2am Trauma Talk ft. Tired Validation
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- Опубліковано 4 бер 2020
- Okay so
1. This video is terrible quality
2. I'm talking quiet bc the walls in this house are like paper
3. Words are hard when I say "worst" I don't mean that some trauma isn't bad I'm bad shit at talking sorry
4. Sorry for this entire thing I just needed to get some stuff out
We're working on having subtitles on these!!
TLDR; you're valid ❤
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It is so true. I had a therapist once say, "I can have a room full of trauma survivors and every one of them will think everyone else's trauma is worse."
That helped me more than anything realize that whatever my trauma, it was bad enough to cause my disorder....then it was bad enough.
Ye exactly! It's a rly common thing 4 ppl 2 b like "Well x had it worse" n think they r overreacting but it isn't the case - if it fucked u up it fucked u up x
Hey hi hello I am here I will always be here!! This is sooo important, thank you. Nice to see an upload even if you think its poor quality. Yall are HIGH QUALITY INDIVIDUALS OK
THANK U WE LUV U XXXXX
Christopher
The guy with the eye bags is right! Trauma is such a respective thing. if your brain processes something as traumatic then it is, no matter how big or small you consider it to be. It doesnt matter what caused your coping mechanisms they’re there and thats enough of a reason
This really helped. I always think "it wasnt that bad" but if i imagine putting our little in that situation its a living nightmare.
I'm glad it helped you. Sorry if it put a distressing image in your head at all x
M o o d. Such a big relate to this, we heard someone the other day say “it’s not the event that defines what is trauma, it’s how a person receives that event and how they cope with it”. Thanks for putting this out there 🖤 ~ Amber/Micheal blob
Thank you. I need this. Having friends who have also experienced trauma I always have trouble with comparison. Considering how hard my trauma hit. But nowadays I know better.
Ppl will always say "well some1 had it worse" n it can rly fuck u up, but if u think abt that, every1 says it so it's normal 2 feel that way but if it fucked u up, it did, no point thinkin some1 had it "worse"
this is such a very good point that you make - we have several littles, ranging from ages 3 - 9 and even preteen and teenage noodles as well - they had their own reoccurring trauma from childhood that continued into teen years, splitting off as an older child/teen to help protect the little even more... not sure if that makes sense. :(
This is a great video, I was traumatised by a parent and it was continued by a "friend" and professionals but it was all done in different ways but I'm still very messed up by all of it
Im so sorry. I've had a similar thing. And having a friend that I thought I could talk to. Being talked down to by them made me feel so ashamed of even bringing it up. But now I know that is complete BS.
@@KaitheKnightly yeah I really understand that.(this might be a lot for so late so if you do read it's probably best for the morning {also tw tbh}) I was taken advantage of and manipulated by the "friend" in a not very nice way then was blamed by others and even professionals I thought I could talk to so I shut down completely and only have told 4 people at all. It's been near enough 3-4 years I'm not to sure (bad memory) but I'm friendless and don't mind to much just lonely so tbh he got what he wanted
I feel this so much. It's hard for me because I don't hold any of the trauma memories, so I know very little about the trauma we experienced, and it makes me feel like it can't have been so bad if I can't even remember it, or that I'm faking my DID, but I just have to remember, whatever happened was traumatizing to child me, and I shouldn't argue that, because little me deserves to be believed and supported
Exactly. You're valid af, usually if you don't have memories of stuff it's because your brain has done it to protect you ❤❤
I got really excited seeing your face pop up in my subscriptions, and when you said the "not like anyone will watch" I wanted to jump through my phone screen like a Super Mario painting to get to ya haha 😂😂 you're valid, all of you are. We know how hard it is to deal with dissociating and not feeling like our problems are that big, but we (Alice and Austin) wanted to tell you we are here and we support you and we care about you, even if we are strangers ❤️
Thank u guys! Glad u enjoy our shit lol xxx
This found me at the perfect time,,, thank you so much. I love your channel!
Thank u oh my! We really need to start uploading again
Great message! So glad you shared it!
guy with the eye bags is right 👌👌
Thank you for this.
Thank you this was super enlightening!
Thank you for sharing this truth friend ❤️
Ur rite hun. Traumas trauma, as u said, it doesn't matter wot others think. Well said. Take care darlin. 👍 xx
Thank u! U too x
lol - the guy with the eye bags is right. lol
He is! I will be replying to your other comments shortly thank you so much ❤❤