His Female Friends

I saw a post the other day that had a lot comments and shares. It read “A Real Man should cut off any female friend that his girlfriend isn’t comfortable with.” Do you agree? Let’s take a look at this.
Let’s look at it from the friend’s perspective first. What if you’ve been plutonic friends with this guy since 5th grade and his new girlfriend is jealous of your friendship? Do you stay away out of respect?
Do you continue on as usual because her insecurities aren’t your problem? (Even though they are kinda his problems and you’re supposed to be his good friend, and good friends help each other out)
Or do you follow his “lead” assuming he knows what’s best for his own relationship?
What about this guy? Do throw away years of solid friendship for the new bed buddy?
When is your friendship inappropriate and when is your girlfriend just being dramatic?
At what point does the new girlfriend’s feelings take precedence over your old friendships? It has to happen eventually.
What about the new girlfriend. Should have to share her man with another woman?
Is that even really what’s going on?
If there really is nothing going on, why is she so jealous?
It sounds so complicated but it can be simplified.
1. A true friend will respect you enough to give your relationship room to grow into whatever its going to be
2. A person pursuing a goal will try to make every action bring them closer to that goal and avoid things that take them farther from that goal. A man wanting a healthy, loving relationship will fully acknowledge the legitimacy of his woman’s feelings and take the action that shows his love for her and progresses their relationship.
3. Love doesn’t work without trust. Trust is only significant in the face of temptation. Any woman wanting a healthy, loving must trust that her man wants the same thing, that he will act accordingly and do what is best for their relationship.
Have you ever wanted your man to drop one or all of his female friends? Have you ever been the friend that was seen as a threat?
I’d love to hear your feedback on this in the comments below.
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