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I've learned how to stand in my authority and to speak up for myself in a calm but firm manner. As I have learned to do this, situations rarely come up now where I need to do this. The Universe will keep bringing us situations until we learn to speak up for ourselves.
I noticed you say "not to brag" a lot. It kind of reads like you feel you don't deserve what you have achieved.. just some outside perspective. I really enjoy your content. I can tell youve figured a lot out!
Sometimes, losing a security deposit is a small price to pay to be free of a crazy landlord. You get to walk away with your serenity while they have to go through life living with their neuroses. Seems fair enough to me! 😂❤
15:15 only advice I can give is focus on the feeling you want from the outcome but not the details. If you focus on the feeling - whether it’s peace, or relief or even happiness hahaha you will find that regardless how it actually happens your higher self will bring an outcome that matches the goal emotion 🔥💯❤️🔥
Just found your channel...as someone who is deeply into the inner child dynamic that clearly plays into how we react to situations, I am very impressed!✌
Thank you!!!! 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 because yes I felt like maybe I was putting it out in the air. I want to focus on me and how I engage this is contributing and pivotal!!
Excellent teaching!! Thank you, Aaron, for being so vulnerable and open... it really does lead us on the true path!! With love and gratitude always!! ❤❤❤
I needed to hear this today. Patterns keep showing up in my marriage, I am trying to surrender. I think I’ve really just been passive. Thank you for this
Reality mirrors you, either you are strict with yourself or you expect it from others. Expect others will accept you if you’re chilling like bob Marley and that is fine. Don’t put pressure in yourself , just be ☺️ we love you Aaron ☺️ ( you treated her as she was gonna be snitch wand she was, cos you expected it. Expect cool ppl in your life and the same ones will be!!! They level up to your vibe 🎉
The ability to attract what you need for your well-being is important and the more you experience the results of that the more youre able to let go, trust, and allow. People who havent experienced that dont feel secure enough to let go and allow.
I told my daughter about your channel a couple years ago, and she told me about Viktor's (hope i spellled his name correctly), and last year realized you two are friends. A small but cool synchronicity!
Thank you! I have to let go of a position that does not work for my life in its current form and propose to them what works and let the chips fall where they may. ❤
From a human design perspective that’s the dynamic we often see between emotional and non emotional people. For the fear to be overwhelmed by the emotional nervousness and intensity, the non emotionals Walk on eggshells and become people pleasers. I’m still in the process of working on healing that and just let their emotions flow through me and therefore setting healthy boundaries.
Awesome breakthrough epiphany while watching 🙏🏼 getting triggered many times when a woman I‘m texting with doesn’t respond nor react - the Stillface Experiment popped up in my mind! Of course!!! That mixture of thoughts and emotions about being abandoned, not liked, maybe even rejected … 😂 it’s so clear now! Healing this inner child part of me which I can see and feel now! Namaste Aaron 🙏🏼
Thank you for sharing. I had a run in with a landlord like that.. ended up going to court and winning. A lawyer helped us realized that the landlord sent a letter after 30 days of our move out date, which automatically makes their claims null and void. The landlord tried to keep the full deposit plus extra few thousand for damages it all sounded pretty ridiculous when we received his letter. …also when the judge asked the landlord where is this clause in the initial contract, the landlord was not able to back up anything with paperwork. He wanted us to trim bushes in the front yard and was telling the judge that it’s in the contract, so the judge said… ok show me where… and it was like… chirp chirp 🐥 … we knew we did everything we could to clean the home and take care of it, so we were very certain we were going to win that case and get our deposit back.
Video and pics when you move in. If you have to fix appliances or parts of the property that is not yours, there are laws that say you can bill the landlord and if needed take it out of the rent directly. Keep your receipts and communicate your intentions and the charges.
I like this video I have the same issue. I attract mental ill people because I grew up in a household, really mental ill mother. and every time I find a new partner on your friends, we have mental disorders. Like depression, PTSD or even borderline. I want to have better friends with good health or even my partners .
I need to stop reacting to all the triggers and not to give a sh…t, there comes my freedom! Better to focus on a bug outside and admire the nature than to be eaten by all the negativity around.
Because you were “ nervous about it” she sensed it and though there must be something wrong you’re hiding and set to find it, If you had said: you’ll find it’s all perfect I even will leave my Apple TV if it will be useful to you, as I don’t need it, don’t worry you don’t need to pay me take it as a present as I’ve been do comfortable in your beautiful home bla bla… see the difference, it says it’s all cool and you’re so lucky to deal with me I pamper you just cos I like you
18:48 haha ok but I love wack-a-mole 😂 one of my favourite carnival games - ok any game where I get to smash something is fun 😏. But I feel ya. The point is that it’s your choice if you want to play or not. ❤️🔥💯🔥
If you left property at the rental in Austin and it was sold versus thrown away (valuables), then the proceeds of that should go into the compensatory “damages” alleged against the security deposit. If you have the receipts for any upkeep or major cleaning you have done, I’d present all of those as well.
Or you can pay whatever and finally show middle finger to the landlord. Sometimes expressing dislike through a slang word or action sometimes release all the pressure built up and its easy to forget and move on
I'd say this is more a landlord pattern than a you pattern. Also the states you've chosen, no offense, but I'd never live in Arizona, Texas or Nevada -- three of the most radical politically right-wing states in the US. Right wing means it's all about business and never ever about people. People think "republican" is about "freedom" hahaha, it's about freedom for the ownership class and the billionaire class. You will fit in much better in California where human beings have value and renters have protections. It's much less hostile than the states where everyone is at each others' throats which would be the MAGA states with their fake "wars" on everything. LA will love you, Aaron. Congratulations on your move. You won't believe how nice people in LA are because there actually is plenty to go around! It's very relaxing for the psyche. Cheers.
It's funny I love my mother but every time we go out for dinner her food is never hot enough that she always complains... There are just some people you can't please❤
I feel you are not being fair to yourself when you say you attracted these landlords. You hold yourself responsible for how other people react. It is not because of you. They have their reasons. But it is not because of you. Maybe the pattern is that you hold yourself responsible for other people's feelings. I get it! You mean, you'll not let their controlling behaviour trigger you. So you are practising grey rock.
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HVT is an AWESOME Community , filled with kindness, compassion, understanding and many helpful friendly folks with great guidance /advice when facing adversities❣️🦋💚✌🏼
I've learned how to stand in my authority and to speak up for myself in a calm but firm manner. As I have learned to do this, situations rarely come up now where I need to do this. The Universe will keep bringing us situations until we learn to speak up for ourselves.
Control infuses resistance - well said
My unsolicited advice is to buy a small property everywhere you live. When you move, you can rent it out and become the landlord you wish you’d had 😊
I noticed you say "not to brag" a lot. It kind of reads like you feel you don't deserve what you have achieved.. just some outside perspective. I really enjoy your content. I can tell youve figured a lot out!
I love when people brag 😂 It’s like rock on!!! LFG
Theses ideas shifted my thoughts and frequency really quicky ngl
My breakthrough is following what feels best for me and then having the courage to act accordingly. I am free.
Thank you ❤️
You have it right. Fight it out. Do not allow yourself to be owned by anyone.
Sometimes, losing a security deposit is a small price to pay to be free of a crazy landlord. You get to walk away with your serenity while they have to go through life living with their neuroses. Seems fair enough to me! 😂❤
Depends whether you can actually afford to lose that money
15:15 only advice I can give is focus on the feeling you want from the outcome but not the details. If you focus on the feeling - whether it’s peace, or relief or even happiness hahaha you will find that regardless how it actually happens your higher self will bring an outcome that matches the goal emotion 🔥💯❤️🔥
11:53 yes, be confident in your conviction but let go of how it affects others. It’s harder than it sounds but true
Just found your channel...as someone who is deeply into the inner child dynamic that clearly plays into how we react to situations, I am very impressed!✌
14:22 and the teacher levels up in front of his students ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥🔥
Wow. I totally relate to this. It's given me food for thought. Thank you Aaron.
Thank you!!!! 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 because yes I felt like maybe I was putting it out in the air. I want to focus on me and how I engage this is contributing and pivotal!!
Excellent teaching!! Thank you, Aaron, for being so vulnerable and open... it really does lead us on the true path!! With love and gratitude always!! ❤❤❤
Your wisdom is incredible and very needed right now, thank you so much for what you are doing!!
I needed to hear this today. Patterns keep showing up in my marriage, I am trying to surrender. I think I’ve really just been passive. Thank you for this
Reality mirrors you, either you are strict with yourself or you expect it from others. Expect others will accept you if you’re chilling like bob Marley and that is fine. Don’t put pressure in yourself , just be ☺️ we love you Aaron ☺️ ( you treated her as she was gonna be snitch wand she was, cos you expected it. Expect cool ppl in your life and the same ones will be!!! They level up to your vibe 🎉
The ability to attract what you need for your well-being is important and the more you experience the results of that the more youre able to let go, trust, and allow. People who havent experienced that dont feel secure enough to let go and allow.
I told my daughter about your channel a couple years ago, and she told me about Viktor's (hope i spellled his name correctly), and last year realized you two are friends. A small but cool synchronicity!
Surrender to love. Become whole.
this is deep as f**k omggg👀👀👀now that situation with my work place makes so much sense
What happened at work?
Anything unfairly was taken from u , will come back. And anything was taken by someone unfairly will leave him-her in bigger amount
Yup that’s right
what you resist persists
6:51 haha, part one!! What a piece of work! Sorry you had to deal with that.
thank you Aaron such great value in a very natural flowy expression!
Thank you! I have to let go of a position that does not work for my life in its current form and propose to them what works and let the chips fall where they may. ❤
Great lesson! Surrender. I don’t need to be emotionally swayed.
Amen Aaron made my day with this one
From a human design perspective that’s the dynamic we often see between emotional and non emotional people. For the fear to be overwhelmed by the emotional nervousness and intensity, the non emotionals Walk on eggshells and become people pleasers. I’m still in the process of working on healing that and just let their emotions flow through me and therefore setting healthy boundaries.
I love the vulnerabilitiy in this video. real talk! 💚
I prefer to be FREE and Thank You for the insight ✨✨✨
“Do you want to be free or do you want to be right?”
Awesome breakthrough epiphany while watching 🙏🏼 getting triggered many times when a woman I‘m texting with doesn’t respond nor react - the Stillface Experiment popped up in my mind!
Of course!!! That mixture of thoughts and emotions about being abandoned, not liked, maybe even rejected … 😂 it’s so clear now!
Healing this inner child part of me which I can see and feel now!
Namaste Aaron 🙏🏼
Wow that's such a beautiful realization. I can relate to that!
Thank you for sharing. I had a run in with a landlord like that.. ended up going to court and winning. A lawyer helped us realized that the landlord sent a letter after 30 days of our move out date, which automatically makes their claims null and void. The landlord tried to keep the full deposit plus extra few thousand for damages it all sounded pretty ridiculous when we received his letter. …also when the judge asked the landlord where is this clause in the initial contract, the landlord was not able to back up anything with paperwork. He wanted us to trim bushes in the front yard and was telling the judge that it’s in the contract, so the judge said… ok show me where… and it was like… chirp chirp 🐥 … we knew we did everything we could to clean the home and take care of it, so we were very certain we were going to win that case and get our deposit back.
This is amazing ❤ thank you for this reminder
Thank you for keeping it real, Aaron. Good stuff.
Freaking loved this!🙏🏼☯️ thanks for sharing!
So good to know those experiences,very interesting thank you sharing with let go JJ,kool😅❤
This is so useful thank you just what I needed today.
It is not your Tension to Manage!! This!! ❤
Wow!! I am experiencing the same thing .. I finally figured it out a few days ago. It feels wonderful 🎉
Thanks bro. I just opened my past life from Egypt and this video was catalyst for it to start opening to my rememberance.
Thank you Aaron.
Great video Aaron, can you elaborate more on how to detach without becoming/being too passive
Video and pics when you move in. If you have to fix appliances or parts of the property that is not yours, there are laws that say you can bill the landlord and if needed take it out of the rent directly. Keep your receipts and communicate your intentions and the charges.
I like this video I have the same issue. I attract mental ill people because I grew up in a household, really mental ill mother. and every time I find a new partner on your friends, we have mental disorders. Like depression, PTSD or even borderline. I want to have better friends with good health or even my partners .
This topic is fuego mi amigo 🔥
Aaron, I loved your coaching live session today 🎉. And thank you for addressing the bot problem in our Skool group ❤
Thanksss, ❤ JJ,great weekend❤😊
This is an excellent take
True,not consuming that energies which drained us..their stuff just only😂❤
Wow Aaron, what you're saying is so true❤
Thank you for your processing and insights, Aaron
I'll let him know right now.
This is really speaking to me right now
Aaron, great video.. very advanceced,
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First, hi arron,♥️
Thank you Aaron.🙏🧡
I had literally the same kinds of landlords.
Great video Aaron
I need to stop reacting to all the triggers and not to give a sh…t, there comes my freedom! Better to focus on a bug outside and admire the nature than to be eaten by all the negativity around.
Free 😢
Hey aaron how can we manifest ourselves to move to a different country
8:00 you're attracting a narcissist. They will keep coming at you in all shapes and sizes until you learn to release the need to please them.
This was deep🔥
With teenagers, it is hard to detach, I want to keep them safe, its a tangled web.
thank you tattooed Thor Strangers i just subbed :)
Omg part one...i have the same expiriences always with renting 😢
Because you were “ nervous about it” she sensed it and though there must be something wrong you’re hiding and set to find it,
If you had said: you’ll find it’s all perfect I even will leave my Apple TV if it will be useful to you, as I don’t need it, don’t worry you don’t need to pay me take it as a present as I’ve been do comfortable in your beautiful home bla bla… see the difference, it says it’s all cool and you’re so lucky to deal with me I pamper you just cos I like you
18:48 haha ok but I love wack-a-mole 😂 one of my favourite carnival games - ok any game where I get to smash something is fun 😏. But I feel ya. The point is that it’s your choice if you want to play or not. ❤️🔥💯🔥
We call that Petty.
Great video.
I notice you seem to avoid saying "women having authority over you" but I think it's an important dynamic that needs to be included in your stories.
6:33 Lordy - ya that is petty man. She needs a hobby 😂😂 or maybe a puppy😂
If you left property at the rental in Austin and it was sold versus thrown away (valuables), then the proceeds of that should go into the compensatory “damages” alleged against the security deposit. If you have the receipts for any upkeep or major cleaning you have done, I’d present all of those as well.
Socks to bed = way better sleep deepness🟥😮😂😮😂😮❤
Or you can pay whatever and finally show middle finger to the landlord. Sometimes expressing dislike through a slang word or action sometimes release all the pressure built up and its easy to forget and move on
12:52 isn’t that the truth. Things that bother us about others is literally our higher self using that emotion to show us where we can grow
16:45 😉 bingo
Hey ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
4:26 haha it’s not bragging stating facts. 😉
Is letting go not planning?
I'd say this is more a landlord pattern than a you pattern. Also the states you've chosen, no offense, but I'd never live in Arizona, Texas or Nevada -- three of the most radical politically right-wing states in the US. Right wing means it's all about business and never ever about people. People think "republican" is about "freedom" hahaha, it's about freedom for the ownership class and the billionaire class.
You will fit in much better in California where human beings have value and renters have protections. It's much less hostile than the states where everyone is at each others' throats which would be the MAGA states with their fake "wars" on everything.
LA will love you, Aaron. Congratulations on your move. You won't believe how nice people in LA are because there actually is plenty to go around! It's very relaxing for the psyche. Cheers.
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Instead of landlord, call them property owner or manager
It's funny I love my mother but every time we go out for dinner her food is never hot enough that she always complains... There are just some people you can't please❤
Bro I get it. Your handsome. Okay? I get it.
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I feel you are not being fair to yourself when you say you attracted these landlords.
You hold yourself responsible for how other people react. It is not because of you. They have their reasons. But it is not because of you. Maybe the pattern is that you hold yourself responsible for other people's feelings.
I get it! You mean, you'll not let their controlling behaviour trigger you. So you are practising grey rock.
LOL part 1 x
Found the new "Karen". Her name is Jessica 😂
She’s a sensor … I try to stay away from them!
Are you a born again believer in Christ?
Heard all these examples already. You're now repeating yourself.
No animals?!?! 😢 LoL
Sensor women ……