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КОМЕНТАРІ • 992

  • @TheRamseyShow
    @TheRamseyShow  Рік тому +262

    Call The Police Right Now! (You And Your Son Are In Danger) 0:29
    I'm $145,000 in Debt and Only Make $28,000 15:19
    "Dave, You're Stupid and Arrogant! Are You Smarter Than Warren Buffett?" 24:16
    I'm $900,000 In Debt, But It's Not All "Crazy" Debt... 29:22
    My Boss Left Me $1,000,000! 38:33

    • @turtleanton6539
      @turtleanton6539 10 місяців тому +1

      Thxxx😊

    • @eileenkolar5065
      @eileenkolar5065 10 місяців тому +9

      Dave, you're great❤
      When an abused woman says " I've already tried that" (calling her Dad) it's devastating, .

    • @paulamclemore5003
      @paulamclemore5003 9 місяців тому

      😊😊😊😊

    • @sdot5389
      @sdot5389 9 місяців тому +3

      * 1.25 Million Dollars

    • @thatplatinumlady
      @thatplatinumlady 5 місяців тому +3

      I hope she is safe now

  • @leviputnam6165
    @leviputnam6165 10 місяців тому +736

    As a 911 dispatcher I think you handled the call very well 👏

  • @bluerose2682
    @bluerose2682 Рік тому +1761

    The fatherly way he talked to her... That is the type of father any daughter needs.

    • @JTrys
      @JTrys Рік тому +63

      1000% every girl needs a dad like that

    • @miss_sunshine25
      @miss_sunshine25 Рік тому +30

      Sadly there's not enough Dad's like that.

    • @AroundMoney01
      @AroundMoney01 Рік тому +26

      Every man/male should be like this to every young woman going through situations like that.

    • @turtleanton6539
      @turtleanton6539 10 місяців тому +7

      Yes😊😊😊

    • @dummgelauft
      @dummgelauft 4 місяці тому +7

      And that is how it used to be. The WHOLE neighborhood was an extension of one's INTACT family.

  • @mrenae6798
    @mrenae6798 Рік тому +1278

    Never make plans in front of your abuser. Give them NOTHING. Pretend that you’re going to stay with them, don’t change normal routine, make plans outside the house and tell NO ONE, then LEAVE when the abuser is gone. Tell no one where you’re at when you get there but let someone know you’re ok.

    • @ceecee8757
      @ceecee8757 Рік тому +80

      Exactly! I planned my escape.

    • @cheerfulmouse
      @cheerfulmouse Рік тому +21

      Yep!

    • @Carolina480
      @Carolina480 Рік тому +8

      Yu are scared yu do plans by yuor self DOnt day nothing to yuor abuser she’s so scared she needs to leave to a place only she knows far far

    • @Carolina480
      @Carolina480 Рік тому +15

      When yu are in a danger situation yu plan quietly and leave

    • @captain_devildog7791
      @captain_devildog7791 Рік тому

      Not always the case, if someone is going to kill you the same day..

  • @powerpuff4ever
    @powerpuff4ever Рік тому +1100

    It was so unbelievably heartbreaking to hear how she broke down immediately after hearing Dave tell her that she wasn’t crazy. That woman has been broken down so much and I’m just praying that she’s still doing okay post this call and update

    • @kumari6004
      @kumari6004 Рік тому +39

      Hope she is ok.. so sad for anyone to be in that situation

    • @FastDuDeJiunn
      @FastDuDeJiunn Рік тому +23

      sad and scarey. how people can crush u with words.

    • @AroundMoney01
      @AroundMoney01 Рік тому +3

      👍

    • @RealziesCuts
      @RealziesCuts 8 місяців тому +26

      That’s what narcissistic psychos will do to you 💫

    • @Shaara1
      @Shaara1 4 місяці тому +3

      She didn't get that from her family. That's why she couldn't call on her father, brothers because they probably not on her side. I can't imagine they wouldn't have stood up for her if they belived her.

  • @blaineshores4184
    @blaineshores4184 7 місяців тому +258

    The first call is what made me a fan/believer of Dave Ramsey and his system. The way he treated that young lady was absolutely amazing.

    • @thehuguenot5615
      @thehuguenot5615 4 місяці тому +2

      How ladies can be easily convinced of things to the point they cant even call the cops, i dont understand.

    • @rkah6187
      @rkah6187 4 місяці тому +19

      @@thehuguenot5615 Be glad you do not understand.

    • @ivettesantana4319
      @ivettesantana4319 3 місяці тому

      you realize the baby daddy was holding that baby as a shield and manipulation and sitting right there in front of her listening to the whole conversation. The police need to get him out. @@thehuguenot5615

    • @idasiek
      @idasiek 3 місяці тому +4

      ​@thehuguenot5615 my friends partner kept telling her he would kill us (her friends) and her family if she said anything and he abused her so bad she believed him. We finally managed to get her out on "holiday" to see her family, obviously she never came back, she had so many unhealed broken bones and when she told us the details of what he did to her is sounded more like torture. He broke her mind too. If you met him you wouldn't tell, he was a popular chef, tons of friends, everyone loved him. We only realised because she changed, bruises appeared and every story of where they came from was more unbelievable than the other.

    • @michaelboyle1983
      @michaelboyle1983 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@thehuguenot5615 the last I heard the average response time for a 911 call was 6 minutes. A man can beat a woman or child to death in 6 minutes and that's using their hands. They can shoot a woman and child in less than a minute.
      So let's say he beats her, the child, or both. The police arrest him and he gets out of jail in a year, or less, he's very mad at her now and does it again but worse this time.
      This stuff happens more than you think. The police are not very much help in a situation like this without the woman being able to move, get a different vehicle, and change jobs so she can't be found when he gets out of jail.
      God bless you!

  • @jamesharoldsen1907
    @jamesharoldsen1907 Рік тому +540

    I like how dave immediately recommended going to her father for help.
    too often in our current culture we act like it isn't our families place to help protect us. but it is. A father has the right, and reponsibility to protect his daughter, and a brothers job is to protect his sister.
    Also the fact that he wouldn't take no for an answer, and got her help even though she didn't want it is commendable.

    • @brentsundheim7531
      @brentsundheim7531 Рік тому

      Too bad the legal system hates men. Has for 50 years....

    • @jborrego2406
      @jborrego2406 9 місяців тому +11

      Lot ppl scared they will harm there family getting them involved

    • @andrewbradley3305
      @andrewbradley3305 5 місяців тому +8

      @@jborrego2406Yea unfortunately many men aren’t protective over the women in there lives. My brother in law was scared of me for years before we became friends. My sue knows I’d do whatever it takes to protect her

    • @WilingtonProductions
      @WilingtonProductions 4 місяці тому +8

      Dave is an OG, fathers protect.

    • @skylaellis
      @skylaellis 4 місяці тому +3

      It’s sad that she didn’t have her dad as support. Idk where I’d be without my dad and brothers

  • @nikkole9951
    @nikkole9951 Рік тому +846

    I am so relieved to hear that that first lady is okay. I remember that call clearly. I was always so worried about her.

    • @amireallythatgrumpy6508
      @amireallythatgrumpy6508 Рік тому +59

      But how is she now? That update was the next day, and she was okay then. This call is more than a year ago.

    • @insideoutsideupsidedown2218
      @insideoutsideupsidedown2218 Рік тому +135

      She took Dave’s advice and sold the boyfriend…

    • @Obsidiana_99
      @Obsidiana_99 Рік тому +70

      She probably didn't get much for him. His value didn't seem too high.

    • @kimberly8185
      @kimberly8185 Рік тому +33

      I feel like police needed to be called...she wasnt safe.

    • @jmc8076
      @jmc8076 Рік тому +11

      @@kimberly8185
      But she was terrified so it wasn’t going to be her.

  • @EmeryShae
    @EmeryShae Рік тому +676

    I can’t believe how calm Dave was when talking to the super rude guy who called him stupid and arrogant. He didn’t owe him anything.

    • @9darshana
      @9darshana Рік тому +38

      @lAcid Rainl I have a temper as well and I need Dave to teach a class on how to stay calm when dealing with rude people. I don't think I'm built that way to stay so calm.

    • @Kevintendo
      @Kevintendo Рік тому +4

      Which one is that, time stamps please

    • @bottledoo3639
      @bottledoo3639 Рік тому +1

      @kevintendo 24:20

    • @bottledoo3639
      @bottledoo3639 Рік тому +3

      @Kevintendo 24:20

    • @Kevintendo
      @Kevintendo Рік тому +4

      @@bottledoo3639 thank you!!

  • @Crimea_River
    @Crimea_River Рік тому +171

    "I've got stocks older than you..."
    Dave can be a savage.

    • @christopherramirez8520
      @christopherramirez8520 Рік тому +58

      He may have said socks, which is a more serious burn😂

    • @maryk446
      @maryk446 Рік тому +8

      @@christopherramirez8520 I know. That comment is SO Dave!

    • @lauranewman564
      @lauranewman564 3 місяці тому +1

      Dave is hilarious.

    • @cynthiabogacz9740
      @cynthiabogacz9740 3 місяці тому +5

      @@christopherramirez8520I thought he said socks 😂😂😂 maybe it was stocks 😂

    • @juliapush8296
      @juliapush8296 2 місяці тому +4

      I thought he said "socks" 😂

  • @BreeMarano13
    @BreeMarano13 Рік тому +260

    The first caller... I hear how frantic and scared she is... I pray her and the child are safe and well now.

    • @nruvt
      @nruvt Рік тому +2

      They died in a car accident a year ago

    • @anairam1950
      @anairam1950 Рік тому

      @@nruvt are you serious?!

    • @nruvt
      @nruvt Рік тому +1

      @@anairam1950 yeah it’s pretty sad

    • @malachimarasigan
      @malachimarasigan Рік тому +4

      @@nruvt sources?

    • @kunya16
      @kunya16 Рік тому +5

      @@nruvt gonna need a source for that one

  • @FionaApplewright
    @FionaApplewright Рік тому +399

    I don't know when that first call originally took place, but she needs to know that there are MILLIONS of people hearing her and supporting her. I sincerely hope that everything worked out for her and her son.

    • @AtlantaTactical
      @AtlantaTactical Рік тому +2

      I am supporting the boyfriend until we get more information.

    • @courtneyr6645
      @courtneyr6645 Рік тому +55

      @@AtlantaTactical ah yes, supporting someone actively using an infant as a pawn to satisfy a need for control. You don’t have to support anyone, but you’re choosing to support that

    • @sean2137
      @sean2137 Рік тому +19

      @@AtlantaTactical generally people can't get sent to jail with zero evidence of wrongdoing so there's that

    • @kaylaperkins8309
      @kaylaperkins8309 Рік тому +1

      @@sean2137 not true

    • @Excalibur2
      @Excalibur2 Рік тому

      ​@@AtlantaTactical honestly, sounds like she's had a kid with him or some other stranger and likely doesn't have a history of making good decision. She could just be crazy, since the police have come before and didn't remove him.
      We only know that she's calling a financial radio show exasperated.

  • @user-om4qe5tz3c
    @user-om4qe5tz3c Рік тому +247

    If I had over 100k in debt and a kid and my household income was 28k a year I’d have some pretty bad anxiety too

    • @JozelleRenia
      @JozelleRenia Рік тому +3

      Bingo 🤦🏽

    • @cameronwhite9742
      @cameronwhite9742 Рік тому +12

      I’m in 76k in debt and I’m making 63k from 9-5 and 25k side hustle and I have anxiety

    • @DoubleDee382
      @DoubleDee382 Рік тому +8

      Debt is too normalized in this country. When I was 23 I probably put half my income to pay off my 40k student loans. I went without having a permanent home when my employer put me on long term work assignments. Thank God I did because life became way easier after that.

    • @brookelondon8029
      @brookelondon8029 Рік тому +1

      you sound like you really have a great plan and are doing your best. If you have some credit card debts, perhaps you could get them lowered once you get to the point where you're ready to pay them off. Know that everybody reading this wants you to succeed. You have the best plan on earth. And no matter how long it takes, you're worth it.

    • @PrimericanIdol
      @PrimericanIdol 11 місяців тому +3

      How on earth do you get that much debt on such little income. I wouldn't qualify if I tried.

  • @cheeze1713
    @cheeze1713 Рік тому +136

    Dave handled that Heckler really well. Stayed very calm and very professional

    • @marcusatm
      @marcusatm 11 місяців тому +11

      He truly did. It deserves a shout out

    • @WrvrUgoThrUR
      @WrvrUgoThrUR 3 місяці тому +2

      And hecklers hate that. When they can’t get you riled up and down to their level, it boils their blood.

  • @p.sherman3158
    @p.sherman3158 Рік тому +126

    I was a 911 dispatcher for many years. Heard many of these calls and even worse … rapes, murders. Its very hard.

  • @JFM319800ne
    @JFM319800ne Рік тому +446

    Dave, what a blessing you are for so many people. Thank you for being there for this young lady and her son.

    • @xaphan8581
      @xaphan8581 11 місяців тому

      He wasn’t a blessing for the lady he fired for having pre marital sex. Or seeking legal actions against anyone who tried talking bad about him.

    • @JFM319800ne
      @JFM319800ne 11 місяців тому +4

      @@xaphan8581 you sound very bitter. I hope you find peace. Dave is a blessing to many people. Try not to fixate on negativity

    • @joannam9232
      @joannam9232 4 місяці тому

      ​@@JFM319800nethey're right though. Dave is a bigot to some and great to others. Mind blowing

    • @JFM319800ne
      @JFM319800ne 4 місяці тому +1

      @@joannam9232 sometimes people make stupid decisions and just don't like being told they are acting dumb.

    • @joannam9232
      @joannam9232 4 місяці тому

      ​@@JFM319800nepremarital sex is everyone's private business. Even if you're a Dave Ramsey.

  • @conservativelatinausa9005
    @conservativelatinausa9005 Рік тому +161

    Disagree with Dave on whatever you want...one thing we can all agree on is Dave is a legit angel when it comes down to helping out domestic abuse victims. He is a father first, and he truly cares about these type of callers. Thank you Dave for showing love and compassion for this lady.🥺🥺💖💖💖

    • @MrCamel-mb3nd
      @MrCamel-mb3nd Рік тому +4

      oh please, its just for show like you people who believes what they hear or see

    • @sanatonchandradey8646
      @sanatonchandradey8646 4 місяці тому +1

      Yes, it’s a show. But I think most people would hear her call and try to help her.

    • @RolandmaddogDeschain
      @RolandmaddogDeschain 4 місяці тому +5

      ​@@MrCamel-mb3ndshame on you! He's trying to help and you're being hateful!

    • @Frenziedflub
      @Frenziedflub Місяць тому

      Seriously, Dave is a great guy. He reminds me of my current boss, just a great leader you’d indefinitely follow into battle.

  • @codyestes6596
    @codyestes6596 Рік тому +113

    The level of patience that Dave had in that second call is incredible, I was about to scream at my screen over the ridiculousness.

    • @colinmackay92
      @colinmackay92 4 місяці тому +5

      The bankruptcy lady? I actually kind of felt bad for her. She seems like a nice woman that's just down on her luck. I hope her and her family are doing better

    • @BlackStump172
      @BlackStump172 3 місяці тому

      She needs to get a job and go on medication for her depression.

    • @ann5028
      @ann5028 19 днів тому

      @@colinmackay92my moneys on he meant the dude from LA

  • @MrDwaynePoff
    @MrDwaynePoff Рік тому +225

    That poor woman... breaks my heart what she's going through with her baby!!!! She started crying on the phone.... BROKE MY HEART!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @jeremywilson5296
      @jeremywilson5296 Рік тому +13

      Heard this call live. It was absolutely heartbreaking.

    • @iamminturtle
      @iamminturtle Рік тому +11

      I really hope she’s ok now

    • @macneoh7418
      @macneoh7418 Рік тому

      She chose to have a baby with him. She probably was back with him the following night.

  • @jaypal3815
    @jaypal3815 Рік тому +79

    The women's call broke my heart. I hope she and her son are doing better

  • @susannepope6197
    @susannepope6197 Рік тому +74

    Thank you for the update. 12 years ago I was in a very similar situation and called the sheriff department who I bless every day for their help. If they had not provided their help I am convinced my ex would have killed our family. My life today is healthy and normal but I am forever grateful for those people who helped my daughter and I through recovery.

  • @BitterComments
    @BitterComments Рік тому +133

    I will never forget that caller with the abusive boyfriend. I was glued to the screen waiting to hear what happened.

    • @rnt45t1
      @rnt45t1 Рік тому +16

      that's not a very bitter comment.

    • @colmwhateveryoulike3240
      @colmwhateveryoulike3240 Рік тому +5

      @@rnt45t1 No I agree, it isn't. I'm kind of curious as to why you pointed it out though..?

    • @gessrinky9129
      @gessrinky9129 Рік тому +2

      @@colmwhateveryoulike3240 bot

    • @colmwhateveryoulike3240
      @colmwhateveryoulike3240 Рік тому +1

      @@gessrinky9129 Ah. Really? Seems like a pointless one if so.

    • @professorpython646
      @professorpython646 Рік тому +8

      @@colmwhateveryoulike3240 The OPs username is "Bitter Comments"

  • @rebe666a
    @rebe666a 11 місяців тому +14

    ‘I’VE GOT SOCKS OLDER THAN YOU’ sent me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅

    • @ozarkman1478
      @ozarkman1478 7 місяців тому +2

      I think he said “stocks “. ?

    • @cynthiadorsett3988
      @cynthiadorsett3988 Місяць тому

      @@ozarkman1478….as a hard of hearing person, I thought this was hysterical!!! Tx for the laugh 😃

  • @cheerfulmouse
    @cheerfulmouse Рік тому +34

    Boyfriend-ectomy 😅
    Love when humor can help give light 🕯️ in hard situations

  • @jdwar11
    @jdwar11 Рік тому +99

    It happens today. This one interaction truly speaks to Dave’s character. Massive respect brother.

  • @BrianaBudgets
    @BrianaBudgets Рік тому +17

    In your 40s, one of you doesn’t work at all and the other doesn’t even work full time and you wonder why you’re having so much trouble.🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @RaggityDoll
    @RaggityDoll Рік тому +70

    That's what abusers do, they gaslight their victims and make them feel like they're the crazy ones. When Dave told her she wasn't crazy, that was when she finally felt understood and broke down. I hope she is in a better place with her child and healing

    • @Excalibur2
      @Excalibur2 Рік тому +1

      She might be an abuser, we don't know. All we heard is one side. Hopefully, either way, she gets help

    • @MissFaevyn
      @MissFaevyn 11 місяців тому

      @@Excalibur2why are you under multiple comments? Clearly no one cares about your lousy attempts to victim blame that poor woman.

  • @kr7584
    @kr7584 8 місяців тому +50

    Really like the way Dave handled the first call. He has been a life line to so many. God Bless Dave and his family.

  • @MaisyTheRescueDog
    @MaisyTheRescueDog Рік тому +46

    I just moved to Toronto from Vancouver. Hearing Dave Ramsey say “buy a home, an inexpensive one, $200k” hurt my soul deep down 😂

    • @berniecelee5062
      @berniecelee5062 3 місяці тому +1

      LOL … NOWHERE in entire Canada, even east coast …you can’t buy a home for $200 K ! If there’s a region in USA that you can find a home to fit 4 kids and 1 adult …. Where is that ? If she moves there … is she leaving her family and friends to do that ? You still need a emotional support system , not just a team of advisors for tax , money, real estate , etc.
      nice boss to gift that much money . She needs to really spend some time in solitude to understand what she truly wants , what are her fears , and set goals . That could take her 12 -18 mths since it’s the first time in her life she’s going to learn and discover her own self.

    • @Snookie1973
      @Snookie1973 2 місяці тому

      She's in Arkansas. Pretty sure that's doable. It's doable in Kansas too.....

  • @dylanlambert5995
    @dylanlambert5995 Рік тому +46

    That first call nearly had me in tears. I'm a bit of a man's man, but that situation was ruff just thinking about my beautiful wife in that situation and that terrified. God I pray she's safe now

  • @cecilliachi
    @cecilliachi Рік тому +70

    Kudos to John for handling that crisis call. Whew

  • @timbaland952
    @timbaland952 6 місяців тому +25

    Dave Ramsey a good dude. Never knew he was this chill and genuine until I listened to more of his videos

  • @nilocdg9752
    @nilocdg9752 9 місяців тому +20

    Bro 34k credit card debt. My heart. We need to start teaching basic financing in high school, mandatory.

    • @nayelic6359
      @nayelic6359 3 місяці тому +1

      I use to work for the state representatives and financial literacy in schools always failed to pass into policy

    • @maril1379
      @maril1379 3 місяці тому

      Yes more important than some of the garbage waste of time classes.

    • @Augirl78
      @Augirl78 Місяць тому

      Absolutely

    • @veramae4098
      @veramae4098 11 днів тому

      We do. (I'm a retired school librarian.) Kids think it can't happen to them / they can handle it / money is magic.

  • @crobj10
    @crobj10 Рік тому +25

    Dave’s downfall on the 3rd one is that he did not say “better than I deserve”. He said “great man, what’s up?” 😂

  • @BrianaBudgets
    @BrianaBudgets Рік тому +17

    I have anxiety too and I go to work anyway because I would rather do that than be broke.

  • @426carrie
    @426carrie 8 місяців тому +35

    Dave, i appreciate how you took over for that woman in a bad situation. I heard your Dad voice, and for many women out there, we have never experienced the Father that I know you are to your own family. Love your show and work! ❤

    • @aBronteSister
      @aBronteSister 4 місяці тому +2

      I heard the dad voice also. What a champion👍🏻

  • @heavyd777
    @heavyd777 8 місяців тому +40

    Daniel's call is so heartbreaking. God bless you Dave and Rachel for guiding her into an immediate solution.
    I have been through something a little similar as well but in my case it was the girlfriend who was extremely physically and verbally abusive. She monitored my phone calls like this guy is doing.
    I had real trouble leaving. It required police intervention. Then she made threats and stalked me for months.
    Trust me, it happens to men too.
    God will send his people!!! Have faith!!

  • @k.l.hollister8128
    @k.l.hollister8128 Рік тому +169

    Awe!! I love the story about the woman who was given $1.25 million. Brings tears to my eyes that he gave a single mom such a blessing. As a single mom whose kids are now adults, I know how difficult it is to live paycheck to paycheck and how much anxiety and fear it can cause. What a noble cause it is to give a hard working person a chance to focus on parenting her children and not be run ragged trying to provide and be a mom in a world that doesn’t slow down for anyone to catch their breath. Sounds like she is a good person and this will only benefit the children. Thanks for this Heartwarming story. ❤

    • @woodyd-184
      @woodyd-184 Рік тому +38

      Well, they are his kids.

    • @JozelleRenia
      @JozelleRenia Рік тому

      @@woodyd-184 😅😮

    • @Louis_H_
      @Louis_H_ Рік тому +9

      You know a lot of rich people are more generous than people think, this isn't the first time Ive heard of a wealthy person passing on wealth to single mothers to give them peace of mind. All around a feel good moment.

    • @elusive.firstname.lastname
      @elusive.firstname.lastname 9 місяців тому +7

      @@woodyd-184that was my first impression, take care of his kids, that’s her new job

    • @Peppabot
      @Peppabot 5 місяців тому +8

      I got a feeling in my bones that at least one of those kids is his 😂

  • @learning2fly504
    @learning2fly504 10 місяців тому +24

    I cry every time I listen to the domestic call. I hope the caller and her baby are ok.

  • @stephj.4886
    @stephj.4886 Рік тому +122

    My husband & I love you, Uncle Dave! Bc of you, we are making our dreams come true. Thank you for your Christian-based financial teachings. You organically brought my husband to God & he is a better man because of it. We met you & your team in June 2020 & I couldn’t stop crying. I was so overwhelmed with joy. God bless you ALL!

  • @BubblyBibleGirl
    @BubblyBibleGirl Рік тому +75

    12:25 I've been with my husband for over 16 years. He's never been physically abusive, but Dave described his level of control over the money as toxic. He will always make me feel like I'm some out of control wife because I will sometimes buy one item instead of another (to save money for instance, or to try and make room for a little candy bar) without discussing it with him first. He will go bonkers and say he can never trust me. It's gotten really bad. I have long been in high anxiety if I ever get to go shopping for something. I mean there's having respect and consideration when making financial decisions, sure, but.... when you're a grown woman being treated like a child that can't be trusted or given any amount of grace for misunderstandings, then yeah, it's safe to say that amount of control is toxic. Most definitely.

    • @matthewwiegert6999
      @matthewwiegert6999 Рік тому +28

      If you recognize that as toxic behavior please please don't allow it to continue. When you're a grown woman you deserve respect from your partner and have the right to set boundaries on toxic behavior. I wish you the best of luck and relaxation because you are worth more than a candy bar or a name-brand purchase.

    • @SnifferSock
      @SnifferSock Рік тому +16

      Your marriage needs counseling. Freaking out over a couple bucks is ridiculous. Unless you're heavily in debt and you keep buying snacks every day, you guys need to talk someone.

    • @colleengarcia7752
      @colleengarcia7752 Рік тому +12

      He is a narcissist and it will never change. Get out now.

    • @Excalibur2
      @Excalibur2 Рік тому +3

      Sounds like you need to talk with him and try to work out what is acceptable, figure out a budget for discretionary spending, maybe look into changing jobs.

    • @AroundMoney01
      @AroundMoney01 Рік тому +1

      👍

  • @JTrys
    @JTrys Рік тому +29

    How can I find a boss like the one who gave that caller an inheritance 🤣

  • @barryjoslin432
    @barryjoslin432 Рік тому +86

    This ☝🏼is why we love Dave. (and the epic rants! 😆)

  • @idaslpdhr
    @idaslpdhr Рік тому +21

    OMG that broke my heart, I'm a grown man and was in tears

    • @AroundMoney01
      @AroundMoney01 Рік тому +1

      You are not alone, this first section of a call was a heart breaking.

  • @cloverconnections
    @cloverconnections 5 місяців тому +14

    For the lady who has anxiety and a 7yo... I can relate. A school job was perfect for me. At your daughter's school. At minimum you can be an instructional paraeducator and have the same hours as your daughter. You can start as a substitute until you get better... And your husband can get a better job. Then dump all your school income into the student loans... Its hard but you will do it!

    • @hobolove2468
      @hobolove2468 3 місяці тому

      I have much sympathy for her as well

    • @pennyrico8723
      @pennyrico8723 2 місяці тому

      Definitely consider getting a job at your daughter’s school to make a little extra money and still be able to have your daughter close to you. Move up to the next level when she does! A win/win!

  • @Parentingyourselfsuccessfully
    @Parentingyourselfsuccessfully 9 місяців тому +16

    I really hope that woman’s life has taken a turn and nothing but miracles are headed her way.

    • @Miko50177
      @Miko50177 8 місяців тому +1

      There's a comment above from someone said she passed away.

  • @BrianaBudgets
    @BrianaBudgets Рік тому +10

    I’m not shocked that Chris is from Los Angeles, California😂 Why is he so worked up hahahaha

  • @MaydaysCustomWoodworks
    @MaydaysCustomWoodworks Рік тому +45

    Speaking to the guy with 900k in debt... Multiple of my friends with over a 5mil net worth have been told by their doctors that they are in severe danger due to their stress levels. One of my friends was so stressed that they blacked out while driving and went off a cliff.
    Over-achievers need to learn to chill and take it from 100 mph down to about 70 mph if we are going to love a long and healthy life.

  • @pattip1413
    @pattip1413 7 місяців тому +10

    You are worth being ok. You are worth being ok. No one should be terrorized by a partner.

  • @christianpoynter7971
    @christianpoynter7971 Рік тому +69

    My heart goes out to that first gal and so many others in the same/similar situations. It's so hard to get out of those, especially when the people around you are gaslighting you into thinking you're the problem... I hope she's better now

    • @Excalibur2
      @Excalibur2 Рік тому

      I wonder if she was part of the problem, I just can't imagine the police coming by and not removing him otherwise.

    • @crowz6247
      @crowz6247 Рік тому +10

      @@Excalibur2 You have an unrealistic view of how police behave and what they can do. It's very common for them to show up and do nothing in domestic abuse situations for numerous reasons, including because they don't want to, because there's no immediate evidence of physical abuse, or because the victim doesn't follow through. It happens every day.

    • @Excalibur2
      @Excalibur2 Рік тому +1

      @@crowz6247 it's possible, but in my experience, the policy for many departments is to remove the man for the day no matter what. I've also met maybe 3 pathological liars who will say anything to make themselves look good, while often being abusive themselves.
      I just don't trust anything when I only hear one side, and people will always tell the version that makes them look good.

    • @darinshaver1098
      @darinshaver1098 10 місяців тому +2

      It's obvious by the callers demeanor that she was in danger.

    • @Excalibur2
      @Excalibur2 10 місяців тому

      @@darinshaver1098 crazy women can be excellent actors, playing whatever role that makes them look best in the moment.

  • @cleopatraleons
    @cleopatraleons 2 місяці тому +2

    This guy is way more than a financial advisor ❤ he’s a therapist, he definitely has a gift 💝

  • @ethanboden9890
    @ethanboden9890 5 місяців тому +8

    I’m so glad I found this UA-cam channel….. I haven’t finished highschool or really started my life so your tips will help me become stable. And debt-less!

  • @dreesaad6151
    @dreesaad6151 Рік тому +34

    Everyone NEEDS to work. Whether it's from home or office. You need to bring in an income. That's the answer. You can't keep incurring debt & not pay it off...

  • @sandi6818
    @sandi6818 5 місяців тому +9

    This is so true. I could not go grocery shopping with him! A trip to the grocery store is very telling of control issues. He literally would control every item I picked up! Had to leave it was too much! 16 yrs, left with our three year old and one yr old. He threatened me that I’d never see my kids again if I left him!

  • @butchnoneed4883
    @butchnoneed4883 Рік тому +31

    this is why i love dave ramsey, he goes beyound money issues he believes in the person.

  • @SashaMG
    @SashaMG 11 місяців тому +13

    I cried my eyes out when I was listening the first call.

  • @jdwar11
    @jdwar11 Рік тому +15

    Thank god John was there to work things through with the mother. That was gods hands being involved for him to be there at the time

  • @laurasturgeon3635
    @laurasturgeon3635 Рік тому +111

    God bless you, Dave. Thank you for your compassion.

  • @MommaJs-tz2uz
    @MommaJs-tz2uz 7 місяців тому +9

    This was hard to listen to . I was a Domestic Advocate Director at our local center. Very heartbreaking situation. Thank you for stepping in Most time the victim needs someone to just step in and make the tough choice to keep them safe!

  • @sandygrant9220
    @sandygrant9220 Рік тому +26

    It would be wonderful if your audience were able to donate to a fund to help this dear woman a child out. She needs to be able to focus on healing from this trauma and to take care of her baby! So glad the man who abused her is in jail! Thanks for your involvement in making this happen!

    • @gmarie3053
      @gmarie3053 5 місяців тому +3

      She had 88k in home equity. She just needed the tools to get away and start afresh.

  • @SL-fu7sh
    @SL-fu7sh Рік тому +12

    No one should live like this! This poor terrified abused woman!

  • @carryonjeeves
    @carryonjeeves Рік тому +19

    The couple in their 40s with $100K plus debt and 28K annual income. Holy cow. But good for her recognizing that something needs to be done about it, and starting from where she is.

  • @ann5028
    @ann5028 19 днів тому

    “No my anxiety came after I stopped working”
    “Oh. Hmm”. 😂 Dave so gracefully addressed this
    & That third guy is the result of never being punched in the face

  • @jenniferthomas394
    @jenniferthomas394 Рік тому +21

    the first call got me.... I hope that she and her son got away and that they are OK 😞

  • @user-hm7id5iu9r
    @user-hm7id5iu9r 10 місяців тому +30

    You guys are absolutely phenomenal! The way you handled that phone call with the young lady was so compassionate and loving. This is why I like your show. You’re real. You care. Keep it up! 13:54

  • @cheerfulmouse
    @cheerfulmouse Рік тому +32

    Wow, that's God making it to where she got the very best help at the moment she needed help the most ❤️

  • @ChanelNo5568
    @ChanelNo5568 22 дні тому

    I wonder how Dave feels having to be everyone’s telephone dad. God Bless Dave.. everyday all day!

  • @will9134
    @will9134 Рік тому +57

    The $28K per year couple are a perfect example of the “whoa is me” / “victim mentality/accepting defeat”. Nut up.

  • @mgb5170
    @mgb5170 Рік тому +31

    Impressed with Dave who could hear by listening closely to the conditions surrounding this woman/mother. I am not sure that I would have picked up on the seriousness or even very well trained intervention counselors. Dave Ramsey - You are the real deal.

    • @dawndesmond-rast2528
      @dawndesmond-rast2528 4 місяці тому

      Her pain came through the phone. I felt that!

    • @deborahhoward5471
      @deborahhoward5471 3 місяці тому

      You couldn’t pick up on the seriousness? Of that first call? The woman sounded like she was being chased!!!!?!!!!

  • @RIForg
    @RIForg 5 місяців тому +5

    The first woman is breaking my heart listening to her... I wish her all the courage and respect for reaching out to this internet dad. Her baby comes first. Your mental health comes first. All the love x

  • @doctorposting
    @doctorposting 2 місяці тому +2

    so happy for the last lady she sounds very cautious and sweet

  • @hilarystorey4601
    @hilarystorey4601 11 місяців тому +10

    Well done for helping her. She needed it.

  • @jackiebrown293
    @jackiebrown293 Рік тому +10

    You guys are awesome! Truly heaven sent.

  • @SasSaga
    @SasSaga Рік тому +35

    Bless this little girls heart. Thank God for you guys calling the Police!!

  • @datnohi8612
    @datnohi8612 Рік тому +5

    Anxiety is a battle that i face daily when i have to go to a job, i truly know the road this lady is on, I was laid off from my job of 18 years and had to go work in an open office, you talking terrifying, luckily it was only 3 days a week and they let you work 2 days at home, and to top it all off im autistic and I was being bullied by the team i was on, luckily I listened to Dave way back on my other job, im doing great financially 👍 , paid off home and car with a huge emergency fund, small amt of credit card debt, so could easily leave that toxic job if i wanted to, thank you Dave for all you do, he also helped me pay off student loan debt 👍

  • @Monica-ho4np
    @Monica-ho4np Рік тому +7

    Mad respect for all of you 👏

  • @danafreeman764
    @danafreeman764 Рік тому +9

    I wish I had this when I was in the situation I was in. Thank God made a way for me to get away. God bless her and the baby.

  • @hjkropf
    @hjkropf Рік тому +7

    Dave Ramsey your a hero to so many people n all different ways.

  • @leefossett5777
    @leefossett5777 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for doing this show. So many deny, ignore or judge those in these situations. I think it says a LOT about you guys to help this woman. Thank you, thank you, thank you. i have been where this lady is and to be available to help her and not sweep it away, well, my hat is off to you guys! Godspeed!

  • @TutorialsMag
    @TutorialsMag Рік тому +17

    Well done in answering calmly that arrogant and super rude guy named "Chris, Los Angeles, California", Dave!

  • @deborahcaldwell9775
    @deborahcaldwell9775 Рік тому +4

    Thank you for following-up with that first call. Thank you.

  • @johnrichards1137
    @johnrichards1137 8 місяців тому +4

    Good bless you Dave Ramsey and your team!!!

  • @sanbrunofriend5968
    @sanbrunofriend5968 Рік тому +2

    I love You professionalism!!! and Patients!! God bless you!!!

  • @davidmcmahon6862
    @davidmcmahon6862 Рік тому +12

    I love the way he just casually hung up on the guy in the middle of a sentence haha

  • @kimberly8185
    @kimberly8185 Рік тому +8

    I agree he is a little arrogant at times but wow dude. The caller is INCREDIBLY Arrogant. 😆

  • @santieldasavage
    @santieldasavage 10 місяців тому +7

    When her voice cracks it just hit you in the heart 💔 hope shes doing well now

  • @yolandaortiz1861
    @yolandaortiz1861 3 місяці тому

    Thank God bless you all for helping the lady in time of need.

  • @karolinakartagena4627
    @karolinakartagena4627 3 місяці тому +1

    First call- abusive relationships are hard, specially when you don’t have true support! Thank you Ramsey for being humane offering that help! Counseling and even holding her while she was going thru this! It brought tears to me. My tears poured because I identified with her! Thanks for identifying, not ignoring, and getting involved

  • @rickybrians5235
    @rickybrians5235 Рік тому +5

    That second person being from Seattle makes perfect sense

  • @joshdh46
    @joshdh46 Рік тому +5

    That man, giving that money to that wonderful woman, broke me UP

  • @eloisaferruzola3680
    @eloisaferruzola3680 Рік тому +12

    I can believe how amazing Dave advice the lady that got 1.25 million $$# wow. I loved his approach ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @beckymigdal3140
    @beckymigdal3140 Рік тому +13

    When a woman tries to leave, that is when it is most dangerous.

  • @danielbelisle2817
    @danielbelisle2817 8 місяців тому +5

    Really liked how you put Chris in his place. Keep up the great work.

  • @LucianaCristinadeOliveira
    @LucianaCristinadeOliveira Рік тому +9

    24:16 So lovely this person....Doesn't he know how to have a conversation?

  • @davids4332
    @davids4332 6 місяців тому +3

    Love when he says ok to that guy being a douche to him. Ramsey handles himself like a real adult.

  • @Chanesmyname
    @Chanesmyname 4 місяці тому

    Heartbreaking, you can hear the pain that lady was in, so pleased you guys took the interest in her care.

  • @CFer49
    @CFer49 Рік тому +24

    I’m worried about when he gets out of jail. It seems they are letting so many out of jail & she won’t be safe.

  • @AroundMoney01
    @AroundMoney01 Рік тому +3

    REALLY GOOD JOB YOU ARE DOING @The Ramsey Shows💗!!

  • @JohnMason-Hill
    @JohnMason-Hill 3 місяці тому

    Absolutely amazing. That last call and your advice was fantastic. Love the idea of building you advisory team.

  • @Brovillion559
    @Brovillion559 Рік тому +47

    There are so many ppl that need help like this women. We followers need to come up with a team that flys out and helps ppl physically

    • @sharonhunter337
      @sharonhunter337 Рік тому +1

      Yes. Go get Harry. He needs rescuing.

    • @jandramardges3368
      @jandramardges3368 Рік тому

      @@sharonhunter337 🙀🙀🙀🙀🙀🙀🙀🙀🙀😂😂😂

    • @jandramardges3368
      @jandramardges3368 Рік тому

      Harry doesn’t want rescuing! He wants his OWN sugar daddy!

    • @sharonhunter337
      @sharonhunter337 Рік тому

      @@jandramardges3368 I meant Prince Harry.