This guy has been in a relationship with her for 10 years, there’s no way this is the first time she brought up insane shit. He’s gonna say no to having a one-way open relationship, she’s gonna cheat anyways, and then honestly he’s probably gonna stay and accept it
Buddy nailed it, “she wants you to break up with her” is the answer here. It gives her the excuse to say it was *him* that ended things over what she’ll explain as selfish reasons without elaborating further. Other than that though, seems like a healthy marriage really.
Women will always do this. If a girl sits you down and actually tells you "we need to break up" you missed like a hundred signs screaming at you to break up with her.
@@ichirosuzuki2252 we do it to an extent. I will do it for a week or two but women will often do it for months. Not sure if this only pertains to straight men either. I think queer guys are pretty quick to get to the point too. A lot of women are just overly optimistic.
Stav is right. She knows what she's doing. Even her saying "I want to do other people because you're okay with it, but I'm not okay with you seeing other people" is such a messed up option.
@@twonsleberrycrunch6209 him suggesting an open relationship was his checkmate. You suggest her dressing up like a slut or playing with her butt long before that. Open relationships are like 60-70 year old shit to do unless you're built different
Lawyer up. She clearly wants a dual income while being single. That means she will be greedy and unreasonable in the divorce too. Say nothing until you have counsel from the best lawyer. Then go to therapy alone to process the difficulty and freedom of a new life.
I’m 42 and have come across maybe 5 or 6 “Polly” or “open” type relationships in my life and they have all crashed and burned. It never works, they’re called unicorns because they don’t exist
Time to start documenting EVERYTHING. Screenshot texts, phone calls etc. The marriage is OVER, try to keep your shit. Giving some stuff like this to your lawyer may help bro.
Me and my spouse tried an open relationship when she was away for 6 months for work. It was an awful idea that I would not recommend. We survived it … but yeah just save yourself the pain and don’t do it.
We survived it. Does that mean you survived? Getting vibes it want that bad of a time for her. I just wouldn’t give credit to her if she’s the one that made out or messed up on you.
it was an awful idea for you because you guys were probably monogamous. if you are monogamous and neither of you had ever tried being in a poly/open situation before, then yeah an open relationship would probably not help
she's probably held on to some resentment from when he brought the open relationship up the first time and is trying to reverse it back onto him. she wants to break up.
She’s gotta be testing him. He brought up the idea first month’s back and she said she wasn’t comfortable with it. She is now bringing it up but with a “twist” to it to see what he says. I can’t imagine the rest of the relationship is that good if you this shit is happening. Sad shit.
i dont even undertstand the initial premise "spicing up your marriage" by sleeping with other people? why would the excitement of being with new people make your time with your spouse hotter?
This is why you don't get married when you're that young. Being married for 10 years and still being in your 20's is WILD to me. I love how she's gaslighting this guy as well and making it seem like HE'S the selfish one. Some interesting female logic right there.
Yeah one of Mt best friends and his wife got married at like 18 and were all 24 now, they've never been with anyone else, and decided to do a "hall pass" and of course she got railed immediately and he never got any. Still a problem to this day. I was away when they did this, or I would have strongly advised against. Can't imagine marrying the first person you date 😅😅
TBF, I've heard from dudes make mental gymnastics about how they should be able to have side hos but not their lady. E.g. "A woman cannot serve two masters."
I don't think she wants him to break up with her, nor do I think she just wants to go cheat. My take is the wife is just looking for a fight. It's such a ridiculous suggestion. It wasn't a real suggestion as much as it was a test. What she probably wanted to hear was "No honey, let's just be exclusive and find another way", BUT what she heard (regardless if it's what he actually said) was probably closer to "No, I want to sleep with other people too if you're gonna", and she took it as him admitting that he just wants to sleep with other people. Since she made him drop the idea so fast it sounds like she was offended that he even brought up the idea as it's not something she would have considered and was suspicious/angry after that. First, Dude brought up open relationship and she shot it down immediately. Then, wife now things dude wants to sleep with other people. She stews on that for a month, gets angry about it. Wife brings up one-sided open relationship. Dude says no. And now wife starts complaining about him wanting to sleep with other people??? It would have made way more sense to argue that he just wants to sleep with other people the first time he brought it up. Asking for a one-sided version of an open relationship sounds to me like a safe way to bring it up again; she knows there's no way he'll say yes unlike if she brought it up in a fair way. Sounds to me like she just had a delayed reaction to his first request. She was really trying to pick a fight so she could complain more about him wanting to be open in the first place.
This has to be the worst take on the situation. Unless you're a female projecting you're own reflection of the situation, which scares me even more than the callers wife
This has 22 upvotes meaning that some 22 airheads also agree. What the shit. The dude said he “told her that was insane” 2:25 And then she called him selfish. So no. You typed a lot for nothing. Sorry bud
Other people here are crapping on you unfairly, IMO, as it's a legitimate possibility (I wouldn't say probability). It is pretty weird for a woman to suggest a cuckold relationship where it's not a stated condition of not breaking up (say if the man did something terrible)... her actually wanting to stay together but trying to get the man to drop the idea by giving the ridiculous alternative to his idea could explain it.
Reminder that Stav was in a relationship with extremely hot it girl Rachel Sennott, but dumped because she didn't want to open up their relationship. Biggest fumble of his life apart from severing his relationship with Nick
Look Nick was objectively the funniest person on the show and maybe of that time, but it’s not like Nick is cranking out the laughs now like they did on the town. Stav leaving seems to have deflated his comedic instincts and stav is doing way better
I’d say she has already stepped out on him, and possibly that’s why the sex life is no longer alive. Now she’s looking to do it without having to worry or carry any burden of it. Also has a side note I’m kinda surprised that he would feel the need to call into a comedy podcast to see what he should do!!! There’s just a lot to unpack here.
7:11 I’d like to hear his original pitch. This might have been a test if he said something like “it’s not that I want strange, we just need to spice it up.” Because otherwise it doesn’t make sense tbh. I think the OG pitch is suspect.
The advice is to punt. Pretend the issue is resolved however that goes and use it to buy time to either talk to a lawyer to strategize and/or preemptively cheat
This relationship is over. She’s either 1) already cheated 2) will eventually cheat no matter if a deal is brokered or 3) will be unhappy for the coming years because she can’t sleep with anyone else. Either way this is not the end of this. Leave now.
Unless both of you were already open and clear about it before yall got together..... opening it up NEVER works as a solution to a couples problems .... NEVER!
Imagine being so greedy you dont want the guy to get some too? We already know its probably a huge uphill climb for the guy compared to the girl when its opened up in the first place then to be like "nah, just me..." I hope this one is fake.
The only real advice here is talk to a lawyer immediately.
I reacted physically when i heard him say what he said. Horrible shit
For what lol? So she can fuck his lawyer to?
This guy has been in a relationship with her for 10 years, there’s no way this is the first time she brought up insane shit. He’s gonna say no to having a one-way open relationship, she’s gonna cheat anyways, and then honestly he’s probably gonna stay and accept it
Yesterday
she's gonna leave with half
"Still very much in love" This dude is hilarious
“Deadpool is the only one acknowledging me” sent me through the fucking roof.
“Broke the 4th wall” I about passed out.
Yeah that whole Marvel riff was funny af lol
They say a frog in a slowly boiling pot of water won't notice the heat till its already cooked, this dude is the proof
love this because it’s true
Buddy nailed it, “she wants you to break up with her” is the answer here. It gives her the excuse to say it was *him* that ended things over what she’ll explain as selfish reasons without elaborating further. Other than that though, seems like a healthy marriage really.
Women will always do this. If a girl sits you down and actually tells you "we need to break up" you missed like a hundred signs screaming at you to break up with her.
@@rdcruick literally
@@rdcruick Men also do this. I admittedly did it when I was young and dumb. It is shitty and immature, but breaking up with someone is tough
@@ichirosuzuki2252 we do it to an extent. I will do it for a week or two but women will often do it for months. Not sure if this only pertains to straight men either. I think queer guys are pretty quick to get to the point too. A lot of women are just overly optimistic.
the vibrator flying across the room into someone’s hand like thors hammer is so funny
Only for the worthy
The whole avengers assemble bit was great
Yeah genius 😂
Stav is right. She knows what she's doing. Even her saying "I want to do other people because you're okay with it, but I'm not okay with you seeing other people" is such a messed up option.
@@twonsleberrycrunch6209 him suggesting an open relationship was his checkmate. You suggest her dressing up like a slut or playing with her butt long before that. Open relationships are like 60-70 year old shit to do unless you're built different
Lawyer up. She clearly wants a dual income while being single. That means she will be greedy and unreasonable in the divorce too. Say nothing until you have counsel from the best lawyer. Then go to therapy alone to process the difficulty and freedom of a new life.
Record conversations about this subject. Texts, EVERYTHING.
There has never been a marriage this over in the history of marriages.
@@AndrewBarsky Depends where he lives. Many states are "no-fault" states so even if she started cheating, it wouldn't change anything.
“This guys toast” before the story even really gets going 😂
Time to hit the gym and move on.
HAHAHAHA damn buddy it's over
Welp. That's divorce time.
I’m 42 and have come across maybe 5 or 6 “Polly” or “open” type relationships in my life and they have all crashed and burned. It never works, they’re called unicorns because they don’t exist
She might already be cheating dude and looking for a way out of the guilt
She’s actively cheating on you and hoping you accept this proposal so she doesn’t feel guilty anymore.
The theme of most of these callers are that they have 0 situational awareness lol
What I have learned from these videos is thay stavs audience are the most pathetic men alive
Time to start documenting EVERYTHING. Screenshot texts, phone calls etc.
The marriage is OVER, try to keep your shit. Giving some stuff like this to your lawyer may help bro.
And start slowly moving your money into a separate account. Then again, he's 28 and might not have much.
Top tier gaslighting too😂
Like going to a dealership and saying I want the car but I don't know if I feel right about paying for it...
I think you mean gaslamping
“The only way to improve our sex life is for me to see other guys and for you to just keep having a crappy sex life I guess idk lmao”
God damn..............these are real people?
Idk... and all these messed up people listen primarily to Stav's podcast?
Maybe it makes perfect sense lol
I like that instead of helping the caller explain it to his wife that she’s fucked up, they’re using marvel to explain to the caller that he’s fucked
Me and my spouse tried an open relationship when she was away for 6 months for work.
It was an awful idea that I would not recommend. We survived it … but yeah just save yourself the pain and don’t do it.
We survived it. Does that mean you survived? Getting vibes it want that bad of a time for her. I just wouldn’t give credit to her if she’s the one that made out or messed up on you.
@@Liamsnieceson our relationship survived it.
U not smart
It's spelled "You're".... @@jazay591
it was an awful idea for you because you guys were probably monogamous. if you are monogamous and neither of you had ever tried being in a poly/open situation before, then yeah an open relationship would probably not help
Lawyer up, clear out the accounts and sell everything of values and bury the money in the woods.
1:50 That was an actual Mark Hamill Joker laugh.
When will DC/Warner Brothers be brave enough to cast a fat Greek as the Joker?
she's probably held on to some resentment from when he brought the open relationship up the first time and is trying to reverse it back onto him. she wants to break up.
Breaking the 4th wall was amazing lol
She’s gotta be testing him. He brought up the idea first month’s back and she said she wasn’t comfortable with it. She is now bringing it up but with a “twist” to it to see what he says. I can’t imagine the rest of the relationship is that good if you this shit is happening. Sad shit.
i dont even undertstand the initial premise "spicing up your marriage" by sleeping with other people? why would the excitement of being with new people make your time with your spouse hotter?
Swingers exist. But, the fact this lady wants to open the relationship only for her is an obv red flag.
@preston7724 Swinging to spice your connection to your partner up when it's just the two of you doesn't make sense to me.
Been in this exact situation before. Ur cooked my friend
This is why you don't get married when you're that young. Being married for 10 years and still being in your 20's is WILD to me.
I love how she's gaslighting this guy as well and making it seem like HE'S the selfish one. Some interesting female logic right there.
Yeah one of Mt best friends and his wife got married at like 18 and were all 24 now, they've never been with anyone else, and decided to do a "hall pass" and of course she got railed immediately and he never got any. Still a problem to this day. I was away when they did this, or I would have strongly advised against. Can't imagine marrying the first person you date 😅😅
TBF, I've heard from dudes make mental gymnastics about how they should be able to have side hos but not their lady. E.g. "A woman cannot serve two masters."
5:08 she wants Jimmy John's to drive through her.
She probably told her work friend. And he was like, “you’re so hot. Let’s do it.”
still very much in love 😂
This guy is cooked and has no idea lmao
My friend opened up his marriage. Plenty of guys lining up, no women so far. That's the risk.
yeah that high school sweetheart stuff NEVER works out lmao
you know who else ended a relationship trying to open it up... ofcourse the caller wont end up in a charli xcx music video
Leave her *Dr Stav walks into the consultation room accompanied by an open relationship specialist, you know you're about to get some bad news
Deadpool breaking the fourth wall is fucking hilarious
Bruh, what a hell this must be
This guy's toast😂😂
Divorce is the only answer
Why are you’re feet out!? XD not mad but just startled! Hey stavvy looking fucking great!
This dude is giving Anders from Workaholics vibes and IM HERE FOR IT
It’s already open brother
2:03 wife really went full Darth Vader with "I'm altering the deal. Pray I don't alter it any further".
this had me bricked up ngl
I don't think she wants him to break up with her, nor do I think she just wants to go cheat. My take is the wife is just looking for a fight. It's such a ridiculous suggestion. It wasn't a real suggestion as much as it was a test.
What she probably wanted to hear was "No honey, let's just be exclusive and find another way", BUT what she heard (regardless if it's what he actually said) was probably closer to "No, I want to sleep with other people too if you're gonna", and she took it as him admitting that he just wants to sleep with other people. Since she made him drop the idea so fast it sounds like she was offended that he even brought up the idea as it's not something she would have considered and was suspicious/angry after that.
First, Dude brought up open relationship and she shot it down immediately.
Then, wife now things dude wants to sleep with other people.
She stews on that for a month, gets angry about it.
Wife brings up one-sided open relationship. Dude says no.
And now wife starts complaining about him wanting to sleep with other people???
It would have made way more sense to argue that he just wants to sleep with other people the first time he brought it up. Asking for a one-sided version of an open relationship sounds to me like a safe way to bring it up again; she knows there's no way he'll say yes unlike if she brought it up in a fair way. Sounds to me like she just had a delayed reaction to his first request. She was really trying to pick a fight so she could complain more about him wanting to be open in the first place.
This is really awesome advice from someone that has clearly never been in a relationship with a female.
This has to be the worst take on the situation. Unless you're a female projecting you're own reflection of the situation, which scares me even more than the callers wife
You're %100 right guys that call chicks "females" don't understand women
This has 22 upvotes meaning that some 22 airheads also agree. What the shit. The dude said he “told her that was insane” 2:25
And then she called him selfish.
So no. You typed a lot for nothing. Sorry bud
Other people here are crapping on you unfairly, IMO, as it's a legitimate possibility (I wouldn't say probability). It is pretty weird for a woman to suggest a cuckold relationship where it's not a stated condition of not breaking up (say if the man did something terrible)... her actually wanting to stay together but trying to get the man to drop the idea by giving the ridiculous alternative to his idea could explain it.
The avengers bit was amazing
Walking on eggshells this call lmao
I fucking love a Stav cackle
Reminder that Stav was in a relationship with extremely hot it girl Rachel Sennott, but dumped because she didn't want to open up their relationship. Biggest fumble of his life apart from severing his relationship with Nick
Look Nick was objectively the funniest person on the show and maybe of that time, but it’s not like Nick is cranking out the laughs now like they did on the town. Stav leaving seems to have deflated his comedic instincts and stav is doing way better
it's been 3 years, get over it or go listen to the monotone podcast
@@StamesJevens Stav still dumped Rachel Sennott because he is a horny glutton. My comment wasn't about Nick lol
I’d say she has already stepped out on him, and possibly that’s why the sex life is no longer alive. Now she’s looking to do it without having to worry or carry any burden of it. Also has a side note I’m kinda surprised that he would feel the need to call into a comedy podcast to see what he should do!!! There’s just a lot to unpack here.
Insane phone call. Lmao
After u cheat leave her
my man
That would be great for her divorce lawyers. The caller should stop acting like a lame and initiate the divorce.
Its just divorce. The fact that she suggested this is divorce. Needing to sit down and talk about spicijg things up is divorce. Just get a divorce.
She is already cheating and looking for her way out. RUN!!
funniest clip im crying
7:11 I’d like to hear his original pitch. This might have been a test if he said something like “it’s not that I want strange, we just need to spice it up.” Because otherwise it doesn’t make sense tbh. I think the OG pitch is suspect.
See ya at comic con, next call lmao
The advice is to punt. Pretend the issue is resolved however that goes and use it to buy time to either talk to a lawyer to strategize and/or preemptively cheat
I love stavvy and the podcast but sometimes it just makes me sad
Damn, this almost turned me Red Pill 😂
Already cheating on you but doesn’t want to lose her resources that you provide.
A classic superbowl strategy
This relationship is over. She’s either 1) already cheated 2) will eventually cheat no matter if a deal is brokered or 3) will be unhappy for the coming years because she can’t sleep with anyone else.
Either way this is not the end of this. Leave now.
Is that iDubbz calling in?
I’ll see you at the gym tomorrow bro ❤
It’s Ggs in the chat man. He’s cooked.
Take everything, leave.
That’s a big fucking wrinkle 🤣
Avengers 😂
Its over mate, sorry
He needs to get the autojack3000 that’ll show her
Bro’s gonna have to fork over half his net worth for his trouble, imagine getting legally married in the 2020s.
It was a good run man. But that relationship is TOAST
Stavy bby looking great
This is one of the weirdest things I have ever heard in my life.
Talk to every divorce lawyer, hit the town, and get some snizz fuck all that noise
Damn, my boy is cooked :((((
Unless both of you were already open and clear about it before yall got together..... opening it up NEVER works as a solution to a couples problems .... NEVER!
What happened is he requested an open relationship first, it hurt her feelings, so she decided to show him what it feels like
This exactly. I don't think she's being serious with the request.
This is why i don’t want to get married.
“Let’s open our relationship but just for me”…. So u wanna cheat
This feels like it's probably made up, but assuming it isn't yeah he's toast
Stavvy Looks a little trimmer. Always pulling for our boy to drop a few pounds
The callers wife clearly doesn’t respect him. Cut your losses and start working toward the divorce.
…he’s right behind me, isn’t he?
_A lot of 39-year old men are into Marvel_ [cue music]
Imagine being so greedy you dont want the guy to get some too?
We already know its probably a huge uphill climb for the guy compared to the girl when its opened up in the first place then to be like "nah, just me..."
I hope this one is fake.
Just get divorced why do people put themselves through this
Its time for a divorce.....now..and dont even look back. First I bet shes already cheating and second this is fucked
Open relationship = intermission before breakup. There is no such thing as an open relationship.
hear, hear
Dating is cooked.
On your left
Captain Vibrator
Someone should have shouted wakanda forever and do the tchalla cross arm salute thing
These guy clearly is clueless from being married since high school. He’ll get eaten alive in the dating pool.
She for sure already cheated
Yeah she's already cheating
She's been taking it from other men for years