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    I was so encouraged by your comments on my last depression clean with me video that I decided to do a part two. So join me as we deep clean my kitchen and talk more about some of the mental health challenges we may face as moms.
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    Join me as I tackle my complete disaster kitchen by deep cleaning and organizing. I am sharing some more about my experience with depression and some of the challenges I have faced.
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  • @FaithMatini
    @FaithMatini  8 місяців тому +74

    Thank you for watching today's video! Be sure to click the link in my description if you are struggling with depression and need help! ❤

  • @karaumbenhauer2049
    @karaumbenhauer2049 7 місяців тому +72

    I suffered for years with depression, I found that decluttering and minimalism is the best for me!

  • @AFPB11
    @AFPB11 7 місяців тому +17

    Sweetheart, I am a 73 year old single mother and grandmother who totally understands how you can sink deep into depression and feel overwhelmed. I have learned over the years that what we deal with is feelings and these feelings can be controlled, I pretend that I am happy when I cannot get out of bed, because pretending for me is a mind set. Mel Robbins (please watch her she will help you). Feelings are feelings and we have the ability to control them. Never feel ashamed of who you are, remind yourself how beautiful you are and how you try to do your best. You are brave and giving so much to make this world a better place by raising two wonderful boys. I admire you so much for just who you are and how you deal with your life. Take care my lovely and look in the mirror do a happy dance, tell yourself how wonderful and beautiful you are. The more you do this the more confident you will become. Please please give yourself the love you deserve. sending lots of love for you.

    • @lorrainelove1552
      @lorrainelove1552 3 місяці тому

      Bravo! 👏👏👏. Beautifully said. 💕

  • @haileemichael
    @haileemichael 8 місяців тому +93

    One thing that has helped my depression and anxiety as a mom is decluttering. I watched Dawn from the minimal mom and saw how less stuff can really help me as a mom and I don’t feel deprived or anything. I am not as extreme as Dawn but just finding my personal inventory number has been amazing! Maybe it could help you too!?! Praying for you! Being a mom is the hardest job in the world so just remember that too!

    • @debibee4507
      @debibee4507 8 місяців тому +10

      So true, I can never declutter enough, all the clutter effects my brain😢

    • @FaithMatini
      @FaithMatini  7 місяців тому +5

      Thank you Hailee! I am definitely working through decluttering as well!

    • @haileemichael
      @haileemichael 7 місяців тому +10

      @@debibee4507 same! I have decluttered my house before and still keep finding more stuff to declutter everyday! Like once my brain realized decluttering was helpful, I can’t walk into a room without seeing something I can declutter. Haha I guess it is true when they say you have to build your decluttering muscle. Lol

  • @roslynrobinson3411
    @roslynrobinson3411 7 місяців тому +179

    Please stop letting your kids dad control you. Don't put your emotions in to what he does and says. When you have an issue with him blocking the courts order than you have to report it and let them handle it. He loves to make you miserable he's getting pleasure from it. Don't send clothes or toys with the kids. Your children will start to act out if they witness your frustration with their dad. Try not calling the kids when they're with him if it upsets you. They won't forget that you're their mother while they're with him. Give it a try and be peaceful within yourself and don't let the evil of their dad steal your joy. ❤God be with you and your kids.

    • @FaithMatini
      @FaithMatini  7 місяців тому +39

      Thank you! That’s what I’ve been doing now. Just documenting and following the plan. Even though it hurts, I have learned that I still need to make an effort in terms of contacting them so I can show the judge that I made an attempt. If I don’t, then the judge may say that I don’t need to have contact with them.. but yea def not letting him control me anymore.

    • @user-sw4hg9by3u
      @user-sw4hg9by3u 7 місяців тому +9

      ​@@FaithMatiniо Господи,у вас что ваш муж забрал детей!?... Извините если так прямо задаю вопрос,я вас смотрю , помню ваших чудесных малышей, сколько тепла и души вы вложили в них,в дом ,в семью! Я перевожу текст ( через телефон) может что то не так поняла...но если вдруг это действительно правда,то в первую очередь не нужно падать духом,вы - мать ,а все матери сильные женщины! Никакой паники и депрессии! Только положительные мысли и правильный настрой вам помогут вернуть детей и чем лучше и уверенно вы будете себя чувствовать и вести,тем хуже будет психологически мужу.. только трус и нарцисс может самоутверждаться за счёт женщины и забирать детей....

    • @erikaguevara9070
      @erikaguevara9070 7 місяців тому

      ​@@user-sw4hg9by3ushe did not.

    • @Trial.And.Error1
      @Trial.And.Error1 7 місяців тому

      💙

    • @keke8880
      @keke8880 7 місяців тому +6

      Nobody "lets" someone control them. The abuser chooses to control them.

  • @queenc123456789
    @queenc123456789 7 місяців тому +24

    You aren’t alone. I took a 3 month social media Facebook break and it works. I would compare too. I struggle with depression but I’m learning that the only comparison that exists is the ones that we create in our head. You got this hun… you are doing a wonderful job. Depression is real so don’t beat yourself up. Therapy works and I’m wishing you all the best

  • @megd7860
    @megd7860 8 місяців тому +52

    For the dishwasher you can fill the rinse aid compartment with white vinegar and it works as a natural rinse aid. Makes the dishes very shiny too! 😊 Thank you for the motivation!

    • @FaithMatini
      @FaithMatini  7 місяців тому +4

      Great tip, I'll try that next time!

    • @bonnie5596
      @bonnie5596 7 місяців тому +1

      I use a rinse aid ; plus distilled white vinegar, by putting about a 1/4 c. vinegar in the bottom of the dishwasher. It works great! I never have any residue or cloudy glasses. I think the white residue might be from hard water.

    • @Suzie-he9ni
      @Suzie-he9ni 6 місяців тому +2

      I heard the acid in vinegar will eventually destroy the rubber.

    • @cristinanatale1178
      @cristinanatale1178 4 місяці тому

      ​@@FaithMatinialso never ever put dish soap from the sink in the dishwasher. The film you're seeing may be from the soap residue from the sink. Dishwasher detergent and dish soap are very different formulas. Check the manufacturer manual for the most effective dishwasher settings. Your videos help me, so I hope this info helps return the favor even just a little bit ❤️

    • @takishawillis4607
      @takishawillis4607 2 місяці тому

      I didn’t think about that thank you

  • @simabennifla8650
    @simabennifla8650 7 місяців тому +13

    Thank you for normalizing the difficulties and challenges of being a depressed mother. Your channel makes me feel like I have a “big sister” to look up to

  • @peachy_reina
    @peachy_reina 7 місяців тому +14

    Sending HUGE hugs from a mom of 5 who also suffers from depression. You're doing an AMAZING JOB. You are strong, you are worthy, and one day your babies will look back and see all that you have done for them. Don't give up, mamas! ❤❤

  • @BQV1935
    @BQV1935 8 місяців тому +22

    I havent looked at your videos for a while was listening to your story first thing i want you to know you dont let no one dim your light...you doing the best you can do for your children...and if no one even told you i love you and thank you for sharing your story with your subscribers ❤️❤❤❤❤ 😇🙏🏾

    • @FaithMatini
      @FaithMatini  7 місяців тому

      Thank you so much Veronica! ❤️

  • @suzyashby8777
    @suzyashby8777 8 місяців тому +19

    I have depression as well. It is a real thing. Great job ❤❤❤❤

    • @FaithMatini
      @FaithMatini  7 місяців тому +1

      Sending hugs! 🤗🤗

  • @yvonnebannon7623
    @yvonnebannon7623 7 місяців тому +14

    Hi. You are referring to Anthony Bourdain - famous food critic who traveled the world. Also, Kate Spade- famous designer. So you are right-it doesn’t matter how much money a person has. Depression can kill.
    Thank you for sharing your journey-one thing that you brought to light for me is the going over past mistakes etc which can allow a person to feel like they shouldn’t go on. Very true!
    Is it possible for you to hire someone to help you clean? Even just once or twice a month? You have two little ones and that must be overwhelming to take care of them and have to worry about cleaning up. But you do a wonderful job and your place is gorgeous!!!
    Hugs!!!!! ❤️

  • @Vivian-Da-Artist
    @Vivian-Da-Artist 4 місяці тому +2

    I love your videos. I do a 5 minute pick up everyday, sometimes twice a day to keep my place neat, then a clean up once a week. This really works great when you have little kids. You do the 5 min pick up before bed or before you go out or before watching tv or working on your computer. It makes your life much easier and keeps depression away. Take care of yourself and say good things about yourself. Bless you.

  • @karafawcett1744
    @karafawcett1744 7 місяців тому +6

    If no one has told you, you're amazing and you're doing an awesome job!

  • @suzyashby8777
    @suzyashby8777 8 місяців тому +5

    My depression is trauma from health. And , also diabetes. Everyone is so different. ❤❤❤

    • @FaithMatini
      @FaithMatini  7 місяців тому

      Yes! I pray you get better! 🤗

  • @saralynlewis
    @saralynlewis 8 місяців тому +20

    Hello. I have missed watching your motivational videos. You are not alone. Depression is a real thing. Take it one day at a time. Hang in there. I'm happy to see you. God bless you and your adorable sons. ❤❤❤

    • @FaithMatini
      @FaithMatini  7 місяців тому

      Thank you! God bless you too! 🤗

  • @tori6985
    @tori6985 7 місяців тому +9

    I'm so glad you don't post for awhile and then come back with a bang. It's like you know we're all struggling and then you pop up and make us feel so much in just one video. 🎉

  • @latrendadriver
    @latrendadriver 7 місяців тому +2

    I understand your struggle. I am going through that right now. My depression is from being a single mother and taking care of everything and not having as much help so I understand what you’re going through.😢

  • @KaeshaNkengbeza-mo7qn
    @KaeshaNkengbeza-mo7qn Місяць тому

    I had anxiety/depression while pregnant with baby #3 because the first two children were 3 yrs old and 2 years old. My therapist was very understanding too. My husband has two jobs so I’m home with them crawling over me all day.
    That’s was 3 years ago. Now that the older kids are school aged, the load has lightened, praise the Lord. ♥️🫂 Praying for you, Faith!

  • @bgar9818
    @bgar9818 8 місяців тому +12

    Faith you can add white vinegar to the dishwasher, there should be a “rinse aid” component you pour the vinegar in there and it will help the dishes to rinse well and come out with no cloudiness! ❤

    • @catherinedurbin9298
      @catherinedurbin9298 8 місяців тому

      Yes this! I just throw it into the dishwasher 😂 works great

    • @FaithMatini
      @FaithMatini  7 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for the tip! Ill try it!

  • @krystalmorgan8367
    @krystalmorgan8367 8 місяців тому +4

    Anthony Bourdain is who you’re talking about. And I’m praying for you. It is hard and usually we make sure others are ok and happy and we forget about ourselves. It’s a daily battle but it’s ok to not be ok. Thank you for sharing. ❤

    • @FaithMatini
      @FaithMatini  7 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for your prayers! They are much appreciated!

  • @taira5083
    @taira5083 7 місяців тому +6

    Hi Faith. I’ve never been diagnosed with depression but then again, you don’t need a doctor to tell you when you’re sad. I truly appreciate your opening up and sharing your dilemma because I know it’s not easy but, as a society of humans with human emotions, we are all in the same boat at some point in our lives. Whether we want to admit it or not, someone has hurt us, broke our heart, deceived us, lied to us and befriended us under false pretexts. It happens unfortunately and the only way to grow and not be so gullible next time is to get through the storm this time as unscathed as possible. We will hurt, go through all the emotions associated with that hurt and then evolve. Please know that you will evolve and know that the disguise that came at you and wooed you the first time will have to have a better stylist the next time you fall in love. Just know that it’s great to take time out and get reacquainted with you and concentrate on your kids, but don’t forget you’re a living, breathing human being who is loving and needs love just as much as the next person. Don’t block your blessings or your romantic opportunities just because one someone chose to belittle you and make you feel less than because you are more than enough when you realize that if you were worth nothing, you wouldn’t be here. Take care and God bless.

  • @canaldequalquercoisa
    @canaldequalquercoisa 7 місяців тому +3

    You are such an inspiration. I played your video while I cleaned my bathroom and my kitchen. I didn't finish my cleaning, but you made me had given the first step 🩵

  • @shamikareid7893
    @shamikareid7893 8 місяців тому +4

    ❤❤❤❤
    Thank you for being so transparent!! Depression comes in many forms!! Thank you for sharing!!!

    • @FaithMatini
      @FaithMatini  7 місяців тому

      Thank you for watching! ❤️

  • @elainegomes2108
    @elainegomes2108 7 місяців тому +7

    Sou sua seguidora Brasileira que torce muito por você ❤ Acredito na sua cura contra depressão, acredito que você vai superar ! Obrigada por compartilhar sua rotina ❤❤

  • @debibee4507
    @debibee4507 8 місяців тому +5

    Thank you Faith🙏I have severe deppression, its so hard to get through the day, im in a troubled marriage so I find it almost impossible to get motivated😢❤❤❤❤❤

    • @FaithMatini
      @FaithMatini  7 місяців тому +1

      You got this girl! Sending you big hugs! 🤗

  • @RaisingThreeMarigolds
    @RaisingThreeMarigolds 7 місяців тому +1

    I’m so sorry you’ve been struggling with your co-parenting relationship and depression. I don’t personally have any experience with that, but I admire your transparency. It’s obvious you are a hard worker and great cleaner and organizer when you make it a priority, and that you love your kids deeply. I also enjoy your talking through the videos ❤

  • @assassinspoiler3488
    @assassinspoiler3488 7 місяців тому +1

    I am going thru a little depression now im alone now my kids are grown grandkids are at the age they have things to do besides go to grandmas my little dog helps me a lot i have always had ups and downs watching videos i realize im not by myself these videos help with motivation to get up and do something thank you. As far as your ex let him come get kids or they stay home or have set up a place for him to pick up kids you shouldn't have to put up with him he's being childish men are big baby's if they don't get there way my ex was worse then my boys. You just can't do everything in one day with small kids and a busy life i know sometimes you just need some me time i could never understand that but my kids were 13 years apart i couldn't imagine have kids close in age i would have probably been really stressed❤❤

  • @leashy1204
    @leashy1204 7 місяців тому +1

    Hi! 👋 I'm new to your channel! My name is Alicia - Everyone calls me Leashy. I'm from Indiana, 47 and married for 22 years. Its good to see you were able to fight thru depression amd do what you can to start your cleaning process.
    Dishwasher - you need to clean out your filter at the bottom and also use Finish jest dry. Let it run on a full setting including heat to dry. Hope that helps!👍💕

  • @CherylHoward-tc5ut
    @CherylHoward-tc5ut 7 місяців тому +2

    I am so sorry you are struggling. I, too, struggle from anxiety and depression and it is no joke. Thank you for sharing your journey. Incredible job on your kitchen ! 🎉❤

  • @EE-lj3kk
    @EE-lj3kk 4 місяці тому

    The advice on decluttering is spot on. 1 set of everything is all we need darling...no back ups allowed lol oh and wash the fruit in salt water before you put them in the fruit bowl. No more flies❤
    Get some boundaries babes

  • @debrawichmann5152
    @debrawichmann5152 7 місяців тому +4

    I'm glad to hear that your getting help from a therapist, nothing wrong with that, in fact they're a great help with many obstacles people go through in day to day struggles. I can tell that you listen to suggestions from your therapist, and I appreciate that you share your personal experiences. Love the organization in your home! You rock! I admire your perseverance, everybody's place gets messy at times, but you get it clean in-between, which is awesome! Let yourself have grace, and every once in awhile, look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself GREAT JOB! Life is a journey with many ups and downs...learn to ride that roller-coaster. Your boys seem to listen to you, that's really nice. Believe me, they watch and see what you do, they'll copy your habits, and I feel you set a great example for them.

  • @newwomandouglas2959
    @newwomandouglas2959 7 місяців тому +2

    I'm proud of your progress. Take it one day at a time. Your boys would love to learn how to help you with their rooms. Children love to help mama. It would ease some of your pain. Congratulations.

  • @DoWhatMakesYouHappyy
    @DoWhatMakesYouHappyy 4 місяці тому +1

    Anthony Bourdain! Amazing foodie chef!!! I’m so glad you shared your journey because I know someone will take away the good advices you give. You’re an amazing mom! You’re more than enough friend. Love your cleaning vids. Organization makes it so much easier.

  • @jackieginy366
    @jackieginy366 7 місяців тому

    Sis I needed this. THANK YOU!

  • @stamac5955
    @stamac5955 3 місяці тому

    Your videos are twofold: they are satisfying to watch the before and after AND you minister to my soul both spiritually and emotionally and for that Im so grateful ❤

  • @tiffanysimpson3292
    @tiffanysimpson3292 7 місяців тому +1

    I love your honesty. Thank you for sharing your struggles with depression. I struggle with it as well, and to watch you pulling yourself out of it is inspiring.

  • @EverydayNesbitt
    @EverydayNesbitt 8 місяців тому +3

    Hi Faith! You've been missed. I'm always thinking and praying for you. ❤

    • @FaithMatini
      @FaithMatini  7 місяців тому +2

      Hey Takisha! Thank you girl! ❤️❤️

  • @trina415
    @trina415 7 місяців тому +1

    Ive missed you faith you get me motivated ❤

  • @erinsteelman6131
    @erinsteelman6131 7 місяців тому

    Thank you for being so open and so real.

  • @nancyayala2217
    @nancyayala2217 7 місяців тому +1

    Miss faith thank you for how real you are with your struggles with depression. I also struggle with depression and severe anxiety, so I totally understand where you’re coming from and what you’re going through. Just remember you’ve got this in your than stronger than you think you are.

  • @lindasykes4224
    @lindasykes4224 7 місяців тому +2

    Great Job Faith!!! So glad you got the help you needed.❤❤❤

  • @ellenmensah6624
    @ellenmensah6624 7 місяців тому +2

    I love your cleaning videos and pray you receive and are able to fully benefit from all the help you are getting for your depression.

  • @nicolejeann
    @nicolejeann 7 місяців тому

    The song after you explained your situation with your ex was perfect! “I’m stronger now, I’m giving up on giving up”. Co-parenting is hard and I can relate to your feelings and side effects from depression. Good for you for doing what’s best for you so you can be the woman God made you to be and for your boys. ❤

  • @leeannibell3501
    @leeannibell3501 7 місяців тому

    You're doing great and you're an inspiration!

  • @adrianne550
    @adrianne550 7 місяців тому

    Great video !!Thanks for letting us in your lives, We're in this together, Prayers for you and your family 😊

  • @loveyah7051
    @loveyah7051 7 місяців тому

    Your kitchen looks AMAZING!!

  • @phahlamohlakaAnita3778
    @phahlamohlakaAnita3778 7 місяців тому

    Welcome back Mama and thank you for blessing us with the video🎉❤

  • @Browneyez50
    @Browneyez50 7 місяців тому

    So proud of you and I am praying for you

  • @stephsolomon1891
    @stephsolomon1891 7 місяців тому

    This has been so motivation to watch! I am also co-parenting right now and it has been difficult, you are not responsible for the actions of the other parent and you should be proud that you are working on yourself! 🤗❤

  • @srichey444
    @srichey444 7 місяців тому

    Super, Duper proud of you Sis! Praying for you and the boys Beloved. 🙏🏽✝️

  • @justdenise6838
    @justdenise6838 5 місяців тому

    ❤️ I deal with depression as well. Thanks for being transparent. I find that cleaning & putting things away while I’m cooking helps. When I’m done there’s not much to do except sweep. I’m a mom of 3. I’m so happy for you. I think we all need therapy 😀 I’m in therapy too.

  • @lizmosqueda889
    @lizmosqueda889 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for being so open and honest. I think all of us go thru trials in life because life happens or bad decisions we have made but either way you talking about it encourages me🙏💕 Thank you

  • @Afer09
    @Afer09 8 місяців тому +2

    You cleaning is sooo much in detail, love it

  • @sherriebrown1387
    @sherriebrown1387 7 місяців тому

    🤗 was passing through and enjoyed your video and yes happy to see you talking about and taking care of your mental health. God continue to bless you. He too encourages us to get good counsel for our lives. Blessings ❤

  • @seilahqlq1
    @seilahqlq1 Місяць тому

    That food at 57:27 I knew as "Fufu".
    I love the talking, these modern pop music in cleaning videos drive me mad, and you share so much knowledge about your journey.

  • @Jsween876
    @Jsween876 7 місяців тому +1

    This video motivated me to get up and tidy my apartment. Thank you for your openness. I am going through something similar and hearing your story really helps. It’s easy to feel like bad things are only happening to you but really we all have our struggles don’t we. It gets better. Sending you hugs.

  • @kristifinch7927
    @kristifinch7927 7 місяців тому

    You are doing an amazing job!! I also struggle with depression so I understand how hard it can be to motivate yourself to get things done but this was an awesome comeback ❤❤❤❤

  • @TJ-vo6ox
    @TJ-vo6ox 6 місяців тому

    That easy off looks like magic! Going to buy that in my next grocery haul. Thanks for the tip.
    Also, that internal struggle you talk about - wanting to be a good home keeper and feeling inadequate because you can’t, even due to gaining weight - I struggle with the same exact thing. I can almost cry hearing that!

  • @ChristiannaASMR
    @ChristiannaASMR 7 місяців тому

    Just found your channel and I’m in love ❤ you are so relatable ❤❤❤

  • @nevergonnagiveyouup1104
    @nevergonnagiveyouup1104 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing! I’m happy you are in a better place and getting the help you need. Great motivation video!😊😊

  • @mwhatyousaidd
    @mwhatyousaidd 6 місяців тому

    I really like how you do dishes, no need to rinse and then the dishwasher sanitizes! Thank you for your videos!

  • @elizabethrose6853
    @elizabethrose6853 7 місяців тому

    I get you! I have been there for so long. I actually just started counseling. I think wanting to be better is very important and I don’t think that it is ever good to not want to be better.

  • @CatherineCampbell-zm2fk
    @CatherineCampbell-zm2fk 7 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for the video! God bless you and your family. I understand depression & anxiety. You have motivated me more than you know. Keep up the good work ❤

  • @lalahairston9305
    @lalahairston9305 7 місяців тому

    Hello faith im new to your channel I was listening to you about depression I’m glad you are speaking on it cause it’s so many people out here who don’t know how to handle depression that’s even if they know that they are going thru depression. Depression is a lonely 😔 space to be in if you don’t get help it mentally and spiritually will break you. And possibly kill you. You are so brave for speaking on it. You could be helping so many other people who are going thru this. Just take it day by day you got this. You are doing a great job keep ya head up much love to ya channel.❤❤❤❤

  • @chichigirl214
    @chichigirl214 7 місяців тому

    Great video, Faith. Praying you❤🙏🏿❤️

  • @jackieginy366
    @jackieginy366 7 місяців тому

    You are such a blessing ❤

  • @fawkesbull504
    @fawkesbull504 3 місяці тому

    For the cloudiness, it's likely from having hard water. Run a load with vinegar then go back to your Finish for the drying. Vinegar is a safe option to help remove the mineral buildup left behind from hard water. It's why sometimes you see it even on hand-washed dishes.
    Also, when you have the energy and mental spoons, read your manual on the cleaning maintenance on your washer and dishwasher. You'd be amazed at how clean things come out and how right you might be doing things but doesn't feel like it because of a little build up from that little bit of maintenance. These things usually don't have to be done super often, either!
    You got this momma! We're rootin for ya!

  • @lapame0204
    @lapame0204 7 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤ 🤗 love this video!!! After my second pregnancy I been struggling as well physically and mentally!!! Thanks for sharing

  • @adelaidagutierrez8875
    @adelaidagutierrez8875 7 місяців тому

    You are an inspiration too many single mothers. Im so proud of you. ❤❤❤

  • @anastasiagounela3891
    @anastasiagounela3891 7 місяців тому +1

    Faith you are a strong person and I'm sure that you ll find out the way to get through the depression. Keep going all of us we support you. 🫂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lillianwaweru5475
    @lillianwaweru5475 7 місяців тому +1

    Love seeing you deep clean😊...very motivating that it can be done. On the coparenting issue, I am really sorry you are going through this. It sounds like abuse. The law does not support abuse. Regardless of him being one half of the parenting. Mutual respect is key. Drop off need not be at one's home. It ideally should be a moderate location that favors neither party. Don't take abuse silently. Document and seek legal redress. The boys are watching and you fighting for yourself is part of lessons imparted. Please don't sacrifice yourself. The process is life long. God's grace to you ❤

  • @danielle-xv1ju
    @danielle-xv1ju 7 місяців тому

    Definitely a motivational video. Your doing a great job, God bless you.❤❤❤❤

  • @GraceDandu
    @GraceDandu 8 місяців тому +4

    Omg am on your channel and thinking to myself is she OK and you dropped the video ❤❤❤

    • @FaithMatini
      @FaithMatini  7 місяців тому +2

      Yes! Thank you for checking on me! 🤗

  • @sovannahmorgan4173
    @sovannahmorgan4173 8 днів тому

    I loved this video! Mainly for all the “talking” and life sharing moments! I love hearing how you’re tackling those struggles (hugs)! Definitely gonna subscribe now and hear more about your journey!
    One part that got me was when you said to put a stop to those who are putting a boundary on you succeeding or making decisions in your own life. 😢 sounds weird but I struggle with that so much with my parents (I’m 38!) and I feel like their coming from a good place when they give their 2 cents but I take it literally and avoid doing almost anything. It’s hard!

  • @chellcute2549
    @chellcute2549 7 місяців тому

    ❤ thank you being struggling with depression and anxiety and have taking medication to cope GOD words have help me alone the way with friends and family

  • @ek.hellas6334
    @ek.hellas6334 7 місяців тому +1

    I can imagine your back is aching while cleaning. It must be very painful. I was also overweight and my pain didn't allow me to finish cleaning as fast as I wanted and that was so frustrating. I want to tell you that you aren't alone. Many people experienced similar situation like yours. You are a cute and strong person. I hope everything will be OK in your life again. God bless you girl❤

  • @melodyaceves7705
    @melodyaceves7705 6 місяців тому

    Your are incredibly intelligent and I really enjoyed your video. Thank you for your heartfelt honesty. I appreciate your comments about showing yourself grace and giving yourself a break. I agree, everything has a season and that is just life. Your home looks so nice and so does your delicious cooking!🥰

  • @kelseycray1230
    @kelseycray1230 7 місяців тому

    The Hollywood star Anthony Bourdain comes to mind, when you’re speaking about how it doesn’t matter if you “have it all”, you can still have darkness that follows you around ruining your efforts to enjoy life. Anthony had it all, a great life filled with travel, friends, family, food, success, adoring fans, book deals, etc. But all of that was not enough to pull him out of that hole. I applaud you for seeking help when you need it, and for being open about it so that others can be inspired to get help as well. Very good video it was well worth the wait. Hats off to you mama, signed a fellow mom of twin boys. ❤

  • @fatimahabdul-wahid6509
    @fatimahabdul-wahid6509 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for this great advice🙏🏽🥰❤️❤️🌹

  • @amominflorida
    @amominflorida 2 місяці тому

    Let's make posting once in a blue moon normal. I listened and watched while cleaning my kitchen and removed my oven door for the first time. Thank you!

  • @lindarose6934
    @lindarose6934 Місяць тому

    Thank you ❤

  • @danaellison8186
    @danaellison8186 7 місяців тому

    Hi! I just came across your channel. Thank you for talking about depression. I have depression/anxiety most of my life. My depression gets worse with stress and family issues etc. thank you so much for your words and inspiration. I needed to hear this. Sometimes it’s nice to hear ppl understand instead of being so negative. Cause when I am in deep depression I have someone tell me get over if I could I would so thank you for your being so kind and understanding and explaining. I’m fixing to start deep cleaning you inspiring me🙂I’m so blessed I came to your channel. Thank you 🙏 again

  • @cynthiathomas617
    @cynthiathomas617 7 місяців тому

    Ms. Faith I think you are doing an awesome job raising your 2 children. Don't let nobody steal your joy. I pray Nothing but Blessings 🙌 for you and your handsome boys.

  • @user-cp6vk9bo7o
    @user-cp6vk9bo7o 7 місяців тому

    I follow you from Saudi Arabia and I love you very much. You are wonderful. I wish you success. My greetings to everyone who commented on the video with positive energy ❤️ You are a great mother, do not forget this thing ❤️❤️

  • @mrs.dreamcast8461
    @mrs.dreamcast8461 7 місяців тому

    You did amazing. Those boys are so lucky to have you.

  • @hamilton8122
    @hamilton8122 7 місяців тому

    I love that you talk. I can’t clean and watch at same time. Knowing ur cleaning and hear u talk feel like a friend is with me. I’ve always struggled with depression and anxiety also bipolar. When I was younger I was a clean freak. Had my son at 30 and everything got worse. I always thought when you get older it would ease up but it gets worse. My son’s father is like your ex. I take medications but they only do so much and counseling has helped a little but it’s getting to the point I can barely leave my house. Cleaning a dish I have to make a big deal about. My son’s autistic just feel like a fail no matter what.

  • @Kaylaa124
    @Kaylaa124 6 місяців тому

    found this video in my recommended and i was not disappointed! New subbie🎉 Great job!❤

  • @ak0p.
    @ak0p. 8 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for sharing! God bless you

    • @FaithMatini
      @FaithMatini  7 місяців тому

      Same to you! Thank you so much for watching! ❤️ ❤️

  • @2cool4school_v
    @2cool4school_v 8 місяців тому

    You are amazing. Dealing every day with kids, cleaning, cooking, other things which are necessary that you and your kids move on. Just relax, you are doing everything super good, in the past and in the present. You are the best. Don’t think about the mistakes, and if they bother you, say to yourself, I have right to mistakes, like everybody else.

  • @elainehendrickson3779
    @elainehendrickson3779 7 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing your experiences! Depression is real! My son took his life at 40 years old 😢 Keep strong and enjoy life ❤️

  • @mommyofthetrade9315
    @mommyofthetrade9315 3 місяці тому

    Just wanted to say Hi! Been rocking wit you for a long while now and you definitely one the top creators that inspire me to keep going in life as well as a content creator, I can't wait till I'm blessed to be where you are as a content creator, and concerning what your struggling with emotionally your definitely not alone and one thing I learned is with anything you do be in that moment one thing at a time and breath other then that stay encouraged and keep doing your thang sis!

  • @lishal375
    @lishal375 5 місяців тому

    Faith i been where u are. When things get rough pray! Pray, and tell the devil how good god is🙏🏾💖💪🏾

  • @Afer09
    @Afer09 8 місяців тому +2

    Your children will love you , respect you and. admire for the live you are creating for them. Do not mention the one that will never be in their lives , do not give him a place because he doesnt own it You are a very brave mum, you going throuht the hardest , let the other part get away, and do no be, is better for you and your kids.

    • @FaithMatini
      @FaithMatini  7 місяців тому

      Thank you so much for your kind words! ❤️

  • @serenalatorre2323
    @serenalatorre2323 7 місяців тому

    ❤ Great video Faith. Thank you for talking about what your going thru. It takes alot of courage to share. I call it a testimony and it's growing everyday. God bless.❤

  • @crystalbruner524
    @crystalbruner524 2 місяці тому

    ❤️🤗 I have depression and anxiety as well and I know how you feel 😔 sometimes it's hard for me to fight it but your videos inspire me. I also have kids I have 3 kid's

  • @kata-chankurosaki8683
    @kata-chankurosaki8683 7 місяців тому

    I love your videos so much, I love to listen to your talks and learn so much from you. You motivate me alot because I can totaly relate to you, I am struggling too and it helped me alot to learn that I am not alone. here is a heart ❤ and a big hug 🤗

  • @HairiaAsukaFoglino-qo4dt
    @HairiaAsukaFoglino-qo4dt 7 місяців тому

    You keep me a great Company and comfort🎉thxx❤❤❤

  • @sheresehenrygayle2514
    @sheresehenrygayle2514 7 місяців тому

    I enjoy all your videos I have been watching for years when you do post a video I loved that u realize that you have the power, your an amazing person and parent continue to be strong ❤

  • @sunshineeh1555
    @sunshineeh1555 7 місяців тому

    Thanks for your videos.. appreciate you.. I just got up and did somethings around the house while listening to your video… thanks for the motivation… ❤