It’s really affordable to travel to Korea, you should consider just staying the 6 weeks in between to explore the country that your child will be from. I think that would be cool.
I agree. Travel Korea and then maybe some other near-by counties in Asia that interest you. Japan, China, even Thailand. I would not be making those flights TWICE
Yes they can. As long as they meet the requirements and have the right certificates and microchips they would be able to. But it’s very stressful to fly with pets and not all animals are able to fly with different airlines.
*Can I just say how refreshing it is how real you guys are with not only these sensitive topics but with how normal you guys look - meaning you're not all dolled up! You're keeping it real on all levels!*
I recently went to Korea for the first time since I was adopted (I went with an adult adoptee tour group) and there was a Caucasian couple at our hotel with a little Korean boy. They had been there for a couple of weeks already and were planning on staying there through whole waiting period. Their jobs allowed them to work remotely and they get to bond with their son before making the long trip home. I’m sure it’s not an option for most people but just something to consider!
I am obsessed with these adoption updates, I’ve never clicked so fast! Also, major congratulations on being accepted into the Korea program. I’m so excited for the two of you! 😍
I’m so excited!!! If you guys can do first class, that would be amazing. I’m sure it makes it way easier. I am a horribly anxious flier so 2 trips was HARD on me. But my biggest tip is to take a late flight at least on your way back! You never know how the kiddo might be, but they might be very overwhelmed and sleepy so that can help a ton! So so so excited for y’all!!! ♥️
So Korea was meant to be after all! So glad you were accepted into the program. Crazy to think that your little one is already out there waiting for his/her perfect family ❤️❤️❤️
There is a lovely military family on UA-cam named Shane and Mel ( channel name) They just brought home their son Julian three months ago from Korea. Mel is lovely and I’m sure she could shed some light on things for you. God Bless and prayers💜
Yay! Congratulations! Have you considered just staying in Korea for the 6 weeks? You guys can obviously work from there, and upload videos. It might be awesome to explore the country.
I saw this somewhere you should make a goodie bag for everyone in first class with ear plugs and a note saying something like im sorry for my baby screaming or being upset, but we just adopted a sweet baby ____ from korea and this flight is new to all of us. It was really funny and cute and im sure it helped ease the irritation from those around them.
That is such a cute idea! But be careful of giving things to other travelers (especially when you are traveling internationally), when my friends was traveling internationally she accepted a mint from an elderly man and when she got to customs they asked her if she received/accepted anything from anyone and she said yes (the mint) and they had to take her to the back for questioning, they delayed the plane, and they escorted her to the plane. I’m not trying to rude, I just don’t want this to back fire. Love you Nikki! And I am so excited for you!!! I hope God blesses you with His Spirit and with an abundance of PEACE and JOY!
I’m very against this idea, seriously. No one is more bothered than the child, the parents should not have to worry about grown ups that can easily put earplugs on!
Yay!! I’m so glad that they accepted you into the program! I just had this vision of you guys walking with your child when they were older and seeing where they were adopted from. I just have this HUGE feeling that you are going to have such great bond with your kids. So take care of yourselves when it comes time to bond with them, but don’t worry too much God’s got such amazing plans for you all!!
If you guys fly business class there, and first class back with the baby, that’ll save some money and business class is still pretty comfortable. Good luck
Hi Nikki and Dan, I am sure you guys know this already but the Korean Airline from SFO to korea is only 12hours, just fyi. Korean Airline and Asiana Airline are the two major Korean Airlines. I am Korean and I am so excited for you two🤗💕
Your welcome❤️ Also, if you make a membership card, they keep track of your mileage and give you discount/upgrades towards your next flight (at least that’s how they used to do it). Please feel free to ask away if you have any questions! Would love to help if I can ❤️❤️❤️
Yes! Most definitely look into Korean Air. The service and food is amazing! And you'll get a direct flight from LA that's about 12 hours. Congratulations! Excited for you!
Hi Nikki! I’m so happy for you! Heads up. You might need to cover your tattoos when you go in front of the judges. In Korea they have a taboo on tattoos. So you might want to ask the adoption agency what they suggest
Instead of flying back and forth, you should just stay in Korea for the 5-6 weeks and learn the culture of Korea, its something that your child would want to know in the future so might as well learn while you're there. You can find super affordable places to stay easily! As a Korean American, I don't know as much about Korea as I wish to. I hope you can find a way to keep in touch with the culture in Nashville (:
I am so happy for y’all! I will continue to keep you all in my prayers for a quick, smooth finish of this adoption process. You 2 deserve this, y’all will make wonderful parents!
My friends adopted from Korea and they were told it’s best for it to just be the two of you and the child for the first 4-6 weeks to guarantee that they bond the most with one of the two of you instead of a friend or family member. If not they can feel separation again from the person they bonded with.
Yes I’ve heard that theory! It’s called cocooning!:) that’s why we couldn’t give a firm answer though... we’re not positive what we want to do yet... each kid is different... my parents didn’t cocoon Casey and he seemed fine. We’re gunna think and pray about it more:)
I flew 16 hours on a direct flight from South Africa to JFK in coach. There was a two hour layover, and then a 4 1/2 hour flight from JFK back home to Texas. I chose to upgrade that last flight home in first class and it was worth every single penny. I love flying but anybody would find that length of time in the air agonizing, and I HIGHLY recommend doing first class if you can.
Asiana and korean air offer nonstop flight from LAX. It’s 13 hours which isn’t pretty bad at all. I would def look at nonstop flights instead of multiple stops
Aww Bowser is so sweet. I can't believe how fast this process is moving along even with the troubles you guys have had with the country you are adopting from. I really appreciate how open and honest about this process you guys are because I know its probably very stressful at times.
I’m so happy for y’all, very sweet . I’m in tears I’m so happy for y’all... I know it’s going to be a great big change for you both, but it’ll be a much greater change for the child. You’re basically flipping their whole world upside down taking them to another country (if an older child). May I suggest that y’all educate yourselves on their culture as much as you can. Korea is a very beautiful culture, immerse yourselves and enjoy your trip (maybe even with your child), the food is also amazing!!... I know you guys will be amazing parents... hearing about your journey and what you’re doing, it takes great people with great hearts to take on a child that is not their own and love it wholeheartedly.. truly, y’all are amazing. ❤️ my one flying trip for a baby : pacifier/feeding on takeoff and landing, It’ll help with the ear pressure!
Just thought I’d let you know that Korean Air has a flight directly from LA to Seoul! Also, on international flights, business class is amazing. Extra leg room, reclining seats, all the good stuff. So I would recommend looking into that because business class seats are less expensive than first class, but has amazing perks!!
Korean air has direct flights from LAX and it's way shorter than 17 hours! My flight to Tokyo Japan was estimated 12 hrs and we got there in almost 10 direct!
This is great news...o e step closer!! I had a question, you mentioned ‘baby’ in today’s video but I was wondering if you know that they’re going to match you guys with a baby or an older child?
So fascinating to see the difference after doing foster care adoption here in the US (of course). I love learning about all the different journeys to motherhood!
So great! Excited for you guys! ❤️ I can’t stop looking at your new tattoo! Did you film getting it done? 😃 So excited for you guys and wishing you the BEST! 💕
I hope this isn't too nosey but I am just wondering what travel card you guys are using and what travel cards you were looking into? Congrats on being accepted into the Korea program!!!
Hey I flew to Japan from Houston back in March in economy and it was very comfortable. When the flights are very long like that the seats in economy are way more comfortable and spaced out. We even had a foot rest to be able to stretch out our legs
love this video! Also, (and I don't mean this negatively in any way) you've really stopped interrupting Dan! You used to do that very often (probably automatically), but it's cute to see that you probably actively have been working on letting him finish and listening more. You guys are so cute together, so happy that the adoption process is going strong again!
I used to be subscribed to you a few years back but unsubscribed because I couldn't find your content relatable to me but I'm subscribed again because lately been loving your content (hope I don't sound mean or anything). I don't know if something in your channel changed or I changed so I can resonate more with your content now. Hoping your adoption process goes smoothly and looking forward to more positive updates from you & Dan. Lots of love.
So excited for you guys! On a side note, Nikki, I would love to see a video on your experience with Lexapro and symptoms/side effects you had when starting and going off it
If your baby is screaming/crying during the flight, I've heard of some people giving little care bags to passengers on the flight (for you, maybe others flying first class with you) with a little note, ear plugs, and maybe a little snack or piece of candy. I fully agree that if they are upset, it's not your problem but it may help you feel better about the situation and others may too. :)
I’m so happy for you guys!! I was adopted from Korea and it makes me so excited that you guys are going to adopt from Korea. You guys are going to be amazing parents💕
I adopted two children, ages two and three, you might find that the stop off with the new child to see your families is very overwhelming I would encourage you for the sake of your child to make those plans flexible, we had a similar plan at one time, it backfired a lot, and ended up I think possibly slowing down the connection we made with our children, not by much, of course, But I do just offer you that word of caution. I’m sure you were getting so much advice right now but it’s ridiculous, I wish you the best of luck and an instant bond. It is the best thing you will ever do
Congrats. I'm so happy for you guys. I flew to Korea once at either first or business class(not on my dime, they gave away my seat and I got a free upgrade and IDK the class, it was the big, folds flat seats and there wasn't a class in front of us) and it was nice. I flew normal coach back though and it was okay too. I feel the Korea air seats were comfy and didn't feel they were too small. I hope you get your home study soon to read. I got one for fostering here in the states and it was really interesting to read it and see what they focused on. Also, can you join a local support group for international adoption parents? It would probably be helpful for you all to talk to btdt parents who have made that long flight immediately after finalizing an adoption. Good luck in the process.
i am so excited for you!!!!! i love that you're documenting your journey, because youre right - there are very few videos on adoption. being adopted myself, it's super cool and encouraging to hear about your journey! and im actually working towards working with adopted kids and families!
I haven't even gotten 2 minutes into the video and I already started crying from happiness. I'm so happy you were accepted into the program :) Love you guys!
Please make a video on lexapro withdrawals. I’m on lexapro to manage my chronic pain and nerve pain as well as to manage my anxiety and depression and I’m sure I’m probably on a higher dose but i am very interested in your experience. I have researched how it is to stop the medication and it has all been scary to read.
I am currently weaning off of Lexapro - also the lowest dose. I've been on it for almost 4 years since a major car accident (hit by a semi). I would love a separate video on the symptoms of withdrawal that you have felt. I'm dealing with a TBI on top of the PTSD & MDD (reason for Lexapro). Perspective from another person would be really helpful.
I love seeing these videos!!! I was adopted from south korea at three months old and have lived in california ever since. cant wait to see the future for you guys!
I was really hoping that the Korea program would work out! I'm beyond excited for you two-thank you for sharing this special journey with us. I'll be praying for you guys throughout this whole experience 💜
Thanks for the update! First class travel would be a dream! We took a trip to Mozambique this summer we flew coach with our 9 month old. Not so fun but it's doable if you have to. I'm sure you noticed but focus on your camera is broken and kept going in and out. By the way I absolutely love that you are sharing so much of this process! It's really helpful
My husband and I flew economy class from Detroit to Incheon. It was only 14 hrs and it wasn't bad. Most of the people sleep! :) Are you planning to learn a little Korean?
I have chronic pain and I can’t stand economy on long distance flights because I’m in so much pain and I need more space to stretch. I imagine it’s the same for her
I have been on Lexapro for years, now I am worried! I would love to be educated about changing and stopping it since I am on the highest dose and would be interested in stopping 🙃
I know you guys have done tons of research but you should check the flight times/prices flying out of San Francisco. When my husband was stationed in Korea that's where he flew to and he said it was a pretty easy trip.
I look forward to these updates so much! This is absolutely exciting and inspiring and I'm so excited for you both! Just wandered I think I heard on your last video that your child will be between the ages of 1-3. Was that the ages you guys wanted or is that just the normal age of adoption. Just curious as we have thought about adopting but would love to have a newborn. Love you both!
Hi Nikki - my husband and I travel internationally a lot (just using points) and as an experienced traveler, I would suggest looking into business class as opposed to first class. The seats are huge and you can lay completely flat, you have most of the perks of first class but you’d be using a lot less points/money. Good luck with everything ❤️
I was on Lexapro (very low dose as well) and when I got off of it (slowly tapered) and I got these horrible “brain zaps” kinda felt like I was fainting... luckily only lasted a few days but dang that was bad!
Congratulations!!!! Please make a video about the with drawls and mental health. I would love a video from you about ways to deal with chronic pain! I also suffer from chronic pain. You guys are going to be the best parents ever!
Congrats on being accepted to Korea! I think it sounds awesome stopping in LA, and you guys can have a break with hopefully both of your parents. I hope the flights go well!
My dogs got so worked up when yours did 😅 I just started following you through your adoption journey it’s so cool to be in a similar place in my own journey and hear updates from you guys! ❤️ im so happy to hear you guys got accepted!
Ive watched you since 2012 when you had like less than 100,000 subscribers and i have stayed with you this whole time, and i grew up watching you I'm 20 now, i even have all your old cover song on my iPod lol, but for the longest time i wanted y'all to have kids, i waited for it, but now i know the having your own kids wasnt meant for you, i have followed you all this time and i cant wait to follow you on this journey. you will be amazing parents
this is wonderful!!!! i missed why you are adopting. why not, is the obvi answer but just wondering if you have always wanted to or do not want to birth kids etc? i was thinkin of adopting too. So happy to see this.
I'm so excited for you guys! My husband and I are hoping to adopt from Bulgaria. We both have always felt called to adopt and we cannot wait to also take the plunge. Thank you for sharing!
Love this!! I have two Korean (well, half Korean / half Welsh) babies. I know I’m totally biased, BUT Korean babies are the cutest 😍😍 Make sure you start trying some Korean food! There’s quite a few good places in Nashville , and there is also a good Asian market there too! Best wishes for you & your future family 😘😘
Ok, honest question.. I notice a lot of people adopt Internationally and sorry if they answered but why is it that Americans tend to adopt internationally instead of locally? Are there not a lot of kids to adopt in America or is it harder to adopt in America? I’ve always wondered
I love your updates! ❤️ You actually planted the idea of adoption in my head and I think it's a great idea , a complete win-win situation! Great video as always 🙌
I am so happy that you guys are getting good news and hope everything turns out perfect. Just one comment, Lexapro, Prozac and other medications are used for pain and for emotional disorders, diseases that need to be dealt with and that need the medication so lets not stigmatize them as "bad" things. anyway, happy for you guys!
We are so excited for you guys! You can tell how bad both of you want this child and I just know you guys will be wonderful parents! Sending you all our prayers, love, and positive vibes
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It’s really affordable to travel to Korea, you should consider just staying the 6 weeks in between to explore the country that your child will be from. I think that would be cool.
Yessss
I was about to say that!! Lol when you enter you get 90 days. They should seriously think about doing that
Could you take the dogs with you?
I agree. Travel Korea and then maybe some other near-by counties in Asia that interest you. Japan, China, even Thailand. I would not be making those flights TWICE
Yes they can. As long as they meet the requirements and have the right certificates and microchips they would be able to. But it’s very stressful to fly with pets and not all animals are able to fly with different airlines.
*Can I just say how refreshing it is how real you guys are with not only these sensitive topics but with how normal you guys look - meaning you're not all dolled up! You're keeping it real on all levels!*
I recently went to Korea for the first time since I was adopted (I went with an adult adoptee tour group) and there was a Caucasian couple at our hotel with a little Korean boy. They had been there for a couple of weeks already and were planning on staying there through whole waiting period. Their jobs allowed them to work remotely and they get to bond with their son before making the long trip home. I’m sure it’s not an option for most people but just something to consider!
wow i’m korean and i know that there are so many children that need homes in this country. i give you my warmest wishes 💖
I am obsessed with these adoption updates, I’ve never clicked so fast!
Also, major congratulations on being accepted into the Korea program. I’m so excited for the two of you! 😍
Thank you so much for all that Sarah!💜☺️
NikkiPhillippi 🧡🧡
I am Korean American and I am so happy to hear that you are adopting from Korea! I hope that God blesses you two on this journey!
Yay! We’re so excited! Thank you!
I’m so excited!!! If you guys can do first class, that would be amazing. I’m sure it makes it way easier. I am a horribly anxious flier so 2 trips was HARD on me. But my biggest tip is to take a late flight at least on your way back! You never know how the kiddo might be, but they might be very overwhelmed and sleepy so that can help a ton! So so so excited for y’all!!! ♥️
Thank you for the tip! That’s amazing to know!!!🙌🏻 also I hope we can go first class too! That would make the trip bomb.com! Hahaha
So Korea was meant to be after all! So glad you were accepted into the program. Crazy to think that your little one is already out there waiting for his/her perfect family ❤️❤️❤️
Thisgatherednest is a great UA-cam channel who has adopted 3 children, two internationally. They might be a great resource.
Yes! We’re in communication a little bit! Their family is so sweet!:)
There is a lovely military family on UA-cam named Shane and Mel ( channel name) They just brought home their son Julian three months ago from Korea. Mel is lovely and I’m sure she could shed some light on things for you. God Bless and prayers💜
Yay! Congratulations! Have you considered just staying in Korea for the 6 weeks? You guys can obviously work from there, and upload videos. It might be awesome to explore the country.
I saw this somewhere you should make a goodie bag for everyone in first class with ear plugs and a note saying something like im sorry for my baby screaming or being upset, but we just adopted a sweet baby ____ from korea and this flight is new to all of us. It was really funny and cute and im sure it helped ease the irritation from those around them.
Omg that is the cutest ideaaaaaaa! Thank you!
The airlines itself have goodiebags for first and business class. Some airlines don't allow children in firstclass. You might want to double check...
That is such a cute idea! But be careful of giving things to other travelers (especially when you are traveling internationally), when my friends was traveling internationally she accepted a mint from an elderly man and when she got to customs they asked her if she received/accepted anything from anyone and she said yes (the mint) and they had to take her to the back for questioning, they delayed the plane, and they escorted her to the plane.
I’m not trying to rude, I just don’t want this to back fire.
Love you Nikki! And I am so excited for you!!! I hope God blesses you with His Spirit and with an abundance of PEACE and JOY!
I’m very against this idea, seriously. No one is more bothered than the child, the parents should not have to worry about grown ups that can easily put earplugs on!
Milene Hungaro I agree. But passengers do pay lots of money to sit in first class as well. I'm sure a note like that would make things better :)
Yay!! I’m so glad that they accepted you into the program! I just had this vision of you guys walking with your child when they were older and seeing where they were adopted from. I just have this HUGE feeling that you are going to have such great bond with your kids. So take care of yourselves when it comes time to bond with them, but don’t worry too much God’s got such amazing plans for you all!!
Wow this was such a sweet and encouraging comment! Thank you so so much! I truly appreciate it☺️💜
If you guys fly business class there, and first class back with the baby, that’ll save some money and business class is still pretty comfortable. Good luck
I love that you guys are being so open about your adoption😘
Thank you!
as a korean person, this is very exciting news to hear!!! congrats and thank you for making a change in the world Nikki!!!💗💗💗
Thank you so much! ☺️😘💜💜💜
'I'm never going to see those people again so i'm not going to worry about it' that is totally my way of thinking.
Hi Nikki and Dan, I am sure you guys know this already but the Korean Airline from SFO to korea is only 12hours, just fyi. Korean Airline and Asiana Airline are the two major Korean Airlines. I am Korean and I am so excited for you two🤗💕
We were just talking about looking into Korean airlines! I didn’t know it was that fast from there though!!! Thank you!!!
Your welcome❤️ Also, if you make a membership card, they keep track of your mileage and give you discount/upgrades towards your next flight (at least that’s how they used to do it). Please feel free to ask away if you have any questions! Would love to help if I can ❤️❤️❤️
Yes! Most definitely look into Korean Air. The service and food is amazing! And you'll get a direct flight from LA that's about 12 hours. Congratulations! Excited for you!
Hi Nikki! I’m so happy for you! Heads up. You might need to cover your tattoos when you go in front of the judges. In Korea they have a taboo on tattoos. So you might want to ask the adoption agency what they suggest
Instead of flying back and forth, you should just stay in Korea for the 5-6 weeks and learn the culture of Korea, its something that your child would want to know in the future so might as well learn while you're there. You can find super affordable places to stay easily! As a Korean American, I don't know as much about Korea as I wish to. I hope you can find a way to keep in touch with the culture in Nashville (:
thats a great idea!!
I am so happy for y’all! I will continue to keep you all in my prayers for a quick, smooth finish of this adoption process. You 2 deserve this, y’all will make wonderful parents!
Thank you so much! 💜💜💜
I love how your 3 heart tattoo looks! Great placement! 😍😍😍 Also, happy for both of you with this update!
Congrats, I’m so excited for you guys! You should check out Shane and Mel they recently adopted the most adorable boy from Korea!
We had been in contact! Theyre the sweetest!☺️
As a fellow Korean, this makes me especially happy and excited for you guys!!!
Thanks so much!!!
Oh my goodness! Same same same! ❤️
My friends adopted from Korea and they were told it’s best for it to just be the two of you and the child for the first 4-6 weeks to guarantee that they bond the most with one of the two of you instead of a friend or family member. If not they can feel separation again from the person they bonded with.
Yes I’ve heard that theory! It’s called cocooning!:) that’s why we couldn’t give a firm answer though... we’re not positive what we want to do yet... each kid is different... my parents didn’t cocoon Casey and he seemed fine. We’re gunna think and pray about it more:)
I flew 16 hours on a direct flight from South Africa to JFK in coach. There was a two hour layover, and then a 4 1/2 hour flight from JFK back home to Texas. I chose to upgrade that last flight home in first class and it was worth every single penny. I love flying but anybody would find that length of time in the air agonizing, and I HIGHLY recommend doing first class if you can.
Asiana and korean air offer nonstop flight from LAX. It’s 13 hours which isn’t pretty bad at all. I would def look at nonstop flights instead of multiple stops
Aww Bowser is so sweet. I can't believe how fast this process is moving along even with the troubles you guys have had with the country you are adopting from. I really appreciate how open and honest about this process you guys are because I know its probably very stressful at times.
Love keeping up with your journey Nikki and dan 😊❤️ I always pray for this to work out for you both!
Thank you so much:) I really appreciate the prayers!💜
Be adopted from Korea myself this makes my heart so happy! Congrats Nikki and Dan!
I’m so happy for y’all, very sweet . I’m in tears I’m so happy for y’all... I know it’s going to be a great big change for you both, but it’ll be a much greater change for the child. You’re basically flipping their whole world upside down taking them to another country (if an older child). May I suggest that y’all educate yourselves on their culture as much as you can. Korea is a very beautiful culture, immerse yourselves and enjoy your trip (maybe even with your child), the food is also amazing!!... I know you guys will be amazing parents... hearing about your journey and what you’re doing, it takes great people with great hearts to take on a child that is not their own and love it wholeheartedly.. truly, y’all are amazing. ❤️ my one flying trip for a baby : pacifier/feeding on takeoff and landing, It’ll help with the ear pressure!
I was adopted from Korea!! Very happy that you will be making such a huge change in a little baby’s life like my parents did for me
I can't remember if you already said in a past update or not but do you know the age range of the child you'll be adopting?
Rule of thumb: share your story. Let your child share theirs if the want later. 😀
lmaooooo "not my problem" MOOOODDDDD
Just thought I’d let you know that Korean Air has a flight directly from LA to Seoul! Also, on international flights, business class is amazing. Extra leg room, reclining seats, all the good stuff. So I would recommend looking into that because business class seats are less expensive than first class, but has amazing perks!!
Korean air has direct flights from LAX and it's way shorter than 17 hours! My flight to Tokyo Japan was estimated 12 hrs and we got there in almost 10 direct!
Please take 6 weeks off from LA to travel through korea. Get that awesome vlog content! You guys blessed to be able to work anywhere in the world!
This is great news...o e step closer!! I had a question, you mentioned ‘baby’ in today’s video but I was wondering if you know that they’re going to match you guys with a baby or an older child?
Safe travels. Ahhh so happy for you guys!!! It’s happening so quickly now
So fascinating to see the difference after doing foster care adoption here in the US (of course). I love learning about all the different journeys to motherhood!
The flight to Korea isn’t awful. We have done it before! It should only be about 13 hours! Singapore Airlines is amazing!
So great! Excited for you guys! ❤️ I can’t stop looking at your new tattoo! Did you film getting it done? 😃 So excited for you guys and wishing you the BEST! 💕
I hope this isn't too nosey but I am just wondering what travel card you guys are using and what travel cards you were looking into? Congrats on being accepted into the Korea program!!!
Take some calming oils for you and baby!! I also love packing a small oil infused blanket for comfort and calming.. ♥️💧
Yes yes yessss!!👏🏻🙌🏻
We oily mammas got to stick together!! Stay oily!!! Btw- I just signed up for YL and I am obsessed!! 🌱🌳💧#oilyanointing
Kamesha Lindsey What is a calming oil?
Jojo Jo I’d recommend ‘peace and calming’ ‘gentle baby’ and lavender
Hey I flew to Japan from Houston back in March in economy and it was very comfortable. When the flights are very long like that the seats in economy are way more comfortable and spaced out. We even had a foot rest to be able to stretch out our legs
I am so excited for you two to finish the process and start your family life. Congrats on getting this far and may God keep blessing you! Love you!!
love this video! Also, (and I don't mean this negatively in any way) you've really stopped interrupting Dan! You used to do that very often (probably automatically), but it's cute to see that you probably actively have been working on letting him finish and listening more. You guys are so cute together, so happy that the adoption process is going strong again!
Loving these updates. You two are so patient and calm with each other, quite inspiring 😊
I’m praying for you guys and for that sweet baby and for your journey. ❤️
Thank you very very much 🙏🏻☺️🙌🏻
SOOOOOOO EXCITED FOR YOU GUYS!!!!! ♡♡♡♡ Thank you for the updates and praying for a smooth adoption from Korea!
Thank you!!!
Will you guys be teaching Korean culture to your child as well? :) I'm Korean American btw.. happy for you two!
I used to be subscribed to you a few years back but unsubscribed because I couldn't find your content relatable to me but I'm subscribed again because lately been loving your content (hope I don't sound mean or anything). I don't know if something in your channel changed or I changed so I can resonate more with your content now. Hoping your adoption process goes smoothly and looking forward to more positive updates from you & Dan. Lots of love.
YAYY!! havent watched the whole video, but I've been waiting for this video since your Insta post
Thank youuuu!☺️💕
So excited for you guys! On a side note, Nikki, I would love to see a video on your experience with Lexapro and symptoms/side effects you had when starting and going off it
This is so exciting!! I’m seriously so happy for you guys!! I’m absolutely loving these videos ❤️
I LOVE watching these!! Are you guys planning on cocooning when you get back? How long will you stay in Korea with your new little one?
You guys are extremely kind-hearted and what you're doing is beautiful!
I’m so happy for you guys! That you guys get to adopt from South Korea!! I’m from South Korea and was adopted at 7 1/2 months old. I am 17 currently.
If your baby is screaming/crying during the flight, I've heard of some people giving little care bags to passengers on the flight (for you, maybe others flying first class with you) with a little note, ear plugs, and maybe a little snack or piece of candy. I fully agree that if they are upset, it's not your problem but it may help you feel better about the situation and others may too. :)
I’m so happy for you guys!! I was adopted from Korea and it makes me so excited that you guys are going to adopt from Korea. You guys are going to be amazing parents💕
I adopted two children, ages two and three, you might find that the stop off with the new child to see your families is very overwhelming I would encourage you for the sake of your child to make those plans flexible, we had a similar plan at one time, it backfired a lot, and ended up I think possibly slowing down the connection we made with our children, not by much, of course, But I do just offer you that word of caution. I’m sure you were getting so much advice right now but it’s ridiculous, I wish you the best of luck and an instant bond. It is the best thing you will ever do
Fantastic news and congratulations! Much success in the rest of the process and thanks for sharing.
Thank you so much Nicole!
Omg I can’t wait until we have our gotcha day as well!!!! Many blessing to you all
Hey Nikki! Your camera was going in and out of focus the whole video. Just so you know.
Congrats. I'm so happy for you guys. I flew to Korea once at either first or business class(not on my dime, they gave away my seat and I got a free upgrade and IDK the class, it was the big, folds flat seats and there wasn't a class in front of us) and it was nice. I flew normal coach back though and it was okay too. I feel the Korea air seats were comfy and didn't feel they were too small.
I hope you get your home study soon to read. I got one for fostering here in the states and it was really interesting to read it and see what they focused on.
Also, can you join a local support group for international adoption parents? It would probably be helpful for you all to talk to btdt parents who have made that long flight immediately after finalizing an adoption.
Good luck in the process.
i am so excited for you!!!!! i love that you're documenting your journey, because youre right - there are very few videos on adoption. being adopted myself, it's super cool and encouraging to hear about your journey! and im actually working towards working with adopted kids and families!
what kind of dog is the one on Dan's lap? so cute!!!!! :) btw, which adoption agency are you using? best wishes
He’s a bull terrier!! Isn’t he so cute?!😭🙌🏻 also we are using Holt International!:)
Which travel card did you guys apply for??? My new job will have me travel a lot and it would be nice!
I haven't even gotten 2 minutes into the video and I already started crying from happiness. I'm so happy you were accepted into the program :) Love you guys!
Please make a video on lexapro withdrawals. I’m on lexapro to manage my chronic pain and nerve pain as well as to manage my anxiety and depression and I’m sure I’m probably on a higher dose but i am very interested in your experience. I have researched how it is to stop the medication and it has all been scary to read.
I am currently weaning off of Lexapro - also the lowest dose. I've been on it for almost 4 years since a major car accident (hit by a semi).
I would love a separate video on the symptoms of withdrawal that you have felt. I'm dealing with a TBI on top of the PTSD & MDD (reason for Lexapro). Perspective from another person would be really helpful.
aww was smiling so hard for you guys!! congratulations!!
I love seeing these videos!!! I was adopted from south korea at three months old and have lived in california ever since. cant wait to see the future for you guys!
I was really hoping that the Korea program would work out! I'm beyond excited for you two-thank you for sharing this special journey with us. I'll be praying for you guys throughout this whole experience 💜
Yay! I’m so excited for you guys to be in a program! I’m praying for you both and your Korean child! 🤗💕
I'm so excited for you guys! Glad things are moving along nicely.
Thank you! ☺️😘
I’m so happy for you both! I’m so emotional right now! That being said, congratulations and looking forward to the next update 💞🌻🌈🌟🧚♂️
Thanks for the update! First class travel would be a dream! We took a trip to Mozambique this summer we flew coach with our 9 month old. Not so fun but it's doable if you have to. I'm sure you noticed but focus on your camera is broken and kept going in and out. By the way I absolutely love that you are sharing so much of this process! It's really helpful
My husband and I flew economy class from Detroit to Incheon. It was only 14 hrs and it wasn't bad. Most of the people sleep! :) Are you planning to learn a little Korean?
I have chronic pain and I can’t stand economy on long distance flights because I’m in so much pain and I need more space to stretch. I imagine it’s the same for her
I have been on Lexapro for years, now I am worried! I would love to be educated about changing and stopping it since I am on the highest dose and would be interested in stopping 🙃
I know you guys have done tons of research but you should check the flight times/prices flying out of San Francisco. When my husband was stationed in Korea that's where he flew to and he said it was a pretty easy trip.
I look forward to these updates so much! This is absolutely exciting and inspiring and I'm so excited for you both! Just wandered I think I heard on your last video that your child will be between the ages of 1-3. Was that the ages you guys wanted or is that just the normal age of adoption. Just curious as we have thought about adopting but would love to have a newborn. Love you both!
Hi Nikki - my husband and I travel internationally a lot (just using points) and as an experienced traveler, I would suggest looking into business class as opposed to first class. The seats are huge and you can lay completely flat, you have most of the perks of first class but you’d be using a lot less points/money. Good luck with everything ❤️
I was on Lexapro (very low dose as well) and when I got off of it (slowly tapered) and I got these horrible “brain zaps” kinda felt like I was fainting... luckily only lasted a few days but dang that was bad!
WOOOOOOOOOO, So happy for you both
Congratulations!!!! Please make a video about the with drawls and mental health. I would love a video from you about ways to deal with chronic pain! I also suffer from chronic pain.
You guys are going to be the best parents ever!
Congrats on being accepted to Korea! I think it sounds awesome stopping in LA, and you guys can have a break with hopefully both of your parents. I hope the flights go well!
My dogs got so worked up when yours did 😅 I just started following you through your adoption journey it’s so cool to be in a similar place in my own journey and hear updates from you guys! ❤️ im so happy to hear you guys got accepted!
Ive watched you since 2012 when you had like less than 100,000 subscribers and i have stayed with you this whole time, and i grew up watching you I'm 20 now, i even have all your old cover song on my iPod lol, but for the longest time i wanted y'all to have kids, i waited for it, but now i know the having your own kids wasnt meant for you, i have followed you all this time and i cant wait to follow you on this journey. you will be amazing parents
this is wonderful!!!! i missed why you are adopting. why not, is the obvi answer but just wondering if you have always wanted to or do not want to birth kids etc? i was thinkin of adopting too. So happy to see this.
I'm so excited for you guys! My husband and I are hoping to adopt from Bulgaria. We both have always felt called to adopt and we cannot wait to also take the plunge. Thank you for sharing!
Kristina Clark I wish you success!!!
Please please please do make a Lexapro video. My husband just got put on it for anxiety and he is trying to learn as much about it as he can
Love this!! I have two Korean (well, half Korean / half Welsh) babies. I know I’m
totally biased, BUT Korean babies are the cutest 😍😍 Make sure you start trying some Korean food! There’s quite a few good places in Nashville , and there is also a good Asian market there too! Best wishes for you & your future family 😘😘
Ok, honest question.. I notice a lot of people adopt Internationally and sorry if they answered but why is it that Americans tend to adopt internationally instead of locally? Are there not a lot of kids to adopt in America or is it harder to adopt in America? I’ve always wondered
I love your updates! ❤️ You actually planted the idea of adoption in my head and I think it's a great idea , a complete win-win situation! Great video as always 🙌
I am so happy that you guys are getting good news and hope everything turns out perfect. Just one comment, Lexapro, Prozac and other medications are used for pain and for emotional disorders, diseases that need to be dealt with and that need the medication so lets not stigmatize them as "bad" things. anyway, happy for you guys!
AHHH never clicked so fast💓
Sososo happy for you both, can’t wait to see the rest of the journey !
I am so excited for y'all! Keeping y'all in my prayers.
We are so excited for you guys! You can tell how bad both of you want this child and I just know you guys will be wonderful parents! Sending you all our prayers, love, and positive vibes