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What Lust Does To Your Brain
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- Опубліковано 12 лип 2024
- We made a couple of videos on how to stop porn addiction and how damaging it is, but what about lust? In this video, we dive into what lust does to your brain and how it can impact your mental health and emotional well-being. Lust is a powerful force that can lead to a lustful mind and, in some cases, even addiction.
Understanding the psychological aspects of lust can help you recognize its influence and take steps to maintain a healthy mindset.
Whether you're trying to quit porn, stop watching porn, or simply want to understand how lust affects your brain, we hope this video provides valuable insights. With that said, let's look at the relationship between lust and the brain, and discuss tips on how to navigate this complex emotion.
#psychology #brain #lust
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When talking about lust, I feel we don't deal enough with the issue of loneliness and the need to be loved, touched, caressed, etc.
How don't we deal with it enough? Nowadays you can't spit on this platform to not hit content regarding loneliness and how love starved people are. It's closer to redundant than underdiscussed.
Become a man bro , a man does not need anybody's companionship , a man is a sign of intelligence and high mental strength u don't need any touch or love at all start controlling your mind and things will change for now it is the mind that is controlling most of the men , .make mind your slave like monks have done but unfortunately west seems to have surrounded themselves with a lot of lustful content all around so it is kind of difficult for them to overcome coz environment plays a very big role
nah dent let your emotions control you dude
Totally agree. I know for me I feel those feelings first.
@@Harsh-Raj18and you're just being insensitive about the reality of emotional health. You are too insensitive to be considered helpful.
"Limbo, Lust. All gone. With gluttony soon to follow"
Ah, free at last...
is that gabe ultrakill
Your kind know nothing but hunger.
@@vichix6039 ..purged all life from the upper layers, and yet they remain unsatiated..
..as do you.
You took everything from me, machine.
I hate when lust limbo and gluttony are all gone
Pinos Prime?!?!??!?!!!🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Limbo, Lust, all gone... With Gluttony soon to follow..
Your kind know nothing but hunger. Purged all life on the upper layers and yet they remain *unsatiated*.
As do y o u.
You've taken everything from me, machine...
And now, all that remains..
Is PERFECT. HATRED.
@@thesurvivor6430…Now. Peek this sick organ solo
Ah... Free at last...
@@TheTaxCollector232O’ Gabriel, now dawns thy reckoning
Something also very important to know:
*There is a difference between genuine desire and fantasy. DO NOT muddle the two.*
There is a difference between feeling good from a scenario you think about and you have control over with no repercussions, and actually partaking in that activity.
Confusing these two can be devastating. Mentally, emotionally, socially, and in other ways. THINK before you do things. Think about how you would feel AFTERWARDS.
When you watch porn, there is always an ending, no further explanation into the consequences of anybody's actions. *Real life is different.* You WILL suffer the consequences, be it through a damaged relationship, a damaged social image, having a guilty consience, etc.
Ask yourself how your friends would look at you. Ask yourself how your family would look at you. Ask how your significant other would look at you.
This part is very important, especially because it is arguably the most difficult thing to do. *Think about how you will feel afterwards, if YOU would agree with the things you are doing.*
I send nothing but love to those struggling with this issue.
Honestly adult content ruined my brain I wouldn't start if anybody is reading this don't start
@@AndersHintionyou're making em' more curious💀
Porn is ridiculously bad for your brain.
@@AndersHintionI never will start. It’s a never ending loop, one thing to the other, then it turns into a maze. I’m already an obsessive person so I don’t need adult content to make it better for me- but I really do hope the best for those trying their best to balance their lives and addictions. It’s not the end, your efforts do matter, they contribute to the bigger changes to your life, ones that you won’t see right now.
All love out here
I saw nsfw at 8. It ruined me and now its an addiction. I dint know how ti stop but its my only coping mechanism whenever I'm frustrated and i get really guilty afyer having those awful thoughts i hate myself for it. Im 15 now and its still happening i just wish i could stop, im stopping myswlf barely.
So not having sex is making me depressed and anxious and I can't get laid because I'm depressed and anxious.
I feel this every day thats why i just ignore it it still digs into me tho and the feeling slowly eats you away.
Thats why i just around and fist bump or shake anothers hand
You don’t need sex.
same but for me its a normal relationship
@@nittani. Because ignoring the problem won't solve it. I mean, all our emotions are biochemical processes and we can't affect them by will cuz it's part of neural system we don't have control on
No one is ever feeling lust for me 🗣️ 🔥
#real
Rubbed one out for ya brotha 🙏
Maybe they just don’t want to tell! You never know…
@@ineedsleep3937 they play roblox you probably rubbed to a child
My brother you are worthy of such affection you just haven’t met the right people
It's like fire. You can use it to achieve unimaginably great things. But if you lose control of it, it will burn everything....
This should be the top comment
It will give you light and warmth but it can also kill you if you're not watching it
@@tacosovietico4681 Thank you..!
Nice quote
@@KeganSmith-j3m Thanks..!
UA-cam knows that I need this video bro😭
facts
Yo this is so real 😭🙏
same man
art is a pretty good way to express yourself instead of lust, it really helps :)
That is true. Art is an amazing way for self expression. What kind of arts do you currently do?
frantically rendering right now!
What about the people to use art to express their lust
not art being a trigger for some people (me):
I started writing lyrics with no music (plain poems), but I started to feel overwhelmed because in almost evert one of them I ended up dying, hurted or having... dark thoughts.
I hurt the girl of my dreams (funny, attractive, kind and all that jazz), who was also very into me, just because I let lust got into my head. I deeply regret trying to manipulate her and of course told her my apologies but the damage was already dealt.
Fellas, keep yourself in check at all times. Or else, it can ruin the best of everything...
I feel you brother, I absolutely know how you feel! It's hard, but you have to stay strong and never give up!
I gave up on dating because of my unchecked lust.
Even though i am talking to one of the sweetest, funniest, most active and best looking women ive seen yet, I refuse trying to do date things because I don't believe i've done enough to deserve her time.
So at best, if she wants to talk to me, she can, but i sure will make sure it is known that I am not looking for happiness.
It happens to women too. Guys see me as an easy hookup more than gf material. Im def wifey material but when youre an addict its easy to put out without commitment.
@@lindyloohoo dating has taken too much inspo from porn and now if a woman looks anything close to good looking, they'll be thought of as hookup materials.
Idk how you look, but i believe you look better than a majority of women today!
so have a great day, ok?
Brother, I'm crying cause I went through the same. In my lustful impulsive behaviour I've ruined a blooming relationship and hurt the person I cared about. Deeply regretted apologized, have been forgiven but it haunts me still. I feel you brother. We are better for this, more responsible and compassionate, we have grown.
what about bloodlust
how stop pls
am need tutoral now
am subcribe pls
Dude wtf
LOL
Don't tell this to Hazbin Hotel Fans....
?
*Meanwhile me who watched Helluva Boss and plans to watch Hazbin Hotel*
Btw Hazbin Hotel is an adult show same as Helluva Boss hope that helped
@@JesterKoi I don't get it.
@@tomobata I think @JesterKoi was responding to @1TZ_R3X
I mean it IS a show about hell and lust is one of the deadly sins, lol.
Lust + Brain = Art.
Mostly because I fail the lust aspect and go for the horror aspect by accident
That’s exactly what my probation officer said… 😹
hentai, hentai, hentai 😆
Pffffft. The only thing I’ve ever drawn that made someone either feel disgusted or flirty was my Channels mascot eating something (he has 7 tongues-)
Typh's and Whygena's status fr
for some, these two are the same
I still remember what caused my lust triggers and am very very happy that I had a supportive person who helped me get out of it. I'm doing much better now and am still working on improving myself.
Limbo, Lust, All gone...
With Gluttony soon to follow.
Your kind know nothing but hunger.
Purged all life on the upper layers, and yet they remain unsatiated... As do you.
You've taken everything from me, machine.
And now all that remains is...
PERFECT
HATRED
Thank you, as a teen who had unsupervised internet as a kid and found out corn a little more early then I should have in life. This helped me, especially since yesterday I was crying on how ashamed I felt with because of a certain streak I couldn’t break.
Like 2 days ago I also started to cry while I was laying down in bed, feeling angry at myself for how I let lust take over me so easily and how I want to control it
I think just make the intention to get rid of it, and a HUGE thing is put good food and good natural water in your system, also grow spiritually. When you believe and ponder on abstract ideas this stuff looks so stupid
I think just make the intention to get rid of it, and a HUGE thing is put good food and good natural water in your system, also grow spiritually. When you believe and ponder on abstract ideas this stuff looks so stupid
You to huh
I'm currently struggling with this. I know I'll overcome it as I am getting better and better and better. However, sometimes it gets to me, and I can't stop for a while. I have finally found my triggers and have found out how to get rid of them and how to distract me from them. I know it's going to be hard, but I know that we all can. I have faith in the upper power. If you are still reading this, please pray for me.
We will overcome this 💪
Same here you have to keep fighting...eventually you will have a break though, you just got to catch yourself before you fall to prevent the guilt cycle from repeating over and over...Stay strong and motivated and keep the faith.
I’ve had to deal with lust in the past and most of the time it would get to me. I was about to look up something due to my lust just now, but this video popped up and I started watching it. Thank God that he put this video on my recommended ❤
it's going to be hard
STAY FOCUSED BROTHERS
i saw the video and immediately said: oh sh*t im screwed
When i saw this video i went: Limbo, lust all gone with glutony soon to follow
Same here and I’m 2 weeks late
Honestly my thoughts
Bro.. My thoughts exactly
I saw the video and immediately clicked on it since UA-cam is helping me now
holy shit ultrakill reference
the binding of isaac reference
Ah.. free at last
the king of lust arises upon thee
O Gabriel... now dawns thy rekoning
Ultrakill mentioned!!! WTF IS A BAD GAME????
I’ve been struggling with lust for years and constantly breaking my commitments to quit. I prayed less than an hour ago for help and here this video appears in my feed, a clear sign of God trying to help me. If you see this comment, know that God loves you and will help you with your vices if you just care to admit it to Him.
I hope it gets better soon 🙏🏼
Heavily reducing my exposure to online content that triggers my lust has greatly benefitted my mental well being, especially when it comes to socializing.
It was the hardest addiction for me to overcome. It’s crazy how it’s also the most easily accessible.
Good luck to all out there who’re trying to detox!
Porn addiction? No seriously, I’m damn near dead on the inside. Is lust all about effing?
@@misstekhead While lust is commonly associated with sexual desire, it can also refer to a strong longing for other pleasures or material possessions.
@@williamphanz
This video seemed to speak more of lust in terms of sexual desire or the need for companionship…for seggs.
What did you do to get the triggering content away?
@@Supasane_exe browse certain parts of the internet 😅
i love how psych2go doesnt shy away from making videos of generally taboo topics
that way they hit more of the topics most other channels like them dont which is just good in general
The fact lust is considered a taboo topic is only part of why nobody ever speaks up about it. Human sexuality is completely natural yet we are ashamed to admit we experience it around others
@@ObiAlmighty that’s called judgement, and oh my gosh is it annoying. todays society goes crazy when anything even a little bit sensitive is said or shown…why
@@ObiAlmighty I agree with you completely
Lust? King Minos?
Ah, free at last...
O, Gabriel, now dawns thy reckoning...
and thy gore shall GLISTEN before the temples of man
@@paoloortiz5662 and thy gore shall GLISTEN before the temples of man
Creature of steel, my gratitude upon thee for my freedom.
Limbo, lust, all gone...
fr
I'm so ultrakilled that I laughed from anything somehow related to ultrakill
Judgement!
We are getting a stage 3 ultrakill brainrot with this one
@@SirSunThe2nd weak......
I hear from many different places that to have lustful tendencies needs to be kept in, controlled: that it's something undesirable about you. To me I view it in a similar manner to anger: anger isn't even necessarily a bad part about you! It's what you DO when you're angry, and how OFTEN you are angry that makes a difference! Same thing with lust I'd argue. To feel lustful for someone isn't necessarily evil in itself, it's how you act upon those urges and who you spend your time with that makes the difference! 😊
As a man thinks so he is
@@Agentdouble007 What? What does that mean?
That's a good way to put it. Anything too much is never good; moderation is key.
It's also the frequency and the intensity that matters for both anger and lust. Even if you can control it, if they are too frequent and/or too intense you may feel overwhelmed. I'm having a really hard time with lust and i can't control myself. i'm doing too much sex with too many people and when i don't I search for people to have sex with or I feel depressed. After watching this video i decided to unistall hookup apps that I had on my phone. I don't know how much time i will resist and if i will make it but i prefer to feel depressed instead of being driven by lust. I just feel like an animal at this point.
@@SpiritFury05 That is also very true. As described in the video, having lustful feelings for your partner can actually help make the relationship even stronger, but at the same time, with regards to what you're describing, lust does not serve a helpful purpose in that scenario.
As someone that always tries not to commit lust, this really helped make me understand how lust really works.
Hiloue fridi te niht fuknin bofren
holy shit is that bf fnf
holy shit that IS boyfriend from friday night funkin
@@good1005inhighdefinition wsg
@@ad1340yt wsg bro
I saw this video and almost ignored it. I watched it and realized how much this video called me out, and I will 100% follow this. Thank you so much for alerting me of the dangers of lust ^^
Same thing happened to me bro 😊
this made me feel so included as someone who was exposed to type of content containing lust, i love ur videos
Lust is hard for some people out there to control, I know a few but that’s life you know it helps and then it doesn’t help.
I have been so lustful in the past, and accidentally seen so much inappropriate content due to others being lustful that my triggers just stopped activating due to me being desensitized to that form of media. This helped me see people as actual people instead of objects, not the best strategy to remove triggers, would not recommend.
@the_Jimmyest_of_Jim lust is sin repent I have comead this sin and I repent James 4:7 ►
New International Version
Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
@@user-ui6ly9fv7o👍 lust indeed is a sin no doubt about that because u don't get anything fruitful from it it only destroys you more and more as you dig deeper your semen has lot of power don't waste it celibacy will completely transform your life Only way to defeat lust is to first accept it and then surrendering it to god, chanting his name, meditating , controlling the mind , becoming rigid and persistent towards it , showing iron will and determination , lust is the most catastrophic emotion in human beings, always leads to a lot of damage to self as it's obvious wasting your life force will make u weak less confident , lethargic
@@user-ui6ly9fv7onot the place to spread your religion 😂
No. This is actually a good time to spread the word of god. It helps me and can help other people as well when dealing with lust.
0:12 what is lust
0:51 what does it do to ur brain
Social bonding. Sexual attraction
Increased pleasure.
Enhanced motivation
Boosted confidence
Improved physical health
2:02 unchecked lust
Impairs judgement. Prefrontal cortex gone. Harrassment abuse.
Mental health impact. Anxiety shame depression
Addiction like cycle.
3:30 overcome lust
Acknowledge feelings
Digital detox
Distract yourself. Cycle. Read book. Puzzle.
Focus on long term. Devoted relationship.
Put energy in projects.
4:07 one eyebrow missing in character 😂😂😂😂😂
4:39 coveneant eyes app
Thanks for putting this together. Are there any points we could have added or taken out?
“Prefrontal cortex is done” 💀🙋♂️
The eyebrows are a stylistic choice; when an eyebrow isn’t in view you are supposed to assume it is neutral / slightly raised
@@Psych2go no it's perfect
that's just bfdi style wym?
it makes me jork it -twitter user
im here because of that tweet 😭
@@absentooo you're so real for that
You saw it too? 😭
and by "it", well, lets justr say
haha, my peanuts
Immediately when I see this video all I can think is
"Limbo, Lust. All gone. With gluttony soon to follow... Your kind knows nothing but hunger, Purged all life upon the upper layers. And yet they remain unsatiated... As do you, You've taken everything from me machine, And know all that remains.. Is PERFECT HATRED."
being a teenager in 2024 is so hard not to lust bro
So real😭😭
As a former teenager I agree
my eyes have been trained to look at breasts and only breasts
I was a teenager in the early/mid 2000s and saw every attractive girl/woman as a superior being for whom I felt inferior as f to even talk to. Teenage years are hell. Changing from a boy to a man and girl to a woman is a scary and depression time for sure.
Being a teenager has always made it impossible to not give in to lust tbh
Dude. I cannot stress enough how important it is to say that these kinds of feelings in any capacity are not wrong. It's the actions you take with these feelings that determines if it's wrong or right.
Agreed.
So thats why Minos Prime from the ULTRAKİLL said:”i have failed to bring you salvation.”
He probably tried to make the citizens of lust layer (very different from the source which the game takes) acknowledge their lust or feelings, though we don’t see any phone or computer, distracting yourself with puzzles or reading books and etc. İs possible. Though we dont see these in the game, i bet Minos did attempted salvation with those.
No wonder Minos Prime looks like a bodybuilder since he wanted to probably free them from their unchecked lust.
Though we dont see these in a game, this video did make think about how was the Lust layer like before Minos became a prime soul. Minos in ULTRAKİLL is very different from the more cruel yet judges fair mythological one.
This video also made me realize how lustful i was. Even though i was aware of it. But not about how to overcome it.
Very real.
I have noticed your uppercase İ's ... fellow Turkish person ?!?!
@@tazepatates4805TÜRKIYE🇹🇷🇹🇷🇹🇷🇹🇷🇹🇷
Tbfr....we just want to be loved cuh😭 idk how long i can thug it out😭💀
il give u a goodnight kiss tonight dw
Can you give me the thug shaker? Can you shake your ass for me?
Guss speaking facts
gustabo thing
I need a femboy..(waltuh)
This video came out 30 seconds ago. How is there a comment from 1 day ago?
Patreon privileges I guess.
Time travellers
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Members can watch the video earlier than non-members
Mysteries of life
the words "prepare thyself!" appeared in my mind when I saw minute 4:27.
CRUSH
ULTRAKILL MENTION!!!!
You shall know JUDGMENT
WEAK CREATURE OF STEEL
Minos was the king of the lust layer after all
4:57 incorrect instructions, i solved the cube in 50 seconds
Lust is something we all deal with, willingly or not it's a natural human response but controlling that emotion is your problem
Ya coz if not controlled it will destroy you , destroy all your life force present in you , semen has a lot of power, it is not something to be wasted it is something to be preserved , it makes a man more manly and whenever lust catches you call god's name loudly in your heart or start taking deep breaths it will destroy all your lust that's what we do here in India, you will be shocked by the fact that indians usually stay virgin till their date of marriage not even that here there is concept of brahmacharya ( abstinence) which can transform your life completely so that is the reason you see most of Indian men turning into monks,sages,yogis
It’s way easier to control if you don’t watch the hub or never beat your meat
List? What's list? Like a list of ingredients?
Thank you for this video. I really need to clean my life up. Find someone. Make changes. Actual changes.
Glad this video can be of value for you! :)
Best of luck in turning things around for yourself! You got this😁!
@@Psych2go THIS NOT USEFUL VIDEO CAN'T EXCAPE SOMETHING IS YOUR LIFE IS FULL OF IT SO DONT SAY AVOIDE THE LUSTFUL THING THAT MAKES YOU LUSTFUL ITS JUST A LOOP CAN'T GET RID OF
USELESS VIDEO
@@pharaohgamer4345thy end is now
2:37 JUDGEMENT
0:01 pov ur in times
Im.. an Isaac mini boss?
I’m cooked
Your name tell the story :)
We*
Yep
We're cooked
We are all cooked
Lust is felt with selfishness and too much lust will program you to feel more comfortable seeing other people as objects to use for your own pleasure. You no longer see them as someone's daughter, son, brother or sister
This make me confused, if two people find each other attractive and just want to satisfy their pleasures, isn't it a win-win situation?
@@Ticoryta No. First of all nobody should want satisfy their pleasure with someone they don't trust. We've normalized instant gratification when it comes to physical pleasure and people don't see their body as something sacred anymore. So people who use other people as nothing but a way to satisfy their needs, are doing nothing but acting on impulsive behavior due to their lack of control. And if they keep acting on their desperation for pleasure, they'll find it much harder later down the line to find a partner in life because they've been conditioned to go find the next available human online any time they feel lonely and they don't know how to put their sexual energy into anything else so it's just easier to sleep with a stranger than to deal with their emotions 🤷♀️
@@MorgueInTheVoid I see. I understood your point, thank you for sharing 😄
What other alternatives do I have as a gay man, trying to find a partner is litteral hell.
@@toyotawitha20mm35 You don't have to give in to lust to feel loved, you just have to make it clear to others that you have standards and find someone who recognizes your need for emotional intimacy.
Thank you so much for this video. I deleted my folder full of questionable things, which was apparently *1204 FILES* and now i feel a lot better about myself. About to make some art.
I had a feeling of missing out when I was growing up, so that sort of messed my mind up even going into adulthood. I saw women as a prize and meat, rather than actual human beings. Nothing wrong with finding someone attractive, but if that's all that you see to them, then it isn't healthy.
i'm asexual and i clicked on this video cuz i was curious about what most people feel. and wow i honestly thought people were exaggerating about how much sexual desire can mess ur brain up. like damn. kind of glad i don't have to worry about that i guess
Same ! Asexual and aromantic and don’t have any sexual and romantic attraction for someone (male or female) . . .
Just watch it and said WHAT ? ? ? ?
I was just looking for the comments of someone who's ace like me. I relate so much with yours!
I envy you guys so bad you have no idea
@@nickg5341 why so? i agree with OP, we don't have anything controlling our actions. i feel im good how i am
@@ARCT1Q I struggle with addiction so that’s easier said than done lmao. Yes we can control our actions but it’d be nice if my brain chemicals didn’t put up so much of a fight in the process
I have cycles of lust. I can go for about a month where I don't have a single lustful thought, then a few weeks where it's almost all I do. There are points of balance in-between, and I always feel best when I'm there. Thankfully, I have a very VERY lustful boyfriend to both satisfy those needs when they come up, and bring them back when they go away. He helps me keep a good balance, even if we're still long distance. "The dose makes the poison." Good in moderation, like almost all things. Having videos like these and even channels like yours is one of the most helpful things ever, thank you.
This person always lands on my recommended, and I'm not complaining, these videos are very educating
Thank you so much! I feel like this video was made for me since I struggle so much with controling lust. I wish I could see something like this much earlier...
My brain is full of that
Do you need help?
@@Justexists... a little
@@Amishadrawing pray to the lord and capture Jerusalem
Hmm I mean I just I know what you're thinking about You are thinking wrong!!!!!
Give me your snap , we can make it healthy 🤭
I never would’ve thought that lust is like an addiction it’s really sad to the people who can’t find a way to stop😢
ULTRAKILL reference
I Have So Much Of Lust And I Which Bin Feeling Like An Absolute Idiot. But This Vid Helped Me And My Mental Health
what good timing this video got to me
Same 😭
3:07 oh!! That’s definitely real!! /gen
Also rq Tysm for this video, this will help me calm down a lot ♡
I mean : I fully love this video as it is very informative but not being proud of your body is mostly because the people don't have the "best" body which is perfectly fine but can still start even depression.
This is a great video of a problem that is recognized but not talked in-depth more. I loved it!
Glad you like it! We won't sure whether to cover topics like this.
Its too taboo, when it shouldnt be. Its important because many addicts dont realize they are an addict
Ive been asking this channel for this content for years. Happy they finally did it and happy to see others relate
@@Psych2go THIS NOT USEFUL VIDEO CAN'T EXCAPE SOMETHING IS YOUR LIFE IS FULL OF IT SO DONT SAY AVOIDE THE LUSTFUL THING THAT MAKES YOU LUSTFUL ITS JUST A LOOP CAN'T GET RID OF
USELESS VIDEO
I would also add to that, avoiding environments or people who deliberately (or otherwise) trigger a lustful response in you. And avoiding those kinds of friendships, or at the very least to have strong boundaries in place with them, and be careful with the sorts of other people they might introduce you to.
Some ‘types’ of people like to trigger lustful responses in others, just for the fun of it. They might or might not even intend on following through with it. It helps boost their self esteem, effectively at the expense of yours.
Some people also pretend that they don’t do it deliberately, because they don’t want to get called names. But by the age of 25 for instance, very few people are actually naive enough to not realise that dressing in revealing outfits doesn’t ’trigger’ certain kinds of reactions from other people.
Most mature women are well aware of the sort of effect they can have on men. Some women act responsibly with this, whereas others like to act provocatively. Avoid the 2nd type, and don’t believe them when they try to downplay it or when they behave differently around you. It is a performative response, not an authentic response.
So adult women shouldn’t wear crop tops or other outfits like that because men get aroused by it? I wear them because I’m confident in my body and I’m not doing it to please men, plus they’re comfortable as hell when it’s really hot outside. Hell, some active wear while working out is revealing, would you tell a woman not to wear those as well because men at the gym might look at her and get turned on?
Edit: spelling mistake
Its intrinsic in a woman to want attention and validation- all ages. Fighting that instinct especially with a man shes attracted to, takes a lot of self awareness
I'm a man, I've never felt lustful towards a women's body, men on the other hand....👀
@@_notsaf I know a couple of women whom I'm friends with who have such strength of character and self awareness. The reason I'm only friends with them is because owing to my own damaged past, it often takes me too long to trust people, and so they got into relationships with other guys. I was disappointed, but not angry with them. I'm grateful to have them as friends, and the other thing that differentiates those women from the 'average' is that we are genuine _friends,_ not the "friendzone" bs. There are no mixed signals or flirting involved, just genuine respect and empathy for one another.
Making better, authentic, friends this way has helped me recalibrate myself and be less cynical towards women and even people in general. Adopting these kinds of standards towards women comes at the risk of occasionally being called "narrow minded", "insecure" or "controlling" by women with promiscuous dating patterns, but it should not matter much what they think anyway if you're genuinely not interested in them. Took me a few years to grow out of the impulse to argue with these sorts of idiots.
Many years ago I had a conversation with a guy in university, who was of the mindset that "all women are gold diggers". Regardless even of whether that statement is true or not, his mindset alone would predispose him to be disproportionately exposed to gold diggers. Because, if you believe that 'all women are gold diggers', and _even if_ just 1% of women are gold diggers (which I know is more than that), your chosen method for attracting women will be tailored to attracting gold diggers. And thus, all you will attract is gold diggers, thereby reinforcing the original incorrect belief. This is called self-selection bias, furthermore creating something of a self-reinforcing feedback-loop of his worldview. He would go into overdraft to withdraw £1000 from his bank account, so he could 'subtly' flaunt it at the bar when on holiday in poorer countries. No surprise, he attracted gold diggers, and when they found out he was broke, they would dump him and leave him complaining that they were only interested in his money. And he got robbed once.
To meet good men, or good women, or good people in general, you have to start believing that good people exist, before you can start to attract them. Even if it is as little as 5% of people or whatever, that's good enough. It's too much effort and not practical trying to be friends with everybody anyway.
This video has helped out a bit for me and helped me with my addiction to such activities. I really wanna thank Psych for making this video and just randomly showing up on my recommended page. All of their content is always worth watching for one reason or another.
Sex is such a controversial topic! Like everything else in life, sex can be healthy and good for you, but if overdone and abused, it's obviously unhealthy! Life is such a balancing act in every aspect of it! We just have to maintain our balance throughout, which is obviously easier said than done! Good luck and take care! Thanks again Amanda and Psych2Go!
Thank you so much for narrating this video. Your voice and narrating are special and one of a kind
Thanks for the kind words of support. We do our best to make the video as soothing and educational as possible.
@@Psych2go THIS NOT USEFUL VIDEO CAN'T EXCAPE SOMETHING IS YOUR LIFE IS FULL OF IT SO DONT SAY AVOIDE THE LUSTFUL THING THAT MAKES YOU LUSTFUL ITS JUST A LOOP CAN'T GET RID OF
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I experienced a lustful relationship just about a year ago- it definitely affected me negatively. That experience alone has taught me methods similar to the video to keep my current relationship from turning into that. Thanks for this video, this was a reminder I needed
This video helped a lot to realize what lust has done to affect me mentally
i can say that im still in the process of controlling my feelings specially lust because i know that this feeling is necessary but everything in excess are bad
Are u a woman?
These videos are always so helpful!!
Thanks! Did you watch the other videos too?
@@Psych2go THIS NOT USEFUL VIDEO CAN'T EXCAPE SOMETHING IS YOUR LIFE IS FULL OF IT SO DONT SAY AVOIDE THE LUSTFUL THING THAT MAKES YOU LUSTFUL ITS JUST A LOOP CAN'T GET RID OF
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...Im so tired I really thought this was talking about Ultrakill even after watching
Sorry, the King of Lust has dominated me, I don't even prepared myself, my end is now!
This video has spoken to me and why I’ve had problems for almost 20 years
Thank you
I recommend addiction therapy, it helped me a lot. I ended up leaving because my therapist was a conservative, but i got the help i needed to not do dangerous things ❤
Best of luck to you
Im happy as shit that this popped up i have been wanting to do as a teenager does
Im happy that i subbed to this channel
I have been finding reasons to stop and this helps alot
If youre a teen, please please dont give into lust. Ruined my life as a teen and im still recovering 10 years later
I know im a stranger on the internet but it gets better and easier after highschool. I promise
@@lindyloohoo i know and hope so what i am doing is ruining my already broken mental health
And i have been finding reasons to stop and ways to stop
I focus more on games and cartoons and i will stop watching yt shorts since i found out thats one of the triggers instead i watch cartoons like loud house
(im in my earlier teens and the cartoons i watch slaps)
Also i focus on my friends and family
Still thank you because this gives me more of a reason to stop ♥️
@@lindyloohooIm currently in a relationship with a friend online (i heard their voice and they are around the same age as me, we two are boys and of course we tell us eachother stuff [uhm…..mostly sexual…yk..]) i have found that i primarily started this relationship because i was absolutely enclosed in my house and my social skills were drastically decreasing, so he helped me increase my motivation and happiness, however i want to know if what im doing is right.
@@Kotaro_KagukenNow that you mention it, I watch and love one piece, but the problem is with anime, there's fanservice and sometimes they appear and that's where my lust triggers unfortunately, I really don't know if I should just ignore them, skip them?
I’m 14, my dad told me similar things about controlling “urges” (lust)
Nice to learn the topic is also deeper and affects your life greatly.
"Can’t wait to fight a giant corpse"
Immediately clicked, like always
the voice acting is very soothing, all of you guys did a great job with this channel! :D
A strange shiver runs down your heart...
it makes you jork it
There is a reason why lust is considered a cardinal sin in Christianity. I don't think people notice how vulnerable to such urges they are.
ur videos have been really helping me out ty!
Happy to hear that! Please continue to grow :)
@@Psych2go THIS NOT USEFUL VIDEO CAN'T EXCAPE SOMETHING IS YOUR LIFE IS FULL OF IT SO DONT SAY AVOIDE THE LUSTFUL THING THAT MAKES YOU LUSTFUL ITS JUST A LOOP CAN'T GET RID OF
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@@pharaohgamer4345Uh you okay?
now i can counter when my body tells me about "hear me out"
Vids like this are the only way I can write characters that are the polar opposite of me, which is kinda fun to do sometimes. Also going into the many journals I have of how this works for writing stories.
My brain got a whole lot of that sadly 😭
Summary
Lust is a natural tendency that can be both beneficial and harmful to the brain. Understanding its impact can help in controlling and managing it effectively.
Highlights
Lust is a strong desire primarily for sexual attraction 🌡️
Lust can enhance social bonding and pleasure, leading to improved physical health 💕
Unchecked lust can impair judgment, mental health, and lead to addiction 🚫
Acknowledging feelings, digital detox, and distraction can help overcome lust 💭
Focusing on long-term goals and redirecting energy can lead to self-improvement 🌟
Key Insights
💑 Lust is a natural human tendency driven by physical attraction and the need for sexual gratification. It is essential to recognize and acknowledge these feelings without guilt or shame.
🧠 Lust triggers the release of dopamine, leading to feelings of pleasure and euphoria. Understanding the impact of lust on social bonding, pleasure, and physical health can help in managing it effectively.
🚨 Unchecked lust can impair judgment, mental health, and lead to addiction. Recognizing triggers, practicing digital detox, and intentional distraction can aid in overcoming harmful effects.
💡 Practical tips like focusing on long-term goals, redirecting energy into creative pursuits, and fostering deeper connections can help in managing lust effectively and promoting self-improvement.
thx for this
Why did I got this on my fyp right after my gooning session
Timestamps
1). What is lust 0:08
2). Social bonding 0:53
3). Increase pleasure 1:10
4). Boosted confidence 1:34
5). Improved physical health 1:42
6). Impairs judgement 2:07
7). Mental health impact 2:38
8). Addiction-like cycle 2:58
9). Acknowledge your feelings 3:32
10). Digital detox 3:48
11). Consciously distract yourself 4:39
12). Focus on the long-term 5:00
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.💙💙💙💙💙💙
Im so glad you made this video, id been asking for it for a few years now
Really needed this. Thanks!
YW!
@@Psych2go THIS NOT USEFUL VIDEO CAN'T EXCAPE SOMETHING IS YOUR LIFE IS FULL OF IT SO DONT SAY AVOIDE THE LUSTFUL THING THAT MAKES YOU LUSTFUL ITS JUST A LOOP CAN'T GET RID OF
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Just want to be loved
*Insert requiem motif here*
what's weird is that i was literally listening to requiem while drawing art like 2 hours before seeing this video😭
i hope u guys have a good day😊
Lust goes away on its own after a few years of constant internal conflicts
I made a character with long term lust a long time ago, it’s was a blue alien guy named Dani, he still exists to this day.
King Minos reference
Still don't understand the point of pursuing lust, why not wait and find someone you like for who they are? I mean like the person I like is cute but it's who they are as a person that has me intrigued. But I think they are insecure about themselves and assume it's a physical thing for me, so just gotta continue to take it slow until they understan and feel comfortable
But I don't know how much longer I can hang on it seriously hurts with constantly being accused
Most relationships are made through the motivation of Lust, the sexual gratification we get when we fantasize getting in bed with someone.
It isn't through emotional attachment or of the desire to become exclusive with that person/person's, because the emotion felt isn't strong enough inorder to motivate you to form a relationship at first.
That's why lust is mostly pursued and is why people say you shouldn't be friends first when you like someone. It kills the sexual attraction needed to start it.
And sense there is no gaurantee when someone will start to actually have an emotionally attraction for someone while being their friend inorder to form that romantic connection, it is not advised or pursued as much than the former.
In conclusion, it is up to you to pick your poison, weither to be friends first or to pursue lust, both have risks and both have pros to it depending on what you want out of a relation with someone.
@@Yusa_Beach and while that may be true for some not all of us feel lust
uh because anyone who isnt asexual feels lust, and needs sexual gratification in a relationship, me for example. I am a male, and I could not be in a relationship with a female because I am only attracted to males. I may like a women's personality, but I wouldn't be partners with them, because they won't give me sexual gratification, it's as simple as that really. Ones sexuality dictates who they are partners with, as well as additional things like preferences
i needed this
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I hate how accurate this is, in a good way.
I love this channel as the videos aren't made with a crazy, critic voice, they're creative and informative. I agree but can't really relate to this since I don't get lustful that much. Keep making this type of content I love it
As a somewhat recovered sex addict, thank you for this video
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Oh my lanta!!!! This video is amazing!!! Thank you for bringing this awareness!!! If i could add a bit of my experience to this video:
1) When you are single and emotionally available to date, lust is a good early indicator for sexual capability. The issue with lust is that it will/can conflict with the sense of temptation, unfortunately it's became way to of a social norm to go outside of your relationship. That when you face the decision to act on lust, if you don't check that inner moral voice you have and control your behavior, your will only hurt yourself down the long road with other decisions by giving into temptation.
2) For the person who is receiving a lot of lustful advances from people, its also important to realize, that it's VERY RARE, that you have long term capability with someone. It can be incredibly illusive that you have a plethora of "viable" options, but this can lead to some serious consequences with the ability to trust someone, after you realize your long term emotional and commonality in goals, personality and dreams. In other words, acting on lust and having to many options can create a lot of trauma of personal acts of betrayal you will endure. It can also create a very low tolerance for future relationships, that otherwise would be a small issue, is blown into big proportion.
3) Subconsciously tying your bonding mechanism (the chemicals you release during sex) to multiple partners at once, may lead to a false sense of what a healthy behavior would be. It's not bad to "test the waters" per say, but just like if your a drug addict, you should know what your taking every time you do something. If you feel like you have a hard time bonding long term, or you feel like your going through a series of "failed" relationships, you make want to look into this issue. Abstaining from sex and looking inwards of past negative complications you had from acting on lust (ie, getting used for sex), and really putting high value on importance and value that a long term relationship can bring in the future. Don't forget! Your going to be old one day, one day you gotta grow up and take control over your temptations!