Mastering Love and Relationships

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  • Опубліковано 21 вер 2024
  • Who doesn’t want to have more constructive conversations in their close relationships? In this video, Fr. Mike Schmitz explains how achieving this may be simpler than you think. So many times, we just don’t give the people we love the attention they deserve. Fr. Mike shows us how to fix that and master our love relationships.
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  • @27sports90
    @27sports90 4 роки тому +326

    Am not catholic, am non-denominational. But I really like this Catholic girl, so I started watching father mike, and I really enjoy watching him..

    • @mikethearchangel11
      @mikethearchangel11 2 роки тому +19

      that’s great, hope you continue to no matter how the relationship is going

    • @DarkAngel-cj6sx
      @DarkAngel-cj6sx 2 роки тому +2

      😆 that is exactly how dr Pitre Brant and his wife started

    • @number1fan262
      @number1fan262 2 роки тому +8

      I so wish that the guy I recently dated had had your wonderful attitude!
      How is it going in your connection with her? Have you started talking at least?

    • @froy_boyproductions8488
      @froy_boyproductions8488 Рік тому

      Welcome 😊

    • @Dre-ip8np
      @Dre-ip8np Рік тому +1

      Lol same...

  • @jennifersambrosia
    @jennifersambrosia 6 років тому +175

    It sounds like this 7 minutes of wisdom could prevent many from having to endure years of expensive and tedious counseling.

  • @suzettefox7808
    @suzettefox7808 8 років тому +152

    Be kind and polite...great words to live by

    • @oscarwilliamson1264
      @oscarwilliamson1264 4 роки тому

      Suzette fox,you are absolutely gorgeous 💓❤🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹and I will be glad to know you

    • @True1-10
      @True1-10 3 роки тому +2

      @@oscarwilliamson1264 As a Catholic mom, I strongly suggest you pray for healthy relationships with real people in your life rather than people online, especially based on their picture. Praying God blesses you with genuine & loving relationships 🙏✝️

  • @TheCharlesagain
    @TheCharlesagain 8 років тому +182

    You're a great priest, Fr Mike!

  • @yakelinrodriguez6117
    @yakelinrodriguez6117 4 роки тому +70

    I would love to go to confession with Fr. Mike, he always has very wise words.

  • @Gpacharlie
    @Gpacharlie 2 роки тому +4

    Be polite.
    Pay attention.
    Be kind.
    Who knew?

  • @isaiahpalmer2529
    @isaiahpalmer2529 5 років тому +22

    “God’s calling me to just do the humble thing” PRAISE THE LIVING LAMB OF GOD

  • @TrevorOkonuk
    @TrevorOkonuk 8 років тому +192

    0:43 "He's a...I don't know...some kind of doctor." Haha. Love these videos though!

    • @ajnasu5099
      @ajnasu5099 6 років тому

      I can across your video on adult magic tactic - there plenty more a useful videos there that should help you

    • @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844
      @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 5 років тому

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    • @jamesfuller8342
      @jamesfuller8342 4 роки тому +1

      Trevor Okonuk FUNNY you annoying troll

    • @carolzappa1804
      @carolzappa1804 3 місяці тому

      I know😂right?
      Haha, he's so cute...down to earth wise, I mean...well...oh shoot.

  • @adelinejacob7848
    @adelinejacob7848 3 роки тому +31

    You know father.. When I am completely drained emotionally, your messages come as power back up, boosting me with more confidence and hope. Wondering at the mercy of our Lord... how he uses you as an instrument in my life. Thank you God.. and you too Father.

  • @nuriacb7880
    @nuriacb7880 6 років тому +36

    I just realise that this is what I am doing with my children, and I feel very sad. They come from school and I am cooking or doing something, I say "um, um", I am pretending I am listening but I am not. I know now that I was hurting them :(

    • @rhiannoncollins3042
      @rhiannoncollins3042 3 роки тому +1

      Me too. I think it’s an easy trap for moms to fall into since we don’t often get to focus on one thing.

    • @TheMonsterExplorers
      @TheMonsterExplorers 7 днів тому

      The fact you’ve realized this and acknowledged makes you much stronger than other people that would just ignore this fact. Proud of you.

  • @Seraphicmode
    @Seraphicmode 8 років тому +64

    Short answer: Just be kind to one another. As our lord and savior Jesus Christ says, "Love one another as I have loved you."
    Thank you Father Mike! I really needed this literally yesterday and for the future. I'm currently in my first relationship after so long and I'm having trouble because I have never had this before, but I ha prayed to God to give me an answer and boom this video! :D I also checked out "Shifting into a New Relationship."

  • @alisonperez3353
    @alisonperez3353 6 років тому +29

    I actually love you! You make the biggest situations so straight forward and simple. Stumbled across you page by mistake. Best mistake I’ve ever made! God bless you padre! 😂

  • @s.a.joignant8848
    @s.a.joignant8848 8 років тому +43

    Everytime a new video pops up I'm so excited! Love you Fr Mike!!

  • @emilyd.6371
    @emilyd.6371 6 років тому +9

    I saw someone suggested a video about "healing relationships". I second that suggestion!

  • @michaelomega5783
    @michaelomega5783 8 років тому +16

    YOU ARE AWESOME FATHER

  • @prettyridah5427
    @prettyridah5427 6 років тому +3

    I'm Christian not Catholic but I'm learning more about god watching your videos. Thank you father Mike x

  • @danielwidyanto5142
    @danielwidyanto5142 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks Fr Mike. I'm one of those passive destructive guy, and our counselor was saying the same thing as yours, be courious about each other and be kind to each other. My problem is that I don't have any idea how to do that. My family of origin is just practically ignored each other, so I found it very difficult to be courious about my wife's day during dinner.

    • @elizabethstephens8801
      @elizabethstephens8801 3 роки тому

      Practice makes perfect! It's really hard though and it hurts sometimes, but the best advice I can give you is to sacrifice for the other person. Just in little things. Maybe your wife needs help with the dishes and you do them for her. Just little things that require self-sacrifice! I hope this helps!

  • @JohnAlbertRigali
    @JohnAlbertRigali 6 років тому +10

    Having been an "constructive active" kind of guy for much of my adult life, I've seen reciprocation decline over the years, especially from a certain handful of persons. It has "taken the wind out of my sails", but I'm struggling to maintain a minimal level of "constructive active" because it goes to fulfillment of Christ's command to love each other as He loved us.

  • @veronicag4593
    @veronicag4593 4 роки тому +7

    I need to do this with my friends more, it’s hard for me to focus on my friends when they’re talking sometimes because I get easily distracted. But I didn’t realize how harmful this was. I want to be better at connecting with them.

  • @lydiaannmartinez451
    @lydiaannmartinez451 3 роки тому +2

    Always stay humble and kind 🙌🏽😊💕

  • @lolitarazo
    @lolitarazo 5 років тому +3

    Flowers in colours from my heart. I pray for you Fr Mike. God bless you!

  • @John83118
    @John83118 7 місяців тому

    I can't get enough of this. I recently enjoyed a similar book, and I couldn't get enough of it. "The Art of Saying No: Mastering Boundaries for a Fulfilling Life" by Samuel Dawn

  • @seanschult2595
    @seanschult2595 7 років тому +2

    Father Mike, just wanted you to know how true speaking you are about your true soul mates. It's sad to think some can get lost searching, when Jesus is right there for us everyday. Love you father and continue to preach and speak the Good News.

  • @emmadyer-woolaston9310
    @emmadyer-woolaston9310 4 роки тому +3

    Father Mike :
    I have wander full an ideas.
    I will playing this VIDEO over, over, over and over UNTIL my husband realize he needs to be more kind of.

  • @smlipari
    @smlipari 7 років тому +2

    Fr Mike you are the best of! THANK YOU! Caring ... kindness go together like a hand in glove! Take TIME to care! ... MASTER!

    • @oscarwilliamson1264
      @oscarwilliamson1264 4 роки тому

      Sandra Lipari,you are so beautiful and so cute 💓❤🌹🌹🌹and I will be glad to know you

  • @abylynne
    @abylynne 8 років тому +18

    I love your videos.They help me reflect on my life and my choices. Thank you.

  • @GF-zh7sv
    @GF-zh7sv 2 роки тому +3

    this is so true and i'm guilty of this kind of behaviour. I really should have taken those 15 minutes when my ex would visit to show them that they are important and a priority. Sometimes my work mindset is just too strong to do what is the obviously right thing and stop for a bit and show the person I care enough to put the work down

  • @grasyaaa__
    @grasyaaa__ 5 років тому +3

    I just discovered this channel and I can't stop watching all the videos. 😍

  • @aaronc1500
    @aaronc1500 Рік тому

    The Lord truly does work in mysterious ways. I became a very fervent Catholic at the age of 9, when St. Pope John Paul II visited Mexico in 2002. I was a child and my Grandmother had the TV on. I wasn't familiar with the Pope, and that in spanish he is known as El Papa. I, being childish, was mocking him and calling him a potato. My Grandmother told me "No hables asi de El Papa. A Diosito no le gusta eso," so I stayed quiet and watched on. I remember watching him trying to continue on with Mass, and the difficulties he was having because of his age. Then all of a sudden it hit me, I began to cry and then I told me Grandmother that I was going to go to Mass every Sunday and that I would dedicate my life to Jesus Christ. That very same summer I became an altar server, and I was very sure that I was being called to Priesthood. I grew up going to Mass as often as I could, and I would not miss a day for the life of me. I prayed the rosary every night by myself before I would go to sleep, and would attend Eucharistic Adoration with my Mother as well. Fastforward to senior year in high school and that's when things changed for me. I thought I was on the right path. God, however, told me no after having ended a 1 week retreat with the Legionaries of Christ. I continued my journey, and I realized God wanted me to marry, so I began to date. I was very picky, which wasn't surprising to my family and friends. I wanted a woman who had the same ideals that I did, and I prayed very hard every day so that he would send her my way. I was dating from the age of 18 to the age of 26. I couldn't find anyone who was a firm believer, came from a good Catholic Family, was chaste, pure, etc. Then before my 27th birthday, I attended a Church retreat that was for young adults. I had been putting it off for over 5 years. I didn't feel like it was the time to go. In 2019, however, I felt that it was time to go. I did, and that's where I met my wife. As beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside. God had finally asnwered my prayers and now we are happily married. Moral of the story is, you never know what God has in store for you. Just keep beleiving and God will handle the rest. Blessings!

  • @colint7399
    @colint7399 2 роки тому +2

    I can’t thank you enough for this video. I finally prayed for help and came across this & it was as if it was made specifically for me. I was always thinking of being heroic & passive constructive & not understanding how she could not trust me as I had would never do anything to break our trust, yet the way this is explained shows it exactly how I’m sure how she has been trying to tell me. Much Love & Thanks 🙏❤️💯

  • @sunkissgirl818
    @sunkissgirl818 8 років тому +12

    thank you for this I needed this , my bf is really kind to me but I need to learn to be kind to him as well , is something I'm fighting everyday, Godbless

  • @karenaamundson8577
    @karenaamundson8577 5 років тому +6

    You are a master so blessed by your messages.. inspired by the holy spirit!

  • @jody6464
    @jody6464 3 роки тому +1

    I love happening upon these videos. I've been spending what is probably way too much time on UA-cam lately, and it can really leave you in despair to see what's going on in the world. I am always uplifted after listening to Father Mike. Thank you for helping me.

  • @aenigmatica8
    @aenigmatica8 6 років тому +4

    Simple and fascinating.

  • @lrishDave
    @lrishDave 6 років тому +2

    Thank you so much Fr. Mike. I love you like a brother.

  • @yoli5779
    @yoli5779 6 років тому +2

    THANK YOU Father Mike. Be kind to one another and communicate! ❤️

  • @josieguillen8318
    @josieguillen8318 6 років тому +1

    Thank you Fathet Mike. Your videos are edicational and inspiring..They are good food for my soul.

  • @le5314
    @le5314 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you, that is the best advice!
    Kindness is so underrated these days!

  • @michaeldelossantos8560
    @michaeldelossantos8560 8 років тому +27

    Father mike, will you do a video on the importance of saints and martyrs ....many thanks , Michael de Los Santos

  • @michellemigone7739
    @michellemigone7739 8 років тому +6

    You have such an incredible understanding of the human person. #wisdom

  • @xennelul
    @xennelul 8 років тому +4

    We participated in Engaged Encounter, it seemed to me most couples have no clue how to communicate, so thanks for your message!

  • @evelynsalinas8477
    @evelynsalinas8477 4 роки тому

    Absolutely agree. I deal with many people from different walks of life. However, I use a sweet & concern tone of voice and I can get more cooperation from them!

  • @thecatholicmass
    @thecatholicmass 8 років тому +10

    i learned something today! thanks padre..

  • @OneRandomCommunity
    @OneRandomCommunity 8 років тому +45

    Doesn't St. Therese's "Little Way" resonate with this video? 🌷

    • @annamwes
      @annamwes 6 років тому +1

      Spot on! I had the same thought listening to the video :)

  • @yourpersonaladvice7395
    @yourpersonaladvice7395 3 роки тому

    I guess we should spread more channels like this, instead of letting several distracting videos overwhelm our daily lives, thanks

  • @Commonchaffinch2
    @Commonchaffinch2 8 років тому +4

    THANKYOU Fr Mike

  • @jhedgje7905
    @jhedgje7905 6 років тому +1

    LOVE YOU FATHER!!! 😍😍😊 keep up the great work! God bless you!!!

  • @njnj8759
    @njnj8759 7 років тому +1

    Just be kind... So simple I love it God bless you all!!!

  • @rafaelmatias6356
    @rafaelmatias6356 6 років тому +3

    I think it is the third time I watch this video, an I think i am not stopping soon

  • @LeoMarkP
    @LeoMarkP 6 років тому +1

    Wow that was powerful! Love the "Eye ball time" that'll make one's spouse bloom!

  • @kesliegonzalez5816
    @kesliegonzalez5816 5 років тому +1

    Thank you Fr. Mike!

  • @bluejay4620
    @bluejay4620 7 років тому

    Father Mike, you are so inspiring. I thank God you get to minister through these videos. :)

  • @robertd9743
    @robertd9743 4 роки тому

    Father Mike, I sure wish you were my confessor! The holy spirit is with you! God bless you!

  • @puzz88
    @puzz88 7 років тому +3

    this is wildly good advice and so gracefully delivered. thanks Fr!

  • @kessaann7782
    @kessaann7782 2 роки тому +1

    This is a great video. Thank you.

  • @SevenDeMagnus
    @SevenDeMagnus 6 років тому +1

    Thank you Fr.
    God bless, Proverbs 31

  • @michaelhudecek2778
    @michaelhudecek2778 6 років тому +1

    Thank you Father Mike! This was wonderful information!! Michael Hudecek from New York

  • @maricelamaldonado1288
    @maricelamaldonado1288 8 років тому +5

    exactly what i needed to hear right now...kinda crazy

  • @larrygann5053
    @larrygann5053 3 роки тому

    That is absolutely amazing. I've been with my wife for over 30 years we always try to make that time

  • @sondre9056
    @sondre9056 3 роки тому

    I love the Church, which Christ established. Its such a great gift, multi dimensional! Thank you!
    And thats allso a thanks to you pater :-)
    Peace!

  • @RossMcDermott1259
    @RossMcDermott1259 6 років тому +8

    Fr Mike, you should consider being a voice actor as well as a priest!

    • @garriteinig3445
      @garriteinig3445 5 років тому +2

      At the Steubenville Conference in 2017, Fr. Mike told the story of nearly being cast as Robin in one of the Batman movies. Unfortunately I can't seem to find a video of it...

  • @TheChio116
    @TheChio116 8 років тому +1

    It's awesome news!! Thank You! Father!!

  • @jenniroman9574
    @jenniroman9574 3 роки тому +1

    You are amazing fr mike! Thank you so much!

  • @VictoriosoAlejandrino
    @VictoriosoAlejandrino Рік тому

    Thank you Father Mike

  • @aiban505
    @aiban505 4 роки тому

    Thkq Fr. Mike m from India love to see ur channel

  • @garyzimmerman7889
    @garyzimmerman7889 3 роки тому

    Fantastic. Thank you for this. Sharing with my children and their spouses.

  • @noreenmika7783
    @noreenmika7783 5 років тому +1

    Thank you father mike!!

  • @Larry21924
    @Larry21924 9 місяців тому

    I'm intrigued by the substance of this material. A book with comparable insights significantly broadened my outlook. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

  • @greyzone1974
    @greyzone1974 4 роки тому

    Hi Father Mike, the way you approach love is amazing.. I heard your talk previously about how all types of love belong to the church.. not accepted but belong.. it's not them but us...I really got a better idea in how to approach the topic without being condemning. thank you.

  • @xavierferguson9607
    @xavierferguson9607 3 роки тому

    WOW! This is truly genius. Thanks, Fr. Mike!

  • @charityf888
    @charityf888 3 роки тому +1

    There is some good books like love and respect, the five love languages, the love dare. The movie called fireproof is a good movie too.

  • @Love-Chronicles
    @Love-Chronicles 9 місяців тому

    Good solid stories and advices.

  • @chimbino2340
    @chimbino2340 7 років тому +25

    Hey Father can you please create a Protestant and Catholic relationship video or anything that involves a Non-Catholic and Catholic relationship?

  • @rosemariepetersen4467
    @rosemariepetersen4467 2 роки тому +1

    That was quite helpful.

  • @MsCorina222
    @MsCorina222 5 років тому +1

    Love and BLESSINGS

  • @andreajeffcoat5954
    @andreajeffcoat5954 7 років тому

    Thank you father Mike. Thank you.

  • @nelavc21
    @nelavc21 5 років тому +1

    Thank you Father Mike! This helps me a lot.

  • @illynkimura1015
    @illynkimura1015 6 років тому +1

    this is amazing thank you Father Mike .

  • @deanrowell1591
    @deanrowell1591 3 роки тому +1

    Awesome! Thank you very much!

  • @TMan29
    @TMan29 2 роки тому

    Thank you for this, was struggling with a question but it cleared ❤️

  • @veronicacampbell183
    @veronicacampbell183 5 років тому

    Thank you father ❤️ God bless you 🙏

  • @jonitagonsalves9177
    @jonitagonsalves9177 4 роки тому

    This was an eye opener.Thank u Fr.Mike

  • @Alicia-sb6pu
    @Alicia-sb6pu 6 років тому

    This is completely true everyone!!!

  • @milenapelegrino6212
    @milenapelegrino6212 6 років тому +2

    Hello father! I love your videos. Do you have any tips how to deal with unconstrutive behaviour ? Specially in the workplace.

  • @Van-H
    @Van-H 5 років тому +2

    I am Catholic, and my whole family are Catholic too. Your videos are so amazon, I would like to share your videos to my family who are living in Taiwan. But I could not find the “cc”Captions in Tradition Chinese. If you can edit and add more languages that I appreciate that. Thank you so much.

  • @mong7858
    @mong7858 2 роки тому

    Great teaching, thank you 🙏🏻

  • @brettrcg3387
    @brettrcg3387 6 років тому

    Trust. Positive constructive active. Polite. Be kind.

  • @ElephantCages
    @ElephantCages 5 місяців тому

    I'm a servant of the Lord Jesus Christ. I must over come suboxone withdrawal alone. I mean, I know Jesus is with me, but there will be nobody else around as I attempt this feat. I get migraines daily due to suboxone but today is my first day without, & I'm at work. Its, the late shift and I just drank enough caffeine to kill a silverback. I put my faith in Jesus to get me through. I know I'm gonna get through it, don't have a choice. I just hope the side effects wear off soon. Sneezing is a side effect? Interesting, glad I pulled the plug on the stuff, never needed it in the first place, a bit of acting on my part.

  • @MartRam16
    @MartRam16 6 років тому +1

    Love this ❤️ Exactly true!

  • @neysadsouza6966
    @neysadsouza6966 3 роки тому

    Very good news! Valuable explanation!

  • @nicoolioo
    @nicoolioo 5 років тому

    really needed to hear this today. thanks fr mike!!

  • @mm7846
    @mm7846 Рік тому

    Trust can be broken in a moment. I found out a secret my husband kept once and the trust was instantly shattered. Also, a similar thing happened with a boyfriend once. I was not listening to my intuition (God speaking to us) and was until denial until it was not possible any longer. 😢

  • @Georgevnt4ims
    @Georgevnt4ims 6 років тому

    Thank u Father...

  • @jessiska2468
    @jessiska2468 6 років тому

    This is beautiful video father Mike

  • @susandubanowich4527
    @susandubanowich4527 8 років тому +6

    What is your best tip for a teenager- like myself- about love and relationships? What does the bible say about love and relationships? God bless.

    • @susandubanowich4527
      @susandubanowich4527 8 років тому +2

      To mention, I am 15 years old if that makes a difference.

  • @annmarievalenti9264
    @annmarievalenti9264 2 роки тому

    Wonderful talk

  • @docterblack
    @docterblack 6 років тому

    Thank you for this video, the information was really helpful!

  • @MEXTguide_yoyo
    @MEXTguide_yoyo 4 роки тому

    This is gold.

  • @AlbertDominic
    @AlbertDominic 6 років тому

    That was awesome Father. loved it.

  • @sarakeith5480
    @sarakeith5480 7 років тому +1

    Thank you!!!!