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thank you for this video Rich... am very interested in knowing where one can find this study on dating/ltr/marrying women 7-9 years younger than a man most likely leads to a successfull relationship... also thank you for the content... your wisdom has been extremely insightful and helpful in changing my mindset recently... Show less REPLY
Yep. Women know that they hold all the cards in most relationships today. They also know that the marriage contract is the best financial contract they will likely enter whereas most men fail to realize that it may be their worst.
Damn Bro! Wisest words I have red here in a loooong time! Thank you ....and to all brothers outthere trying to stay the course/live life like a “red pill” with both eyes open.....I salute you! ✌🏾
This is a no-brainer. Take care of yourself and career first. Everything else will fall into place. At the end of the day no woman wants to be with a broke guy. Women can be found EVERYWHERE!! Its harder to find the ideal job, that includes good pay, benefits, profit sharing, bonuses, advancement, and will provide you great work experience which you can use to transition somewhere else. You need to think long term.
Absolutely ditch the chick. This guy is clearly living with a scarcity mentality regarding women. A 30-year-old guy who's financially secure and a six-figure income should have no problem finding women.
Dude!!!! Listen to this man's advice The next red flag will be an unexpected pregnancy. I was in a very similar situation when I was 22 years old. Back then there was no UA-cam forums like this to turn to. Unfortunately for me I forfeited half of everything I ever worked for to a loveless woman 6 years my senior after raising 4 kids. (Two that weren't mine). At the age of 46 I had to start all over again and sell a house with only 4 mortgage payments left to total ownership. You better take a fool's advice and get out before she locks you into the contract of parenthood. Good luck and God speed. CHEERS!!
@@robinorga528 thanks bro. Unfortunately I grew up blue pill, in a devout religious household. My parents are still married in their late 80s. So I had to learn about reality in the school of hard knock's. Thank God I woke up. Better late than never I guess.
Here's what the wrong choice will most likely bring him: Pregnancy within the next year... The suggestion that marriage (to legitimize the child) is the most logical "next move", ("after all, we 'love' each other anyway.")... A few years of "apparent bliss", while one or two more children are born... Followed by a few years of waning attention and intimacy, etc... Followed by one or two years of pure hell in which all affection and intimacy is completely withdrawn, he is treated as worthless and made to feel like an outcast in his own home... Followed by her attainment of permanent residency... Followed by service of divorce papers "out of nowhere"... Followed by up to 18 years of indentured servitude... Followed by an email to Rich, expounding how he wishes he would have taken Rich's advice.
@@bobinthewest8559 you nailed it That's the text book description of what's in store for anyone choosing this path. And it ain't B.S. either. You described what I went through without going into the constant "GASLIGHTING " in the final year and a half of my marriage. Most of these women have learned from the best pro out there; their mothers.
When the girl starts crying, remember the words of Socrates (most important thinker of all time, so let that marinate for a second): "Trust not a woman when she weeps, for it is in her nature to weep when she wants her will"
To the gentleman that submitted this good question. When this woman begins to turn on the sadness card and act like you are her everything, don't fall. Stay strong, women are prone to narrsacist behavior and guilt is their best buddy. Take it from me, being a yes person can hold you back tremendously in your life. The women that I said yes to, are nowhere to be found. As men we take pride in chivalry and responsibility and doing what's right. Don't let your awesome hardworking ambition get destroyed by toxic users. That goes for friends as well brother👍
Moving to a small town of 20k isn't that bad when it has a fortune 500 company there. It probably dominates the city. You'll meet some nice Midwest females that you can spin plates with. You'll be in the top 5% of the US which put you in the top 5% of the world. Spend one year focusing on you and and the women will follow. I wouldn't even tell the woman im leaving. I would just leave and start new life. This is a slam dunk decision.
The right advice without doubt. A few years ago I wouldn't have advocated being so cold, but there's no reason to risk drama with modern women that age. No reason to deal with the waterworks either. There's about a 0.000000000001% chance it could have worked with her and those odds favor being practical and not a sap.
The most likely order of events in a life with the woman he is currently involved with: Pregnancy, marriage, one or two MORE kids, disappearance of intimacy, her attainment of permanent residency, "unexpected" divorce, up to 18 years of indentured servitude. Did I miss anything?
@Dr.'sorders yeah it's still good enough for a single person especially low cost of living states like Iowa. It's been a few years now but I spent alot of time researching cost of living between states: and Iowa for example was 70% of a typical state and California was about 130%. So if someone made $70k in IA and took a job in California for $110k then they screwed up big time.
@@Grinningpicker00 yep. Mostly narcissistic / selfish and live in a bubble and have unrealistic expectations of life and what they believe they deserve
Couldn't agree more on this! Don't even know that women well. She is 5 years older. She is showing her greatest behaviour right now. Great and valuable video Rich!
Rich, he doesn't want you to help him choose. He wants you to justify his reasons for staying. He *should* make the move, yes. But he's whipped and afraid she's the best he can do. He doesn't yet understand that he is the prize. He'll get there if he stays on the path. Keep doing the work, brothers
He is simping hard... And he wants someone to tell him that it's okay to make a poor decision. What he desperately needs, is to jettison the scarcity mindset. In all honesty, I think the best thing he could possibly do for himself... would be to ditch the girlfriend, take the job... and go "monk mode" for his first 2 or 3 years in that nice small town.
On a similar note when I was 31, I moved 1000 miles away to a town of 3500 people in rural Arizona for a job. The nearest big city, Tucson, was 85 miles away. I went there and spent 4 years saving and investing my money as well as advancing my career. After the 4 years I was offered an even better paying position in a major city. That move to the small town solidified my long term success and created a ton of opportunities.
One thing to consider is that in a small town “the new guy in town” have some initial advantage when it comes to dating options. In this towns everyone has limited dating options and you being “fresh blood” will help you initially.
Just wanted to throw a thank you out there for the goldmine of wisdom and content you produce. Like other men have said, i should have found you sooner.
Warned my guy friend before, he didn't listen... abandoned his career for an unavailable woman. The consequences came, he asked if I made a bad wishes for him... 😒 Men are not that clever when they are being blinded by her beauty.
Why is this girl even a *factor* in this young man's decision making process? I'm 14 years older than this guy, make less money, and already live in a town of 20k and I wouldn't even consider her. Jesus Christ. Women come and go. Who gives a shit?
Very true. A multi millionaire in oil once told me. “ chase money not women.” “Then women will chase you.” That changed my life. Since then I got my money up considerably. Haven’t really tried to pick up woman since that conversation. My dating life has never been better:
Excellent advice! At 29 with an education and a good job this man has the world by the balls. He can find a really good younger hot woman especially in the Midwest and in a small town where they’re not corrupted as much by feminism.
He'll have the world by the balls... until a woman has him by his. He is at an important crossroads here, and there is really only one logical option. He knows what it is... yet, he is looking for someone to tell him otherwise. He needs to ditch the scarcity mindset. It will get easier for him, the longer he is away from her. She has dug her "talons" into him deeply... because of what SHE has to gain from him. Not because she loves him.
I am a very emotional guy, a musician who got raised by a single mother and have three sisters. I am afraid that when I work on beeing less emotional in my life and in case of connecting to women, that I will loose my creativity or inspiration with that. On the other hand, I am way too soft for the toughness of music industry or business general. I am 30 years and have now absolutely no clue about where to go in my future.
I'm a 30 year old creative as well, I finally got my dream job it seems like life is improving for me but I feel like everyone sees weakness in me for being soft. Anyways this guy mentions a little voice and an intuition, I think its always good to follow that and your dreams so that you're always building to where you want to be and you'll find people like yourself.I relate to what you're saying and this is what I hope for too. Take the time with yourself and reaffirm who you are, and let that be your guiding force.
im also 29 and i can't imagine beign with a woman age 34. Sex? Sure but nothing else. I can only imagine a relationship with a girl under 25, at best 21-22. Just care about the career, and things u enjoy.
I'm retired navy, and in my younger days i would ask before a port visit "are there any beautiful women there" to the guys who had visited before. They always answered yes, my point no matter where you go there's women. Think about the guy you want to be 20 years from now, the successful guy or the guy on his second marriage paying child support to the first ex-wife.
I made a similar mistake at 30, for the love of Canada or whatever don't do it. If you feel insecure about securing some other women at this point in your life do the work to improve yourself!!!!!!!!
Salaries are different in the US. But there are cities where prices (expenses and rent) are so high you can barely save money even making six figures, I've heard. You'd also have to spend a lot to get a degree, he mentioned having had student loans. He got a job quickly and paid them off as everyone should, but going into debt should never be taken lightly.
I really wish young guys would listen to this advice. Too many of us are now living through middle age in utter regret from bad choices. At 29, I was starting my alpha peak but caught one-itis and “settled down” as a beta provider. Big mistake. Lost it all. Tried it again at 35. Big mistake. Lost it all. At 45 (now 48), I found myself rebuilding my life in a foreign country that hates me, red pilled and living in utter regret. Never make life-changing decisions centred on women.
Guys.. you can chase all the excellence you want. Don't matter if you aren't attractive to women, both physically and personality-wise. Your options, working out and modify your physical appearance, become more outgoing and modify your personality. Or just leave the country.
Odds are, that women could leave him right after she gets the green card. ive seen it happen to friends of mine who married asian women. Take the good career, take care of yourself, worry about finding a good woman AFTER you find your ideal job.
53 seconds in...I say Make the Move! Life passes by quickly, better to regret a woman than a true life experience. I'll go listen to the rest of it now.
Dude, move to the new opportunity, make the bank, go exercise and you will be definitely noticed in such a small city. Not even a question I'd ask myself if I was in your position.
I disagree, have you seen alaskan women or north dakota women... They are nothing to write home about... Small towns tend to be sausage fest... Mining, timber, oil, agriculture are male dominated professions... I don't think rich knows or understands this... If takes this job, he should budget for prostitutes...
@@Aaron_R... The small town his prospective new job is in, is close enough to larger cities to negate that potential problem. I think he said about 3 hours drive, so a flight would likely be half that. If I were in his "predicament", at his age... I would take the new job, forgetting the girlfriend's name by the time the moving truck arrived at my new address. Once settled (in the job, and in my new home) I would take great pleasure in my new hobby, flying lessons, and be looking for my first plane about a year after obtaining my pilot's license.
Question International Mens day is coming up and I don't know what to give my Male friends. I saw that you recommended a book. Is there a list of books you recommend? What else can I give them to build their self esteem and masculinity? Some do not read books. Thank you
All the same problems in the US. Although in the US, you can do well if you can stay in the top 25% of the population. The US is worse than Canada for about half of Americans.
Hell yeah take a 50% raise. If monogamy's your goal - you'll probably find better female relationship potential in the u.s. midwest than Southern Ontario anyways, it's just a smaller pile of em to pick through.
Next week role reversal unmarried non resident 34 male with child , dating 29 year old female on $170,000 a year , look 👀 there’s a unicorn 🦄 seeking advice.
Having grown up in a town of 20000 in the midwesr I'm going to say if you have it all together the women come to you .. however there isn't as many choices but it only takes one good one .. and having all the outdoor activities is so much better for me than living in a big city
Never mind the red flags that are already present, or the red flags that may pop up in the next year... Ask yourself how certain you are about how she will behave once she reaches that magical point in time when she no longer "requires" the relationship with you in order to secure her resident status.
When you've fucked up and already are in a dead marriage, how do you mentally go about leaving to obviously work on yourself and your future, when there's a daughter involved? Maybe I'm thinking of it wrongly but I as the first male in her life will be affecting her too. This part of the decision ways the heaviest on me. I would be leaving her as well. The first man breaking the trust she has in me by walking out. Not to mention I'm leaving her with a broken woman to be nurtured by. Obviously I would be doing my best to stay involved. I can't shake the feeling I'm being selfish in this decision instead of trying to remain and raise her to be a better woman than her mother. I'm sure I'll be told I'm wrong. And deep down know it's not correct. I guess I just need someone on my side of it to boost my confidence. Would it be easier to influence her going my own way? So many people spout off statistics about single mother children and all the problems it causes.. I hate the position im in and wish I would have known better. But that's useless. I'm almost 26 by the way. So I know there's time to get on the right track on my own. I just need some guidance in this sort of timeline.
How is this even a question, man. I feel Rich internally laughs his ass off with these videos, not in a bad way of course but come on, dude. I study engineering and I see so much blue pill and so little red, sometimes I wonder if I'm actually studying in France instead of in Spain.
This guy in his late 20s is doing phenomenal...except for being hung up on this older lady. She's not a good find because she has red flags while this gentleman has none. The answer is simple, tell her you can't do a long term relationship and after she tries to guilt trip you or convince you to stay; let that be the last red flag and have fun moving to the next huge step forward in your life. That's called progress, giving up 75k for someone who doesn't align with your life is not.
Don't move to a US city that has less than 100k people if you want decent dating options. I'd suggest at least 500k. A place like Minneapolis would be a good choice. My other suggestion would be Raleigh NC.
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the guy should train to become a private pilot, and he's got it all.
thank you for this video Rich... am very interested in knowing where one can find this study on dating/ltr/marrying women 7-9 years younger than a man most likely leads to a successfull relationship...
also thank you for the content... your wisdom has been extremely insightful and helpful in changing my mindset recently...
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The cheerleaders get more excited when you run toward the goalposts, rather than the sidelines where they’re standing.
Damn bro, we were not ready for this
And then they get excited and monkey branch away and destroy my life
Very good metaphor!
Sheeeeeeeeah!!!! 🤯🤯I want what you having for breakfast!
Dude that's awesome
The more validation you give to women...
The less value you get as a man...
Stop simping.....Chase your purpose ! ❤️💪
Word of the DAY!
Yep. Women know that they hold all the cards in most relationships today. They also know that the marriage contract is the best financial contract they will likely enter whereas most men fail to realize that it may be their worst.
DONT RUSH ANYTHING.
There are an abundance of female bodies...
There’s a shortage of wives and worthwhile women.
Why would you want a wife? A Ferrari is a better and cheaper option.
Damn Bro! Wisest words I have red here in a loooong time! Thank you ....and to all brothers outthere trying to stay the course/live life like a “red pill” with both eyes open.....I salute you! ✌🏾
This is a no-brainer. Take care of yourself and career first. Everything else will fall into place. At the end of the day no woman wants to be with a broke guy. Women can be found EVERYWHERE!! Its harder to find the ideal job, that includes good pay, benefits, profit sharing, bonuses, advancement, and will provide you great work experience which you can use to transition somewhere else. You need to think long term.
Absolutely ditch the chick. This guy is clearly living with a scarcity mentality regarding women. A 30-year-old guy who's financially secure and a six-figure income should have no problem finding women.
FACTS 💯 💯 💯
Dude!!!! Listen to this man's advice
The next red flag will be an unexpected pregnancy.
I was in a very similar situation when I was 22 years old. Back then there was no UA-cam forums like this to turn to.
Unfortunately for me I forfeited half of everything I ever worked for to a loveless woman 6 years my senior after raising 4 kids. (Two that weren't mine).
At the age of 46 I had to start all over again and sell a house with only 4 mortgage payments left to total ownership.
You better take a fool's advice and get out before she locks you into the contract of parenthood.
Good luck and God speed.
CHEERS!!
Greg you nailed it bro!
@@robinorga528 thanks bro. Unfortunately I grew up blue pill, in a devout religious household. My parents are still married in their late 80s.
So I had to learn about reality in the school of hard knock's. Thank God I woke up. Better late than never I guess.
😂😂😂😂😂 What was you thinking smh.
Here's what the wrong choice will most likely bring him:
Pregnancy within the next year...
The suggestion that marriage (to legitimize the child) is the most logical "next move", ("after all, we 'love' each other anyway.")...
A few years of "apparent bliss", while one or two more children are born...
Followed by a few years of waning attention and intimacy, etc...
Followed by one or two years of pure hell in which all affection and intimacy is completely withdrawn, he is treated as worthless and made to feel like an outcast in his own home...
Followed by her attainment of permanent residency...
Followed by service of divorce papers "out of nowhere"...
Followed by up to 18 years of indentured servitude...
Followed by an email to Rich, expounding how he wishes he would have taken Rich's advice.
@@bobinthewest8559 you nailed it
That's the text book description of what's in store for anyone choosing this path.
And it ain't B.S. either. You described what I went through without going into the constant "GASLIGHTING " in the final year and a half of my marriage.
Most of these women have learned from the best pro out there; their mothers.
When the girl starts crying, remember the words of Socrates (most important thinker of all time, so let that marinate for a second):
"Trust not a woman when she weeps, for it is in her nature to weep when she wants her will"
Go get the money, the women will follow not the other way around.
@saganist 2 and that's the problem, when you get there you have so many things going for you, that women just don't really seem so important
yeah but what do you want with women that only want your money?
@@TheoOJamaloO1 you don't want women like that, they only cause unwanted drama. Leave those kinds to the sugar daddies 😂
Rich is giving great advice here. I hope the young man takes his advice.
Rich is in business.
To the gentleman that submitted this good question. When this woman begins to turn on the sadness card and act like you are her everything, don't fall. Stay strong, women are prone to narrsacist behavior and guilt is their best buddy. Take it from me, being a yes person can hold you back tremendously in your life. The women that I said yes to, are nowhere to be found. As men we take pride in chivalry and responsibility and doing what's right. Don't let your awesome hardworking ambition get destroyed by toxic users. That goes for friends as well brother👍
I have gotten to a point where I start laughing when women cry
Break up with the woman and go for the job man. Simple as that. Focus on yourself.
Moving to a small town of 20k isn't that bad when it has a fortune 500 company there. It probably dominates the city. You'll meet some nice Midwest females that you can spin plates with. You'll be in the top 5% of the US which put you in the top 5% of the world.
Spend one year focusing on you and and the women will follow.
I wouldn't even tell the woman im leaving. I would just leave and start new life. This is a slam dunk decision.
The right advice without doubt. A few years ago I wouldn't have advocated being so cold, but there's no reason to risk drama with modern women that age. No reason to deal with the waterworks either. There's about a 0.000000000001% chance it could have worked with her and those odds favor being practical and not a sap.
Big city women tend to be liberals and they are a head case. The small town chicks are conservative and that's what dudes should want
The most likely order of events in a life with the woman he is currently involved with:
Pregnancy, marriage, one or two MORE kids, disappearance of intimacy, her attainment of permanent residency, "unexpected" divorce, up to 18 years of indentured servitude.
Did I miss anything?
guy is talking about living on 2k a month and saving 5k a month. Very good
He forgot to factor in federal tax, state tax, Medicare tax, local tax, social security tax. Basically 40 percent of his pqy check is gone
@@KnightXV yeah lol
@Dr.'sorders yeah it's still good enough for a single person especially low cost of living states like Iowa. It's been a few years now but I spent alot of time researching cost of living between states: and Iowa for example was 70% of a typical state and California was about 130%. So if someone made $70k in IA and took a job in California for $110k then they screwed up big time.
Yea but young women now days are brainwashed by culture.
The decent young women are few and far between, but your alternative with older women is unacceptable.
40 and below are brainwashed.
@@KnightXV I didn’t know it was quite that bad but I believe it
@@Grinningpicker00 yep. Mostly narcissistic / selfish and live in a bubble and have unrealistic expectations of life and what they believe they deserve
@@KnightXV yea.
Absolutely agree. Your career will outlast this relationship. Listen to the experience of millions who fell before you.
Couldn't agree more on this!
Don't even know that women well.
She is 5 years older.
She is showing her greatest behaviour right now.
Great and valuable video Rich!
Rich, he doesn't want you to help him choose. He wants you to justify his reasons for staying.
He *should* make the move, yes. But he's whipped and afraid she's the best he can do. He doesn't yet understand that he is the prize.
He'll get there if he stays on the path.
Keep doing the work, brothers
He is simping hard...
And he wants someone to tell him that it's okay to make a poor decision.
What he desperately needs, is to jettison the scarcity mindset.
In all honesty, I think the best thing he could possibly do for himself... would be to ditch the girlfriend, take the job... and go "monk mode" for his first 2 or 3 years in that nice small town.
When you chase women, you have too much time on your hands.
@saganist 2 lol, yeah, i got my escort service on speed dial.
A woman wouldn't think twice about improving HERSELF ....... Dude , TAKE THE JOB
On a similar note when I was 31, I moved 1000 miles away to a town of 3500 people in rural Arizona for a job. The nearest big city, Tucson, was 85 miles away.
I went there and spent 4 years saving and investing my money as well as advancing my career. After the 4 years I was offered an even better paying position in a major city.
That move to the small town solidified my long term success and created a ton of opportunities.
MEN FROM ALL NATIONS......YOU ALWAYS COME 1ST. Chase excellence
Rich , Kudos for answering the same issue over and over and over...with patience. Great points.
One thing to consider is that in a small town “the new guy in town” have some initial advantage when it comes to dating options.
In this towns everyone has limited dating options and you being “fresh blood” will help you initially.
Great message and really on point. Enjoyed the vid
Great advice...
100% take the job not even a thought in this environment
This is a no brainer. Can't believe he actually sent an email. Live your life man. You only get one!
Easy, move and keep learning in your career.
Just wanted to throw a thank you out there for the goldmine of wisdom and content you produce. Like other men have said, i should have found you sooner.
Warned my guy friend before, he didn't listen... abandoned his career for an unavailable woman. The consequences came, he asked if I made a bad wishes for him... 😒 Men are not that clever when they are being blinded by her beauty.
Why is this girl even a *factor* in this young man's decision making process? I'm 14 years older than this guy, make less money, and already live in a town of 20k and I wouldn't even consider her. Jesus Christ. Women come and go. Who gives a shit?
You don’t have to be smart to make money !!!
Just be smart with the money you make !!!!
Very true. A multi millionaire in oil once told me. “ chase money not women.” “Then women will chase you.” That changed my life. Since then I got my money up considerably. Haven’t really tried to pick up woman since that conversation. My dating life has never been better:
I had lived in multiple countries by age 29. He should go and enjoy it for at least the next few years.
Excellent advice! At 29 with an education and a good job this man has the world by the balls. He can find a really good younger hot woman especially in the Midwest and in a small town where they’re not corrupted as much by feminism.
He'll have the world by the balls... until a woman has him by his.
He is at an important crossroads here, and there is really only one logical option.
He knows what it is... yet, he is looking for someone to tell him otherwise.
He needs to ditch the scarcity mindset.
It will get easier for him, the longer he is away from her.
She has dug her "talons" into him deeply... because of what SHE has to gain from him. Not because she loves him.
Dude you’d be crazy not to take this opportunity. Go!
Great information. Thanks brother!!
Chase excellence not women ! 💵 🚂 🏦
Chase Excellence not women..Leveled Up Standing Firm In your Frame..Feelin' good..You do great work Rich..Peace bro
I am a very emotional guy, a musician who got raised by a single mother and have three sisters. I am afraid that when I work on beeing less emotional in my life and in case of connecting to women, that I will loose my creativity or inspiration with that.
On the other hand, I am way too soft for the toughness of music industry or business general. I am 30 years and have now absolutely no clue about where to go in my future.
I'm a 30 year old creative as well, I finally got my dream job it seems like life is improving for me but I feel like everyone sees weakness in me for being soft. Anyways this guy mentions a little voice and an intuition, I think its always good to follow that and your dreams so that you're always building to where you want to be and you'll find people like yourself.I relate to what you're saying and this is what I hope for too. Take the time with yourself and reaffirm who you are, and let that be your guiding force.
I hope you have turned your life around.
Unfortunately, due to your upbringing, you will have a passive approach to life...
Good advice Rich ! Very sound wisdom to the young buck.
im also 29 and i can't imagine beign with a woman age 34. Sex? Sure but nothing else. I can only imagine a relationship with a girl under 25, at best 21-22. Just care about the career, and things u enjoy.
Never have a relationship with a 21-22 year old. That's just stupid.
Where there’s smoke theirs fire
TAKE THE JOB!!!!
Cheap imports are a waste of time, say bye bye to the import!
No permanent residence means it's probably not a European immigrant xD
and yet you imported a lot of women to your harem my turkish compatriot :P
@@efesezer8206 Your fake news
I'm retired navy, and in my younger days i would ask before a port visit "are there any beautiful women there" to the guys who had visited before. They always answered yes, my point no matter where you go there's women. Think about the guy you want to be 20 years from now, the successful guy or the guy on his second marriage paying child support to the first ex-wife.
Interesting topic 👍. i'll keep watching
You think she will stay for u if she had that opportunity? Lol
Right now... he IS her opportunity.
I made a similar mistake at 30, for the love of Canada or whatever don't do it. If you feel insecure about securing some other women at this point in your life do the work to improve yourself!!!!!!!!
Should I stay or should I go now....
If I go there will be trouble...
An if I stay it will be double....
I aint chasing a man named Excellence
Regardless of anything else he needs out of that relationship asap.
Now I'm seeing ads for snowblowers thanks Rich lol
Don't get tied down by any woman keep them at arms length, the moment you go exclusive with one chic you lose your leverage and your mojo
Go!!!! Make the money in the states!!!
$150k for a 29 years old dude, Im jealous from someone who live in europe
150 Canadian is roughly 110 US. In return he is giving up urban life style and living away from friends and family.
Salaries are different in the US. But there are cities where prices (expenses and rent) are so high you can barely save money even making six figures, I've heard.
You'd also have to spend a lot to get a degree, he mentioned having had student loans. He got a job quickly and paid them off as everyone should, but going into debt should never be taken lightly.
That salary offer seems super high
Damn, that's a nice jacket!
5 years older than you! bad idea. You're signing up to be her Boy, Not her Man.
Mentally strong men🔥🔥
This is a no-brainer. Of course he should go. This can be once in a lifetime opportunity.
I really wish young guys would listen to this advice. Too many of us are now living through middle age in utter regret from bad choices.
At 29, I was starting my alpha peak but caught one-itis and “settled down” as a beta provider. Big mistake. Lost it all.
Tried it again at 35. Big mistake. Lost it all.
At 45 (now 48), I found myself rebuilding my life in a foreign country that hates me, red pilled and living in utter regret.
Never make life-changing decisions centred on women.
I agree but I had kids and I lost them.
Marriage is a bad idea😂😂. Funny but so true
Guys.. you can chase all the excellence you want. Don't matter if you aren't attractive to women, both physically and personality-wise. Your options, working out and modify your physical appearance, become more outgoing and modify your personality. Or just leave the country.
Just wait until you get sick.
If a woman to have kids with is Motherstock, does that mean a woman to service your erection is Woodstock?
BE CAREFUL, they're on their best behavior at first or in the beginning and .... especially if they're looking for "Residency"
Awesome thanks 🙏🏾 brother
It’s hard when you don’t know what career path to choose and when time is ticking.
Get out of population centers, and don’t waste an opportunity at this point in your career. Your gonna wind up resenting her...
Odds are, that women could leave him right after she gets the green card. ive seen it happen to friends of mine who married asian women. Take the good career, take care of yourself, worry about finding a good woman AFTER you find your ideal job.
53 seconds in...I say Make the Move! Life passes by quickly, better to regret a woman than a true life experience. I'll go listen to the rest of it now.
Dude, move to the new opportunity, make the bank, go exercise and you will be definitely noticed in such a small city.
Not even a question I'd ask myself if I was in your position.
I disagree, have you seen alaskan women or north dakota women... They are nothing to write home about... Small towns tend to be sausage fest... Mining, timber, oil, agriculture are male dominated professions... I don't think rich knows or understands this... If takes this job, he should budget for prostitutes...
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The small town his prospective new job is in, is close enough to larger cities to negate that potential problem.
I think he said about 3 hours drive, so a flight would likely be half that.
If I were in his "predicament", at his age...
I would take the new job, forgetting the girlfriend's name by the time the moving truck arrived at my new address.
Once settled (in the job, and in my new home) I would take great pleasure in my new hobby, flying lessons, and be looking for my first plane about a year after obtaining my pilot's license.
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I lived in Fairbanks Alaska for awhile. And that is a small place. There were women there, so....
All the same problems in the US. Although in the US, you can do well if you can stay in the top 25% of the population. The US is worse than Canada for about half of Americans.
What a great position to be in.
Anyone know decent career paths where you can end up earning over 100k?
29 is olddd? Lol . I guess she wants papers then she will dump him
“WEAK men make poor life choices with women.”
What is more important? Genuine burning desire or natural compatibility?
Where did you buy that jacket Rich?
Chase excellence...wtf is this guy doing!!!????
EZ. Move.
Stay Based
2.00 bang fucking on !
Hell yeah take a 50% raise. If monogamy's your goal - you'll probably find better female relationship potential in the u.s. midwest than Southern Ontario anyways, it's just a smaller pile of em to pick through.
i usually wear a jacket & sunglasses indoors
Next week role reversal unmarried non resident 34 male with child , dating 29 year old female on $170,000 a year , look 👀 there’s a unicorn 🦄 seeking advice.
Choose money every time.
20k is a small town?
Hold my beer
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If people really need proof let them make that bed and lay in it
"the US is probably a better place to consider" lol
What audio interface are you using? SM7B sounds loud and no noise
Bro, grab the bag first, save like a demon for 5-10 years, set yourself up then construct your life around fun and enjoyable pursuits.
Having grown up in a town of 20000 in the midwesr I'm going to say if you have it all together the women come to you .. however there isn't as many choices but it only takes one good one .. and having all the outdoor activities is so much better for me than living in a big city
Never mind the red flags that are already present, or the red flags that may pop up in the next year...
Ask yourself how certain you are about how she will behave once she reaches that magical point in time when she no longer "requires" the relationship with you in order to secure her resident status.
If you're horny have a root if you're not horny don't have a root end of story... these topics are going around and around in circles
When you've fucked up and already are in a dead marriage, how do you mentally go about leaving to obviously work on yourself and your future, when there's a daughter involved?
Maybe I'm thinking of it wrongly but I as the first male in her life will be affecting her too. This part of the decision ways the heaviest on me.
I would be leaving her as well. The first man breaking the trust she has in me by walking out. Not to mention I'm leaving her with a broken woman to be nurtured by.
Obviously I would be doing my best to stay involved. I can't shake the feeling I'm being selfish in this decision instead of trying to remain and raise her to be a better woman than her mother.
I'm sure I'll be told I'm wrong. And deep down know it's not correct. I guess I just need someone on my side of it to boost my confidence. Would it be easier to influence her going my own way?
So many people spout off statistics about single mother children and all the problems it causes.. I hate the position im in and wish I would have known better. But that's useless.
I'm almost 26 by the way. So I know there's time to get on the right track on my own. I just need some guidance in this sort of timeline.
How is this even a question, man. I feel Rich internally laughs his ass off with these videos, not in a bad way of course but come on, dude. I study engineering and I see so much blue pill and so little red, sometimes I wonder if I'm actually studying in France instead of in Spain.
This guy in his late 20s is doing phenomenal...except for being hung up on this older lady. She's not a good find because she has red flags while this gentleman has none. The answer is simple, tell her you can't do a long term relationship and after she tries to guilt trip you or convince you to stay; let that be the last red flag and have fun moving to the next huge step forward in your life. That's called progress, giving up 75k for someone who doesn't align with your life is not.
Don't move to a US city that has less than 100k people if you want decent dating options. I'd suggest at least 500k. A place like Minneapolis would be a good choice. My other suggestion would be Raleigh NC.
Need to put "jk" after a statement like that so we know you just joking