Why You're Poor, Fat & Stupid
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- Опубліковано 3 жов 2023
- Your mindset, specifically the way you think about problems in life, is keeping you poor, fat, and stupid, and will continue to do so for the rest of your life, unless of course, you do something about it.
Maybe you wanted to achieve something like; finding a romantic partner, getting an athletic body, making more money, or receiving better grades, and you might've tried really, really hard, but you didn't manage to succeed.
And because of the setbacks and failures you experienced, you gave up on trying altogether.
But the worst of all is that you ended up with a belief that you were simply not good enough.
If you believe you're bad at math, then you're already expecting to get bad grades there, so you put in less effort to study, and then when you do get those bad grades, it reinforces your identity and your belief that you're bad at math.
And you subconsciously begin to resist taking actions that don't align with what you believe your identity to be.
But this is nothing more than a downward spiral of learned helplessness.
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Okay, dude, you don't have to call me out like that.
So stay poor then
@@bezimen1seriously have to open your mouth like your opinion means something it's very clear he is making a joke
Lmao
@@unfilteredtruth8476you know which category he falls in from title 😂
😂
Who is leaking my personal information
never have a video title roasted me so much
😂😂🤣🤣bruh!
This reminds me of a saying. Whether you think you can, or you think you can't...you're right!
Hank Ford strikes again.
For years I believed I could recover from a bad start in life if I tried hard. I was wrong.
@@wilhelmvonn9619
Why?
You're clearly able to pay for phone/internet bills so you're doing better than the continent of Africa.@@wilhelmvonn9619
First of all, i just wanna say to the UA-cam algorithm because i got found this greatness channel to improv myself better and better than yesterday. And on this video i learn so much for today, on of my favorite motivation from this video is "Don't think you can't do it, because you know you can."
I always thought that i can't do everything better, simply such as learn English better i always think i never become fluently, in it. When i tried to spoke with others i always think they will judge me because my English poor, they don't want to talk with me and it makes me insecure i dont want to learn English anymore. I'm furious with myself, i blame myself because I'm not like other peoples. I hate mylife, i ever think to suicide. Its bad..
But when i watching this video, it makes me open minded, i must do an extra effort to get something that i want which is my goals, its okay to take a small progress than nothing because small progress could become a big progress.
Thanks for reading my comment, i just wanna say many thanks to this channel ❤❤
Thank you sir so much
I am from India and have my chartered accountant exams (which are one of the toughest) I have been topper student throughout my life but everyone kept telling me it’s difficult and I can’t do it I developed the mindset of me not being able to become chartered accountant but this video made me realise again that how I became topper I never gave up and I put in lots of efforts and I never thought about failure I just thought about I have to do it and this is how I will do it and just trying as much as possible to complete my plan.
Thank you
Also, stop caring as much about the end result. That's not completely in your control and cause disheartening when it doesn't work out the way you wanted. Instead, take pride in the effort you put in and you'll only become better.
Felt this one HARD!
Been a dumb, electric dog for too long...
But recently been jumping the barriers
The poor dog was just abused and traumatised, he was far from.being dumb.
Traumas is debilating
“ A better life may be only one barrier away.."❤
Thank you.
please do not stop making videos; it helps us a lot I saw you making videos after 10 months we miss your informative videos all the time
All things in life are temporary, even suffering.
This video motivated me. Its time to reboot my mind again after weeks of random thinking. Thank you.
Theres so much food for thought in this video. By implementing the ideas in this video, lives can be changed so much for the better. Excellent video and excellent channel. 👏
This channel is changing my life
Good video! I’ve had this learned helplessness for a while and I’m finally getting out of that mentality
From what I understand of sociology, women tend to have more friends with whom they can talk about how they feel, and men do not. Men are expected to be stoic and not express any doubts. If they do then they are labeled as being less than a man by those around the,, especially the women we are trying to attract. This can be a viciously repeating cycle too.
After so long you are making the video..welcome back
I needed this today, Thank you!!
Thank you for this inspirational and nicely made video!
This actually made me cry hard, damn dude.
I feel so sorry for those poor doggies.
Your pfp + cry = I think of Rhubarb and also wanna cry 😢
I definitely know you are strong good luck in life and I hope you grow
Thank you, bro. You are so kind and thank you for your encouragement.
Thanks for making such videos!
Good to see video from you ! it has been a while. Love your work !
Rarely do I see a title so blunt and to the point! 😂 You're right!, though. We can't let the bad in life drag us down. We have to keep trying.
For how long?
@@wilhelmvonn9619 "Never, never, never, never, never give up! "Sir Winston Churchill
@@wilhelmvonn9619 for life time 🤷♂️ life is a War
thank you for this video! i am struggling right now with my mindset, it helps me a lot!
The scariest thing about this type of thinking is the comfort and security it brings
If you never try, you will never fail, so never try
It's worse. The comfort and security you mention release dopamine rewarding habits and behaviours that support your negative opinion of yourself. The brain literally gets addicted to failure.
@@kopkaljdsao and, if there's dopamine there, then, one is technically happy, right?
What's wrong with that?
Btw, usually I do have the type of thinking OP mentions. It is pure logic.
@@kopkaljdsao and I thought video games were bad!
A person never try, will never fail, so never try BUT END UP SLEEPING UNDER A BRIDGE BECAUSE CAN'T EVEN AFFORD RENTING SHELTER.
Yes, setbacks suck, but they aren't permanent !
They can be. Foolish to think otherwise.
The fact that this video triggered me is exactly why I clicked lol Well played.
Me too :D
I climbed Mt. Rainer once already in my life. Probably not going to go for Mt. Everest or Denali, but definitely going to climb Rainer again.
I missed your videos! Thank you for the new content ❤
Thanks alot.always lean so much from your videos
This is the best title for a video I've ever seen! LOL!! I just HAD to watch it!
Very helpful video! Thanks a lot😊
yo man the experiment sounds bad ! But the result made me shock . And that's an exact thing we should learn in this life
thank you bro you made my day better than yesterday 🤩🤩
The mondsets that we have are so powerful, and it is true that I have felt helpnessless for quite some time now in regards to love but I didn't give up, but I still have to change this helpnessless mentality about this specific subject
so glad you're back!!!!
I want to be fat. I’m poor and stupid 😢
thanks buddy for making this kinds of videos
Bro singlehandedly roasted his entire community in 2 seconds
Not entire, but yes
Thank you for this
Dude doesn't have to tell the truth so bluntly to us, but he did! This is the level of courage I need in life. I'm awake now.
The blood moon is rising...
@@helmetmcbarinwtf 💀
@@darren7953 Always look on the bright side of death...
The way I laughed at the subject 😂
Thank you for your sharing, it's very good
Love the video title. We all need a good slap in the face sometimes!
learned something again today thank you!
Thank you. Fantastic !!!!!!
Nice video after a long period of silence !
I always enjoy your videos❣
So much wisdom is shared.
You are so awesome ❣❣❣
Your voice heard more confident and firm in this video.keep up the good work bro.😊❤❤
Great Video.
Thx for this video! Good food for brain !
Also buy a book named Mindset by Dr Carlos Dweck
It tells in more detail and give a really good way to change your mindset and the underlying truth of why few people are always better than the rest.
Thank you👍👍
I had to stop everything I was doing to see this title 💀
Thanks!
Just a small step...
Screencapping the thumbnail and title incase it changes, this level of roast deserves to be preserved for prosterity 📸🗿
Thank you 🙏
Great video.. thank you very much for helping me ☺️
Thanks 🎉
Touché…
Thank you very much
Really Nice video...keep posting regularly TQ u
bro is too honest
Great!
I think that's possibly the best hook line I've ever heard for UA-cam video
amazing
thanks a lot
Great message but man, the poor puppies… that’s depressing.
You are amazing brother love and respect from Turkey
thank you so much
Thank you 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Superb content ❤😊
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Im so stupid that i read this in a book, but still, the video gave me a better understanding.
WHEN I GOT THÉ NOTIFICATION 😂😂
I feel bad about the dogs😢
Bro can u make a video of ' how to get out of comfort zone , to avoid metathesiophobia . I feels very small in face of fears and consequently i'm not able to enjoy my life. Well i would appreciate even if atleast u would read my comment. Thanks
I've made a video about the growth and fixed mindset before, but the way you put it, so easily, so relatable. Mind-blowing. Your videos are pieces of art. I tried, inspired by you, to create similar pieces of art, but I learned that we might be inspired by other people, but to truly succeed we need to find our own way. Thank you for the time you put into this videos.
wonderful
Can you make a video about how to deal with negative emotions? Like shame or guilt. I think that would be helpful for a lot of people. (Including me)
The less you watch 'self improvement' videos, the better you'll feel.
@@lewisgorrod3763 You're right. But I mean beyond that.
I've found the advice to name the emotion and "observe it" useful. I.e., not "I am ashamed" but "I'm experiencing shame". That distances you from negative emotions a bit. Another is realising that no-one else knows you could have done better or made a different choice, so you're your own harshest judge. Think what would you say to a friend experiencing your feelings and be that friend to yourself. Finally, knowing that all bad feelings pass makes it easier to bear them. Unfortunately, it takes years of experience to really accept this - I'm 45 years old, and it took me until I was about 37 years old to stop fretting little things, and to accept big things with equanimity. You'll inevitably fail at some things, make major screw-ups, experience tragedies and disasters. You are not alone in this, and many people around you experience same or worse. And there is a lot of beautiful and comforting things around, and friendly and kind people. Be open to that, and it will balance the negative things and people in your life.
Always look on the bright side of life!
@@hikari_manekineko thank you for your advice👍🏽. I wrote some of this in my notebook and will give it a try.
The biggest issue with this is that people usually know something outside of themselves is wrong and have the power to do something about it, but don't. That way one's own helplessness spreads to society as a whole. People keep "just doing their jobs" even though they know they're following nonsensical orders for example. This especially happens in all kinds of professions, even highly academical ones where people even know about the psychology described in the video.
Me on the way to buy Ben and Jerry when watching this video
i am 28 and only learned this knowledge today. Why haven't i found this knowledge before?
P.S. Thank you
That is so sad.
To summarize the amazing video,
“fake it till you make it”
Did somebody noticed, fixed mindset of the third group of dog was due to the second group. Their actions had literally no control over the shock which was actually controlled by second group.
long time no see bro. How u r doing ?
If you're still in a cage being zapped by chronic pain, it's difficult to unlearn because it' still reality :/
Blame worldwide legislations against the completely made-up "opioid crisis"...
Definitely me in my last situationship
When the algorithm just doesn't sugar coat it anymore lmao
People born without a silver spoon or parents just raised completely in pain, stress, anxiety, neglect, confusion, no love, hated by the world and less opportunities and racial brutality. It's way more then just a mindset that set the minority apart. Just had to throw that in there since you mentions only blacks and Mexicans in school for some reason.
Although you are absolutely right mindset and determination will set you free and push you far past your limits. Once a person aligns mind body and soul they easily realize the power within, and understand this world is your own creation. You can dominate or doom yourself simple because one wants to.
Do as you will and tho shall you be.
This is how Trauma Affects us.
I just read the title and thought someone messaged me that. 😑👀😩
🤣
All facts
Long time no see
Know you can
this is amazing subject, by any chance did you get this idea from a book so i can read the book? (just give me the title of the book, as i don't know what to read), or did you get the idea by yourself?
Similar ideas about identity and mindset are in the book called "Atomic habits" it's a good read
Also' the power of habit'
And 'mindset '
@@Ssid77 thanks for telling me about the book, i will read the free sample on my computer and after that i will buy the full book only if i found a library, thanks again
2 recommended books on this topic:
"Learned optimism" by Martin Seligman and "Mindset" by Carol Dweck
@@BetterThanYesterday thanks, now I am getting some books to read
What the dogs didn't know is something had changed. So if you have no control over the circumstances that lead to your repeated failure, then you might as well not try. The trick is knowing when the environment has changed.
And if it hasn't changed, quit.
This was so well timed - I really needed it ❤