Lynn you are of great service 🙏all those stories on your platform.. I know that Yelsha is truthful about her story for in Europe there is a crisis ' those kinds of jobs that even natives don't want to do & then they try to push immigrants into that.. ( When our young lacks support or information they are forced into a space which is leading them to depression... (Her story is shading light on when we try to explain to people Africa is much better, coz for starters if you wish to study, nobody 'll deny you an Academican-status claiming you aren't smart enough and then pushing you into jobs that natives 'll not even do.. (you need a very strong mind to go against it and even if you win., i have seen many turn around and go home to find support & happiness.. I believe that this case was the best for her to go home.. she fought hard and if things are not working why go against the current just find the flow.. Kenya is a beautiful country with nice weather and beautiful friendly hospitable people.. most young Germans have a backbone with alot of support & advice which clearly Yelsha lacked.. I wish her the best 🙏
@stemyyelsha it's so sad that a fellow woman can bring another down ..she is down....be strong girl...your young and you will overcome all this ....all that matters is you and your baby are in peace ...ata don't bother with what people say...live your life....there is a God in heaven who sees and hears.......
Yelsha, Yelsha.......please ignore those social media "experts" over other peoples' lives. You are on your way to recovery and healing. Focus on your life and your little girl's welfare. Forget those women who feel like they own your story just because they "live" in Germany. Everyone's experience in Germany is DIFFERENT. Don't let that DIM your light..
She is justifying herself too much i hope someone advices her to tone down ju watu wa social media those women watafanya achizi and they don't care, so young girl protect your peace please its for your best interests
You owe them no explanation Charm ❤️ and most importantly it never should even make sense to those that see no sense in everything you say,,you'll most definitely make it big here at home Kenya, We got you and I beg you focus on the people that brings energy that builds you mam,,, Silent treatment is the best remedy for them trashtalkers,, I love youuu,, keep doing Youu🦋🌹❤️
One thing I’ve learned in life,never justify your story! You will always have people who hate and attack you. Wachana na hawa Watu. Your on your next stage of your life,rise even higher 😇💪🏽
Don’t let these social media people depress you girl. You’ve been through enough already. You gotta be strong for yourself and your baby. Stay positive. You haven’t reached your destination yet. Greatness is coming your way. Sending you lots of love from Zim 🇿🇼.
I came to understand that even if someone has lived somewhere for years it doesn’t mean they know everything. Where now it is wrong it is when people start assuming that other people are wrong because they are going through something you have no ideas about. This lady and baby needs so much love and support. She was courageous enough to share her story. Maybe that alone is enough to support her for. Yelsha you will overcome this and in the next 6 months you will be better.
I understand your situation and I do empathize with you and the kid, although I have a very well paying job am mentally not stable,I feel drained..... it's just a matter of time before relocation back home.There is so much happiness back home...wish one day I can use your platform and share my experience here....ie I applied for My Aufenthaltstitel in March this year it's out but the pick up date is next year Feb,l had planned for my Dec holiday but can't travel coz of the document..... anyway I want to make your day with a kilo nyama choma for you and your kid and soda for that lady that hosted how.How can I fullfil that?
Pole mtoto wetu achana na wao ,ni vile hawaelewi yale umepitia ukiwa na umri mdogo, there just toking, atherwis your strong girl, hata wasuchana wake hawawexi kuwa strong kama wewe
Why are people so hurtless? I couldn't hold my tears when I was listening to her story and I related it with one of my cousin who was deported from Germany after been depressed, guys these things are real, kama mtu alienda Europe na maisha yake ikashine sio ya kila mtu itashine😢😢😢😢
Dear Yelsha, your journey and your experiences are your own, noone elses. You owe nobody any explaination or clarification. It’s your story say it how you feel is right. You are accountable to yourself and to your child only at this point. Please get help on how to cope with online bullying because these platforms (UA-cam, TikTok, Instagram etc) will be your work place and some will want to make money using you by bashing you, others will just want to see you go down because they themselves are down and hurting and want company in that dark corner. Sending you hugs and praying for your healing. I see a young woman who will fight against all odds and one day have an organisation or platform that gives voices to children that were neglected, traumatised. Who will help parents check their parental styles and rectify them …I see a young woman owning an African fashion make up business, African modern unique clothing line, photography company. I see a lot of potential in you. Please begin your healing journey and shut the noise off from people who are giving you negativity… they are all hurting, some are jealous you are getting the help they need and others are jealous you have/had the courage to face your pain and rise from it. Praying for your strength and peace.
Yelsha, I did a video too sharing lesson learned from your story. But you are a strong woman and I told you once and I will say it again. We are blessed differently and I can see you shining in kenya
Don't cry, expect more from negativity what u need to know is where ur going is far,ur success story is on the way.Stay positive,stay strong let ppl talk,they will always do.Ur beautiful 😍😍
Young lady, my advice to you is you don't need to express yourself to anyone, it's your life stay away from negativity. Expressing your thoughts makes the enemies day. No one should put you down. Stay strong and move on.
Asante Sana kuwambia. Mahasidi hao. Adabu hawana. Hao ndio wanateseka huko Germany. Mimi pia hio Altenpflegerin nilikataa. Siwezi fanya. Wenye wanafanya wafanye. Sio ya kila mtu.
Stemy the way I root for you dear!! You wouldn't shed a single tear. I looove you, I love your energy, I love your positivity, I love the way you love your baby, giving her the love you did not get yourself. Pleeeease ignore noise and do you! You have ALOT inside you, and the best you can do is to bless this world with your gift. I will root for you to the end Stemy. I love you so much. Don't cry again. ❤
Hugs Stemy! Your story is yours. Own it. Don't worry about all the negativity. You and your child are going places. Keep loving and protecting your baby.
Am so pround of you Baby girl, please don't explain yourself to those evil people. They are not happy seeing you moving on and happy. You are such a brave Genius positive girl. I myself live in Germany Munich, l know the Situation. Stay positive and strong. You have our Support. God bless!
You owe no one an explanation sister. Stay strong and positive for yourself and the Angel. Can't loose your mind over some cowards hiding behind the keyboards.💪
True true hafai kua anatoa ata receipts ku explain to keyboard warriors who don't even have empathy ataji stress zaidi people out here can drain someones energy kabisa and those are the people she needs to learn to ignore awaache waseme watachoka tu athawise if she let's wat pple say control her feelings then ataishi kuji explain na kulia na kutoa receipts 🧾lol.
I understand you, don't let them destroy your mental health. Hata mimi niko Germany but nilishidwa kufanya Altenpfleger because am not strong enough mentally for that. But am doing other job.
Am sorry you experienced that but please just ignore those people who always see negative in everything.. don't give them attention..they didn't deserve it ❤
My Sister ignore those useless people and Carry on with your life, those people are only interested in views, thats Social media, too many negative folks ...Keep it up genuine people understand your Situation and keep the positive vibes, you are a real Strong Woman
Kindly stop pitying yourself and start living. There is life outside Europe. Do I live in Germany? No. Does Lynn Ngúgí live in Germany? No. Do all the people you see when you open your front door live in Germany? Absolutely no...yet we are prospering. Quit that pity party. We intend to help and support you but not with all these tears. Wake up and shake up girl. Hapa ni Kenya. Uko nyumbani where no one can deport you.
Live in Germany. Did the job you talk about, now working. I m depressed, but i m stuck. I dont know what to do next. The tweet is very true. I saw your video few days ago and totally agree. Don't explain yourself to people who didn't live your experience. They will never understand.
Sorry for all your going through . Word of caution. Dont tell people your problems.80% dont care,20 % are glad about what you are going through. You should also demand consent before those people you have told your story monitize your suffering.
Yelsha. Dont give evil/devil people an ear to ruin you. Concentrate on positives, you have suffered enough and the last thing you want is to allow a witch of a woman to ruin the peace you are working so hard to get. One thing that you need to graduate on social media is to ignore negative forces that really dont make sense. May God protect you n your baby n go far. Those who are with you are more than those against you. God bless.
Soooooo..... I just now came to your channel because of the video you did with Lynn Ngugi. I was intrigued by your story so I came to check your channel and was enjoying you blogging about your last days in Germany. The whole time I was watching I was thinking, how could a mother turn her back on such a lovely young woman and her grand baby? Then I clicked on this video, smh. My dear, these people harassing you are jealous, petty, ignorant and hateful. There are people in this world who thrive on the suffering of others. There are Africans who unfortunately hate themselves so much that anything that shines a positive light on Africa is a threat to their very existence. How dare you leave the comfort of Europe willingly? How dare you shine and thrive in Africa and not fight to remain on the cold rock that is Europe? Of course in their twisted mind, this can’t be possible so it must be a lie. This is how the minds of liars and haters work. The fact that this woman took time out of her life to make a video about you, speaks volumes. There’s something deeply wrong with her mindset and don’t you let such nonsense spoil your lovely spirit. As an African American who migrated to the continent a few years ago, the best decision I ever made in my life btw, I can assure you, there is plenty room for your shine to only grow brighter. You have returned home and this continent needs more of your resilience and positivity in spite of difficulties and challenges. You made a wonderful choice not to break your back to remain in the west. You’ve given your beautiful daughter the opportunity to reach her full potential without the threat of racism in her face everyday. You’ve done well in sharing your story and I’m delighted to be a new subscriber and see what you get up to next. You are a shining star, a daughter of Africa, nobody can dim your light. Sending peace, love & healing 🙏🏾💪🏾✊🏾✌🏾
People will always talk trash in the name of content Siz,it is your truth,you need to be more strong.Thise bullies will not bring you down,you have a bright future ahead of you.
Let me tell girl u girl dnt let anyone to pull u down or to make u fill like u are alone no, show them u arw strong enough dear when u show them u are weak ndy watachukuwa hiyo side ,remember nothing is permanent in this world dear huyo anasema mtoi sijuwe nn, shw them u strong dear u, remember humans are humans wataogea to dear be strong swwe❤❤u not a loser
To be honest, when we watched her video, my wife and I had alot of questions afterwards.. We concluded that she was probably too young to be involved with the Nigerian..we also felt the mum could have gotten more involved...taking her to Germany might have been the first mistake to begin with.. but her returning home was the best decision. She looks much better today than her initial videos..she will succeed but she must over come the trauma by God's grace.
@@paulinemoraa8994 i dont think the issue is his Nigerian nationality..it was her age. She was too young to carry a pregnancy under those circumstances..
Gal I have faith in you that are going places pliz don't let negative thoughts dim your light.gal live your life do whatever makes you and your baby happy.kumbuka wataongea mchana kisha watalala usiku.people should mind their own business wawache kuwashwa na maisha ya watu
Hugs dear and sorry for that...never mind those who speak ill upon u....they will never understand the struggles and the pain...it shall b well with u...may God do u great
Yelsha take heart ,i know its not easy and not many would understand how you feel...iam in that Platz you were and iam fighting on for residence. You will go far..those who mock you are just preparing blessings for you dear...more grace more blessings
sorry Yelsha , Welcome to kenyan youtube where people are unhinged . just have tough skin because even within these haters youll find your forever family that will always support you.
it's alright, Mama Didi. It's your story, and we believe you & that's all that matters. My advice, don't explain to anybody. You are doing great. You are a loving mother. The future belongs to you ❤
Not everyone will understand your journey. Whether its true you were a bad child or not, its in the past and everyone has their past. Now focus on betterring yourself and prove them and your family wrong. You'll be fine. God got you girl❤
Don't give up mama ...❤❤...I just love you ❤from the day I saw you 💞.....u will never suffer ....God will always be with you either physically or mentally ❤....I will pray for you....dnt get triggered by social media..... social media is a fake life .....make ur self happy coz let me tell you wen u are happy then ur child is also happy ❤...May God be always on ur ways...Amen❤
My girl don't mind stupid people who only want down fall of others, you are a queen who went through a lot at your age, so don't let those devils to deem your spirit. We love you so much and may God bless you and your kid. May you never luck baby girl.
I saw that post and I felt so bad ..😢 beibe ignore these women who even aren’t responsible parents . Mind your healing process bby, take care of your little princess. Crazy Kenyans … Don’t explain to this wicked woman
I was in Germany I saw how they treat Africans .I work with refugees in Canada I cried seeing how Germany treats African refugees and those who have children with Nigerians are denied their children’s citizenship because the father was Nigerian .Your mom did not work on your documentation even here in Canada some parents make that mistake and children suffer later on.I came with my children to Canada and they don’t have Kenyan IDs nobody can give them a Kenyan passport they will need to go home because they had the old passport.Kenyans hawajui chochote wanaongea kama wajinga,hawana Akili about immigration.Leave the folks alone,don’t engage with wajinga
True Kenyans just being Kenyans. You don’t have to explain to those who doubt. Only us who have gone out of the country know what it really is being in a foreign country.
Exactly...Kwanzaa hawawezi kusaidiana...ku kunywa, ku cohabit, na ma wivu za ufala...hiyo ndio life ya watu wa home...all that time hawaji sort na makaro...just a shame...
Girl .. ignore them ! I’m here , I passed through this … actually have explained a bit about my story too … almost 99% to yours! We all kids who came here with their one parent go through this.. all my friends here have such stories !!!!!! Just let them talk. The thing is we haven’t come out yet and talked, but everything at a time …. !!!! Others have it even worse here… 😊
For me i just need to be comforted that the Nigerian father is supporting his child by any means necessary. If not doxx his name let us Nigerian men find him. 😂
You are young!! We love you and you will understand life better with time. And your Mum is the only person who will stand by you after all this is over. Kenya is not a joke. Uta miss hio job that you could not do then. Safe this message ❤. Beautiful girl.❤
Youre destined for greatness my gal❤. Nobody should trash you❤. You're a rafe 💎. God will always ne there for you and will always protect you against the enemy. May God bless you and increase your boundaries
I love u gal❤❤don't stress yourself with negativity,things will be fine,ushafika nyumbani Kenya is best despite our poor economic but but we love it here,much love from me
Am glad you addressed this clout chaser but don't allow them to affect you emotionally. You're strong and you will excel in life, you're blessed and your daughter is blessed and highly favored
Don’t let the miserable old women get to you we are a lot of African women raising strong women because their fathers didn’t step up. You’re very talented with everything you show us on your platform. Keep doing it and it will definitely pay off.
Please don't cry😢 they don't deserve your tears or any explanation from this matter.leave them alone its your story not their story people are heartless and very bitter with other people's lifestyle.achana nao tu
Yes truth to be told I'm in 🇺🇸 but depression is real you have one to talk to people go to work every time I understand you girl alot of people don't talk about this depression in this countries but uwezi people suffer so much
My fellow kenyan dnt worry what people say you are only one who know the pain , I was looking for help to here in Europe and many Kenyan all they said oh she is talking lies oh she want money which I had not even ask anyone they started saying oh in Europe you get help through government especially if u are woman if u tell them the process you have gone they dnt trust unless you scan your documents to them which I cnt cz u dnt know everyone heart Life in Europe especially with child Nd u get with this Nigeria many fellow kenyan think it your burden but soon God will see us through kids are blessing only that they cm with responsibility
Stemy ,look at how far you have come, take care of where you direct your energy cos if you focus on their negativity you will be more negative minded. You have good things about yourself. Focus on those and you'll see how better you get and their ego will be bruised. but if you give them attention you will keep giving them for approval na utaumia.
You are already blessed in Jesus name! Ignore those empty debes... Rem this.. God only knows our destinies and once he says Yes to you that's it...He has already said a Yes to you my dear
Take control of your life baby girl. Be the driver of your car. Such people come to your life to changanya you. Mambo ya majuu should now be your past.
You don’t owe people explanations. Wanakulipia rent? Are they feeding you? No! Live your life bila explaining.you aren’t hurting anyone. Ukianza kujustify you’ll live your life justifying all your life choices.Btw good for you for not giving her naijo nationality. That’s one thing you did right.! You’ll be ok baby girl! Keep on shining. Let the miserable people be
I always feel sorry for you Mamaa, You know what, Just pay deaf ears and blind eyes to such people, because if you'll not, it will cost you your Peace and they will not come to your rescue. Remember people want to trend with you and grow with you. Take care of you and Baby for me Love y'll alot.♥♥
When you share your experience expect people’s opinion,we can’t all be kumbaya,we see you have made „bad choice ‚ but that’s your life,if you publicize your life expect to be scrutinized 😢 it’s social media,if you want then don’t concentrate on the - then don’t talk about it
Hey yelsha I love you so much 💯You are really destined for greatness mamaa . Don't let anyone dull your sparkle . You are braver and stronger than you believe . Trust me , this chapter of your life is gonna be so amazing ♥️♥️
If u want to move on plz wachana na kusikiza mambo ya watu there are not God ,ignore them ad move on ,God will open doors for u ad fill ur basket ad they will witnesses ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😂
They are unhappy coz they can't liberate themselves old old women who are sad are now projecting! Live your life Mami tuko Kenya and ok you will be ok!
don’t cry Sis. You are amazing mom and strong woman, Keep shining , Don't let people's opinions change you. God is in control, trust God. take care of yourself and your Princess focus on what you want in your life. there are no limits and that anything is possible. You can achieve anything if you really want .pray about everything because nothing is impossible to God Keep posting your videos, 🇫🇮💕
Don't stress yourself gal pple go through alot and we all have enemies and that when God blessing come so don't let pple bring you down they owe no explanation do your best gal u r not suffering Kenya is ur home u will make it Trust in God not human
we still love you...and will support you. Dont worry not everyone will love you its part of life, just ignore them. People never know your true pain unless the have worn your shoes. I have been in Cyprus for 4 years i know the struggle, i dint struggle myself but i count myself lucky because i have seen my friends suffer and i couldnt help unfortunately.
Your story is yours to tell!!! It doesn't have to make sense to anyone!!! They can go tell their own perfect stories. You're beautiful, good mother and very inspiring. I don't know you but I love your journey. Please keep off negative energy. Don't feed your soul from negative miserable people!!! Misery loves company. I wish I could hug you and tell you that you are enough and you've done your best❤❤
Hey stemy, why are you crying?? Mgne youre so strong Please don't,you are giving her a good reason to laugh, can you just ignore for your mental health. Aki stemy stop it..!!!!
Leben in Kenia ist nicht einfach aber wenn dein herz dort liegt dann egal was passiert du wirst glücklich sein. Leben ist nicht nur um materielle Sachen sondern auch um Innere ruhe. Ich wohne seit 10 jahren in Österreich .ich komme selbst von kenia und habe ich trotz Schwierigkeiten die mann hier in mittel Europa erlebt entscheiden ich würde meine kindern nie mals in Kenia groß ziehen weil die Unsicherheit,die schule System(mann kann fast nicht in Europa mit kenianischen Ausbildung zertifiziert ein schönes job finden)mann muss dazu was lernen oder Umschulung.Arbeitslosigkeit ist groß in kenia.und Social Versicherung gibt nicht und wann sehr kompliziert) Ich habe eine Geschwister verloren im todt weil wir kein krankhaus Geld hatten obwohl die Krankheit was die hatte was total heilbar😢. Ich kann deine Gedanken verstehen und ich hoffe das du trotz die Schwierigkeiten was dir zukommt in Mut annimmt und das beste daraus macht.Kenia ist ein wunderschönes Land zu leben aber mit genug geld gibt sicherheit…..anderes wird nicht so leicht sein.Viel kraft und alles gute.
Stemy everything happens with purpose,were it not against your wish to come back it's the law.You are strong continue facing each day with pride and do what you treasure most.Thats just a tide passing by preparing you for greater days ahead.
I am so sorry that there are people always waiting to hurt people. Girl try to ignore some of those....let them be . Don't respond. YOU ARE THE OWNER OF YOUR STORY. THEY DONT KNOW YOU! OWN YOUR SPACE AND Know that THERE ARE SO MANY OTHER PEOPLE THAT LOVE YOU.
Dear Yelsha, do not justify yourself ❤❤❤
Love and light.
I love you.
People project because they have some parts of them that needs healing.
Kabisaaa
Lynn you are of great service 🙏all those stories on your platform..
I know that Yelsha is truthful about her story for in Europe there is a crisis ' those kinds of jobs that even natives don't want to do & then they try to push immigrants into that..
( When our young lacks support or information they are forced into a space which is leading them to depression...
(Her story is shading light on when we try to explain to people Africa is much better, coz for starters if you wish to study, nobody 'll deny you an Academican-status claiming you aren't smart enough and then pushing you into jobs that natives 'll not even do.. (you need a very strong mind to go against it and even if you win., i have seen many turn around and go home to find support & happiness..
I believe that this case was the best for her to go home.. she fought hard and if things are not working why go against the current just find the flow.. Kenya is a beautiful country with nice weather and beautiful friendly hospitable people.. most young Germans have a backbone with alot of support & advice which clearly Yelsha lacked.. I wish her the best 🙏
Don't let negative people dim your light. You're here to prosper and have a good life! All the best! Here to support!❤
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@stemyyelsha it's so sad that a fellow woman can bring another down ..she is down....be strong girl...your young and you will overcome all this ....all that matters is you and your baby are in peace ...ata don't bother with what people say...live your life....there is a God in heaven who sees and hears.......
Yelsha, Yelsha.......please ignore those social media "experts" over other peoples' lives. You are on your way to recovery and healing. Focus on your life and your little girl's welfare. Forget those women who feel like they own your story just because they "live" in Germany. Everyone's experience in Germany is DIFFERENT. Don't let that DIM your light..
She is justifying herself too much i hope someone advices her to tone down ju watu wa social media those women watafanya achizi and they don't care, so young girl protect your peace please its for your best interests
You owe them no explanation Charm ❤️ and most importantly it never should even make sense to those that see no sense in everything you say,,you'll most definitely make it big here at home Kenya, We got you and I beg you focus on the people that brings energy that builds you mam,,, Silent treatment is the best remedy for them trashtalkers,, I love youuu,, keep doing Youu🦋🌹❤️
One thing I’ve learned in life,never justify your story! You will always have people who hate and attack you. Wachana na hawa Watu. Your on your next stage of your life,rise even higher 😇💪🏽
Don’t let these social media people depress you girl. You’ve been through enough already. You gotta be strong for yourself and your baby. Stay positive. You haven’t reached your destination yet. Greatness is coming your way. Sending you lots of love from Zim 🇿🇼.
I came to understand that even if someone has lived somewhere for years it doesn’t mean they know everything. Where now it is wrong it is when people start assuming that other people are wrong because they are going through something you have no ideas about. This lady and baby needs so much love and support. She was courageous enough to share her story. Maybe that alone is enough to support her for. Yelsha you will overcome this and in the next 6 months you will be better.
You will not suffer in Jesus name ...NEVER! 🎉❤ sending love from South Africa❤
I understand your situation and I do empathize with you and the kid, although I have a very well paying job am mentally not stable,I feel drained..... it's just a matter of time before relocation back home.There is so much happiness back home...wish one day I can use your platform and share my experience here....ie I applied for My Aufenthaltstitel in March this year it's out but the pick up date is next year Feb,l had planned for my Dec holiday but can't travel coz of the document..... anyway I want to make your day with a kilo nyama choma for you and your kid and soda for that lady that hosted how.How can I fullfil that?
Pole mtoto wetu achana na wao ,ni vile hawaelewi yale umepitia ukiwa na umri mdogo, there just toking, atherwis your strong girl, hata wasuchana wake hawawexi kuwa strong kama wewe
Why are people so hurtless? I couldn't hold my tears when I was listening to her story and I related it with one of my cousin who was deported from Germany after been depressed, guys these things are real, kama mtu alienda Europe na maisha yake ikashine sio ya kila mtu itashine😢😢😢😢
Dear Yelsha, your journey and your experiences are your own, noone elses. You owe nobody any explaination or clarification. It’s your story say it how you feel is right. You are accountable to yourself and to your child only at this point. Please get help on how to cope with online bullying because these platforms (UA-cam, TikTok, Instagram etc) will be your work place and some will want to make money using you by bashing you, others will just want to see you go down because they themselves are down and hurting and want company in that dark corner.
Sending you hugs and praying for your healing. I see a young woman who will fight against all odds and one day have an organisation or platform that gives voices to children that were neglected, traumatised. Who will help parents check their parental styles and rectify them …I see a young woman owning an African fashion make up business, African modern unique clothing line, photography company. I see a lot of potential in you.
Please begin your healing journey and shut the noise off from people who are giving you negativity… they are all hurting, some are jealous you are getting the help they need and others are jealous you have/had the courage to face your pain and rise from it.
Praying for your strength and peace.
Yelsha please achana na watu ya social media some they know everything than you.u need to be strong for your daughter
Yelsha, I did a video too sharing lesson learned from your story. But you are a strong woman and I told you once and I will say it again. We are blessed differently and I can see you shining in kenya
Don't cry, expect more from negativity what u need to know is where ur going is far,ur success story is on the way.Stay positive,stay strong let ppl talk,they will always do.Ur beautiful 😍😍
We are here to support you ❤
Young lady, my advice to you is you don't need to express yourself to anyone, it's your life stay away from negativity.
Expressing your thoughts makes the enemies day.
No one should put you down.
Stay strong and move on.
True
Asante Sana kuwambia. Mahasidi hao. Adabu hawana. Hao ndio wanateseka huko Germany. Mimi pia hio Altenpflegerin nilikataa. Siwezi fanya. Wenye wanafanya wafanye. Sio ya kila mtu.
Stemy the way I root for you dear!! You wouldn't shed a single tear. I looove you, I love your energy, I love your positivity, I love the way you love your baby, giving her the love you did not get yourself. Pleeeease ignore noise and do you! You have ALOT inside you, and the best you can do is to bless this world with your gift. I will root for you to the end Stemy. I love you so much. Don't cry again. ❤
Hugs Stemy! Your story is yours. Own it. Don't worry about all the negativity. You and your child are going places. Keep loving and protecting your baby.
Am so pround of you Baby girl, please don't explain yourself to those evil people. They are not happy seeing you moving on and happy. You are such a brave Genius positive girl. I myself live in Germany Munich, l know the Situation. Stay positive and strong. You have our Support. God bless!
You owe no one an explanation sister. Stay strong and positive for yourself and the Angel. Can't loose your mind over some cowards hiding behind the keyboards.💪
True true hafai kua anatoa ata receipts ku explain to keyboard warriors who don't even have empathy ataji stress zaidi people out here can drain someones energy kabisa and those are the people she needs to learn to ignore awaache waseme watachoka tu athawise if she let's wat pple say control her feelings then ataishi kuji explain na kulia na kutoa receipts 🧾lol.
Dont let them bring you down
You owe no one explanation...go go girl..
🎉🎉success hun
I understand you, don't let them destroy your mental health.
Hata mimi niko Germany but nilishidwa kufanya Altenpfleger because am not strong enough mentally for that.
But am doing other job.
Am sorry you experienced that but please just ignore those people who always see negative in everything.. don't give them attention..they didn't deserve it ❤
My Sister ignore those useless people and Carry on with your life, those people are only interested in views, thats Social media, too many negative folks ...Keep it up genuine people understand your Situation and keep the positive vibes, you are a real Strong Woman
Mamaa,ebu achana na watu.live your life and be happy.dont prove yourself.much love from me.nakupenda bure
Kindly stop pitying yourself and start living. There is life outside Europe. Do I live in Germany? No. Does Lynn Ngúgí live in Germany? No. Do all the people you see when you open your front door live in Germany? Absolutely no...yet we are prospering.
Quit that pity party. We intend to help and support you but not with all these tears.
Wake up and shake up girl. Hapa ni Kenya. Uko nyumbani where no one can deport you.
Live in Germany. Did the job you talk about, now working. I m depressed, but i m stuck. I dont know what to do next. The tweet is very true. I saw your video few days ago and totally agree. Don't explain yourself to people who didn't live your experience. They will never understand.
Sorry for all your going through .
Word of caution.
Dont tell people your problems.80% dont care,20 % are glad about what you are going through.
You should also demand consent before those people you have told your story monitize your suffering.
I need to know who did that video, coz I need to give her a piece of my thoughts 😡..... babygirl, you're going to conquer ❤
Kenya imekukubali you're glowing baby girl😊
Yelsha. Dont give evil/devil people an ear to ruin you. Concentrate on positives, you have suffered enough and the last thing you want is to allow a witch of a woman to ruin the peace you are working so hard to get. One thing that you need to graduate on social media is to ignore negative forces that really dont make sense. May God protect you n your baby n go far. Those who are with you are more than those against you. God bless.
Soooooo..... I just now came to your channel because of the video you did with Lynn Ngugi. I was intrigued by your story so I came to check your channel and was enjoying you blogging about your last days in Germany.
The whole time I was watching I was thinking, how could a mother turn her back on such a lovely young woman and her grand baby? Then I clicked on this video, smh.
My dear, these people harassing you are jealous, petty, ignorant and hateful. There are people in this world who thrive on the suffering of others. There are Africans who unfortunately hate themselves so much that anything that shines a positive light on Africa is a threat to their very existence.
How dare you leave the comfort of Europe willingly? How dare you shine and thrive in Africa and not fight to remain on the cold rock that is Europe?
Of course in their twisted mind, this can’t be possible so it must be a lie. This is how the minds of liars and haters work.
The fact that this woman took time out of her life to make a video about you, speaks volumes. There’s something deeply wrong with her mindset and don’t you let such nonsense spoil your lovely spirit.
As an African American who migrated to the continent a few years ago, the best decision I ever made in my life btw, I can assure you, there is plenty room for your shine to only grow brighter.
You have returned home and this continent needs more of your resilience and positivity in spite of difficulties and challenges.
You made a wonderful choice not to break your back to remain in the west. You’ve given your beautiful daughter the opportunity to reach her full potential without the threat of racism in her face everyday.
You’ve done well in sharing your story and I’m delighted to be a new subscriber and see what you get up to next.
You are a shining star, a daughter of Africa, nobody can dim your light.
Sending peace, love & healing 🙏🏾💪🏾✊🏾✌🏾
People will always talk trash in the name of content Siz,it is your truth,you need to be more strong.Thise bullies will not bring you down,you have a bright future ahead of you.
Let me tell girl u girl dnt let anyone to pull u down or to make u fill like u are alone no, show them u arw strong enough dear when u show them u are weak ndy watachukuwa hiyo side ,remember nothing is permanent in this world dear huyo anasema mtoi sijuwe nn, shw them u strong dear u, remember humans are humans wataogea to dear be strong swwe❤❤u not a loser
We Dada mbona mzuri ivyo hebu wachana na wao wasikulize wwe simama na mngu na bidii ulee mwanao maisha yaende mbele wacha waseme
To be honest, when we watched her video, my wife and I had alot of questions afterwards..
We concluded that she was probably too young to be involved with the Nigerian..we also felt the mum could have gotten more involved...taking her to Germany might have been the first mistake to begin with.. but her returning home was the best decision.
She looks much better today than her initial videos..she will succeed but she must over come the trauma by God's grace.
Any man can make u cry if he's not ready to settle am married with Nigerian man with 4kids 15years in France and am happy
@@paulinemoraa8994 i dont think the issue is his Nigerian nationality..it was her age. She was too young to carry a pregnancy under those circumstances..
Pole sana ,don't let negative minds trash your journey and pain . You have a very beautiful daughter who looks up to you. Much love 🇨🇦
Gal I have faith in you that are going places pliz don't let negative thoughts dim your light.gal live your life do whatever makes you and your baby happy.kumbuka wataongea mchana kisha watalala usiku.people should mind their own business wawache kuwashwa na maisha ya watu
Babe ignore them 😢u r very strong 😊and none should judge u.
Hugs dear and sorry for that...never mind those who speak ill upon u....they will never understand the struggles and the pain...it shall b well with u...may God do u great
Yelsha take heart ,i know its not easy and not many would understand how you feel...iam in that Platz you were and iam fighting on for residence. You will go far..those who mock you are just preparing blessings for you dear...more grace more blessings
sorry Yelsha , Welcome to kenyan youtube where people are unhinged . just have tough skin because even within these haters youll find your forever family that will always support you.
it's alright, Mama Didi. It's your story, and we believe you & that's all that matters. My advice, don't explain to anybody. You are doing great. You are a loving mother. The future belongs to you ❤
Not everyone will understand your journey. Whether its true you were a bad child or not, its in the past and everyone has their past. Now focus on betterring yourself and prove them and your family wrong.
You'll be fine. God got you girl❤
Don't give up mama ...❤❤...I just love you ❤from the day I saw you 💞.....u will never suffer ....God will always be with you either physically or mentally ❤....I will pray for you....dnt get triggered by social media..... social media is a fake life .....make ur self happy coz let me tell you wen u are happy then ur child is also happy ❤...May God be always on ur ways...Amen❤
Just work hard and smart and prove them wrong, we believe in you❤
Exactly she should focus on what she started and ignore the negative comments.
Praying for you Yelsha..incase you feel low kindly reach lynn all of us hatuwezi.kufikia
Wacha makasiriko... embrace your new life in Kenya...good luck...
My girl don't mind stupid people who only want down fall of others, you are a queen who went through a lot at your age, so don't let those devils to deem your spirit. We love you so much and may God bless you and your kid. May you never luck baby girl.
Wachana na hao WANYANYA wanamajungu. They have no vision ndio maana wanafkiria Europe ni binguni.
Don't cry baby ❤ you'll make it in Kenya you're so brave
I saw that post and I felt so bad ..😢 beibe ignore these women who even aren’t responsible parents . Mind your healing process bby, take care of your little princess. Crazy Kenyans …
Don’t explain to this wicked woman
I was in Germany I saw how they treat Africans .I work with refugees in Canada I cried seeing how Germany treats African refugees and those who have children with Nigerians are denied their children’s citizenship because the father was Nigerian .Your mom did not work on your documentation even here in Canada some parents make that mistake and children suffer later on.I came with my children to Canada and they don’t have Kenyan IDs nobody can give them a Kenyan passport they will need to go home because they had the old passport.Kenyans hawajui chochote wanaongea kama wajinga,hawana Akili about immigration.Leave the folks alone,don’t engage with wajinga
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True Kenyans just being Kenyans. You don’t have to explain to those who doubt. Only us who have gone out of the country know what it really is being in a foreign country.
Exactly...Kwanzaa hawawezi kusaidiana...ku kunywa, ku cohabit, na ma wivu za ufala...hiyo ndio life ya watu wa home...all that time hawaji sort na makaro...just a shame...
Girl let this people Talk, they are numb and ignorant.
And you don't need Job what you don't want
Sending hugs girl, ignore the negative energy.
Be strong mama you've come along way and God knows that ... I wish I could give you a hug 🤗
Girl .. ignore them ! I’m here , I passed through this … actually have explained a bit about my story too … almost 99% to yours! We all kids who came here with their one parent go through this.. all my friends here have such stories !!!!!! Just let them talk. The thing is we haven’t come out yet and talked, but everything at a time …. !!!! Others have it even worse here… 😊
For me i just need to be comforted that the Nigerian father is supporting his child by any means necessary. If not doxx his name let us Nigerian men find him. 😂
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You are young!! We love you and you will understand life better with time. And your Mum is the only person who will stand by you after all this is over. Kenya is not a joke. Uta miss hio job that you could not do then. Safe this message ❤. Beautiful girl.❤
Youre destined for greatness my gal❤. Nobody should trash you❤. You're a rafe 💎. God will always ne there for you and will always protect you against the enemy. May God bless you and increase your boundaries
I love u gal❤❤don't stress yourself with negativity,things will be fine,ushafika nyumbani Kenya is best despite our poor economic but but we love it here,much love from me
Am glad you addressed this clout chaser but don't allow them to affect you emotionally. You're strong and you will excel in life, you're blessed and your daughter is blessed and highly favored
Don’t let the miserable old women get to you we are a lot of African women raising strong women because their fathers didn’t step up. You’re very talented with everything you show us on your platform. Keep doing it and it will definitely pay off.
I saw the video in her you tube channel and I said to myself no no,woman you can do better than that..we own our own story..be strong darling, hugs❤
Who is the woman?I want to go and greet her on her UA-cam channel on behalf of Yelsha😅
@@sharonlorna8255 Same I want to pass by and give her my greetings. Mschewwww
Am so sorry Darling for all that you went through. Amani ya Bwana ikutoshe 🙏
stemy hung in there ,God has a reason for everything...you will still achieve your dream ...love you buddy ❤
Please don't cry😢 they don't deserve your tears or any explanation from this matter.leave them alone its your story not their story people are heartless and very bitter with other people's lifestyle.achana nao tu
Yes truth to be told I'm in 🇺🇸 but depression is real you have one to talk to people go to work every time I understand you girl alot of people don't talk about this depression in this countries but uwezi people suffer so much
My fellow kenyan dnt worry what people say you are only one who know the pain , I was looking for help to here in Europe and many Kenyan all they said oh she is talking lies oh she want money which I had not even ask anyone they started saying oh in Europe you get help through government especially if u are woman if u tell them the process you have gone they dnt trust unless you scan your documents to them which I cnt cz u dnt know everyone heart
Life in Europe especially with child Nd u get with this Nigeria many fellow kenyan think it your burden but soon God will see us through kids are blessing only that they cm with responsibility
why suffer in kenya kwani sisi tuko kenya tunateseka ,ignore those people dont explain anything to them kwani wao ndio wanakulisha alaah
Stemy ,look at how far you have come, take care of where you direct your energy cos if you focus on their negativity you will be more negative minded. You have good things about yourself. Focus on those and you'll see how better you get and their ego will be bruised. but if you give them attention you will keep giving them for approval na utaumia.
You are already blessed in Jesus name! Ignore those empty debes... Rem this.. God only knows our destinies and once he says Yes to you that's it...He has already said a Yes to you my dear
Take control of your life baby girl.
Be the driver of your car.
Such people come to your life to changanya you.
Mambo ya majuu should now be your past.
You don’t owe people explanations. Wanakulipia rent? Are they feeding you? No! Live your life bila explaining.you aren’t hurting anyone. Ukianza kujustify you’ll live your life justifying all your life choices.Btw good for you for not giving her naijo nationality. That’s one thing you did right.! You’ll be ok baby girl! Keep on shining. Let the miserable people be
I always feel sorry for you Mamaa, You know what, Just pay deaf ears and blind eyes to such people, because if you'll not, it will cost you your Peace and they will not come to your rescue. Remember people want to trend with you and grow with you. Take care of you and Baby for me Love y'll alot.♥♥
Baby😢take heart…..i know how you feel…hugs my love🥺
Kamum don't let people pull you down be strong and God Will fight for you.please smile ok
Love am praying for you. God is working on you in amazing ways, just wait and see ❣️
When you share your experience expect people’s opinion,we can’t all be kumbaya,we see you have made „bad choice ‚ but that’s your life,if you publicize your life expect to be scrutinized 😢 it’s social media,if you want then don’t concentrate on the - then don’t talk about it
Be strong baby gal
Your future is bright
Don't let negativety pull you behind,
You are the designer of your future and God to guide and protect
Be happy and positive for you and your girl, that is what matters most.
Hey yelsha I love you so much 💯You are really destined for greatness mamaa . Don't let anyone dull your sparkle . You are braver and stronger than you believe . Trust me , this chapter of your life is gonna be so amazing ♥️♥️
Hi dear, be strong and trust in God, those are hopeless individuals in Germany. You are young and strong, your future is bright 🙏🍀🌹
If u want to move on plz wachana na kusikiza mambo ya watu there are not God ,ignore them ad move on ,God will open doors for u ad fill ur basket ad they will witnesses ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😂
They are unhappy coz they can't liberate themselves old old women who are sad are now projecting! Live your life Mami tuko Kenya and ok you will be ok!
don’t cry Sis. You are amazing mom and strong woman, Keep shining , Don't let people's opinions change you. God is in control, trust God. take care of yourself and your Princess focus on what you want in your life. there are no limits and that anything is possible. You can achieve anything if you really want .pray about everything because nothing is impossible to God Keep posting your videos, 🇫🇮💕
I feel u,al I can say to u is be strong,forget about the haters,u have a life which is the most important thing to forcus on,u r strong girl,
Woi am sorry gal,I saw ua story and I wish I can just give you a tight hug😢😢😢stop crying....
Don't stress yourself gal pple go through alot and we all have enemies and that when God blessing come so don't let pple bring you down they owe no explanation do your best gal u r not suffering Kenya is ur home u will make it Trust in God not human
God will never leave you nor forsake you. Cheer up💛💛
we still love you...and will support you. Dont worry not everyone will love you its part of life, just ignore them. People never know your true pain unless the have worn your shoes. I have been in Cyprus for 4 years i know the struggle, i dint struggle myself but i count myself lucky because i have seen my friends suffer and i couldnt help unfortunately.
I understand you sis, don't let people ruin your life.
Usijali your blessed..
Your story is yours to tell!!! It doesn't have to make sense to anyone!!! They can go tell their own perfect stories. You're beautiful, good mother and very inspiring. I don't know you but I love your journey. Please keep off negative energy. Don't feed your soul from negative miserable people!!! Misery loves company. I wish I could hug you and tell you that you are enough and you've done your best❤❤
Be strong baby gal
Your future is bright
Don't let negativety pull you behind,
You are the designer of your future
Hey stemy, why are you crying??
Mgne youre so strong
Please don't,you are giving her a good reason to laugh, can you just ignore for your mental health.
Aki stemy stop it..!!!!
Leben in Kenia ist nicht einfach aber wenn dein herz dort liegt dann egal was passiert du wirst glücklich sein.
Leben ist nicht nur um materielle Sachen sondern auch um Innere ruhe.
Ich wohne seit 10 jahren in Österreich .ich komme selbst von kenia und habe ich trotz Schwierigkeiten die mann hier in mittel Europa erlebt entscheiden ich würde meine kindern nie mals in Kenia groß ziehen weil die Unsicherheit,die schule System(mann kann fast nicht in Europa mit kenianischen Ausbildung zertifiziert ein schönes job finden)mann muss dazu was lernen oder Umschulung.Arbeitslosigkeit ist groß in kenia.und Social Versicherung gibt nicht und wann sehr kompliziert)
Ich habe eine Geschwister verloren im todt weil wir kein krankhaus Geld hatten obwohl die Krankheit was die hatte was total heilbar😢.
Ich kann deine Gedanken verstehen und ich hoffe das du trotz die Schwierigkeiten was dir zukommt in Mut annimmt und das beste daraus macht.Kenia ist ein wunderschönes Land zu leben aber mit genug geld gibt sicherheit…..anderes wird nicht so leicht sein.Viel kraft und alles gute.
Genauuuuuuu!!!!!!!!!!
Stemy everything happens with purpose,were it not against your wish to come back it's the law.You are strong continue facing each day with pride and do what you treasure most.Thats just a tide passing by preparing you for greater days ahead.
I am so sorry that there are people always waiting to hurt people. Girl try to ignore some of those....let them be . Don't respond. YOU ARE THE OWNER OF YOUR STORY. THEY DONT KNOW YOU! OWN YOUR SPACE AND Know that THERE ARE SO MANY OTHER PEOPLE THAT LOVE YOU.