Proverbs 26:4-5 (KJV) - "Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest you be like him yourself. Answer a fool according to his folly, lest he be wise in his own eyes. Do not answer him according to his folly, lest you be like him yourself,” that is, do not engage him on his own terms. Isaiah 32:6 (NIV) "For the foolish man will say foolish things, having evil thoughts in his heart, working what is unclean, and talking falsely about the Lord, to keep food from him who is in need of it, and water from him whose soul is desiring it." We need to stay sovereign, full and aligned with God, filling our own cups and giving only from our overflow to remain free and clear of those who hunger to enmesh us in their madness, draining our joy and destroying our purpose, seeking to make meals for themselves out of our very souls. These quotes by Albert Einstein ~ “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” and “Everyone is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.” remind us there's courses for horses, we're not all the same and must be discerning when it comes to noticing the patterns and cycles in ourselves and others. Romans 12:2 (KJV) "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect." Psalm 23:1-6 "A Psalm of David. The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul. He leads me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake. Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; you anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows..." You're speaking such deep truths here Telsha!! Double-minded narcissists truly do desire to ensnare us by brainwashing us to consent to share in their delusion and believe that we don't matter, have no rights, value or importance and should do as they say not as they do to let go of our faith, good qualities, high standards and purpose to worship man over God when the absolute reverse is true. Narcs can't change their perversely lustful, cheater and defeator spots any more than cheetahs or leopards can!! I know this to be true as I've seen and experienced it many times myself especially when it came to others interfering with my relationships behind the scenes which always came to light afterwards. Some things are non-negotiable so when those lines are crossed you know to cut your losses and go! The Bible describes lust as sinful, a form of faithlessness and immorality that "comes not from the Father but from the world." Believers are warned to guard against it : Matthew 5:27-28 "But I say unto you, that whosoever looks on a woman to lust after her is unfaithful in their thoughts and has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Jesus is pointing our attention to the source of the problem. The act of sin is definitely bad, but the THOUGHT of sin is where the action originates; we are “defiled” by our evil thoughts. If you look at someone to “lust” and to gratify your desire with the thought of engaging in immoral sexual activities with them, you have already committed that sin in your “heart” or mind. Adultery is a sin. This tells us that responsibility and guilt apply even to the thought of sin (see Proverbs 24:9). 1 John 2:16 "For everything in the world-the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life-comes not from the Father but from the world." Mark 7:20-23 And then He added, "It is what comes from inside that defiles you. For from within, out of a person’s heart, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, greed, wickedness, deceit, lustful desires, envy, slander, pride, and foolishness. All these vile things come from within; they are what defile you." Phillipians 4:8 (KJV) "Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things." God sees all, He knows our names and what's in our hearts, He's taking notes and names and we'd be wise to trust our guts and hear with our hearts, to be discerning and well boundarised in order to repel and dispel any malign disrespect, corruption and evil that we're confronted with by being full and well prepared with now faith and using God's 6 armours in every moment. We knew this growing up, we paid close attention to the narcs shortfalls, inconsistencies, lies, manipulation, neglect, abandonment, emotional lability, lack of reciprocation and tried in vain to compensate for what was lacking yet were gaslit to falsely believe that we were somehow at fault for others deficiencies and the way they treated us. Yet we knew at heart to keep our soul and spirit free, clear, pure and faithfully aligned with God's light and truth and this became our saving grace. "When we hate our enemies we are giving them power over us; power over our sleep, our appetites, our blood pressure, our health and our happiness." ~ Dale Carnegie. Our bodies keep score so we need to repent, turn away from evil and obey God, as well as forgive, pray over and feel compassion for ourselves and others. We can truly respect and honour ourselves by intentionally choosing to place our heart-minds in God's care and do the right things for the right reasons to never again repeat our sins and mistakes in falling prey to the devil's snares. You're a God blessed gift to us all here and to humanity as a whole Telsha, thank you so much for all you are and share with us all here. New goal 1k+ likes each video fully activated!! 🚨👍 It's God's Word you're preaching here Tea and it truly needs to be spread worldwide to be heard and passed on by us all to save souls, ease suffering and level us all up to fly free in Spirtual Warrior status fully fledged in our God given purpose. Stay strong and God blessed our brilliant and beautiful Queen Telsha and family, sending lots of love, peace, joy and light to everyone xox 🙏💪👍👍👍💯 x💯💥💞💫
When the narcs own mother tells you that the narc is no good and that the narc has NEVER had a relationship that lasted ; THAT TELLS YOU EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT THE NARC !!!!!
You helped me stay no contact and cut all ties. As soon as I did that the narc asked for everything back that he gifted me (stuff I didn't ask for) or "it would get dark" (his words). When I returned all of the stuff with my father by my side, he proceeded to be disrespectful to my Dad in public because he was mad that I didn't come by myself to be further abused. They are completely insane and make absolutely no sense.
@@PaperclipProphets Thank you! Yes, Ms. Telsha's words are very powerful because God speaks through her! I am also proud of you for staying no contact even though your narc used a family member's death to hovver you!
Family! Yes they will hoover even in a new situationship. They don't care!!! Chances are they hovered old supply when they were with you! They value NOONE! If there is a chance for them to be a dog and betray someone they will do it at no cost I've been NC for almost 2 years amd there isn't a month that has gone by that he doesn't try,I've blocked sooooo many numbers and he still keeps it coming
When you are dealing with a narcissist, there is always a third party involved....Fact! They HATE when you have moved on. True, they will forever try to discredit you, control you, destroy you.
Narc he the first & last. Narcissistic somebody I will NEVER! want to meet ever AGAIN! I hate he even pick me 8 years ago but I can’t change it . I can move forward to better my life . It’s a shame u can’t even be their friend they lie as being a friend too🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️so so sad
I am hurting leaving this bird. But Telsha is correct. It hurts worse to continue to be used and abused. Next time he leaves, let him, and thank God he's crazy enough to make it easy for you to let go. I finally see i was in love with the idea of him. Not the actual him. And that's okay for me to have a dream of partnership and marriage. But it's not okay to act like this bird is the one. Clearly not marriage material. Not even boy friend material. Not even friend material. I can do better. I have done better for myself before. I will do much better for myself again
When it comes to the narcissist its one size fits all...the narcissist is predictable. They run on repeat. To those in healing, keep increasing in your knowledge of narcissism so you can predict their moves... knowledge is power. 💪
They will have everyone under the sun call you to try and reach you!!! BIRDSSSS!!!!! Md this one I’m leaving…. He taking his friends phones and texting me from there and having the friends look at him like bruhhhh… are you insane…. And my response… why yes…. He is ! Narcissist are absolutely BONKERSSSSS!!!!
This is the narc I dealt with to a tee. Years later he contact me when I was in a relationship talking about I’m cheating on him. Mind you, the bird was married with children. I didn’t know he was married at the time. I made the mistake and spoke to him, then I blocked him. I didn’t know he was a narcissist at that time. He never said he was married, but he’s telling me I’m cheating on him. That demon is crazy. He is blocked on all levels. I’m sure his familiar spirit will sniff out when I get in a relationship and he will find a way to contact me.
Haven't been on your channel in a while, but left that demon 2yrs ago and he still trying to find ways to get in touch, The devil is a lie ,Good bye 🤣💯
My ex hoovered me at my job with his new supply multiple times!I prayed after we broke up that I didn't see him while I was healing.Every time he showed up with her or by himself I never saw him.The lengths they will go to are unreal.No contact works.
Sis your on point they are sick they hoover weeks later and they have a bunch of supply! I felt after that relationship like an alley cat that came out of a fight!
I have commented this experience before on a different video , but it seems to apply here as well: “I hope you’re happy… but not too happy” is what he told me when I had been gone for over 6 months. They truly DONT want you happy. It’s sick!
When i was in what i thought was a relationship i was just another supply in a closet of other supplies. Welcome to the Twilight Zone without Rod Serling! 🤣
Of course they will hoover you in a relationship because they was cheating while they was in a relationship with you .. they don't care but they will only hoover you if you were good to them they will also try to destroy your future relationships with someone else
Beware Telsha most of these “will the narcissist Hoover me” questions from followers are really “I want the narcissist back in my life even though they caused me a lot of pain” in disguise. I speak from experience. It’s called an addictionship for a reason.
Yes! when he hoovered back in September, his text was he not trying to ruin anything I have going when that was his whole purpose. Wow! Thank you Telsha. This helps me to stay no contact even more so cuz i know he coming back. Its been 2 months.
You don’t know how much you’re saving my life my ex did everything you described … I’m in shocked because at the beginning he used to always tell me “ I am different” , “ I think differently, im not like everyone else” and he was actually THE WORST man I ever dated .. whew never dating a narcissistic man again thanks to you !!
I’m watching this a year after you posted it, and it’s so helpful! When you said they’re “try-sexual,” you are correct! My narc ex still had a whole husband when she got with me-I’m a trans man. Took a while to get divorced, she almost went back to that guy while I’m living with her. She then cheated on me with a woman, I got sick of it and moved out, then she went back and forth between us, then dropped us both for a cisgender man this summer, then hoovered me again, then went back to that woman, moved back in with her, and I said enough and went no contact for the new year. Week later, yesterday, she shows up at my usual after work spot, trying to talk to me, trying to get me to meet her somewhere else, calling, texting, when she has a whole “partner” she chose over me and just moved back in with just months ago. I tried warning the other person. 3 years of this mess. These people are sick and cannot be loyal to anybody!
You are so right about them . The female narcissist I knew wanted her ex husband back who'd been gone over 20 years and remarried just as long. Her reason for wanting him back were her word's " I had him first". She's also the one that cheated on him and had children on him. The delusion was strong in her thinking.
Mine hasn't because her new supply has money and she's moved in with him and with my kids and is still playing the victim .. basically the show is still playing 2yr later ..
Not all the time. There are a lot of variables. The woman that I have renounced as my mother has been sending attacks my way since birth. I believe she summoned the man I married and then they both spiritually attacked me and my children. After I lost everything, she admitted to being evil. He has done ‘heat checks’ but he hoovers by proxy since i had to move back in with my narc family pending our divorce. This has been a lifetime stronghold. I’ve contemplated going to see a witch doctor to try to release me from this bondage b/c I don’t know what other words to use in prayer. God please deliver me and my children.
Wow you’re so right, they do see it as cheating when you have moved on after the discard. It happened to me. I was so shocked that he could label it “cheating” when he constantly tried to end it with me because he couldn’t control me. He would try and I wouldn’t budge. Spot on!
Thank you for helping me heal. Your videos give me strength to move forward without remorse, to stand in my power and move on with my own life I felt stuck for years meeting one narc after the next but now I can finally see my future coming and I’m ready and excited for what God has for me. 😊
You're gonna see me commenting all on these videos I feel like you're the motherly voice I needed . I'm 22 (correction) from my previous comments. I'm glad I woke up early .
Thank you Mrs Telsha 👑👑 ❤️ for opening up our eyes when it comes to dealing with these birds your message hit every time I watch a video because it's true facts ‼️‼️ they will always hoover you family they don't care who they are with,,, the only person that truly love me is Jesus 🥰🥰 thank you Mrs Telsha ❤️❤️
We love you your one a the best on here anointed that why I listen to you you be speaking with such anointing thank you all for what you do God to be the Glory ❤❤❤🙌🔥🔥💯🙏🙏🙏
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Thank you, thank you, and thank you! Your teaching and prayers are helping us greatly. I have been out of “Narcship” for close to three months. God is definitely allowing you to help people.🙏🏽
Definition of insanity - . . . and a picture of that narcissist . . . 😂 Seriously, I laughed so hard! I wasn’t expecting that. Girl, you are awesome! 💕
This just happened to me. We are both in new relationships but now he's saying we belong together and he's ready to leave her now. I said I couldn't be with him so he said he's so hurt and will just stick with her then. We have done this dance for at Least 10 breakups and getting back. I'm ready to be done but struggling because he always comes back to me and it makes me think no one will ever love me but when I go back to him I'm almost immediately treated like crap.. yet I still want him🤦🏼♀️😭
Yes you ARE!.... and so am I, although I've changed numbers and EVERYTHING. You may not have been good supply and you DON'T want to be. That's not a good thing. Count your blessings 😉🙌
Destructive mindset isn’t the word. My NEX was cutting my clothes and trying to cause fires with plugs, secretly damaging property…. Like I couldn’t believe it when I saw the demon distorted face…
She told me she enjoys pulling me away from other girls. She likes the power. She told me she has guys do what I do and they don’t do it right. Please pray for Lisa
Haha. My ex got married after 3 weeks. When i started dating a fantastic woman, she came back to break it up. Hooverd me hard. She said she didnt care if I was with someone else, I was hers! She divorced her husband after 8 months and wanted to marry me.
After i realized that my gf is narc..i have no feelings at all.but she didnt let me go thats why i go no contact and now she hoover me..we met again we have sex..i complement here for the fuel she wants and im going no contact again for two weeks..then i text her a fuel that she want and she become intersted again and i disappear agin then she hoover me again then we met again having sex and change my # again..i play what she wants to play
Because God doesn’t interfere with free will. Unfortunately these birds are too prideful to come to a place of humility which is what you need for true repentance and deliverance. They know what they’re doing when they do it, they love their sin too much.
I've never had a real relationship on the internet..... more sex then anything and that's it..... it's been like this for awhile and figured that out long time ago...
No, they will get their punishment aka karma in due time .. trust me. God don’t like ugly. My ex narc did…. Went to jail several times for old unpaid fines and ended up hitting his own niece .. all this happened to him AFTER he hit me in the face one time for looking in his phone!
Proverbs 26:4-5 (KJV) - "Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest you be like him yourself. Answer a fool according to his folly, lest he be wise in his own eyes. Do not answer him according to his folly, lest you be like him yourself,” that is, do not engage him on his own terms.
Isaiah 32:6 (NIV) "For the foolish man will say foolish things, having evil thoughts in his heart, working what is unclean, and talking falsely about the Lord, to keep food from him who is in need of it, and water from him whose soul is desiring it."
We need to stay sovereign, full and aligned with God, filling our own cups and giving only from our overflow to remain free and clear of those who hunger to enmesh us in their madness, draining our joy and destroying our purpose, seeking to make meals for themselves out of our very souls.
These quotes by Albert Einstein ~ “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” and “Everyone is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.” remind us there's courses for horses, we're not all the same and must be discerning when it comes to noticing the patterns and cycles in ourselves and others.
Romans 12:2 (KJV) "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect."
Psalm 23:1-6 "A Psalm of David. The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul. He leads me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake. Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; you anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows..."
You're speaking such deep truths here Telsha!! Double-minded narcissists truly do desire to ensnare us by brainwashing us to consent to share in their delusion and believe that we don't matter, have no rights, value or importance and should do as they say not as they do to let go of our faith, good qualities, high standards and purpose to worship man over God when the absolute reverse is true. Narcs can't change their perversely lustful, cheater and defeator spots any more than cheetahs or leopards can!! I know this to be true as I've seen and experienced it many times myself especially when it came to others interfering with my relationships behind the scenes which always came to light afterwards. Some things are non-negotiable so when those lines are crossed you know to cut your losses and go!
The Bible describes lust as sinful, a form of faithlessness and immorality that "comes not from the Father but from the world." Believers are warned to guard against it :
Matthew 5:27-28 "But I say unto you, that whosoever looks on a woman to lust after her is unfaithful in their thoughts and has already committed adultery with her in his heart."
Jesus is pointing our attention to the source of the problem. The act of sin is definitely bad, but the THOUGHT of sin is where the action originates; we are “defiled” by our evil thoughts. If you look at someone to “lust” and to gratify your desire with the thought of engaging in immoral sexual activities with them, you have already committed that sin in your “heart” or mind. Adultery is a sin. This tells us that responsibility and guilt apply even to the thought of sin (see Proverbs 24:9).
1 John 2:16 "For everything in the world-the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life-comes not from the Father but from the world."
Mark 7:20-23 And then He added, "It is what comes from inside that defiles you. For from within, out of a person’s heart, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, greed, wickedness, deceit, lustful desires, envy, slander, pride, and foolishness. All these vile things come from within; they are what defile you."
Phillipians 4:8 (KJV) "Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things."
God sees all, He knows our names and what's in our hearts, He's taking notes and names and we'd be wise to trust our guts and hear with our hearts, to be discerning and well boundarised in order to repel and dispel any malign disrespect, corruption and evil that we're confronted with by being full and well prepared with now faith and using God's 6 armours in every moment.
We knew this growing up, we paid close attention to the narcs shortfalls, inconsistencies, lies, manipulation, neglect, abandonment, emotional lability, lack of reciprocation and tried in vain to compensate for what was lacking yet were gaslit to falsely believe that we were somehow at fault for others deficiencies and the way they treated us. Yet we knew at heart to keep our soul and spirit free, clear, pure and faithfully aligned with God's light and truth and this became our saving grace.
"When we hate our enemies we are giving them power over us; power over our sleep, our appetites, our blood pressure, our health and our happiness." ~ Dale Carnegie.
Our bodies keep score so we need to repent, turn away from evil and obey God, as well as forgive, pray over and feel compassion for ourselves and others. We can truly respect and honour ourselves by intentionally choosing to place our heart-minds in God's care and do the right things for the right reasons to never again repeat our sins and mistakes in falling prey to the devil's snares.
You're a God blessed gift to us all here and to humanity as a whole Telsha, thank you so much for all you are and share with us all here. New goal 1k+ likes each video fully activated!! 🚨👍
It's God's Word you're preaching here Tea and it truly needs to be spread worldwide to be heard and passed on by us all to save souls, ease suffering and level us all up to fly free in Spirtual Warrior status fully fledged in our God given purpose. Stay strong and God blessed our brilliant and beautiful Queen Telsha and family, sending lots of love, peace, joy and light to everyone xox 🙏💪👍👍👍💯 x💯💥💞💫
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When the narcs own mother tells you that the narc is no good and that the narc has NEVER had a relationship that lasted ; THAT TELLS YOU EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT THE NARC !!!!!
Welp, I’m in a newly committed relationship with God now, there’s no breaking us up again, sorry not sorry.
Hallelujah!!💯💯💯🙌🏽💗🙏🏽💯
Complete NO CONTACT HURTS BUT IT WORKS!!
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You helped me stay no contact and cut all ties. As soon as I did that the narc asked for everything back that he gifted me (stuff I didn't ask for) or "it would get dark" (his words). When I returned all of the stuff with my father by my side, he proceeded to be disrespectful to my Dad in public because he was mad that I didn't come by myself to be further abused. They are completely insane and make absolutely no sense.
Because they don't want any witnesses to your abuse. They are crazy birds !
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@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Thank you so much❣God definitely directed me to your content and my quality of life has changed drastically!
@@PaperclipProphets Thank you! Yes, Ms. Telsha's words are very powerful because God speaks through her! I am also proud of you for staying no contact even though your narc used a family member's death to hovver you!
Family! Yes they will hoover even in a new situationship.
They don't care!!! Chances are they hovered old supply when they were with you! They value NOONE! If there is a chance for them to be a dog and betray someone they will do it at no cost I've been NC for almost 2 years amd there isn't a month that has gone by that he doesn't try,I've blocked sooooo many numbers and he still keeps it coming
Yup!
Straight facts Sis!!🔥🔥🔥💣💣💯💗🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
When you are dealing with a narcissist, there is always a third party involved....Fact!
They HATE when you have moved on.
True, they will forever try to discredit you, control you, destroy you.
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Stay away from evil spirits period! They do not deserve our time nor our energy.
He left me for someone who had their life together more than me at the time . And still hoovered after about a year.
The narcissist don't have their own identity at all
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Yea you not lien ...... big big facts. They wanna be just like you even when u not talkin to them or around them . I peeped that
Narc he the first & last. Narcissistic somebody I will NEVER! want to meet ever AGAIN! I hate he even pick me 8 years ago but I can’t change it . I can move forward to better my life . It’s a shame u can’t even be their friend they lie as being a friend too🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️so so sad
Nope, cannot be a friend because they will still manipulate, triangulate, and gaslight you.
I DO NOT CARE FOR HER ANYMORE! SHE LOST MY UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. Live with that Lisa
Hit the like button y’all! This information CHANGED MY LIFE! 🙏🏼
Hallelujah thank you so much Sis!! Amen. Praise God!!🔥🔥🔥💯💗🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I am hurting leaving this bird. But Telsha is correct. It hurts worse to continue to be used and abused. Next time he leaves, let him, and thank God he's crazy enough to make it easy for you to let go. I finally see i was in love with the idea of him. Not the actual him. And that's okay for me to have a dream of partnership and marriage. But it's not okay to act like this bird is the one. Clearly not marriage material. Not even boy friend material. Not even friend material. I can do better. I have done better for myself before. I will do much better for myself again
Right…someone like this cannot be a true friend.
@@gigipeach7179so true. They have no idea what being a friend is about. Their too selfish to be a friend gigipeach
@@gigipeach7179so true. They have no idea what being a friend is about. Their too selfish to be a friend gigipeach
True! Narc is so entitled as to think every ex of her are owned toys no one else can get... 🕸🕷👹
"These zebras are doing James Brown splits" - The Tea on NPD
Slow clapping for you Queen 👏👏👏
😂😂😂 that image with zebras doing James brown splits lol
Not a frog with a helmet... I was all serious then bust out laughing 🤣🤣🤣
Lol!!😂😂😂
That’s why No Contact and No Convo are necessary requirements when this individual Hoovers because there’s No Value in any of it.
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Pls make one on the stalking narcissist
Yes! because they will stalk when you refuse to go back.
When it comes to the narcissist its one size fits all...the narcissist is predictable. They run on repeat. To those in healing, keep increasing in your knowledge of narcissism so you can predict their moves... knowledge is power. 💪
They will have everyone under the sun call you to try and reach you!!! BIRDSSSS!!!!! Md this one I’m leaving…. He taking his friends phones and texting me from there and having the friends look at him like bruhhhh… are you insane…. And my response… why yes…. He is ! Narcissist are absolutely BONKERSSSSS!!!!
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If course they will they don’t care they have NO morals, compassion or empathy!!
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Wish I’d known about this disorder of the addiction- ship before I spent 25 years in the dysfunction!
This is the narc I dealt with to a tee. Years later he contact me when I was in a relationship talking about I’m cheating on him. Mind you, the bird was married with children. I didn’t know he was married at the time. I made the mistake and spoke to him, then I blocked him. I didn’t know he was a narcissist at that time. He never said he was married, but he’s telling me I’m cheating on him. That demon is crazy. He is blocked on all levels. I’m sure his familiar spirit will sniff out when I get in a relationship and he will find a way to contact me.
The loneliest relationshit ever. No contact now. It’s the only way.
Sis, GOD SPEAKS TO US THROUGH YOU!!. I thank him all day everyday for you. You’re spot on every time❤️
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Haven't been on your channel in a while, but left that demon 2yrs ago and he still trying to find ways to get in touch, The devil is a lie ,Good bye 🤣💯
Welcome back!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯💗🙏🏽
My ex hoovered me at my job with his new supply multiple times!I prayed after we broke up that I didn't see him while I was healing.Every time he showed up with her or by himself I never saw him.The lengths they will go to are unreal.No contact works.
Thank GOD for the protective order.
Same here!!
Sis your on point they are sick they hoover weeks later and they have a bunch of supply! I felt after that relationship like an alley cat that came out of a fight!
It’s amazing how they Hoover. It starts the next day or two after you break it off with them.
I have commented this experience before on a different video , but it seems to apply here as well: “I hope you’re happy… but not too happy” is what he told me when I had been gone for over 6 months. They truly DONT want you happy. It’s sick!
That's deep that demon is trying to get 2 for the price of 1 no 4 for the price 1
When i was in what i thought was a relationship i was just another supply in a closet of other supplies. Welcome to the Twilight Zone without Rod Serling! 🤣
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Yes so was I!
Of course they will hoover you in a relationship because they was cheating while they was in a relationship with you .. they don't care but they will only hoover you if you were good to them they will also try to destroy your future relationships with someone else
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Beware Telsha most of these “will the narcissist Hoover me” questions from followers are really “I want the narcissist back in my life even though they caused me a lot of pain” in disguise. I speak from experience. It’s called an addictionship for a reason.
Yes! when he hoovered back in September, his text was he not trying to ruin anything I have going when that was his whole purpose. Wow! Thank you Telsha. This helps me to stay no contact even more so cuz i know he coming back. Its been 2 months.
You don’t know how much you’re saving my life my ex did everything you described … I’m in shocked because at the beginning he used to always tell me “ I am different” , “ I think differently, im not like everyone else” and he was actually THE WORST man I ever dated .. whew never dating a narcissistic man again thanks to you !!
I’m watching this a year after you posted it, and it’s so helpful! When you said they’re “try-sexual,” you are correct! My narc ex still had a whole husband when she got with me-I’m a trans man. Took a while to get divorced, she almost went back to that guy while I’m living with her. She then cheated on me with a woman, I got sick of it and moved out, then she went back and forth between us, then dropped us both for a cisgender man this summer, then hoovered me again, then went back to that woman, moved back in with her, and I said enough and went no contact for the new year. Week later, yesterday, she shows up at my usual after work spot, trying to talk to me, trying to get me to meet her somewhere else, calling, texting, when she has a whole “partner” she chose over me and just moved back in with just months ago. I tried warning the other person. 3 years of this mess. These people are sick and cannot be loyal to anybody!
You are so right about them . The female narcissist I knew wanted her ex husband back who'd been gone over 20 years and remarried just as long. Her reason for wanting him back were her word's " I had him first". She's also the one that cheated on him and had children on him.
The delusion was strong in her thinking.
Damn
Sending postive vibes to everyone.. Thanks beautiful lady for another great video
Girl u SPEAKING THE TRUTH! Yes u is! So crazy u soooo RIGHT!💯😀
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Hello family blessings to all….
Nothing but facts. They are such sloths on top of it all 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lolol!!😂😂😂
Thank you ma'am for your blessing and blessing us who have ears to hear
A zebra doing James brown splits 😂🤣😂🤣🤣
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GOD BLESS YOU MS.TELSHA , you always on point for real, one year no contact in February ,thank you 💪🏿💪🏿💯💯
Mine hasn't because her new supply has money and she's moved in with him and with my kids and is still playing the victim .. basically the show is still playing 2yr later ..
When you see who they are, RUN!!
Not all the time. There are a lot of variables. The woman that I have renounced as my mother has been sending attacks my way since birth. I believe she summoned the man I married and then they both spiritually attacked me and my children. After I lost everything, she admitted to being evil. He has done ‘heat checks’ but he hoovers by proxy since i had to move back in with my narc family pending our divorce. This has been a lifetime stronghold. I’ve contemplated going to see a witch doctor to try to release me from this bondage b/c I don’t know what other words to use in prayer. God please deliver me and my children.
Wow you’re so right, they do see it as cheating when you have moved on after the discard. It happened to me. I was so shocked that he could label it “cheating” when he constantly tried to end it with me because he couldn’t control me. He would try and I wouldn’t budge. Spot on!
Thank you for helping me heal. Your videos give me strength to move forward without remorse, to stand in my power and move on with my own life I felt stuck for years meeting one narc after the next but now I can finally see my future coming and I’m ready and excited for what God has for me. 😊
You're gonna see me commenting all on these videos I feel like you're the motherly voice I needed . I'm 22 (correction) from my previous comments. I'm glad I woke up early .
You are always on point, there are better days coming
+The Tea on NPD and Relationships Praise the LORD thank you, sister Telsha. thank you. God bless. Agape love
She was very good at hiding her double life snd explaining shit!
I actually moved away and didn't contact him but he still knows where I am and I want him and his people out of my life
Thank you Mrs Telsha 👑👑 ❤️ for opening up our eyes when it comes to dealing with these birds your message hit every time I watch a video because it's true facts ‼️‼️ they will always hoover you family they don't care who they are with,,, the only person that truly love me is Jesus 🥰🥰 thank you Mrs Telsha ❤️❤️
We love you your one a the best on here anointed that why I listen to you you be speaking with such anointing thank you all for what you do God to be the Glory ❤❤❤🙌🔥🔥💯🙏🙏🙏
All praises to the Most High!! God bless you my brother.💯🙏🏽💗💪🏽
@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Thank you, thank you, and thank you! Your teaching and prayers are helping us greatly. I have been out of “Narcship” for close to three months. God is definitely allowing you to help people.🙏🏽
Definition of insanity - . . . and a picture of that narcissist . . . 😂 Seriously, I laughed so hard! I wasn’t expecting that. Girl, you are awesome! 💕
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It's so crazy! He said he was different and think different from other people. There MO is the same.
No dignity whatsoever...its over. RIP. just dont get it.
This just happened to me. We are both in new relationships but now he's saying we belong together and he's ready to leave her now. I said I couldn't be with him so he said he's so hurt and will just stick with her then. We have done this dance for at Least 10 breakups and getting back. I'm ready to be done but struggling because he always comes back to me and it makes me think no one will ever love me but when I go back to him I'm almost immediately treated like crap.. yet I still want him🤦🏼♀️😭
I guess I’m lucky he doesn’t bother me or call me
Yes you ARE!.... and so am I, although I've changed numbers and EVERYTHING. You may not have been good supply and you DON'T want to be. That's not a good thing. Count your blessings 😉🙌
She’s totally blocked
🤣 You said....James Brown splits! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I can't 😂.....
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"These Zebra's doing James Brown splits"...😅 Telsha you are soooo funny..😂 you are so right, these people are not right in the head.
Sis speaks truth… I had to go seven years is to long, just letting life pass by
Great info, as usual!!! God bless you! 🙏❤️😇
Spot on !! Great video as always 👍👍
Destructive mindset isn’t the word. My NEX was cutting my clothes and trying to cause fires with plugs, secretly damaging property…. Like I couldn’t believe it when I saw the demon distorted face…
Hi Ms. T. Keep me in your prayers, my son is mentally incompetent. 🙏
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She told me she enjoys pulling me away from other girls. She likes the power. She told me she has guys do what I do and they don’t do it right. Please pray for Lisa
Narc has been married for 20 plus years and still hoovering exes. Why? It's very very weird and sad.
That goofball better stay away from me, and stay over there with that treasure troll he left me for😅
Haha. My ex got married after 3 weeks. When i started dating a fantastic woman, she came back to break it up. Hooverd me hard. She said she didnt care if I was with someone else, I was hers! She divorced her husband after 8 months and wanted to marry me.
MESSAGE!
(Keenen Ivory Wayans voice)
Albeit that i am commenting on a 2 year old video, I will take what i can get where i can get it. Just a small thanknyou ma'am
😂😂😂😂😂😂zebras, doing James Brown splits, all I can do is imagine it😂😂😂😂😂
I love her insults 😂😂😂😂 so creative
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Right!...🤣🤣🤣
Lol is Good, please show the lace /glue wedding shoes 😂😂😂
I was in a RELATIONSHIT 😂😂😂
of course he did lol blocked n deleted he crying n begging "please pick up , Im sorry" boy bye !!
Yes they do!
Person I was involved with, sent text messages from a number I didn't recognize, on their birthday 3 months AFTER marrying someone else. WWHHYYY...
He contacted me after a year. Exactly like you said. Thank God for you im 100% no contact
Good Afternoon Telsha
Thank you!!
After i realized that my gf is narc..i have no feelings at all.but she didnt let me go thats why i go no contact and now she hoover me..we met again we have sex..i complement here for the fuel she wants and im going no contact again for two weeks..then i text her a fuel that she want and she become intersted again and i disappear agin then she hoover me again then we met again having sex and change my # again..i play what she wants to play
This is good !!!!
He always use to say his mindset different
It's been two weeks my ex Narc has not Hoovered or tired to contact me and I'm glad 😊
Hey girl! You tickle me so bad. I swear we related 😂. You have beautiful energy 🥰 Thank you for sharing information.
Lolol!!😁😁😂😂 Thank you Sis!💗💗💗
I have a question. All of this is true, but why isnt anyone talking about the power of GOD that can destroy these spirits completely!!
Because God doesn’t interfere with free will. Unfortunately these birds are too prideful to come to a place of humility which is what you need for true repentance and deliverance. They know what they’re doing when they do it, they love their sin too much.
I will get a PFA! I think she’s got a woman there
You on point.
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All day..they hoover if you let them..
Neverending story no win situation with them
She thinks I belong to her
Not my circus not my Monkeys anymore!
Not Me Sis!...I shut It Down!!@@
Yrs Ago, during divorce, he did All Of That..well, not now! No more hoover, etc, the sidechick put it in CEMENT! IM GOOD!
Blked for yrs..and my kids know too!..
🙏 Amen father
I've never had a real relationship on the internet..... more sex then anything and that's it..... it's been like this for awhile and figured that out long time ago...
What is their punishment? Does God let them continue to harass his children?
No, they will get their punishment aka karma in due time .. trust me. God don’t like ugly. My ex narc did…. Went to jail several times for old unpaid fines and ended up hitting his own niece .. all this happened to him AFTER he hit me in the face one time for looking in his phone!
@@ms.angieb.1597 Thank you