I Hate the Way My Body Looks (Talking About Male Body Image Issues)
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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
- I hate the way my body looks! And I know I’m not the only guy with body image issues out there. It’s one of many male self confidence issues that don’t get talked about very much.
Male body confidence is something I’ve struggled with personally. I’ve always been embarrassed about my body. It has always looked “off” since my drastic weight loss.
Being shirtless in public is something I NEVER do. I even leave my shirt on when I’m swimming!
And it’s even a main reason why I am still a virgin in my 30’s. I look terrible naked and I don’t want to be seen naked at all! Doing anything that requires that sound awful. And it’s one of the things that has led me to a TFL (also known as true forced loneliness as well) lifestyle.
Not to be that girl, but i think you are attractive.
Laughed way too hard at "sad bod" 😂
I have the same kind of problem. With clothes on I look normal, I have about 70 kg, but my body looks very bad. I remember when I had to do the EKG test and a young female doctor asked me to take off my t-shirt. Her face was shocked and disgusted when she saw my body. Until that moment she was neutral, professional, but when she saw my body, she was like it saw the ugliest thing in that work day. However, she didn't said anything to me.
4:54 That's so sad man, you can't talk about yourself like that. You make me cry bro...
Don’t be sad!
2:55 Idk why it occured to me but I would've died laughing if you spent the rest of the video drawing on the clipboard 😂
Lolz
This happens to me too. I feel you bro
I've always had body image problems, but there's been periods of my life where it wasn't as bad. I haven't go to the beach (to bathe) since I was like 16, I'm 31 now
Same!
I'm 5'8" 115 lbs, short *and* skinny. The exact same build of my dad, grandpa, and all my uncles. Im about sick of being told (mostly by women) that I'm less of a man for the way I'm built.
As a 6’5 man I say there’s absolutely nothing wrong with your height and build! My ex best friend is 5’8 and skinny and was something of a ladies man. Although, he was RIDICULOUSLY charismatic.
@@kingknowbody6775As a 5'4" guy, even though I'm pretty fit, I would still trade you to be 6'5". Being the height of a 12-year-old boy is brutal.
Dont ever let others' words change the way you think, especially about yourself. Treat others well and thats the most important thing.
I know how you feel. I’m 6’0 and I’m fat at 150lbs and 200lbs.. always have a belly.. the best thing we can do is lift weights and do some cardio, lay off the junk food
I went through a few weight loss journeys myself and figured out how to avoid looking like a bag of milk at the end of it. It’s better to lose weight at a slower pace over a longer period of time to ensure that the majority of the weight that is lost is actually body fat and not body fat + muscle. This can be achieved by being in a lower calorie deficit while continuing to exercise (cardio for fat burning, and resistance training to keep your muscle tissue from being catabolized). Wishing you the best bro.
You’re probably right. I’ve noticed the faster I lose it, the faster it comes back. Appreciate the kind words!
Have you considered going to the gym? My body is not good either but improved after exercises. It took me 3 years to get better though. I'm 38 now.
Yeah, I have a Planet Fitness down the road to me. So I try to take advantage of that. Don’t want to go back to planet fatness.
you are beautiful
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Hi! Billy Mays here for Mountain Dew! It quenches your thirst when you’re at your worst!
How many Virgins in the afterlife Billy?
You have to get your bench press and squats up, also use the self assist pull up machine
What if you came across a nice woman who also lost weight and had the same body issues, would you feel comfortable with her or would you be grossed out? I think everybody thinks they are ugly to some degree i mean we are sacks of skin wrapped around bones lol. People are gross looking if you really think about what we actually are 😂😂😂 ive never been overweight an am kinda athletic built naturally but i have a really weird sternum shape lol like a small beer belly turned upside down and my best friend always laughed and said its a tumor 😂
Sure. I think I’d honestly prefer that!
Id say thats normal, i wouldn't give something like that too much thought.
I feel you'd look great if you hit the gym more, like you're not an ugly guy at all, and have a great personality and humour, I'm not sure why you've had relationship issues.
You’re too kind! A lot of it has to do with a drastic weight loss I went through twice. Lots of loose skin.
Dude you are wayyyy to hard on yourself. I’m not trying to invalidate your experiences or emotions, but damn man the way you talk about yourself is awful. You have a sense of humor and a great personality besides the way you think of yourself. Just try to be a little nicer to yourself everyday.
I'm a fatty too. I recently started taking a berberine supplement and it has reduced my appetite. Have you tried taking it?
I don’t even know what berberine is!
Have you ever thought about jumping on steroids
can't be that bad, show me 👀👀👀👀
You don’t want to see. Trust me!
@@kingknowbody6775
you're overselling this shit man sheeeesh
*promosm* 😇
You probably know this, but It’s because you’ve been obese for that many years. Your skin has been majorly and excessively stretched out for a very Long Time. And yes i know when you’re younger it has much better flexibility, but even then it has it’s limits. The only Way for you to fix this is skin removal surgery. Which unfortunately not only gonna be a hard proces but Also expensive. Have read that a full body surgery Can cost over 20.000 dollars.
Yeah, I figure it’s going to have to come down to something like that.