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Bert, I am almost 69 years old and I will never forget what my Dad sat me down and told me when I started dating at 16. He told me to be observant, and if a man wasn't good to his dog or respectful to his mother, he wouldn"t be good to me either. Very wise words. My Dad was great.
Yes! If he’s not nice to the waiter, he’s not a nice guy!!
My dad gave me almost the same advice and I'm 59.
Wow that is so true
I guess all parents know those same words cuz I’ve heard that about respecting his mother
The day I walked down the aisle, my dad slipped a 20-cent coin into my hands whilst holding my bouquet. He then whispered to me that if I ever wanted to come back home, I must call him!
I burst into tears. He was a man of few words. But that 20-cent coin spoke volumes.
We are talking many moons ago! No cell phones then. Plenty of payphones!
Dad has been gone now 25 years, and that 20-cent coin is my most treasured piece in my jewelry box.❤
20 cent piece from which country?
@@judyengle7728 South Africa 🇿🇦
They no longer make those coins.
My dad passed away last month. He was an amazing man. He always told me that he loved me. He told me that he was proud of me for raising my three boys on my own. He was always there for me. I could talk to him about anything and everything. When I was younger, I would follow him around while he was working on things and ask all kinds of questions. His patience seemed never ending. He taught me how to do basic maintenance around the house and on the vehicles. He said he believed in me and that I could accomplish anything I put my mind to. He was an amazing, kind, and loving man. I miss him so very much. Bert, you are an amazing dad and husband. Keep doing what you’re doing!
Audrey, we just love you young lady! Boys do make you feel pretty, but know that your beauty is NOT based on boys. You have a beautiful soul and are so pretty with or without them! So proud of you and you courageous spirit.
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Just because there are no more proms, doesn't mean you stop dancing. Never stop dancing!
My dad loved my mother unconditionally and wasn’t afraid to show it. 13 years after his death we are still finding love notes he wrote and hid around the house for mom to find. It has been such a wonderful example to myself and my brother along with our families. We consider it a blessing to have witnessed his selfless love for our mom. I can’t think of a better foundation to build my family off of!❤️
This is what my Dad told me and I’ve passed this down to my daughters: if you’re out and any situation comes up that you’re not comfortable with, you can always call, we’ll come get you, no questions asked.
Bert just being a part of your children's life is the best thing you can do .
I'm 54 yrs old. In the 80's guys were into renting Motel Room's after Prom. My Dad told me, remember Motel spelled backwards was Letem, and don't you! It stuck so hard in brain, I refused the invite and went strait home after prom! I love you Daddy! You always knew what was best!
My Grandpa was the man figure in my life. My Grandpa showed me how to work hard and play hard. We skied, play tennis, swam, golfed. He helped me with reports and even showed up to bring the eclairs for my country report and ran the slide show for my state report. He brought the entire square dance team to Dairy Queen for sundaes the first night I worked there and took a video😂. He never missed a single swim/diving meet and I could hear him over everyone else and even underwater. He showed up for me for everything and invested time in shaping me into the person I am today. I miss him so darn much.
I love Audrey. I think she is very beautiful and mature. Especially the way she takes care of olivia
My dad and I had a date every week where we went to lunch and sometimes to a baseball game or just out riding snow machines together. Those moments are so special to me and meant the world. He showed me how a man was supposed to treat a woman. ❤
Yuck. Don’t say date and Dad in the same sentence. That’s just wrong.
Really don't think what meant
Bert, a great memory I have over 60 years ago was whenever myself or my 4 siblings would have a "boo boo" - our Dad would pull out an imaginary little vile from his pocket (invisible) and rub it gently on the "boo boo" and it would immediately go away. I intend to carry on this beautiful tradition with my first grandson. God Bless you all.
My father prayed for us 9 kids by name every Wednesday night at prayer meeting ..I found out he did that for many years faithfully. His prayers are what Jesus used to bring me back to my Lord . Never ever stop praying for your kids no matter how old they are …. I’m living proof prayers get answered. It took me 32 years yet he never stopped praying ..
That's amazing God blessed with a good earthy father,
My dad is there for me, every single day, any thing I nerd to say. Ever. ❤
All I can say about my father is he daily said I love you. It has been so meaningful as we didn’t have a great relationship. But my husband was a standout dad! Those daddy daughter dates and having her dad every day at school from 7-12 grade bonded them so much. I’m one of those happy peoples that have been watching you for years. I honestly don’t think there is a beat you ever miss for rocking fatherhood. You will see the fruits so much when they become adults.
To Bert,
My dad was just always there. He had my back in everything I did. He fixed things that were broken, if even it was my heart. Then even when I got married he was there still fixing any problems. Was there when my kids were born( well outside, but he was there ) They many years down the track he got dementia, it went to a bit to full blown so quick. Then it was my turn to have his back, to make sure he was doing okay every day till the end 😢
My dad spent his free time with me doing things like bike rides, walks, exploring the woods, throwing a ball….. you name it. I didn’t realize it then but as I grew I really appreciated his time he invested in me.
I'm 72. My dad was raised in a very rural area and was this country through and through. The best advice he ever gave me was to listen to your kids. Let them talk without judging, just be their ear and shoulder. And don't blink. When your kids are babies, enjoy every moment, because when you blink and turn around, they are leaving the nest. Let them be kids.
Audrey, you looked absolutely beautiful! I loved your dress. Thank you for sharing such a special moment with all of us! I definitely remember my first dance. You will always remember it! Soak in all of these experiences because life moves so fast.
Bert, I have so much respect for you as a father. It is beyond evident just how important all of your children are to you. As a daughter who had a completely absent father, I would say that your time is the most valuable thing you can give to your children. I have a very good feeling that you and Jessica devote all of of energy and time to your family. You are such a wonderful family!
I lost my dad when I was 18 and now I am 46. He was a single parent of 3 girls. He didn't date much. He dedicated his life to raising us girls. We didn't get to talk about boys so i don't know what he would of said to me. Anyway its great to see Audrey all dressed up and having a blast at a dance! I loved it! Thank you Audrey for sharing! You are turning into a beautiful young woman!
I'm 60 and the most important lessons my dad taught me were to be activily involved in my kids lives and that a man in your life is a choice to share your life with them not a need. He taught me to be self sufficient whether it was cars, cooking or something else. You guys always put God & family 1st which is the most important lesson.
I'm only 27 but I've been so blessed to have the best dad. He never ends a day without checking on me especially now that I live 2 hours away. He always would start my car for me when it was cold and I lived at home. He always encouraged me to be my best. Never underestimate complimenting your daughters and telling them that they are strong, beautiful, and that your proud of them. I think support is the most impactful.
I totally agree 💯☺️
I’m a 56 year old woman and my dad used to always include me in house projects. Taught me how to use tools. He was always very encouraging He was just involved in my life. Also when I had children he would drive across town everyday just to say hi to them. He always brought them something. The smallest things made them so happy. He would save the mints you get after meals in restaurants for them I think you’re doing a great job Bert
That's so precious 💗
The most important thing my Dad ever did was show me how a man should treat a woman, and just showed what a real gentleman is. It had such an impact on the man I chose to marry, There was one I knew that was not a bad man, but he didn't do things to make me feel special and cherished. The man I married does do those things, and I am so thankful for him, and for my dad!
I am 47 and my dad just died this past March. He stepped in and was the best papa/father figure for my autistic daughter. He and my mom helped mom helped me raise her. And my dad was the best I could have ever asked for to help me raise her. What he could have done better was saying I love you more and hugging me more. Allow he he did tell my daughter he loved her and hugged her always.❤️
My dad who is 98 Years old in a nursing home now, was always a great provider. He played with us as children, made sure we had everything that we physically needed until we were young adults in our early twenties. What I wish that he had did for me was to tell me that he loved me, or even to say he cares about me. Actually saying this verbally to me. As a teen , he never hugged me either.or as an adult. He treated most of my sisters this way. He would make comments like girls are useless, and always wanted a boy which he never got. He also puts me down about my weight, my whole life, and I am 67 years old now.
What I would say to you Bert is to tell your children that you love them always. Hug them and make them feel special, which I know that you do. Sandra 💙💫
I am 64and my Dad was like that. He also never got a son. He didn't tell us we were useless, but his parents were European immigrants in a more male dominated generation. He was a chauvinist. But we were smart and good at math and science like him. Therefore, he did encourage us to go to college. He didn't give hugs, the mothers were thought of as nurturing. I know that he loved me.
I greatful my dad told anyone I dated " remember anything you do to my daughter, anyway you treat my daughter I will do to you. Lay one hand on her I will lay two on you. Respect her I will respect you. Treat her badly, hurt her, they may never find you."
MOOSE! MOOSE! MOOSE!
Bert, you just being PRESENT is the best thing you can do, bar none. Keep pouring out your love and confidence in them.
Oh....and don't tick off the mooses.
My father was the best! He and I went for weekly walks together from the time I was 24 to 40. He passed away in 2020 and I cherish those walks/talks so much. He also was my partner in life events....went house shopping with me when I was in my mid-20's...sat next to me when I bought my first car....encouraged me when I was feeling challenged....gave me advice that has lasted me to this day. He also fixed things in my house which was just so special. I could always count on him to care about me right up until the end.
My dad was not a talkative or demonstrative man. He was a loving, hard working husband who always gave mushy cards to mom for every holiday. When I got my first job, he explained that as an adult I needed to learn the responsibility of daily living. I paid $50 per month to live at home. That was invaluable for the rest of my life. And he was always there for any life issues.
I’m grateful my dad showed me how to change a tire, change oil, use a hammer, etc. I didn’t always like or want to but now that I’m in my 30’s I’m thankful he did! I’m knowledgeable and confident in how to use basic tools. My dad always seemed like he didn’t judge me so I’d usually come to him if I was having a hard time making a decision, etc and he’d go through a pro/con list with me! He also is one person I know without a doubt he will be there for me no matter what and willing to help me if needed! You’re a great dad, keep it up!
Oh my gosh my dad did the same thing. If he was in the garage working on cars i was out there with him. Changing oil- rotating tires all the car stuff. My husband was surprised I knew all this stuff. Sadly, my daddy passed at 49 . I sure do miss him. He was my buddy.
My dad taught me to read maps and I believe he instilled in me a love of travel. He loved farms and watching the crops grow and I love that too. I appreciate him more today.
You are a great dad!
Hello Bert, how are you, Audrey's beautiful young lady with such a bright future ahead. How is your dad Bert you're having a great day your kiddos are so blessed to have you and Jessica. kiddos grow up fast blink of an eye they grow up. I love you guys thank you for taking us along through the years. You guys are blessings hugs take care
many blessings
My two girls are 40 and 44. When I see parents with young children I always tell them " enjoy them while they are little because they grow up to fast. Audrey thank you for sharing your Junior Prom with us. You look so beautiful.
I hope I don’t come off as rude, but good job mom and dad for letting your kids be kids for as long as possible. I used to think that Audrey was immature and sheltered for her age but maybe it’s because she gets to enjoy her childhood longer than most did. Hopefully that makes sense!
I feel the same way. Just didn't want to say anything.
Interesting, I've always thought she was mature.
I'm glad she got to enjoy her childhood longer as well. I'm 53 and back in the 80s when I was a teenager, my friends and I we're still playing with Barbies when we were like 14 years old just before we went into High school. Times were so different back then where your childhood actually lasted longer nowadays kids seem to grow up way too quick. But that's just my opinion I think they have done a great job raising these kids. They are all great kids😊
Maturity is an interesting thing to judge. I think life changes are what enlighten us to the steady changes that are happening. It's funny... I'm a momma of 11. My oldest is 15... then 14 (both boys) and a 12 year old girl. They are often criticized for being behind as they don't fit in super well with the teens. They typically entertain younger siblings and siblings friends at gatherings out of habit. I think it's a very unfair critique as when the need arises they can run the house. Now, mind you...I run the house, they do school, chores and free time like normal families. But in emergency situations they are amazing. I can honestly say as 1 of 3, i was more advanced than any of my kids. Was in college and working part time as a CNA at 16.... but i feel my almost 16 year old has a self sacrificing spirit and is just as mature even though he's not pushing to grow up as fast as this crazy lady did. ❤ Love my crew and get my back up when they're labeled immature... if you can't tell. 😊 Talking cool, wearing make up, hanging out late at night with friends... doesn't make anyone more mature.
I think I'm agreeing with all of you here. Just my take on it. ❤
And yes, enjoy the simplicity of youth while you can!
My Dad always sat down with me on Saturday morning to watch the Road Runner and Coyote cartoon when he was not working. He has always made sure he bought a Christmas present for me that he picked out.
My Dad was always there to listen. I could go to him for anything. he was my comfort and joy. May 15 is the anniversary of his passing. I still hear all his wisdom in my head.
Bert- I am 71 years of age and the ONLY advice to give you is - IMO - continue to be yourselves. You ARE the best parents you can be. Also you already know who to go to when you have doubts. God bless your family.
My dad was great at being supportive no matter what. I always knew he would be there for me and he’d pick me up when I was down. The thing I wish he’d let me do a bit more of was be more hands on with things diy. I see your kids doing so much around the house and I wish I’d learnt these things in my childhood and not waited until I was an adult! You’re doing great Bert. You are a wonderful father and role model. Love the vlog as always ❤
And Audrey I love that you danced with someone at your prom. That’s so lovely! Bert & Jessica, I met my now husband when I was 15! We’ve been a couple since I was 19 so you never know when you’re going to meet the one 😇
Bert & Jessica. I do have response for you Bert. My dad was a wonderful dad and I lost him in 1992 from complication from Diabetes. He was such a hard worker. He always (like you) put his family first. There were three of us, two girls and a boy. My sister and I had my mom , to guide us and worked with us on our school studies. My brother was guided by dad.. My brother was given the right upbringing by dad . Jeff (my brother) was taught by dad to respect all others,treat every one with much love . When we(my sister and brother) attended his memorial service and many of his co-workers and fellow managers all said that it was a great pleasure to have dad as their manager. He was truly a fine manager. He was a outstanding boss who truly cared for his employees. He live by the "Golden Rule". DO ON TO EACH OTHER AS YOU WOULD LOVE TO BE TREATED. HE HAD THREE MUST DO'S. ALWAYS SHOW COMPASSION, BE HONEST AND BE RESPECTFUL TO ALL. SO BERT LEAD BY EXAMPLE.
AUDREY, AS FAR AS THE SOCIAL SCENE GOES. YOU WERE TAUGHT THE RIGHT WAY NOT THE WRONG WAY. MY EXPERIENCE WITH MY PROM WAS MY PROM WAS HELD IN THE GYM OF MY SCHOOL. UNLIKE NOW DAYS THE SCHOOLS NOW RESERVE A BALLROOM AT A HOTEL. OH AT MY PROM MY PRINCIPAL OPENED UP ALL THE BLEECHERS IN THE GYM AND THE PARENTS SAT IN THERE. THE SNACK BAR WAS OPENED TO SELL SODAS AND SNACKS. THE PROM ENDED AT 10:00 SHARP. SINCE PARENTS WERE ALREADY THERE GOING HOME WAS A NO BRAINER. SO VERY HAPPY TO HEAR THAT YOUR PROM WAS AWSOME. YOU LOOKED SO PRETTY HONEY. YOU WILL HAVE ANOTHER CHANCE TO DANCE, YOU WAIT AND SEE. YOUR LIFE IS JUST THE BEGINNING.
1. He apologized
2. He had flowers delivered to my sister and I at school every Friday during his deployments, no matter how long he was gone.
3. He took me out too eat just the two of us every Wednesday.
4. He ALWAYS opens/closes the car doors for me, even now at the age of 32. This is such a small thing but I’ve always loved it.
Re dances. My son went to a private, family owned elementary school. They had Valentines Day dances every year for the 3rd -6th graders. The kids didn't have partners, just boogied and got comfortable dancing in front of others. There was an end of school year dance for the 5th and 6th graders. If they slow danced, they had to have their arms out straight. The adults would go around making sure the kids stayed arms length apart, haha! He had so much fun. There were no inhibited wall-flowers.
My dad showed my sister and I the IMPORTANT of LOVE how a man is supposed to nurture and love you, the epitome of unselfishness and a GOD fearing man that walks what he Preaches I LOVE him so much ❤️
Audrey is one of the most wholesome young adult I know, she’s beautiful inside and out. Blessed to have such wonderful parents.
Well said
The best thing you can do as dad ,,,,show your kids how you treat your wife,,, love respect , laughter 💕💕
My dad blessed me every weekend. He took my hands and looked me in the eye and spoke a blessing. Over my school struggles, to love jesus, to prosper etc. We do this with our boys now and with each other. I truly believe i am who i am loving jesus and doing well because of the blessings he spoke over me.
My Dad was always there when I needed him, always. He was my rock! 😢 The last thing he said to me was, "Remember, you've got to have faith". Audrey you are beautiful!
My husband would take one child by themselves on a weekend trip. The time one on one was very special for the child and my husband loved it! They would talk and talk. The kids can recall where and when they went for the last fifteen years. We have three children. He is the best father. He adores them all and cherishes this time with them.❤
Audrey you are such a beautiful girl. Please don't be in a rush to grow up. Enjoy the years with your family, take your time they fly by really fast. My dad made breakfast for me everyday growing up. Spent his weekends teaching me to skate at the local pond. The one thing I wish I had was more time with him. I left for Toronto when I was 18 and spent most of my years living away from home. So hug your dad as much as you can the years get away from you fast.
Audrey, you have grown into a beautiful young lady. You looked lovely in your prom dress, but it's the beauty within that is so striking. I love your faith and the respect you have for others. I'm not at all surprised that you were asked to dance! Good job Mom and Dad!!
Bert you are present, you are engaged and you have a relationship with each of your children. You are already doing a great job!
Audrey, you are adorable! I have enjoyed watching you grow. I think mom and dad did a wonderful job teaching you as you grew. Asking your parents before you dance with a boy shows their teachings and your obedience.
My dad stuck to scripture in bringing us up in the way we should go. Now that I’m old I haven’t departed from it. We had Bible study every morning before school and were very involved in church.
My daughter is now 49 and she has always shared with her friends that her Dad showed her how to change a tire and check her oil and run basic tools. She is so independent and will try to fix anything around her home before calling a repairman.
My parents, instituted nightly family, devotions, and my father was most often the leader. That is a habit that had a profound effect on my life. He read the Bible to me. He bought good books for me to read. He never told me I couldn’t achieve something. He was always encouraging.
Bert ,
My Dad taught me basic maintenance on the vehicle.
Basic roadside trouble shooting and repairs.
How to certify with a rifle.
How to do basic household repairs and renovations.
Never settle or be convinced I asking for too much in a man.
What I wish? How to have a satellite phone when traveling.
How to never second guess intuition or sign's.
Miss him much ❤
Bert don't forget the empty mansion jar at the door when dating starts or how he better shake your hand or met you before your daughter gets into their vehicle.
It sets boundaries and intentions up front.
Audrey, you're so beautiful!! Don't tell Mom and Dad but I married my first dance, it's been 34 years now. ❤❤❤
Audrey is so beautiful. Seeing her blossom into a bright beautiful young woman is just awesome. I can’t wait to see how God will work in her like.
My dad was a very hard worker and a good provider. He was a great protector in our family. Because he was such a strong man he never really hugged us and let his guard down with me nor my sister. Although he loved us and didn’t physically show it he did in others way. He is now gone and we all miss him every day. Bert you seem to be a wonderful father
My dad taught me car maintenance and bought me basic tools. He was someone I could call when I messed up as a young adult on my own. He showed me grace.
My dad also taught me how to change the oil and change a tire on my car. Taught me how to do the brakes, how to fix things around the house and many other things in life! He always said for the day I’m no longer here. Well, he’s no longer here and I have the confidence to do so much, because of what he taught me. I know he’s always by my side!
Dad and Mum were a team for 50+ years and he was my Daddy dear. Sadly Dad passed in 2014 because of Kidney disease.
Dad and Mum were very verbal on the love they had for each other. Telling each other they loved each other many times a day. In different ways. They had a love language that was beautiful to watch.
My Dad and Mum tag teamed on the teaching of love.
Teaching me the sacred parts of love. Keeping bedroom acts sacred until marriage.
Yay Audrey, that's so exciting!!! Bert - you already seem like a fantastic Dad! My Dad was wonderful, he was always present and made time for me. He'd skip off work early to come home and slide down the hill with me in the winter or run to town and grab and ice cream just he and I before mom got home from work. Those are the little things I remember of just how much he loved to spent time with his kids and just be there! He always made sure I knew that I could talk to him anytime.
Bert the fact that you even asked us, shows you care. But spending *quality,* time, that's the key, to being a healthy role model. The gift of attention, of time to listen, support/guide/even dream.Never feel like you are not enough ( you ARE) savor every moment. Girls mostly need a healthy " role model" for the kind of man they may marry. Especially patience and communication. Some people HAVE kids...you all....RAISE them...THATS the difference ❤
I'm so Happy You had a BLAST Audrey...
It's all up hill from here 👍😁💖🤗
Audrey looked so...white next to You & Jessica's TANS 👍😁😂😅🤣😅🤣GBY ALL 🙏❤️💙💖💖💙💖🧸🐕🤗✝️
My dad just passed on the 5th and I’ve been reflecting a lot and was trying to decompress when I watched your video and thought I would share what my dad taught me. He taught me how to take care of my car, like changing a tire and knowing when to get it serviced. I can’t think of anything that I wished he taught me because he was always there for me. He was my hero. Being present and there for your girls is one of the best things you can do!
My dad was too scared/nervous/anxious to talk about the deep subjects...but he was the best at showing up everyday, teaching us all he could, and physically making sure we were okay. It was just the spiritual and tougher subjects he completely ignored and expected us daughters to discover on our own. The end result was outwordly confident, yet very insecure/naive women. Just by asking and being humble enough to admit you don't know everything - that alone will be a blessing to both your daughters and Garrett. ❤
I'm 64 and my dad was the dad all my friends in the neighborhood thought was the cool dad!
He would tell little jokes and take us to the park every Saturday.
We'd go on drives by the cattle yard's and my dad would roll the windows down and say who let the wind?! 😅
All of us miss him he is a reminder in all of us to just be a good person though and though.
He just taught me no matter what as he would say be Abba Dab Gumit good person. ❤
Congratulations Audrey!!!! I’m glad you had fun! Just be smart…like you always are. When the right man comes along, you’ll know it.
As for you Bert, raise your kids to be strong, independent people. Make sure they always know you love them and will be there for them. That’s what my dad for us. You’ll be fine!
My dad instilled in me faith in God and showed me how to love. He was always there for me and my sister and my mom. Unfortunately he passed away in January 2023 but I know he is with Jesus now.
Audrey has grown into a beautiful young woman with a beautiful heart! ❤ Feeling my age a bit watching this, when I started following your family, the girls were little carrying around baby dolls and Garrett still had his binky.😊
My dad did a great job teaching my sister and I how a man is supposed to treat a lady. We spent a lot of daddy /daughter time together. We also played bluegrass gospel music together as a family; and traveled around alot playing at different churches and festivals. So we got to share in that love for the music. That means so much to me ❤
You are aready a great dad. When I was a little girl my dad would always insist that every Sunday after church we woud do something as a family. We'd go to the zoo, go on a picnic, etc. That made me so happy! Unfortunately, after he reitried I was a teen and he started drinking too much. That was a difficult time for a teen. You have a lovely family.
I am 52 this year, but I still remember one afternoon I was out in the town center with my dad for some reason, I was I think 15, and we were in a department store. As we were passing through the make up area, dad brought me to a counter and bought me my first eyeshadow duo (pink and purple). Nothing fancy, but not childrend pretend make up, real make up. It touched me so much, I wore those for ages and almost 40 years later I still remember that he treated me as a growing teenager and no longer only his baby girl
Audrey is one beautiful, smart and faithful young lady! There is no doubt that she is going to be a great success as she is following God's plan for her life. Love that girl! ❤❤
You all doing a GREAT Job raising your Kids, From a farther that only raised Four Boy's in Alaska , until taking on a Sixteen year old Daughter in latter years ! That Was a EYE OPENENER for me ! They are NOT the SAME for any Father ! I Guess it is how that we know How we got Their Mother ! And LIFE goes on, because of that !
My dad came into my life when i was 8, and over the years hes always been there to remind me that i can always come home, and if i need anythint fixed or built he'll be there to do it.
I love that you’re still asking advice so many years into parenting! One thing that my dad taught me that I have really appreciated growing up is how to do “manly tasks” such as changing my oil, changing my tire, cutting grass, fishing, and how to use power tools.
I’m so excited for you Audrey! That’s so sweet of you to ask your parents about dancing. Growing up we weren’t allowed to go to school dances or proms, so I missed out on this part 🥰 Love seeing you!
Audrey you looked so beautiful and a very wonderful young lady, your mom and dad are wonderful parents. I love the way that you all are teaching them to keep GOD FIRST. GOD bless your family. You all are doing a wonderful job.
The thing I remember most was when i was younger my dad taught me how to change a tire, check the tire pressure and how to check the oil and howto pump gas. He also taught me about survival when camping. He also taught me how to build. my dad also taught me how to sew a button on and how to sew up a hole. My dad taught me how to sew and how to love myself.
My dad teaching me the value of hard work and always being able to support myself if needed in times of crisis. To focus on my education as it is vital in being able to communicate, express yourself, and advocate for yourself. He said the rest would fall into place, and they did.
Most of the things my dad did for me were likely due to my mother making him. He taught me to drive, how to put gas in the car, how to change a tire and the oil. He also taught me how to flush the radiator (do people really do that?). Except for the gas, I haven't done any of these in the 40 years I've been driving, but I still remember those times. You're a great dad so probably not in need of parenting advice. So happy she got her first dance!! I remember mine. Such a special time.
My dad has always been there to listen and he would always drive me or pick me up. It made me feel safe and always had a way to get home.
My dad could fix or build anything and he taught me to fix the obvious things. He also spoke with me and always made me feel important.
Bert, just show unconditional love. I will never forget my Dad and him always being there for me when I needed him.
And Audrey, enjoy yourself! I married my high school sweetheart! 31 years this year!
Bert / Audrey. Thank you for installing great values into your children. For Audrey to ask for permission to dance with a young man speaks volumes on how she was raised. Bert you asked a question for feedback my dad will be 80 this year him and my mom raised all 4 of us with a stiff hand we thought at the time but it was all love. Because of that it showed us how we as young lady’s we should be treated. I’m so thankful for that Audrey enjoy the beautiful moment trust God every step of the way. Lean on your parents when your hart pulls you they really know what is best.
I grew up with three older brothers and my dad treated me the same as my brothers. He equipped me to succeed in life with or without a partner and, for that I will be eternally grateful. He emphasized education so I had a future regardless of whether I had a man or not. He taught me about the value of a dollar and how to stand up for myself. He taught me to respect myself first so that others would respect me as well. He never talked down to me or treated me as a little girl. He just treated me as a person. He encouraged me in my career. As I became an adult, he treated me like one. He was my hero and my biggest cheerleader. And I am, by most measures, more successful than any of my brothers, though we are all close even after our parents have died.
One thing that my dad taught me is how to not only be independent but to be a independent thinker. Example is on how to change a tire. I being a girl may be in a situation where I have a flat tire and I may not be strong enough to break the lug nuts loose with the tools that come with the vehicle. He taught me to search my surroundings for something that could make the job a bit easier to put leverage behind it to make it so that you don’t have to have the full strength to break loose those darn lug nuts. He used to call it “Pulling a MacGyver” (hopefully you remember that TV show)…lol I still to this day use my MacGyver techniques to fix or do things so I don’t have to rely on others. He had the mentality of “If you want something done right do it yourself” 🥰 That’s exactly how I live thanks to him! 🥰
My dad taught me how to cook , he was a fantastic home cook , he taught me how to make real family home meals from scratch , for that I am really grateful, he gave me a platform to start catering at collage when I was 16 and that opened up the world of work for me and it's why I became a chef .
What I wish my dad had taught me or done for me , if I had to pick one big thing that would be , to be careful who you put your faith in to , as not everyone has your best interests at heart , I have been far to trusting in my life and I have been hurt badly , but my dad did his best and I love and miss him every day , RIP Dad , love you to the moon
So incredible that her dad was involved in this. For me in H. S. Was so important to be asked to the prom. I was, and was so surprised a guy would want me. My dad sat in his chair and didn't say a word to my date. It is important to make your daughter feel special, worthy and beautiful. You're a good dad.
Not one individual things stands out for me. My Dad was a daddy to us and loved us so much. He wasn't one to get in the floor and play with us but he showed his love in so many more ways. Taking care of us and being genuine. Miss him dearly!
My dad just love,loved,loved me. And he was always there. Couldn't have asked for a better parent. You are doing great.! Greetings from the Netherlands.
You're wonderful parents! My Dad (who just turned 80) is a father to 6 daughters! He taught us first and foremost that God and Christ love us unconditionally. He taught us to have standards and showed us through example how he loved and respected our mom. When we did bring home boys (and there were a lot of boys) he was kind to them, but made sure they knew our curfew! When we did something wrong, he never got mad. But we did get grounded and the disappointment on his face hurt the most. All 6 of us girls today have beautiful families, Faith in the Lord and love our Dad.
Audrey was so fun to listen to talk about her prom! She looked beautiful!!
Audrey deserves to have all of the confidence in the world when it comes to boys! She has been taught the right things and shown the right things from her parents and She will date the right boy with the right standards. She knows what the bible says and she has the right group of friends and family for support!
I am 65 years old & to this day Bert EVERYTIME I sew on a button I remember My DAD... He taught me how to sew a button on a button...💔😇🤗
& the one thing I wish He could have done would be to have been able to beat diabetes & be around much longer...I MISS him so VERY much...
Thanks for asking Bert...
CONTINUED PRAYERS for your Poppa Somers🙏💙✝️🤗
Great Alaskan Apperal shoot...
Can't wait 👍😁❤️🤗
My dad made sure I never had to pay rent or have to live by anyone’s rules but his. I’m eternally grateful. He showed me what love is and how to not accept anything less. He took my side over anyone 13 times out of 10. I’ll be there for him until I can’t anymore. I hope this helps.
My dad taught me how to light a campfire and MANY other camping skills! There's just something cool about knowing no matter where I am or if the power goes out, I got this!
ONE ON ONE time!!!👍👍👍👍👍. even if they WANT to invite their siblings.....that’s called FAMILY time. One on one is SOOOOO important! Sending blessings from Maine❤️
I had a really tough Mom, so I needed a really supportive Dad. My dad was super supportive and always encouraged me to try new things. The best advice he gave me was to follow my heart and do what makes me happy. I've had a really open and honest relationship with him because how supportive he has been. Just be there for your girls and always try to understand the reasoning as to why they do something before coming down on them. Open and honest communication made me respect my dad so much.
I think one of the best things a dad can do for his daughters ( and sons) is to show them how his daughters should be treated. That way your daughter will know what the minimum standard of treatment they need to accept in their life.