Yeah, like I remember my mom used to tell me "hey, u really got fat. U need to lose some weight" & then when I started to decrease the amount of food & changing what type of food I ate she started asking "why aren't u eating anything? That's unhealthy. U're gonna be all skin & bones. EAT"
same man. fucking hate it. I decide I'd fast but they say I just need to eat less, and when I FUCKING DO eat less, they say I should eat more. Srsly, wdf?
I don't, gonna not pull it down so it won't show my man boobs. My bottom isn' really that huge because all my fat was like "hey where should we go? Hey I know lets go to the boobs." So I'd constantly try to make the chest area of my shirt bigger by pulling it up so it won't show my man boobs. I started losing weight back when I finished highschool and my dad forced me to live with my aunt who lived with her grand parents. So she helped me monitor my health and cook nutritious food. Also for some reason I have a pretty small face and all of my fat liked to go to the boobs or thighs. Like I was 170 kg back then and my jaw line was still visible and I barely had a double chin. So I'd look at myself at the mirror but only the face and go "hmm I can still see my jawline, I'll start the diet tomorrow" (rinse and repeat) and I'd just not look at my body and thighs.
You see, in a Mexican household your family members take your biggest insecurity, and makes it your nickname to this day they still call me “gordo” with literally translates to “fat”
Really felt the part about his family's input on his figure. For my Asian family, if you're not fat, they'll still criticize you on how skinny you are. Either way, skinny or fat, family's never gonna let it go.
True. Me and brother were the opposite. My family would call my brother the Tagalog word for fat and call me the word for skinny (idk how to spell them).
The worst is Being fat and being short... And i am both. Edit: Wow it's already been a year damn time flies fast, I have lost a considerable amount of weight so I'm not exactly fat anymore ig :) (51kg used to be 68 kg to 69kg @ 164cm), but still short tho can't do nothin about that. e.e
This was a really honest take and I really appreciated it. I have been overweight pretty much my entire life (mixed asian here as well) and I don't think I can ever remember a time when I felt confident about my appearance. Looking back at old pictures makes me sad now because there actually were times when I was thin and looked how I would want to now, but back then I still had people (including myself) telling me I was fat, so I never got to see myself for what I really was. I would look at myself in the mirror and just sob because I thought I was ugly and no one would ever like me. And now that I've gained the weight back and am really struggling with my body image the problem feels almost insurmountable not because it's physically impossible, but because I have lost trust in myself to do the right thing for my own happiness. My mom used to bully me a lot about my weight and would make me weigh myself every day while she watched and citicized me when the numbers went up. She would make comments about my appearence in front of other people and deny me food when all my other siblings were allowed to eat it. She even refused to let me have my picture taken for the yearbook in my senior year because she didn't think the picture would look good enough to be worth the money, and I had to keep coming up with excuses as to why I didn't have my picture yet until I eventually got my friend to take one for me. After I confronted her about how she was making me feel, she said she had been making me hate myself on purpose because she thought it was the only way I would feel motivated to change. It hurts me deeply to struggle so much with losing the weight now because in a way I am proving her right, that I am somehow not willing to put in the effort to better my health, even though it is killing me both emotionally and physically. And the thing is I still love my mom. She has stopped bullying me since I went away to college, I think because she realized that if she didn't change her behavior, I wasn't going to stick around, and she wanted me to want to come home. But I still struggle with the self-hatred that has been conditioned into me over many years. Despite these challenges, I promised myself that I would never lose hope that I can change and that there is a happy and healthy future for me. I'm willing to put in the work that is required for me to finally achieve the confidence I have wanted for so long, and maybe along the way, I can learn to love myself for just being me. Thanks for the video, and wish me luck! ❤️
bruh, i'm sorry you went through those. i dont usually comment for a stranger but i'm also an asian (west asian lol) and i've struggled with my weight a lot too so i just wanted to comment. (i know race doesnt have something to do with it for me, but i'm just relating.) for me sometimes it's hard to change because i just want to be loved regardless of whether i am fat or fit, regardless of my appearance. ofc it's valuable to me to be fit and i enjoy being strong and being able to move and breathe better. and exercising has mental and physical benefits. but at the same time sometimes it is just what it is: just fat. sometimes not worrying about the physical health is healthier. i think i realized health can really vary. a really helpful tip i got for any type of thing that requires discipline or growth was to commit to the process instead of the outcome. appreciating the process is truly a skill (that i really want). i think this tip helps me to be at peace with how i am and at the same time strive for more and keep going. and i think being fat isn't the determining factor when i look at someone and consider them good looking. i feel like demeanor has more value if we're speaking of appearance strictly. sometimes fat suits people and cool energy. also i can relate to having problems with my mother but still loving her. at the end of it, just wanted to say that you deserve kindness and love. sounds cheesy but i think feel and believe it. you're writing is really good and also i hope your relationship with your mom gets better. i wish the best for you, you can trust yourself. i'm saying all this to you, but i had to remind these to myself too. lastly, i really hope i actually heard you out and this was encouraging and not annoying. maybe it'll mean something to someone, maybe it'll get through, maybe just myself.
@@sceli Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I resonated with a lot of the things you said and it really made me feel like you understood what I was trying to say. I will try to take your advice to heart and thank you for the encouragement. I really did find it helpful. ❤️
@Aidan Lanz wow i’m so happy i was able to understand and convey it and that u replied. I’m going to try to lisren to my advice too hahah. Thank you, take caree 💜
Also, the "eat 8 meals a day (breakfast, morning snack, lunch, afternoon snack, dinner and snack before sleeping)". I was a "healthy" fat before that diet (I felt good and I was able to do anything), after that diet I was always tired and I had reflux. I quitted that stupid diet
“I don’t go to the gym because I’m self-conscious about my body, but I’m self-conscious about my body cause I don’t go to the gym, Irony can be so painful” Bo bornham Cant handle this
Bro, I was a chunker till 10th grade, no need to even hit the gym. Just do daily push ups, crunches and pull ups and the most important part is eating less and keeping a watch on your diet. Kids can be fat, the real time to workout starts when you hit that sweet ass puberty.
As a kid my self esteem and deppresion was so bad along with my dads abuse I had anxiety attacks and I thought I was fat even though I could see my ribs it led to me starving myself for days
Losing weight is one of the breathing feelings ever, the progress alone is pretty great on top of when you kind of over a point where you feel different (lighter if you will) running became a lot easier and even general movements are easier
@MRCSANY Same here, I'm currently fat myself, and let me tell you, it sucks to deal with the guilt of being the first one out of breath in Gym class, take it from me.
@@1TripAtATimeTravel I believe in you! Even when I had lost weight I did it through dieting, but recently I have started going to the gym to get stronger which is it’s own battle, but everyone there is supportive and kind. If you are able to take the first step everything takes care of itself like a snowball rolling down a hill.
I'm Asian and I have that Asian metabolism. Its effectiveness gets weaker with age as do all things in life. Even though I'm in my early 20s, but I noticed I did get a bit fatter than I used to. I also have been eating less healthy foods due to cheapskate college lifestyle. But still not obese and have been trying to decrease the cheap unhealthy foods. Don't want to be too unhealthy before I start changing.
I remember my doctor telling me that I was too skinny and I needed to eat more food, but 6 months later he tells me I’m TOO FAT and I’VE BEEN EATING TOO MUCH. In the end I’m now working out and slowly becoming thinner.
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With this whole world in pause . . . got me thinking and I took your advice of actually do something about me and my weight, I'm not happy and I'm going to handle it. Within a few weeks I was changing and I thank you Daidus for showing me that. ♡
“I’ve been skinny, I’ve been fat, I’ve been ripped, I’ve been toned” That’s a pretty nice rap song, if the rest of the song could be as nice as the message of this video as well.
The most real thing is when jocks talk to you to be friendly and you genuinley don't know if they are mocking you, I have friends I have known for forever and I still sometimes think about it
Daidus: “Once a fat kid, always a fat kid.” Thicc people: “Am I a joke to you?” Also Daidus: “Then i became a circle.” Also Thicc people: “You are one of us.”
One of us One of us One of us One of us One of us One of us One of us One of us One of us One of us One of us One of us One of us One of us One of us One of us
@@redneat8181 here is a tip for you, mate: if you want to loose weight, don't do sports, but change your diet. I have ben doing sports since 5 years old. From when I was 9, I have been doing sports for 3-6 times a week fro 1.5 hours. And I am still a thic boi. So it really is the diet that can make you slimer. Sports will just grow you muscles
@@saulgoodman5451 who told you that? You basically need both to see results if you did sports but still was a chunker you probably did diet. Also on a side note I recommend eating less like not 1 calorie a day I mean like maybe a bit lower so you can go into a calorie deficit then once your at your desired weight go back to your average calorie per day so that you don’t become extremely skinny.(so basically stop your deficit when your at your desired weight)
@@robbierotten4549 yee honestly how i feel about my weight depends on my mood i am either an absolute potato and yelling at myself for not taking care of myself and the next day ill get out of the shower and be like damn
@@oscarcabrera4895 Almond flour really helped kick the bread habit for me. Mug bread pretty good. I loosely tried keto for a month. Boosted my metabolism and kind of fixed my eating habits. I think my body was leeching off my stored fats since I don't think I was eating enough fats.
@@Tenthidoot It's a coin flip in my fam. My aunt loves food and gets fat easily. Her husband's family are all 6 foot chonks. Her kids are picky eaters and 2 of 4 got the chonk gene. The other two just don't like to eat. My only sibling is my younger bro and he also doesn't like to eat or at least stuff himself. He does have this weird allergy where he'll eat or drink certain things. It makes it hard for him to continue eating because his nasal cavities become congested. I got the chonk gene.
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when he said "this girl will never like me, cuz im fat. WHY DO I EVEN TRY" damn, that hit me. ive been single for 18 years because of that mindset, and im not even fat
@@yellowchild33 Meh, its no surprise that many of us guys also count looks as part of who we find attractive, Everyone does. It's just natural. I, for instance, am not ashamed to say that i do have some standards in how a girl looks that makes me attracted to them. Sorry if this sounded like a rant, that was not the purpose. I just find it kinda dumb how people seem to think that someone is shallow simply because that person wants to find someone who they can also be physically attracted to, when in reality, it is a perfectly reasonable standard to have when looking for someone you like. Plus, to the guy who made the original comment... just try not to put yourself or others in some sort of "league" of whether you are "worthy" or not of dating them. Though I can not exactly say I have much right to talk in some regards to dating because I am gonna be 24 this year, and have still sadly never even had a date before, let alone a girlfriend.
@@bloodthirst2ez yeah for sure. we all like someone with looks. i just felt bad for ares because he thinks no one would like him for how he looks. nah, not everyone is shallow for having an ideal standard in appearance. thats why he should give himself a chance and maybe a girl is willing to see smth in him.
@@yellowchild33 True, that was also kinda the point that I was trying to make with the second part of my comment as well. Because you never know what the other person may see in you until you try, lol.
@@saulgoodman5451 I'm not the same guy, but I can talk a bit about intermittent fasting. It's not so much a diet as it is an eating pattern. You fast for a set number of hours and eat after that time is up (this is sometimes called an 'eating window'). I can say from experience that it does help, but it can be hard to maintain if you have a busy schedule.
The cycle your talking about is the yoyo affect. It's basically this: U get fat U lose weight U get fat U lose weight And the cycle just repeats it self
I guess the yoyo effect doesn't work on me.... This is basically my cycle of life: I stay thin I grow up I stay thin I grow up Maybe, You can see me next time as a lamp post.
As someone who was a fat kid, nobody bullied me since I always attacked them back, like my parents say, if you didn't start the fight, feel free to fight back.
@@MustacheDLuffy I have the Asian metabolism. The problem is that you find it hard to actually get ripped, or even slightly in shape, you're just a thin weak spaghetti man incapable of manly work
I am 0% Asian but I havevery high metabolism, sure I look Like a noodle but I’ve never had problems going to the gym, sometimes the muscles are in fact hard to see but I’m still pretty athletic and have good health so that’s all I can ask for
Aww, Daidus, this is such a heartfelt video. I personally have never been really fat, just average, I guess, but I've known people like you struggling with gaining and losing weight. And you know what? Losing weight and exercising are DAMN DIFFICULT. Especially making a whole habit and routine out of it and having this discipline and motivation to keep active regularly. As long as you're aware and keeping active because of your own health, you really shouldn't feel ashamed. We were all born differently and we all have a different body that comes with its own issues. And please know that I for sure have a TON of respect for people who are trying to work on their weight! I was always the weird loner nerd kid in school when I was younger, you know, the type that studied hard and who often gave out her class notes to fellow students when exams and tests were coming up. It's a bit of a similar experience. Looking through your other video's, I think we'd both kinda fall into that category of nerdy "outsiders" and there's nothing wrong with that! You seem to be a sweet dude! :)
dude its refreshing to watch this. men dont talk enough about there bodies as insecurities bounce ball dieting aint good for u but this is an such an honest exp
Same, told myself to live in an apartment or have a house first before trying a healthy lifestyle. They REALLY want you to eat a lot of food and give too much attention when they find out that you're going on a diet.
I wasn’t ‘fat’ in any means whatsoever but I was definitely overweight and it showed. I always felt insecure around my extremly skinny classmates. I had been dealing with this for such a long time that it really began to get to me. Everytime I looked in the mirror I felt like sobbing. I recall one time where my mother and I had gone out to the mall and none of the clothes we picked out would look ‘good’ on me. I cried in the changing room for quite a bit of time, and my mother began crying aswell because she never wanted for me to feel that way. I remember many other events where I was shunned for my weight. This and other factors of my life just tore me down. Over last summer, I developed an eating disorder. I was so sick of being the ‘fat’ and ‘stupid’ kid. And it completely completely recked my mental state. I almost ended up in a hospital, and it slightly deformed my back. Thankfully, I am recovery and I am doing much much better. The reason I have told you all this isn’t because of pity, it’s because I want know that I can empathize with you and for you to know you aren’t alone. You are absolutely beautiful just the way you are, and there is no reason to bash yourself for it. If you want to loose weight!! Go ahead!! I’m rooting for you!! Just make sure to do it in a safe and healthy way, and keep in mind it takes time. I love you so much!!! Try to stay happy :))
Thanks a lot. I also have had a similar experience in a mall where none of the clothes fit me and I was sobbing in the changing room. I have lived my entire life with this very insecure feeling. I am trying to lose weight by going to a gym right now. But even if things do not turn out as expected, I will try to not lose hope. With that said, I do hope you are doing better in life right now and wish you the best for your life :)
thank you, I'm overweight and I'm trying to lose weight I feel like this all the time, I hope you feel better, comments like this make me feel not so bad and not so alone
I'm overweight and I feel fine with how I look because I've learned not to care about what people think of me. And I also partly feel fine because I've been going to the gym and getting stronger and I've been learning boxing in stuff so I'm pretty proud of my self for getting healthier.
Dude I’m going through the exact same experience. It’s really hard since all the kids in my school are skinny as hell, and I’m really the only ‘fat’ kid. But when I read this comment I felt a lot better about myself, so thank you! :)
For me, I had that shitty Asian fast metabolism, I always got picked on for being skinny af, somewhere around 100 pounds even tho I was like 5”11 at the time (a year ago) but I’ve been going to the gym lately, controlling my diet and doing some calisthenics. I now am 165 pounds and 6 foot, and I’ve been able to stay below 13% bodyfat thanks to my fast metabolism.
THE LAST MINUTE OF SPEECH IS THE MOST W SPEECH IVE EVER HEARD IN MY LIFE BRO NGL U ARE A W!!! And ur absolutely right do not let other people judge you (written by a too skinny kid who also needs to diet a lot bc i get sick too easily...)
I used to think I was a "fat" girl, (I'm just a bit chubby and I recently gained a few pounds during college.) But, in the small town where I grew up, every girl around me was just super duper athletic thigh-gap skinny, so guess what that did to my self-esteem! 😭
Me too dude. When I was growing up I was definitely a lil chub. I wasn't fat or anything when I look back on it, and when I see old pictures, I think that I didn't look too bad since for me fat forms in most of the right places. Plus, all the other girls were super tiny, I kept feeling out of place. I remember that 2 girls in my classes had to tie their pants around their waist becuase XXS sizes didn't even fit them. My self esteem hit rock bottom permanently. Slowly climbing back up though. 😭
I came back to this video after almost 4 years and this is what inspired me to lose 60 pounds and become shredded. I can’t imagine where I’d be now I used to be so sensitive about this but now I realize there’s a lot going for you and it’s not shallow to worry about your physique. Flash forward now and im on my way to becoming a bodybuilder and can’t wait to start seeing more progress along the road. Been a long way from here.
Story time: I'm a little skinnier now, but when I was like 9 or 10 I was *fat.* I went over to my great grandmas house with my mom to go check up with her. I went to go lay on the couch, and she "tried" to whisper to my mom ( did not work very well) she said "wow....it looks like she gained alot of weight." That still gets me.
I was at my grandma's house sitting on the counter when my great grandma came over and approached me saying: "You'd be beautiful if you lost a lot of weight."
I’m on the opposite side of the spectrum with my Grandmom and my Nonnie (although my dad tells me I’m getting fat). Being Italian, my Nonnie would pinch us and say “I can’t pinch an inch. You need to eat more”, even on our wrists. My Grandmom would also tell me the measurements that were considered gorgeous in her 20’s and honestly, I’m those measurements but it’s not something I feel comfortable with.
Don't be sad, you can do it! I know it's tough and you don't immediately see results but it will come and you will be confident with your body. Don't be ashamed of being fat, ask yourself if you love your body or if you lose weight you will feel more confident. Being fat doesn't mean being ugly, you are terribly wrong if you think about it.
Dude same. I was really skinny when I was really little and for a few years I I ate nothing but McDonald's and amazing home cooked meals and not I am just circle 😆I hope we both get the body we want
@@maissa7974 im just unhealthy and wanna be healthy. i wouldn't say I'm ugly, I'd even say I'm pretty decent, but I do think I would be prettier if I wasn't so fatt
I related so hard to the "it depends on how I feel" because when I'm stressed I eat everything in sight and when I finish going through the stressful period I start taking care of myself again so yeah. Damn, I feel like I have "once a fat kid always a fat kid" tattooed on my forehead now.
When I was 12 through 16 I was always fat, But I all the sudden got my shit together during the summer before my senior year of high school. I got so many compliments for losing weight and I'm really happy with my body. I remember seeing this video and I'm glad I can relate to this now :)
@@nekoangel89 I relate so much People have come up to me or my relatives asking if I'm Chinese and when told no, they say the exact same thing. *THE EYES*
Fellow chonker here too, I was also pretty hefty during my high-school days. On one hand I was, like most chonkers, pretty insecure about my size and like you avoided certain activities because of that. On another hand though I rarely got bullied because the other kids were intimidated by my size even though I wouldn't actually hurt anyone or try to start something so that's something good that came out of it. I also went through many different phases of body shapes after highschool, currently though I've been lifting weights for a while now and have gotten fairly big. I think one reason I do it is because I still love food but it's more socially acceptable to be a chonker if you're muscular too. I'm still insecure though, waiting for the day I can just accept my body as it is no matter what shape it's in and just be happy about it, not caring about the opinions of others.
“You know who beat me up the most?? Me!” Oof I felt that one. I actually felt that whole section. Okay, after watching more, this whole video is too close to home 😭
The only thing as a skinny person I could relate was when you exclaimed that even once you became skinny, all your problem didn't magically go away. I get a lot of ppl assume otherwise, but it has it's own preconceptions to carry. For me I was always assumed to be weak and easy to pick on
At least you’re not really pale too. People always made jokes about me being a school shooter. I’m also a nerd, so my nickname in highschool was “Anorexic-ass Bill Gates-looking Mother fucker”. They always assumed that I was weak (which I kind of am), but I made up for it in comebacks
@@aaronlandry3934 the thing is if kids want to make fun of you, they will always find something, does not matter if you are pale, fat, wear glasses or not, they will find something because kids are kinda cunts, I remember this gorgeous girl and kids made fun of her anyways, said she is fat have bad hair, teeth etc, even tho everybody knew its a bullshit and she was really good looking, sadly many people realize this after they leave school and even then it leaves them scarred.
I have a fewling that people always wanna try to pick a fight with me by either talking behind me just so I could barely hear them or try intimidating me, I usually just ignore them, cuz they never really actually try doing anything for some reason, probably cuz I live in an asian country, or because they dont know what im capable of
I completely feel that family criticism. Consistent “you need to lose weight”, but when you don’t eat they go “you need to eat more”
SHHH-- THIS IS REAL im so mad about this but this is always what happen to me 😭
Fiq Roro I’m in my late 20’s and I still get this, considering I’m at my best weight since idk when.
Yeah, like I remember my mom used to tell me "hey, u really got fat. U need to lose some weight" & then when I started to decrease the amount of food & changing what type of food I ate she started asking "why aren't u eating anything? That's unhealthy. U're gonna be all skin & bones. EAT"
@@anneflores6297 Same... smh :'(
same man. fucking hate it. I decide I'd fast but they say I just need to eat less, and when I FUCKING DO eat less, they say I should eat more. Srsly, wdf?
I didn’t even realize other people actually do the shirt thing
lol
Me too ;0
I don't, gonna not pull it down so it won't show my man boobs. My bottom isn' really that huge because all my fat was like "hey where should we go? Hey I know lets go to the boobs." So I'd constantly try to make the chest area of my shirt bigger by pulling it up so it won't show my man boobs. I started losing weight back when I finished highschool and my dad forced me to live with my aunt who lived with her grand parents. So she helped me monitor my health and cook nutritious food.
Also for some reason I have a pretty small face and all of my fat liked to go to the boobs or thighs. Like I was 170 kg back then and my jaw line was still visible and I barely had a double chin. So I'd look at myself at the mirror but only the face and go "hmm I can still see my jawline, I'll start the diet tomorrow" (rinse and repeat) and I'd just not look at my body and thighs.
I've always been super thin and i still do it 🤧
Im not fat yet still do that
He's been fit, he's been thicc, in his fanart he's a chick.
Because he kept the tits
Amen
@@mobius-q873 oof what a good comment x)
Reed Aret wut
amen
You see, in a Mexican household your family members take your biggest insecurity, and makes it your nickname to this day they still call me “gordo” with literally translates to “fat”
I totally get that! My family still calls me from one of my nicknames as a kid and I have to constantly remind them to stop.
That's what people call me at work
i mean gordo is not typically used as an insult in spanish if they call you that casually
The irony in my household is that we just use that to casually refer to each other.
Hey my parents call each other gordo and they are not fat :3
"I ain't fat, I'm just easy to see."
And i'm a paper
B I G B O N E
You big boned fool
@@IamINERT your just thicc
I’m not fat, I’m just thiccc from every angle
Daidus still hasnt figured out that he's a shapeshifter.
"and then I became a Circle." Oh My god thats hilarious
He said it as I read this
I'm an oval
Naw I became a entire s p h e r e..--
I lost it there as well as when he said “That’s not a doughnut”
don't blaspheme pls God bless 🙏
Really felt the part about his family's input on his figure. For my Asian family, if you're not fat, they'll still criticize you on how skinny you are. Either way, skinny or fat, family's never gonna let it go.
True. Me and brother were the opposite. My family would call my brother the Tagalog word for fat and call me the word for skinny (idk how to spell them).
Even if u have visible muscles lol
My mom still criticizes me sometimes
My family wouldn’t judge my for my weight, they would judge me on my grades…
@@eelei3179 omg that has happened to me as well!!! Except with me and my cousin. They’d call us number 1 and number 0 whenever we were together :’).
The worst is Being fat and being short...
And i am both.
Edit:
Wow it's already been a year damn time flies fast, I have lost a considerable amount of weight so I'm not exactly fat anymore ig :) (51kg used to be 68 kg to 69kg @ 164cm), but still short tho can't do nothin about that.
e.e
Be looking like an m&m
Fr
Way easier being fat and having a long body cuz its easier doing sport
@@jacobherrera4616 Be lookin like a snack
(insert lenny face)
(⭐️ ͜ʖ⭐️)
“I’m a cool kid, now. I wear boxers.”
-Daidus 2019
Hah! I wear boxers and I'm a girl.
Very cool
Wait till he finds out about briefs
🙃🔫🍌
@@yasakachan4132 WAIT WUT
when he said *literally anything during this entire video* I felt that
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UA-cam: "Once A Fat Kid Always A Fat Kid"
*UA-cam, are you trying to tell me something?*
*Yeah youtube what’s your deal*
*UA-cam... just, cmon man..*
*UA-cam...TELL ME SOMETHIN I DONT KNOW*
I felt dragged by the title
d0nnytr0nic ok boomer
"This girl would never like me because I'm fat"
As a fellow fat kid, this hurts but I can't argue the logic ;-;
I mean no matter what society says everyone has a type dude some chicks like fat guys
@Nobody I know they exist bc I have personal experience
@Nobody really destroying my man's self confidence damn
@Nobody I used to be fat in high school. I had a 10/10 girlfriend at the time. Still have no idea what she found so interesting in me.
You can change man , i did
"And then I became a circle"
Funniest shit I've seen
@Kabita Karan ....cuz I certainly did!
I expected him to become square
I'm q rectangle
he said that and, i felt that
This was a really honest take and I really appreciated it. I have been overweight pretty much my entire life (mixed asian here as well) and I don't think I can ever remember a time when I felt confident about my appearance. Looking back at old pictures makes me sad now because there actually were times when I was thin and looked how I would want to now, but back then I still had people (including myself) telling me I was fat, so I never got to see myself for what I really was. I would look at myself in the mirror and just sob because I thought I was ugly and no one would ever like me. And now that I've gained the weight back and am really struggling with my body image the problem feels almost insurmountable not because it's physically impossible, but because I have lost trust in myself to do the right thing for my own happiness. My mom used to bully me a lot about my weight and would make me weigh myself every day while she watched and citicized me when the numbers went up. She would make comments about my appearence in front of other people and deny me food when all my other siblings were allowed to eat it. She even refused to let me have my picture taken for the yearbook in my senior year because she didn't think the picture would look good enough to be worth the money, and I had to keep coming up with excuses as to why I didn't have my picture yet until I eventually got my friend to take one for me. After I confronted her about how she was making me feel, she said she had been making me hate myself on purpose because she thought it was the only way I would feel motivated to change. It hurts me deeply to struggle so much with losing the weight now because in a way I am proving her right, that I am somehow not willing to put in the effort to better my health, even though it is killing me both emotionally and physically. And the thing is I still love my mom. She has stopped bullying me since I went away to college, I think because she realized that if she didn't change her behavior, I wasn't going to stick around, and she wanted me to want to come home. But I still struggle with the self-hatred that has been conditioned into me over many years. Despite these challenges, I promised myself that I would never lose hope that I can change and that there is a happy and healthy future for me. I'm willing to put in the work that is required for me to finally achieve the confidence I have wanted for so long, and maybe along the way, I can learn to love myself for just being me. Thanks for the video, and wish me luck! ❤️
woow your mother is... so harsh
I wish you luck but race has nothing to do with is sadly it just depends on the person no hate intended
bruh, i'm sorry you went through those. i dont usually comment for a stranger but i'm also an asian (west asian lol) and i've struggled with my weight a lot too so i just wanted to comment. (i know race doesnt have something to do with it for me, but i'm just relating.) for me sometimes it's hard to change because i just want to be loved regardless of whether i am fat or fit, regardless of my appearance. ofc it's valuable to me to be fit and i enjoy being strong and being able to move and breathe better. and exercising has mental and physical benefits. but at the same time sometimes it is just what it is: just fat. sometimes not worrying about the physical health is healthier. i think i realized health can really vary. a really helpful tip i got for any type of thing that requires discipline or growth was to commit to the process instead of the outcome. appreciating the process is truly a skill (that i really want). i think this tip helps me to be at peace with how i am and at the same time strive for more and keep going. and i think being fat isn't the determining factor when i look at someone and consider them good looking. i feel like demeanor has more value if we're speaking of appearance strictly. sometimes fat suits people and cool energy. also i can relate to having problems with my mother but still loving her. at the end of it, just wanted to say that you deserve kindness and love. sounds cheesy but i think feel and believe it. you're writing is really good and also i hope your relationship with your mom gets better. i wish the best for you, you can trust yourself. i'm saying all this to you, but i had to remind these to myself too. lastly, i really hope i actually heard you out and this was encouraging and not annoying. maybe it'll mean something to someone, maybe it'll get through, maybe just myself.
@@sceli Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I resonated with a lot of the things you said and it really made me feel like you understood what I was trying to say. I will try to take your advice to heart and thank you for the encouragement. I really did find it helpful. ❤️
@Aidan Lanz wow i’m so happy i was able to understand and convey it and that u replied. I’m going to try to lisren to my advice too hahah. Thank you, take caree 💜
its never the people at school that tell your ur fat, its always the family.
Yea
In my case it's both
@@nabila6401 same
so true. like they dont tell you straight up but they hint at it
It's opposite in my case.
“Why even bother trying”
- every loner on highschool
As a loner I can confirm this true
Same here
Not even in highschool anymore but same
@@jazz_hands6579 Why do you think they're are on top of the building?
@@someguy198 because they (or at least in my case) want to die, but are too afraid of the possible nothingness after death to actually jump....
"Fats bad for you, but sugar is good for you"
Thats my life in one sentence
Sequency sugar is healthy
For happiness
Same
@Shooting Star Ivan yeah like fruit sugar, refined sugar is even worse than bad fats
@Shooting Star Ivan yeah but we eat 99% too much of it. Also our body can produce it's own sugar with carbohydrates.
Also, the "eat 8 meals a day (breakfast, morning snack, lunch, afternoon snack, dinner and snack before sleeping)". I was a "healthy" fat before that diet (I felt good and I was able to do anything), after that diet I was always tired and I had reflux. I quitted that stupid diet
if anyone didn't notice, 6:58 is from MHA, also it says at the bottom left, Boku No Daidus lol
“I don’t go to the gym because I’m self-conscious about my body, but I’m self-conscious about my body cause I don’t go to the gym, Irony can be so painful” Bo bornham Cant handle this
O you know of the Bo you are cultured I see
you can do push-ups in ur home and gain confidence and some muscle and strength after that it's easier to go to the gym you just make excuses
There's no shame in looking fat, but there's shame in staying fat
Bro, I was a chunker till 10th grade, no need to even hit the gym. Just do daily push ups, crunches and pull ups and the most important part is eating less and keeping a watch on your diet. Kids can be fat, the real time to workout starts when you hit that sweet ass puberty.
@@markmozer3340 lmao was this directed towards me specifically?
my grandma has alzheimer’s so whenever i visit her she calls me choncky 6 times in a row fun times
*f u n t i m e s*
my grandma has alzheimer’s so she prepares 4 meals for me and always forget that she gave me snack =D
@@danielpopadic4314 The good part about being around someone with alzheimer's
"Who is this fatass"
Jokes, I was there too
@@arztschwanzfurz1631 lmao
Everyone else: I've had depression, eating disorders, past abusive relationships, severe anxiety, etc. etc.
Daidus: I was a fat kid once
Just as much of an issue
Me: i was bron without fat, so i can die if i'm not careful.
As a kid my self esteem and deppresion was so bad along with my dads abuse I had anxiety attacks and I thought I was fat even though I could see my ribs it led to me starving myself for days
I've had IBS (no actually I still have it of course)
@@kawii__floofmyall8414 wtf
6:38 *EPIC TRANING ARC INCOMING*
*_"I'm not a Big Fat Panda, I'm THE Big Fat Panda"_*
-The Big Fat Panda (Dragon Warrior)
Good points all
U . Are . Everywhere
His name was Po by the way.
@@melvinmerkelhopper5752
Nah fam. He said it himself. He's the Dragon Warrior and THE big fat panda
@@melvinmerkelhopper5752 How dare you disrespect the Dragon Warrior.
“And then I became a circle"
Nah man after you talked about the donut you became the donut
KAKYOIN
@@TormentMaker Why you gotta make me cry
I’ve never related to anything more than “And then, I became a circle.”
Losing weight is one of the breathing feelings ever, the progress alone is pretty great on top of when you kind of over a point where you feel different (lighter if you will) running became a lot easier and even general movements are easier
I feel you, It sucks not being able to run fast
@MRCSANY Same here, I'm currently fat myself, and let me tell you, it sucks to deal with the guilt of being the first one out of breath in Gym class, take it from me.
@@1TripAtATimeTravel I believe in you! Even when I had lost weight I did it through dieting, but recently I have started going to the gym to get stronger which is it’s own battle, but everyone there is supportive and kind. If you are able to take the first step everything takes care of itself like a snowball rolling down a hill.
@@sword3197 Do you really think I can lose weight? I always thought that it was too late for me and that I'd still be fat...
@@1TripAtATimeTravel anyone can do it, you just have to have a good mentality, it’s gonna take you time but anybody at any age can do it
“And then I became a circle.”
Wow. Love it.
I have always been a circle, I never became one.
♡Cries in Gucci♡ wow I read this right when he said it
Haruhi Suziyama strikes again
Oval is better
Daidus as a kid: *Bullies fat people because they're fat*
5th Grade: I'm gonna do what's called a pro gamer move
"I'm jealous of the Asian metabolism"
Me being fully Asian, and doesn't have the Asian metabolism, I feel you bro,
Me being fully not Asian but having the Asian metabolism lol
Same same, watching my two brothers eating twice as much but weighing half my own 😭
I'm Asian and I have that Asian metabolism. Its effectiveness gets weaker with age as do all things in life. Even though I'm in my early 20s, but I noticed I did get a bit fatter than I used to. I also have been eating less healthy foods due to cheapskate college lifestyle. But still not obese and have been trying to decrease the cheap unhealthy foods. Don't want to be too unhealthy before I start changing.
Me being half Asian and having the Asian metabolism :):):):):):):):):)
kazete I have South Asian decent and I have horrible metabolism. One grain of rice and I gain 100 pounds.
I remember my doctor telling me that I was too skinny and I needed to eat more food, but 6 months later he tells me I’m TOO FAT and I’VE BEEN EATING TOO MUCH. In the end I’m now working out and slowly becoming thinner.
It is called balance.
Jesus christ raid shadows legends has even made it's way to this part of UA-cam
I honestly don’t mind, it takes two seconds to skip and I’m glad Daidus is getting that bread
More bread so he gets fat again.
@@neurofiedyamato8763 for shame!!!
Daidus: "Once a fat kid, always a fat kid"
Me: you are not alone bro.
Ikr
@@itsray1878 yeah, I know that pain ;w;
Mafalda és tuga sis 🇵🇹🇵🇹
@@Dzinho29 é msm assim TOZÉ Da Costa😂
Muito louco mesmo nome e Fans do Daidus grande coincidência 🤣
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"Bread makes you fat?" Gives the same vibe as "Is butter a carb?" From Mean Girls.
With this whole world in pause . . . got me thinking and I took your advice of actually do something about me and my weight, I'm not happy and I'm going to handle it. Within a few weeks I was changing and I thank you Daidus for showing me that. ♡
i’m about to start my third weight loss rotation lol
How'd it go? : )
Congrats! I hope it's going well :P
How is it?
Same
“I’ve been skinny, I’ve been fat, I’ve been ripped, I’ve been toned”
That’s a pretty nice rap song, if the rest of the song could be as nice as the message of this video as well.
NaitomeIya lmao that part came out at the same time I read this
me: a literal fatass
also me: *”i’m not fat.”*
Smae. Smae.
Bruh same 😔👊
Same.
This is a huge mood
Just easy to see,nothing wrong with that
The most real thing is when jocks talk to you to be friendly and you genuinley don't know if they are mocking you, I have friends I have known for forever and I still sometimes think about it
Daidus: “Once a fat kid, always a fat kid.”
Thicc people: “Am I a joke to you?”
Also Daidus: “Then i became a circle.”
Also Thicc people: “You are one of us.”
One of us
One of us
One of us
One of us
One of us
One of us
One of us
One of us
One of us
One of us
One of us
One of us
One of us
One of us
One of us
One of us
i am trying to become fit
I became the 1k like { So accomplised}
@@redneat8181 here is a tip for you, mate: if you want to loose weight, don't do sports, but change your diet. I have ben doing sports since 5 years old. From when I was 9, I have been doing sports for 3-6 times a week fro 1.5 hours. And I am still a thic boi. So it really is the diet that can make you slimer. Sports will just grow you muscles
@@saulgoodman5451 who told you that? You basically need both to see results if you did sports but still was a chunker you probably did diet. Also on a side note I recommend eating less like not 1 calorie a day I mean like maybe a bit lower so you can go into a calorie deficit then once your at your desired weight go back to your average calorie per day so that you don’t become extremely skinny.(so basically stop your deficit when your at your desired weight)
It hurts my soul to hear “Whitey Tighties” and not tighty whities
"tightly whities" who tf says 'tightly'.
Edit: He fixed it, oh yeahhh!
Choc Chip he means tighty
I always thought it was tiny whities
Wait- which way is it? Now I am confused??
I thought tighty whiteys was a porn genre
As an American, I personally have an excuse to be fat
People of Walmart be like
Mc Donalds
Ikr... cause like.... I’m skinny when I stand, but chubby when I sleep. I’m so confused.
@@robbierotten4549 yee honestly how i feel about my weight depends on my mood i am either an absolute potato and yelling at myself for not taking care of myself and the next day ill get out of the shower and be like damn
Lol oof
Honestly though the food industry is a problem here, especially with how much power and influence it holds ._.
This man is literally two anime characters in one...
6:56- Izuku Midoriya from My hero academia and 7:41- Kai from Kiss Him!Not me!
Her name is Kae. But yeah!
You noticed it too😊
Hey, being Mexican isn't any easier. lol. Tons of bread, tortillas, and rice+beans for just about every meal.
Honeneko lmao I just stopped with tortillas but it’s pretty hard to stop eating bread
@@oscarcabrera4895 Almond flour really helped kick the bread habit for me. Mug bread pretty good. I loosely tried keto for a month. Boosted my metabolism and kind of fixed my eating habits. I think my body was leeching off my stored fats since I don't think I was eating enough fats.
YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mexican + normal metabolism = chonk
@@Tenthidoot It's a coin flip in my fam. My aunt loves food and gets fat easily. Her husband's family are all 6 foot chonks. Her kids are picky eaters and 2 of 4 got the chonk gene. The other two just don't like to eat. My only sibling is my younger bro and he also doesn't like to eat or at least stuff himself. He does have this weird allergy where he'll eat or drink certain things. It makes it hard for him to continue eating because his nasal cavities become congested. I got the chonk gene.
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when he said "this girl will never like me, cuz im fat. WHY DO I EVEN TRY" damn, that hit me.
ive been single for 18 years because of that mindset, and im not even fat
bruh girls that just go for looks probably aint shit anyway. dont worry about it.
@@yellowchild33 Meh, its no surprise that many of us guys also count looks as part of who we find attractive, Everyone does. It's just natural. I, for instance, am not ashamed to say that i do have some standards in how a girl looks that makes me attracted to them. Sorry if this sounded like a rant, that was not the purpose. I just find it kinda dumb how people seem to think that someone is shallow simply because that person wants to find someone who they can also be physically attracted to, when in reality, it is a perfectly reasonable standard to have when looking for someone you like.
Plus, to the guy who made the original comment... just try not to put yourself or others in some sort of "league" of whether you are "worthy" or not of dating them. Though I can not exactly say I have much right to talk in some regards to dating because I am gonna be 24 this year, and have still sadly never even had a date before, let alone a girlfriend.
@@bloodthirst2ez yeah for sure. we all like someone with looks. i just felt bad for ares because he thinks no one would like him for how he looks. nah, not everyone is shallow for having an ideal standard in appearance. thats why he should give himself a chance and maybe a girl is willing to see smth in him.
@@yellowchild33 True, that was also kinda the point that I was trying to make with the second part of my comment as well. Because you never know what the other person may see in you until you try, lol.
@@bloodthirst2ez 🤝 good discussion
Dont forget the oversized hoodies to try and hide it a little
"I've been skinny I've been fat
I've been toned, I've been jacked..."
Yeah.
Yeah
Yeah
Yeah.
Yeah
Yeah
Alright, I get it. I’m getting a little too thicc. I’ll lose the fat.
the weetod but it won’t if ya don’t work for it
@Timothy Issac Jackson he knowing about it doesnt mean he will do something about it matey
Try fasting it bro, always works for me
@@silentlyjudgingyou5748 what does that mean? If you could, please help me, I rly need to lose weight
@@saulgoodman5451 I'm not the same guy, but I can talk a bit about intermittent fasting. It's not so much a diet as it is an eating pattern. You fast for a set number of hours and eat after that time is up (this is sometimes called an 'eating window'). I can say from experience that it does help, but it can be hard to maintain if you have a busy schedule.
The cycle your talking about is the yoyo affect.
It's basically this:
U get fat
U lose weight
U get fat
U lose weight
And the cycle just repeats it self
isn't it like kreb's cycle...
But for me, the “get fat” part overlaps for me
I guess the yoyo effect doesn't work on me....
This is basically my cycle of life:
I stay thin
I grow up
I stay thin
I grow up
Maybe, You can see me next time as a lamp post.
Americans never loose
@@speedyboi349 lol XD
As someone who was a fat kid, nobody bullied me since I always attacked them back, like my parents say, if you didn't start the fight, feel free to fight back.
Im just saying, that metabolism is a double edge sword.
Bloat bloat
How would it be a double edged sword?
@@MustacheDLuffy I have the Asian metabolism. The problem is that you find it hard to actually get ripped, or even slightly in shape, you're just a thin weak spaghetti man incapable of manly work
@@blissfu_lee8522 spaghetti man😂
I am 0% Asian but I havevery high metabolism, sure I look Like a noodle but I’ve never had problems going to the gym, sometimes the muscles are in fact hard to see but I’m still pretty athletic and have good health so that’s all I can ask for
No one gonna talk about how he called Tidy-Whities, "Whitie-Tidies"
sh.. we dont talk about that.
It's actually tighty whitey
@@pierregikh GOOGLE GAVE ME MIXED RESULTS I'M SO CONFUSED
@@aSliceOfChoccyMilk Its based off that the underwear and white and tight, not tidy. Lol
Man panties 👀
Am I the only one bothered that he didn’t say tighty whiteies
He did...
That made me laugh donno why
@@juliuskingsley4434 he said whitey tighteys
@@dabossbuster2405 oh... What's the difference
Yes he did
Aww, Daidus, this is such a heartfelt video. I personally have never been really fat, just average, I guess, but I've known people like you struggling with gaining and losing weight. And you know what? Losing weight and exercising are DAMN DIFFICULT. Especially making a whole habit and routine out of it and having this discipline and motivation to keep active regularly. As long as you're aware and keeping active because of your own health, you really shouldn't feel ashamed. We were all born differently and we all have a different body that comes with its own issues. And please know that I for sure have a TON of respect for people who are trying to work on their weight! I was always the weird loner nerd kid in school when I was younger, you know, the type that studied hard and who often gave out her class notes to fellow students when exams and tests were coming up. It's a bit of a similar experience. Looking through your other video's, I think we'd both kinda fall into that category of nerdy "outsiders" and there's nothing wrong with that! You seem to be a sweet dude! :)
dude its refreshing to watch this. men dont talk enough about there bodies as insecurities bounce ball dieting aint good for u but this is an such an honest exp
"You probably questioning how did I get fat. Well, I have an Asian mom-"
me : *"YESSS DUDE I CAN RELATE THAT'S WHY I GET FAT TOO."*
Same
Same bro same
me: *well i have an african mom, and you know how that goes.*
Same, told myself to live in an apartment or have a house first before trying a healthy lifestyle. They REALLY want you to eat a lot of food and give too much attention when they find out that you're going on a diet.
@Alexis Tarwater tamales, tortillas, posole, menudo , tacos, burros, jajajaj
Makes sense..the food is delicious :)
I wasn’t ‘fat’ in any means whatsoever but I was definitely overweight and it showed. I always felt insecure around my extremly skinny classmates. I had been dealing with this for such a long time that it really began to get to me. Everytime I looked in the mirror I felt like sobbing. I recall one time where my mother and I had gone out to the mall and none of the clothes we picked out would look ‘good’ on me. I cried in the changing room for quite a bit of time, and my mother began crying aswell
because she never wanted for me to feel that way. I remember many other events where I was shunned for my weight. This and other factors of my life just tore me down. Over last summer, I developed an eating disorder. I was so sick of being the ‘fat’ and ‘stupid’ kid. And it completely completely recked my mental state. I almost ended up in a hospital, and it slightly deformed my back. Thankfully, I am recovery and I am doing much much better. The reason I have told you all this isn’t because of pity, it’s because I want know that I can empathize with you and for you to know you aren’t alone. You are absolutely beautiful just the way you are, and there is no reason to bash yourself for it. If you want to loose weight!! Go ahead!! I’m rooting for you!! Just make sure to do it in a safe and healthy way, and keep in mind it takes time. I love you so much!!! Try to stay happy :))
Thanks a lot. I also have had a similar experience in a mall where none of the clothes fit me and I was sobbing in the changing room. I have lived my entire life with this very insecure feeling. I am trying to lose weight by going to a gym right now. But even if things do not turn out as expected, I will try to not lose hope. With that said, I do hope you are doing better in life right now and wish you the best for your life
:)
thank you, I'm overweight and I'm trying to lose weight I feel like this all the time, I hope you feel better, comments like this make me feel not so bad and not so alone
I'm overweight and I feel fine with how I look because I've learned not to care about what people think of me. And I also partly feel fine because I've been going to the gym and getting stronger and I've been learning boxing in stuff so I'm pretty proud of my self for getting healthier.
Dude I’m going through the exact same experience. It’s really hard since all the kids in my school are skinny as hell, and I’m really the only ‘fat’ kid. But when I read this comment I felt a lot better about myself, so thank you! :)
For me, I had that shitty Asian fast metabolism, I always got picked on for being skinny af, somewhere around 100 pounds even tho I was like 5”11 at the time (a year ago) but I’ve been going to the gym lately, controlling my diet and doing some calisthenics. I now am 165 pounds and 6 foot, and I’ve been able to stay below 13% bodyfat thanks to my fast metabolism.
THE LAST MINUTE OF SPEECH IS THE MOST W SPEECH IVE EVER HEARD IN MY LIFE BRO NGL U ARE A W!!! And ur absolutely right do not let other people judge you (written by a too skinny kid who also needs to diet a lot bc i get sick too easily...)
“I remember one time when my uncle sat me down and he was like’:
Ad:
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LMAO
He’s just gonna upload like he wasn’t gone for 4 months
He updated last month with the biggest of all plot twists.
@@ajiththomas2465 um which plot twist 😅
@@myass1547 Who actually voices Sen and whether or not Daidus and Sen are dating.
@@ajiththomas2465 who is Sen? I watched the video but I'm still confused
@@Favour135 The blonde haired chick? The one who always starts the intro with "Squid up?"
_DUDE THE PULLING THE JACKET DOWN !_
*I felt that.*
From: A fat kid to another.
I still do it!!
I used to think I was a "fat" girl, (I'm just a bit chubby and I recently gained a few pounds during college.)
But, in the small town where I grew up, every girl around me was just super duper athletic thigh-gap skinny, so guess what that did to my self-esteem! 😭
You living off that ramen?
Me too dude. When I was growing up I was definitely a lil chub. I wasn't fat or anything when I look back on it, and when I see old pictures, I think that I didn't look too bad since for me fat forms in most of the right places. Plus, all the other girls were super tiny, I kept feeling out of place. I remember that 2 girls in my classes had to tie their pants around their waist becuase XXS sizes didn't even fit them. My self esteem hit rock bottom permanently. Slowly climbing back up though. 😭
Same, girl, same.
4:26 You just reminded me of a childhood trauma when I didn't yet know boxers were supposed to be the norm at my age
Wears large clothes to hide fatnesss....
This is my life now....
Adore your pfp BTW
Same
I can relate
Insert Name not wanting to buy large cloths and always sucking in cause your cloths don’t fit, that’s my problem
HEY FATTY!
This hit so hard with pulling my shirt down even though I'm not fat anymore
Bradley Gray I’m currently fat, working on it
I'm slightly chubby, but I used to be fat. Lucky for me, the "freakishly tall" Gene runs in my family, so I grew into my weight for the most part :p
@@beansandproblems me.too
It's okay Daidus. I'm basically Moto Moto.
"I like 'em big, I like 'em chonky"
Ok boomer
I came back to this video after almost 4 years and this is what inspired me to lose 60 pounds and become shredded. I can’t imagine where I’d be now I used to be so sensitive about this but now I realize there’s a lot going for you and it’s not shallow to worry about your physique. Flash forward now and im on my way to becoming a bodybuilder and can’t wait to start seeing more progress along the road. Been a long way from here.
Same bruh. I’m down 31 pounds, used to be around 250. I’ve still got a long way to go and i’m still pretty chunky, but this is a good start
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“this video is sponsored by nord vpn....”
Ikr😂
@@neojisoa "this video is sponsord by audible "
this video is sponsored by honey
@@iceluffy9055 "this video is sponsord by skillshare"
The shirt isn't because of being fat, it's because
Squid Up
EnderTeimant MY BRAIN IN THAT SITUATION: No squid netrluer
“No squid neutral!”
I'm new to the channel .. can anyone explain what squid up means??
@@ABR-hy9iw it means d*ck ................I think I'm not sure.
@@ABR-hy9iw the definition of it is...squid up? No Squid neutral
there's one philosopher said
"Your Fat"
-Daidus uncle 2019
6:03
*You're
*You're* *
UA-cam be like "oh you've been sitting at home in the past 1.5-2 years and getting fatter? here's a video about being fat so you'll feel better"
At this point you dont have to feel better about ur situation bro
Story time: I'm a little skinnier now, but when I was like 9 or 10 I was *fat.* I went over to my great grandmas house with my mom to go check up with her. I went to go lay on the couch, and she "tried" to whisper to my mom ( did not work very well) she said "wow....it looks like she gained alot of weight." That still gets me.
I was at my grandma's house sitting on the counter when my great grandma came over and approached me saying: "You'd be beautiful if you lost a lot of weight."
I’m on the opposite side of the spectrum with my Grandmom and my Nonnie (although my dad tells me I’m getting fat). Being Italian, my Nonnie would pinch us and say “I can’t pinch an inch. You need to eat more”, even on our wrists. My Grandmom would also tell me the measurements that were considered gorgeous in her 20’s and honestly, I’m those measurements but it’s not something I feel comfortable with.
That's the type of stuff my mom tells me and I usually brush it off or argue with her
my mom's friend's did that to me I totally understand what it feels like
wow im 10 i think im fat doe
its true
7:40
I see that BNHA reference.. I see you bro..
That's what I thought 😂😂
Lol I just made a similar comment
@Lucia S watchu doing on this channel though? Lmao
@Lucia S you should honestly give it a try like mainly action or maybe sci-fi types of anime but if u don't like it I guess that's respectable😐
Omg yeaaaah
Not gonna lie, I cried. Because ive been so overweight all my life.
*sigh* same
yes same :(
Damn
Same , but I lost weight when I entered High school for no reason
Same
Chunker gang, let’s make a change! 💪 let’s work hard chunkers! 💙💙💙
I thought everyone pulled down their shirt, cause insecurities xd
It might not even be from insecurity. It could just be an uncomfortable shirt.
I pull down my shirt all the time too but I'm average body size so
True I have a lot of insecurities
yeah like I was skinny as a kid and am average now but do that bc im insecure about my hips
They heck , welp Idk either way I'm a girl and I never really paid attention in sex-ed classes cause ;--;
I feel called out by the pulling down the shirt thing
L.ED Creates I still do that time to time
As a fat kid tryna get skinny, I agree with this and now I’m sad
Don't be sad, you can do it! I know it's tough and you don't immediately see results but it will come and you will be confident with your body. Don't be ashamed of being fat, ask yourself if you love your body or if you lose weight you will feel more confident. Being fat doesn't mean being ugly, you are terribly wrong if you think about it.
@Fyko Utozi same tho
Dude same. I was really skinny when I was really little and for a few years I I ate nothing but McDonald's and amazing home cooked meals and not I am just circle 😆I hope we both get the body we want
@@maissa7974 im just unhealthy and wanna be healthy. i wouldn't say I'm ugly, I'd even say I'm pretty decent, but I do think I would be prettier if I wasn't so fatt
@@jonwryy if you want to loose weight, here is a tipo for ya: sports do nothing. If you want to loose weight, the diet is the only way, ONLY WAY!
I just realized that when Daidus was pulling a big cinder block with his friend on it, was a direct parallel to allmight and deku 🤣🤣😂
I gave up when I realized that being fat or not, nobody would like me.
Oof
Get on my disc
I felt that
:(
I respectfully disagree, you just got to search for the right hommies. It's not easy but definitely worth the search
I love how “god”is a sexy anime girl
It's Haruhi Sumizaya and in the anime she's a literal goddess XD
its a reference to the anime she's from which she is a god but doesn't know
@@ql_linn what Anime? Should I watch it?
what your god isnt a sexy anime girl?
@@rensan5655 im a masochist and i watched all endless 8 arc. And i LIKED it
I related so hard to the "it depends on how I feel" because when I'm stressed I eat everything in sight and when I finish going through the stressful period I start taking care of myself again so yeah. Damn, I feel like I have "once a fat kid always a fat kid" tattooed on my forehead now.
When I was 12 through 16 I was always fat, But I all the sudden got my shit together during the summer before my senior year of high school. I got so many compliments for losing weight and I'm really happy with my body. I remember seeing this video and I'm glad I can relate to this now :)
No, I don’t want to play Raid Shadow Legends.
"Once a fat kid, always a fat kid." Amen brother
Hell yeah, you never forget the feeling even when you become thin.
@@letsrank9349 That's so true lmao, I still do the shirt thing even though I lost the thigh fat.
"I'm not lucky enough to have the Asian metabolism "
I'm not Asian, but I felt that coz I donr either XD
I'm Asian but I don't have that Asian metabolism either 😭😭😭
Im not asian, I look asian (kinda) but my metabolisim is hella asian .....
I have a small bit of Asian in me and didn't get that Asian metabolism
The funny thing is that I've had people come up to me asking if I'm Asian, but when I say no they say:
Oh I thought because of the eyes.
@@nekoangel89 I relate so much
People have come up to me or my relatives asking if I'm Chinese and when told no, they say the exact same thing.
*THE EYES*
Fellow chonker here too, I was also pretty hefty during my high-school days. On one hand I was, like most chonkers, pretty insecure about my size and like you avoided certain activities because of that. On another hand though I rarely got bullied because the other kids were intimidated by my size even though I wouldn't actually hurt anyone or try to start something so that's something good that came out of it. I also went through many different phases of body shapes after highschool, currently though I've been lifting weights for a while now and have gotten fairly big. I think one reason I do it is because I still love food but it's more socially acceptable to be a chonker if you're muscular too. I'm still insecure though, waiting for the day I can just accept my body as it is no matter what shape it's in and just be happy about it, not caring about the opinions of others.
He attacc
He protecc
But most importantly
He *T H I C C*
He attac
He protect
But most importantly
He's got his rolls back
No one:
Not a single soul:
Daidus: I dont wear whitey tighties, I wear...
*snaps waistband
*boxers*
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Like the cewl kids...
me: * reading the title *
...iS tHiS a pErS0nAL aTtaCk 0r s0MeThiNG
1:25 lmao!! I just got an ad about a sandwich right before he said "and uh"
“You know who beat me up the most??
Me!”
Oof I felt that one. I actually felt that whole section. Okay, after watching more, this whole video is too close to home 😭
The only thing as a skinny person I could relate was when you exclaimed that even once you became skinny, all your problem didn't magically go away. I get a lot of ppl assume otherwise, but it has it's own preconceptions to carry. For me I was always assumed to be weak and easy to pick on
At least you’re not really pale too. People always made jokes about me being a school shooter. I’m also a nerd, so my nickname in highschool was “Anorexic-ass Bill Gates-looking Mother fucker”.
They always assumed that I was weak (which I kind of am), but I made up for it in comebacks
@@aaronlandry3934 the thing is if kids want to make fun of you, they will always find something, does not matter if you are pale, fat, wear glasses or not, they will find something because kids are kinda cunts, I remember this gorgeous girl and kids made fun of her anyways, said she is fat have bad hair, teeth etc, even tho everybody knew its a bullshit and she was really good looking, sadly many people realize this after they leave school and even then it leaves them scarred.
@@aaronlandry3934 ngl i laughed
I have a fewling that people always wanna try to pick a fight with me by either talking behind me just so I could barely hear them or try intimidating me, I usually just ignore them, cuz they never really actually try doing anything for some reason, probably cuz I live in an asian country, or because they dont know what im capable of
This is literally a play by play of my childhood. Except I'm a musician.
HHHH ITS RUSH GARCIA UWU
jk I loved Sketch 14, waiting for the next one :D
This is literally a play by play of my childhood except i dont have a talent.
oooh what instrument? I play piano and violin :)
I saw this video about a year ago and it inspired me to lose over 25 pounds. Thanks daidus
"Fat kids pull their shirts down"
Me: is a stick and still pulls down her shirt
Also Me: I'm beyond god
There is no such a thing as pulling a shirt on.
Mood
Lmao mood
Yeah I always have to pull my shirt down when I get up and I'm very skinny (not in an attractive way).
@@Speed001 the sad truth. I relate
Why didn’t that ✨Skinny✨Asian DNA passed down to me 😭😭😭
@Desired101 my mom told me that I was skinny and didn’t gain weight when I was little, but now when I breathe air I suddenly gain 10 pounds
Same :(
You ok man? Your pfp kinda worrying me
@@kasyfi5546 I’m ok
@@kasyfi5546 that’s a swing? What’s so worrying? lol 😃
I HATE how I said "yes" to every point he made. It's nice to know I'm not alone though.