2020 Resolutions | Molly Sims
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- Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
- We're a month into the New Year and I've had a minute to reflect on what may have been the hardest year for me, personally. I have a new take on this year, I'm no longer doing favors and I'm saying yes to what's important to me.
What are your goals for 2020? Let me know below!
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Bless you. Put your love and attention where your heart is and yes it is okay to do so. It's your magnificent life. Live it!
Sweet soul....because when we Women are put to life’s tests like this....we are strong for everyone around us....I believe it’s just out survival instinct ..Hugs from my heart 💜
PREACH! Praying for your parents, you and your sweet family! 🙏🏻❤️
Stay strong Molly...I was in a similar situation in 2018 and it spilled into 2019 and it was rough. And a month into 2019 both my best friend and I got diagnosed with cancer weeks apart. It’s a struggle; some days are better than others and on the not so good days I allow myself to be still and heal and lean on my husband. As we go on this life journey all the negative people and the hanger ons have a way of falling by the way side. You know who your true blue folks are-ignore the rest. Remember God gives his toughest battles to his strongest soldiers 💖💖
Oh no molly! 🙏😭😱❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Why did you cry Molly? Don’t ever cry I love you your audience love you 😘 you’re like that sister I never had. Your 2020 vision is similar to mine you just helped put it in words for me. I feel like I have given enough to my surrounding and now I dont want to be around any of those people anymore. My no is definitely no and yes is pure yes from my heart. My family time is all I have left. Thank you for making this video it means a lot to me.
I remember watching your Insta-stories late last year when you were back home visiting both of your parents in the hospital. I can't imagine how tough that was but somehow you kept a smile on your face through the pain. Yes, make 2020 your year! Best wishes to you, your family and your parents.
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Love the video thank you share. Take care all the best to your parents
God Bless you and your family. I just lost my dad to pancreatic cancer two weeks before Christmas. It was awful. Don’t feel bad about withdrawing to spend time with your family. You’ll never regret taking that phone call or making that visit to see your parents.
Molly be selfish!!! You can’t be there for others if your not taking care of yourself! So Selfish🥰 Not Selfish! 🙌🏻 Praying for your family! I cried when you cried! Your so Brave!!!
WOW!!!! What an amazing video. Thank you Molly xxx
It's so important to be selfish in a good way. The opposite of selfish is selfless and when you're selfless, (unless you are martyring yourself for sainthood) it's so easy to build up resentment. Resentment is toxic. Taking care of yourself enables you to be a better, mom, friend, UA-camr, wife, etc....NOW, we your viewers are going to hold you accountable. In a few weeks I'd love to see a video of how you're doing with self-care, saying no and what you've learned in the process.
Good for you....i know the guilt man....i began to think it was genetic. Lol. You will find this thinking you are talking about liberating....hang in there. We all do this i think and when you get older you realize the priorities that are needed. I’ve got the crazy family situation...My sister and father don’t talk to each other well and my mother is the guilt Queen...Man she’s good...I haven’t been home in over 3 years....i said this year was it....Giddy Up i say....here comes 2020...
I have anxiety ever day .and I'm sick of worrying . I have no family ,and I'm divorced ,and just feel like I just exist . I need to start to live again ,and perhaps my life will change .thank you Molly for your positive attitude xo
Wonderful video. Thank you for being real 🙏🏽💕
Oh Molly this really hit home....going through a very very similar situation as you. This really resignated with me. Wishing you the very best year and prayers for both your parents. Thank you again! ❤️
You described where I was a few years ago. You are right to put yourself first. If u don't, you may we'll get seriously ill like I did and then you're no good to anyone and can end up feeling even guiltier for being a burden!
Psychiatrist helped me trace the origins of my guilty feelings; then helped me figure out how they had caused me to routinely take on too much responsibility thereby affecting my daily and life choices since childhood; how, as an adult, loved ones and friends unwittingly took advantage of me; culminating in me, one session, saying sadly out of nowhere, "I don't know who I am."
Eventually, I made the huge paradigm shift my mind needed that allowed me to figure out what specific things needed to change. Although the changes are small, they do require some acceptance from my loved ones and friends. It was worth the pain of learning more about myself than I ever wanted to know. But it is very much worth it, even at age 79!
I related so much to this video. (First time commenting) My mom was diagnosed with colon cancer just before Christmas. Right before I took on a new job after staying home with my kids for three years. I felt it was necessary to help my husband financially but this job is by no means a dream job and I’ve felt so much guilt leaving my three year old with a sitter. Now I can’t be with my mother while she goes through chemo and my little one is having stress tantrums. The guilt is unbelievable. I know I’ll get through it like I always do but it’s nice to know I’m not the only one who struggles with saying no and wanting to focus on something I want and need. Thanks for sharing.
Speak it into existence! You are right to prioritize yourself so that you can handle whatever comes your way. Have you seen these "word of the year" things? I only just noticed them recently and am trying to find one that fits. Seems like a positive exercise without having to feel the need to over explain. A mini mantra I guess. Be well. xo
I’m not even into celebs and etc but Molly seems so real and likable. Her channel is the only “celeb” I follow. Keep your videos coming and I can’t wait to read your book.
Amazing video Molly you are so expiring like that you said that when people ask to say yes sometimes you have to say no and that'll solve the problem you are a strong women I like that so strong willed and full of emotions so lovely women you are like your stories so great Molly love. XO
I really feel the same as you about guilt, feeling like somethings are just too much to take on !!also the “ disease to please” as Oprah says is so real and ingrained In us women and moms !!!!
So very sorry for what you are going through with your parents. Guilt and worry are two useless emotions that are hard to stop feeling. A lot of women struggle with these. Good for you, putting your needs on the front burner. 💕
My prayers for your parents 🙏🏼. So sorry you’re having to go thru this.... I went through the loss of both parents and it’s the hardest thing I’ve had to go through. I can only one pray for you and two be here as your number one fan and always hit that video as support of you🤗
How brave and generous you are to share this with us all 💋
I love your heart Molly. I have always followed your career. So sorry to hear about your parents. Life is very short.
Sending many hugs to you Molly , when our parents age and and either get ill and then have to make decisions for them , and how tough it is , spend as much time with them as you will never regret that ... I’m dealing with my sweet dad as he has beginning of dementia , he is blind from a car accident and has the best attitude ... amazing , though he has good and bad days and had to place him in a Long Term Care place , not knowing if he was going to be alive this month , every day is precious and I try to spend as much time as I can as I leave in Spartanburg,SC, and he and mom are in Charleston, SC 😓much love to you and stay true to yourself and remember you have to take care of you first ,so you can take care of every one else 💖
Thanks for sharing!
Prayers for you and your family💕🙏🏼
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Thank you for your frank talk and for inspiring and validating what my life has been like since 2016. Life sort of caved as my Mom fought Alzheimer's, my siblings processed/acted out about it, my career face-planted, my physical health took a downward spiral and I nearly gave up. Friends and family seemed to focus on the need to "move forward," "get over it," and essentially forget all about the horrid situations and how terribly loved ones and friends treated me. After all of the bad and continued hard work to dust myself off and get back up, I realized that I put myself on the back burner for over a decade. Heck, I'll be honest: nearly 20 YEARS! Your message resonated, I've been doing the same as best I can of putting myself first, asking for support when necessary and trying to show myself respect, love and honor by taking care of myself. Keep up the work you do and know that your realness is appreciated and motivational. 💗 ya!
Thank you for being so honest with us. For me, no more guilt that I can't get everything done perfectly myself and sometimes I need to get outside help. Asking for help when I am the type of person who wants to be able to do it all makes me feel like a failure. A 2020 resolution for me is to move past that. Love your channel Molly 😍
The year of you. It's needed and deserved.💚
Sending you and your family so much love & prayers. Thank you for your honest words....they help at a very difficult time in my life when I am going through my parents struggling through illness while also going through a painful divorce.life over the past year has been harder than I’ve ever imagined. I’m doing my best to stop worrying but that’s when I turn to my friends (don’t have much family support) for support. All I can do is keep my faith in God that he’s doing this all for a reason. To help us go through these struggles to become stronger
The best video you ever done.
Sending prayers 🙏
Great video!
Big YAS to all of that! It is like You speak everything I want to say 💯 So yes to self love, keep strong, you can do this, we can do this 🙏💕
Thank you for sharing such tender thoughts with us.💓 I wish you the very best as you strive to make 2020 one of your happiest years yet! All my love to you and your family, Molly!💕💕
Molly, I have often said that I was not truly an adult my mother was ill and passed. It changes you, it is hard but it gets better. Stay strong by keeping your loved ones around you.
Thank you for speaking from your heart. That couldn’t have been easy. Prayers for your mom and dad and to you for strength and peace. ❤️❤️
Yes! Glad you’re taking care of yourself. 🙏🏻💕 praying for your family.
It's Molly's year, bless you sweetheart! Life is indeed tough and tests our will. I'm sorry you've gone through so much extreme heartache. xo
Thank you for sharing. Sending peace and love and good health to your parents.
Sending you and your parents so much love from the other side of the world!!!! ♥
Sending you big love from Chicago❤🙏
Sending you lots of love and prayers!
Sending you lots of love 💕