Sarah talks about the challenges of getting married, with aphasia after a stroke at 18
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- Опубліковано 7 тра 2023
- Sarah Scott (Now Sarah Dickens), talks about her marriage and the challenges of taking vows when you have aphasia. Wait until the end to see the wedding photo! It was very hard to find information about what Sarah would need to say during the ceremony to make the marriage legal - so we hope this video might help others in the same situation.
I've been following these videos for years, and I'm always impressed with your progress every time. Thank you for sharing your story with us, and congrats on your wedding!
Thank you so much!
Oh, Sarah, you are just so incredibly inspirational to me; a hero really. It gives me hope to watch you. I have Aphasia from a vehicle accident 3 months after I received my first TBI from falling; the 2nd concussion/TBI gave me double vision and Aphasia, plus a multitude of other issues which include constant migraines & headaches. So many of your words & statements are exactly how i feel. I don't know anyone with Aphasia. It took 1.5 years to get into a neurologist's office and just yesterday the MRIs came back and showed i didn't have a stroke, and it showed white spots that are from having bad migraines & headaches, so it proves the Aphasia is from the accident. When I get stressed, or over stimulated, my Aphasia is much worse, and it is embarrassing. I get scared that I may forget all words. Just know, please, that your videos are beyond helpful. And your mom, what a jewel she is! It feels like you are my friend and you are so charming. Congratulations on your wedding, you both are lovely! God bless your marriage. (I live in Idaho, USA.)
I stumbled across the first video (uploaded thirteen years ago) detailing sarah's aphasia literally like ten minutes ago.
I'm overjoyed that she's living her life to the fullest.
I'm so damn happy for her.
what a wild ride of emotions I've had.
Here's to a long and happy marriage!.
Sarah. By the way, I have difficulty communicating because I had a stroke in Broca’s area, the part of the brain that controls speech. 2/8/2021 but I lived again. (My wife helped me compose this.)
Thank you for your reply and for watching!
I discovered your videos three years ago when my wife suffered several strokes resulting in aphasia. Watching your journey has been an inspiration to both of us as we live with the new normal. Congratulations on your marriage, and please know that your messages through the years have been far reaching in encouraging so many people. Blessings to you and your family!
Thank you, that means a lot. Good luck with your recovery!
I can't believe I've been following your recovery for 13 years.
Congratulations, you've come so far, wish you the best!!
Thank you for watching!
I had a major stroke in August 2023. I am 53. I was lucky that there is a drug they called a stroke blocker. After time in the hospital my speech started getting better. Basic words at first. I was lucky that I got into speech therapy early and read and writing started coming to me quickly from going every week. Today was a bad day as I had trouble communicating. Being in the USA I am very worrying about what the future holds. I am happy that your life has gotten better for you and wish you the best.
Best of luck on your recovery. You write very articulately. Good bless you.
Sarah, I had a major stroke a year and a half ago. My aphasia is improving but I completely lost it for a whole month before I spoke for the first time. I really like your stories and how you have improved all these years. And you taught me that I will always have aphasia forever. That makes me hard many times but your thoughts help me know that I can do better even with my aphasia. Thank you for your marriage and that you are such a helper to me.
Thank you so much for watching and leaving a comment, good luck with your recovery. Aphasia is hard but there is always hope!
Hey sarah I'm a medical student and your videos have helped me learn alot about aphasia while studying my neurology module. I wish you best of health and a fulfilling happy life ahead of you
Beautiful photo! I'm so glad that Sarah managed to navigate the minefield of not just the vows, but of the wedding too. Weddings can be such a stressful event at the best of times!
That’s true! Thank you x
I am writing this comment all the way from South Korea. I first watched your 1st video at 19 year old or something because I wanted to know what aphasia looked like in reality than my neuroscience textbook. I was trying to understand Broca’s phasia. You left me so much learning and beyond. You are such an inspiration and hope to the world. I appreciate how you turned your vurnerability into power as you embraced it. I appreciate how you wanted to challenge yourself with work in the previous video. And I see lots of changes between your videos. Sorry my comment is going everywhere, but I am truly humbled by your life. You look so happy and positive since the 1st viedo, too. It is just so nice!! And congratulations on your marriage. I bless your family, and may God bless you abundance, prosperity and children. Your joy truly overfew in other side of the globe. PS: You dont age either, girl!! Beautiful all around is you!
WOW! I saw the first video and now this and the difference in language is inspiring! BLESSED.
Hi Sarah, congratulations on your wedding! Aphasia in the house 🙌~ I’m coming up on my 5 year-stroke anniversary. You talk like nothing’s happened. You’re are my North Star. And about the rain; I’m in Seattle and you are in the UK and we are kindred spirits. 😊
It´s awesome to follow your story. I cant believe how long it has been and how strong you´ve been. It´s a massive inspiration to making things a little bit better every day.
Thank you, it means a lot when someone leaves a comment and I really appreciate it!
I have watched most of your videos and it really gives me hope for my friend who had a stroke ten weeks ago. He's having brain injury rehab currently
Every best wish to your and your friend and we wish him a good recovery.
Amazing! My younger brother had a stroke 5 years ago and has aphasia. He is doing well and making a strong recovery. I shared your channel with him. Thank you for sharing your story with us!
Wow! I just saw the original videos from 12-13 years then came to this. You've done so well! And congratulations on your marriage!!
This is absolutely incredible and inspirational! Sincere congratulations!😊
Thank you for sharing another update! Congratulations on your wedding❤❤❤❤❤❤ Been following you for nearly a decade, and it’s great to see you enjoying life!
So happy you've recovered so much!
So glad you’re recovering!
Thank you for sharing, Sarah.
Great to see that you're doing well! Inspiring story!
I have had a hemorrhagic stroke three years ago. I have been following you. You a great teacher. Keep it up!!! Btw, happy wedding.
Thank you! Stay well.
Congratulations! This made me so happy! Wish you the best
Been following you for a while. Congratulations on getting married! Very excited to see how far you will continue into your journey.
OH MY GOD YOU IMPROVED ALOT!!!!!!
LETS GOOOOOOOOOO IM SO HAPPY MAN THIS MADE MY DAY
you should know you are so strong, you inspired me and alot of people and we're so proud of you❤
AND CONGRATS!!!!!
Fascinating stuff, amazing progress
Congrates..You have improved so much. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for sharing these parts of your life. I'm always happy to see a new video. So very impressed with your progress over the years. I'm sure this gives hope to other stroke patients with aphasia. Congratulations on your wedding.
Damn. Such a huge progress. I am happy to see such an incredible recovery. Good job.
Oh wow! The progress you've made is very encouraging. I'm so glad I found your videos, and I'm so happy to see how well you are doing and how far you have come. you are an inspiration Sarah and this is by far and away the best youtube rabbit hole I have ever fallen dhown haha. Congratulations on your marriage, and I wish you many more years of good health to post loads more lovely videos like this. Thank you for sharing this guys, I really appreciate it.
Thanks for continuing these videos, I look forward to seeing you each year!! Congratulations on you and your partner!! 🎉❤
Oh wow. I started with your first video, then went to you at age 24, then came to watch this. What a remarkable comparison.
Best wishes. Congrats on the marriage.
Im so happy for you Sarah congratulations on the marriage you are a inspiration your progress over the years have been incredible ❤
Managed to catch the video just after upload! Always a pleasure to see an update from Sarah, it's certainly been a significant year.
Interesting that you mentioned confidence - you can see the progression over the years with Sarah's confidence improving. Clearly numbers are still a challenge - I'm curious as to how you've adapted to manage this as best you can day to day and are there any particular times when it's more of an issue than others?
You also mentioned how it changes your life and you as a person - the Sarah I knew from our many years online is very much still there, though. We'd been out of touch for a bit before her stroke, but it's sometimes hard from an outside perspective to think back and realise how we took the ease of communication for granted and how easily it can be taken away.
Much love and best wishes to Sarah and all the family, as always x
Woah saw your video recorded when you were 19 and the one now you really have improved a lot you are a great inspiration to others god bless you !
This is amazing you are so much better. So much. Best wishes keep up the good work you get there
It's good to see you again!
Thank you!
You are a very inspiring lady Sarah ❤ lovely story and so happy you have not let your disability overcome you.
It’s such a joy to see these updates, and the remarkable progress as seen from these punctuated intervals we get to witness.
Congratulations on your wedding, I wish you the best, from a fellow recovering aphasiac (I know that’s not really a word, but I’m going with it anyway).
Thank you and good luck with your own recovery!
Sarah, please keep up the yearly videos. I teach in a Physical Therapist Assistant program and have used your videos to educate students about aphasia and how it affects the person's life. You are an inspiration!
Wasn't expecting an update from you and what great news!!! Some of the people I work with has aphasia and the progress you have made in every video has been so uplifting to see! Congratulations and best wishes!!!
Thank you!
wow your speech progress is so wonderful to see. I'm an SLT student, very interesting useful videos. thanks
It's beautiful to see you do quite alright! Wish you all the best and further progress!
Thanks for your comment and for watching!
Glad to see you. Congratulations on your marriage and thank you for sharing your journey!
Thank you for watching and leaving a comment!
Hi. I'm a psychology teacher from the US and I have been showing your story (and progress) every year in my class. Thank you for sharing!
That’s amazing! Thank you so much.
I am so glad you are doing well. I look forward to when you do post. I am two years past my own stoke so you give me hope. Funny about numbers, I loved board games, and it is strange that dice rolls in games give me so much trouble. At least I have friends willing to help. Keeping care of yourself!
Good to hear that your friends help you. Keep hope alive! Thank you.
This is so encouraging to watch! I came across these videos through a university class, and seeing your progress through the years is such an uplifting example of resilience! God bless you and congratulations on your marriage!
Thank you and good luck with your studies!
Nice to see you again Sarah! Congrats on your wedding. Sounds like it went well overall besides the little challenge with your vows. Your strength and positivity are truly admirable. Please don’t stop making the videos. You are an inspiration to so many out there!
Thank you!
I just had the video from 14yrs ago pop up so I had to check to see how Sarah was getting on, awww this makes my heart melt, she's married and happy and healthy, godbless 💖
Congrats Sarah ❤ Wonderful news!
Thank you!
Sarah, Congratulations! Stuart is a very lucky guy! You are inspirational and it is good that you are highlighting the everyday challanges you are having to deal with. I am sure it helps others enormously. Also it helps others who know and work with people who have aphasia. Well done!
Thank you we really appreciate that x
Dear Sarah, I'm so glad you have continue to make improvements and helping others learn about speech Aphasia. Bless your heart. Congratulations. Greetings from Savannah Georgia USA.
Thank you so much!
Congratulations! ❤. I had a stroke and aphasia too. It’s hard to talk to people, I get it 😊! Writing and reading and numbers are so hard!
Bless your beautiful heart Sarah!
Congrats to you and your recovery. I'm sure it took a lot of hard work to get this far. I wish you well with your marriage.
Thank you yes aphasia is hard but always be positive!
First of all thank you very much for supporting your daughter with in such a big scale. I mean, we can not see, actually, how did you and other members of your family struggle and eventually overcome difficulties in this so long journey. But you DID IT. Sarah should be very thankful of having Mother like you!
My son was shot in the head 2010 and has come a long way, like you have. He had a job for a while but had to quit bc he ❤ remembering some of his tasks. He refuses to tell people he needs help. He also didnt like to go out much. But he has moved 10 hrs away with a girlfriend and seems to be doing good. He also has problems w words you dont say all the time and also with numbers. He is exactly like you say. He needs to see it. I started following you many years ago. Keep it going. i love to hear how you are doing.
Thank you for your comment, it’s hard when you’re not close to your family but good to know he has a partner and is doing well so far. Sending love.
Your hair looks great! I think you've really found your look :)
Thank you so much!
Love the photo! 🎉
Congratulations Sarah on your marriage.I can imagine it must have been very challenging to say your vows in your marriage ceremony while having aphasia. For me I would find it nervewrecking to do it.
I have aphasia too since my stroke in january 2010 and I am still busy with recuperating but it goes better during the years after the stoke. Sarah, you have been making a lot of progess since I saw your first video after your stroke. I am very happy to see that you are doing fine and to see your new video. Kind regards Elise from the Netherlands
Thank you Elise and good luck to you!
You were a very beautiful bride well done Sarah on all you do for others
Thank you!
What everyone else said, and thank you for sharing with us!
Just watched your second video then watched this. The progress and difference is night and day.
wow your progress amazes me 🙂
i wouldn’t wish this on anyone. i’m happy for her that she’s mostly recovered. much love.
Wow, what a very impressive and inspirational journey.
very happy for the incredible progress, amazing that the brain is able to rewire itself and improve.
You look great! I had a stroke four years ago so I get it!
my aphasia has been a problem since my stroke at 17 but have always been able to push through it. however, laitly ive noticed other people think im getting angery at them because when i notice im having a hard time speaking i speak louder so i can be more clear and they think im yelling at them . i got denied a loan to move because the mortgage broker thought i was yelling at her which got my move paid for in the end because she was worried id sue for discrimination so she gave me an intrest free no need to pay back loan. she offered $10,000 knowing i could legally get $20,000 plus my court fees and i said it was an hounest mistake i just need the $6,000 of the original loan i was asking for so i got that and called it good i can move and not look back
Thank for your comment - could you maybe get some speech therapy to work on your voice a bit more so that you can avoid shouting? I’m sorry that it’s difficult for you.
i saw your vid from when you’re 19. Wanted to know if aphasia eventually goes away. Awesome dude. Congrats you sound great.
You are a wonderful person, congratulations!❤
Thank you so much!
❤ Congratulations!! You sound epic.
Thank you!
Thanks 😊
Thank you for watching x
Congratulations on your marriage. Lovely news.
Thanks for watching!
Live your best life queen 😤
I wonder if ChatGPT could be a helpful tool for people with aphasia. When you have to write a very long email you can ask in much shorter and simpler terms what it needs to say, and it'll produce a full thing for you
That's really interesting! Maybe worth looking into. Thank you!
I am a stroke survivor with aphasia (fortunately quite mild), also a computer science professor. Very interested in this topic! I think we will see a lot of developments in the next few years. Stay tuned!
So impressed.. how can I get in touch with u Sarah .. my sister had stroke with broca aphasia aka expressive aphasia. I have few questions to ask u
You can email us or ask here? Ukjoanie@hotmail.co.uk All the best to you and your sister.
I've been watching these videos for years... which is sort of strange, since I have no relationship to anyone with aphasia. Having an advanced degree in writing, though, I do place a high regard on language and communication, so i think that's where my interest stems from. And I always wonder: are you able to type at a "normal" pace? Is it a block between the brain and the mouth, or the ability to formulate these words in the first place? But since typing is usually a lot slower than talking, I wonder if you're able to type as whatever speed you're capable of typing. Anyway, congratulations on getting married!
Speech to text is the best way to type and apps help with that. Processing thoughts into text can be slow. Thanks for watching and leaving a comment!
I wish I could talk to her and ask about how she managed thing out in her life, in my country this kind of thing would be shrugged out as a sign of just being dumb...so I don't think there's help coming any soon
best wishes dear
DO you think your age played a part in your recovery? Do you feel like you are nearly 100% recovered?
i know you probably get tons of questions about your condition, and you are probably tired of answering them at this point so feel free to ignore me I will think nothing of it. do you struggle to say the words your thinking of, or do you know the word and cant say it. I constantly forget common words all the time and cant recall what it is, its like i know the word exists but cant say it. im only 30yo.
Sometimes Sarah knows the word but can’t express it, so she tries to find a similar word if that makes sense. Have you got aphasia? It’s worth speaking to your doctor if this happens a lot. Thanks for your comment!
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This is not the same girl! From the older video is it!??
Yes it is
I have aphasia. Pfizer 😢
I am so happy to find your account 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹 we are on Day 9 of my father’s stroke with severe expressive aphasia…he essentially says “one” for everything (very few other words). The hope and inspiration that you and Sarah have given us is more than I can ever express. I will share her story and these videos with him tomorrow. God bless you & I am so happy for you, Sarah, and your family!!!
i was saving myself for you, sarah
Awh!🤣