Why do we sabotage love?

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  • Опубліковано 8 чер 2024
  • Psychologist Raquel Peel examines the reasons why so many self-sabotage in their relationships and shares tips on how to get out of this destructive cycle. This talk was filmed at TEDxJCUCairns.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 31

  • @daveogarf
    @daveogarf Рік тому +26

    Raquel, you nailed it! Insecurity in a relationship, i.e. waiting for the other shoe to drop, seems to be a hallmark of my relationships.

  • @rrich52806
    @rrich52806 Рік тому +15

    Trust due to past relationships. We re-met after 47 years. We talk about it and we make changes due to our love of us. We are 70. Hard being a part time boyfriend. She is busy 3 weeks of the month. I get one week.

  • @elisathompson3380
    @elisathompson3380 Рік тому +5

    This was something I needed to hear today. I plan listening again

  • @Godisnotdeadonlyresting
    @Godisnotdeadonlyresting Рік тому +12

    Such a great piece of advice for those of us from unstable worlds who are trying to create stable realities ❤️

  • @williamvorobioff6566
    @williamvorobioff6566 Рік тому +4

    All relationship theories offer us useful info and understanding. I've come to love the IMAGO model for it's richness, accessibility and practical skills in addressing the issues that Raquel mentions. We, and our love lives are complex, and our relationships offer us our most powerful doorway into healing and growth. That's why we have them. Newcastle, AUST.

  • @marybaker8061
    @marybaker8061 Рік тому +3

    ❤ very helpful info! I shared it as it was very timely as well!

  • @farhodsulaymonov1725
    @farhodsulaymonov1725 Рік тому +6

    Yes, love is a very crazy feeling in our life.😢

  • @bukurie6861
    @bukurie6861 Рік тому

    Thank you❤💕for your warm talk😍🌍

  • @jackbusiness7879
    @jackbusiness7879 Рік тому

    Some people really think that way, today I learned.

  • @funnytv-1631
    @funnytv-1631 Рік тому +6

    Because love is blind and complcated

  • @CollinsBlessings-rj2fz
    @CollinsBlessings-rj2fz 9 місяців тому

    Thank you dr pius for the time you took to make the best medication and also give me bellst treatment ever. you are a life saver i am happy i come across your chann!!!...

  • @l0g1cseer47
    @l0g1cseer47 Рік тому

    Instead of calling "it" by the name of "Love" which is very very traditionally generationally religious which meant and still understood as being devotional..
    And today, people are more accessible of individual, independent, self immersive from private to public which expands definitions to the relative common constructive socially acceptable and manageable capacity for timely relationships.
    So, therefore more modern and rational of compassionate utility and of personal necessity. Its more now of collective maturity than adolescent fanaticism.
    Thanks for sharing.

  • @MabruukaXuseen-dl8tn
    @MabruukaXuseen-dl8tn Рік тому +2

    I am somali Islam❤❤❤ ALLHE HMUDILH

  • @ayinyeyoutube8354
    @ayinyeyoutube8354 Рік тому

    Selam❤❤❤❤❤

  • @pjeean_20
    @pjeean_20 Рік тому +2

    Why I am single

  • @charleneterrell
    @charleneterrell Рік тому

    Why do the men that pretend to want to date me think I care?

  • @nishantraj1284
    @nishantraj1284 Рік тому +2

    Pls translate it into hindi language

  • @ready2travel226
    @ready2travel226 Рік тому

    We don’t. We pursue our goals, wait until the stars align and embrace it. 👍🏾

  • @F_L_U_X
    @F_L_U_X Рік тому +2

    Why is Charlie Chaplin in the thumbnail?

  • @magius-jo2gl
    @magius-jo2gl Рік тому

    I hate relationships... don't trust them.

  • @cutflow2
    @cutflow2 Рік тому +6

    A marriage contract is the only agreement where a woman is richly rewarded for breaking it

    • @cutflow2
      @cutflow2 Рік тому +2

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  • @cutflow2
    @cutflow2 Рік тому +7

    “Hoeflation:
    Today’s men must work 5 times harder than their grandfathers for women that are 50 times worse than their grandmothers.

    • @cutflow2
      @cutflow2 Рік тому

      Learn the truth about women by following these UA-camrs 1. Living life of abundance 2. It’s complicated channel 3. Better bachelor 4. Tribe of men 5. MJ getright 6. Tribe cast 7. Blk Filipino tv 8. Anthony spade reactions 9. The manosphere highlights daily 10. Replicantphish 11. Darius m 12. Oshay duke Jackson 13. Casual bachelor 14. Taylor the fiend

    • @evadebruijn
      @evadebruijn Рік тому +4

      GET BETTER NOT BITTER 💪