I can't sleep so I made tea | body image issues, body dysmorphia and self-esteem

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  • Опубліковано 7 лип 2024
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  • @marguie222
    @marguie222  20 днів тому +40

    longest video of this channel !! this was very personal, i hope it resonates with some of you, i wish you all best love you so so much 💗

  • @Flo_Nova
    @Flo_Nova 20 днів тому +29

    Marguie, you’ve literally got the most beautiful smile I’ve ever seen. I think this every time you smile. Please keep smiling, it’s so genuine and lights up the entire room.

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  15 днів тому

      omg 🥹🥹🥹 this is so sweet, thank you so much 💗

  • @averreea
    @averreea 20 днів тому +30

    i don't know if you've ever seen the movie lady bird but you remind me of her in the absolute coolest way possible

    • @YousraMebarek
      @YousraMebarek 20 днів тому

      yes ! i think so too !! both so gorgeous ♥

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  14 днів тому +2

      i love her so much this is such a compliment

  • @isaiah15683
    @isaiah15683 20 днів тому +9

    Your smile is so beautiful, you light up any room. Seeing your videos light me up and makes me smile. You’re such a genuine person and I’m grateful you have the courage to share anything

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  14 днів тому

      thank you so much 💗💗🎀

  • @bettyyybooopp
    @bettyyybooopp 20 днів тому +16

    I am really struggling with anorexia right now. It’s so hard to find the willingness to recover for me. And you are helping me so much. You got this and we love you. thank you for simply existing

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  15 днів тому

      YOU GOT THIS!! recovery is soooo worth it, love you 💗💗

    • @bettyyybooopp
      @bettyyybooopp 15 днів тому

      @@marguie222 thank you so much 💕💕 love ya

  • @alginn
    @alginn 20 днів тому +21

    Today I cried for hours because of my body. I need this, thank you. Now I am drinking my mint tea and feel better

    • @bettyyybooopp
      @bettyyybooopp 20 днів тому +5

      wow. I really hope you will realise that you deserve to be free from that self loathing. Because you do. It’s okay to cry. I am here for you.

    • @Herminutza
      @Herminutza 19 днів тому +2

      Hope ur okay we all got thiss :)

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  15 днів тому +2

      really hope everyone here is okay ❤️‍🩹

    • @alginn
      @alginn 13 годин тому

      You are so sweet thanks

  • @burnedskin_
    @burnedskin_ 20 днів тому +9

    Can't wait to sit down with my own tea and listen!!! Thank you so much for this

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  15 днів тому +1

      hope you enjoyed it 💗🎀

  • @lizzy1519
    @lizzy1519 20 днів тому +7

    Your my new comfort UA-camr, you and your vlogs just have something else

  • @its.john.w
    @its.john.w 20 днів тому +6

    as an aspiring youtuber, your videos inspire me so much!

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  15 днів тому

      i’m so glad ihihihi 💗💗 keep going!

  • @anaferreira6755
    @anaferreira6755 20 днів тому +4

    this came right when I needed it most. thank you

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  14 днів тому

      thank YOU for watching 💗🎀

  • @Rannarull
    @Rannarull 20 днів тому +4

    I feel like : im sit down next you , for that reason I'll make a cup of tea to feels it more ✨️❤️😔!!!

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  14 днів тому +1

      yess!!!! i really hope everyone does that

  • @anna.sokiable
    @anna.sokiable 20 днів тому +2

    After watching the video, I want to say only one thing (I’m not trying to convince you of anything, I’m just sharing my impressions). I absolutely fell in love with you and your content at first sight. When I found out about your channel and watched a couple of your videos, I felt the light and calm that I miss so much in my reality. A year ago I was in Lisbon, and perhaps my vacation in Portugal and the memories of it are what makes me live every day. You fit perfectly into this most beautiful picture, because your smile, eyes, style are absolutely wonderful!!! And I just want to thank you for this. For peace of mind. For silence in my head. For the memories. For the rays of sunshine that you give❤️

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  14 днів тому +1

      omg 🥹🥹 this is such a cute comment thank you thank you thank you 💗🎀

  • @chuucake
    @chuucake 20 днів тому +3

    i will watch it well ! i cannot sleep too 🥺🩷

  • @farah6574
    @farah6574 20 днів тому +2

    I really appreciate this video, you reminded me of my sister she’s 18(im 21) and i can see her struggling with her mental health I don’t want to push her to talk to me because I struggled with depression and I understand but can’t stop myself from worrying about her, wish all the best for you and thank you for sharing!

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  14 днів тому +1

      wish her all the best! 💗 you’re a great sibling 🎀

    • @farah6574
      @farah6574 5 днів тому

      @@marguie222 thank you 🫶🏼

  • @danielamedina3429
    @danielamedina3429 14 днів тому

    hi, marguie!!
    i typically am a silent subscriber and don’t tend to comment, but this video really resonated w me. i also grew up with minor self esteem issues then developed eating disorders with the pandemic. i have been in recovery since for about 3 years now, and i still struggle every day :,). i find myself sometimes thinking about food as i used to and having to stop myself and mentally step back from the situation. every new day is better than one of my old days, and it is important to measure your growth to who you were at your lowest point rather than you were the day before. recovery is not a straight linear path. there are bumps along the road, and that is ok!
    try and surround yourself with people who do not make comments that tend to trigger you. if it’s people such as your family, speak up to them and tell them that what they say is hard for you to hear and if they could not discuss it while you are there with them :,). being around others who do not have negative thoughts over food and their body makes you view yourself in a new light.
    love you!

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  9 днів тому +1

      hi daniela ! thank you for this amazing comment, it’s so important to know we’re not alone 💗💗 most of the times its my parents that say irrelevant things about food, and sometimes it’s hard to speak up about it, but so so important :,)) hope your okay and i wish you all the strength and love in the world, we got this !! 💗⭐️

  • @Elena-sj4zx
    @Elena-sj4zx 20 днів тому +2

    i love you so much watching these types of videos from you is so calming. I always thought you were so pretty haha :)

  • @lizysye
    @lizysye 9 днів тому

    I’m literally watching this with a cup of tea, tearing up because of how much I relate for this, im so thankful for you being so transparent about this, honestly your channel is becoming a comfort acc for me, anyways hoping you get better even though it takes time ☹️

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  9 днів тому

      omg, hope you’re okay ! wishing you all the best in the world, thank you 💗

  • @celinestls
    @celinestls 16 днів тому

    i haven’t watched the full video yet but already feel so so seen and it’s really really comforting i relate to a lot of what you said and at the moment i’m struggling more again but this just gave me new motivation thank you for this (and in general all your videos, they feel like a hug

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  14 днів тому

      you got this !! 💗 i believe in you, remember that recovery is not linear

  • @vyomamody8901
    @vyomamody8901 6 днів тому

    I was watching this video coz I couldn't fall asleep and Marguie this video was so vulnerable and comforting and made me feel so safe❤
    Thankyou for being you:)

  • @Herminutza
    @Herminutza 19 днів тому +1

    Your channel is so so so terapeutic this video literally touched my heart. I was waitinb for this for so long hehe and i loved every single second of it. And also u are so so beautifull i ALWAYS thought u had such a beautifull smile, so sometimes insecurities are just in ur heads. Love uuu so so much

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  14 днів тому

      thank you so much 💗💗 love you, glad we’re not alone!

  • @didardabakoglu64
    @didardabakoglu64 9 днів тому

    You are so sweet and sincere! I like your videos😊😊 Take care of yourself and thank you for this natural cozy video!😊😊

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  9 днів тому

      thank you !! ihihihi 💗⭐️⭐️

  • @fionamae1680
    @fionamae1680 19 днів тому

    i really relate a lot to your experiences and it really helps to honestly reflect on these things, thank you for making me feel less alone with my problems

  • @Ghostgrl95
    @Ghostgrl95 20 днів тому +1

    i am 29.. and i still struggle with liking my body. it will most likely be forever lol.. but i felt something different within myself as i turned this age, i am tending to care less.. and accept things that i cannot change, idkk, that is unusual for me ! life is weird

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  14 днів тому

      i’m so happy for you!! 💗 sending big hugs 💓💓

  • @coletterature
    @coletterature 20 днів тому

    this really resonated with me, thank you for sharing

    • @bettyyybooopp
      @bettyyybooopp 20 днів тому +1

      @@coletterature

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  14 днів тому +2

      !!!! numbers on scales should be banned

  • @strawberry8687
    @strawberry8687 20 днів тому

    Ur litreally the swetesttttt. Thank you so much for talking about this 💗💕🍓🎀

  • @Nightmare-gm5ng
    @Nightmare-gm5ng 20 днів тому

    awe girl you are so beautiful omg!! i know eating disorders can be such a pain but you got this you will live a great life one day we believe in you

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  14 днів тому

      thank you so much 💗💗

  • @Caroenoy
    @Caroenoy 9 днів тому

    I looove the way you end the video smmmmmm💗💗💗💗💗💗💗😭

  • @ernestinabonfiglio4690
    @ernestinabonfiglio4690 20 днів тому

    Marguie hii, greetings from Argentina, here a 22 yo who discovered yout channel a couple of days ago and love your honesty. I do the same of talking to a camera but I dont put it on youtube, so I connect with your way of getting every thought out. It is a beautiful practice that make us conect with ourselve. As an older girl I can asure you that this struggles will pass as long as you give them space to think about them, reflex on them, have patience. To make your personallity and let go the things that dont want to be part of you is a construction that takes time. But its good that you are already in the path of that. Growing up is scary so we have to be nice wit ourselves. I promisse those things you dont like about your body will end up not mattering to you. Is all about embracing every part. Is cliche but true. You are beautiful, I really mean it, I send you a big hug! ❤

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  14 днів тому

      thank you so much ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 hope i can learn it as best as you did, sending big hugs 🎀🎀

  • @naphiverse26
    @naphiverse26 20 днів тому

    I also have TMJ and I'm also insecure with my asymmetrical face but I try to focus on the beautiful parts of my face and try to be optimistic because I know someone else out there is also suffering the same but they're still beautiful! Much love and I hope you feel better❤

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  14 днів тому +1

      we’re all beautiful, our insecurities don’t matter fr ❤️‍🩹

  • @ylianesw
    @ylianesw 20 днів тому +1

    thank you for this

  • @Xpapaya09
    @Xpapaya09 20 днів тому

    Those type of struggles were really bad for me almost my entire life, (which worsened also bcs of so many people i had to put up with that weren't good for me) and still are mostly. I really am glad i started to get even only a little better two years ago with help of 3 special people. I am taking little steps wich help actually more than i thought.
    I do hate how i am struggling to word this.
    I really liked the video! I also am glad i found your channel (:

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  14 днів тому

      glad you found those people 💗💗 keep going! i believe in you

  • @irisafox4832
    @irisafox4832 11 днів тому

    i totally understand the not feeling feminine some days. it's totally okay to use whatever pronouns you want and to change them all the time if you feel like it. they're not for anyone else, they're for you!! anyone who disagrees is wrong. i know it can be a struggle and very confusing, but don't put too much pressure on yourself. do whatever feels right :))

  • @berlinbohn
    @berlinbohn 20 днів тому

    I feel like your videos always come to me at the right time :) I love listening to you talk. you’re one of the only UA-camrs who when they talk, what they say really clicks in my brain. Litterally love your channel sm

  • @lola_world_
    @lola_world_ 20 днів тому

  • @luisaravenclaw
    @luisaravenclaw 19 днів тому

    Marguie I love you truly

  • @carolinasantos6636
    @carolinasantos6636 18 днів тому

    muito grateful for you nesse período

  • @RayaKhadeeja
    @RayaKhadeeja 20 днів тому +2

    Damn ily

  • @sevval270
    @sevval270 19 днів тому

    i felt so seen

  • @vanshikasrivastav3400
    @vanshikasrivastav3400 15 днів тому

    marguieee, you have know idea how many times i've watched you and wished if i could look like you. Every part of your body is prettiest in its own way, but most importantly the smile omg the damn smile🤌🤌❤ lots and lots of love and power to you from India 💋❤‍🔥

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  12 днів тому

      omg 🥹 thank you, i wish i could look like you too, you are all so beautiful 💗⭐️

  • @heyy.im_mithi
    @heyy.im_mithi 17 днів тому

    seeing this as someone who wants to be a psychologist in the future, i learn more about what not to say (i mean anyone with common sense knows not to say that i feel).

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  14 днів тому +1

      you will be the best psychologist 💗

  • @juquinha123
    @juquinha123 18 днів тому

    Video incrivel!

  • @mkahini
    @mkahini 19 днів тому

    oh no the psychologist was notttt it! hope you visited/visit a good one. Sendng love and strength

  • @wojownicza12
    @wojownicza12 10 днів тому

    you have so cosy voice

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  9 днів тому

      ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹⭐️⭐️

  • @H.H20087
    @H.H20087 20 днів тому

    l love yoouuuu soo much, You Good person, You are amazing and beautiful, be well, I love you💘💝💓💕🩷💗💖💞🎀

  • @reidslcvrr
    @reidslcvrr 20 днів тому +3

    marguie thank you for posting this. knowing that other people go through the same thing is so comforting and so important. 🫶🏻

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  15 днів тому +1

      so so important, love you! ❤️‍🩹

  • @radiokat1306
    @radiokat1306 20 днів тому

    ty for sharing ur experiences, i relate sm and it is so helpful seeing other’s perspectives about their own body image issues🫶🏻

  • @jaysielou
    @jaysielou 20 днів тому

    Please make more of this kind of video. I can relate in so many levels and please know that you are not alone. 🫶🏻

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  14 днів тому

      will do!! we’re no alone ❤️‍🩹

  • @butdadddyilovehim
    @butdadddyilovehim 20 днів тому +1

    send love to u

    • @marguie222
      @marguie222  14 днів тому

      you got this!!! 💗 it’s hard, but it’s so worth it to not be caught up in all the numbers and everything, i know how exhausting it is, sending love 💗💗