How to be more assertive without being aggressive

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  • Опубліковано 20 гру 2024

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  • @dona5210
    @dona5210 2 роки тому +7

    As a young woman in corporate America that was raised by immigrants, this was really great to listen to! I feel like being raised by people who never fully felt like they fit in conditioned me to believe i need yo jump through every hoop possible to make a good impression at work and realistically that hurts ME and the team so much more than helping anyone. Thank you for taking the time to create this!

    • @SheenGurrib
      @SheenGurrib  2 роки тому +1

      Im so glad it resonated with you, thanks Dona 🥳

  • @aqua2752
    @aqua2752 26 днів тому

    Hi sheen. Very nice video. I think empathy is an important part of assertiveness, and empathy is the soft power that connects people. We need more empathy in the workplace as it is..and its not happening much. I also feel that expressing empathy upfront dilutes the unbeknownst comparison should it happen away from the conversation. Men are less likely to empathise because of their ego, and competitive nature. This can flare up assertiveness. That said, women with masculine traits are no different but because females empower one another...they are best positioned to understand assertiveness and its power and are more effective in its delivery as opposed to men.

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 2 роки тому +8

    Sometimes, it’s hard to stand up to authority figures due to prior conditioning. Also, obedience is an overrated virtue: It is often a reason to exploit someone.

  • @yuechunli2368
    @yuechunli2368 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much Sheen!!!!!!You video always gives me a sense of motivation and I could learn more lessons from it! And I really like your speaking style!!!very soft and pleasant!

  • @peri6788
    @peri6788 2 роки тому +2

    Ramadan mubarak 💛

  • @Tamimt153
    @Tamimt153 2 роки тому +4

    This video came in perfect timing i just got a leading position and noticed that I'm kind of shy when it comes to speaking my mind. Thanks Sheen

    • @SheenGurrib
      @SheenGurrib  2 роки тому +3

      Congratulations! Im so glad its useful :)

  • @hibaimene9684
    @hibaimene9684 2 роки тому

    This was very helpful and deserves more views 💛

  • @MayYean
    @MayYean 2 роки тому

    omg 6:06 is the tip i never knew i needed! not saying no or yes but giving yourself flexibility through options, ugh thanks so much for sharing Sheen 🙏

  • @usefulthings518
    @usefulthings518 2 роки тому

    I love this types of videos,
    Thank you,
    Keep going

  • @andrewcharlesmoss
    @andrewcharlesmoss 2 роки тому

    Really good advice, Sheen!

  • @Shannyyyyyyy
    @Shannyyyyyyy 2 роки тому +1

    Love you Sheen ❤️🌹🤗

  • @ahteshamalam9038
    @ahteshamalam9038 2 роки тому

    Thank you for this wonderful video

  • @nelbiss
    @nelbiss 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for this video.
    Am still in uni doing a legal degree and this really helped me understand the importance of this skill, especially in the field I am in.
    Keep it up Sheen! 💯

  • @cashmerehazel21
    @cashmerehazel21 2 роки тому

    8:54 I think it's not necessary to agree to change our own opinions or try too hard to influence others to change their opinions. End of the day, we can all agree to disagree but we make a decision (this could mean either one party's opinion is taken as the decision or it could be something else entirely such as "wait and see" decision) and then both parties *COMMIT* to it. So that there will be one message going out to the organization instead of _"I wanted to do this but he said that was better, so let's see who's right"._

  • @tabibahmed8494
    @tabibahmed8494 2 роки тому +1

    Love you sheen for your thoughts..love from india

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 2 роки тому

    Yes, the tone with what one says is important but we have to be aware of tone policing.

  • @sanjusherpa333
    @sanjusherpa333 2 роки тому +1

    I accidently liked(thumbs up) this video when I purposely liked this video

  • @shohelyalam6229
    @shohelyalam6229 2 роки тому

    Apu, please make more Videos 🌿🌿

  • @АлександрПшокин
    @АлександрПшокин 2 роки тому

    Felicidades, es un buen ejemplo. 468 sentadillas son unos QQGIRLS.Uno muchas y un buen ejercicio. Se deja ver que hay muy buenos resultados 😍👍 Saludos desde la Cd.. de world 🌹😉💖 los mortalese abian apreciado tan hermosa mujer.k

  • @jacobsed6665
    @jacobsed6665 2 роки тому +3

    Omg I forgot you existed