A former work colleague of mine from Australia is now a school teacher in Thailand. He has a very nice Thai girlfriend who works in a bank and they are very happy, living in Bangkok! 😊
@@joostroelens8710 Many good Traditional girls in Thailand that can make good wives. Just stay away from Chicks who don't settle down with anyone. Bounce around from man to man. Usually the Single mothers and Girls over 30 who are still single are very rebellious Stay away from those. If the woman is a Widow They deserve a pass. It is not their fault their spouse died. Stay away from the Gold Diggers, and very Superficial women those are damaged goods. Find the women that will take time to know the man for what he is worth as a man and not based only on physical attraction.
My wife is Thai, she is amazing. I look forward to spending the rest of my life with her. You right on about the communication piece, though (9 min in). That was a problem we had early in our relationship. Almost ended ours. She couldn't tell me as an American what was bothering her and expected me to know. As an American male, we need more directness. I now better understand that issues cross culturally. But I would say it seems to be more apparent in Thai females from my experience. The reserved nature. Can't speak worldwide, but in my dating experience.
@@mathris2875I m still single and never find my soulmate here in Belgium I want to come to Thailand this year in month December January I hope we can meet in person
@@mathris2875 I n from Belgium I was never married before in Belgium and I don't have kids I want to visit Thailand in month December January . What is the best way to meet a good girl I think the best way is meet in person and whit datingsites
I am happily married 15 years. The big problem is the foreign men look in the wrong places. I know dozens of Thai women and every one is honest. A tip for foreign men dont expect massage girls or freelancers to be good partners.
I agree as a foreigner. I visited many countries and always go the tourist way. I guess as a 1st time to your country traveler that's what you do. The cultures are often so different that it takes more time to understand each other when a relationship evolves
You only need to learn a few verbs, nouns, and pronouns. Also numbers, days of the week. Having the basics you can fill it in with nodding, pointing, It always helps when you say hello, thank-you, etc in the host language. I got through France, a snooty country with essentially four words Bon Jour, Merci, Avez-vous, and ou est. Avez-vouz means have you, so i would walk into a shop and say: Bon Jour, avez-vous milk. As long as the first word is french you are good. No one likes to be talked by a stranger in their own country in a foriegn langauage. Ou est means where is, so I would say Ou est le bathroom.
The advice given is a one-way street (it's all about you); however, in reality, a good relationship is a two-way street. It's about mutual service and support. If I continually give and give while you only take and take, eventually, the giver will feel unappreciated and depleted. This imbalance can lead to frustration and resentment, ultimately causing the giver to withdraw from the relationship. Healthy relationships require effort and contribution from both sides to thrive and sustain mutual respect and satisfaction.
I agree completely. A good relationship should involve both people supporting each other. It's important to understand that each person may contribute in different ways. Recognizing and appreciating these differences helps maintain balance and respect. When both partners feel valued for their efforts, the relationship can thrive with mutual satisfaction. Thank you for watching 😊🫶🏻
Reciprocal is the word. A relationship dies without effort and love. Ask youself, do I continually show love in my words and attitude and service (I'm not talking about sex here, but that's good too. Manly to show you care). Do you value your partner? Do you do positive reinforcement...show appreciation and thanks.
You girls are genuine normal society lady's and you would be genuine to your relationship, Every guy out there talking about money only ever hang out around NAN 9 Soy Cowboy or Pattaya where the girls only want money. Genuine guy's that live and work in Asia they have amazing relationship. I have been with my wife in Laos for 10 years and we go through everything that a UK UK couple or Thai Thai couple............. avoid the bar girls and meet the real Thai people.🥰
Im dating Thai girls in bkk. Barfine scene not worth it. Language barrier is a big problem many times. Its challenging but Thai girls are much better than western girls over all.
@@shaungooch1766 Your point that women who bring up money only come from bar zones isn't 100% true! Many dating sites are full of women only looking for money. Many so called regular or so called normal Thai women the only reason they would date a western guy is for money. Probably over 60 % of Thai women who date foreigner is for money or a free holiday in the west The term เมียฝรั่ง / wife of a foreigner comes with a lot of stigma in Thailand. Also they get a lot of pressure from family or people in the village when it's known they have a foreign boy friend such as when is he going to build a house buy a car or truck! If the foreigner doesn't do it, the family or the people in the village then say WHY ARE YOU WITH HIM! I've talked with many Thai people and most Thai people have told me the main reason Thai women date foreigners is for money. I have had this conversation in Thai with farmers to educated Thai people who have lived in the west as well.
Just got home from Thailand three weeks ago. It was my second journey to your country. Seeing this video with you lovely ladies reminds me why i would wish for a honest relationship with a Thai woman. The positive vibe which surround you is absolutly amazing. I have to go back to Thailand as soon as possible…
"Life is hard enough, the person that you're with should be your comfort..." Thoughtfulness and perspectives like that is why I'm planning on coming to Thailand! Thanks for sharing 😊
It is not uncommon for a relationship to run its course and you realize you would like more in a relationship. It doesn't have to end bad, you just realize you need more.
Ying, from my understanding you are (or were) also in a relationship with a foreigner so it would also be interesting to hear your insight on the matter.
Nice video, your advice is good even if you're already committed to a long relationship. I started dating a Thai lady 21 years ago and we've now been married 19 years. Trust, kindness and consideration are very important parts of our marriage. We now live most of the year in Hawaii but spends about 3 months the year in Thailand. I hope you two find your prince Charming, best of luck.
One of the big tricks about it is the way people can be different if they change company. Being with a particular person is about compatibility in a bigger sense than just whether they suit you or you find them attractive, they don't necessarily see you the way you do and that can easily bring down a relationship. When we are young, we can easily be told to act in a different way but as we become confident and are happy in the way we behave it is hurtful if the person you are with is not happy about it, and means you have different values and don't necessarily think the same things are good or the same things are bad, which can be a problem. You must have similar moral values, you cannot be in a relationship doing things the other person thinks are wrong, or when you do something good the other person doesn't think so. This becomes the most important thing eventually, if you are to stay together.
I like to be friends with Thai girls, but they are (in my experience) to shy when it comes to sex, and talking about difficult/sensitive subjects. But I do love the culture and religion in Thailand, and how it makes most people behave nice, polite and friendly - That is something we sorely lack in the West.
I love my Thai wife she treats me like a king but I agree communication is huge very different cultures must be very patent with each other in the learning process
Your video is really good, I'm watching you from Belgium, I'm coming to Thailand for 1 month in October, I'm staying a few days in Bangkok then I'm visiting the islands if I see you in Bangkok I'll come and say hello thank you,
I'd be more than honored and delighted to meet charming Su to convince her that cultural.obstacles can be overcome and that a foreigner can respect her sensitivity...😊
Ying, I am small UA-camr from the US and I just watched a number of channels as I think about revisiting SE Asia and possibly moving. I find your channel trustworthy and authentic and would love to collaborate on my next trip
Here's a tip to you Thai girls. The girl on the right in the denim shorts held onto her phone during the entire interview. When you go out with a farang, put your phone away. Turn it off. Don't hold onto it. If you cannot live without playing with your mobile, you will never have a good relationship with farang.
to do decent interview you can't remember everything beforehand so it's like notepad to not forget important topics that Ying prepared I believe. Phones during dates are some different topic
YING, your natural beauty is flawless by design. Please inform the next guy you allow into your world 🌎 he's truly blessed. Much love ❤️ and peace are my wishes.
Interesting facts, even for me who is already happily married with a wonderful thai lady for 9 years now; I can only confirm anything you mention and still had some moments where I maybe didn't learn new things, but got at least remembered of some little things (mistakes?) I do in daily life, treating each other. Thanks for the very lovely and charming way of presentation! I will follow you on your channel for seeing more of your interesting content! Great job, Ying, and you and your friend are absolutely wonderful, too!
Hi Ying! Nice video like usually!!! Keep the videos coming. I have two comments: 1) about the Thai ladies asking for money scenario. Of course, most foreign men who come to Thailand for short period of time, like holiday etc., will first interact with bar girls ofrfreelance girls...and the moany questions is just how it is. of course they will ask for money...and if foreigners interact only with these kind of ladies, they will have a different experience, and will draw some fast conclusion. 2) when it comes to genuine relationships between Thai lady and forigner man, I think the biggest problem in the culture and tradition. In the West, specially in the cities there is no more culture and tradition, or if it is is very week; on the other hand the Thai culture and tradition is very strong, and in top of that Thailand was never colonized by western countries ( like was the case with Viethnam, Laos, Malayesia, or other countries), which make the Thai culture very closed and strong. So, now image a relationship between a westerner and a Thai lady: the man with almost no traditions and culture, except the freedom of doing how he please and a Thai lady representing centuries of culture and tradition. It is not easy, and I think this is the biggest challenge.
I do agree 💯 🙌 However as a new generation, we kind of like more open to understand foreigners as well, try to change the way of thinking but in a good way. I can say that we are not so conservative like our parents if that makes sense hehe Thank you so much for your comment 🫶😊
@@sstp703 Thank you. I’ve watched lots of videos and the place looks amazing. The people also seem very friendly and kind. You came across as very friendly, loyal and kind. Also very beautiful. Have you been to England before?
First time i watched a utube channel like this, clicked on it out of curiosity. But it was really interesting and you both made me smile with your outlook in thailand for other people. Keep up the great work Ying, first time for me to think...yes this interesting and continually smiled at your comments! Regards, John...
You and your friend are in Bangkok. You and your friends are likely all well educated and well off by Thai standards. When you say that Thai women aren't after foreigners' money, that may be true for most of the people you know. Away from Bangkok, things are dramatically different.
Aloha Ying Enjoy this video . Real Thai ladies telling true and real. Very informative Relationship take understand both sides of each other culture Mahalo Erol
I think a big problem is about foreign men dating thai ladies, which come mostly to thailand for holidays and think with money they can buy everything, included a relationship. I have seen so many stories in these years personally, where foreigners pay for the thai lady holiday back in europe for example, or ask her to quit job to stay with her, propose a salary more than her salary, and these girls accept eventually, buy her a house, and do everything to show off. Foreign men in thailand they work remote, have a free time always and want a girl willing to do same so here come the money offered to them. So when a normal guy comes after, they will expect the same.
It's usually not a good idea to date a woman who already had farang experience. You'll have to live up and exceed expectations that some other dude has set.
Hi Ying, Good job for the video that I enjoyed as usual. As for a point whether a Thai person would like foreigners to speak Thai, I guess Thai person wouldn't like for a foreigner speak Thai only if such Thai person have some kind of plans to manipulate foreigners. Otherwise I agree in general that people in the world would enjoy having any foreigner trying to talk in their local language.
Now that I live here, I find that Thai women who speak English ( have tattoos, post sexy pics on IG, etc. ) are a minority and are not traditional Thai women. The majority of Thai women who are traditional and what most Western men are looking for do not speak English ( and that's why I'm learning Thai )
When I was there for a month, not one girl asked me for money. Thai women are nice to be with, respectful, with good sense 🙏🏽 I need to book a flight back 🫶
Ying you are such a queen standing next to her. For me being yourself, opening up, is the greatest sign of trust. This may take a long time but I am willing to spend this time to find a good relationship ^_^
Good video Ying. I am American man and met several Thai ladies. My last never ask for $$. I have had some who ask for little but I try to stay away from working girls. Love Thailand and Bangkok too much. I will be back soon!!
I had a six month long distance relationship with Thai lady, mid 30s, met twice. She had good government job. Six months, then she asked for monthly allowance ! So even though supposed normal thai lady (not from entertainment sector), still became money issue. I ended that relationship. She was originally from Issan region, which seems to be money focused in Thai / Falang relationship. Maybe other parts of Thailand not so money focused in relationship ?
I call total bs on the money thing. What’s investing in a relationship? You see how careful she was trying not to say no money no honey. It’s always about the money. Investing in a relationship means buying them nice cloths, taking them to nice restaurants, going on vacations, taking them shopping and sending them to the spas and salons. How’s that not wanting your money 555. It’s always about the money and any woman from any culture who says otherwise is LYING.
I have a new Thai girlfriend, and I always try to remember the reasons why my previous relationship with a Thai woman failed. I made many mistakes and this video is a great reminder to me of what I should do. So much is about the difference in culture and language.
Dating a thai lady it all ends in show me the money 💰 eventually.maybe u two r different from most thai ladies.relationship with most thai ladies is a financial agreement for her & her family.thais ladies can't eat love 😂.keep it rollin
I have always been amazed at the fact that a young beautiful woman can so easily start a relationship with sometimes a retired man. Actually not really surprised, because when a foreigner comes to Thailand, his standard of living is higher than the average Thai. Which can mean a future perspective for many young women. For the man who went there alone, it means a simple bond with a beautiful young woman, without much effort. Because in fact it has nothing to do with love. Often they hardly understand each other and an emotional bond, which you would expect in a relationship, is not present. After all, if the woman does not meet the expectation, the man will look for another who is easier. I follow many bloggers, purely out of psychological interest. the blogger with the camera who often points the camera at the women, while his wife walks past him. From which my observation concludes that despite his youthful beautiful wife, he is still searching. Many men go to Thailand because of the search for a beautiful young woman. Not to explore the country. And because they are men from Western countries, pensioners for example, they can live from their pension. Which is many times higher than the income of women in Thailand. So they are rich in their eyes, but in the West they would be normal men with a low or average income. Of course there are exceptions. If a Thai woman comes with her to the country of origin of the man, she will see that wealth does not correspond to the expectation when they met each other in Thailand. Another comment about cultures. I am from the Netherlands, but I do not find the Thai woman more jealous than a Western woman. Men who cheat in a relationship often lose their partner because of this. Talking to your ex is not a mortal sin or reason for jealous looks, if there are children involved. After all, the children belong to both of you and need contact now and then. It is nice if the new girlfriend is involved. Because she also gets to know his children. For me, 'love' would always be the most important relationship requirement. No good 'click' is no guarantee for a successful relationship, or it would be purely financial or intimate satisfaction.
I'm married to two Thai women. One is very western and one is very Thai with no western experiences. Although I am biculturally Thai and am fluent in Thai, I would recommend that being with someone at least familiar with your own western culture, or at least the western way of looking at life is easier. You will be surprised how different Thai and Western perceptions are....omg
Very nice video. Thanks for sharing thoughts. I already subscribed your channel. I subscribed other gal's channal too but there are no posts yet. Hope in future. I checked her playlist. Very nice thai songs wow. I dont understand thai but i love Thailand so i like to listen songs too. Keep posting. From india, with respect.
Reciprocal is the word. A relationship dies without effort and love. Ask youself, do I continually show love in my words and attitude and service (I'm not talking about sex here, but that's good too. Manly to show you care). Do you value your partner? Do you do positive reinforcement...show appreciation and thanks.
I was in a long-distance relationship with a Thai woman for three years. Although she never asked me for money, I did feel resentment from her that I wasn't sending her monthly support. She had a great job as an HR manager with the Thai government and owned her own house so I didn't think she needed the monetary support. Occasionally, my ex-girlfriend would tell me about her friends who were getting money from their foreign boyfriends but never directly complained that I was not doing the same. I eventually broke off the relationship when her resentment turned into frequent petty arguments unrelated to money. I chose not to send her money because we were in a long-distance relationship and at any time she could break up with me for another man, and I would be out all of the money that was sent to her! If we lived together in Thailand, I would contribute money to help her better her life.
@@mancello Yes, I went to see her in Thailand twice, each time for one month. I met her shortly after Covid started so I could not travel as much to Thailand from the USA. I could not quarantine at a hotel for 2 weeks in Thailand. We spoke everyday on video chat on the LINE app. We met in person on the second and third year after we met.
@@kevinp8108 Even if a Thai woman has a college degree and a good job, she still generally is not being paid very much since wages in Thailand are quite low, especially compared to the West. If you get involved with the Thai woman, you're going to be expected to help her out and perhaps even help out her family financially. It's just the way it is in Asian countries and especially in Thailand.
It’s understandable that you felt uncertain about sending money. Trust and clear communication are so crucial in these kinds of situations and sorry it didn’t work out 🥲 Thank you for watching and sharing your experience.
From experiencing ten years of relationshio thai/farang i would say there are no worse gaps but the silent treatment. Just not acceptable so i broke up. Connected again and happened again so i broke up again.
It sounds like you've had some rough experiences especially dealing with the silent treatment. When someone goes silent, it could indicate they might not want to continue the relationship or find it hard to talk about things. But anyway it’s important to talk openly about these issues to make sure both people feel heard and respected. Sorry it didn’t work out. 😢 Also thank you for watching.
So nice to see there are sophisticated beautifull thai woman in bkk. This channel is great. But now I miss thailand even more. LOL. Hope to visit youre country in a few months again. 🤩
@@ObolonWeener yesss and i think each person and relationship is unique, and it's really about understanding each other and showing respect to build strong connections. I'm glad the interview meant sth to you. Hope I could make another video with Ying again in the future 😁 Thank you 😊🫶🏻🙏
The best advice came right at the end. You have to be a good listener to have a good relationship. You also missed a very important piece of advice.... you have to keep a Thai woman well fed ! I happy Thai lady is one with a full belly ! I am speaking with 15 years of experience 🤪
From what I've noticed, if foreigners are using dating sites, there are lots of "freelancers" on them which might contribute to the "they just want our money" view.
If you're silent because you're mad. Of course a foreigner will need you to say why. Communication is key in a relationship. It's not necessarily a cultural difference, that happens in all relationships that lack communication.
Thank you for a very informative video you both speak good English and I want to ask for your advice about best places to meet nice Thai ladies speaking good English
I think the key is you need to take it slow at the beginning to get to know them first. Try not to jump in to a relationship too quickly. And i think you can find them anywhere especially in BKK. Lots of people speak English. Hope you find one soon and thank you for watching 😊
I am on a Thai dating site. I stopped using it. Everyone there is looking for money. 1. Free Lancers. 2. looking for customers. 3. Single mothers with 3 kids that want to be saved by foreigners. 4. Looking for men to spoil them. 5. Looking for a man that will take them all over the world. 6. If the man dates me, he has to pay for my house, my food, my everything. I am sure the list goes with scammers and people trying to steal info. It really doesn't paint a good picture for true relationships in Thailand. Yeah I get 100 likes a day, and i get 90 requests for money. I am hoping being there in person will work better. Online dating in the US is just as bad.
I met one of my best friends during a noys might out. When we mwwt, wo go to our favorite boat noodle shop and since we agreed that we don’t love or need each other, we can talk about everything. She knows what i really don’t like about what she calls its thai freedom. But she knows that she’s allowed to tell me what she hates that i do
One thing i'm curious about. Thai women are known to be very jealous BUT many married women or ones that have bfs, have IG accounts with bikini or cute photos on them. Don't their husbands/bfs get jealous or are they not allowed to? I see some teachers, nurses even royal Thai airforce women with bikini photos *some wearing wedding rings* on IG. You'd think the jealousy would be canceled out cause they have lots of guys gawking at their photos. Seems a bit unfair.
Maybe their partners understand that these women are just sharing photos they find beautiful or enjoyable. Posting bikini or cute photos doesn't always mean they're trying to get other guys' attention. Relationships can have different rules about social media, so what seems unfair from outside might not be a problem for the couple. Thank you for watching 😊🫶🏻
@@sstp703 Maybe. My other concern is when women want me to stop contacting my female friends, but they keep contacting their male friends. Also, asking a partner to end meaningful friendship is not a loving request.
i think most foieners tend to meet the wrong type of ladies in the entertainment industry in tourist places if you meet real normal thais dateing can be very good im was with who became my wife for 30 years and had a fantastic rlationship untill she past now but have normal children and still use our home in thailad all the time when im not working enjoying a great relationship with all me fantastic thai frends
Hello Ying i m single never married before in Belgium I want to plan to come to Thailand this year in month December January i hope we can meet in person in BKK i m openminded and sincere and honest person. The first impression is sometimes the most important thing and you need to make a good conversation with each other its very important i hope we can talk about some things when I come to Thailand about the Habits etcc.... greatings Joost
9:11 As a foreigner I think we can understand our girlfriend is mad when she's too quite. It's just that we are used to enjoy that moment and not questioning to not start the fire and have not to deal with the usual standard answer "nothing" (pretty intercultural one imo)
I'm sorry, I don't mean to be disrespectful. To be honestly, this wasn't very helpful. Maybe the topic isn't correct. Topic should be more like... "How to choose or where to look a good Thai woman? " or "How to avoid a bad Thai woman? " Simply who left comments like "Thai women only wants money from foreign boyfriend".. I believe they meet their Thai girlfriend from either dating site or Go Go Bar. I have also made a same mistake before, and I learn my lesson. I don't want to blame anyone.. I just like to think that it's the world that is we live in. It's nobody's fault. In the bright side, things could've been much worse 😅
Great video Ying,Sue is Suay Mak,she won't be single for long.There are women in every country on this planet that are with guys for money,i think the guy that made that comment has never visited Thailand,when i go out with Thai girls,they often pay for lunch or dinner and never ask for money,i'll be in Asok next week if Sue needs a date (-;
The guys in the flat obove me are from the Philippines their very nice along with Thialand and maybe India they are places I would maybe think of moving too. My age would mean I would go with an older lady , I have a pension and also money of my own , once a person got in a relationship you would be kind and considerate and very happy together ! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I have never met a Thai girl who wanted my money. Quite the opposite, in fact. All of the Thai girls I have spent time with were quite generous, and never asked for a single thing from me. I think that some men are just chasing the wrong types of girls (bar girls) & looking for love in the wrong places (Pattaya). This is just my opinion, so please feel free to disagree, ignore what I say, and move on! :) Thanks, again, Ying, for the interesting content!
I agree with you completely, and thank you for your kind comment. 😊🫶🏻 It's unfortunate that people often stereotype all Thai girls as being interested only in money.
@@yinginthailandi like your channel very well I m single never married before in Belgium I came 5 Times to Thailand it's so very beautiful and adorable I hope to meet a good girl when I come to Thailand this year in month December January. Maybe you re can give some advice for when I come to BKK
Thanks for sharing your persepctive. I dont think this is really a thing about Thai versus foreign issues, seems more issues between men and women and different personalies. Cultural difference is fascinating and two people in love will find the way to deal with problems together.
A western man goes to work, comes back home in the evening. A Thai man goes to work, then calls his woman 10 times aday to check on her. Why? Because a Thai man knows they easily fall for sweet talkers ... money talks very sweet ...
Su seems to be quite a catch. I'm interested in the future possibility of a teaching job. I am a retired nurse and looking forward to settling over there. I have a few medical conditions that restricted my ability to continue Nursing. Any advice or contact info would be greatly appreciated.
Regular girls are totally different from working girls who are looking for foreigner money for services... including many happy endings massage shops...
Very good video and a wonderful environment - I love Lumphini Park. With two failed marriages with thai-women behind me I agree fully with what you say: You have to invest in the relation. Regarding that, we fell behind in both cases and got unfair consequences. But life is about learning, now I know what I want, have set a high standard and I am ready to invest . but NOT on a dating site.
No it’s NOT normal to be quiet and NOT talk to your man when you’re mad. This is childish no matter what country you live in. Most normal couples talk about why they are angry. To be quiet means that you basically don’t care enough about the other person you’re with so that you can make things right. I say to anyone who stops talking to you to grow up and stop acting like a spoiled little child.
Foreignors are too different from country to country, by race, age and upbringing to be lumped together in one category. An observation about sensitivity is many people who are sensative or emotional tend to be focused too much on themself. These same sensative people can be very rude and not consider other peoples fealings; in my opinion.
thank you, two very lovely sweet thai girls. About the comment on money, thought the commenter was unkind and maybe even bitter about some bad experiences he might have had. The fact that he thinks all thai are unworthy of friendship tells me he hasn't experienced thai people from all over thailand, except maybe as you say bargirl types. But I do agree with him on the money point. I have had serious relationships with two Isaan women, one of which I know is a know is a good quality person, kind, respectful, loyal, strong morals. Both of them definitely expected to be financially supported, even when first dating. There are many women in Isaan who feel that farang should be giving them a salary like, 10,000-25,000 BHT. My current gf says it is thai culture for the man to take care of the woman. Maybe in BKK or Chiang Mai, places with better economic opportunities, it is different, but my honest experience with two normal thai women is that they expect to be financially supported.
Thanks for sharing your experiences with Thai women from Isaan and their expectations about financial support in relationships. I think in any relationship, it's crucial for both people to contribute. However, everyone has their own values and expectations, so that needs a discussion for mutual understanding. And not all Thai men can support their partners financially in that way either and that’s understandable. Every relationship is different. Thank you for watching and thanks again for sharing your perspective. I hope your current relationship works out well for you😊🫶🏻
A former work colleague of mine from Australia is now a school teacher in Thailand. He has a very nice Thai girlfriend who works in a bank and they are very happy, living in Bangkok! 😊
Thank you for watching 😊🫶🏻 another happy couple 🎉
@@paulsandford3345 is he teaching English? That would be also my dream...
Many foreigners don't know about the good Thai girls a lot of tourists spend money in Phuket and Pattaya
@@joostroelens8710 Many good Traditional girls in Thailand that can make good wives. Just stay away from Chicks who don't settle down with anyone. Bounce around from man to man. Usually the Single mothers and Girls over 30 who are still single are very rebellious Stay away from those. If the woman is a Widow They deserve a pass. It is not their fault their spouse died. Stay away from the Gold Diggers, and very Superficial women those are damaged goods. Find the women that will take time to know the man for what he is worth as a man and not based only on physical attraction.
My wife is Thai, she is amazing. I look forward to spending the rest of my life with her.
You right on about the communication piece, though (9 min in). That was a problem we had early in our relationship. Almost ended ours. She couldn't tell me as an American what was bothering her and expected me to know. As an American male, we need more directness. I now better understand that issues cross culturally. But I would say it seems to be more apparent in Thai females from my experience. The reserved nature. Can't speak worldwide, but in my dating experience.
I hope you can be happy forever
@@joostroelens8710 Fingers crossed. We're married and have a kid. But who knows. But I appreciate the positive feedback. :)
@@mathris2875I m still single and never find my soulmate here in Belgium I want to come to Thailand this year in month December January I hope we can meet in person
@@mathris2875 I n from Belgium I was never married before in Belgium and I don't have kids I want to visit Thailand in month December January . What is the best way to meet a good girl I think the best way is meet in person and whit datingsites
@@mathris2875 i want to have a good relationship in the future
I am happily married 15 years. The big problem is the foreign men look in the wrong places. I know dozens of Thai women and every one is honest. A tip for foreign men dont expect massage girls or freelancers to be good partners.
#1 TIP is to learn Thai language, even minimally. Then you access regular girls that have not been spoiled, or broken by foreigners in their past.
@@ThereIsAlwaysaWay2 my Thai is very good made the effort to learn
I agree as a foreigner. I visited many countries and always go the tourist way. I guess as a 1st time to your country traveler that's what you do. The cultures are often so different that it takes more time to understand each other when a relationship evolves
You only need to learn a few verbs, nouns, and pronouns. Also numbers, days of the week. Having the basics you can fill it in with nodding, pointing, It always helps when you say hello, thank-you, etc in the host language. I got through France, a snooty country with essentially four words Bon Jour, Merci, Avez-vous, and ou est. Avez-vouz means have you, so i would walk into a shop and say: Bon Jour, avez-vous milk. As long as the first word is french you are good. No one likes to be talked by a stranger in their own country in a foriegn langauage. Ou est means where is, so I would say Ou est le bathroom.
@@ppumpkin3282 For a girlfriend, you need around 300 words, and it's extremely easy.
The advice given is a one-way street (it's all about you); however, in reality, a good relationship is a two-way street. It's about mutual service and support. If I continually give and give while you only take and take, eventually, the giver will feel unappreciated and depleted. This imbalance can lead to frustration and resentment, ultimately causing the giver to withdraw from the relationship. Healthy relationships require effort and contribution from both sides to thrive and sustain mutual respect and satisfaction.
I agree completely. A good relationship should involve both people supporting each other. It's important to understand that each person may contribute in different ways. Recognizing and appreciating these differences helps maintain balance and respect. When both partners feel valued for their efforts, the relationship can thrive with mutual satisfaction.
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Reciprocal is the word. A relationship dies without effort and love. Ask youself, do I continually show love in my words and attitude and service (I'm not talking about sex here, but that's good too. Manly to show you care). Do you value your partner? Do you do positive reinforcement...show appreciation and thanks.
Thai people are great and i love thai culture. Thailand is great and beautiful country.
You girls are genuine normal society lady's and you would be genuine to your relationship, Every guy out there talking about money only ever hang out around NAN 9 Soy Cowboy or Pattaya where the girls only want money. Genuine guy's that live and work in Asia they have amazing relationship. I have been with my wife in Laos for 10 years and we go through everything that a UK UK couple or Thai Thai couple............. avoid the bar girls and meet the real Thai people.🥰
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Im dating Thai girls in bkk.
Barfine scene not worth it.
Language barrier is a big problem many times.
Its challenging but Thai girls are much better than western girls over all.
@@shaungooch1766 Your point that women who bring up money only come from bar zones isn't 100% true! Many dating sites are full of women only looking for money. Many so called regular or so called normal Thai women the only reason they would date a western guy is for money. Probably over 60 % of Thai women who date foreigner is for money or a free holiday in the west The term เมียฝรั่ง / wife of a foreigner comes with a lot of stigma in Thailand. Also they get a lot of pressure from family or people in the village when it's known they have a foreign boy friend such as when is he going to build a house buy a car or truck! If the foreigner doesn't do it, the family or the people in the village then say WHY ARE YOU WITH HIM! I've talked with many Thai people and most Thai people have told me the main reason Thai women date foreigners is for money. I have had this conversation in Thai with farmers to educated Thai people who have lived in the west as well.
Are u still with Eric?
Just got home from Thailand three weeks ago. It was my second journey to your country.
Seeing this video with you lovely ladies reminds me why i would wish for a honest relationship with a Thai woman. The positive vibe which surround you is absolutly amazing.
I have to go back to Thailand as soon as possible…
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A lot of disturbing foreigners sometimes they have only hungry in Thai Meat
"Life is hard enough, the person that you're with should be your comfort..."
Thoughtfulness and perspectives like that is why I'm planning on coming to Thailand! Thanks for sharing 😊
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It is not uncommon for a relationship to run its course and you realize you would like more in a relationship. It doesn't have to end bad, you just realize you need more.
Ying, from my understanding you are (or were) also in a relationship with a foreigner so it would also be interesting to hear your insight on the matter.
I heard she got married to one but it didn't work out. :(
Nice video, your advice is good even if you're already committed to a long relationship. I started dating a Thai lady 21 years ago and we've now been married 19 years. Trust, kindness and consideration are very important parts of our marriage. We now live most of the year in Hawaii but spends about 3 months the year in Thailand. I hope you two find your prince Charming, best of luck.
Thank you for sharing your story and kind words. Wishing you continued happiness in Hawaii and Thailand!😊🫶🏻
I agree with what your friend is saying from my own experiences, but of course we are all different. Thanks for a well presented video.🙏
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Thank you 😊
I am married to a Thai and we have 3 kids. Good to hear about the Thai ladies views. Also i just subscribed to you. Good luck with the channel.
Thank youuu kha 😊🫶🏻
Thank you 😊
I have just joined your channel, and I can only say thank you very much for being open and genuine
One of the big tricks about it is the way people can be different if they change company. Being with a particular person is about compatibility in a bigger sense than just whether they suit you or you find them attractive, they don't necessarily see you the way you do and that can easily bring down a relationship. When we are young, we can easily be told to act in a different way but as we become confident and are happy in the way we behave it is hurtful if the person you are with is not happy about it, and means you have different values and don't necessarily think the same things are good or the same things are bad, which can be a problem. You must have similar moral values, you cannot be in a relationship doing things the other person thinks are wrong, or when you do something good the other person doesn't think so. This becomes the most important thing eventually, if you are to stay together.
Love Thailand and Ying is Stunning
I like to be friends with Thai girls, but they are (in my experience) to shy when it comes to sex, and talking about difficult/sensitive subjects. But I do love the culture and religion in Thailand, and how it makes most people behave nice, polite and friendly - That is something we sorely lack in the West.
Two cuties smalltalk. SCAM and FRAUD happens everywhere.
In Thailand sometimes too.
Greetings from Germany
I love my Thai wife she treats me like a king but I agree communication is huge very different cultures must be very patent with each other in the learning process
Your video is really good, I'm watching you from Belgium, I'm coming to Thailand for 1 month in October, I'm staying a few days in Bangkok then I'm visiting the islands if I see you in Bangkok I'll come and say hello thank you,
I'd be more than honored and delighted to meet charming Su to convince her that cultural.obstacles can be overcome and that a foreigner can respect her sensitivity...😊
Ying, I am small UA-camr from the US and I just watched a number of channels as I think about revisiting SE Asia and possibly moving. I find your channel trustworthy and authentic and would love to collaborate on my next trip
Good visuals, lighting, audio and content. Having great looking talent is a bonus but content is crucial. Great job. Keep it up!
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Thai women by far have been my favorite women. In a few years I can retire and I'll move there forever I think
Thanks you so much for the beautiful video Ying i hope you to meet in BKK we can talk about many things
Here's a tip to you Thai girls. The girl on the right in the denim shorts held onto her phone during the entire interview. When you go out with a farang, put your phone away. Turn it off. Don't hold onto it. If you cannot live without playing with your mobile, you will never have a good relationship with farang.
to do decent interview you can't remember everything beforehand so it's like notepad to not forget important topics that Ying prepared I believe. Phones during dates are some different topic
Yes of course little bit secret
YING, your natural beauty is flawless by design. Please inform the next guy you allow into your world 🌎 he's truly blessed. Much love ❤️ and peace are my wishes.
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Interesting facts, even for me who is already happily married with a wonderful thai lady for 9 years now; I can only confirm anything you mention and still had some moments where I maybe didn't learn new things, but got at least remembered of some little things (mistakes?) I do in daily life, treating each other. Thanks for the very lovely and charming way of presentation! I will follow you on your channel for seeing more of your interesting content! Great job, Ying, and you and your friend are absolutely wonderful, too!
You are right
Getting to know eachother, working on the relationship and being honest
I think that’s the best way for having trust
Both parties have to work on it . Thank you for watching 😊
Great content as always! Love hearing the perspective from open minded people like yourselves! Keep these types of videos coming 😊
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Always such interesting content Ying. Thoughtful and informative every time. Thanks for sharing and so happy you have decided to post more often ❤.
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Hi Ying! Nice video like usually!!! Keep the videos coming. I have two comments: 1) about the Thai ladies asking for money scenario. Of course, most foreign men who come to Thailand for short period of time, like holiday etc., will first interact with bar girls ofrfreelance girls...and the moany questions is just how it is. of course they will ask for money...and if foreigners interact only with these kind of ladies, they will have a different experience, and will draw some fast conclusion. 2) when it comes to genuine relationships between Thai lady and forigner man, I think the biggest problem in the culture and tradition. In the West, specially in the cities there is no more culture and tradition, or if it is is very week; on the other hand the Thai culture and tradition is very strong, and in top of that Thailand was never colonized by western countries ( like was the case with Viethnam, Laos, Malayesia, or other countries), which make the Thai culture very closed and strong. So, now image a relationship between a westerner and a Thai lady: the man with almost no traditions and culture, except the freedom of doing how he please and a Thai lady representing centuries of culture and tradition. It is not easy, and I think this is the biggest challenge.
I do agree 💯 🙌 However as a new generation, we kind of like more open to understand foreigners as well, try to change the way of thinking but in a good way. I can say that we are not so conservative like our parents if that makes sense hehe
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2 beautiful girls. Thanks for the video. I’m visiting Thailand for the first time in October. Can’t wait!
Thank you for watching. Hope you will have a wonderful time here! 🫶🏻😊
@@sstp703 Thank you. I’ve watched lots of videos and the place looks amazing. The people also seem very friendly and kind. You came across as very friendly, loyal and kind. Also very beautiful. Have you been to England before?
You girls are beautiful 😍
First time i watched a utube channel like this, clicked on it out of curiosity. But it was really interesting and you both made me smile with your outlook in thailand for other people. Keep up the great work Ying, first time for me to think...yes this interesting and continually smiled at your comments!
Regards, John...
Same like every where. Be kind, polite, not rude, patient, natural..and most it's ok..🙏🖐😍🇨🇭
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You and your friend are in Bangkok. You and your friends are likely all well educated and well off by Thai standards. When you say that Thai women aren't after foreigners' money, that may be true for most of the people you know. Away from Bangkok, things are dramatically different.
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Wow Ying, your friend is very cute and she speaks English very well.
I have been married for 25 years to my lovely Thai wife. I love her more than ever.
Aloha Ying
Enjoy this video . Real Thai ladies telling true and real. Very informative
Relationship take understand both sides of each other culture
Mahalo Erol
There are also huge differences between foreigners from different countries!
A lot of disturbing American and Russia maffia people in Phuket and Pattaya
I think a big problem is about foreign men dating thai ladies, which come mostly to thailand for holidays and think with money they can buy everything, included a relationship. I have seen so many stories in these years personally, where foreigners pay for the thai lady holiday back in europe for example, or ask her to quit job to stay with her, propose a salary more than her salary, and these girls accept eventually, buy her a house, and do everything to show off. Foreign men in thailand they work remote, have a free time always and want a girl willing to do same so here come the money offered to them. So when a normal guy comes after, they will expect the same.
It's usually not a good idea to date a woman who already had farang experience. You'll have to live up and exceed expectations that some other dude has set.
Nice to watch and hear you girls, you are both very nice and intelligent wona's. Really good video :) warm regards from UK
Thanks for Your honesty 🙏
Hi Ying, Good job for the video that I enjoyed as usual. As for a point whether a Thai person would like foreigners to speak Thai, I guess Thai person wouldn't like for a foreigner speak Thai only if such Thai person have some kind of plans to manipulate foreigners. Otherwise I agree in general that people in the world would enjoy having any foreigner trying to talk in their local language.
Now that I live here, I find that Thai women who speak English ( have tattoos, post sexy pics on IG, etc. ) are a minority and are not traditional Thai women. The majority of Thai women who are traditional and what most Western men are looking for do not speak English ( and that's why I'm learning Thai )
Hello gals, sue you sure look beautiful today
Like your pretty smile and hair 😍 ❤
Hello goodmorning Sue thanks for your response appreciated sweetheart have a wonderful great day goodbye
I gotta get back to bkk....walked around lumpini every day for 3 weeks. What a great area 🌺
When I was there for a month, not one girl asked me for money. Thai women are nice to be with, respectful, with good sense 🙏🏽
I need to book a flight back 🫶
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I'm already in love with SU.. ahahahahahaha.. thank you sweeties :))
🥰🙏👍 Sue, you are a very smart and lovely woman.
Thank you for your lovely comment 😊🫶🏻
Ying you are such a queen standing next to her. For me being yourself, opening up, is the greatest sign of trust. This may take a long time but I am willing to spend this time to find a good relationship ^_^
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Good video Ying. I am American man and met several Thai ladies. My last never ask for $$. I have had some who ask for little but I try to stay away from working girls. Love Thailand and Bangkok too much. I will be back soon!!
Thanks for sharing 🫶😊
Thanks for caring
Two cute Thai women talking about dating farang!
I had a six month long distance relationship with Thai lady, mid 30s, met twice. She had good government job. Six months, then she asked for monthly allowance ! So even though supposed normal thai lady (not from entertainment sector), still became money issue. I ended that relationship. She was originally from Issan region, which seems to be money focused in Thai / Falang relationship. Maybe other parts of Thailand not so money focused in relationship ?
I call total bs on the money thing. What’s investing in a relationship? You see how careful she was trying not to say no money no honey. It’s always about the money. Investing in a relationship means buying them nice cloths, taking them to nice restaurants, going on vacations, taking them shopping and sending them to the spas and salons. How’s that not wanting your money 555. It’s always about the money and any woman from any culture who says otherwise is LYING.
I have a new Thai girlfriend, and I always try to remember the reasons why my previous relationship with a Thai woman failed. I made many mistakes and this video is a great reminder to me of what I should do. So much is about the difference in culture and language.
Hope your current relationship is happy and healthy. Thank you for watching 😊
Thanks for sharing 😊🫶 Understanding is the key for keeping the relationship 😇
Culture language & no # 1 money money 😂
Dating a thai lady it all ends in show me the money 💰 eventually.maybe u two r different from most thai ladies.relationship with most thai ladies is a financial agreement for her & her family.thais ladies can't eat love 😂.keep it rollin
I have always been amazed at the fact that a young beautiful woman can so easily start a relationship with sometimes a retired man. Actually not really surprised, because when a foreigner comes to Thailand, his standard of living is higher than the average Thai. Which can mean a future perspective for many young women. For the man who went there alone, it means a simple bond with a beautiful young woman, without much effort. Because in fact it has nothing to do with love. Often they hardly understand each other and an emotional bond, which you would expect in a relationship, is not present. After all, if the woman does not meet the expectation, the man will look for another who is easier. I follow many bloggers, purely out of psychological interest. the blogger with the camera who often points the camera at the women, while his wife walks past him. From which my observation concludes that despite his youthful beautiful wife, he is still searching. Many men go to Thailand because of the search for a beautiful young woman. Not to explore the country. And because they are men from Western countries, pensioners for example, they can live from their pension. Which is many times higher than the income of women in Thailand. So they are rich in their eyes, but in the West they would be normal men with a low or average income. Of course there are exceptions. If a Thai woman comes with her to the country of origin of the man, she will see that wealth does not correspond to the expectation when they met each other in Thailand. Another comment about cultures. I am from the Netherlands, but I do not find the Thai woman more jealous than a Western woman. Men who cheat in a relationship often lose their partner because of this. Talking to your ex is not a mortal sin or reason for jealous looks, if there are children involved. After all, the children belong to both of you and need contact now and then. It is nice if the new girlfriend is involved. Because she also gets to know his children. For me, 'love' would always be the most important relationship requirement. No good 'click' is no guarantee for a successful relationship, or it would be purely financial or intimate satisfaction.
I'm married to two Thai women. One is very western and one is very Thai with no western experiences. Although I am biculturally Thai and am fluent in Thai, I would recommend that being with someone at least familiar with your own western culture, or at least the western way of looking at life is easier. You will be surprised how different Thai and Western perceptions are....omg
Awesome content, you guys!
Thanks so much 😊
Very nice video. Thanks for sharing thoughts. I already subscribed your channel. I subscribed other gal's channal too but there are no posts yet. Hope in future. I checked her playlist. Very nice thai songs wow. I dont understand thai but i love Thailand so i like to listen songs too. Keep posting. From india, with respect.
there are some lucky boy in this world 😄
Reciprocal is the word. A relationship dies without effort and love. Ask youself, do I continually show love in my words and attitude and service (I'm not talking about sex here, but that's good too. Manly to show you care). Do you value your partner? Do you do positive reinforcement...show appreciation and thanks.
I was in a long-distance relationship with a Thai woman for three years. Although she never asked me for money, I did feel resentment from her that I wasn't sending her monthly support. She had a great job as an HR manager with the Thai government and owned her own house so I didn't think she needed the monetary support. Occasionally, my ex-girlfriend would tell me about her friends who were getting money from their foreign boyfriends but never directly complained that I was not doing the same. I eventually broke off the relationship when her resentment turned into frequent petty arguments unrelated to money. I chose not to send her money because we were in a long-distance relationship and at any time she could break up with me for another man, and I would be out all of the money that was sent to her! If we lived together in Thailand, I would contribute money to help her better her life.
You never met her in person?
@@mancello Yes, I went to see her in Thailand twice, each time for one month. I met her shortly after Covid started so I could not travel as much to Thailand from the USA. I could not quarantine at a hotel for 2 weeks in Thailand. We spoke everyday on video chat on the LINE app. We met in person on the second and third year after we met.
@@kevinp8108 Even if a Thai woman has a college degree and a good job, she still generally is not being paid very much since wages in Thailand are quite low, especially compared to the West. If you get involved with the Thai woman, you're going to be expected to help her out and perhaps even help out her family financially. It's just the way it is in Asian countries and especially in Thailand.
It’s understandable that you felt uncertain about sending money. Trust and clear communication are so crucial in these kinds of situations and sorry it didn’t work out 🥲
Thank you for watching and sharing your experience.
From experiencing ten years of relationshio thai/farang i would say there are no worse gaps but the silent treatment. Just not acceptable so i broke up. Connected again and happened again so i broke up again.
what did you expect? Silent treatment is part of SE Asian culture.
It sounds like you've had some rough experiences especially dealing with the silent treatment. When someone goes silent, it could indicate they might not want to continue the relationship or find it hard to talk about things. But anyway it’s important to talk openly about these issues to make sure both people feel heard and respected. Sorry it didn’t work out. 😢
Also thank you for watching.
Thank you for sharing
So nice to see there are sophisticated beautifull thai woman in bkk. This channel is great. But now I miss thailand even more. LOL. Hope to visit youre country in a few months again. 🤩
Thank you for watching 🫶🏻hope you have a great time when you come 😊
@@sstp703 Yesss! tnx and tnx for this interview. Western guys should all see this interview before they hook up with a thai woman.
@@sstp703 Hope to see more video's from you in the future. Bye.
@@ObolonWeener yesss and i think each person and relationship is unique, and it's really about understanding each other and showing respect to build strong connections. I'm glad the interview meant sth to you. Hope I could make another video with Ying again in the future 😁 Thank you 😊🫶🏻🙏
Thai ladies are so slim and petite. 👍👍👍👍
The best advice came right at the end. You have to be a good listener to have a good relationship. You also missed a very important piece of advice.... you have to keep a Thai woman well fed ! I happy Thai lady is one with a full belly ! I am speaking with 15 years of experience 🤪
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Ah yeah that too I forgot to mention 😂 Thank you for watching 😊
From what I've noticed, if foreigners are using dating sites, there are lots of "freelancers" on them which might contribute to the "they just want our money" view.
If you're silent because you're mad. Of course a foreigner will need you to say why. Communication is key in a relationship. It's not necessarily a cultural difference, that happens in all relationships that lack communication.
I really love Thai girls. But they won't accept age gap relationships, so I am forced to go to Philippines 😣
Thank you for a very informative video you both speak good English and I want to ask for your advice about best places to meet nice Thai ladies speaking good English
I think the key is you need to take it slow at the beginning to get to know them first. Try not to jump in to a relationship too quickly. And i think you can find them anywhere especially in BKK. Lots of people speak English. Hope you find one soon and thank you for watching 😊
I am on a Thai dating site. I stopped using it. Everyone there is looking for money. 1. Free Lancers. 2. looking for customers. 3. Single mothers with 3 kids that want to be saved by foreigners. 4. Looking for men to spoil them. 5. Looking for a man that will take them all over the world. 6. If the man dates me, he has to pay for my house, my food, my everything. I am sure the list goes with scammers and people trying to steal info. It really doesn't paint a good picture for true relationships in Thailand. Yeah I get 100 likes a day, and i get 90 requests for money. I am hoping being there in person will work better. Online dating in the US is just as bad.
I met one of my best friends during a noys might out. When we mwwt, wo go to our favorite boat noodle shop and since we agreed that we don’t love or need each other, we can talk about everything. She knows what i really don’t like about what she calls its thai freedom. But she knows that she’s allowed to tell me what she hates that i do
Thanks for sharing 🙌😊
Nice work Ying 👍
Thank you 🫶
One thing i'm curious about. Thai women are known to be very jealous BUT many married women or ones that have bfs, have IG accounts with bikini or cute photos on them. Don't their husbands/bfs get jealous or are they not allowed to? I see some teachers, nurses even royal Thai airforce women with bikini photos *some wearing wedding rings* on IG. You'd think the jealousy would be canceled out cause they have lots of guys gawking at their photos. Seems a bit unfair.
Beauty is an important asset. Why not let her share it? Are you too selfish?
@@garyzies3486 His question is about the hypocrisy of it, and it's a good question.
Maybe their partners understand that these women are just sharing photos they find beautiful or enjoyable. Posting bikini or cute photos doesn't always mean they're trying to get other guys' attention. Relationships can have different rules about social media, so what seems unfair from outside might not be a problem for the couple.
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@@sstp703 Maybe. My other concern is when women want me to stop contacting my female friends, but they keep contacting their male friends. Also, asking a partner to end meaningful friendship is not a loving request.
@@winthorpetrois It's about status elevation. A man has to work for it, a woman can just show it off.
I would really like to know what the difference is between dating a foreigner and dating a Thai guy. What is the biggest difference?
i think most foieners tend to meet the wrong type of ladies in the entertainment industry in tourist places if you meet real normal thais dateing can be very good im was with who became my wife for 30 years and had a fantastic rlationship untill she past now but have normal children and still use our home in thailad all the time when im not working enjoying a great relationship with all me fantastic thai frends
Thank you for watching and so sorry to hear that your wife has passed 😢
Hello Ying i m single never married before in Belgium I want to plan to come to Thailand this year in month December January i hope we can meet in person in BKK i m openminded and sincere and honest person. The first impression is sometimes the most important thing and you need to make a good conversation with each other its very important i hope we can talk about some things when I come to Thailand about the Habits etcc.... greatings Joost
9:11 As a foreigner I think we can understand our girlfriend is mad when she's too quite. It's just that we are used to enjoy that moment and not questioning to not start the fire and have not to deal with the usual standard answer "nothing" (pretty intercultural one imo)
I'm sorry, I don't mean to be disrespectful. To be honestly, this wasn't very helpful. Maybe the topic isn't correct. Topic should be more like... "How to choose or where to look a good Thai woman? " or "How to avoid a bad Thai woman? " Simply who left comments like "Thai women only wants money from foreign boyfriend".. I believe they meet their Thai girlfriend from either dating site or Go Go Bar. I have also made a same mistake before, and I learn my lesson. I don't want to blame anyone.. I just like to think that it's the world that is we live in. It's nobody's fault. In the bright side, things could've been much worse 😅
Noted with your comment 🙌
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Great video Ying,Sue is Suay Mak,she won't be single for long.There are women in every country on this planet that are with guys for money,i think the guy that made that comment has never visited Thailand,when i go out with Thai girls,they often pay for lunch or dinner and never ask for money,i'll be in Asok next week if Sue needs a date (-;
Thanks for the comment 😁
taking care = give money + others
The guys in the flat obove me are from
the Philippines their very nice along
with Thialand and maybe India they
are places I would maybe think of moving
too. My age would mean I would go with
an older lady , I have a pension and also
money of my own , once a person got in
a relationship you would be kind and
considerate and very happy together !
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I have never met a Thai girl who wanted my money. Quite the opposite, in fact. All of the Thai girls I have spent time with were quite generous, and never asked for a single thing from me.
I think that some men are just chasing the wrong types of girls (bar girls) & looking for love in the wrong places (Pattaya).
This is just my opinion, so please feel free to disagree, ignore what I say, and move on! :)
Thanks, again, Ying, for the interesting content!
I agree with you completely, and thank you for your kind comment. 😊🫶🏻 It's unfortunate that people often stereotype all Thai girls as being interested only in money.
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A lot of disturbing hungry farangs in Phuket and Pattaya
@@yinginthailandi like your channel very well I m single never married before in Belgium I came 5 Times to Thailand it's so very beautiful and adorable I hope to meet a good girl when I come to Thailand this year in month December January. Maybe you re can give some advice for when I come to BKK
@@yinginthailand i like you video what names instagram SU
I believe this information needs to done by boths side of relationship
They never ask for money right away because many are smart now and play the long game
Thanks for sharing your persepctive. I dont think this is really a thing about Thai versus foreign issues, seems more issues between men and women and different personalies. Cultural difference is fascinating and two people in love will find the way to deal with problems together.
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About money it's everywhere,it can happen in Canada too,we can't say all the women asking for that.
A western man goes to work, comes back home in the evening. A Thai man goes to work, then calls his woman 10 times aday to check on her. Why? Because a Thai man knows they easily fall for sweet talkers ... money talks very sweet ...
Su seems to be quite a catch. I'm interested in the future possibility of a teaching job. I am a retired nurse and looking forward to settling over there. I have a few medical conditions that restricted my ability to continue Nursing. Any advice or contact info would be greatly appreciated.
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I hit the like button before I watch the video
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@@sstp703 It`s always nice to hear the normal Thai women point of view, because most of the foreigners only knows stories about bar girls in Thailand.
Regular girls are totally different from working girls who are looking for foreigner money for services... including many happy endings massage shops...
Can you introduce me to her? I’m a widower and staying in Bangkok😊
Very good video and a wonderful environment - I love Lumphini Park. With two failed marriages with thai-women behind me I agree fully with what you say: You have to invest in the relation. Regarding that, we fell behind in both cases and got unfair consequences. But life is about learning, now I know what I want, have set a high standard and I am ready to invest . but NOT on a dating site.
Thank you so much for your comment 🫶😊 you will surely find a great one here 🙌
As for the money thing - most definitely money is a very big deal for many foreigners...Not all, but it is a significant minority at least...
No it’s NOT normal to be quiet and NOT talk to your man when you’re mad. This is childish no matter what country you live in. Most normal couples talk about why they are angry. To be quiet means that you basically don’t care enough about the other person you’re with so that you can make things right. I say to anyone who stops talking to you to grow up and stop acting like a spoiled little child.
Foreignors are too different from country to country, by race, age and upbringing to be lumped together in one category.
An observation about sensitivity is many people who are sensative or emotional tend to be focused too much on themself. These same sensative people can be very rude and not consider other peoples fealings; in my opinion.
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thank you, two very lovely sweet thai girls. About the comment on money, thought the commenter was unkind and maybe even bitter about some bad experiences he might have had. The fact that he thinks all thai are unworthy of friendship tells me he hasn't experienced thai people from all over thailand, except maybe as you say bargirl types. But I do agree with him on the money point. I have had serious relationships with two Isaan women, one of which I know is a know is a good quality person, kind, respectful, loyal, strong morals. Both of them definitely expected to be financially supported, even when first dating. There are many women in Isaan who feel that farang should be giving them a salary like, 10,000-25,000 BHT. My current gf says it is thai culture for the man to take care of the woman. Maybe in BKK or Chiang Mai, places with better economic opportunities, it is different, but my honest experience with two normal thai women is that they expect to be financially supported.
Thanks for sharing your experiences with Thai women from Isaan and their expectations about financial support in relationships. I think in any relationship, it's crucial for both people to contribute. However, everyone has their own values and expectations, so that needs a discussion for mutual understanding. And not all Thai men can support their partners financially in that way either and that’s understandable. Every relationship is different.
Thank you for watching and thanks again for sharing your perspective. I hope your current relationship works out well for you😊🫶🏻
Thank you for sharing 😊🙌🫶