans lift it to 21 for some reason 💀
@@morbiusfan3176 hamburger cheese burger big mac whopper
@@morbiusfan317618 is still a legal adult in the u.s lmao
I cannot understand why so many people sincerely felt she was obligated to check up on him. It’s dangerous for someone being stalked to contact their stalker directly at all, but fuck her safety, right?
"sincerely felt"
incels: complain that women are constantly in relationships
also incels: demand women to be in a relationship with them
Found the Zoomer
@darnell pistachio Lol u deleted ur comment lmao
@@johngoodman4829
what'd they even say lol
That logic tho lol
@@miickydeath12 Something about how much he loves men and cross dresses every night when his parents go to bed
"omg little shit"
Best mother response ever, I can smell the shitstorm coming the kid's way
You know they got their internet privileges taken away that day 😂
*Doomslayer theme kicks in*
Little Punk
Ricky, when a shit apple falls from a tree in a field of shit it doesn't have any choice. It's gonna grow up to be a shit apple tree.
That kid probably got the living shit kicked out of him.
Using the word "females" casually instead of women IS a massive red flag tho.
telling their mothers is an absolute god move
fr tho
> Likes a girl
> Comments about the girl
> Girl comments back
> Feels like he's now entitled to her
> Tries to gatekeep her body by shaming her for tattooing her eyebrows
> Gets banned
> Creates another account
> Gets banned
> i DiD nOtHiNg WrOnG
These males have nothing else to do
@@mathew2378 hey dont bunch us together with these creeps we dont follow girls like this most of these guys have problems so maybe word you comment a little different
@@mathew2378 its called EMPLOYMENT. Go check it out.
Harassing and stalking women isnt something you do because tHErE iSnt AnYtHiNg ElSe 2 DU
@@silvermoon9063 lol exactly at least spend your time playing video games
@@ontop2324 I would spend my time eating pineapple pizza than to stalk some random girl on the internet fr
Why should SHE check up on him?? I am dumbfounded that these people are suggesting Alanah needs to check up on her stalker, how insane!
Don’t think about it too much lest you become as dumb as them in the process
Do they not realize how dangerous that is?
@@evie5375 NO NO NO NO THATS A TERRIBLE IDEA. it’s not kind at all. It would just fuel into his obsession. Never ever ever contact your stalker
@@nullix3327 yeah, it's not "kind" to anyone
dude I was your 1k like.
Nexpo is seriously an incredible talent. I have a crappy headphone cable that when it sits a certain way it cuts out his main narrating voice but plays other undertones that you normally don’t hear. For instance at the end when he says that he loves us all, there is also another voice track that plays behind him that says “He loves you!”
i’m glad that the girl being stalked has a consistent presence on social media that we can all check; otherwise it’d be terrifying, not knowing if he ever somehow made physical contact with her
So her stalker was a guy nicknamed Bruce Wayne, with peguin as his pfp? A bit two-faced, if you ask me.
You’re such a joker
He was toxic like poison ivy? Idk the other good jokes were taken
I can Harley believe you would joke about this
stop robin comments from other posts
Damn, this joke is so funny that I'm actually BATtling against myself to not laugh hard
"I'm so tired of every single woman I like having a relationship"
Don't let him know that single women actually exist somewhere on earth
Everywhere I go I see your face
@@mangdup1337 cuz he’s a weeb
You're everywhere
There are all sorts of hot singles in my area, can't see how anyone else would have a problem
He is a simp
It really seems like Daryl was some dumb teen or young adult, so we can safely throw out the obituary of the 54 y/o married man. I imagine he developed this obsession out of a total misunderstanding of romance that comes from Hollywood stories and the impatience of puberty. Now, this just explains his actions, obviously stalking, especially to this extent, is wrong, but I'm thinking positively here and just hoping the dude grew up and put a brain in his skull. Maybe he is still out there keeping this up, or maybe he just learned better. Him being so young also tells me exactly why he would name all of his alts the same thing: he's not competent with this sort of thing and didn't think that people would be able to follow the bread trail. Remember, not every creep is a criminal mastermind.
I can see why you think they're a teenager, but I doubt it. One, these online predators tend to be older. Two, people with this kind distorted image of "romance" to think stalking is desirable is stunted mentally. I'm not talking retarded, but that they were so inexperienced romantically that they don't know what is unacceptable.
yea also cus you see in the vid early on (18 m) he said his age on reddit. i’m sure nexpo accidentally missed that😭
@@glc5o to be fair he may have wrote that so it would have seemed less creepy (a teenage boy obsessed with a female celebrity is more normal than some old guy). but also his typing style and coherency really does sound like an 18 year old.
Shoutouts to the guy who calmly explained what Daryl was doing was wrong a mental illness and even tried to link him resources. It's easy to just dunk on these people, and I get it and it was going to take more professional help to make him stop, but it's more productive and helpful than just making fun of him and reinforcing his victim complex.
dude he literally refused help, thats beyond mental illness at that point, thats just being a sick person.
Me: trying to sleep
Nexpo: I'm about to end this man's whole career
Europe? Damn upload times. Looks likes im not sleeping tonight
I take four hour naps so I mess up my sleep schedule and only get tired about 3 am
Career sleeper 🤔
XXX
LMFAOOOO
I love the fact we're stalking a stalker with this video.
thats a mind fuck
Me: puts down joint and slowly backs away.
exposing is not the same as stalking.
Marvin Staal - they just doxxed this kid hard.
Oh how the turn tables
The scary thing about stalkers is there's no winning with them. If you acknowledge them, they'll come back more aggressively. If you ignore them, they'll be angry and lash out. If you ignore everyone, you'll have no friends and your stalker will still be there. The only ending is for them to quit out of fear, they get thrown in jail, you run and leave no trail, or someone ends up dead.
they loose and it's not really possible to handle it yourself? ok
It’s honestly so nice watching a video like this with a good ending. I usually watch a lot of true crime or creepy stories with as ending. This was refreshing
Oh internet, don't you just love it: woman gets obviously stalked, stalker claims to take his life, woman gets hate for "not handling the situation well"?
Wtf is wrong with this world?
People will throw shit no matter what or who.
Shit like that baffles me, people are just trash
Sounds like the beginning to a **DEEP** post.
Or just stalking in general
Repeat this with me: Anything for clout
you know it’s an r/niceguys moment when the dude refers to women as “females”
Femoiiidddsssssss -contrapoints
What's the problem with it?
Penis or hole. Everyone sucks.
-Mirabelle
I'm done amazing philosophy
@@CURSEisabastard ahem.. REEEEEE
Nexpo's quality is **chef's kiss**
What I find most disturbing is people feeling like Alannah is in the wrong, somehow.
Some people drink poison hoping for someone else to die.
9:05 That's the problem with many films. The lovable protagonist falls in love with his "dream girl" and thinks that she has to think the same way about him. After many rejections she finally gives him a chance and the film ends... These films perpetuate the idea that being insisting will win you the woman and can turn a "no" into a "yes".
I also like how these movies make it out that women are gems of sort and you have to do something to prove that you're good enough for them. I mean they are perfect by existing, but you have to achieve something good in addition to just being yourself.
50 no's and a yes mean yes.
Realistic rejections and indifference aren't well depicted in media. You rarely see people ghosting each other and the like. One of the only exceptions I can think of is Taxi Driver, where his date ghosts him and he becomes a literal murderer as a result. That movie was ahead if its time.
Romance movies are fake as hell. The notebook - the creepy stalker hanga by one hand off a ferris wheel begging her to go out with him... while she is on a date with her date. And if she says no he lets go and dies thats fucking pathetic. If a girl says no man up and find another jeezus.
Thats because so many creepy predators work within the industry.
A lot of romance media is usually really bad a portraying a healthy relationship and how to go about seeking one. It goes both for girls and guys. Guys are always told to keep pushing and pushing even when they say no, and they're told that the girl they're looking for is going to be perfect and "the one" no matter the circumstances. Girls are told to try and make themselves physically perfect through any means, and the guy they're supposed to look for is going to be perfect, strong, handsome, and will sacrifice everything they have for their "lady" no matter what.
Girls get too high of expectations for themselves and their future spouse. Guys get told to constantly push for a relationship to an unhealthy degree. It's pretty bad all around, but everyone should already know not to take such serious advice from movies.
shoutout to dashlane for advertising themselves on videos about stalkers
Absolutely. True crime/horror/detective genre is a real, well....genre! Discovery ID, Dateline NBC, etc, they all get advertisers. Responsible YT channels that cover these topics should be thought of in the same way as Dateline, etc.
I just bamboozled myself because it can be taken literally as they help with privacy but it could also be taken ironically...
deLanglade idk who ur talking about but sarcasm is when u says something but don’t really mean it e.g. “Yes Karen, I will defiantly go to the party” irony is the expression of one's meaning by using language that normally signifies the opposite e.g. “Sam was the criminal” said the cop with heavy irony. Essentially irony and sarcasm mean the same thing
deLanglade Chill tf out dude. You don’t have to be such an asshole.
*inserts a joke about Chernobyl
GET OUT OF HERE STALKER
Bro if I ever found out my kid sent a rape threat...... there would be hell to pay
Throw that whole child away
Thank you for your videos, Nexpo. I've been going through a tough family problem and your videos helped me distract myself and lower my anxiety. It's very interesting to know about this stuff
I absolutely hate when people say they're going to kill themselves if you don't date them. It's manipulative and makes the other person feel guilty for not wanting to talk to them. They're allowed to be with whoever they want and the stalker should accept that and move on.
Right? Do it then and stop annoying me ffs.
Guilt-Tripping people is the worst thing you could do to get into a relationship or requesting stuff.
They usually can’t because they’re literally mentally ill. They’re absolutely obsessive and act as if they own the person they’re stalking. It’s just a lot honestly.
That's happened to me, it sucks.
I've seen something similar but different and I feel so bad because it happened to my friend and he's kinda sensitive and doesn't take pressure well its an awful thing to do and to have happen to you i feel bad for everyone who has been a victim of this
Yup that has happed to me before and they are the worst
"I love this girl more than most people love their wives or girlfriends."
I don't know, you'd be surprised how much I love my wives or girlfriends.
Hol' up
harem
Cracked me up
allah is great indeed
@6laderunner Jontron: *~Raises finger~* _”I don’t like where this is going...”_
great video, however, I feel like that comment made at 14:46 "how would you feel if your girlfriend found someone she likes more than you? that's how I feel" gets a little overlooked. everytime I rewatch this video, that specific line always makes my blood boil a bit. he's just so incredibly delusional that he feels a genuine sense of loyalty, which is to say entitlement, from her, and the fact that he's comparing this "betrayal" to a real mutual relationship pisses me off. i actually know what it's like to be with someone and they found someone they like better, and while I was still only young, I know how much that can hurt. it can make you really insecure, making you completely doubt any self-value, and just generally hurt from that betrayal from someone who you let yourself be vulnerable with. he has absolutely no right to pretend that he's going through that process. obviously, his self entitlement is blatantly clear from everything else he says, I don't think that needs to be emphasized anymore than it is, but this specific line just gets me so pissed. as if he has any right to feel that anger and suffering from a woman who doesn't know anything about him, she doesn't even know his goddam name. and the fact that he frames it as "how would you feel" is just so incredibly smug and condescending, as if he has the right to talk down to a single person who "doesn't understand his pain", putting it on the other person for being so "insensitive" to how her response hurt him. and fucking like no one else has known heartbreak like he does, that anyone else's possible relationships aren't as legitimate is his with her. i know this whole situation is years old and from what we know, the guy is over this, but still, really pisses me off.
same here, and it's amplified by the fact that he doesn't even know her
i mean, it's not like it'd be more justifiable if it was someone he was close to in real life, obviously, but the fact that it's a complete and total stranger just makes it so much worse to me
he might think he knows her, but he doesn't, all he knows is the idealized gamer girl he built in his mind and what's shown on the screen
how much do you wanna bet people like him would lose interest if they got to know the real her? in this situation i doubt it just because he's so absolutely dead set in an insane way,, but i feel like people who idealize and obsess over who they see on the screen would feel differently if they knew who was actually behind the screen
No, I took that as he was trying to make them relate to him. But the thing is though, normal people, even as they're hurting, do not continue to bother that person. They handle their heartbreak away from that person. They understand that once they've been dumped, they no longer welcome and there are boundaries. Stalkers ignore those boundaries.
Telling people’s moms is probably the most hilarious ways to get revenge! Like sure you can say whatever you want back at them but getting their own mom on their @$$ is hysterical! Hopefully the harassment will go away.
Daryl has absolutely seen your video. He is actively deleting posts and accounts detailed in this video.
@Zyzz yeah. he also deleted his MySpace account
Then he is alive. But it appears he is doing better. I sure hope so. I hope he gets the help he needs and has found someone face to face and has a good relationship.
If he has the sense to delete the old accounts and old comments, maybe he actually has changed for the better? At least I hope so...
Maybe he's not just covering his ass, but maybe he's actually guilty/embarrassed by his past behavior
Well good now he knows what it feels like to have eyes on you all the time.
That actually scares me, sounds like someone covering their tracks
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"Th guy in the Notebook sent like 365 letters" yeah, because they were already in a romantic relationship before he went off to war and he'd told her he'd be sending letters. Making such a false comparison is so wrong and deluded, i just-
Also it's a movie, a movie that's greatly exaggerated in the romantic genre which is already exaggerated on its own lmao.
Jeesus christ 365 letters.. Bruh if im getting more than 15 miss calls im reporting you.
@@zwurka6826 9u0
Pin the name on the donkey
Anyone who takes the Notebook as an unironically serious story has already lost it in their relationship game.
Came across your channel randomly. Keeps me entertained for hours at work. Keep at er!
"How dare women who dont know of my existence have relationships with people other than me" *flips table*
Not to be unoriginal but, I like the irony where a guy who is named
"I_H0pe _You_Die" replied to him with advice of seeing a specialist
yeah you see some pretty ironic usernames on there sometimes
there's a whole subreddit about people with questionable names saying wholesome things. its called r/rimjob_steve !!
@@amoschew3609 what a wonderful name for a subreddit like this.:)
Not unoriginal at all, you're simply pointing out irony. In this case it's actually funny.
@@trachea7870 I added that since another guy pointed it out
I don't think he died in 2017, the man that died that day was over 50 years old. u/darylprat claimed he was 18 and that age seems to fit with his personality and computer literacy
Yeah I looked that one up. He was an older guy with a wife and family. Not saying it's not impossible he was the one but doesn't really fit the profile ya know.
Same state tho, so I wouldn't doubt this was maybe a father or relative of his. But it could also be a coinkydink
@@anthonygerardi4658 possibly trying to intimidate the user?
Was thinking the same
yeah i just saw this, and i commented ab it too im pretty sure its not darrell
Girl: *having a life*
Creeps: And I took that personally
October is here, time to binge watch Nexpo for hours straight
2019: damn this guy is creepy
2020: MEGA SIMP
Why is everyone obsessed with the word “simp?” Is this the equivalent of cavemen discovering fire?
DJ Skullboy a simp is someone who embarrasses themselves and treats a girl like a princess online and says things like “i will treat you like a queen” or shit like that. idk why you think it’s the equivalent of discovering fire .
So annoying when a word becomes a trend and gets over-used and mis- used.
@@BlaxicanBeautyTV333 ik what u mean, but he isnt missusing it.
@@djskullboy2871 simp, a man who overvalues a woman(urban dictionary) but people are overusing it just to be in with the trend. so anyone who talks to a girl is now a "simp" base on the dumb retarded just want in with the trend people :)
I personally believe that ‘nice guys’ exist because of all the unhealthy relationships in media and the mindset that “if she rejects you, keep trying!”
This comment is more important than people seem to think. Societal expectations are heavily influenced by the media the population is consuming, and as of right now, the most popular forms of media all seem to glorify self obsession, and set unrealistic or unhealthy standards of how you should look/think/behave based on what demographic you happen to occupy.
Either that or I think too hard about the wrong things. Who knows.
Completely agreed. Not to mention that in the very same film, The Notebook, there's a scene where the guy climbs onto a Ferris wheel cart the girl is in and threatens to jump to his death unless she agrees to go out with him. Genuinely sickening stuff that is somehow passed off as romantic.
The problem isn't media itself, its lack of socialization coupled with overconsumption of media. I was quite similar to these sorts of people when I was 13. I was very shy and couldnt speak to women, so any thoughts on how women "behaved" came from movies, games etc. These people need to interact with women more often, easiest way is by getting genuine female friends not this "we are friends cause I have a crush but I am to afraid to tell her so I decieve her instead" Crap.
I honestly don't see that mindset being pushed often. But i also don't consume mainstream media.
I think it's actually because we act as if the foundation of a relationship is immense amounts of care and affection rather than an actual connection between two people. Nice guys think that just by being kind and showing affection to a woman they should automatically get loved, because they think relationships are just endless pits of kindness. In reality, people pick people they are interested in based on common interests and personalities, not ones that try to be nice. Why would anyone want to date someone with no life, hobbies or personality outside of being a decent person.
your research is phenomenal. you search a lot places most people wouldn’t check! i love that this showed up on my recommended :) new sub here :)
That isn't the reddit stalker's obituary. He said he was 18 in his earliest posts, the obituary was for a 55 year old. It's not a super unusual name, and most 55 year olds aren't super in tune with the internet. Especially in Kentucky (I live just north of kentucky and have spent a lot of time there, for the most part its a rural state). I know this is a generalization, but overall the vibe I got from the redditor is that he was a young and confused/deluded man.
literally everyone: get some help
u/darylprat: no, i dont think i will
@Rebby yes
@Rebby haha its 420 now
That's usually how it goes
It is probably not easy finding mental health care in Kentucky...
"am i a joke to you?" - darylprat
Fellas, if you stalk women online and cry how you never get noticed and start threatening violence. You deserve to be alone
they deserve to be locked up in a mental facility. because sooner or later they are gonna snap and someone's gonna get hurt
At least, until you get your shit together. Forever is a long time.
Let’s play: Spot the fascist!
They deserve mental help, stop being so fucking extreme.
@@KarryKarryKarry Saying stalkers are bad = fascism?
I like analog horror. I love this channel and many other unsettling and dark deep dives into UA-cam/internet history. The “nice guy” connection between certain disturbing videos is so obvious.
When you said “what exactly is the next approach to take?” I shivered. Pinned the blame on her.
Such a complex, intricate, perfect analysis of the Alana videos and many things that happen to this day.
The fact anyone would be upset with how she handled that creep is insane
Alanah Pearce contacting the mothers of those underaged trolls was probably the most hilarious and savage thing ever
It's how I discovered her and have been a big fan ever since. Such an alpha move
I wanna hear a story where it backfires, and the so thought savage move gets deflated, and it jus feels wierd at the end lol
Yeah, its always easy to find mom phone numbers.. It show just how much Daryl never existed and now a poor guy on myspace got pinned down for having a similar name with pictures.
@@littlegile5072 the messages were sent by the boy through Facebook and he had his "family" info set. She literally just had to click on a profile link and send a message
Its not an Alpha move its petty and not how it should be handled at all honestly Snitching on someone to their mother on facebook is a bitch move! Obviously those comments are weird and nobody likes to be insulted but I dont see how contacting parents is gonna really do anything except make him use a throwaway and be more angry this is the internet just make it really awkward for that family and cause them to fight internally which is never good really nobody likes being told on regardless of what you did. The mature thing to do is just block them and move on with your life, dont see why you people dont understand this the only thing you are doing by contacting their parents is giving their words meaning because you are not ignoring it if you just ignore it it does not matter what they say because you are not giving them the time of day yeah telling their parents might get them in trouble but it will also show them that you cared about what they said which is exactly what they wanted when they sent the msg this is like Bullying 101 was I the only kid who got bullied enough in school to figure this out or what?
"she made me fall in love with her"
so sorry that she *forced* you to have feelings for her! :((
"its your fault that I groped you, you just looked so sexy and i got tempted" hentai logic
ARTEM DORDZHIEV hot
@ARTEM DORDZHIEV sweet summer child...
@ARTEM DORDZHIEV oh you poor thing, how long have you been on the internet?
@ARTEM DORDZHIEV STAY WHOLSOME YOU YOUNG CHILD
I love your editing. Love the majoras mask sounds you added in. Great video
Oh my god Nexpo, I found your channel back in 2018 right after I graduated high school, I used to watch your videos DAY AND NIGHT. Idk what happened over the last 3 years but I ended up forgetting about it until this popped up on my timeline today!! I’m so happy now 😭❤️
"She's said before she doesn't hug at her meet ups.
I want to just grab her... Could I get in trouble?"
Gee buddy idk... did you or did you not just describe assaulting somebody? HMMMMMMMM
”She told me she doesn’t want anyone to grab her, but it’s okay if I do it anyway, right?”
Crossing boundries and being a creep is obvious, but we need to chill on the whole "omg that unwarranted hug was assault".....
It basically dilutes more egregious and damaging actions. People are already too soft currently as is...
@@isocuda i mean... "assault" doesn't just cover rape. it can cover other stuff too, so this can still come under assault, but i guess sexual harassment might be a better way to describe it?
@@isocuda assault is defined by law as any unwanted touching, so technically it is. There is a lawful distinction between assault and sexual assault as well btw.
@@isocuda There may be different levels of assault, sure. But unwanted physical contact is still in the realm of assault. Not to mention, granting a pass for somebody "saying" will be just a hug, may devolve into something worse. It is clearly better to keep all variations of unwanted physical contact under the same umbrella of assault to be a deterrent.
People like this dude are so scary because they actually exist in real life and their words online are their actual thoughts in real life.
lunaluna It seems like people are their worst online.
@@neonmajora8454 mostly because you can stay anonymous for as long as possible
@@Ludwig_Perpenhente Yeah, but even people I know are ruder to me online.
Reminds me of that guy who was obsessed with a celebrity sent a bomb to her house and then killed himself so thar they'd both get together in the afterlife. But the bomb was retrieved after they found the body and his suicide video a couple of days later.
Honestly while the Internet DOES give them anonymity and thus kind of a sense of power/freedom. I think at least in this case it helped because at least a lot pf people told him to get help. Which I think he did.
Ugh same send them back to 1940s where they can’t stalk and harass people over the internet
Man I love this channel. Keep up the good work!
This might be my first or second time of watching your videos. I love how "clean" and well edited video this was and how relaxed tone you use. Very informative and interesting overall!
daryl: "i live in kentucky"
everyone in kentucky: 😳
somebody: "i live in kentucky"
everyone who is not from kentucky: 😳... "oh, shit, an inbred..."
@@fenriz218 I live in Lexington Kentucky 🤦🏿♂️
@@quisothaman3809 Well, I'm truly sorry... but how is that my fault?
@@fenriz218 because it is
@@quisothaman3809 how so?
Alanah: bans Daryl
Daryl: You fool I have over 70 alternate accounts
Charlie Boggess yoooo, i still love this meme so much
Charlie Boggess
You'll never know my MAI- *blocked*
Are you referring to Egg-f***er 1,Egg-f***er 2-
"How do you like that Obama!? I pissed on the MOON, you idiot!"
Modamodamodamodamoda
This is a very disturbing topic and not funny at all but the "omg little shit" made me laugh so hard. Perfect move from Alanah and perfect response from the mother.
I love how the reddit user giving the stalker sensible advice is called "I_H0pe_You_Die". When a guy called "I_H0pe_You_Die" is telling you that you've gone too far, you better listen.
That prater was 54, yet in his reddit posts he mention his age being 18.
Yeah, I was waiting for that to be brought up. How would you not make that connection immediately after doing so much research on the guy?! Why was it even mentioned?
both praters were from kentucky
@@underground1354 Kentucky is a big place and we can also gather it contains people named Prater. I don't know, I just think it's a strangely weak point to make
@@pdfpockethole they had the almost the exact same name
@@underground1354 President of the FBI: They had almost the same name, it was too coincidental to not be true. Ladies and Gentlemen... we got em. Now please excuse me while I do the lottery. The odds are in my favour.
Oops, I have the same profile pic. I guess that’s what I get for choosing a generic google+ image, hahaha
Isn't that pic a Generic Computer pic
Like the pictures that came with the cpu
@@therealswitzerwicki5752 yes
lol
haha totally didn't do it on purpose for clout r/oopsdidntmeanto
@@sirnutstheii7616 well he has had it for two months. If he is doing it for clout either he changed it and decided to stick with it or he is really set on making people believe him.
Awesome in-depth video! Great job!
I’m really happy you centered the video on her, and on the fact that she is a person. A lot of the time, these topics focus more on the aggressor
"I hate stalkers.
"But you know what else I hate? Forgetting passwords."
Then get dashline duhhhh
Haahaha
joke aside, dont you hate back then when you dont remember your facebook password and yahoo mail anymore
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That probably explains v2, v3 and v4...
"The guy on the notebook sent like 365 letters...." LMFAO
I fucking lol'd
Dude that can't be fucking real. LOL
Notebook 2: A stalker's tale.
How much of the genesis of the incel movement stems from stupid 80s and 90s romance movies where the stalker gets the girl?
I suspect the whole incel nightmare is tied to the concept of romantic love instilled on people since centuries ago.
Hi, I’m from Prestonsburg, Ky. It’s a really small town and I personally knew Darrell Prater who was mentioned as passing in 2017. Not your guy. Just noting.
This is a great piece of information. Thank you!
Fellas, let me give you a little advice: don't take rejection by a girl as a sign that you should try harder. "The guy in the Notebook sends 365 letters..." yeah, and that guy is a moron. If a girl says no, take her at her word and move on with your life. Don't go play a song under her window like Lloyd Dobler, don't keep bothering her. Figure out what is wrong, why she doesn't like you, and assume it's all for the best.
plus, weren't the people in that story already together or at least mutually in love with each other before the guy sent all the letters anyway?
@@Jukajobs I think he lost his memory or something. It was a lot leading up to doing what he did, and I do believe they were together before one of ‘em lost their memories. I never watched the movie myself, but I think that’s what happened based on what people told me.
People are absolutely right. You can’t force someone to be in a relationship with you. A common theme with ‘nice guy’ types is that they constantly disrespect and overstep boundaries. It’s not healthy and isn’t fun for either party, and causes more stress than what it’s worth. The guy had constantly berated what she chose to do with her body, but he still liked her and wanted a relationship with her, which is not something that should be happening.
Rejection happens literally everyday in everyone’s lives. It’s unhealthy to be like guy in the vid on all levels to react to rejection the way he did.
Batman: "Alfred, why do you think Alanah Pearce blocked me?" Alfred: "Perhaps sir... you should stop tracking her and messaging her?" Batman:"I'm the one who's hurting here Alfred"
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Lol nice one
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This comment is better than the whole video, you should write jokes!
UA-cam Personality: I love all my fans!
DarylPrat: It's free real estate.
Bruh😂😂
lmao
Kar McFar the king of all simps
@@loss6199 difference between a simp and a deranged stalker.
Man I fuckin love your videos, so well researched and well edited. I just found your channel a few days ago and already been watched over 5 long ass vids. Keep it up mate
I love the intros to these videos so amazing!
People just love to blame the victim of the stalkers, especially if thats a woman. We’re meant to fix our stalkers and “help them”
No, they need to fix themselves end of.
Dude, you seem to be in a position of indifference. I can understand that. I’m not mentally ill either and originally, I had trouble empathising with these people too. If we’re to look down at mentally ill people (yes, that includes the criminals who are mentally ill, such as stalkers, serial killers, serial rapists, murderers, and the like), then we ignore the problem and act as though it’s all up to them to fix it.
This strategy didn’t work for all this time. We gave it a shot, now here’s my alternative proposal:
We help them. We created the society in which they fell into this pit that they aren’t able to get out of. We help them out of it. We, as a society, created the romantic movies that these people watched that led them to think that this was reality. We, as a society, created the lack of empathy towards the mentally disturbed that led them further down a path of darkness.
Yes, not everyone watching The Notebook will come to the same conclusion as u/darylprat. But at the same time, those people do exist and will continue to exist. We, as a society, need to be aware that some people have mental disturbances that are primed by the small societal stimuli that we let off. A single bad day could send someone spiraling into, delusion, paranoia, rage and violence. That someone could be just like you or me. They could walk, talk and dress the same way as you or me. But deep inside, they are holding on by a thread. The same bad day does not affect all three of us in the same way.
For this reason, I’ll ask you to be a bit more empathetic. Fix our mentally ill, and I mean all of the mentally ill. Fix our stalkers, murderers, serial killers, serial rapists, rapists and arsonists and the like, because they can’t fix themselves.
I think it was just some sort of shock reaction bandwagon, not an anti-woman conspiracy. It happens all the time to people from all walks of life.
@@aravindkrishna2043 That could happen in a perfect society, but unfortunately this isn't a perfect society. You just have way too much compassion.
@@grimheaper6251 I'd argue that this doesn't just come from a want for a perfect society, but out of a want for empathy, which is a necessity for a perfect society. I mean, if you label these guys as pricks and put them in jail for a couple years, what have you even accomplished? The system we have right now is broken as it is. I proposed something that I see as better.
@@aravindkrishna2043 Attempting to help people that are beyond saving is not really worth it. Stalkers, pedophiles, rapists, murderers, terrorists..etc don't particularly deserve a second chance.
Yikes. I wish more kids had "no means no" instilled into their minds from a very young age.
My mom is a dentist. Once she had a kid as a patient who literally never heard "no" before.
@@Derkosson jesus that’s a yikes
In my opinion, what gives birth to the Elliot Rodgers and darylprats of this world is society's warped and unrealistic idea of relationships. There are a lot of pop culture stuff and internalized notions with the youth, especially straight men, that actually encourage "creepiness" and steamrolling over the topic of "no" or consent. Or the peer pressure and bullying related to overtly hypersexualized culture, like "haha virgin" or not having a "body count" at high school. I can't tell you how much I almost was pushed into borderline incel territory multiple times through depression by the simple fact that my peers couldn't handle the fact i was single and really didn't feel like partnering. The amount of guilt and shame induced by their bullying still hasn't completely gone to this day either.
Now even thinking about any kind of linking up just gives me trauma and disappointment because I was nearly an extremist because of all I went through, the crime of just being "single" to them.
Life's not like 500 Days Of Summer or the Notebook. The overemphasis on relationships being the only end goal of true happiness poisons a lot of young minds into thinking that finding the "one" will magically solve every problem in their lives. It breeds into a circlejerk of jealousy , hatred and depression if it's forced upon you. Love is to be found naturally and in its due course, not shoved in your face simply because it's a societal and biological obligation you have to achieve at any means necessary.
@@MikoyanGurevichMiG21 That’s a good take. Makes a lot of sense.
@@MikoyanGurevichMiG21 yeah well hey now adays that gets pushed back, its still there but not as much (still see a couple creepy shit in different media, be it manga, UA-cam, TV, its not as common now adays though which is good)
Creepy and borderline criminal relationships in fiction are becoming more demonic and understood as something undesirable
Still we got those idiots who cant tell Killing Stalking is a fked up relationship and see it as something they want
Its a psychological thriller for a reason (nit saying ut was a great story, the ending parts were shaky for me but besides the point)
You want to have your legs get Johnny Joestar'd or Jason Todd'd? Ok! Sure go ahead and feel miserable
Its ok to like these kidns of fiction as long as you can separate reality from fiction
I know this video is three years old but I did some snooping there’s an account named brucewaynev3. Only two things are posted, one asking r/askwomen if a woman would press charges for kidnapping, the other about being blocked by a crush for being a creep. There’s another post linked in a comment about him posting on the legality of impersonating a police officer and arresting his crush to kidnap her. All posts were made in the 2016 time frame but seemed to revolve around a crush at school in FL. It just feels like an odd coincidence that a very familiar handle would be posting very similar posts around the same time and suddenly disappear in 2016.
No matter who made those posts, that’s horrifying
I've said it a few times before, and I'll keep saying. BEST. INTRO. EVER.
Goose bumps/ chills/ anxiety/ anticipation ...etc, all wrapped up in that little span of music at the start. Every single time.
It always leaves me with a feeling of " What am I in for this time ? ! ".
Fantastic!
Him: I live in Kentucky and she lives in California, so it's not like I'll ever meet her.
Also him: So I'm going to this cosplayer's meet-up in California...
Flawless. 👌
Are surprise attack hugs legal?
@@Scorch428 Define 'attack hug' lol
@@chinadollsyndrome Step 1: Hit them until they stop moving.
@@FuriousGorge Discombobulate.
A Scare Theatre and Nexpo collab? My prayers have been answered!
AMEN 😂
PRAISE THE LORD
this isnt the first time???
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I'll dream sweet dreams tonight.
The " omg little shit " had me rolling
I had a stalker once, when I was younger. I was around 8 or so and some guy who was about in his 50s or so lived up my street. He would follow me and my siblings around even going as far as to hide in the bushes outside our house watching us change, being naked, in our towels etc. This had been going on for months now and we had no clue until our neighbour caught them and told us, my parents took it in there own hands as the police wasn't so helpful and my mum and sister waited outside and they watched him, my mum then came out of the car she was waiting in the car and then confronted him he then laughed in my mums face, so then my mum called my dad 'Dave come out here right now!' to note my dad was a pretty hulky tough guy (Not so much now haha) and he stormed out and as soon as he saw my dad he ran away tripped in the process and landed on his face. My parents then took him to court which then I believe he went to jail but not for the incident that happened to my siblings and I, he went to jail for another thing I think like CP or assault or something not quite sure. A couple months later we moved but I thought it was for another more mild incident that happened with a school mate. But now I think of it I'm 100% sure we moved because of that old guy because he still lived up the road and only got a couple months In jail. I know this situation isn't like anything in this video but I thought I'd like to share this as I've never spoken a word to anyone about this and I thought it was pretty relevant to this sorta.
I'm so sorry that something that awful happened to you. I hope that the occasion doesn't weigh on you too much as it sounds really traumatic. Thank you for sharing it, takes a ton of courage. I hope you and your family are doing fine.
I almost got molested by a man in a “family changing bathroom” some old pervert had… sigh, I was only 9 years old but some women came into the showers and so nothing continued and I just ran out… I never told anyone that either to be honest…. It’s a scary world out there. I’m sorry for being tmi but your story kinda made me want to share. Unfortunately I’ve had dismissive experiences with cops myself and honestly it made me angry reading your story too. I empathize, and I’m sorry things like this happen to us women and girls :/
(Swimming pool! ^ I thought I had said that but I didn’t proofread..)
@@Alexcutspie Thank you, I appreciate you sharing your story, it makes me feel less alone. I’m so sorry for what happened to you, I hope you’re doing fine now. And yeah it indeed a scary world, and to thing many pedophiles get away with it is rather frustrating.
@@sosuke4836 Thank you, I appreciate your kind comment. I don’t think of it as much anymore, but when I realised the whole thing was happening it kinda stayed with me for a bit. But yeah my family is doing fine thank you and so am I
Men really severely underestimate how often women get threats online. I have yet to meet a woman that hasn't experienced at least some form of harassment online
Sadly, that goes for harassment in real life as well.
so true :/
same
Yea it's not like everyone gets harassed online women have it sooo bad :'(
I work in radio. Had my fair share of these wankers. Thankfully they can't see you in radio. Until Facebook came along :/
How could ANYONE ever blame her for his psychotic behaviour???
what is WRONG with people
People like to avoid responsibility more than ever now
Women get blamed for things men do a lot
@@General12th Not really what i meant. There is a large rise in obesity, deppression, addiction, etc. I'm talking about people taking responsibility for their own personal lives on a daily basis, instead of always saying "I'm only human", and "hes the one who offered weed to me" even though the person who was offered weed knew the consequences of taking it, but did it anyway when it wasn't even forced. There is also the movement "healthy at every size" which continues to use the excuse that for certain people, its extremely hard to attain an average weight. Which is true, but they make a very small minority. Furthermore, these people were not your regular slightly fat people, they were morbidly obese.
As in a genetic disorder, not having to do with actual work, or an actual good excuse. Just an assumption they picked off.
@Tonya Stark I agree with you but at the same time in this world in some countries you put yourself at risk if you have provoking clothes. It is really unfair to the girl but sometime life is unfair. Its like why do we have to lock the door, in a fair world nobody should have to do that but here we have to for our own safety
Ever since I started gaining followers on TikTok and insta I’ve been scared for when I might eventually get a stalker 😭
I clicked on this video because I recognized Alanah's face in the thumbnail! I met her on tumblr almost a decade ago, before she ever even started up her journalism career. We got to be pretty close friends. :) Unfortunately, a lot went wrong in my life all at once, and I dropped contact, failing to follow up in any particularly meaningful way. I supported her on Patreon, UA-cam, and Twitch for a bit, but then decided I was probably just clinging to an ideal of what I imagined our friendship was, and stopped doing so. She seemed to have moved on, based on her responses to my comments on both aforementioned platforms, and though she remembered me, I figured letting her go was for the best. I do miss our friendship, and I'm glad she's done so well for herself since we parted ways.
It's disheartening to see someone I personally knew affected in this way by someone who is so clearly mentally unwell, but the fact of the matter is, it's really not all that uncommon for women on the internet to experience. I hope unhealthy and abusive relationship portrayals stop being so pervasive in pop culture, and that we see individuals like this receive the help they very much need. I think that, in order to attain this, the negative stigma attached to seeking help for mental/emotional health problems would need to dissipate, so, consider this comment encouragement for exactly that: If you're not doing okay, or you personally know someone who is not, please reach out and do what you can to spread that (self-)awareness, and be treated.
Best of luck to all of you, and to Alanah, as well.
This is why I feel as if movies like the notebook are so dangerous for expectations of love :/
I've said that a million times. A lot of those popular romance movies are actually creepy as hell if you swap out the heartthrob male lead. It's all stalking and possesiveness and threatening to kill yourself if the girl you just met doesn't go on a date with you after telling you she's not interested...while she's on a date with another guy. Hollywood needs to stop romanticizing the "hot" stalker.
Very true !
@@mathiasjoshp Passengers has a similar concept
@@purplefire2834 I like that film for the speculative fiction part but I hated the male lead for being a douche canoe creeper.
Yup! Unrealistic as hell
I had a stalker situation to this. A girl started texting me as if she had the wrong number at first and then started a friendly conversation. We talked for a while because she seemed nice but then I realized she knew that I was a redhead even tho I’d never mentioned it.. she let a few other things slip that I had def never told her and I eventually realized she had been stalking me for months before somehow getting my number and working up the nerve to text me. I called her out and she came clean saying she was in love with me and such. I later spoke to a girl she knew who said How she’d been telling people we were dating. She even knew the names of my family and pets and I suspect she had maybe even been outside my house.... this kind of thing is super unsettling. She texted and called me over and over again non stop till I blocked her her but she just switched to another phone to spam me on. I eventually changed my phone number and threatened to get a restraining order... apparently she even had pictures of me in her room and as her screensavers......... super freaky this was a very condensed version of my story. The long version has a lot of other unsettling details because this actually went on a long time. Just wanted to sum it up and share my story
Ares Langer lollllll
aye mate are you still alive?
honestly id be kinda interested in the full version of this saga idk about anyone else.
i'm interesting in the long version, I hope you are doing well
GG boys, she got him.
These videos make me appreciate and not take being mentally stable for granted I can't imagine how this guy's mind and thought process works and the fact that it makes complete sense to him is fascinating