At this time: I do not give a damn if it is limerence or what. If it helps me to get during the day or night, it is good. If one did not get or does not have a loved partner in his or her life, so be it. We must give ourselves the permission to just love or long. This world is crazy enough. What do you expect? That we face reality 24/7 and be ok with it? I have no man or family or career or friends or even a pet to come home to at night. Do you really wonder why someone like me would fantasize about a greater love/life? Because life is freaking unbearable. That's why.
For a moment when you were reading your first few sentences I honestly believed that somehow you were talking directly to me. What a common thread of insanity we weave believing that it's unique when it has been spun and sung many times over before. I'm glad this message found me and my fellow others. Bless & peace.
Your 30 days limerence program has been really helpful. Each email makes me introspect on limerent phases I've been. Thank you for helping me gain triggering yet much needed clarity ,and for sharing such deep meaningful work for free.
Limerence is like an addictive drug that can be very difficult to free yourself from. I've been working to free myself for the past 2 years from a short but very intense and unhealthy relationship...it has been tough. Codepency seems to go hand-in-hand with limerence from my experience and I also have that from my past.
“but how will you not be somehow insane when all you do is imagine things” so beautifully written
At this time: I do not give a damn if it is limerence or what. If it helps me to get during the day or night, it is good. If one did not get or does not have a loved partner in his or her life, so be it. We must give ourselves the permission to just love or long. This world is crazy enough. What do you expect? That we face reality 24/7 and be ok with it? I have no man or family or career or friends or even a pet to come home to at night. Do you really wonder why someone like me would fantasize about a greater love/life? Because life is freaking unbearable. That's why.
You have all this love within you. Feel the love you feel for your limerent one but direct it towards yourself. It will change your life.
For a moment when you were reading your first few sentences I honestly believed that somehow you were talking directly to me. What a common thread of insanity we weave believing that it's unique when it has been spun and sung many times over before. I'm glad this message found me and my fellow others. Bless & peace.
This is amazing! Im struggling with this, and it helped me realize how unhealthy limerence can be to myself but also to others. Keep on doing this!
BEAUTIFUL i loved it 😭❤
Your 30 days limerence program has been really helpful. Each email makes me introspect on limerent phases I've been. Thank you for helping me gain triggering yet much needed clarity ,and for sharing such deep meaningful work for free.
So glad you are benefiting from it! 💜
Limerence is like an addictive drug that can be very difficult to free yourself from. I've been working to free myself for the past 2 years from a short but very intense and unhealthy relationship...it has been tough. Codepency seems to go hand-in-hand with limerence from my experience and I also have that from my past.
I have come to know m in limerence stage, fro three years.. so painful