Hoarder to MINIMALIST| 4 Years of Decluttering Before and After

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  • @charisbarks5241
    @charisbarks5241 Рік тому +302

    I've spent weeks and weeks cleaning and decluttering my elderly parents' home. It's hard to part with things, but please don't leave your hoarding and clutter for someone else to deal with. Most likely, they'll have to deal it with during one of the worst times of their lives: when you've passed on, and they are in mourning and already emotionally overwhelmed, and it will become their responsibility right at the one moment when they have the least time, energy and emotional fortitude to do it. It's tragic and exhausting and it hurts!

    • @quickflip7185
      @quickflip7185 Рік тому +47

      This times x 1000! It took me years to go through my late mother's things. I even stored her belongings in a storage unit for a year, paid movers to bring them to my house when the unit rent increased, and guess what? Ended up donating 99% of it. What a waste of time and money! Lesson learned. I am determined not to burden my adult children with the same.

    • @marylut6077
      @marylut6077 Рік тому +11

      However, Dad (due to Depression era mentality) had 55 years of easy-to-trash stuff: periodicals, articles, maps, account statements, tax returns, photos of no one us kids recognized. The rest we auctioned or donated

    • @marylut6077
      @marylut6077 Рік тому +10

      Tip: buy enough bins to fit the space, pull out 1 item at a time and pop it right into a bin or trash

    • @kiwikim5163
      @kiwikim5163 Рік тому +26

      My sis and I spent a month decluttering my parents’ condo after mom died. Dad fought us every day. It was as a horrible experience. I’m trying to get rid of as much as possible so my kid will not have to deal with it.

    • @nm2795
      @nm2795 Рік тому +8

      Thank u for sharing ur journey. I love how u say it doesn’t matter if it takes a week or today. Bc sometimes time is not my friend. So thank u. The stuff u said helped me a lot. Not to beat myself up. Which of course I do all the time. I’m a single momma and work all the time. So it seems somedays we got home just in time for bed. So cleaning is out the door. Today going to grocery store then cleaning while kids r at their dads😆

  • @patriciacerwin6266
    @patriciacerwin6266 Рік тому +362

    Enjoyed this video immensely. But i especially like the honesty of admitting to being overwhelmed and then recognizing if it takes a week to do, so be it. Im in my 70s, overwhelmed and doing a little every day. I get discouraged because i see little progress. You give me hope!

    • @edennis8578
      @edennis8578 Рік тому +32

      I'm 68 and I know what you mean. I've been finding that as long as there's any clutter in a spot, it doesn't look like much is happening. Then when it's finally clear, the change seems sudden. It's taken me over a year, but I'm finally seeing a noticeable difference.

    • @carolentringer8836
      @carolentringer8836 Рік тому +4

      You have beautiful quilts!

    • @charlottegalbreath7626
      @charlottegalbreath7626 Рік тому +13

      =I love the look of items in cannisters, but what do you do with the sugar or flour that is left in the original packaging? Isn't that storing the item twice?

    • @brendaramsbottom8693
      @brendaramsbottom8693 Рік тому +5

      Keep plugging along… 🥰🥰

    • @LaerkeTv
      @LaerkeTv Рік тому +6

      3 new bins ..just for cans. What happened to the 2 old blue ones?? It may be minimalistic..but it it’s not sustainable… which (for me) is way more important.

  • @cavhutch
    @cavhutch 11 місяців тому +38

    Decluttering is harder than you think because of good memories, health at the time, other commitments - so well done. Decluttering is an ongoing process which really never ends. 82 year old minimalist. 😁👍

  • @susan5661
    @susan5661 Рік тому +116

    My cookbooks are long gone. It is so easy to find great recipes online. I did create a recipe holder 3 ring binder with cooking dividers. For the recipes I truly love, I print them, slide them into a plastic sleeve and into my binder. It’s my best system ever

    • @Diniecita
      @Diniecita Рік тому +3

      I do this too. I tend to like recipes from other places. American food is unhealthy and boring to me.

    • @melaniehancock2210
      @melaniehancock2210 Рік тому +3

      I do the same!!

  • @dalemonn2782
    @dalemonn2782 Рік тому +212

    I don't agree with some of the pantry organizing methods: 1. The canned goods are in bins so you can't readily see what you have. Do you want to pick up each can to see what it is? 2. If you decant dry goods into jars, don't forget to cut the instructions out of the box and slide it into the jar so it can be read. 3. Organizing doesn't have to mean putting items into bins or jars or whatever. It is possible to be organized with things just sitting on the shelf! It's not all about making it look pretty, it's about function.

    • @kaythegardener
      @kaythegardener Рік тому +8

      How large was her family & how often does she shop for groceries?? I have a friend with a very small kitchen, so she goes 5-7 times/month, between her & the cat running short. I try to go 1-2x/ month & have dedicated a linen closet to my storage, with no pets.

    • @BLUECRABNETWORK
      @BLUECRABNETWORK Рік тому +14

      I put everything in bins. I love it. It looks clean and neat. I have some labeled incase I dont want to look through it.
      But, cans in bins cleans up the area so much!
      Cans are ugly. Lol so put those away.
      You are the one who constantly looks at it, and you pretty much know what you've bought.
      I think all the ideas are great!

    • @Hbdrsyhueio
      @Hbdrsyhueio Рік тому +11

      I think so. I have to spend much money on the organiser boxes. They are made from plastic and not good for the environment

    • @GoogleUser-wx8mw
      @GoogleUser-wx8mw Рік тому +15

      My style of storage is a bit different, but this video really motivates me! Now I want to declutter my kitchen and bathroom storage closets even more. I have a piece of furniture in another room with a lot of paper work in it. I want to clear it out, keep only what I need for taxes, file that stuff in my office, and use that space for candles that are used in that room. Your journey helps me dream of a home that serves me better. Thanks for being vulnerable and keeping it real.

    • @AngelaMStovall
      @AngelaMStovall Рік тому

      ​@@Hbdrsyhueio NOT hing we do as consumers is good for the environment 🤷🏼‍♀️ I've been trying to get ppl to listen since 1980 but everyone said for me to calm down 🤔😒❗️Well now it's to big & to little, to late for individual consumers to have any impact at all to many of us would have to change which would only fix the REAL PROBLEMS anyway, drum roll please 🙏 well mega corporations OF COURSE. So we need to force our governments to understand it's by the ppl for the ppl & corporations are NOT REALLY PEOPLE, WTGDF❗️

  • @sarahsmith3859
    @sarahsmith3859 9 місяців тому +9

    I like bins. It helps with adhd, and “pantry blindness.” My kids can go to the snack bin, bread bin, breakfast bin, whatever, and see what’s available without being distracted by the whole of the pantry. It’s also great for sticky things like syrup or honey to be in those clear bins. And lastly, a lovely pantry is inspiring and peaceful. We all need inspiration and peace.

  • @HereIAm247
    @HereIAm247 Рік тому +25

    I am not a minimalist to this extent. But the magical thing about minimalism is, things just stay organised. Effortlessly. Because there is not that much to create a mess - and they are easy to put away fast, because there is actually space for them in the cupboards.
    When I first started decluttering, it is actually shocking how much junk I was storing, that I never used. And now that I have less (I think I got rid of about 50% - I didn't have a specific goal in mind), I enjoy opening every drawer and closet. I enjoy cleaning, because I don't have to think about what to do with all the clutter first.
    It is not so much about having as little as possible - it is about having the appropriate amount of things for the space, and a functional system to keep it organised.

  • @danaplate6459
    @danaplate6459 Рік тому +102

    This video really shows how minimalizing is a layered PROCESS! So helpful to revisit spaces over time and with gained experience! I love your channel!

    • @FancyThatwithCandice
      @FancyThatwithCandice  Рік тому +9

      Yes!!! Peel away the LAYERS of your home a little at a time! So happy you enjoy my content!

    • @NaturallyGifted77
      @NaturallyGifted77 Рік тому +2

      True

    • @randolphfox5999
      @randolphfox5999 Рік тому

      @@NaturallyGifted77 p

    • @DenyDefendDepose2
      @DenyDefendDepose2 Рік тому

      She still owns a ton. Having kids isn't minimalist, it's a real problem, especially with the climate crisis. People in the imperialist core shouldn't be breeding. Check out Small Changes, another "minimalist" but with a shit ton of kids. But her house is the most minimalist I've seen for a "family." The "nuclear" family is so fucking capitalist. Read Engels on the origin of the family and private property. Booj as fuck.

    • @DenyDefendDepose2
      @DenyDefendDepose2 Рік тому

      @@FancyThatwithCandice some of us did it all at once.

  • @Summer_and_Rain
    @Summer_and_Rain Рік тому +29

    This shows how most of us had to go though many decluttering trips to get to where we are :) It is not often you can go from a big house full off stuff to a small studio with almost nothing, it is a process that teaches you what is imported to your life and your life alone

  • @vondrabejot9851
    @vondrabejot9851 Рік тому +71

    Years ago when I first realized I needed to do better in organizing my house with 4 children that were born in 5 years. You took me back instantly when you said, "nothing on the floor". My actual first step was "nothing on the table" Day 2 was "nothing on the floor". Sad to say 2 took me weeks. But I'm so glad that myself and my children were able to build that life skill. Love your channel. Minimalism has been a lifelong journey for me. I'm glad to have found a friend along the journey.

    • @margaretgreene1929
      @margaretgreene1929 Рік тому +2

      With 4 kids you only took 2 weeks to reach 'nothing on the floor' That is a 'miracle' . Two months would have been amazing. You are Super Woman! Well done

    • @vondrabejot9851
      @vondrabejot9851 Рік тому

      @@margaretgreene1929 Sorry, you miss read what I wrote. It took me longer than 2 weeks. I will say that my skills improved after teaching for over 30 years. Just remember that relationships are more important than cleaning skills. But I have learned that children love to please and they thrive best in a safe, structured environment.

  • @Bigmama-rj9ih
    @Bigmama-rj9ih Рік тому +74

    I just came across your channel and this is just what I need right now. My mom passed away 2 years ago and I have been in depression since then. My house is an absolute mess and needs attention desperately. Seeing someone else go through being overwhelmed is a great help. Thank you for being vulnerable.

    • @GenRN
      @GenRN Рік тому +10

      I feel this. I’ve been here, too. Wishing you peace and happiness.

    • @Jennifer-nz2ss
      @Jennifer-nz2ss Рік тому +12

      I promise it will be okay. Just start somewhere, anywhere to begin. A junk drawer is good or whatever you decide. Don't let others deter you either. Just keep going. 💜

    • @tracyd2598
      @tracyd2598 Рік тому +5

      I'm right there with you.

  • @kimberlystrickland189
    @kimberlystrickland189 Рік тому +19

    Funeral homes can take expired makeup if you still have some to get rid of❤

    • @FancyThatwithCandice
      @FancyThatwithCandice  Рік тому +4

      Thank you for letting me know that!

    • @mariagibson2722
      @mariagibson2722 6 місяців тому +4

      THANK YOU for the information. I suppose it doesn’t matter if it’s out of date…

  • @sherrieivanov5481
    @sherrieivanov5481 Рік тому +8

    I’m so proud of you.
    My mom lived with us for 10 years. She moved into senior citizen housing in March and I’m now free to declutter and discard things she pressured me to keep. I’ve been on a decluttering journey for 6 months. I’ve taken at least 4 pick-up truck loads of items for donation. I have a box in my pantry and I’m constantly putting items in it. Once it hits the box then I don’t invite it back and I drop a box or two off every time I’m headed to the city as we live in a very rural area.
    I’m constantly touching new areas in my home, garage and barn. In the past 6 months my garbage can has been full every week but two. We are on a journey to use up cleaning and personal products. In the end, the stuff didn’t come to our farm overnight so it will take a period of time to clean it up.

  • @loriolsen5785
    @loriolsen5785 Рік тому +10

    Real life moment that I loved: When you went back into the kitchen and showed us your cute little girl on the floor in the pasta! Real life is messy, that's why we're constantly cleaning! My husband never got that until I was so sick, I had to stay in bed for 3 days. He kept the kids and dogs alive, so I'm good with that. But oh the mess my house became! He realized that I spend a LOT of time every day cleaning up! And he became thankful! Great video! I feel inspired to finally tackle my crazy pantry! It is crazy tall (I think my house was built by Amazons), and very deep shelves where products go to die! I need to devise a better plan! Thanks!

  • @SarahSanders-pr7rj
    @SarahSanders-pr7rj Рік тому +45

    Your 4 1/2 year ago self was so inspiring! Can you imagine going back and having to start from scratch like that again? Thank you to you from that long ago for beginning the process and not giving up! (Even with a couple burnout breaks). Imagine if we all just started now, we could learn, grow, and get better at it over time, and eventually end up in a place that is perfect for us!

  • @JaneH3675
    @JaneH3675 Рік тому +11

    It took time for me to work in my clothes closet but I never made a pile. Now it's simpler for me to pick out what I'm going to wear. I don't like having a lot of clothes. I've been decluttering since January 2023 and it is definitely a process. I would never recommend making a pile. Smaller chunks is easier to deal with. I'm 60 years old and I need life simplified and I don't want my children dealing with a bunch of my belongings after I'm gone. Decluttering has been so good for me. I'm even downsizing what I hang on the walls, less for me to dust 👍I know there is more I can do; one day at a time.

  • @FoxersGroveOnline
    @FoxersGroveOnline Рік тому +9

    "It's not about beating yourself up, it's about moving forward". Wise words my friend ❤️

  • @greetjefrancke4947
    @greetjefrancke4947 Рік тому +30

    I ❤ this video!! I love how real it is. With kids waking up in the middle, with stuff falling on the floor. But especcially the beginning clips of the areas look just like mine and i'm sooo happy to see not everyone has this perfect minimalist, organized home...

  • @shelly410
    @shelly410 Рік тому +10

    I love physical books, and currently have two completely full bookcases of cookbooks. I rarely cook from them, but I like looking through them, lol.

  • @donnajohnson6421
    @donnajohnson6421 Рік тому +49

    I absolutely love my cookbooks!! Even with my journey to be more minimalist I refuse to give them up😊 I love thumbing through the pages looking at recipes, it’s therapeutic to me! Enjoyed looking back and seeing how far you have come! Wow! Great job! Everything looks amazing!!☺️

    • @Fruit17-ip4vl
      @Fruit17-ip4vl 4 місяці тому +2

      Donna! I feel the same about my bible collection! Some are out of print! I have about 90 and each one is uniquely different! Some of the prices on the ones that I have are astronomical! I did give away four a long time ago, but they are organized. Great 👍🏽 comment! 😎😎👍🏽👍🏽👏👏🌹🌹🌷🌷🌸🌸🌼🌼🌻🌻🤍💚🩵🩶💜🩷😇

  • @vivianhudacek1556
    @vivianhudacek1556 Рік тому +28

    So nice to see your honest situations when you first started this journey. I totally agree about the Marie Kondo method being so overwhelming! I knew when I read her book that I’d lose my mind if I pulled everything out of my closets. I do much better taking bite-sized approaches.

  • @nancymuller3291
    @nancymuller3291 Рік тому +21

    Actually, as I have gotten older, I find it hard to reach the things that are overhead. I cannot believe your bins for the children's clothes that need to be washed are over the top of the washing machines. Getting up on a stool is dangerous as you get older. And sometimes, we shrink as we get older which makes reaching overhead more of a challenge.

  • @AmyStrand-s8u
    @AmyStrand-s8u Рік тому +5

    Im just glad to hear you donate things instead of just throwing it in the garbage

  • @kristystewart7136
    @kristystewart7136 Рік тому +32

    Great video! As I was watching everything that went into the trash bag, I started thinking about everything in my bathroom that needs to be trashed and it makes me sick to know I spent all that money on stuff I rarely used! I’m slowly but surely gaining motivation and mindset from your videos, just gotta put it to work!

    • @daisybuchanan5378
      @daisybuchanan5378 Рік тому +11

      Don’t let that stop you - it won’t bring back the money. Just give yourself permission to let it all go and now you’ll make better purchasing decisions.

    • @BabyT709
      @BabyT709 Рік тому +8

      The money is already gone, keeping the stuff wont get ur money back. Use it up now or just toss it and lesson learned when deciding if u want to buy more stuff

    • @TheDriftwoodlover
      @TheDriftwoodlover Рік тому +4

      I felt the same but make myself look at it every 4-6 weeks, asking myself “if you still haven’t thought about using this, can you agree it’s time for trash?” It helped a lot.

    • @debras3806
      @debras3806 Рік тому +2

      Even hair products etc can be useful at thrift stores, esp the little volunteer/cause kind

    • @claradiblasi354
      @claradiblasi354 Рік тому

      Just put in the trash 2 items per week.......

  • @KlingonPrincess
    @KlingonPrincess Рік тому +17

    The thing I really liked about this video is that it shows how we progress. You were doing the best at the time and now you are doing even better. Truly inspirational 💜 Ha! My new favorite part is baby snow angels in the macaroni!

  • @TheMennomilist
    @TheMennomilist Рік тому +12

    Congratulations on your 4 years!!! I just celebrated 17 years as a minimalist! It is so great that you were able to find what works for you. My linen closet in my old apartment looked just like yours before I became a minimalist! I am sorry you had a period of burn out. Your closet now looks so pretty!!!!! I love how you organize. I love seeing how you originally organized under your sink and how it is now. I have a tiny container of make up. I've never been a make up person though, so I am sure that was a tough one to organize when you were very into it.
    Loved the pantry work. What a huge closet you have!! Mine is itty-bitty.
    I do not have cookbooks. The ones I used to have, I made copies of my favorite recipes and put them in a binder. My binder has all my favorite recipes from online, cookbooks, and family recipes! I need to reorganize it, but I use it constantly and am always going through it of things to make each week. I probably need a bigger binder.

  • @cmak1212
    @cmak1212 Рік тому +10

    It's great you can look back at how things looked before decluttering. Your house looks so fresh and simplified now. I wish I had taken pictures. Sometimes I feel like I still have things to get rid of, but having simplified is great and I'm maintaining it. Great video. You are inspiring. I like that you remind not to shop for things I don't need.

  • @renitamosley4621
    @renitamosley4621 Рік тому +3

    It was the title for me‼️ Motivational indeed! I have been decluttering nearly a year. I am a single empty- nester. I live in a 2 bedroom 1.5 bathroom townhouse. I struggle with invisible chronic illness. So the stairs and all have become too much! I applied for a 1 bedroom apartment. It will be a huge task getting rid of things accumulated over 15 years. Not to mention that my daughter left quite a bit of her things that she didn’t want. This video was just what I needed‼️

  • @voltsm_
    @voltsm_ Рік тому +7

    I used to live alone and I was never an organized person. Everything was pilled everywhere, it was hard to clean, I couldn't find anything. But everytime I tried to declutter, I couldn't get rid of things. I had a box with a bunch of papers and broken stuff because I told myself I would repair, I could use later for this and that. I had so, so many clothes, and I couldn't let them go. So I moved with my boyfriend last year, but the thing is that we lived like 30 minutes apart from each other and neither of us have cars, so we had to move stuff by carrying (either walking there or taking a bus) or paying someone to carry it for us (and we are broke students, so....). What this is means is that what was and wasn't important got clear really quickly, becase the more stuff I wanted to keep, more 1h+ trips were needed to be taken. I can't remember half of the things I got rid of, I never missed them. This opened my eyes and made me focus on what is essential.

  • @daisybuchanan5378
    @daisybuchanan5378 Рік тому +9

    I love and appreciate your openness about being easily overwhelmed and needing to break it down into small pieces, but continuing. Your personality makes me happy ! You’ve inspired me to keep on and my home feels great ! Thank-you !

  • @CMason-yr9ks
    @CMason-yr9ks Рік тому +5

    Your attitude, personality, laughter, and smile are infectious. You stay sooo upbeat & positive even in the mist of hiccups. We all like to feel we are not alone in our struggles so thank you for sharing your journey.
    Just a note for the future... those little makeup pods have Soooo many other uses if not for you, other's. Stud earrings or small jewelry holder. Making your own natural lips gloss. Sorting beads or findings if you make jewelry and endless other crafter uses. I know it might take a minute, but if you poke a toothpick in dry makeup it will all fall out (I use junk mail envelopes). Then donate and all that plastic will be useful & not in a landfills. Thanks again I'll be back for more tutorials. 💜

  • @jessicaquiroz7178
    @jessicaquiroz7178 Рік тому +4

    I would have suggested putting the guest stuff in the guest room closet or under the bed. I ended up turning my extra spare room into a multi purpose room after my daughter finally moved out. The guest bed is in living room, I have a sleeper sofa. I just put the sheets and blankets back on the bed after I wash them. I’m thinking about getting some pillows and putting them in vacuum sealed bags and storing them on the bed also. My husband and I each have 2 towels apiece and I’m still trying to figure out where to put guest towels. Mostly, it’s just my grandkids using the bed and towels.

  • @jillh763
    @jillh763 Рік тому +2

    For the bathroom (accessories/ tools etc)and hall closet (office/school supplies)I use an over the door shoe holder-Cruise ship travel hack for saving space

  • @megantenielle1701
    @megantenielle1701 Рік тому +8

    I found your channel today! I’m so excited to really start my journey! I have been decluttering a lot. I really appreciate you showing where you started a little over 4 years ago and now. It has me so motivated! I can’t wait to be at the spot where I am no longer always cleaning.

  • @sarahdelozier4054
    @sarahdelozier4054 Рік тому +7

    I love the longer videos!! You have worked so hard on your home, and it is beautiful and immaculate! This video is inspiration for motivating me to whip my house into shape, thank you so much!!!

  • @Kreinhardtfam
    @Kreinhardtfam 11 місяців тому +1

    O Candace...I remember your original decluttering videos and your makeup declutter video especially. You have come so far! You should be so proud! It all started with baby steps and you've made it so so far!!!

  • @Artsy_Hazel
    @Artsy_Hazel Рік тому +2

    Decluttering my pantry right now! 😭😭 while I listen to your videos!

  • @daughterofmyabba
    @daughterofmyabba 11 місяців тому +1

    Your pantry is amazing!! Love that you get yourself pretty containers for the things you do keep. Its how I reward myself too 😊

  • @ЕкатеринаСёмина-у4н

    Oh my god! I love the video! I am going through the same stage now as I am so tired of my clutter! And I have told myself not to think about the time it will take! If it takes several months, so be it! ❤

  • @jenNjuice
    @jenNjuice Місяць тому

    I’m closer to moving toward minimalism! Started last year but had stress of family in the hospital for eight months so my motivation flew out the window. Started again at the beginning of the summer with the mantra: Can I Live Without it? and finally I’m starting to see progress. All my clutter and “hoarding” comes from the past 20 years of family buying me things they thought I needed and they wouldn’t listen to me tell them to not give me anything. I’m excited to get down to the bare minimum. Love this video!

  • @kellisimpkins654
    @kellisimpkins654 Рік тому +2

    I just started using the pantry check app to help keep an inventory of all the food in our house. It takes some getting used to going in and deleting and adding things, but I’ve loved it. It helps you see what’s about to expire and I use it to meal plan around that. It holds 200 items for free, after that is a paid version, but I’m doing a free trial for like 2 months before committing to it and you don’t have to enter credit card info for the free trial.

  • @BL-rb7jm
    @BL-rb7jm Рік тому +1

    Nice thing about glass jars you can see through them. And then you can go and save money and buy the food bulk.. So much more attractive

  • @hellybelle5
    @hellybelle5 Рік тому +2

    I have a few cookbooks, and a lot of printed out recipes. I also hate using a device for reading, and planning ❤

  • @heathermoreland6015
    @heathermoreland6015 Рік тому +4

    I rally loved that you shared the reality of decluttering and organizing in the kitchen, that’s what I’m doing today, my kitchen really needs it. Thanks for the video, I love your energy and positive attitude.

  • @tonabean7506
    @tonabean7506 Рік тому +4

    Loved seeing the before and afters!! I was super impressed by all of the make-up that was decluttered!

  • @jillgott6567
    @jillgott6567 Рік тому +3

    I can so relate to your video.
    I am on the journey to get organized / declutter and get upset with myself . Just recently I have been realizing this is a journey not an immediate fix. I also have ADHD so my new way of dealing with things is to do 1 area or category at a time example jewelry. This seems to work well for me.
    Thank you so much for your honesty

  • @westoncaceres554
    @westoncaceres554 2 місяці тому

    This is one of my favorite videos of yours that I've watched so far! It's so encouraging to see the contrast. I haven't seen much of your older content, but seeing these side by side really reveals how strong your decluttering muscles have become. I'm about 3 years in my journey and loving feeling stronger and more in control of what I own too. I feel like my journey started so similarly to yours. It's so encouraging to reach a point where stuff doesn't have as much of a hold.
    -Weston's wife 😂 I always feel like I need a disclaimer

  • @Diniecita
    @Diniecita Рік тому +2

    I have to say you probably need a tea bag organizer. I love mine and I can easily see what I have.
    Also, depending on the food it probably was fine to eat. Shelf stable foods are good way longer than they say they are on the package. Even the FDA says they aren’t a true indication of time.

  • @Mypal384
    @Mypal384 Рік тому +4

    I needed this. I can relate. It’s overwhelming. And the difference between minimizing first round to later rounds years later is exactly how it’s been for me and it was so REFRESHING to see your progress and updates!!!
    I went from living single to having a boyfriend, my brother and 3 nephews, 3 cats and one large dog ALL live together over the last few years. We have so much STUFF. This is so helpful to me to know it’s ok to do in stages. THANK YOU! ❤

  • @rebekkastrau5241
    @rebekkastrau5241 Рік тому +2

    I like that you broke down your work in chunks and peaces. The first thing I recognized as I did this with our flat (and I am still not done)is, that it is overwhealming and frustrating to pile all and then going through it. So I start every time with a corner (or as you said „a project“) and work through the topic until I am satisfied. And it can be that it takes several days. But that does not matter as long as I see progress even in little things. The good news are: the often you do this the more you will get a routine and a view for what you really need and what has to go 😀

  • @melindastimpson9014
    @melindastimpson9014 Рік тому +1

    I love that you show real life of decluttering with kids!

  • @thepioneerhomestead
    @thepioneerhomestead Рік тому +4

    💕This was so fantastic!!!! Love the before and after and years later. Such great content!!! Thank you!💗

  • @nicolemitchell446
    @nicolemitchell446 5 місяців тому

    10:34 one tip I use for things like make up is to group things together that are the same or similar and then keep only my favourite. For example in the first decluttering clips you kept all the blushes that you liked but so many of them were the same shade. Choose the one that works the best and toss the rest.

  • @bonessam9618
    @bonessam9618 Рік тому +2

    You have come a long way, Candace! What an awesome transformation you have made through the years. I never saw your old footage from your makeup days. Wow! Just think of the money you save now.

  • @lildebleigh84
    @lildebleigh84 Рік тому +18

    Love this video! So helpful and so motivating! We’re moving, so I’m currently drowning in boxes 😂, but you have me motivated to declutter & declutter when we unpack (I’ve decluttered as I’ve been packing boxes but I know there will be more to declutter) and then put in simple organizing systems for the new house 💗

  • @darielhelge
    @darielhelge Рік тому +10

    Thank you so much for this…very inspiring! I’m in the process of decluttering and to me it feels as if I didn’t even make a dent! 😭 I still have so much stuff to go through and get rid of. 😫 You give me hope!

    • @edennis8578
      @edennis8578 Рік тому +4

      I feel you. I found that as long as there was any clutter in a spot at all, it just didn't look like I was making progress. When the last bit was finally gone, the difference seemed sudden.

    • @ubetchaslots
      @ubetchaslots Рік тому +1

      I use trash night before trash goes out in morning to get a box ready of trash recycle and keep so I'm doin something to get what I need to get out. I get done a few things out of thr refrigerator and then if I didn't clear the kitty litter clumps I'll do that knowing trash is Tuesday morning

  • @kathy2929
    @kathy2929 Рік тому +3

    I got a wire 3 shelf can organizer that would take the place of 3 of your bins. You can see what you have.

  • @larajohnson8656
    @larajohnson8656 11 місяців тому

    Thank you for the laundry room before and after. I’m not exaggerating when I say my laundry room is the same as your before photo. Same size, same shelf, cans of paint, step stool, cleaning products, light bulbs…same!
    The most eye-opening thing you showed me is that a normal sized laundry basket cannot work in a laundry room this size! I have the same teal boxes in my garage…same! I will move them to the laundry room! I am so excited about this and looking forward to my laundry room not being a mess! Thank you so much!

  • @user-rn4ek9vn4f
    @user-rn4ek9vn4f 2 місяці тому

    This was such a cool video idea! I feel like we rarely get to see so many years of growth and changing attitudes about decluttering/tidying/minimalism (pick the title of choice ;) ), so to see this back to back was extra inspiring. I also love your attitude during this process, even in the beginning. (Around 18 minutes in you're doing your kitchen pantry and looking back at the chaos it creates, but even while you said "It's not fun but it's worth it," you were laughing. Such a great attitude!) New subscriber here!

  • @trishmurphy1941
    @trishmurphy1941 Рік тому +3

    Re the pantry. I prefer to be able to see what my canned goods etc are. I’d be inclined to add shelves to fit the products rather than put things in baskets. I’ve also put all the things like raisins, rice, beans in clear jars so I can see what they are on the shelf.

  • @bhubansingh1571
    @bhubansingh1571 Рік тому +1

    First of all, you are such a bright, happy and positive person. Your very honest approach to hows and why's of decluttering and minimizing is so very realistic and do-able! Please do make more videos on clothes, kitchen & store room declutter and minimization. Thank you very much. Keep your smile on.😊

  • @hazelmeldrum5860
    @hazelmeldrum5860 Рік тому +1

    Even if you do not want to you tube still take a photograph of the area at the start,it is reassuring when you take progress photos that you have decluttered or organized

  • @rachelvidal1053
    @rachelvidal1053 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing. You've come a long way. Inspired me not to give up.

  • @CobraDove1111
    @CobraDove1111 9 місяців тому +1

    Amazing! I love this video where you show the the three stages because I am somewhere between your stage two and three and I really really appreciate seeing this!

  • @debbyfazfphotography
    @debbyfazfphotography 8 місяців тому

    I ❤ the idea of using a set of tongs to assist with laundry! What a great idea for reaching items in the bottom of the washer! I have a long handle "gripper," and I use it constantly. I'm a big fan of anything that makes my life easier! 🥰

  • @daniellemulhearne420
    @daniellemulhearne420 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for showing us where you started, where you were 4 years ago, and where you are now. I started this process a few years ago. Like you, I get extremely overwhelmed if i tbink about it too much. I recently did my bedroom closet & i actually enjoy goung in there now! I srill haveto finish the rest of my bedroom. I take it a small section at a time. It works!

  • @janealmasy5072
    @janealmasy5072 Рік тому

    Thank you for taking your time! ! I get very overwhelmed/guilty easily because of all 'Junk'.but I don't have support so many loved ones giving you their advice or telling to do this or that. Quite honestly, it only makes me more overwhelmed, and guilty and depressed.

  • @susanswenson8
    @susanswenson8 Рік тому +3

    Very motivating video. Best yet at decluttwring and organizing
    Makes me want to reaaly get goung. Thanks so much. Thanks for not having annoying music or beats. I also really like this longer video.

  • @BL-rb7jm
    @BL-rb7jm Рік тому +2

    I had icing sugar and whole bunch of stuff in bags and I used to use those clips always. So what I did I got jars that could sit in the baskets. And it would be loaded with the items that were in bags. So as soon as I bought something. I would take it out of the plastic bag and put it in the Canning jar or whatever jar is suited. So I didn't have plastic bags with clips. I had jars in a nice basket that would hold them up. And I would label the top of the lived exactly what was in the jar. So when I looked down at the basket or the container. That had all these Canning jars. I would instantly see the label. And I didn't even have to pull the jar out to see what was inside of it. It's a learning process and You have to learn what's best for you and your family. What I couldn't handle It's looking on my shelf and Moving things around just to find things in the back. Even though I had Canning jars that you could see.
    It just looks so messy to me. So I got these containers. I put the clear jars in them. I put the labels on top of the lids, So when I pulled the containers with the jars out of the shelf. I instantly con find things.
    Kind of what you have in the laundry room. But instead I put those containers with my Canning jars full of food on the shelves in the kitchen. But I also had label on the outside of the basket or container indicating what food was inside.
    That way I open up the kitchen cupboards, And I can instantly see the labels. And therefore I don't have to go through the front and the back and move things around. Because it is so time consuming and I like a neat cupboard.
    However a lot of people may not want to go through such a problem. But wouldn't it be nice just to open your kitchen cupboard? Tick at first glance and you know exactly where everything is.
    But it requires some brain power.😂 And believe me I don't always have that, being a senior citizen.
    I don't have much time Before i'm in my eighties. Life is too short so you have to make it simple.
    And when I mean Brain power I am referring to Taking the time to measure the inside of the cupboards. You measure the height of width and Length. So what I had to do is messure the contains that were going to fit.
    Maybe people don't have the time to do that, because They have children.. But they can always do it when babies are asleep. I always say take advantage of any time that you have and don't overwhelm yourself.. I could never pull everything off my shelf And put everything in a pile I tried that twice and I was so overwhelmed. And Tired like you were. Now just think of an old woman like me Doing that. You just don't have the energy never mind having A young baby. So that's what I Say you do good.. When I was young I used to burn the candle at both ends. I used to say oh, I'm young. But whatever age you are, you have to Pace yourself

  • @ALinn-vr3nl
    @ALinn-vr3nl 11 місяців тому

    A wide-mouthed canning jar funnel, sold in large hardware stores with the canning jar supplies, makes it easier to pour items into the jars. I use mine constantly, worth having (and I'm not a shopper.) Call the store ahead and see if they sell them.

  • @RebeccaShepherd
    @RebeccaShepherd Рік тому +1

    Ine of the best decluttering minimalist videos i have ever seen. Thank you so much. I really love the time and effort you havr put into this video and shown the progression over the years. This really puts it all into perspective ❤the

  • @haou132
    @haou132 11 місяців тому

    You are helping many générations ahead . Our grandchildren or family will have to deal with less things once we leave this world.
    Thank you thousands and blessings +++!!!

  • @Robine-n1v
    @Robine-n1v 11 місяців тому +5

    What I see is not a minimalist home, but a very neat maximalist house. It turned out very beautifully and has a wonderful atmosphere ❤

    • @FancyThatwithCandice
      @FancyThatwithCandice  11 місяців тому +1

      Interesting perspective!!! Well we are a family of 5!!!!

    • @rosey_ie
      @rosey_ie 11 місяців тому

      I agree! No minimalist (not even one with a family of 5!) needs that many candles for one, and minimalism is about reducing to a needs-must basis. No hate though, you’ve shown an amazing journey to a simpler life and it’s really clear to see its working better for you and your family!

  • @immiegee
    @immiegee Рік тому +2

    You have come from so far. It must be a joy to see your house now. I am always amazed how much stuff people have in their bathroom. So much bottles and so on. I know, I live alone, that is much easier to keep it minimal and simple. But my goodness, how much stuff need a human to get ready in the morning? 😮 You have done a great job. Irma from the Netherlands

  • @kaseymac4651
    @kaseymac4651 Рік тому +3

    This video is FANTASTIC! I watched you before the minimal journey, love it. from Australia 😁💕🇦🇺

  • @lauranewman564
    @lauranewman564 Рік тому +1

    Love this video!
    I still have 3 cookbooks plus a binder. I can't see well anymore, but I've kept 2 cookbooks because they are old and fun; like one is Fannie Farmer! The other one is my mom's that she got as a wedding present in 1950. It's falling apart but I do use it occasionally and think of her. The 3rd one was a gift from my grandma when I was 9 and is a kid cookbook I use occasionally with my granddaughters. (I have no grandsons so that's not sexist!)
    My binder has recipes I use most often, plus some I want to try so my space doesn't get cluttered with bits of paper.
    That's all! I used to have at least a dozen.

  • @BL-rb7jm
    @BL-rb7jm Рік тому

    You should be proud of yourself that you have learned from your mistakes and that you are sharing it with the public

  • @cynthiakotian5519
    @cynthiakotian5519 Рік тому +1

    Real and very inspiring. Loved your honesty.
    From overwhelmed to satisfied.
    The end result is beautiful.

  • @sarahwieland3243
    @sarahwieland3243 Рік тому

    Okay, to say u were a hoarder is a huge stretch. This is a true mental disorder that shouldn’t be taken lightly. However, ur lack of organization and then slowly “getting it together” process was great and encouraging to watch. Thk u for sharing ur journey.

  • @FavoritesWithLaura
    @FavoritesWithLaura 10 місяців тому

    Great motivations. And so true to life, because it takes time and not everything can be done all at once or even over a weekend.❤

  • @janicehicks2246
    @janicehicks2246 11 місяців тому

    I hung my measuring spoons on my cabinet door, too, but had to change it because they clanged and scared me silly every time I opened the cabinet. Nice job getting to where you are today.

  • @Marian-pp4se
    @Marian-pp4se Рік тому

    Omg this was/is me. Almost 4 years now in my decluttering journey. Simple living. I take inventory of what no longer fits or isnt used and let it go. I have just 1 small makeup up bag just like that. It feels great to not throw money away and to see how far I've come. Great video. New subscriber. Thanks for sharing your experience. I can relate to all of it.

  • @Giselle332
    @Giselle332 5 місяців тому

    Another idea is to put a label with expiry dates on the back of containers e.g. jars. I loved your video. You kept it real and showed the genuine before (with nothing hidden) and beautiful after. It looked pretty, tidy, organised and functional. Thank you for inspiring us. I am now going to clean up my house. 😂🤗😘❤️

  • @BL-rb7jm
    @BL-rb7jm Рік тому

    You're amazing, mom doing all Of this and still. Being a mother.❤

  • @summersells4380
    @summersells4380 6 місяців тому

    I have been on this same path. Seeing you journey helped me so much to see my next move to get where I want my cupboards to be like.. I have more to let go of. Thank you for sharing.

  • @bukolaadedapo4698
    @bukolaadedapo4698 Рік тому +1

    I appreciate you so much for your vulnerability and sharing your process and progress! I was so motivated watching this video! The fact it took you over years and you didn’t give up was really inspiring! It reminded me that the process will be a marathon and not a race! I’m now motivated to start my journey towards minimalism! Keep being yourself and making these videos!

    • @FancyThatwithCandice
      @FancyThatwithCandice  Рік тому +1

      I'm so happy this was motivating!!! I see things all over the internet saying, "declutter your whole house in a day or weekend" and I'm like there is NO WAY!!! haha!!! It's a process!!

  • @antonianovoa6416
    @antonianovoa6416 Рік тому +2

    Great motivation to work a bit at a time. It can be overwhelming and it makes me stop the progress. Thank you for sharing!

  • @helenvaipan8697
    @helenvaipan8697 Рік тому +1

    lOVE IT, SO GLAD THAT I FOUND YOU

  • @janegao5747
    @janegao5747 Рік тому

    Nice job! Clean up is the first and most difficult step. Keeping it up daily is the next step. Hope your clean up is kept up. For me organizing it to be convenient for me to use everything is very important. Otherwise it won't last. Once you organize it in a way that it's convenient for you use and keep it is just a matter of making it a habit to put things back to where they are EVERY TIME you use it. Keep it up!!!!

  • @michellebrobst2827
    @michellebrobst2827 7 місяців тому

    I stumbled upon your channel & find it really helpful in my own decluttering journey! One of my favorite parts of this video is your sweet baby girl, making “macaroni angels“ on the kitchen floor from spilled macaroni!😄❤️

  • @sandrajones7896
    @sandrajones7896 Рік тому +6

    I like your video but not everybody can’t afford all those bins. I started trying a few bins but after spending $30 on 3 Walmart bins I decided I couldn’t go that route.

    • @FancyThatwithCandice
      @FancyThatwithCandice  Рік тому +6

      It took me MANY years to be able to afford bins that would work in my space...maybe 7 years into working for youtube. I made due with dollar tree bins in the meantime. They were not perfect, but did make the space better!!! Do what you can!

    • @BabyT709
      @BabyT709 Рік тому +4

      U DO NOT need bins, i dont use them at all except a couple in the bathroom and my bedroom to keep all the small items together like my makeup or hair buckles, i do not keep food, towels, etc etc in bins, thats what the shelves and cupboards are for

    • @kristylipscombe-bn8oi
      @kristylipscombe-bn8oi Рік тому +2

      My nan taught me to organise with carboard box's. Some she wrapped in floral contact paper to make them look prettier but its not necessary for it to be useful. Just cut the tops off them 🙂

    • @thesender6793
      @thesender6793 Рік тому

      I could afford nicer now but still reuse cardboard boxes.

  • @fairsi1
    @fairsi1 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for the video. It is inspiring to see that you don’t need to have a fancy house to be organized.

  • @susanshearer6106
    @susanshearer6106 Рік тому

    LOVE my cookbooks and actual books. As I watched the video I wondered if you had thought of spray painting the brown baskets white (or another color of your choosing). I totally agree with you that loving the basket or container makes such a difference on whether or not I can keep organized. Also like the idea of storing baking utensils on the inside of the doors. Excellent video!

  • @heidibastawros8722
    @heidibastawros8722 Рік тому

    I’m so glad you made this change. Makes life easier. Great job!

  • @yolandajackson8164
    @yolandajackson8164 3 місяці тому

    Hello I caught your channel in my feed and I am so happy I did. Thank you for sharing your great ideas.

  • @terrysuem11
    @terrysuem11 Рік тому +1

    Love that new linnen closet!!!! 😊

  • @jejrstans
    @jejrstans Рік тому +17

    I'm not seeing quite hoarder level, but I appreciate the great transformation!

    • @SherylGarvey
      @SherylGarvey Рік тому

      I was thinking the something! She is definitely not a hoarder!

  • @rayshelld791
    @rayshelld791 Рік тому

    Your pantry looks amazing. What a fine job you did. And doing it with little ones.....awesome!

  • @magpie3571
    @magpie3571 Рік тому +3

    Whenever someone asks me to fix their pantry or linen closet or whatever space, I take out one or two things at a time and put them in designated spots. Then, when the messy area is empty, clean. Then once I can see how much there is in each category, I can see how to put each thing where it goes. The big piles of mess is too overwhelming.

  • @throughtheotherside420
    @throughtheotherside420 Рік тому

    I love stuff! I’m learning to manage that more because I get retail therapy. Once I get home though & leave the item I got for a while I slowly lose interest in that item I bought. Now, I’m making better decisions about my purchases because I live in a decent sized apartment with two bedrooms but I somehow manage to have more stuff than I intend to. The holidays are coming up & I feel the motivation to declutter closets, furniture, and personal belongings. I like cleaning but the energy I put in makes me exhausted! After your video my goal is to live a more simple life with easy access to everything without feeling overwhelmed :)