Individuation: How to bring out your authenticity…

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  • Опубліковано 27 жов 2023
  • Individuation is an important journey to an authentic you. Without it, you may find yourself not living the life you want.
    In this video I breakdown what you need to know about individuation and it's application. As always, watch until the end for the full value since I tie everything together for you.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 89

  • @BlueWolfCAST
    @BlueWolfCAST 8 місяців тому +25

    When the empathy was not needed from other, empathy for others was no more.

  • @Andrea-wv2yw
    @Andrea-wv2yw 6 місяців тому +8

    This really resonated with me. I grew up with parents who had to flee their country because of war. My childhood was fight or flight in the new country but also between fighting parents, alcoholic father etc. I had no safe space to develop who I truly was/am. I was very good in school and got a great job in banking and studied university etc. Fast forward to my mid 30s and I wonder; how did I get here? lol. So whoever needs to read this; give yourself the space and time to connect with your true self by going into nature for example or go to another country if possible and live in a new environment if you can, it will help you rediscover who you truly are. That's what has worked for me over the years.

  • @ithinkimcool2977
    @ithinkimcool2977 8 місяців тому +3

    “i’m talking to the people that develop themselves” oooh get them 😭

  • @corskap
    @corskap 8 місяців тому +16

    May we have the courage to individuate! LET'S GO!

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      🎯🎯

  • @blaze_sanz
    @blaze_sanz 6 місяців тому +1

    to summarize: have the courage to be disliked, love yourself . Like the content, this video is stacked with knowledge => new sub

  • @cloneyy3188
    @cloneyy3188 8 місяців тому +27

    It really resonates with me that you mentioned the college part. I’m currently in this stage of where I want to pursue therapy and psychology but I want to get my first million with CS. Imma stick with it cuz it’s fun though!

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому +2

      You got this 🔥

  • @smashingtwoscoops4999
    @smashingtwoscoops4999 8 місяців тому +15

    Thank you young man. You are wise beyond your years! 🙏💯

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you 🙏🏿

  • @haliyahxxx1097
    @haliyahxxx1097 7 місяців тому +4

    Genuinely needed this, these times I want to be alone nowadays. I miss getting in touch with myself:(

  • @rima3119
    @rima3119 8 місяців тому +11

    I hope u spread this knowledge infinetely

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      That’s part of what I’m here to do 💎

    • @Dolritto
      @Dolritto 14 днів тому

      That's what we are for, gentleman can't do everything by himself, it's not healthy.

  • @raulrodriguez7759
    @raulrodriguez7759 8 місяців тому +49

    The timing for this topic was perfect!

    • @bluntwist
      @bluntwist 8 місяців тому +4

      no lie

    • @connortwothreenine
      @connortwothreenine 8 місяців тому +4

      agreed

    • @presmasterflash7555
      @presmasterflash7555 8 місяців тому +1

      God works in mysterious and amazing ways. He gives us what we need to hear when we are ready to hear it. You may call it by another name: fate, karma, nature, etc, but the true origin is The Almighty Father in Heaven, by which we have bridge through Jesus Christ. Thank you Jesus for the blessing you pour out on us.

    • @poloparker8624
      @poloparker8624 5 місяців тому +1

      Synchronicity Is Real

    • @presmasterflash7555
      @presmasterflash7555 5 місяців тому

      @@poloparker8624 it is. I have a copy on vinyl…

  • @browneyedblkstar
    @browneyedblkstar 8 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for this video. Being from an African household and being the baby of the family, this video is so important

  • @galingtar
    @galingtar 8 місяців тому +20

    This is an extremely good video on a subject that is usually at best vaguely explained. Appreciate you Jem

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you 🙏🏿

  • @kowotie_e
    @kowotie_e 8 місяців тому +4

    i’ve always wanted to move out alone but the reactions of my parents always held me back… hopefully I can take that step soon.

    • @sp123
      @sp123 8 місяців тому

      Do you have the money to live on your own?

    • @three371
      @three371 8 місяців тому

      You got this belief is everything

  • @Nation_of_Imagination
    @Nation_of_Imagination 8 місяців тому +3

    My extravert self was taken away as a kid because of ignorance from my friends
    Now I've been alone for so long, that I eventually found the concept of talking to another human, "strange"
    I think I'm over individualized, and need to speak to people more rather then anything else

    • @tehmillos3985
      @tehmillos3985 7 місяців тому

      This is recognisable to me. What you said to do is indeed a nice way to come in touch with others (&yourself). Try to challenge yourself & remember making mistakes is okay, goodluck!

  • @SinaLaJuanaLewis
    @SinaLaJuanaLewis 8 місяців тому +8

    This was so on time! I am evolving and becoming who I really am more and more❤

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому +2

      Love that :)

    • @chowell1451
      @chowell1451 8 місяців тому +1

      Nah fr

    • @conjurncraftstarot
      @conjurncraftstarot 8 місяців тому

      Exact same. Congratulations and many more blessings to you all who are ascending 🎉❤

  • @dawitferede
    @dawitferede 8 місяців тому +2

    golden my brotha !

  • @virtualprivacies
    @virtualprivacies 8 місяців тому +5

    Love your content, it’s very authentic. Also, thank YOU for not playing the background music super loud as most creators do when it comes to these kinds of informational videos 🥶

  • @syalalaputri1802
    @syalalaputri1802 7 місяців тому +3

    Pls dont let this man stop talking

    • @syalalaputri1802
      @syalalaputri1802 7 місяців тому

      This is me I never experience separation and individuation therefore I never once in my life become my real self. Not once dude its so painfull

  • @Wynter_Heat
    @Wynter_Heat 7 місяців тому +2

    Literally, I have been celibate so many times throughout my adulthood however, the most recent bout of being celibate and not having sex with people it has become much easier for me, because no matter what … you have to go outside sometimes and people are going to see you and hit on you and eventually someone might not be so unattractive. You might kind of click with them things happen and then before you know it, you’re no longer celibate 😂😅anymore, and I mean whatever, but… At my age at this point in my life because I do have an end goal because I do have purpose. I only have to ask myself one question and if I can’t just easily tell them no then I ask them the question. And the question is
    “ How will this “blank” benefit my end goal“?
    You may feel the blank with whatever body part activity or substance… The question truly helps and I enjoy your content. Thank you very much.

  • @presmasterflash7555
    @presmasterflash7555 8 місяців тому +4

    As a father of two teen nearing college age, this hits home. Good perspective for me to employ in the current situation. Really enjoying your channel and content.

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому +1

      I’m glad it helped!

  • @oketakima
    @oketakima 8 місяців тому +2

    Bless yo soul

  • @bluntwist
    @bluntwist 8 місяців тому +3

    Jem the Gem dropper

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      💎💎💎

  • @shelly587
    @shelly587 8 місяців тому +4

    As always dropping a banger 🔥🔥🔥🐐

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      😎😎😎

  • @nicksothep8472
    @nicksothep8472 6 місяців тому

    I forgot how nice it was to listen to you, and it hasn't even been that long, it's this damn tool, instant access to gazillions of information about any-fkn-thing, as convenient as it is, we can't deny it's as much of a distraction as it is a learning tool. Anyhow, I like your thought process a lot, you're pragmatic, a quality I appreciate very much (also a word that is being thrown around a lot lately, by people who have maybe a vague idea of its meaning, which is both hylarious and annoying), particularly on the more spiritually oriented people such as yourself, as it is otherwise very easy to lose oneself on nonsensical tangents, where even though you're always dealing with the "subtle", you never lose your focus and always get to a point, and that's because of pragmatism.
    Thanks for the time you dedicate to us bro 👍🏻🖤🏴‍☠️

  • @trent2961
    @trent2961 8 місяців тому +4

    this was so needed, thank you for another great vid brother!

  • @MandyLopey
    @MandyLopey 7 місяців тому +1

    I'm in love with your content, you help me a lot to upgrade my mindset, thank's for everything 😊

  • @Tomfoolery522
    @Tomfoolery522 8 місяців тому +3

    Pure gold, once again. 🙏

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      🎉🎉

  • @lucahagger1372
    @lucahagger1372 5 місяців тому

    Your a real one man, love these vids fr

  • @shadowpicaro
    @shadowpicaro 7 місяців тому

    thank you these videos are helping me a lot ❤

  • @Somereasonstolive
    @Somereasonstolive 8 місяців тому +7

    Keep it up Jem! Cant wait for ur next livestream

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому +3

      Thank you, and I’ll be doing another one soon ✅

  • @ifyoulikepinacoladas9669
    @ifyoulikepinacoladas9669 7 місяців тому +1

    i love your videos so much. one of the only self improvement type content that works for me

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  7 місяців тому

      Thank you 🙏🏿

  • @Izzy-dw5jv
    @Izzy-dw5jv 8 місяців тому +4

    Hi Jem, can you do a video on Law of Attraction?

  • @OhLook10bucks10
    @OhLook10bucks10 8 місяців тому

    Yes, I like your videos and the way you word things 👍

  • @quentinjeriko5659
    @quentinjeriko5659 8 місяців тому +3

    Thanks for the advice!

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      🎉🎉, thanks for watching!

  • @OSAndrew
    @OSAndrew 8 місяців тому +4

    If you haven't heard it listen to: JPEGMAFIA - ARE U HAPPY?
    This was my anthem getting control of my own life and making it my own. Keep up the videos dude, you've helped me immensely.

  • @fdaly1967
    @fdaly1967 7 місяців тому

    Well said!

  • @FreesoulMcTigerlily
    @FreesoulMcTigerlily 8 місяців тому +1

    Love! Thank you!

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      Thanks for watching!

  • @sylviesimoneau818
    @sylviesimoneau818 4 місяці тому

    Thank you Jem 😊

  • @Something-tz2vw
    @Something-tz2vw 6 місяців тому

    Thank you for this.

  • @2ethereal4u
    @2ethereal4u 8 місяців тому +3

    another great video!

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      Thank you!

  • @Gorkan3
    @Gorkan3 6 місяців тому

    Thank you!

  • @PAX---777
    @PAX---777 7 місяців тому +1

    *In A WORLD FULL OF NORMIES/NPCS/SHEEP .......BE AN INDIVIDUAL!*

  • @wolverineforce2068
    @wolverineforce2068 6 місяців тому

    Im 24 and to be real subconciously. I wanted to be my own person..

  • @Ir45ftdh
    @Ir45ftdh 8 місяців тому

    W timing

  • @jankrokos
    @jankrokos 7 місяців тому

    Who's inspiring your thumbnail artwork? Really cool. Like really cool...

  • @abybakrgadzhievm7065
    @abybakrgadzhievm7065 8 місяців тому +2

    I don’t think that there is a human being individual we meet many people in our lives no matter online celebrates or just people in our college,school,neighborhood etc I think they all have impact in our view by pieces no one born smart or dumb They are simply a reflection of their culture, genetics can Give you an excellent brain that works well and so on, but this makes no sense if you were born in some village where they run around the fire naked from an early age, even Leonardo Davinci Met many people who gave him information about art about paintings, what brushes to use, how to hold your hand, what colors to add, mix, etc., something he learned himself, but that’s how discoveries work, not one person can imagine something if he doesn’t have the slightest idea about it, the same thing as telling a two-year-old child to he built the engine

  • @BenII-cz5er
    @BenII-cz5er 8 місяців тому +1

    nice video

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому

      Thank you!

  • @Pharockgod
    @Pharockgod 8 місяців тому +2

    🤔💯

  • @siddheshsawant6218
    @siddheshsawant6218 8 місяців тому

    Life is like Schrodinger's cat experiment, you can't blame the cat for being part of the experiment😅

  • @Known_Steezy
    @Known_Steezy 8 місяців тому

    Just curious but what courses did you study?

  • @soolty1696
    @soolty1696 8 місяців тому +2

    What book was it that you read on psychology and marketing?

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  8 місяців тому +2

      Cashvertizing by Drew Eric Whitman

  • @smalliver365
    @smalliver365 3 місяці тому

    🍫

  • @ayeyo2446
    @ayeyo2446 8 місяців тому +1

    Ayo

  • @abybakrgadzhievm7065
    @abybakrgadzhievm7065 8 місяців тому +2

    I want to escape the matrix

    • @projectterranova
      @projectterranova 8 місяців тому +1

      The only thing holding you back is you. You got this!

  • @giancarlonealmaru7303
    @giancarlonealmaru7303 7 місяців тому

    Your image is same with your voice man

  • @jazznichole94
    @jazznichole94 6 місяців тому +1

    I could really use marketing help for my business, can we connect?

    • @JemVeda
      @JemVeda  6 місяців тому

      Sure, send me an email (I own a marketing agency)