WORST Maid Of Honor Speeches That RUINED The Wedding - REACTION
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Hey ya'll! Today on my channel we are reacting to some of the worst maid of honor speeches that ruined the wedding! Remember, if you ever get to be a maid of honor, don't get too drunk, don't lose your speech and DEFINITELY stick to the script. Enjoy :)
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My sister got married in September. Our dad’s speech consisted of “if you want to make your marriage work then don’t ask for advice from your dad. Congratulations “. It was hilarious.
That’s good advice from him
That's pretty cool xD nice dad you got there!
my condolences to your dad...
@@Aiveq he dead?
Was he divorced, and if so, how many times?
If the answer is zero, this comment makes no sense.
I actually wouldn't mind the best friends off key singing at my wedding. Its so thoughtful and shows how she doesn't take herself too seriously. I would be smiling ear to ear as the bride. 😁
I thought that was really heartwarming! I'd just want to give her a huge hug.
Same! But maybe 1 or 2 minutes, five's a bit long 😅
That part made me genuinely smile too I loved the crowd's participation it was really heartwarming
That one wasn’t that bad considering the others! Lol I liked it
I also thought that that one was pretty cute!
I was SO worried about our best man’s speech because he considered himself something of a comedian. But it was such a sweet speech that I remember it 32 years later:
“Merv has been my best friend and like a brother to me for 15 years now. I only met Barb a few years ago, but I feel like we’ve been friends for just as long as Merv and I. They’re perfect together. And it makes my heart so happy to know that these two beautiful hearts have found each other. Congratulations, and may your love last forever. To the wonderful couple!”
Now THAT’S a wedding speech.
Perfect and not ridiculously long.
when my brother got married, his first choice of best man fell through (scheduling reasons, they're still friends). It was only a few days before the wedding so he asked me to step in. I also went for sweet (though I wasn't as short as your husband's friend).
I have to confess I don't really get people who try to be funny, there's usually so many strangers around!
I teared up reading this ❤
I absolutely Love that you honor this by remembering it. Thanks for being on UA-cam. It needs more of this!
So sweet you still remember it
My friends got married and they both had teenage daughters from prior relationships. One of the teen daughters stood up to give a speech and she literally said how much she loves them and then said “I give it a week”. I thought I was going to die laughing.
My friend got married to a man double her age. Everyone was kind of shocked when we first found out about him because my friend told us she was a lesbian. So the maid of honour at her wedding stood for her speech saying "the bride clearly is very confused about everything in her life, but at least she has a sugar daddy to pay for her pride festivals now. Seriously, have you seen him? He is the same age as my dad"
I cried laughing.
@@amy-leacoopertwiggyvonlea8969 said friend has 2 children with this man now, so clearly the marriage is going well
Actually this is rude a little bit . Not a little bit but so much. If I was the bride I would cry if my friend said this on my wedding
@@hanayorri7522 I would too! I would never speak to her again. Very poor taste. Even if you're wasted.
That is very rude. I understand being upset af for your friend but humiliate her in the public infront of everyone else??
@@Outrileyit's a good job everyone at the wedding, including the bride, has a sense of humour.
The "singing" bridesmaid was honestly adorable even if she can't sing well. It seems like they at least had fun with that one.
Right?! It was so precious
I couldn’t tell what she was saying
late to this party, but when my brother got married, his wife's sister did something similar... but she'd told some of their other friends, who'd strategically mingled with the (small) audience & were grooving along with more enthousiasm than the singing really merited.
that worked well to get the rest of us to cheer along!
ikr i was actually so happy with her
Yeah! And I think the “and now she’s a Green!” Part was the last name of the groom.
We skipped ALL speeches. My husband took the mic to thank everyone for coming, and then dinner was served. Best. Decision. Ever.
That's exactly what we're planning to do for our wedding this year, I can't think of anything worse than listening to all the speeches when they're about me!
@@Abbierose100 Congratulations and best of luck on your marriage!
the last wedding I went two the maid of honor and twin sister of the bride held an absolutly amazing and increadably funny speach that made both sisters cry and well, I cried from laughter . . . it was great
That's how weddings are in my country! I remember watching American films when I was younger and always thought it was weird how people would randomly start giving speeches in the middle of weddings.
Yes, straight to the food. Best decision ever.
So much second hand embarrassment. As someone that is terrified of public speaking, this was hard to watch 😆
As for someone like myself who teaches public speaking, this is unbearable.
Same, so cringey
@@joshoftheapocalypse 🤣🤣
@@DebbieAkano Exactly! 😂
@@nicoleford4265 Right?!
My best friend from school got married, I wasn't apart of the bridal party but I did attend. The Best Man went up and gave his speech first. His speech was very well thought out and very touching. The MC for the evening then asked if anyone would like to say anything for the bride. None of her bride's maids or the maid of honor got up to speak. I couldn't let my girl down so even though I had NOTHING prepared and was PETRIFIED of public speaking... I wung it and the bride and I cried tears of joy and love. The speech was all over the place but she appreciated it and that's all that matters!
“I wung it” that’s precious 😂
That’s amazing, I was worried nobody was gonna get up and I felt horrible for her…. I bet she appreciated not getting left out at her own wedding SO MUCH. Youre a great friend!
Awww! That’s so amazing of you!! ❤ She will always remember that! And that is such a wonderful memory the two of you have!! ❤❤ You sound like the type of friend that everyone NEEDS!
sounds like you got an upgrade on your friendship level lol those girls who were in her wedding party and not ONE even TRIED to say something says A LOT about the people in her wedding party, and you willing to face embarrassment to save the bride from it says A LOT about the type of friend you are
I went to a wedding where one of the bride's friends "forced her way" into becoming a maid of honor. The bride already had a maid of honor but let this girl be one to avoid conflict so she had two maids of honor. I have the VIDEO of this same so-called friend proceeded to give an entire maid of honor speech talking about how amazing she was as a friend, admitted she forced her way into being a maid of honor (that's why I put it in quotations because those were her own exact words), and she talked pure shit about the groom the entire time and embarrassed him. Then the groom's brother gave warm, heartfelt speech about his brother that everyone loved and Miss 2nd place maid of honor turned to my friend and said "ok, don't tell me his speech was better than mine!! Mine was WAAAY better!" I kind of want to post it now.
you gotta post it. girl needs to be outed
Please do post it.
Do. It.
Omg poooost
Omg please post it and link us
Today we learned: No liquid "courage" before the speech, memorize the speech, have multiple backups of speech, no inside jokes in speech, and only people who can sing, should be singing. Congratulations on your friend's wedding Charlotte! Thank you for the laughs and reminders of how not to embarrass those close to you. I hope everybody has a great Sunday!
Personally, I wouldn’t mind if someone used an inside joke as long as they cleared it with me first. They don’t have to give me their whole speech, just the joke or memory they want to reference
@@nela3986 Ha! I love that, good lookin' out!
100% agree....as a wedding videographer😂
I think some inside jokes are okay, and some are not.
Like you can't say things about sex, cheating, or serious things like that. And you can't say something that no one else understands just you and the bride.
But you can say like "that time, when you spilled drink all over yourself and spent the whole party in a dirty dress..." Or "that time when I fell from the stairs and you laughted so hard you peed yourself a little..."
Bc it's awkward, everyone will laugh, but no one is going to care about it and judge the bride or something.
I think the singing was cute, embarrassing herself just to make the bride smile. It's a nice gesture the rest I agree with tho
11:46 she did absolutely fine, she thought it would be the most meaningful to write a song and sing it herself when she knows she’s not as good as the bride and groom. That’s some real dedication and bravery.
And it made everyone so happy. They can play that song on their anniversary and laugh at the memories.
I loved it. And yeah, definitely took some courage. But it was amazing.
Phoebe vibes
Ikr so heartwarming
Yeah, I thought so too. She can't really sing, so it doesn't translate great to the internet, but for the people at the reception, it's a job well done.
Okay, I wanna clear this up for those that may not know... a maid of honour is a single lady; whereas a matron of honour is married. Same duties & importance. Have a great day y'all! 👍😁
First time I hear about that term " Matron of honour" I gotta check if we have that here in Spain! Thanks for pointing that out!
I’m so glad I’m not the only one who knows this! My Sister-In-Law was my Matron of Honor. My Wedding was a disaster. She’s the only one who was by my side, besides my Mom. My Former Mother-In-Law (May she Rest In Peace), wore black with a black Veil over head. During the Ceremony, she decided to fight my Brother’s Girlfriend. No one was in the hall. The Wedding ended. After 9 Years, I’m no longer Married. The only Person that actually liked me in that Family was his Dad.
I can’t thank my Mum and Sister-In-Law enough for still protecting me from the Tears to this Day.
I have my mom as my matron of honour and my littlest sister is my bridesmaid
The maid of honor doesn't HAVE to be single.
I thought everyone knew that
6:40 I just kept waiting for her to fall into the cake, omg... lol
Me too!
At my wedding, my maid of honor wasn’t comfortable speaking in front of everyone, so I said, no problem. My husband’s brother got up and talked about him. His dad got up and talked about him. My dad got up and talked about him. Literally no words about me or about us. So yeah, basically all my fears from middle school about how nobody likes me confirmed. Was great.
Aww I’m so sorry it happened :(
Oooooooof
Im so sorry that's sounds awful, hugss🤗
I have no friends. I don’t even know if I’ll have bridesmaids bc my fiancé has a lot of friends and he’ll have groomsmen ..my wedding is in June..😢
@@lusfit6903 Does your fiancé have anyone who would stand up for you? It doesn’t even have to be equal numbers of both genders. You could just split his attendants to stand on both sides of you
I was my sister’s maid of honor when I was 18. She was so sweet to have me as her maid of honor because I was still so young and immature. I wrote a rap as my speech but it actually went really well and got a lot of love/props. The brother of the groom was the best man. He got on board and wrote one too. His was hilarious! We had so much fun! I think we were both young enough that the rap thing went over well 😅
That's really sweet!
I was only made aware that I was my sister’s maid of honor ten minutes before the speech, I was 16 at the time and terrified
A good old-fashioned wedding rap battle!
This is a great story. I would feel so loved if my kid sister did that. 😍
Not my MOH, but my sister-in-law: She got hold of the microphone during the toast (which had somehow turned into an open mic). She started with, "When I first met OP, I didn't like her because..." It was pretty much downhill from there. And we had a dry wedding, so she couldn't even blame the booze.
Dry wedding? No wonder she complained. Disgusting to have a dry wedding.
Oh no! Yikes! My sympathies
@@lobbymccawker2083 She doesn't even drink, but go off. There were reasons why we chose to have a dry wedding that are, quite frankly, none of your business.
I don't know how people act like that. Our weddings (I'm a Muslim) never have alcohol but I guess that's why we don't have speeches either. Just dance numbers and other things
@@gallagherwitt There's no reason to have a dry wedding unless you dislike your family and friends.
I had a speech written down for my best friends wedding. At the last second I threw it away and improved on the spot. It wound up being so much better and I remember a small detail from when we were kids that wasn't in my original speech. It made her cry..... with happiness 😊
Aw, that's amazing!! You're a great friend
Thats how its done!
During my husband’s nieces wedding her MIL
said something to the effect of “You were looking for a father for your child and you found one in my son.” Very uncalled for.
Some MIL think that their crotch grobblin is the best catch in the world and that nobody is good enough for their precious baby, and by baby I mean a whole grown adult. So what if he marries someone that had a child from a previous relationship? It's non of her business, period! Some women need to let go and understand that you don't own your child, you can't tell them what to do with their own life as an adult. Go find a hobby, go volunteer for a food bank or homeless shelter, go read a dang book or go read to the blind but stop micromanaging your grown child's life and decisions. It's that easy SMH
A shame I wasn’t there, I woulda yelled “and I came here looking for a mouthy bitch, and boy was I lucky”
At my aunt's wedding, my mom said: Always remember those magical three little words, "Let's eat out!" She had NO IDEA that it came off as filthy because she was genuinely referring to the joys of dining out. When I explained the "other" meaning, she was mortified! 😆
😊😊😊😊😊
😂😂😂
😂
I was in the middle of an amazing best-man speech with people laughing and "aww"ing.
It was going so well until the groom stood up and rudely interrupted me with
"who are you?" and "how did you get in here?"
Totally ruined the moment!
🤣💀🤣💀🤣💀
I wonder if he'll sabotage his marriage the same way
@@itmattersnot1216 savage
Charlotte, your videos are teaching me what type of bride NOT to be and how to chose my wedding party. While being entertaining! Have a wonderful Christmas you wonderful woman!
You too beautiful!
We had a very small wedding with just my best friend and my groom's who was also female in the wedding party. My MOH made a really good speech and his "best woman" went "sh**, am I supposed to say something?" I said "if you want to just wing it." She did. It was short and sweet but her reaction was hilarious. It was super small and casual. Our guest thought it was a surprise birthday party bit we flipped the script and said we were getting married. Only 32 people.
I let my husband plan the wedding. He did not include speeches in the plan.
His best friend is me😂
I like how 32 ppl sound 👍🏽🥰
Awe that's a unique story, I love it so much!!
Sounds like the perfect wedding ☺️
my sister just got married and the whole time I had my speech I cried the entire time and barely got through it, but I'm always emotional
Hugs
The main part of my besties speech at my wedding was about how she couldnt see evidence that I even loved the guy I was marrying until about a month before the wedding, the guy I dated for 4 years and was engaged to for 10 months. There was almost total silence. Thankfully his brother was an amateur comedian and got people laughing. Sad thing is she was super proud of her speech and thought I would love it.
So I was maid of honour for a friend who morphed into the biggest bridzilla ever. The moment of brides maid and maid of honour speech arrived, and we were like..... We're gonna blow it. This is so awkward. But the universe was on our side and as we stood there with our big fake smiles trying to put on a convincing show, my earring got seriously snagged in the bridesmaid's hair! We had to do this ridiculous sideways shuffle walk in our hard to walk normally in dresses and instead of a video and horror stories of our great moment of complete failure - there are awesome photos of us arm in arm laughing our asses off trying to deal with this snagged earring situation. Win! 🤣🤣🤣
God has a great sense of humor.
The worst thing I ever heard was at my cousin's wedding. The Minister welcomed everyone and then addressed the bride and groom by saying " from this day forward you shall no longer be friends" and then even the crickets were silent.
wow id not go back afterwards
Charlotte thinks that she can cosplay as The Rock and we wouldn’t notice
My first thought...😂😂
😂😂 I can’t unsee it
Omg I can't stop laughing now. I would die if she stood up and revealed a fanny pack 😂
OMG 😂
I DIDNT notice but am grateful it's been pointed out hahaha
I was told I was giving the maid of honor speech 10 minutes before I was supposed to give it at my older sister’s wedding. I didn’t know I was the maid of honor before that, so she is very lucky I didn’t crack under pressure and blurt out her embarrassing past
Fat lie, I totally blurted her embarrassing past, but it was cute so I’ve got no regrets. Basically she had a crush on her now husband ever since the fourth grade when she saw him at the bus stop. He didn’t know her at all until high school but he had quite the effect on parts of her life.
I didn’t blab about him being why she can’t tolerate knock off brands though, so that was something. They were on the bus one day (middle school) and he was talking to his friends about something, and he talked about how dumb knock off shoes were or something (a stupid teenage boy comment), and she was wearing high top air walks that day (knock off converse). She ended up tucking her feet under the bus seat and never wore those shoes again.
They were cute shoes too, I wore them until they broke when I grew into them
I told the guests about when I was in kindergarten and she was in fourth grade, and we were walking or biking around the neighborhood when she slowed down by his house and told me that her crush lived there
I crushed that
Amazing 10/10 I hope my sister does something like that when I get married
😭😭😭😭😭Wholesome life achievement
It is for all these reasons my husband and I did not do ANY speeches on our wedding day. When we made the decision my younger sister was super upset (she was excited to give a speech) but later she said I was brilliant for not doing speeches on the wedding day. We did all our speeches at the rehearsal dinner, it was really nice because it was a much more personal and intimate experience. 10 out of 10, would recommend doing it that way.
This kinda makes me sad my maid of honor wasn't at my wedding, but also happy bc I KNOW she has horrible anxiety with public speaking, so I'm definitely more glad she didn't have to go through this haha.
(My best friend was heavily pregnant and could pop literally any day, she lived 3hrs away so I told her I wanted her to stay home, confy and close to the hospital. She ended up having her son 2 days later 💕)
You are so sweet
Some bride or as reddit says bridezillas are entitled enough to ask their pregnant friends to attend anyhow or not attend at all but it's cause they ruin their decor, theme or something
Awww and now you have a nephew 🥺🥺
@@serixirose7575 I could never imagine doing that. Like especially to my best friend! She asked me if I wanted her to skip trying to get pregnant on a specific month so she could be there for the wedding, and I was like "Girl, no. Keep trying. If you get pregnant we'll make things work." Her life shouldn't be on hold just for me. No bride should ever expect that 😭
@@kamillesmith2228 he is so precious. I love him so much. We drove out to meet him on our honeymoon 💕
@@bridgetlouise5092 if only every bride or groom would think like that
Actually any human should think like you do
When I was a maid of honor I wrote a poem for the bride and groom. Printed 3 copies for myself. 1 very nice copy with my signature for them. I stayed sober, and all went well, thankfully.
And THAT folks, is how it's done!!!
I wrote a speech, memorized it, practiced it a ton, and made a bunch of copies. (But it was social anxiety and fear of messing up their day that made me do it.) I’ve been a maid of honor and a matron of honor, both times I was pregnant but the first time we found out that next day, so luckily I was sober as well. I would panic more if I was drinking I think 😅😂 I’d be worried someone would think I was drunk then when I stuttered. I have seen some horrible speeches though and really embarrassing to the bride and groom. I can’t imagine doing that to someone I cared about especially with their families and often coworkers there! I don’t know how other people can be like that, like a funny story about the couple or one of them or how they told you about each other, etc is fine but nothing intimate or humiliating. A favorite memory of them together is a good place to go to end the speech before well wishes and you’re so talented and creative to come up with a poem especially for a couple! You’re quite brave to read it aloud as well. Giving them a copy as well was a very sweet gift as well. They are lucky to have had you as maid of honor! 💓
I went with my friend to her brothers wedding since I was pretty close with the family. The best man is a complete moron and being true to his idiocy he was of course drunk before giving his best man speech. Despite people trying to tell him he shouldn’t get up on stage he did anyway with another drink in his hand. He told everyone how they met and became friends and being the best of friends they always had each other’s backs. We all smiled and thought his speech was over but nope, we were wrong. He finished up by saying, “we’ve always had each other’s backs, even when we both got super drunk on our ski trip last year and slept with those girls a bunch of times.” We we’re all in a stunned silence until the bride burst into tears and the best man’s wife stood up and said she wanted a divorce. It turned into a shit show and didn’t end well at all. My friends brother tried apologizing but didn’t help as the bride left him and filed an annulment and her parents sued him for the cost of the wedding. Best man and his wife got divorced and he’s paying a ton in child support. Friends brother is no longer friends with best man and he was so depressed he hardly left his room for a while.
Wow, that's horrendous. Especially for the bride, to find it out like that on her wedding day, of all days.
Hope the parents got their money back through suing him. Weddings aren’t cheap unless you opt for a small one.
a long time friend of mine got married and my sister was one of her MOHs (she had two bc they are a trio of best friends and she couldnt choose just one) so my sister and the other MOH gave a shared sppech abt how they were both skeptical of the groom bc the bride had been hurt so much through her life and over time he proved himself to them and now they were so happy they were getting married and the speech was so beautiful everyone was tearjng up. thats how you can say you didnt like the groom at first as a MOH, make it abt how much you love and want to protect the bride, but the groom earned your trust bc of how much he loves her.
The girl next to the cake...that was painful!!!!! LMAO
My sisters’ speech for my wedding was “our speech is going to last as long as their first night, cheers to bride and groom” ☹️ I’m still bitter I didn’t get a proper speech.
Sorry to say this but I hate and love your sister at the same time lolll
That's hilarious.
you poor thing. such a b...h-sister. may your marriage be full of love and joy. greetings from austria 😊
Being maid of honour sounds like that time you need to present a project in class but on bigger scale. Doesn’t sounds fun whatsoever. 🙈
It is very nerve racking if you take it seriously or have any social anxiety. Key is to make it under 5 minutes if you can. Write it down and have several copies in different places like purse, bag, and car. Practice speech in front of mirror several times! Mention how they told you about each other, a good memory of them together and say something nice about each then wish them well in their marriage. And maid of honor also has a ton of other responsibilities during and prior to the wedding. But it is a huge help to the bride and worth the stress to see your friend or family member so happy!
Getting married at the courthouse seems to have been one of the smartest things I may have done in my life after seeing all this wedding videos.
Yup! Congrats on your sensible decision! Hope your marriage is long and happy!
@@ladygrndr9424 we're divorced, but still live together taking care of our child. We are best friends. I don't regret any of it.
Me too. On our lunch hour.
I did the same thing and have never regretted it!
PLEASE never ever do another one of these . It was so horrible and literally nothing was funny, you couldn’t even manage to laugh. But all of your others are beautifully put together 😂 always make me smile! ❤ ya Charlotte.
Maybe just don't watch these then and watch her other videos, you don't CoNtOL what she posts and it's kinda crazy you're telling someone with thousands of subscribers to "stop" because ONE doesn't like it. Ya weird
The groom said ‘I couldn’t think of a good line so I snorted one’. 😂
I was a maid of honor in a friend's wedding but i think my speech went well...lol at least people seem happy in the end 😂
Definitely gotta keep the drinking to a minimum before the speeches! I gave a speech at a wedding this summer. When the bride asked me to do it, I asked her how long were the speeches going to be. She said 5-10 minutes each. There were going to be four or five, with me going last because she thinks I'm a pretty ok writer and that I'll make folks laugh as well as wrapping it up in a reasonable amount of time because they planned to cut the cake right after. I even wrote in a joke about how she picked me last because she knows I'll want to eat cake so I'll make it quick with the shortest speech. I did some research to find things to do and things to avoid. I wrote and rewrote, worked in a few quotes. Began the speech with a brief bit about who I was and how the bride and I had been friends since we were teenagers. Definitely avoided inside jokes that nobody but the bride would get. Made much about how much we all liked her new husband, which we do. I made a section addressed to her and a section addressed to her husband. I added in a call and return blessing for the couple at the end, including a joke about how I knew I could count on a good Catholic family to get into a call and return. I read it out loud and timed it until I had to under 5 minutes, thinking I'd be doing the shortest speech. By the time I was done, I was quite proud of what I had written. Then the wedding day arrived. The mother of the bride gets up and her whole speech was like 30 seconds. The best man gets up and his whole speech is like 45 seconds. The maid of honor gets up and I think, this will save me because she's a talker. Her whole speech was like 85 seconds. Then it was my turn with my long, rambling speech last clocked at 4 minutes 40 seconds, with pauses for laughs because I'm optimistic. It ended up going well I think, but I was dying inside the entire time in embarrassment at how that 4 minutes plus felt like an eternity LOL
The couple probably appreciates your speech because you showed effort. BTW what does get into a good call and return mean? Either a different kind of phrasing or I'm completely missing something simple or having a stroke. Or all of the above really.
@@dalpz205 I'm also wondering the same lol
@@dalpz205 Call and return is an interaction between a speaker and audience wherein the speaker makes statements or asks questions to which the audience replies in unison. Church is a common place to see this and also musical performances. It's also referred to as call and response. A musical example would be "The Dueling Banjos" song.
@@mikouf9691 Ah ok that makes sense. I was thinking phone call for some reason. I've just never heard that reference is all. Which is strange because I'm far from being young, am Christian and was married to a Catholic and his enormous Catholic family for 20 years. Thanks for the info! Appreciate it.
I'm sure it felt like an eternity to everyone 🤣🤣🤣
This is so horrifying. It brings me back to my eldest sister’s wedding which was beautiful and set in Central Park at The Boat House.
My middle sister declared herself a Maid of Honor when there wasn’t one and grabbed the mic after too much champagne.
She said something about wishing them “an amazing (insert profanity) sex life”.
I looked at my sister and we were both so upset and embarrassed for my sister. 🙄🤭😖
Middle sister sounds narrsistic & jealous. I have one of those too. They ruin everything.
stephanie boggs im the older sister and my sister is younger. around the time i was 14, for my sister's birthday she got an iPad and lunch at a fancy restaurant with a close friend, and a ton of other gifts. i… well. i got a hairbrush. no party, no card, no dinner. a hairbrush :’) i didnt show that i was upset or disappointed and it wasnt because of material stuff anyways. it showed how little they thought of me. i found the receipt and it was a day before for a super sale. mom was grocery shopping and grabbed it because i didnt have anything. i didnt even get safeway cupcakes or anything 🥲 i find that the younger siblings are way more spoiled. now i would never do anything to her out of spite- my parents are at fault here. my sister and i exchange gifts for birthdays and they end up being our favorites at least half the time. but the oldest does tend to have it rough. this pattern always follows. parent wants to be more strict and less spoiling to the oldest, time goes on and they get lazier and the younger ones are just allowed to do whatever and spoiled so they stop complaining. and it made it seem like they just dont care about me and love my sister way more- which may have contributed to my depression ✨. but although whatever the motivation was your sister had the wrong reaction, try to sympathize a bit with how different your childhoods may or may not have been.
Charlotte your hair is BANGIN in this style.💁♀️
Beautiful babe!
I was so drunk at my moms second wedding. I was already nervous about doing my speech and didn’t want to do it. All I said was “congratulations to my mom and step dad, I love you both”
I’m still so embarrassed but I guess it could have been worse
My dad just got married for the first time like 6 months ago and I’m his only child. I was a bridesmaid not MOH but I am SO grateful I was never asked to give a speech because mannnnn that would be my exact speech. I would never live the confusion I caused everyone down😭
Oh man, I’ve been going through some pretty heavy depression…. But your daily videos, Charlotte, really brighten up my day. ☀️🙂 Thanks for that. Appreciate ya.
Keep your head up, you’re not alone ❤️
Ditto on what Nishie said. Many of us Croquettes found The Potato Queen at just the time when we needed this most.
I know I'm a stranger but I just wanted to tell you that you are not alone, I understand your struggle as I myself have depression. Just hang in there and even if it is difficult to think that this numbness and sadness shall pass remember that in life unfortunately we all go through pathways of ups and downs and it's okay to feel the way you feel right now. If watching the Potato Queen makes you feel better than watch all her funny videos, she is the best on getting a person spirit lighter/happier with her silly faces and jokes. Sending you tons of love, hugs & positive energy 🤗🤗🤗🤗💖💖💖💖🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻
I have to admit, I was a maid of honor for my BFF of 10+ years. I didn’t expect her wedding to be so formal, so I didn’t prepare a speech. I had a glass of two of champagne & when her sister came to me to tell me we were doing speeches next…. I freaked out. Some how, by the love of the god of weddings, I winged it. I usually make jokes when I get really uncomfortable and at least everyone laughed. I have no idea what I said, but she was happy.
One important rule to remember when writing the speech is that there might be children present so you don’t want to say anything that might upset the parents of those children when they hear it. Even if there’s no kids at the wedding, you should write/make your speech as if they were. This way even if there’s a little bit of roasting it’s all family friendly and not truly embarrassing.
We went to my husband’s sisters wedding with our 3 young children. She is very well to do and sensible, the venue was a posh place. The groom stood and told many inappropriate jokes and blatantly told everyone he’d been on the coke that day 🙈Still don’t understand how they are a couple.
Yeah I don't necessarily agree with this. People don't need to filter themselves for your or anyone else's kids. Remove your kids from the area if you see what's happening as an issue.
@@blazingapparition2687 at a FAMILY event the grownups need to be ADULTS and filter themselves for the sake of the younger attendees. Anything else is disrespectful and immature.
@@CarlosArturoVelarde okay, im not sure but your tone seems bothered by my comment lol I understand what you're saying. I just don't agree that others should be required to filter themselves for your children. Weddings are not purely "family events", plenty of guests are invited outside of family members and you cannot control everyone. It is far easier and makes much more sense to remove your children from situations you deem inappropriate. Expecting others to conform to you because you have kids is immature and disrespectful - not to mention quite difficult to enact successfully. Life just doesn't work this way. Sorry.
I would NOT invite kids to my wedding..
my brother made a speech at my wedding and the first thing he said was "I didnt prepare anything because i am on vacation and i do not prepare things during vacation". I thought "oh gosh, this can have 2 outcomes: or too good, or too bad...". He ended up indirectly provoking my mom for his childhood traumas.
Just to touch on the inside jokes thing, I had a similar experience at an 8 hour long bridal shower. I was a bridesmaid and the bride’s twin sisters were her matrons of honor. No exaggeration, they compiled a 45min long video with every single family member on BOTH sides of the bride and groom telling stories and inside jokes. The twins demanded no one talk and watch the entire thing in silence. When other family members showed up to the party an hour later, we had to watch the 45min video a second time, again in total silence. When the groom and groomsmen showed up later in the day, you guessed it, we were forced to watch it a 3rd time in utter silence. If anyone attempted to speak or get up to go to the bathroom, the twins would start throwing attitude for interrupting what they thought was their masterpiece.
I’m so glad the bride enjoyed the video but, for the rest of us who had to watch complete strangers telling random stories 3 times for the better part of an hour, it was borderline torture.
There was nothing borderline about that!
This is why I didn't make my MOH give a speech. My MOH was my sister, and she hates being in the spotlight, so to have her in my wedding was more than enough for me.
Same! Luckily our best man was spot on and gave a heartfelt short and sweet speech.
@@onevoice13 short and sweet is the ONLY way to go with a speech. When a friend of mine passed away, another friend gave a speech at the funeral, it went on and on and on !! Not even her family spoke that much. It was horrifying
I went to a wedding where the groom was 10 years older than the bride. During the maid of honor speech she mentioned that she and the other bridesmaids originally thought "who is this creepy old man?" but that then they learn he was a good guy ...
We had to LOL on the inside. It hurt 😂
Young women are better off with older men.
@@tomcollins5112 You're right! We're all better off when we are old enough to have a little experience. People age emotionally too.
She was in fact lucky to find this guy. He's a great dad to his kids, including one of hers from a previous relationship. Raised her just as his own.
Oh, that is so bad, and insulting to the couple. It doesn't matter what the MOH said about him after that. What if someone said something like "we thought Jen wasn't hot enough for him, but we realized what a great lady she is and came to love her"
@@carolr7333 RIGHT!!
@@tomcollins5112 only if the older men don't try to conceal their emotional immaturity by looking for a younger woman who'll look up to them no matter what. Just sayin..
Just what I needed today I've recently just lost my beloved great aunt I'm devastated so this cheered me up thanks Charlotte 😊
Im so sorry for you loss. Prayers for you and your family
Sending big hugs I'm so sorry for your loss
Thank you that means a lot
I am so sorry to hear this. Please accept my condolences and know that I am praying for you and your family.
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs and kisses from New York
I love the off key singing.
Since we're all sharing, my MOH aced her speech, her duties , stress on that day, pooof she took it away! She highlighted how she had enjoyed watching us grow and how she was proud of us 🤣 and some cheeky bits, but I loved the cheeky bits.
I got married to my husband 16yrs ago. We didn’t spend long planning the wedding. We got engaged in November and then tied the knot the following March. I loved planning my wedding, I had friends who thought I was crazy and rushing into it because I was only 21yrs old and just about to graduate from university. One of my roommates didn’t speak to me for a while because she was so annoyed that I was in love and knew I wanted to get married. She eventually got over it and celebrated with me at my bachelorette party. I got married and everything went perfectly with no dramas all day. I suffer with anxiety but my wedding day was so wonderful I wasn’t nervous at all, just excited to be marrying a man who I knew would love me for years to come. 16yrs later, two kids, 3 dogs and we’ve lived in 4 different states (he’s a retired Marine!) we are still very much in love and happy. My friend who shunned me has already been divorced 🤷🏻♀️
I watch these bridezilla videos and it just baffles me. So much extra energy goes into being a bitch towards other people. I don’t have the drive to be that petty at all. I can’t be arsed with it! I just wanted my day to be special and one that everyone would remember. My family and friends still talk about how my wedding was so lovely. I’d rather not be remembered for being the bride who had a sour face and snapped at everyone all day!
As an introvert I would be really happy with no speech at all 😂🤣😂🤣
We didn’t have any at all. Great decision!
This poor lady at the end. She should just let everyone fall asleep wherever their drunk asses drop 😂
I’m terrified I’m going to see my friend’s wedding. Well, my friend was a different person when she was younger, and her MOH was so drunk. The MOH talked about their wild days and the bride’s old “conquests.” She went on forever. My friend (bride) was crying and the groom was holding her. I was giving a death glare to the DJ and the best man. I hope all recordings were destroyed. So glad this happened in the mid-2000’s.
In 2022 I was at a wedding for this young couple. It was at our City Hall, followed by a reception in a buffet-style restaurant. I guess their parents rented the "grand hall" room. Oh, and this all happened on a Thursday night.
Turns out, the bride was a total bridezilla, yelling at everyone and sporting a "many, many rolls" midsection, making it hard to tell if she was actually pregnant (which she was, BTW, and the baby arrived five months later).
The bride and her bestie, the maid of honor, were drinking and eating like they were on a mission, and by the time the maid of honor speech rolled around, everyone was shocked. She basically admitted to years of "experimentation" with the bride, then proceeded to trash the groom, saying he couldn't satisfy her bestie and that the wedding was a sham. The bride and groom were mortified and embarrassed- they stormed out in different exits. The parents called the rest of the reception off, and everyone was left wondering, "What the heck just happened?" This was all during the DJ was setting up.
Two years later, the marriage went kaput, the bride and maid of honor became a couple, the groom was battling for custody. The maid of honor was in jail for bad checks, the bride was on probation. They eventually broke up. The groom is no better- he is a meth head and is constantly in and out of jail for theft. The whole thing was a giant, messy train wreck. But as funny as it is- the kid suffers- that's the only thing that makes this whole situation sad.
I'm glad my traditional wedding don't have vows or speeches. We just go straight to taking shots and party lol
My brother was my maid of honor. He opened his speech with, “I knew (bride) when she was an A Cup” and finished with, “I guess sometimes they do buy the cow… Cheers to the bride and groom”. We just have that kind of relationship 🤣🤣🤣
That sounds like a fun speech!
I clicked on this video faster than an entitled bride asked me for freebies!
Always my favorite Charlotte, keep up the good work!
The one where the MOH is singing her speech, I can’t decide whether I want to be terrified or extremely embarrassed 😳
I just hopped forward 10 seconds at a time until I got to the end.
I am second-hand emb myself. It was so uncomfortable to watch just now from way afar, I give the ppl there trying to get into the swing of it, starting with the poor bride, a lot of credit. Obviously, that was done in support for the bride and groom.
Moh: I chased the bride around with a knife!
Crowd: WOOOOOOHOOOO
12:15 This was actually pretty cute and funny
I sang for my speech at my sisters wedding. It was a much better alternative for me than trying to think of something to say. We are a musical theater group so I had it very well organized and it turned out great. It also meant a lot to my sister because I don’t like singing alone in front of a bunch of people. That’s her job. Lol
I once had to break into a bridesmaid family house (been one 7 times) to get out a speech/purse (that belonged to the MOH). The only window open was a bathroom window. Over the toilet. I was the only one small enough to get in through the window. I told people the tip end of my bridesmaid dress was wet from a puddle…not the stupid toilet! It was awful. (Never make your bridesmaids wear dresses with TRAINS on them).
You are a true friend.
@@Birdbike719 thanks. I helped her move out a year later when she left him (which was a good thing)!
Maids of honor with no honor whatsoever.
To lessen the chance of disaster, is make sure your wedding planner gets a script of the "speeches" in advance. Lolol
Unrelated: Charlotte, your hair looks so pretty 😃
The singing is such a funny gift to give in place of a bad speech. so vulnerable and hilarious for the family
My husband and I went to his friend’s wedding. The groom’s father had just passed away. The best man was nervous and trying to say how loving the groom was spending his last days at his bedside. Somehow it came out wrong and he said “the cold and bloated dead body.” Might have been the most uncomfortable moment of my life. Felt bad for the guy bc he was obviously so nervous. Makes for a good story.
My youngest daughter was Maid of Honour at both her older sisters weddings. The first wedding she totally missed the speech altogether. The second wedding she got the giggles and laughed so hard that they just said to heck with the speech.
These were all painful. That one bride was super pissed her "best friend" didn't bother to write anything down or practice. I got married in Vegas. Didn't have any of this shit. 🤣
GIIRRLL, that black turtle neck and gold chain combo is FIRE
The key to a good speech is to not over complicate it. Act as if you’re speaking to that one family member or that one friend that is a little stupid but you love them anyway.
Works for me every time
What a fun way to spend a Sunday morning! These were so funny 🤣 Thank you for the laughs 💕
The best man at my wedding made this speech verbatim "Scott I hope you last longer than this speech does. I'm done" crickets. I almost cried I was so embarrassed.
17:57 - Is that supposed to be fun? Most of the weddings I've been too haven't had alcohol. We have a great time together. A lot of dancing, singing, good food, good company, more dancing, good music. No one gets carried out or ends up with alcohol poisoning or a hangover. And we all remember what a great time we had. I don't understand going to a wedding and getting sloppy.
I was at a wedding where the maid of honor threatened the groom in her speech (that whole "If you ever hurt her..." thing). It was a little awkward, but then like two more of the bride's cousins stood up to also threaten the groom. Then one of the groom's cousins came to his defense by similarly threatening the bride.
The groom was a real sweetheart/pushover, so the threats were strange to begin with. The whole thing was SO awkward.
I was at a wedding where the brides older sister was MOH. During her speech she said, “I was supposed to get married before you because I’m older.”
A year later my friend got married the day BEFORE what was her younger sisters one year anniversary. Why? She said that “on paper it looks like I got married first now”. That Bish held onto that grudge for a year!
I'm almost shocked at how badly these people are at giving speeches / keeping up with their speeches 😭😂 How hard is it to print out the speech or save it onto your phone 😭😭
I’m blessed I didn’t have to do a maid of honour speech at my sisters wedding lol I would’ve panicked since the whole wedding was my brother in laws family that I met for the first time . We had 6 people from our family , and the rest of the 300 people were all his side of the family it would’ve been awful lol
I lucked out - both of my sisters eloped!
I felt so bad for that last lady. All that running around she had to do when all she wanted to do was relax and enjoy a wedding!
i was the maid of honor at my sister’s wedding a couple of weeks ago & i rewrote my speech 3 times bc i was so nervous. final draft was a killer but i definitely started the speech with “i really should’ve taken a shot before this” because i was so nervous i was shaking
This was the most hilarious moment in history: you saying "whipe your b*tt" just when I was about to reach for the tp 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The best toast I saw was my uncle's speech at my cousin's wedding. He explained how her having pink eye as a child is absolutely the reason tissue prices went up that year. She was embarrassed, we were all cackling.
The "COVID joke" clip was actually pretty funny. There may have been some underlying subtext there, but as a joke, I think it works for a large gathering.
It was okay, but I think the buildup of saying she promised she wouldn't say it made it worse, because it raises expectations. And the large pause and side hug after was awkward; she should have just continued with the speech. So it was a so-so joke with a terrible execution that ruined its potential.
What I have actually learnt is that I honestly don't want to be anyone's maid of honor!! It's a lot of work!!! Take me as a common guest "bestie" ,I am perfectly happy with that!!
I was literally thinking “why doesn’t anyone ever take the microphone away” and the man came and tried to take it 🤣 I’m not having speeches at my wedding oh my gosh the anxiety I would have 😅
I’m getting married in June. No speeches zero speeches I will have none 😂
Honestly, why do we need people to give speeches about people getting married? I've always thought it was an odd tradition. 🤔
Adam Sandler "The Wedding Singer" is the perfect cut on this. 😂
I agree about the speeches. I've always hated them. There's a reason I have no intentions of having a wedding. Courthouse, 2 witnesses, dinner with friends afterwards. Done.
My 2 best friends and I are extremely close. One of them married last year and the groom is new in our area and doesn't have much friends or family around. We dedicated our MOH speech to him to welcome him into our little squad and vowed to be there for him as well through ups and downs, to bring the bubbly whether we're celebrating her, them or him, to have his back when she gets unreasonable, to advice when he needs support etc. They both have brought up later how it was one of the highlights of their wedding. Same applies to wedding speeches as to everything else; if it's genuine and comes from the heart, it can mean the world to someone. If it's not - just skip it.
I was the maid of honor at my best friends wedding. My speech went off perfectly but the other bridesmaid couldn't handle that she didn't get a word. So she grabbed the mic from me and ended up rambling on for what felt like forever essentially taking up the time for the brides father to make a toast. More ridiculous things happened after too 😂
See this is why we did speeches right after the ceremony before anyone had time to drink
My brother was my “butler of honor” not that I didn’t have friends to be in it 😂 a couple of my family members filled in as groomsmen for my husband because we wanted an even number. I was genuinely scared of the speech because my brother has some embarrassing memories stockpiled somewhere. He was surprisingly kind 😂 he didn’t roast me once. He was able to talk about all the things he loved about me and it was a really nice speech! The best man speech was also beautiful. I’m very fortunate to have some real ones!
14:04 oh my godddd "(groom) lost his sense of taste 5 years ago when he met my sister" WHAAAAAT THAT IS SO MEAN 😮😢
The covid joke was pretty funny, but not at a wedding 🤣
My best friend was my Best Man. For his toast he recited the poem from "Caddyshack" that Judge Smails said before christening his yacht. 😜
For those unfamiliar with it, or need a reminder...
"It's easy to grin when your ship comes in, and you've got the stock market beat. But the man worthwhile, is the man who can smile, when his shorts are too tight in the seat." 😁👍
That is actually a really good idea! And not just because I love that movie to the point my ex-H and I, otherwise normal, mature ppl although wacky/funny, would have little inside jokes or routines, for lack of a better term! Like him talking like Bill Murray when he was doing the lawn. Even the dogs got into it: my then-H had a long-haired Doxie who pretended to hate that movie and "I'm All Right" the Psycho Killer Wiener Dog kind-of looked like the gopher, so when the song came on, I would hold him on my lap make him "dance" like the gopher. Not inhumane-l/t animal rescuer, and he would come running into the bedroom and climb on the bed when he heard the song. And he would attempt to bite me as I made him dance...yes, very silly but that is what dogs, and Caddyshack, bring out in otherwise mature adults, and the furbabies too lol.
@@carolr7333 - LOL 😂 Thanks for sharing (I like you Betty😉).
I haven't made any of my dogs dance over the years, but some would get pretty excited when we would have the big belly laughs.
Up until a few years ago, I did have a mechanical gopher that danced to "I'm Alright" when a button was pushed. 😁
@@BigDave423 🐒🐒🐒🐒
MOH for my younger sister who got married on Jan 2 a few years ago. I forgot to write a speech because of holiday/wedding craziness and my husband had just been in a car accident (he was fine but dealing with insurance was a nightmare. ) So I had to wing it, told a funny childhood story that then tied into her traveling and meeting her groom. I wish i had video or a copy of it because I'm pretty sure it's the best speech I've given haha.
The singing one is honestly perfect! It's funny and cute and she's saying so much loving things. Some people are better at expressing themselves in a Goofy way. Love it💖
The one @12:30 is cute. Yes, she can't sing, but she tried and everyone seemed to be having a good time. This wouldn't bother me. Shows she lobes the couple enough to be a complete "show" for them. Kinda cute.