Had my first session with my therapist yesterday and he was able to read me instantly. He mentioned that I have an anxious attachment style, and boy after watching this video he hit the nail on the head! Embarrassing, yet so insightful
I’ve been studying the attachment styles for 3 months now (a DA discard is the most painful loss I have experienced in my entire life….. and I’ve actually had to bury ppl I loved) The way you speak is exactly how I need to hear it. Everything you said is relatable. I appreciate your information. Now to listen to this type of video about an avoidant attachment style.
I needed to hear all of these because I want to help myself, i am currently on counseling with therapist.would you be so kind to enumerate some realistic healthy ways or activities for an anxious person to work and build on themselves?
What’s crazy is that anxious attatchment has manifested in both ways where I cut people off because I’m too anxious as well as idolize and fear abandonment and stay with them even though they are not emotionally available
Dr Becky thank you again for your content but do you think everyone has an anxious attachment of any kind ? I believe there is but your view is important to... Richie rich
@@dr.beckyspelmanI guess the colours of the rainbow is a good way, now that's interesting but then again I base others off there zodiac as I deal with signs.
Did you not grow up watching The Peanuts? (not trolling, but often by waatching certain programs you can see different interactions and solutions- especially with show with friends supporting each other)
i like your explanation styles. dont know about other people but i get distracted seeing you move in the mirror constantly, i guess i prefer not seeing the movement at the edge of the frame
Man I swear you have explained me and gave me depth into myself because each sign is something or some way I struggle with being
You know your stuff 👏👏
Thank you so much omg. This definitely spoke to me. It has also given me some empathy for my partner’s struggles.
Thanks so much. I’m glad you found the video useful.
Had my first session with my therapist yesterday and he was able to read me instantly. He mentioned that I have an anxious attachment style, and boy after watching this video he hit the nail on the head! Embarrassing, yet so insightful
Everything was factual, I always have to stop myself from breaking up with a partner when my anxiety starts
I try but it gets so overwhelming that I always break up.
I’ve been studying the attachment styles for 3 months now (a DA discard is the most painful loss I have experienced in my entire life….. and I’ve actually had to bury ppl I loved) The way you speak is exactly how I need to hear it. Everything you said is relatable. I appreciate your information.
Now to listen to this type of video about an avoidant attachment style.
Have you checked out Heidi Priebe: Anxious-Avoidant relationships?
Thank you, that was very helpful!
Wow and this is what i call deep. Deep deep psychology.
Amazing you said all that🔥💧🌊
All that you have said describes my pwBPD ex so well!
I needed to hear all of these because I want to help myself, i am currently on counseling with therapist.would you be so kind to enumerate some realistic healthy ways or activities for an anxious person to work and build on themselves?
What’s crazy is that anxious attatchment has manifested in both ways where I cut people off because I’m too anxious as well as idolize and fear abandonment and stay with them even though they are not emotionally available
Dr Becky thank you again for your content but do you think everyone has an anxious attachment of any kind ? I believe there is but your view is important to... Richie rich
I see attachment as a spectrum.
@@dr.beckyspelmanI guess the colours of the rainbow is a good way, now that's interesting but then again I base others off there zodiac as I deal with signs.
I for sure had this at age 25..spent another 25 doing shadow work :) it works!
@@deb2319hi Deb how are you ? That's good to know your doing that keep it up and be good
How does someone cope with someone with anxious attachment. I’ve tried to be understanding for quite some time but now I’m exhausted .
I am in the same boat. I came to comments to see what people are doing to cope with someone that has this. I don't know what to do.
Did you not grow up watching The Peanuts? (not trolling, but often by waatching certain programs you can see different interactions and solutions- especially with show with friends supporting each other)
What I know for sure is you did not have to read me like that !!! ☹️😩
If I am this way I should not be in any relationship.
i like your explanation styles. dont know about other people but i get distracted seeing you move in the mirror constantly, i guess i prefer not seeing the movement at the edge of the frame