Im a therapist , and I'm proud of you! It's a process and a difficult illness. Everyone has their own journey to work on. There is a high rate of childhood adversities/trauma with individuals who suffer from SZ. Dont worry about what you think others think about you. It doesn't matter! Maybe they need some education in this area. There are people who understand and if you start having negative thoughts about yourself, this feeds into the negative self talk, distortions, and reinforces the illness. People in other countries have had better success with sz due to a lot of support from their community/culture with the thought that spirits are able to connect with individuals with sz. Hang in there, i believe in you, many blessings to you.
Sean, you are smart. And you are correct. Please look up and read about 'learned helplessness'. There may be people in your life who enjoy/have come to expect that you will rely on them to make decisions for you. When you begin to change your behavior (address your illness and not be a victim, as you say), they may begin treating you differently. They may begin treating you differently (and sometimes badly) because you are showing that you no longer need them as much as they previously thought. This can be a really hard cycle to break free from. I struggle with it all the time, too. Hang in there. I would suggest that you try to learn to spend most of your time in the frame of mind which you are in now, if you can manage it. You have clarity now.
Q With childhood trauma, we may know what happened to us,but as we experience life events how we process our past will be impacted. With time, things heal.
Aside from the Christian stuff, this speaks volumes. Had to leave my ex and work on a farm to get better. Nobody told me that till i was on the shot.. but it's been a year and I'm tapering off the gunk. Almost off meds now, i keep feeling sorry for myself because I'm still on something and I finally feel normal on the days I skip meds by accident. Just hanging in there. It's fkn hard when I know I'm not psychotic anymore and I know what symptoms I'm prone to, and then some lady has the audacity to tell me what my experience of life is. Man some people don't even get their feelings back or they're cooped up in a hospital for years which makes them sicker. There's hope on the other side if you're willing to fight for yourself and know when to give in. I was making art and music the whole time just to stay alive and still feel like I know myself and my life is worthwhile.
@seanpavlik_mentalhealth yea, language is really important. When things were worded to me in a condescending inpatient manner, I didn't get the message.
While I personally don’t believe in any god, I definitely agree with you when you say that a lot of people aren’t willing to take the steps to set themselves on the right path of recovery.
@@seanpavlik_mentalhealth I was there myself, at one point. I’d have rather wallowed in my own misery from being an outcast, rather than helping myself become the person I wanted to be. I remember one day it just kind of clicked. I didn’t have to be constantly miserable anymore, my life was in my hands, and it was time for me to try something different.
My friend passed from his illness in 2018, and what may have saved him then were if those in his daily environment were informed of what his symptoms looked like in psychosis (it's harder to discern with religious preoccupations unless family, friends, neighbors and roommates know what their behaviors and perspectives are while in remission).
I am sorry for your loss. I hope this video doesn't seem offensive. I'm trying to help people think like I do about this illness. I know for some people it won't apply. Thank you for the comment.
@@seanpavlik_mentalhealth Thank you, not offensive at all. I think reliable outside supports can be helpful to measure progress, relapse, recovery and maybe someone will read this in advance of needing a safety plan and make one with their supports.
Hey Sean, thanks for the reply buddy. I like your resilient mindset. You have a fresh and unique perspective and always have something valuable to add to the conversation. God bless you, best wishes from Australia.
Also, I'd encourage you to exercise self compassion. We may not always feel 100% fine, but we're doing fine and will continue to do just fine. You are wise, I believe in you.
How do I help my older sister who I think has paranoid schizophrenia to the point where she believes she’s micro chipped or people around her are plotting against her and stalking her but she doesn’t know who. Whenever I say something about her seeing a doctor she gets very upset and says she’s not crazy or paranoid. I don’t want to push her away again as she’s never really talked to me as it is growing up. She’s been through trauma from the same person I have and my other younger sisters which is my step dad. Whenever I try to talk about my thoughts towards the trauma my sisters are very avoidant talking about it whereas I’m comfortable because I’ve been going to therapy and doing cbt. I just don’t want her to have to go through this; she quit her job bc of the gang stalking and has since moved states with some family friends who I think she will be in good hands with. Should I reach out to them and ask if they’ve noticed anything? I’m not sure I just want to help her some way
I hope ur doing okay. U seem like a really nice guy ❤
Im a therapist , and I'm proud of you! It's a process and a difficult illness. Everyone has their own journey to work on. There is a high rate of childhood adversities/trauma with individuals who suffer from SZ. Dont worry about what you think others think about you. It doesn't matter! Maybe they need some education in this area. There are people who understand and if you start having negative thoughts about yourself, this feeds into the negative self talk, distortions, and reinforces the illness. People in other countries have had better success with sz due to a lot of support from their community/culture with the thought that spirits are able to connect with individuals with sz. Hang in there, i believe in you, many blessings to you.
Thank you!!
Sean, you are smart. And you are correct. Please look up and read about 'learned helplessness'. There may be people in your life who enjoy/have come to expect that you will rely on them to make decisions for you. When you begin to change your behavior (address your illness and not be a victim, as you say), they may begin treating you differently. They may begin treating you differently (and sometimes badly) because you are showing that you no longer need them as much as they previously thought. This can be a really hard cycle to break free from. I struggle with it all the time, too. Hang in there. I would suggest that you try to learn to spend most of your time in the frame of mind which you are in now, if you can manage it. You have clarity now.
This rings true. There can be a vicious cycle with people that goes on. I'm definitely trying to break free. Thank you for your comment!
Love the little house. Does it bringing peace?
It's my Dad's shed :) but yes it's a peaceful place to sit on the picnic table he made
Inspiring message. Thanks. God is good, friend :)
Amen :) !! You're welcome.
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With childhood trauma, we may know what happened to us,but as we experience life events how we process our past will be impacted. With time, things heal.
Yes I agree. Time can heal a lot. And an active role in this process definitely helps in my experience!
Aside from the Christian stuff, this speaks volumes. Had to leave my ex and work on a farm to get better. Nobody told me that till i was on the shot.. but it's been a year and I'm tapering off the gunk.
Almost off meds now, i keep feeling sorry for myself because I'm still on something and I finally feel normal on the days I skip meds by accident. Just hanging in there. It's fkn hard when I know I'm not psychotic anymore and I know what symptoms I'm prone to, and then some lady has the audacity to tell me what my experience of life is.
Man some people don't even get their feelings back or they're cooped up in a hospital for years which makes them sicker.
There's hope on the other side if you're willing to fight for yourself and know when to give in. I was making art and music the whole time just to stay alive and still feel like I know myself and my life is worthwhile.
We need to help those with this illness who can't help themselves. And those who can, encourage them to do so.
@seanpavlik_mentalhealth yea, language is really important. When things were worded to me in a condescending inpatient manner, I didn't get the message.
You are so so beautiful....God bless you ❤❤❤
You are so kind !!
I have schizophrenia as well
How are you managing?
While I personally don’t believe in any god, I definitely agree with you when you say that a lot of people aren’t willing to take the steps to set themselves on the right path of recovery.
Thanks for the comment! I hope to be a reminder that change is possible.
@@seanpavlik_mentalhealth I was there myself, at one point. I’d have rather wallowed in my own misery from being an outcast, rather than helping myself become the person I wanted to be. I remember one day it just kind of clicked. I didn’t have to be constantly miserable anymore, my life was in my hands, and it was time for me to try something different.
Excellent!!
Handsome, and so insightful I can listen to you go on and on
Thanks for the compliment :) !!
My friend passed from his illness in 2018, and what may have saved him then were if those in his daily environment were informed of what his symptoms looked like in psychosis (it's harder to discern with religious preoccupations unless family, friends, neighbors and roommates know what their behaviors and perspectives are while in remission).
I am sorry for your loss. I hope this video doesn't seem offensive. I'm trying to help people think like I do about this illness. I know for some people it won't apply. Thank you for the comment.
@@seanpavlik_mentalhealth Thank you, not offensive at all. I think reliable outside supports can be helpful to measure progress, relapse, recovery and maybe someone will read this in advance of needing a safety plan and make one with their supports.
Very interesting
Thanks! How come?
Hey Sean, thanks for the reply buddy. I like your resilient mindset. You have a fresh and unique perspective and always have something valuable to add to the conversation.
God bless you, best wishes from Australia.
Also, I'd encourage you to exercise self compassion. We may not always feel 100% fine, but we're doing fine and will continue to do just fine. You are wise, I believe in you.
Your aware and insighful keep on keeping on ❤ from eire
Thank you, will do !!
How do I help my older sister who I think has paranoid schizophrenia to the point where she believes she’s micro chipped or people around her are plotting against her and stalking her but she doesn’t know who. Whenever I say something about her seeing a doctor she gets very upset and says she’s not crazy or paranoid. I don’t want to push her away again as she’s never really talked to me as it is growing up. She’s been through trauma from the same person I have and my other younger sisters which is my step dad. Whenever I try to talk about my thoughts towards the trauma my sisters are very avoidant talking about it whereas I’m comfortable because I’ve been going to therapy and doing cbt. I just don’t want her to have to go through this; she quit her job bc of the gang stalking and has since moved states with some family friends who I think she will be in good hands with. Should I reach out to them and ask if they’ve noticed anything? I’m not sure I just want to help her some way
I made a video about this if you check my channel but I might make a specific video later today answering your question.