Living in a small town as a Black, Queer, Autistic, Woman. Part 1 (this was hard to share)

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  • Опубліковано 13 січ 2025

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  • @ADayOfflofi
    @ADayOfflofi 2 місяці тому +14

    I’m sorry that happened to you. Thank you for sharing.

    • @Qu3stOfD3stiny
      @Qu3stOfD3stiny  2 місяці тому

      @@ADayOfflofi thank you for listening, I’m keeping my head up ❤️

  • @iSourCherry
    @iSourCherry 2 місяці тому +10

    Thank you for sharing because a lot BW experience this. Im sorry you experience this. I hope you feel better. I pray your situation get better. May God protect you.🫶🏾💕

    • @Qu3stOfD3stiny
      @Qu3stOfD3stiny  2 місяці тому

      @@iSourCherry thank you for saying this ❤️ I contemplated deleting this video out of embarrassment or backlash but I’m so happy I decided to leave it up. Thank you!

    • @iSourCherry
      @iSourCherry 2 місяці тому +1

      @ Aww, I totally understand! I’m the same way. As a Black woman with a congenital condition, it often feels like the world isn’t made for me either. I get where you’re coming from-I’m emotional, too, and still figuring out the best way to navigate racist, mean, or obnoxious people without breaking down. Seeing you share your experience and vulnerability really helps; it’s comforting to know I’m not overreacting and that we do have the right to feel the way we do in these situations. Thank you for being so open !

    • @Qu3stOfD3stiny
      @Qu3stOfD3stiny  2 місяці тому

      @ ❤️I felt this real deep. It’s gets really hard navigating life in our bodies, so it’s only right that we release these heavy emotions in our own way. We need more safe spaces to talk about our intricate struggles, thank you for sharing some of yours ❤️🙏🏿

  • @ZaneChandy
    @ZaneChandy 8 днів тому

    Hey QOD. I’m so sorry for your experience and I’m truly heartbroken by your story. It’s really sad to see people who have deep hatred toward someone because of how their hair or their skin color looks. Honestly, you’re so brave for sharing your story and I’m really glad I was able to see it.
    I can sort of relate to your situation. I was raised in Florida in also a diverse community. However, not too long ago I estranged from my family after they found out I had bipolar disorder. I also moved to a small town (Ames, Iowa) because I thought it would be a better experience for me as a brown Pakistani and it would be more safer.
    I have experienced a lot of racism here. In fact, it’s been a traumatic experience for me. I never knew how much racism was so systematically ingrained in the US. I can only imagine what it’s like in your shoes. I sometimes wonder also where else can I go since even my own family doesn’t care about me.
    Please do keep us posted on your situation and I hope and pray to God that it improves. May God protect you and be with you always. Always remember, you deserve the best in life dear friend. ❤️🙏🏽

  • @doret21
    @doret21 2 місяці тому +9

    Enjoy your life with your wife I’m so sorry this happened to you 💔

    • @Qu3stOfD3stiny
      @Qu3stOfD3stiny  2 місяці тому

      @@doret21 thank you so much, I’m keeping my head up! 😊

  • @Pookie-t3m
    @Pookie-t3m Годину тому

    Honey, your mere presence intimidated her that’s why she tried to stop you❤I’m so sorry that happened to you 💕💕

  • @hobaaize6474
    @hobaaize6474 2 місяці тому +9

    I’m so so sorry that this happened to you I really hope u will get better and feel well soon :(🩷🩷

    • @Qu3stOfD3stiny
      @Qu3stOfD3stiny  2 місяці тому

      @@hobaaize6474 thank you for sharing well wishes. I feel a lot better and very appreciative of all the support I’m receiving. I’m very grateful ❤️❤️❤️

  • @J.J568
    @J.J568 2 місяці тому +8

    They will all reap what they sow.

  • @BIGMAMMA183
    @BIGMAMMA183 13 днів тому

    I am sorry to hear of your plight. Unfortunately, we do share this world with negative, nasty people. We cannot prevent the way others treat us. However, we can control our reactions to it. This white woman is nothing, try not to take her actions towards you to heart - keep strong my sister and thanks for sharing.❤

  • @aleco444
    @aleco444 2 місяці тому +5

    Thank you for sharing this, sorry this happened to you😢❤keep your head up sis❤️🙏🏾

    • @Qu3stOfD3stiny
      @Qu3stOfD3stiny  2 місяці тому +1

      @@aleco444 thank you for listening to my story! I won’t allow this incident to break me and feel super grateful for your kind words ❤️❤️❤️

  • @paprikahoney
    @paprikahoney 21 день тому +2

    I am so sorry, I hope you are feeling better *sending hugs*

    • @piashadononfroy1261
      @piashadononfroy1261 21 день тому

      FEEL HER SO MUCH LEFT THE DIRTY SOUTH BC OF RACISM I WILL NEVER GO BACK NEVER EVER ITS SO DEPRESSING AND SO UNFORTUNATE ❤

    • @Qu3stOfD3stiny
      @Qu3stOfD3stiny  19 днів тому

      @@paprikahoney thank you! I’m feeling waaay better since this incident

  • @TheEpiphany101
    @TheEpiphany101 11 днів тому

    I’m so sorry ❤

  • @joshuabeldo2656
    @joshuabeldo2656 20 днів тому +1

    ❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾crazy you’ll be around I’ve been there…

  • @TkTkayy
    @TkTkayy 24 дні тому +1

    I’m sorry you had to experience this

  • @piashadononfroy1261
    @piashadononfroy1261 21 день тому

    SUBSCRIBED BC I WANT YOU TO KNOW YOU GOT THIS KEEP LIVING YOUR DREAM HOLD AND DONT FOLD NEVER FOLD YOU HEAR ME MY SISTER AND 👑 QUEEN❤

    • @Qu3stOfD3stiny
      @Qu3stOfD3stiny  19 днів тому

      @@piashadononfroy1261 this really made my day. Thank you so much for you kind words. I promise to never fold, my ancestors won’t allow it ❤️

  • @piashadononfroy1261
    @piashadononfroy1261 21 день тому

    COME TO NEW MEXICO I GOT YOU SISTER❤TRULY I MEAN THAT HIT ME UP

    • @Qu3stOfD3stiny
      @Qu3stOfD3stiny  19 днів тому +1

      @@piashadononfroy1261 you’re so kind! New Mexico is on my list of places to visit, would love meet up one day. I also just subscribed to your channel ❤️

  • @bodhisattva2348
    @bodhisattva2348 2 місяці тому +3

    The places i would never live. Nope

  • @yamiyo6050
    @yamiyo6050 2 місяці тому +6

    Yt ppl are the worst

  • @Howtomakegamecards
    @Howtomakegamecards 2 місяці тому +2

    Where can you go? Sacramento. I always understood the Sierra foothills to be sundown country. The last time I was up there I was confronted by Karen for taking nature photos. Don't cry move!

    • @Qu3stOfD3stiny
      @Qu3stOfD3stiny  2 місяці тому +4

      @@Howtomakegamecards funny you should say this because I experienced the most physical/violent racism in my life by a man at a bar in Sacramento 🙃 thanks for your “advice” though…

  • @scorpionoir4952
    @scorpionoir4952 25 днів тому +1

    She was definitely profiling you and she had to save face in order to keep the store from getting in legal trouble. File a complaint and leave public reviews as a caution to other black people in the area.

    • @Qu3stOfD3stiny
      @Qu3stOfD3stiny  19 днів тому

      @@scorpionoir4952 I’ll def leave a public complaint as well. Thank you for your advice ❤️

  • @Rollacoastertycoon
    @Rollacoastertycoon 2 місяці тому

    Lmao

    • @allansheffler
      @allansheffler 2 місяці тому

      Cut it out idiot. She may be a little too fragile for your shyte.