This is absolutely true pursue your excellence. Everything should be centred around your goals & nothing else. I used to be the opposite. I pursued women & not my excellence & I suffered. Pursue your inner self.
This guy has it figured out! Alpha but not an asshole ✌️That combination is literally irresistible to women. It’s hard to break it down, but if a guy is trying too hard, she’ll get turned off. The cool, confident James Bond type is a good description, at least energy wise…I’ve only realized this as a grown woman, not in my 20s at all lol. The older you get, the clearer it is. Young girls 18-25 will likely not see this, as they’re in the “make something of yourself” mode. Great discussion!
Whoah, this guy is the total opposite of me. I´ve always, always, always struggled with women in so many ways. Never have had a girlfriend . . . always, since actually I was a pre - teen. I´m trying to pursue excelence but in my 34 I feel I´m still so delayed in my life success. I´ve improved a lot but I have still a lot to work on.
All I know is that back in the 70s, 80s, 90s picking up women was extremely easy! Most of them they used to go to bars and night clubs just to get laid!🤷♂️
@@billp4 lol right? I had a woman, online mind you, tell me that $100,000 isn't even close to enough anymore. I was just like "okay fine, you're impossible to please, moving on."
I know!...How the hell does this help the vast majority of average Joes who will never be rich? Their advice is ridiculous for the vast majority of men!...
@@wolfsoldier5105 average men dont get women. Women dont view you as a man unless you are ubberly handsome or rich. In return i guess it evens out cause most of them are objects anyway and we view em as such,its just that only some guys get to use those objects same way only some guys get to drive supercars.
I have not seen the Matrix, but overall, Rich has got it right: Focus on being the best you can be, develop relationships more so with guys/build up network, and women should be additive only. For me these are the key points. Some of the rest of it I may be less a fan.But I have watched a a lot of his videos and I am more in agreement than otherwise.
Girls only take things away from me. I most enjoy girls when its casual flirting, new texting, and early sex. Dating a girl long-term is a huge headache
being a gentleman and working super hard in the field you work is like being a bodybuilder and a marathon gold medalist at the same time. rofl opposite stuff.
@@njerseydavid don't worry.if you work hard enough you are going to understand. we are going to laugh at this conversation later it wont be even a disagreement
The issue is not women. The issue is men overvaluing the attainment of women as the pinnacle achievement in life. Yes it’s an important and strong evolutionary behavior for us to have a partner and family but it’s very important to also bring it into the context of modern times and it no longer needs to be valued as the supreme goal let along define what it means to live a successful life. The attainment of the women is over valued and overestimated that’s one of the reasons many eventually fail because we idealized it.
The crazy thing is, many men have chased excellence and have done well and the women still don’t come. We have to ask, what is the definition of excellence? Is it a dollar amount, a certain physique? I get all that. Many men have achieved in all the areas but the women coming into their life isn’t there. And those that do come along aren’t worth the time, and energy. I don’t know. It’s seems in my view there has to be some pursuing along with the excellence. More to life than money that’s for sure. How sad many of us have achieved but will die without having a long term relationship and children. Life long bachelors with a stack of cash. I guess in todays world that’s how it is.
Been engaged to two models and I’m only slightly more attractive than average at best; not sure what was said in this video yet but the real trick is confidence and mystery. You can get any chick as long as you’ve got the genuine confidence to do so; you can keep her as long as she doesn’t know what your financial value is. This doesn’t mean money in the bank, it doesn’t mean income; it means what you can offer in leu of cash. Women will see a number and know that higher numbers exist and because of that they’ll always want more; but if you can keep the car running and clean better than a shop or detailer or if you can service your home appliances and fix stuff around the house that values you significantly higher. No woman should ever know what her man makes because he shouldn’t have to spend money to keep the home in good condition.
I agree with chase excellence and women will pursue you. Pursuing excellence is what I do in spite of female attention. I disagree with betas transforming to alphas because alpha behavior has genetic components as well as social properties. I did not need coaching on getting dates or sex. Most sexually successful men did not get coaching.. We were playing show and tell with girls at 7.
I've made a good amount money but I don't necessarily think I'm good with women and I don't know if that's because I don't care or if that's a defence mechanism/reflex.
or whine. These blokes wonder why woman don't come their way, cos they are big babies that whine and boo hoo on youtube. Eternal puberty is hard disease to shake off.
This is absolutely true pursue your excellence. Everything should be centred around your goals & nothing else. I used to be the opposite. I pursued women & not my excellence & I suffered. Pursue your inner self.
This guy has it figured out! Alpha but not an asshole ✌️That combination is literally irresistible to women. It’s hard to break it down, but if a guy is trying too hard, she’ll get turned off. The cool, confident James Bond type is a good description, at least energy wise…I’ve only realized this as a grown woman, not in my 20s at all lol. The older you get, the clearer it is. Young girls 18-25 will likely not see this, as they’re in the “make something of yourself” mode. Great discussion!
You can really see how hyper focus both Rich and George are, thats the level of excellence to pursue.
Whoah, this guy is the total opposite of me. I´ve always, always, always struggled with women in so many ways. Never have had a girlfriend . . . always, since actually I was a pre - teen. I´m trying to pursue excelence but in my 34 I feel I´m still so delayed in my life success. I´ve improved a lot but I have still a lot to work on.
All I know is that back in the 70s, 80s, 90s picking up women was extremely easy!
Most of them they used to go to bars and night clubs just to get laid!🤷♂️
Smartphones ruined everything. Social media and dating apps were the nail in the coffin.
How to get beautiful women? Be rich. Ah, got it.
super rich, these days.
@@billp4 lol right? I had a woman, online mind you, tell me that $100,000 isn't even close to enough anymore. I was just like "okay fine, you're impossible to please, moving on."
Just Sell Your Soul And You'll Have Abundance Of Female.
I know!...How the hell does this help the vast majority of average Joes who will never be rich? Their advice is ridiculous for the vast majority of men!...
@@wolfsoldier5105 average men dont get women.
Women dont view you as a man unless you are ubberly handsome or rich.
In return i guess it evens out cause most of them are objects anyway and we view em as such,its just that only some guys get to use those objects same way only some guys get to drive supercars.
Man, I'll be real, this specific video made me swallow the red pill.
I have not seen the Matrix, but overall, Rich has got it right: Focus on being the best you can be, develop relationships more so with guys/build up network, and women should be additive only. For me these are the key points. Some of the rest of it I may be less a fan.But I have watched a a lot of his videos and I am more in agreement than otherwise.
Wow. I had no idea that some men see women getting the way of their goals. Interesting convo.
Yes, huge distraction in most cases.
Some women feel the same about men too
Girls only take things away from me. I most enjoy girls when its casual flirting, new texting, and early sex. Dating a girl long-term is a huge headache
You get in the way of everything really.
But men are too dumb to let their big head do the thinking.
Of course. They are time and energy consuming, they also consume your thoughts. You need to maximize these three resources in order to succeed.
Only my weed dealing friends could afford a pager 😃
being a gentleman and working super hard in the field you work is like being a bodybuilder and a marathon gold medalist at the same time. rofl opposite stuff.
@@njerseydavid don't worry.if you work hard enough you are going to understand. we are going to laugh at this conversation later it wont be even a disagreement
I have been watching George Gammon a long time (and Rich recently) but this was way cool and enlightening. George is even smarter than I thought.
Pursuing excellence allowed me to early retirement. Was hard to do but with no fault divorce it's so easy to lose a fortune.
What is the name of the show George watched?
GG hit the mark! A man’s priority should be the pursuit of excellence. A badass at what he does and a gentleman to woman. The Holy Grail in a man.
I AM the holy grail.
The issue is not women. The issue is men overvaluing the attainment of women as the pinnacle achievement in life. Yes it’s an important and strong evolutionary behavior for us to have a partner and family but it’s very important to also bring it into the context of modern times and it no longer needs to be valued as the supreme goal let along define what it means to live a successful life. The attainment of the women is over valued and overestimated that’s one of the reasons many eventually fail because we idealized it.
Great comment. It's the reason we're in a global recession right now. Too many men taking on too much debt to try and impress women.
The crazy thing is, many men have chased excellence and have done well and the women still don’t come. We have to ask, what is the definition of excellence? Is it a dollar amount, a certain physique? I get all that. Many men have achieved in all the areas but the women coming into their life isn’t there. And those that do come along aren’t worth the time, and energy. I don’t know. It’s seems in my view there has to be some pursuing along with the excellence. More to life than money that’s for sure. How sad many of us have achieved but will die without having a long term relationship and children. Life long bachelors with a stack of cash. I guess in todays world that’s how it is.
Some pursuing is definitely needed.
Agree. Being loved and respected by a good woman who’s committed to you is better than money.
It's the best feeling in the world being the richest dude in the graveyard.
George Gammon is on point. Love listening to what he has to say (a gentleman)
Been engaged to two models and I’m only slightly more attractive than average at best; not sure what was said in this video yet but the real trick is confidence and mystery. You can get any chick as long as you’ve got the genuine confidence to do so; you can keep her as long as she doesn’t know what your financial value is. This doesn’t mean money in the bank, it doesn’t mean income; it means what you can offer in leu of cash. Women will see a number and know that higher numbers exist and because of that they’ll always want more; but if you can keep the car running and clean better than a shop or detailer or if you can service your home appliances and fix stuff around the house that values you significantly higher.
No woman should ever know what her man makes because he shouldn’t have to spend money to keep the home in good condition.
Ridiculous.Gammon is like 6’4” and wealthy - how can he give advise to the average man?
Can someone explain what is Beta in personal life means? How do you be Alpha with your gf/wife??
You still need "game". Which is decent social skills.
In other words be like Michael Jordan and women will chase you
Take it personal like MJ
Rich. I deeply respect you, your knowledge and that you share it. But i'm done. The peace is to addicting.. Rock on bro.
We GenX-ers have all the same sources. With me it was good ol' David DeAngelo. Good stuff.
How to get a woman - acquire wealth through questionable methods and then pick up an overly expensive hobby.
Women are the most expensive hobby, as not only do they take your money, they take your time, which is your most precious resource.
I agree with chase excellence and women will pursue you. Pursuing excellence is what I do in spite of female attention. I disagree with betas transforming to alphas because alpha behavior has genetic components as well as social properties. I did not need coaching on getting dates or sex. Most sexually successful men did not get coaching.. We were playing show and tell with girls at 7.
All that crap works with women if you're a 6ft 2in Chad.
Yup
Two single guys giving relationship advice lol
Of course
Rich is not single
Two butt hurt guys giving useless relationship advice🤣😂
You don't need much for short term relationships
I've made a good amount money but I don't necessarily think I'm good with women and I don't know if that's because I don't care or if that's a defence mechanism/reflex.
how did you make your money ?
It’s hard to get women to respect a man when he’s 5’6 like me
BS, just that sentence alone sums you up. weak.
LOL. Attracting beautiful women is easy. Finding one not batshit crazy... That's tough.
The secret is ….don’t be a mug. Stay single
7:32 Kiyosaki
The secret is having a big one
A divorced, bald dude gonna tell you how to attract beautiful women. 😆 🤣 😂.
James Bond is a good target for guys; a much better target is Jesus Christ.
What about the chimps ?
if you want to attract beautiful women.....just be more attractive lol
most women these days wont piss on you if you are on fire.....
Don't look like Rich Cooper for a start.
or whine. These blokes wonder why woman don't come their way, cos they are big babies that whine and boo hoo on youtube. Eternal puberty is hard disease to shake off.