I’M OVER MY SISTERLOCKS!
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- Опубліковано 8 лют 2025
- Welcome to my channel you guys! Since i started my loc journey ive been going through dogferent emotions that i wasnt expecting. I am realizing the works ariund me and how much it actually effected me when it came to my natural hair. Just sharing some insight with you all. Thank you for watching ♥️♥️
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Loc count: 579
Rotation: 4 point
Hair density: THICK
I DO NOT OWN ANY OF THE MUSIC IN THIS VIDEO
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Hey, Som! I really like that you're showing the "real" side of transitioning to locs. Because like you said, we often only see the bright side of black women loving their locs or wigs etc, not the journey or stages in between! What you said about putting on a persona when wearing "socially acceptable" hairstyles as a black women was so true and powerful. I think a lot of us feel pressured to confirm and then feel baffled when we're confronted with our hair in its natural state. You're still in the beginning stages of your journey so I think what you're feeling is very normal, but I'm so excited to follow you through this process. Great video, so happy that you started your channel!!! 💖💖💖💖💖
Thanks bri!!!!! Love you ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I have sisterlocks and I feel beautiful!!! Maybe you need counseling. A lot of black women don't feel beautiful because society has made us feel this way. Thank God my parents instilled in me that I am beautiful!!! You are beautiful my sister no matter what your hair looks like. I still wear wigs sometimes. Social acceptable to who??? Please!!! You are beautiful..OWN IT!!!! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL MY SISTER!!!
Thank you my dear!!! And yes it wasn’t until I got locs I realized HOW MUCH I relied on braids and wigs ect…everything but my real hair lol it’s a mess. Each day it gets easier though. This is my new normal and I’m getting used to it.
Thank you so much for watching and the support ♥️♥️
I don’t miss going to the beauty supply store to buy human hair for braiding or weaving. I did so for probably 20 years or more and I’m just sorry I didn’t start my locs sooner but I applaud you for being totally honest and authentic about how you feel.
Thank you. And yes as time is going by I don’t miss the stress of doing more than I needed to. I’m loving the freedom 🧚🏾♀️
This video makes me feel so seen and understood. Everything you said, the fear of being seen as undesirable or unacceptable because of your natural features is such a real feeling for so many Black women and you’re so brave for being able to express these emotions when so many would choose to deny then and act like they don’t exist. Very few people have to go through life ignoring the millions of messages saying “you’re not good enough” the way that Black women do.
Wow I’m so glad this video can make you feel this way. And I’m also comforted knowing I’m not the only one. Thanks for watching ♥️♥️♥️
You speaking for a LOT of black sisters 🙏🏾✨
I loveee you locks💓
This is such a vulnerable, well-articulated reflection; it resonated with me and clearly many others. Thank you for sharing!
Thank you so much! I was so nervous to say it out loud but I’m glad I did ♥️
@@queenofthej ❤️❤️
I'm sitting here jealous of your Locs and it's so crazy how we all deal with our own feelings and challenges. Maybe a thought if you ever get that feeling and it feels so bad, try geling down your edges. I'm loose natural and I miss being able to wear wigs and waves, but I'm over looking like my hair don't grow out of my head. But everyone once in a while I slick up my edges and it makes me feel like even more of a baddie. I'll be transitioning to locks hopefully in the next month and your hair is goals! Good luck and stay strong!
It’s so funny you said that! I actually slicked my edges down for my video I just released lol I felt like a bad ting! Loll
Thanks for watching! ♥️♥️♥️
You’re so gorgeous! Thanks for being so open about your struggles for the girlies! I am almost 1 year sister locd and I struggled as well with feeling beautiful in my sister locs. My length is just about the same as yours so I truly understand missing the length. I literally said the same that I refuse to wear another wig until I’m whole without them. I’m wishing you love and happiness on your journey! 💕💕💕
Thank you so much for the encouraging words! You’re the best! ♥️♥️♥️
I have SisterLocks and I just celebrated my 2 year anniversary. I do understand how you feel. I love my locks but I also loved my short pixie cut and finger waves. But I don’t love the latter enough to go back to it. I have resolved to love my previous hairstyles from a distance or when I see someone with it.
Queen! Watch this video and look at your hair. Stunning! There are wigs that look like this! And we have been programed to think what we were born with wasn't good enough and we had to give our money to other races to have acceptable hair.
I don't miss my braid, weaves, wigs etc mainly bc I would get my moneys worth honey and everyone else is switching it up every few wks!
Embrace the journey and look at the beauty of your hair.
I struggled when I went natural in 2011. I felt like a nappy-headed chick w no direction and 1 hairstyle A BUN. but it got better and 10 years later I got sisterlocks! I should have done it years ago but all in God's time.
This transition is a process of discovery- embrace it! Xoxo
Thank you!!
Yes I felt everything you just wrote! Each day I get used to it and wouldn’t change it for the world! ❤️❤️
I truly commend and admire that you were honest and most importantly recognized your genuine perspective of this ongoing issue of not only embracing our natural hair as black women but also loving it.
Thank you 🙏🏾 and yeah the open dialogue is necessary for us
You are not the only one who feels this way. I have seen peoples reactions towards me when i wore weaves and wore natural hair. They see pictures of me with straight hair and say wow your hair WAS so pretty. I do have microlocks currently. Took me a while to appreciate them. I feel more free and less stress. I keep looking at my wigs and im just tired of wearing them and getting the question " is that all your hair?" People just cant say i look nice, they just gotta know the details. I don't get those questions anymore and im happy, but i also dont live in the states anymore either. Mentality seems different a bit outside of the american bubble. By the way, im proud of you and you and your hair are beautiful. Thank you for sharing your story
NOT “WAS” so pretty! That’s wild and I’m sorry you have to do what so many of us do and hide behind nonsense to be acceptable. Thank you so much for sharing as well! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
You took the 1st step. You are black girl luxury . Retrain your mindset stop missing what wasn't authentic.. You hold the power. I'm 7 months loc'd and those feelings have power, use yours to change the narrative . Thanks For the honesty. It's much needed, your not alone in this. ❤❤
Omgggg this comment is everything! “Stop missing what isn’t authentic “ that’s pure right there! Thank you so much 🙏🏾
You look totally beautiful!! Love your hair and spirit!! You go girl!! Keep doing you ..... it looks great on ya!! 🤗
Aw thank you!! ♥️♥️♥️
Thanks for speaking from the heart. I'm glad that I came across this video. All the best to you.
Thank you so much 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I so appreciate your honesty in this video! I’ve been sisterlocked for 1.5 months and have been having the exact same feelings. You’re not crazy!!!!
First, I love your UA-cam name! Second, I’m glad I’m not crazy! I was nervous to post it but I just said you know what..imma do it.
It’s crazy because sometimes we feel like we are the e only ones only to see we aren’t ♥️♥️♥️♥️
I appreciate your vulnerability & your locs are beautiful! & you are beautiful! I feel like we need to all ask ourselves if we like what we like because we actually like it? Or if we have all just been conditioned to like it. Hard truth!
Thank you boo!
Yes girl that’s what I realized when I got locs. Before locs I would swear up and down I just wore wigs and ect because of time and because I liked them (and I do) but I also realized I didn’t feel complete without them and that was a hard pill to swallow
Love your logo animation with the roar. So sorry to hear about your struggles. Thanks for being honest. Locks is definitely another level of the natural hair journey. Embrace what you're feeling and grow. Love your honesty ;-)
Thank you!
Yeah locs makes me feel like I’m in a whole different community of natural hair I never really paid attention to. It’s very cool just getting used to it.
Thank you so much for watching and the encouragement ♥️♥️
I’m so sad you feel that way. You look pretty… your hair is gorgeous. I understand what you are saying. I went natural in 2008, and people talked about me, but I stayed consistently rocking twistouts and Afros…. Getting my hair locd was the next natural transition for me. It will take time for you to grow into that. What I do miss is a good twist out cuz my hair was BIG. Enjoyed the video ❤️
Thank you so much for watching and thank you for the encouragement! ♥️
I didn’t realized how used to wigs I got! I’m glad I’m starting to embrace my hair! I’m literally getting it retied right now lol
@@queenofthej I’m sure I’m much older than you, and at a certain age, you just don’t give a damn 🤣🤣 but I would love to hear more commentary on the black woman luxury topic. I feel I look good and luxurious with my Locs 😉
@@SpoonsStyle lol I’m going to make a video on it soon. I have a few points on the movement. I love it I just wish there would be more natural hair representation 😑 sisterlocks are so expensive we should be leading the BGL movement with all the money we spend sheesh! Lolll
@@queenofthej @GlmrGrl98
I want to hear about the black woman luxury also. Sounds negative and like people are keeping up w the jones but I'm open!
@@krandle2175 it’s coming! There’s so many layers to the movement
Your SLs are absolutely beautiful. I have had mine since 2017.
Thank you so much. I love sisterlocks, I’m getting my stride lolll
Thank you for watching
wow, thank you so much for sharing. I am currently natural (wears wigs) yes the world navigation is real!! I want sisterlocks however what you are speaking about it the reason I have not took the leap yet. Because of this conflicting thoughts I feel like I am playing myself every time I put the wig on.
also you look beautiful!!!!
Thank you so much! But I’m not going to lie I don’t regret my decision. Plus you can still wear wigs over your sisterlocks until your comfortable. I just didn’t realize how attached to wigs I was until I stopped wearing them. I used to say the wigs were “protective” but now I realize they weren’t lol but that’s me though!
Thank you for watching and supporting! ♥️
No.... I'm so over my natural hair 🙄 I'm over wearing the same ole tired styles. You look so beautiful! I totally understand how you feel,but embrace it! It's different and gorgeous 😍
Lolll switching it up is definitely key for me to! And thank you for the compliment and for watching ♥️♥️♥️
I'm natural, wear wigs sometimes, but have braids most of the time. I'm just out here doing research before taking the leap into loss- the main thing that scares me is the inability to diversify my hairstyle? You look gorgeous, I absolutely love your locs!
Thank you!!!
Well with sisterlocks diversity will DEF not be an issue. They are so tiny that it gives a loose natural look and you can wear braids over them and wigs to (not u parts though). Once mine get longer and are fully locked I will start to put them in more styles.
Thank you for watching ♥️♥️
I was a weave and braid guru and now I have sister locs going on two years and I truly love and embrace my loc journey. I feel beautiful and sexy.
Lollll weave and braid guru! Me to girl! Always had the hair on deck. But I get it. As I’m continuing the journey I’m actually loving and feel amazing
Sis! Stunning 🔥🔥🔥🔥I am new to the Sisterlock world and it is an amazing journey, not perfect or easy.
Ahhh thank youuuu ♥️♥️♥️♥️ and yeah I’m really loving it so far. I wake up each morning looking for difference lol (my impatient self!)
During slavery, African American women were required to keep their hair tied up with scarves. In Hollywood movies with a white cast, if a black woman was in the movie, she had to have her hair tied up. As in Hattie McDaniel in “Gone with the Wind.” These black women were typically depicted as maids. Even the beautiful Dorothy Dandridge was told she would have to cover her hair with a scarf if she was in a movie with a white cast. Only in movies with a black cast would actresses like Dorothy Dandridge and Lena Horne be allowed to wear their own hair uncovered. That is because such movies were only shown in theatres in black neighborhoods and, thus, not designed for white viewers. Fast forward to more modern times. Wigs and weaves and fake hair just replaced the former use of scarves. The whole purpose of the false hair is to cover up or disguise natural black hair. So I would encourage the young woman in this video to think differently. The whole thing with wigs, weaves, etc. is not just about feeling pretty. It’s about the long “tradition” of requiring black women to cover their natural hair. No other race/ethnicity of women is required to constantly cover their hair out of shame or to compete or not compete with the ideal women of another race/ethnicity. I’m 61. It really saddens me to see this beautiful young woman in this video still craving something to cover her hair with in order to make herself feel pretty and comfortable around other people. The poison ☠️ is deep. A generational curse. Ladies, please take the antidote for this poison and stop wearing fake hair. I heard a white girl say that the fake hair on black women is not beautifying but disturbing because it is strange to look at someone’s hair that it so obviously not growing from their scalp. She’s right. But black women have become so used to seeing themselves with fake hair that the unnaturalness of hair not growing from their scalp doesn’t bother them. Indeed , the whole point is to completely disguise or cover the hair growing from the scalp. If the young people don’t stop this sickness, I’m afraid this poisoning from slavery will only continue into the future.
This right here is deep and an issue that is running rampant amongst our beautiful black women. Let me say, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! But I understand me telling you that does nothing for until you believe it. As someone that has struggled with self confidence most of my life, I can relate and it saddens me. It also makes me realize that in my efforts to protect my daughters hair and make my life easier, I could be pushing the same agenda that I do so much preaching about. Anyway, I pray your journey ends with you loving all of you just the way the Lord designed you to be.
This comment actually touched me! Thank you so much for watching and the beautiful words! I’m a work in progress but we gonna make! ♥️♥️♥️
Funny to have found this video. I am not in my second loc journey BUT my first journey was all about overcoming my insecurities due to social norms. I remember going through a period in the beginning of my first journey where, I only would wear faux locs over top of my Loc Babies and one day I decided enough was enough and I began to embrace my short phase and now in my second journey I have let go of make up.
My natural me is really enough! Keep on sisters!
Wow! Each journey bri by a different perspective for you and I love that! I bet without make you your still blowing people out the water 😍😍😍♥️🧚🏾♀️
I went loose natural in 2019 with a big chop after wearing wear for over ten years. I have not straightened my hair or defined my curls since I have been natural and I did not realize that I benefited from "social pretty prilage" until people started to treat me diffrently. I don't miss the hair styles but I so sometimes miss being seen as pretty by rhe world, but not enought to go back lol. I am free from it all and I value my freedom. I am planning on getting sister locks at the end of the year ❤ This is a very important topic. My natural hair has brought a lot of stuff to the surface that has been hidden in me about the way I look and I have had to confront it
This is so real & relatable!
Wow Thank you for watching ♥️
I know the feeling, but you look beautiful! The locs look great and they compliment you.
Thank you so much! ♥️♥️♥️
Hey Queen of the Jungle, I feel you! Locs do that to us sometimes, and as someone who has done the halfway and back and forth journey with the locs, for some reason, I always get the urge to go back. I also think it's normal for us to miss the previous hairstyles we had. It's hard to be satisfied 100% of the time, I think that's also something we need to accept. That said, you look amazing 🤩
Yeah it is normal. I’m trying not to beat myself up for missing them because I’m like…this was all I knew for most of my life 🤷🏾♀️ but I wouldn’t turn back for all the money in the world (well…maybe not all the money lollll it’s a panoramic out here)
But thank you Pillow Talk ♥️♥️♥️
@@queenofthej 😅😅😅😅 I feel you Sis! I will keep 👀🌹🙏🏾
Your beautiful and what a amazing video! I’m excited about starting my journey.
Thank you so much! ♥️♥️♥️ I’m loving the journey so far. It’s everything I didn’t know I needed!
Girl, you are absolutely gorgeous! I am sad you don't see it for yourself!
I’m starting to!! It just was a huge shock at first!! Thank you Queen♥️♥️♥️♥️
Honeyyy you are stunning! Gorgeous! I looooove your locs! I have short hair & I hope mine look EXACTLY like yours.
I hear you though. I know I’m gonna struggle with missing wigs & my relaxed hair. I related so much to when you said whenever you turned the tv on and your mind started taking you there…yeah I know that’s gonna be me.
Anyways, I hope you keep posting! Your vids have been very encouraging for me❤️
Aw thank you so much for watching and supporting!!!
And yeah sometimes i have my moments but each day is getting better and I’m loving the process!
I’ll definitely have more videos coming ♥️♥️♥️
I recently got sisterlocs and I can relate to what you are saying 💯 about fully loving yourself as you are
It’s an interesting road. Definitely has some ups and downs but as I’m getting closer to my destination it feels goooood.♥️♥️♥️
I've never been a wigs and weave person, I get hot and have an itch scalp, but I Def said that we should get really comfortable with the hair growing out our head before getting locs. It's only been 6 months for me but it is Def a journey and many phases. I've been natural for years but in the beginning my expectations did NOT match what I actually had. It took a while to get understand and that what works for some don't always work for others!
Wise words Fr. I’m loving the journey now. “Trust the process” is a real thing lol
Hey sis!! Firstly, you're beautiful!!! Your skin and hair is everything!!! I don't wear wigs or weaves. But I will wear braids and I do feel more confident with braids. Smh. I hate to admit it.
Hey boo! Thank you!!
And that’s okay! As long as you love yourself wear braids as much as you want!
Thank you for watching and supporting!!! ♥️♥️
You are so pretty. I hate that you feel that way. I understand what you mean. I've never been a person who liked wigs.
Aw thank you. But it’s growing pains I guess lol each day I miss them less and less and love my hair more and more
Thank you for your honesty.
You’re welcome. 🙏🏾🙏🏾 thank you for watching
Your hair looks so nice 😍 - I like the Bob shape - I honestly think you look beautiful. The beginning of the Loc journey can bring a lot of doubt, but I think for most people as their locs mature the doubt fades. Most women with locs were previously loose naturals, so I think a lot of people would have moved away from the western beauty standard before getting locs, but I agree the western standard of beauty is something we have to get comfortable ignoring.
Thank you! And yeah I’m doing my best to acknowledge another woman looks beautiful with braids wigs ect and I also look beautiful with locs. I used to feel not up to par but I’m feeling less and less like that
Here watching
Thank you for watching!
I no what ur saying... that's really hard to change..but girl lol your hair looks gorgeous..so serious!! I Wish I had enough hair to do it too... damage mine a lot from wearing wigs.
Dang well when your hair grows back out definitely get sisterlocks. Life is a breeze…minus the white supremacy but that’s everywhere regardless lollll so you might as well get locs 😂 that’s my motto now
New on this journey
You’ll love it!
Its OK to have reflection on the process. Dont mind people that are hating. Its normal! Its a transition to understand who u are.
Thank you so much ♥️♥️♥️
Love your love they are beautiful!!! When you want waves get a wig with waves!!!
1. I love your name!
2. Yes the more confident I feel in my locs the more open I am to trying new things 💃🏾🧚🏾♀️♥️
It's time black women gets over believing that having weave amd wig makes them beautiful. Our hair is beautiful.
AGREED!! ♥️♥️
I am new to the sisterlock world, and I have very thin hair due to chemo, but this is the best decision I have ever made😫 I'm documenting day by day❤
Congrats on starting your journey! And I wish you all the best with your chemo! Whether your hair is thin or not I’m CERTAIN you’re stunning ♥️♥️
I just had to tell myself, it’s no power in wearing someone else’s hair. I’m natural and have been for about 14 years and I’ve worn box braids for years and I’ve wanted locs for years but let fear and doubt and other people’s opinions stop me…..At this point in my life, I don’t care what they think lol…..I definitely agree that I will miss my braids though but I don’t miss what it represented for me….and that was covering up and wearing a mask of who I truly was……Love your hair and your content. 💜
Your SL are gorg and so are you! Mine look like yours, how long have you been loc'd? My install was 11/24/21 and I have similar length, density, etc. I was a loose natural for 6 years and while I don't miss maintenance, I sometimes miss braids outs and wash and gos. Either way, you're soooo beautiful and I look forward to seeing your journey!
Thank you!!! You are to! I’ve been locd for like 3 1/2 months 🧚🏾♀️ and thank you for watching and supporting!!
I love your hair and your skin is gorgeous.
😭 thank you so much!
It may sound odd....but your video tells me I need to get sister locks
Most definitely do it. I do not regret it one bit. I’ve grown inside and they haven’t even fully locked yet
Your locs look great! What's your count?
Thank you! And about 590 something
i have always hated wigs from when i was a wee lass. thought they looked weird wn i found microlocs i found "it"because a can get the "kempt" look i like with very little work.
Yeah I can totally understand. I think microlocs are so pretty! ♥️♥️
Your hair is so beautiful and healthy
Thank you! ♥️♥️♥️
I love your honesty and yes I’m 3 mos loc’d and I feel the same way most days 🥴 I get it….
Getting used to something you’ve never done and leaving the only thing you’ve ever known is hard. It’s like growing pains lol but overall I still think we made the better decision 🙏🏾🙏🏾
It's just a matter of
perspective/opinion.
I have never liked wigs/ weaves,
and have always thought that MANY
wigs/ weaves look clownish👎🏽👎🏽
Whether it's my opinion that
wigs/weaves look clownish
or
Someone else's opinion that
wigs/weaves look beautiful -
It's ALL a matter of opinion
&
Can be CHANGED as the person in question sees fit🤷🏽♀️
So with that said,
I personally hope that you will one day see your locs as being more beautiful than wigs/weaves ❤️❤️
It didn’t take long I’m already there! Locs are everything and unlike loose natural hair and wigs I ALWAYS feel ready and cute. I wish I did them sooner!
Hey girl, If you miss wigs, maybe try to do cornrows maybe you'll be able to put it on 🤷🏾♀️.
You look so beautiful, COURAGE !!!
Going on my sisterlocks journey next month.
Bisou from France
Come through France 🇫🇷!!!!!
Thank you much ♥️
And congrats on starting your journey soon!
This is sad😢. I feel empowered with my God given natural hair “Microlocs” I feel more beautiful than ever in 44 years. You may need counseling because societal standards of beauty have brainwashed you. You’re gorgeous with those natural tresses. I don’t follow trends & hate looking like everyone on social media
Without Even Reading all the Comments, let me say “Comparison is the Thief of Joy” when intentional or unaware. You are Beautiful and unique. No one could be more unhappy with the microlocs than me. I’m only 5 weeks in and I just stopped covering them up. I have decided to love me like this, I even prayed about it. I embrace my uniqueness now and I speak life to my Locs and I tell them that I love them and that they’ll flourish and be beautiful like no other. Sounds crazy right 😝.
Honey, you are “The Queen of The Jungle”
Now walk it out… 💕
And Thanks for the realness love
This comment it everything!!! I’m DEFINITELY going to start paying over mine to. And thanking God for even having hair on my head.. nothing is too little for thankfulness!
I’m certain your journey will be an amazing one. I’m so happy your showing off your locs ♥️♥️♥️
Your locs are beautiful!!!!!
Thank you!!!!! 😿 ♥️
I just did a "live" on similar topic..it's so bad that society makes black ppl feel this way..are you serious you are beautiful..it's horrible that you feel more beautiful fake and it's not your fault smh..I promise you I discussed this with my group last week..
Yeah As women I feel like we are conditioned to do everything fake to “enhance”…which is cool if that’s what someone does (I love me some lashes girl!) but at times it’s good to remind myself that I’m good without it.
I’m glad you’re discussing things like this. It’s very necessary!♥️♥️
Your hair is soo beautiful 😍
😿 thank you!!
Your crown looks beautiful
Thank you so much! Can’t wait to see what it turns into as it grows 🌸
Most women want sister Locs but don’t have hair or can’t get their hair to grow or for medical reasons . Wigs are great but it’s nothing wrong with loving your hair ! They are beautiful and so are you ❤️
Good point! For medical reason is fully understandable..even if they don’t have medical reason I feel like women should wear whatever they want. As long as they love themselves in their natural state as well ♥️♥️♥️
Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts!
I did miss changing up my look or my style.
Yeah I still have my moment when I see a style I like but I wouldn’t change my locs for the world lol pretty versatile and most of all CAREFREE.
First of all, you are beautiful all on your own and I greatly appreciate you for speaking on this. I totally understand you and I want you to know that I absolutely love your hair and I would be ecstatic if I could get my hair just like yours. I’m a natural yet I’ve been wanting locs yet a specific type and yours I want so badly. I would put it in cornrows, wear it curly, you can even do individuals if you want. I get what you’re talking about yet you are free to do your hair the way you want and how you want. We as black people are creators more hair styles than any other race of people. Do what you will with the hair on your head. Yet I agree with the fact that it may not be healthy for your self esteem to use fake hair as a crutch. You can be artistic and use creative expression with your hair though. So do you love. Peace, Love and Prosperity to you Goddess.
Thank you so much for the encouragement!!
And you’re right! That’s probably one of the top reasons love being black. Our hair has the ability to transform itself! And if you want sisterlocks I would say get them! They actually look good on everyone of every race. As long as you have healthy hair they’re going to be popping!
Thank you again for watching ♥️♥️♥️
You are stunning
Thank you 😭!
Sis you can braid your sister locks down and put a wig on
Hey girl I know I can but I don’t want to wear the wigs because I’ve been using them for so long. I need to just sit with my natural hair for now.
Thank you so much for watching ♥️♥️♥️
@@queenofthej no problem !
You are beautiful love 💕
Thank you 🙏🏾 ♥️
Just wear whatever style makes you happy even if you feel it's steeped in socially acceptable beauty standards.
I like that view point. Because what you feel on the inside is what matters the most. True.
Let’s Talk Beauty Standards|Where do they come from?
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Awww this is sad ....she so pretty and her hair is gorgeous. I have regular locs and I don't regret it. We are forced as black women to confirm to the European standards of beauty.
Thanks and yeah. Change is hard no matter what it is. Hair, location, life path. I’m loving the decision and where it’s taking me
For the record- you ARE beautiful! Thanks for your honesty though. This is brave! Talking about it is the first step! What has been done over 400 years can’t be undone quickly.
What's crazy is that black women are known for wearing wigs and weave. That shouldn't be. We should be known for having beautiful hair. That would be the case if we put the time and effort into learning how to work with our own hair. It's like we were never taught or something. What does that say about us? I think that my hair is supposed to be locked. Why? Because it is thriving without much effort at all and that's never happened before.
So we’ll said and so well written! I fully agree with what your saying. We need to better for our generation and the generation after us. Thank you so much 🙏🏾
Totally agree - it shouldn’t be the case that the majority of us wear wigs/weaves.
@@angiesloclife I agree
You need to look within yourself for the beauty.
Exactly ♥️♥️♥️
Thank you for watching and the advice 🙏🏾
You can still wear wigs
What is it with wigs, even as a young man I never got it, I'm now 31. I never liked it or weaves I prefer natural hair on black women. Afro, short cut, diva cut, dreads and braids all all that. To me black women are more attractive with natural hair. I'm turned off by wigs unless for health reason you need a wig. Black women yall down need wigs idk how they tricked yall into thinking you need them but you don't. I know many black women with long natural hair and they still wear wigs cause they think it looks better.
Honestly there’s so many reason for wigs. Like women who work in corporate America (like me) natural hair isn’t acceptable or looked well upon. Time to do your hair take a while and black men tend to say they like natural hair but most times is mixed race natural hair..not the 4c kinky hair. Those are just a few on a list of many things.
But I feel like if more men like you encouraged black women the way you do it will help increase our confidence with our hair. Or at least take on thing off the plate of the negative outlook the world has on our hair. Stay positive brother and thank you for sharing your encouraging words.♥️♥️♥️
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