Nearly Half Of All Black Women Are Single...Now What?
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- Опубліковано 7 вер 2024
- oooww new mic who dis?! ya'll hear that quality! it actually didn't sound good on playback and i thought ughh not another wack mic, but once i put it into the editor- MWUAH chef's kiss, enjoy!
ON THIS EPISODE
1:21 WHAT BLK WOMEN WILL DO WITH THEIR FREE TIME
2:09 RVCISM ISN'T A "THING OF THE PAST"
4:03 THE RVCISM FROM SCHOOL TO WORKPLACE PIPELINE
6:50 BLK PPL IN "POSITIONS OF POWER" IS NOT AN END ALL BE ALL
8:38 CHANGE ONLY RESULTS FROM CONSEQUENCE
10:37 WAYS TO OVERCOME RVCISM
12:00 THE THREE STAGES OF CONFRONTING RVCISM
15:12 NO SUCH THING AS AN ALLY
17:05 WHY YOU'RE MADE TO FEEL BAD ABOUT PRIORITIZING YOURSELF
18:12 NOT ALL BLACK WOMAN ARE THE SAME...AND THAT'S OK
20:27 FREE YOURSELF FROM NEEDING TO SAVE THE WORLD
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There’s worse things in life than being single
I don't believe I mentioned or implied being single was bad, but perhaps you're just saying
Yup ...like being a SINGLE MOTHER! 😣
@@thesimoneestelle yea I’m just saying I enjoyed & agree w your video
Putting gender aside from one melanated human to another....try not to place Black women in a monolithic group of similar thought an actions. Not all Black Americans are having relationship issues....there are plenty of Black women in healthy relationships with Black men.
i literally said not all Black women are the same or want the same things. I said nothing about relationships being “bad” nor did I say anything about who Black women were in relationships with.. so the purpose of this comment is what?
Because In the beginning of your video you made a lot of generalizations. For example, you claimed "nothing we do is good enough"....but you can only speak for yourself. You then went on to say "I'm excited for Black women in particular, what WE'RE going to be able to accomplish at this stage in OUR lives". Seems to me you view Black women as a monolith all making the same exact choices. Not all Black women are out there "consistently committed to refining themselves"....in contrast there are Black men who are doing refinement and self work. One can easily deduce you are team "Black woman" which is ok....but it doesn't speak to the complexities of the Black experience which isn't something that's gender specific.
@@problactive285 since it appears this is your first time on YT, let me explain. typically the first 30-60 seconds of a video is what you call a preview. this will usually review a snippet of material and the topic of conversation found throughout the entirety of the video. commenting on what’s in the very beginning of the video and making conclusions upon it without understanding or listening to the entirety of the video is irrelevant. while i’m not apart of the population that is confounded by the grammatical use of generalizations i understand it can be difficult to some in differentiating between the misuse of it vs the concise use of it. being that the only people this video is about and addressed to are black women, responding to anything else you’ve stated has no relevance to the conversation i’ve presented, but perhaps another video or creator may be better suited for your discourse. good day.
@@problactive285 Agreed. Although I don't believe we have to say "not all!" when discussing something because nothing is 100%. It's fine to address the vast majority of an issue. I did originally think that I stumbled on a black male misandry channel or a member of the failed divester movement.
I don't know if you heard, but I did catch when she said not all black women. (I'm assuming you're a black woman) I thank you for seeing black men's humanity because it's often overlooked or dismissed. However, I see the black feminist movement/black church to be largely responsible for our current situation. Of course we as black men have our failures but we are often a small component because our influence/reach is mediocre at best. And any degree of pushback or critique is considered hatred of the BW. Which the vast majority of us absolutely love the BW.
I'm certainly glad that this UA-camr didn't go into division and hate against black men. I did like that she also included black men in the equation as when discussing the black community many only see a black woman and children. The man is usually excluded from the conversation regarding the family concept. I just found her channel and hope that she maintains a positive ripple effect. But I recognize that you can have a wonderful all inclusive channel and only have 5k subs averaging 1k views per video. But if you push filth/ hateful rhetoric and divisive content, the sky's the limit. Those are the channels that hit 200k-1million subs in 18 months and gain fame and notoriety.
Marginalization and mockery pays big dividends on the individual scale. Which is a big reason why we suffer as a community because we can't do this as individuals. The system isn't even designed to reward individuals over the group. Despite the lies of pure capitalism and individualistic/traditionalism, even the extreme wealthy engage in nepotism and empower the lamest and most incompetent of their group. Because they understand what's at stake. We need more channels that embrace both black men and women and I hope this channel is one of them.
@@d.rabbit7276 I'm a Black man that advocates for Black relationships. Her video came up on my feed and I clicked on it because she is attractive and her crown is radiant....But I was put off by her opening statements that's why I left the comment. When I see red pill content by men who make generalizations about Black women I have the same sentiment. More and more I see Black woman and Black men grouping themselves on "teams" (passport bros, divestors etc etc) as if their experiences are not inclusive of the other gender. The reality is when racism and oppression attacks us its not gender specific we are intrinsically linked. We should be unified in our approach not separate.
Clicked bc of your gorgeous hair. Now listening!
Toni jones- kiss me, Big Krit- serve this royalty
Bruh me too.
Has happiness for y'all skyrocketed the way the singleness/childlesness has?🤔
Good question
The thought of black women and child support is scary because history has shown that black women will choose government over “family “!
Only have babies with your wife
Yes they will, they're the worst sell outs in history of womandom.
Maybe the men that helped her create the child should step up to the plate fully and support his family/children so she doesn’t need to look for Gov assistance, or get custody of his child and disregard the marriage, males these days are not paying extremely large amounts of child support.
@@aloemua9181- you are gaslighting because millions of BM have been there for their children. Yet and still BW will still choose to push those BM away and run to the govt to put the fathers on child support.
@aloemura9181 Can you read?
Nevermind, stop picking men who don't stay.
Stop worshiping Brad.
Stop letting other women take your productive men.
I can go on.
NEARLY HALF? THAT'S NOT WHAT'S INDICATED ON PUBLIC RECORDS. ITS OVER HALF THAT IS SINGLE AND WITH KIDS HAVING NO FATHER IN THE HOME.
I love your hair!
thank you loveee!
Yes yes totally agree
Thank you for the words.
you’re welcome boo!
My ex wife use to put her dreadlocs in curlers to make them curly.
She is about your complexion but didnt wear make up on her face.
Find out what the man you want wants, then follow. Your scatter brain with no guidance has tanked the community. We want less talk with more cooperation or you'll be alone.
i think some ppl are confused about the purpose of the video, but it certainly wasn’t to beat a tired topic over the head for 30 minutes straight. key words, “now what?”
So gang violence coming from bm isn't the reason why the community is tanked? Chicago begs to differ.
Being alone is not a bad thing
Haven't watched the video yet but I wanted to say your hair suits you wonderfully 👌🏽🔥
I enjoyed your video. It did feel more like a vent however I understood your message. I love your locs! ❤❤❤
As a first gen college student racism is prevalent and often feels like it’s getting worse. RIP Dr. Bailey. She held a prominent position and took her own life. Her mental health was not taking seriously.
I would like racism to end. Unfortunately it seems to be indoctrinated in American society.
I want Black women to take care of their overall wellbeing.
Life is way too short.
Also singleness is not a bad thing. Paul talked about how it was better to be single and to focus on God. Singleness is not a curse.
thank you love!
is it a PWI? they're a crazy experience! Seriously though our well being needs to be our number one priority. We endure far too much and I know many blk women feel like they're in a very similar head space as Dr. Bailey and we're only mistreated even more.
People always have a list of who blk women should be and what blk women should do and it's only ever with their own benefit in mind. We tend to go along with it for the most part thinking it will finally grant us positive results or what we truly desire, but it only ends up k!IIing us, smh.
I def agree that singleness is not a bad thing either. It's the opposite of a curse, its a blessing!
All the best in school🤎
@@thesimoneestelle it’s Hispanic Serving Institution (HSI). However there is still discrimination here and there. It’s implicit so it’s hard to pin point but it’s there. Racism unfortunately is global.
Singleness is a blessing.
However I can’t forget my roots and the fact that my parents are immigrants, makes me strive harder to succeed at University.
At marker 19:15
The Gods In melanin clothing
Mmmmh she just said we all are not the same
Very striking I can see that
Just be intelligent and have class, morals and love for your people.
SHE IS ALL OVER THE PLACE
KEEP UP🗣️👏🏾
NOT WITH CIRCUITOUS OPINIONS WITHOUT A BREATH BETWEEN SENTENCES ///PASS///@@thesimoneestelle
this is a podcast, not a remedial classroom where the teacher has to give the answers bc the students can’t think for themselves. the purpose of a podcast is to talk. talk through. talk around. talk about. i won’t argue that a talk fast though😭 in any case sparking conversation, ideas, and inspiring critical thought is debatably more powerful than just giving people “answers” and all my different topics do just that.
@@thesimoneestelle u need a panel then. bounce those ideas off ppl. see how they stand to logic. itll be fun.
I DON'T HAVE TO ACCEPT RAMBLING @@thesimoneestelle
A man aims to work and care for his family if he he is successful he will be able to attract and keep a good woman . A woman works hard and makes money to look after herself. Hence she is independent, needs no man. More importantly, a man would not see the point of trying to keep and care for a woman who clearly has aimed her whole life at caring for only herself. hence she is unlikely to want to cook and care for him. he does not want a competition or a equal partner he want a wife.
The incels are all over these comments sis #messagenotreceived
Discussing what i saw in the preview of summary at the beginning of rhe video
Not single, sistas got boyfriends, sugar daddies, playmates and girl on girl relationships.
Sistas ain't really single and sexless.
1 Corinthians 7:8-9 I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I. 9But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.
Blk women need to stop listening to society as you see according to the scriptures being single is not a bad thing .
King James Bible 1 Corinthians 7:34 ►
There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.
by the responses people are providing i find most people are either dismissive of the content of the video (that has nothing to do with romantic partnerships) or confounded to the point it's difficult to accept that the answer to "now what?" has nothing to do with relationships.
Those are bogus stats. Where did you get those numbers from.
I know links don't really work in the comment sections, but I think when you're on a laptop you may be able to atleast copy and past it:
blackdemographics.com/population/black-women-statistics/
www.eviemagazine.com/post/45-percent-women-are-expected-to-be-single-and-childless-by-2030
Well in the 1920s and before, up until the pickme was outed every woman had a man because she was sharing. I guess the 50% now days aint into sharing. Well to each his oh her own.
63% of men in gen z aren't seeking nor looking for committed relationships.
So those 50% of sistas in relationships are still sharing.
I know my 5 girlfriends are
If you want to date black women get a brazillian or Cuban or Dominican woman,they are blackwomen as well
¿queee?
@@thesimoneestelle voce sabe es veldad
They’re more likely to run your pockets, have higher standards and expect more from their male counterparts due to cultural norms, or kidnap and rob you so have fun! Run don’t walk.
Agreed! I did that!
True that
I’m gonna need you to stop smoking green before your videos ma’am.. what point are you trying to make here?
I've never seen anyone imply rambling or demand a point to be made on anyone else's podcast. The point of a podcast is to talk, this isn't a classroom where you're obligated an answer to anything.
I just plan on having babies thats it.😊
Adopt
@@user-oh2gw8ni7qjust get girls pregnant and move on
Where are you from?
I wanna answer but I also want to ask why do you ask😂
@@thesimoneestelle just curious, I caught an accent
@@thesimoneestelleI'm from saint louis Missouri
Now buy a dog 🐶
This is why polygamy needs to be revisited
I can't wait to cover this on my Patreon😂 I like how this episode was nothing about relationships, but nearly everyone commenting is talking about relationships😭
@purposexbeauty on the real it needs to be looked into . Base off the number of single women I believe it's needed
Mormons getting busy
oh i didn’t mean covering what you suggested, i mean covering the amount of responses that have nothing to do with the content of the video
If you look it this like it's one half getting better, then what happens to your Sons? Like it or not, we're all in this together. Problem is being woke isn't enough, WE have to respect ourselves first! Because WE aren't acknowledging that the willie lynch mindset is still at work. Don't see it because we're in denial about it. The answer is not religion but the application of Dueteronomy 6:1-12
it's perplexing how the content of the video has no correlation to what the majority of comments are asserting, but it's not surprising.
@@thesimoneestellethis comment is lit.
Spot on Tony. Its lost on women.
If I were black women, I would stop bashing black men on Twitter and comparing cooking, cleaning and being a good wife to slavery. No ones telling y’all to do that for nothing in return. Make a deal with whatever guy you’re dating to where he does his role and you do yours.
Not that easy...Once in say one thing do another...
Good women win husbands they want early in life.
Losers get the men that left over after 30 or embrace singleness for life.
You said a whole lot of nothing….
you’re atleast 60 years of age Mr. Davis. Out of curiosity what brought you to my page about women things?
12:15 That experiment with the dolls on children is fascinating! But damn, you are kinda all over the place lol
Your rambling
I'm talking...on a podcast.