things i wish i knew during my teenage years

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  • @jjj_hehe
    @jjj_hehe 4 місяці тому +264

    There’s a quote that I read that really sticks with me
    “No matter who you are or what you do, there will always be someone who doesn’t like you but at the same time, there will always be someone for you.”
    As a people’s pleasure, this helps remind me not to go overboard as not everyone is going to like me

  • @isabelleisaksson9221
    @isabelleisaksson9221 4 місяці тому +339

    ✨Time stamps✨:
    - having a focus point 1:28
    - don't put someone on a pedestal 2:35
    - having flaws 3:47
    - give everything a day (to think things over) 4:58
    - communication is key 5:41
    - being "weird or different" 6:37
    - dealing with hate 9:09
    - how others perceive you doesn't change who you are 10:02
    - not having a "purpose" in life 10:35

    • @kalliopik9889
      @kalliopik9889 4 місяці тому +2

      thank youu❤

    • @the_serene202
      @the_serene202 4 місяці тому

      Thanks, but I didn't get the "focus point"😅

    • @Kitkit759
      @Kitkit759 4 місяці тому +2

      ⁠@@the_serene202 when she says have a “focus point” she means when stuff is changing around you, focusing on something that’s constant will help you deal with that change easier

    • @the_serene202
      @the_serene202 4 місяці тому +1

      @@Kitkit759 ohh now I get it thx lots !😊

  • @zmartwychwstaniepoety
    @zmartwychwstaniepoety 4 місяці тому +544

    new via vid dropping is like getting hope to continue living

  • @arveala
    @arveala 4 місяці тому +112

    as a 16yr old thank you so much for saying ”how others perceive you doesn’t change who you are” and that life doesn’t really have a purpose other than happiness. your videos always help me a lot & i’m so grateful to have found them

  • @Whoaaaa___
    @Whoaaaa___ 4 місяці тому +86

    The celebrity one is so real esp for Korean idols
    Its like... Theyre human like everyone, nothing special😭

  • @gymnocalycium4486
    @gymnocalycium4486 4 місяці тому +186

    The thing about not needing a purpose is such a good point omg 😭

  • @Sarah-ti3yr
    @Sarah-ti3yr 4 місяці тому +108

    Your perspective on not having/needing a life purpose is actually so refreshing. i've never heard anyone put it like that

  • @mangosagoo
    @mangosagoo 4 місяці тому +45

    Timestamps for you guys and Via [11:45]
    [12:25] things that apply to via doesn't mean it applies to you!!!
    [1:35] --> you need a focus point when change is happening
    [2:35] --> everyone is just a human and has the same ending, you know nothing about your celebrity crush. don't put them on a pedestal
    [3:43] --> flaws are a good thing
    [4:34] --> take in flaws of your friends
    [5:00] --> give everything a day
    [5:52] --> communicating solves most things
    [6:14] --> friendship takes time to build
    [6:59] --> just be yourself and don't worry you're too 'weird' or 'odd'. don't hide your authentic self
    [9:32] --> no matter what you do there are always gonna be haters. you gotta be relevant to be hated on.
    [10:45] --> you don't have a purpose in life. you can build your own if you want to, but a purpose in life is not mandatory so it's okay if you don't have one

  • @valkyriejournal
    @valkyriejournal 4 місяці тому +23

    I love this kind of videos because it kinda helps to heal old wounds. I’m 25 now but some things from my teenage years haunt me to this day. And hearing someone sharing their experience being the same as mine is… refreshing? Helps to think “wow so that’s normal and nothing to be ashamed of!”
    So thank you very much. ♥️

  • @olliestale864
    @olliestale864 4 місяці тому +117

    taking in personalities is so real bc i used to imitate my fav youtubers so often it felt uncanny

    • @Idgafyaar
      @Idgafyaar 4 місяці тому +3

      Ong this is so real

    • @itan._
      @itan._ 4 місяці тому +1

      Itadori?? what are you doing here?!!

  • @derinstt
    @derinstt 4 місяці тому +96

    Via,can you make a video about comfort zone? Like I am curious about how you got used to going to the gym or how you continue things when you are anxious instead of just giving up. Love ya

  • @Jay-wo6lu
    @Jay-wo6lu 4 місяці тому +84

    Finding your videos actually helped me so much with my insecurities, thank you so much, I love you!

  • @Mari_Chae
    @Mari_Chae 4 місяці тому +32

    As a 14 yr Old you started to change my mental mindset to love myself more! Thank you Via!

  • @torcia4179
    @torcia4179 4 місяці тому +5

    I don’t understand how could people hate u via , you are litteraly so clever and perfect . Every time im upset im coming here to watch your videos beacouse it’s always makes me feel so comfortable . Thank you for being here

  • @asapbaby9275
    @asapbaby9275 4 місяці тому +22

    You made me understand something that was so simple and obvious, but because of a person's tendency to do things or be something "expected" in different departments of life, we completely forgot that we're only human. It's as if mistakes aren't even possible. Being a teenager is like a baby opening their eyes for the first time in the "real world" where changes are constant and we don't notice we are part of it.
    I'm so glad i discovered you Via, your awareness and down-to-earth personality touched me.

  • @Ondrpavlina
    @Ondrpavlina 4 місяці тому +4

    Am 16 and I found so much comfort in your videos I struggle with anxiety and you really helped me to look at it with different perspective, Ty so much for being here 🩵🤍

  • @imfiy_
    @imfiy_ 4 місяці тому +12

    just 13 minute of via feels like 5 minute... I might need a longer version just to hear her talk♡︎ (she makes me laugh and it feels like someone is finally talking to me personally)

  • @sighsai2804
    @sighsai2804 4 місяці тому +5

    PLEASE make this into a series!! I love watching your videos whenever im journaling or doing my skincare because it feels like im listening to an old friend giving an advice whenever im tired or just done with life

  • @LordAlexander-x5s
    @LordAlexander-x5s 4 місяці тому +49

    I found via a couple years ago with her "I have no fiends" short / reel / tiktok and I'm really happy to see her learning the same things I have in my own journey through life. From what I'm hearing I think she must be doing better and the future looks bright.

  • @sophiaschronicles990
    @sophiaschronicles990 4 місяці тому +26

    Via is my comfort creator for real

  • @Maria-fm2cz
    @Maria-fm2cz Місяць тому +1

    Tysm via ❤❤ this is so comforting I need more of those videos

  • @a.sdutchman
    @a.sdutchman 4 місяці тому +10

    I love these part 2 updates to your past videos. It shows how much you grew 💛

  • @iona8973
    @iona8973 4 місяці тому +3

    hi via! this video was posted with such immaculate timing. something happened between me and my girl bsf and i thought we would have a falling out because of it. thus, i gave her the silent treatment and made everything super uncomfortable between us. but when i was watching this video it really reminded me of the importance of communication and the fact that i am well overdue an explanation for her. thank u so much for this, it really gave me the strength to talk to her again.

  • @LunarWind99
    @LunarWind99 4 місяці тому +3

    Always love your videos ❤️ I can't wait until we're all older and we can look back and think 'gee, things weren't as bad as they seemed' or 'the solution to being happy was so much closer in reach than I ever could've realised' 💕✨

  • @ibmn1l
    @ibmn1l 4 місяці тому +3

    i love your talk vids - they rlly are relating and calming.

  • @lilywithonel5392
    @lilywithonel5392 4 місяці тому +1

    im so glad i found your channel. generally i don't get 'inspired' by other people but watching your videos just teach me to relax a lil which is super helpful. even when you're just taking yourself out on a solo date it's really healing to see someone just want nothing more than to simply just live life. keep doing what you're doing as its amazing!

  • @an.toni.aaaaaaa
    @an.toni.aaaaaaa 4 місяці тому +2

    via, you have helped me so much with building confidence as well as helping me figure out who i am and figuring out who i want to be. thank you so much for your videos 🎀

  • @Koi_light
    @Koi_light 4 місяці тому +1

    Via!!! I love your vids 😭😭😭 I had a mental breakdown again today!! You honestly help me become my best self!! I can’t thank you enough for being such an amazingly and inspiring human being!! I’m forever grateful!!!

  • @langajaxa
    @langajaxa 4 місяці тому +6

    Via is funny and lovable she make me feel very comfortable and relatable watching her videos .WE ALL LOVE YOU VIA

  • @fischprinz
    @fischprinz 2 місяці тому

    the part about "having a purpose" being restricting singlehandedly changed my mindset like okayyyy go off via!!

  • @asty2661
    @asty2661 4 місяці тому +1

    "Whenever my flaws come up in a relationship or whenever I feel extreme shame. so hence I become very avoidant." OMG THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SAYING EXACTLY WHAT I'M FEELING😭😭♥♥

  • @s.a_angel
    @s.a_angel 4 місяці тому +1

    Seeing this in my teenage years is so comforting, ur like my big sister 😭💗

  • @amiqqst
    @amiqqst 4 місяці тому +16

    Via is my free therapy

    • @Koi_light
      @Koi_light 4 місяці тому

      Literally!!! She amazing!!

  • @blck-yara7164
    @blck-yara7164 4 місяці тому +1

    girl ilyy, you're so comfortable to watch

  • @moonlovezstarz
    @moonlovezstarz 4 місяці тому +3

    ilysm via ur videos r so comforting

  • @nada-sv9fx
    @nada-sv9fx 4 місяці тому

    im literally turning 17 this September and this girl i found on a random day and random hour is just changing my life into the better, i literally have fixed myself into a better way with those amazing episodes, i appreciate via so much and i love her so much, please don't give up!!

  • @Dina_qu
    @Dina_qu 2 місяці тому +1

    when u upset or sad whatever DO NOT be quiet about NEVER we all deserve to talk about what’s upset us, for my self I don’t like talk about it (i don’t have someone to) BUT I write whatever make me feel in that way, that’s not gonna hurts u if u be quiet about it today yes but tomorrow will🙂‍↕️, SO please talk about ur feelings write LET IT OUTTTTTTT we’re humans 😐💗💗💗💗!!!!!

  • @itsjade_foryou
    @itsjade_foryou 4 місяці тому +3

    i love ur vids via they r really relatable 🫶
    they have helped me so much
    don’t stop what ur doing ilysm 💗

  • @Allison-rm9to
    @Allison-rm9to 4 місяці тому +2

    Dude you helped me sm. I’m 13 (ik I’m young) but you definitely helped me a lot. I started journaling my thoughts I also dropped all my toxic friends. I’m gone through sm and I’m so proud of my self❤.

  • @ParulTiwari-fb2kq
    @ParulTiwari-fb2kq 4 місяці тому +9

    So, I am starting my college this august and honestly I am so anxious about it cause yk it's a huge change for me school to college, so my older sister advised this one thing she said "I know you'll manage the studies but the most imp advice I can give you is that make friends wisely" And that is stuck with me and for me I feel grateful because you have actually changed me a lot (in a good way) Thanks via, I adore you 💗🌷

  • @Maryamaliii
    @Maryamaliii 4 місяці тому +4

    I’m 16 and I have no friends so I started UA-cam so that I can start a community and share my life with people ,but you inspired me to post so thank you 💗🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @cheurah
    @cheurah 4 місяці тому +1

    i wish i found ur channel sooner aagggh T_T ur genuinely my fav comfort channel ever like i love ur content so much ive never felt safer than seeing ur videos 🥹💗💗

  • @JoyEmpress
    @JoyEmpress 4 місяці тому +2

    Hi Via! 🤍 Your vlogs are always comforting and like hanging out with a friend

  • @Seya._.Brown001
    @Seya._.Brown001 4 місяці тому

    so real on give stuff a day bc something that may have affected you and could make you react badly probably wouldn’t have the same affect as you waking up the next day with a fresh start

  • @Choi.Eunhaa
    @Choi.Eunhaa 4 місяці тому +1

    Yesss Via posteddd, your vids are like a gift to my soul gurl, keep going strong

  • @opal_afterlife
    @opal_afterlife 4 місяці тому

    i'm 17 and i've been watching vias vids for months now and they're usually all so inspiring and relatable but the "not having a purpose" point really threw me off
    for me, having a purpose is one of the most liberating things i have. sure, working towards my goals is tough and yes everything i do is for that purpose but i could never idly breeze through life like that.
    my purpose it what guides my decisions and steers my focus, my purpose is something that motivates me to get out of bed, to go to college, to get a job
    i believe that you don't have to have a purpose to be happy, but gliding through life with that specific mindset of "i just want to be happy" is such a waste of potential
    that's all, do better

  • @cloudybillows
    @cloudybillows 4 місяці тому

    no bcs the way your videos would've helped me soo much in early middle school and still help me now (going into my second year of highschool!) love u and ur content always viaaa

  • @HARU-ek1oq
    @HARU-ek1oq 4 місяці тому

    Looking back there’s always something you wish you could’ve done differently in the past but just remember you did the best thing you could at the point so don’t blame yourself too much on something no matter how you regret about it❤

  • @CrazyBirdo
    @CrazyBirdo 4 місяці тому +2

    I LOVE WHEN YOU UPLOAD OMGGGGG!! wee teenager from Scotland here and your videos make me feel sm better for being “behind,” when social media really warps your perception of who you should be and when, when in reality you should probably just be worried about just now. Thank you for feeling like the big sister I don’t have ❤❤❤

    • @sapphics4hozier
      @sapphics4hozier 4 місяці тому +1

      teenager from scotland as well , who also feels behind !! im so glad im not alone in that experience 😭

  • @sapphics4hozier
    @sapphics4hozier 4 місяці тому +1

    i always get so happy to see your posts ! thank you for uploading this , you and your videos always made me feel extremely comforted

  • @malak-ex2kc
    @malak-ex2kc 4 місяці тому

    You dont know how much i love your videos🫶🏼 i started watching your videos from the one called alone in ny and you grew so much!! Happy about that you deserve the world😭

  • @loni.makkaroni
    @loni.makkaroni 4 місяці тому

    no words can describe how much comport i found in you and your videos
    i watch your vlogs 24/7
    thanks for helping me out of that hole i‘m stuck in for years❤

  • @smeraldo77
    @smeraldo77 4 місяці тому +1

    I’m turning 17 soon and often feel scared of changes when growing up. I constantly fear for my future now that college apps are near but this video helped me look forward to change in a positive perspective :) tysm Via !!

  • @prayasiiii
    @prayasiiii 4 місяці тому +3

    Thanks you so much for this via again and yesssss please a series of this will be soo good ( for my life) cuz whatever u have said just made me question myself like what am I doing? Your advices are the best which is helping me a lot though my Teenage luvvvu a lottt 💕

  • @poncisdw3692
    @poncisdw3692 4 місяці тому

    I'm a teenage girl and I relate a lot to the subjects you talk about in your videos. Especially the fact that we all try to fit in when we are young and the feeling of guilt and fear that comes when you do anything. Sometimes you feel as if everything you do is wrong or like you could've done it differently. You also feel lost because you don't have a strong sense of identity yet. In the end, there is no right way of doing things, you just experiment them. The thing that helped me the most was figuring who I was, by fiding what I liked to do, what was truly important to me (friendships, family, hobbies etc...) and putting less pressure on myself, I'm still young. I already figured out by myself some of the things you mentioned and that makes me happy.

  • @f.a.r.a.a.h
    @f.a.r.a.a.h 4 місяці тому

    your videos sometimes make me open my eyes to things, it's incredible. never stop, Via!

  • @angelicrobles6292
    @angelicrobles6292 4 місяці тому

    THANK YOU, VIA. From the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU. ❤ This video of yours uplifted my soul!

  • @mimino_codingbee4313
    @mimino_codingbee4313 4 місяці тому

    We love you for being this realistic and relieving us through let us know it's okay if we don't have a purpose.

  • @anxjy
    @anxjy 3 місяці тому

    The idea of not having a purpose is so life changing… I’m gonna think about that. Thank you Via!!❤️

  • @torichan8202
    @torichan8202 4 місяці тому

    Girl you are so pretty, your sense of style is so cute!!!!!!

  • @noorhussein7073
    @noorhussein7073 4 місяці тому +1

    I agree with you about not taking advices from anyone that is actually true by experience,& I always ask my self is this person tryna give me some advices actually living the life I want to live!

  • @Jena.334
    @Jena.334 4 місяці тому

    Your videos are what comforts me daily so much, you're like that big sister who is truthful yet soothing about life and it's struggles, love you so much Via, hope you have an amazing week 💗 💗💗

  • @nihahanum6204
    @nihahanum6204 4 місяці тому

    I'm grateful for finding your channel, sis ❤

  • @hehejinono
    @hehejinono 4 місяці тому +1

    Via you're my comfort youtuber, I'm glad you exist to give everyone great advice ❤❤

  • @AkebiaCuebeiMomin
    @AkebiaCuebeiMomin 4 місяці тому +1

    this helped me alottt, i would love to see the series if you made onee

  • @Gofittwice
    @Gofittwice 4 місяці тому +1

    Omg yessss YESSS I watched the other video maybe 10.000 times. So happy for a part two

  • @dianaencinas7554
    @dianaencinas7554 4 місяці тому

    please make this a series, i love you tysm for the advices 🥺🤧💕💕

  • @RomizulHaq
    @RomizulHaq 4 місяці тому

    I am 18 and seriously right now you just saved my teenage life.Truly love you Via🫂🤍🍁🥢

  • @your.average.octoling
    @your.average.octoling 3 місяці тому

    you should 100% do a podcast. these tips are so genuinely helpful and couldn’t have come at a better time, and i can just imagine how awesome it would be to listen to a podcast of yours ❤

  • @langajaxa
    @langajaxa 4 місяці тому +1

    My fav UA-cam be pretty as always fr.love u via

  • @chiwamini2329
    @chiwamini2329 4 місяці тому +4

    Honestly bro Via literally is soo relatable because honestly yeah I dont know who I am or my personality and I always try to fit in and I am definitely not very communication type of person so since I watched her video I'm gonna try to be more communicative

  • @roya-w7o
    @roya-w7o 4 місяці тому +3

    so happy to get to see a new vlog of yours 🫶🏻

  • @ElyHamad
    @ElyHamad 4 місяці тому

    Discovered your channel not a so long time ago but I can say I find you just so inspiring. Go on!!

  • @Leobooki
    @Leobooki 4 місяці тому +4

    Happy Sunday Via ! Def missed you ! ♥️ today better be sweet to you !

  • @rey_svt
    @rey_svt 4 місяці тому +4

    Your videos are super relatable and therapeutic, keep it up please❤🙏🏽

  • @aesira
    @aesira 4 місяці тому +1

    she’s the best y’all YOU DONT UNDERSTAND SHE IS THE BEST

  • @ch.09h93
    @ch.09h93 3 місяці тому

    For me being alone or around ppl i dont like in middle school make me really know who i am what i want and how to not be influenced by others what's reaaaaalllyy helped me in high school to have a healthy Friendships just by being who u really are cause when we find our selfs alone we change our ideas and thoughts just to fit in what making us overthink and make ppl getting bored of us and just look for someone intersting so be who u are and dont hesatat talking about what bothers u , ure the most important so put ure self first

  • @bluerain-w9d
    @bluerain-w9d 4 місяці тому +2

    I’m so grateful for all of your advice ❤❤

  • @Noah-Deborne-634
    @Noah-Deborne-634 4 місяці тому

    your videos are litteraly making my life so much better

  • @sejin_seo_10
    @sejin_seo_10 4 місяці тому +7

    omg i was downloading some of your vids so i can listen to it outside and i… omg i miss you so much❤

  • @enayaahmed9200
    @enayaahmed9200 4 місяці тому

    i once had a panic attack and actually have really bad anxiety but i hid it from my friends and close ones for so long and when i finally told them it actually felt so nice!! i was so afraid for no reason 😭

  • @chuucake
    @chuucake 4 місяці тому +1

    i missed your journal entries Via♡♡♡

  • @Jiminsboost
    @Jiminsboost 4 місяці тому

    Yay via posted thank you so much for this video via and also this is so true especially in high school I felt like I couldn’t be myself because of my friends or
    Other people and now I just have to work on myself more to realize what makes me feel happy and what makes me feel like myself. 💕

  • @Avaa2626
    @Avaa2626 4 місяці тому

    via posts videos exactly when I need them

  • @maira4118
    @maira4118 4 місяці тому

    whyy do your videos always make me cry, i love you Via

  • @luvfrom_tixa26
    @luvfrom_tixa26 4 місяці тому +1

    i was just going thru some shit and after 20 mint she just posted this and all my worries and stress was gone.....thats how miracles work, via is a goddess for real..love u via ❤

  • @Mia-u1x6d
    @Mia-u1x6d 3 місяці тому

    I had a pretty overwhelming day yesterday, both good and bad, and when I woke up this morning I could barely hold myself together. I knew watching your latest video would help me stay grounded AND comfort me. Thank you via💗 and yes, as long as you feel that it is what you would like to do, I would enjoy these specific types of videos along with the others.

  • @therosecolored
    @therosecolored 4 місяці тому +2

    a fresh breath of air this sunday! thank you via ❤

  • @Estriena
    @Estriena 4 місяці тому +6

    today and tomorrow is gonna be a great day if via posts ☺️

  • @danicalifornia12
    @danicalifornia12 4 місяці тому

    god I love you so much via you're the realest :')

  • @hbonyxmidnight5
    @hbonyxmidnight5 4 місяці тому +1

    I love your videos during my time discovering myself after wasting my highschool years. ❤❤❤

  • @miffyz.
    @miffyz. 4 місяці тому +2

    I'm a high schooler, and i love your videos sm I, especially these ones. I take in as much advice as possible 😭💗

  • @girl_inthecut.official
    @girl_inthecut.official 4 місяці тому

    I actually started watching you like a year ago and I kinda knew you were gonna blow up cause you are so wise and funny so yea this vid is also amazing btw 🥰

  • @chuucake
    @chuucake 4 місяці тому +2

    i really admire and appreciate you a lot, Via ♡ thank you for all that you do 🩷🌷

  • @reenaphysics7337
    @reenaphysics7337 4 місяці тому

    Thanks via
    For the first time in my life I felt comfortable with the idea of not having any purpose is okay like it's literally okay
    I have always had this mindset that one must have something to achieve in life something to focus on something to prove himself but no you can live without purpose you will still have a value in the world you can just do what you want just be happy sad gregarious silent whatever your heart says thanks for this perspective

  • @sunghoeeebnd
    @sunghoeeebnd 4 місяці тому

    I’ve been watching ur vids since ur first few vids and I can believe how far you’ve made it (honestly I can bcs ur so good @ what you do). I’m so proud of you viaaa💗💗

  • @diamond46919
    @diamond46919 4 місяці тому +1

    My next sem is startung in a few days, and your words gave me some insight :)
    Thank for being amazing as always
    We lob you ❤

  • @jzzlynmay5787
    @jzzlynmay5787 4 місяці тому

    Hello Via! thank you for posting videos, you've become my inspiration and like a big sister i wish i had (I'm an only child) thank you so much for speaking yourself. you have inspired me to take care of myself and speak my mind. I'm currently chasing my dreams and its been tough, but your vlogs and videos have helped me through times. i watch at least 3 videos of yours everyday. thank you so much! i wish you the very best, you have helped and touched a lot of people through your videos. hehe stay blooming! ily via!

  • @darkmessiah8087
    @darkmessiah8087 4 місяці тому

    Love your personality, love your videos, never change, and keep doing your good work 😁😂

  • @willynilly159
    @willynilly159 4 місяці тому

    never ever think you wasted your teenage years or the years behind you. those years where you wish you knew something or could’ve done something else brought you to where you are now. be grateful that the flaws your past self made are not ones that you continue to show now and be kind to who you once were.