Annnddd were back! I hope y’all enjoy this one. I’ve been really enjoying making the relationship vids, but I’ve been starting to miss just regular story times, so I want to get y’all’s feedback. Should the next vid be a story time? 👀 Anyways, love you guys. Join the Discord and sub to the second channel; all links are in the description. And you better already be subbed to this channel, or I’m gonna have to catch you outside. ❤️
Also do not trauma dump on the first date. Try to avoid saying anything negative tbh… bad relationship with your parents? Don’t talk about it. Hate your job? Don’t talk about it. Talk about things you like bc being negative makes you look like a downer.
one of the hardest things to avoid is talking while eating because girls might ask a question in the middle of my chewing session, and if i delay, it would be awkward but if i respond, ill look irritating with the spaghetti in my mouth😭
Small bites bro, makes it really easy to swallow without a hitch. Like Berto said, don't go stuffing your face, slow down, control yourself and you'll be alright
1. Don’t reveal to much about yourself. 2. Let her do all the talking. 60/40 60% her 40% you 3. Stay off your phone (leave it face down). 4. Basic table manners 4a don’t talk with food in your mouth 4b eat slowly drink slowly 4c don’t smack your lips 5. Bonus tip always have a backup place to go to ex: ice cream, bowling or top golf. 6. Another bonus tip in my opinion: amusing that the date went really well the key is to make the offer for part 2 of the date very smooth by saying what are you doing after this and she says nothing Have something planned to do with her afterwards such as top golf bowling and/or ice cream (if she says anything but nothing to you asking what she says going on after y’all’s date don’t offer to go anywhere else).
Honestly for the first one, if u wanna keep some mystery just paste your self on whatever u tell her, I feel like a lot of dudes add to much in one setting rather than spreading it out gradually, basically letting that mf flow
Im just low-key addicted to your videos. The real thing is that i just gotta stop wanting women(not trying to do the thing of dropping dating overall im just trying to make it so that i no longer desperately want it )
Besides the smacking while eating and eating fast cuz the food to dam good i prolly would of screwed up everything else 1. Low self-confidence 2. Certified yapper 3. Extreme nervousness 4. Expose of 100% full identity on the first date I’m glad I sub up to Berto appreciate it berto
@@royalobasi1938 I had to watch the Gru 4 movie alone since I already had bought the two tickets, also nobody can go with me that day so the second ticket was wasted
The fact that this video came out today and tomorrow i'm taking a girl to the movies is just insanely convinient, you a boss Berto. Keep up the hard work.💥
Im honestly glad to watch your videos because Ive been single my whole life just vibing, but im ready to start dating soon and these tips will definitely help. Cant wait to see your channel grow to a million.
As a newly single man I haven't been on a first date in while. This was good to hear before I get back on that horse. She left me bro!! All cus I wasn't mad that she snuck out with some friends and I took her mini cam out of my dash. Apparently giving her freedom is me not loving her. idk or care anymore.
i asked this girl that ive been talking to for 7 months if she would like to meet at like a park or something to hang out, and she said no. apparently the only reason she was still talking to me was because she felt sorry for me, she didnt want to ghost me because she thought i would hurt myself after telling her about myself, and my tragic past. the only reason she kept me on the hook was because she didnt want me to hurt myself, and we talked about all of this tonight. it hurts so bad knowing i can never find anyone who wants me for who i am. our sorta kinda relationship is hurting us both, i love her, but she doesnt want anything, and i know if i let her go she would take half of my heart with her. ive tried to get into a relationship with her but she just seems so sad and lonely and doesnt want to burden me with anything, shes afraid she will get hurt again. i dont know what to do, and this lingering depression is killing me from the inside out. ive slowly had more and more breakdowns where i just cry. i never told anyone but its been happening around once per 2 weeks, and i just cant get her out of my head. i know we will never be a thing, and that really hurts...im too scared to go outside or talk to anyone, i know some people would say just do it, but i cant. im going to die alone and sad. maybe i should just..idk... the pain is just unbearable, and i feel like i have the wieght of the world on my shoulders with graduating highschool and trying to find a job that i can live off of.
I'm sorry for u mate. But u might just need to stop talking to her altogether or give yourself a break without her and regroup yourself. Hope this helps
What @uhpurpose said bro, like Berto says in some other videos, you gotta cut that shit off. Focus on yourself and your goals for a while. It seems like she made it clear that she doesn't want a relationship with you, and I know it hurts to hear, but you gotta move on for your own sake
It’s kind of annoying and definitely a headache to have to play games with them like this. Definitely not how it used to be way way back then when our parents were our age.
11:55 nah I would Inhale that shi, but ye when I eat with family members or if I was on a date I would eat slowly. But imma be honest my mind would be like: "INHALE THAT STEAK LIKE IT NEVER EXISTED"
Do it at your own discretion, but in my own opinion it might seem a little clingy or nosy in a way. It depends honestly and don't take me too seriously (self proclaimed dumbass 🏆) but read the situation and decide whether or not it's a good time
being a girl myself, yes ask especially if u genuinely like her! being consistent is the best way to hold a girl's interest, mixed signals won't end well
Girl likes mystery. Her Imagination is the best filler in things you haven’t said. Girls love idols and famous people not cause of looks. (a bit lol) But her interpretation of the Celebrity is important. She fills the gaps the best way possible. Also think also why she is dating you. What is she missing and what can you do to fill it up. For example girls with strict parents lack rebelliousness, Freedom and more. You date that baddie cause you want love thick ass and a great night together. If you can’t fill in what she is missing or she has no need to be with you your chances are lower. It’s not a dealbreaker but something to keep in mind. I learnt this from experience (which is none) but from a book from of a experienced person called the art of seduction. Great book about love and attraction made by the same author from 48 laws of power. Wish you the best with tons of love from Switzerland.
So for example if you get a model car kit but it’s already pre-built and painted you lose interest quicker, but when it’s you get to assemble it, figure out where things go, what It does and then paint it up, it’s more entertaining for the long run
So 85% of these NOs are something im guilty of... 😮 Also that dont talk about yourself that much yeah learnt it by a small but clear change. While i listened to what she likes her eyes were glimmering and she smiled but when i started talking about myself too much (just a thing i do with everybody😢) that shine and smile faded slowly away😢 but good video that verifies noted mistakes and makes it easier to know what went wrong😊
In all honesty, I’ve never dated in my life. But everything you just said is exactly how I plan to interact with someone I would want to be trying to get into a relationship with. I always figured that maybe I could try getting her to talk mostly about herself since I don’t really have much of interesting things that I can talk about towards myself. But I’m not much for vague and neutral answers. I’m more of blunt and short ones, which I really need to work out of. Also, I’m actually someone who doesn’t try being on my phone around a restaurant anyway. In all honesty, I do it so I’m not distracted when a waiter comes. However, my siblings say that how I sit and walk makes it seem like I’m “on a mission”. Not sure what that means. Also, I definitely understand the table manners. Especially chewing with your mouth closed. I say that because for the past year, one of my front teeth has been getting shorter than the other. No idea why. I even wear a mouth guard to sleep and it’s always the same tooth that none of my teeth can reach and grind down on. Basically, I feel like I look like a hillbilly when I smile. I will be honest, didn’t think there was a thing as after dinner dates. I’d definitely need to make a plan.
7:47 - 8:08 I reckon this part of the point is just good for any conversation in general. By that I mean it helps to keep a conversation going and not fall off too quickly.
Berto, make sure to take the time to add the asking to like and subscribe. When you’re spitting facts, it’s easy to get lost in information but I want to help grow this community! You got videos doing big numbers, we gotta get you the audience
Annnddd were back! I hope y’all enjoy this one. I’ve been really enjoying making the relationship vids, but I’ve been starting to miss just regular story times, so I want to get y’all’s feedback. Should the next vid be a story time? 👀 Anyways, love you guys. Join the Discord and sub to the second channel; all links are in the description. And you better already be subbed to this channel, or I’m gonna have to catch you outside. ❤️
Yeah bro go back to the story times they were heat
Storiessss
@@WhereYouAtBerto yh bro I was abt to say “when u gonna make another story time” so yh make one next vid
Pls another story time them shits be gas
YES STORIES
No, I clicked on this video because berto. Im way too scared for that shit
LMAO
Type shiii
Relatable
BABE WAKE UP BERTO POSTED!!!
babe?
Oh right I'm single
Same
Same bro😂
Me watching this knowing damn well i ain’t getting a date anytime soon
Feel ya on that my boy just taking 📝
Fr😂
Frfr
literally bruh
still?
You know this guy is goated, when you watch him while you have no bitches...
Fr bruh
@Doctor.Minecraft dang he caught our asses
@@MiguelMartin-zp3fv exactly
Real.
Also do not trauma dump on the first date. Try to avoid saying anything negative tbh… bad relationship with your parents? Don’t talk about it. Hate your job? Don’t talk about it. Talk about things you like bc being negative makes you look like a downer.
Save that for months down the line atleast lol once she really knows you
@@luxurijok
@@luxurij i would take it step to and just keep that yourself no need for pity that can be used against you down the line...
one of the hardest things to avoid is talking while eating because girls might ask a question in the middle of my chewing session, and if i delay, it would be awkward but if i respond, ill look irritating with the spaghetti in my mouth😭
Small bites bro, makes it really easy to swallow without a hitch. Like Berto said, don't go stuffing your face, slow down, control yourself and you'll be alright
@@alexanderstoev2350 soo sigma
You can cover your mouth with the back of your hand. Just don't cover your face completely, keep it subtle.
Bro i fumbled the first two advices with a girl i liked
Lesson learned. Thanks bro
1. Don’t reveal to much about yourself.
2. Let her do all the talking. 60/40 60% her 40% you
3. Stay off your phone (leave it face down).
4. Basic table manners
4a don’t talk with food in your mouth
4b eat slowly drink slowly
4c don’t smack your lips
5. Bonus tip always have a backup place to go to ex: ice cream, bowling or top golf.
6. Another bonus tip in my opinion: amusing that the date went really well the key is to make the offer for part 2 of the date very smooth by saying what are you doing after this and she says nothing Have something planned to do with her afterwards such as top golf bowling and/or ice cream (if she says anything but nothing to you asking what she says going on after y’all’s date don’t offer to go anywhere else).
How is no one appreciating this GOAT. I copied this and pasted this onto notepad to help me remind myself.
Now this got me understand the video, thanks 👍
12:58 the refrences are so good 😂
‼️Where you at Berto‼️
AHHHHH IM RIGHT HERR GANG !!! 🔥🔥🗣️🗣️
@@WhereYouAtBertoI felt the first advice bro... I've gotten friendzoned so much
@@WhereYouAtBerto16:13 😂😂
@@WhereYouAtBertomickey mouse ass gloves 😂😂
i’m so glad to see you growing bro u one of my favorites on here fr
Man y'all support means the world to me thank you 🙏
Honestly for the first one, if u wanna keep some mystery just paste your self on whatever u tell her, I feel like a lot of dudes add to much in one setting rather than spreading it out gradually, basically letting that mf flow
What do you mean by "paste your self on whatever you tell her"?
@@darthgamer9468he means not giving away to much information but still answering the questions
@@darthgamer9468he means “pace yourself” lmao
Im just low-key addicted to your videos. The real thing is that i just gotta stop wanting women(not trying to do the thing of dropping dating overall im just trying to make it so that i no longer desperately want it )
Besides the smacking while eating and eating fast cuz the food to dam good i prolly would of screwed up everything else
1. Low self-confidence
2. Certified yapper
3. Extreme nervousness
4. Expose of 100% full identity on the first date
I’m glad I sub up to Berto appreciate it berto
Thanks for listing it
Too late Bro, she already cancelled the second date
Damn bruh
That's crazy, keep trying and you’ll find some fish in the sea🤟
@@lifeissomethingelse5373 thanks 🤝🏻
@@royalobasi1938 I had to watch the Gru 4 movie alone since I already had bought the two tickets, also nobody can go with me that day so the second ticket was wasted
I bet you didn’t do anything wrong. Trust me some of these girls are just playing games and they’re just moving onto the next guy on the roster.
Imma be honest u is a
W
MANZ
if I ever wanted to be a self improvement youtuber, I honestly would take inspiration from you
“Don’t be smackin’ yall lips” had be laughing HARD bro😂
Guys always pull the chair for the lady be a gentlemen
(Rips booth out of the wall)
id rather date a girl who loves me for me rather than the thought or the idea of me
He actually thinks we asked her out and she said yes😂
Thanks bro now I have my crush I will not forget you
W's my nigga! Keep it up!
W in the chat
The fact that this video came out today and tomorrow i'm taking a girl to the movies is just insanely convinient, you a boss Berto. Keep up the hard work.💥
Im honestly glad to watch your videos because Ive been single my whole life just vibing, but im ready to start dating soon and these tips will definitely help. Cant wait to see your channel grow to a million.
Well i’ll come back to this in 6-8 years😂
As a newly single man I haven't been on a first date in while. This was good to hear before I get back on that horse. She left me bro!! All cus I wasn't mad that she snuck out with some friends and I took her mini cam out of my dash. Apparently giving her freedom is me not loving her. idk or care anymore.
I’m going on a first date this is clutch asf 😭
I wish you luck❤
You got this lock in
update???
How did it go
@@VALIZ69 she catfished me 😭
i asked this girl that ive been talking to for 7 months if she would like to meet at like a park or something to hang out, and she said no. apparently the only reason she was still talking to me was because she felt sorry for me, she didnt want to ghost me because she thought i would hurt myself after telling her about myself, and my tragic past. the only reason she kept me on the hook was because she didnt want me to hurt myself, and we talked about all of this tonight. it hurts so bad knowing i can never find anyone who wants me for who i am. our sorta kinda relationship is hurting us both, i love her, but she doesnt want anything, and i know if i let her go she would take half of my heart with her. ive tried to get into a relationship with her but she just seems so sad and lonely and doesnt want to burden me with anything, shes afraid she will get hurt again. i dont know what to do, and this lingering depression is killing me from the inside out. ive slowly had more and more breakdowns where i just cry. i never told anyone but its been happening around once per 2 weeks, and i just cant get her out of my head. i know we will never be a thing, and that really hurts...im too scared to go outside or talk to anyone, i know some people would say just do it, but i cant. im going to die alone and sad. maybe i should just..idk...
the pain is just unbearable, and i feel like i have the wieght of the world on my shoulders with graduating highschool and trying to find a job that i can live off of.
I'm sorry for u mate. But u might just need to stop talking to her altogether or give yourself a break without her and regroup yourself. Hope this helps
What @uhpurpose said bro, like Berto says in some other videos, you gotta cut that shit off. Focus on yourself and your goals for a while. It seems like she made it clear that she doesn't want a relationship with you, and I know it hurts to hear, but you gotta move on for your own sake
Jokes on you I just wanted to watch the video because I was curious 0:05
Same
BERTO BACK 🐐
bruh I’m watching this without ever being on a date but this vid along with the others gonna help me out
Your time will come 👌
This is the type of video you save until the time you need it.
13:25 got me dying fr 😂
It’s kind of annoying and definitely a headache to have to play games with them like this. Definitely not how it used to be way way back then when our parents were our age.
W video man hope you get to 1m subscribers
nah i’m watching this in advance tryna prepare myself a good two years in advance yknow
5:53 bro did not rewatch this part of the video XD
this sum psychological shit. they teach me this in college
1:05, Dog was sniffing the lights (You know what lights 😏)
Someone remind me of this video in about 3 months. I might need it then.
bro might be onto something
nah im just here for information bro... aint no way im getting a real date any time soon
Thanks Berto! Hell of a better advise that my homie (who also has a bad reputation of being with girls)
I swear this man is like a father to me
That's the kind of dad every son needs
11:55 nah I would Inhale that shi, but ye when I eat with family members or if I was on a date I would eat slowly.
But imma be honest my mind would be like: "INHALE THAT STEAK LIKE IT NEVER EXISTED"
8:07 ngl thats a ultimate lvl of advice to keep the conversation alive for day to day life
My dumbass still can't ceep up a conversation
Thank you Berto, you are like an elder brother who helps in tough times
Thanks for all of these videos ❤
SHE said no but screw it I am watching this anyway
I clicked on it because I wanted to learn for when she says yes.
If she says that she is going to the library after the date does it make sense to ask if you can join her?
Do it at your own discretion, but in my own opinion it might seem a little clingy or nosy in a way. It depends honestly and don't take me too seriously (self proclaimed dumbass 🏆) but read the situation and decide whether or not it's a good time
being a girl myself, yes ask especially if u genuinely like her! being consistent is the best way to hold a girl's interest, mixed signals won't end well
@vonknee yeah can't beat a girl at her own game (me out here tryna sound like a smartass but I'm dumb as hell)
@@alexanderstoev2350😂
Berto uploads= Good day
5:53 bro js restarted so casually 😂😂
DUDE THANK YOU SO MUCH THIS HELPS A LOT BRO THX
this is a miracle for tmrw thx berto
💯
Finna go on one soon, and it’s not my first but this might give me sum I need to know type shit
0:05 nope just here for preparation incase I actually get a bloody date
Same bro
Frfr
You know what you’re talking about hermano
new video ,you get 200k before 2025.Man.Underated channel hope you get biggger
This guy is so badass he’s like one of those reddit or quora post from 7years ago that saves you life🤣
BERTO ALWAYS LIGHTS UP MY MOOD WITH HIS ADVICESSS😭💕 KEEP IT UP!!❤
Girl likes mystery. Her Imagination is the best filler in things you haven’t said. Girls love idols and famous people not cause of looks. (a bit lol) But her interpretation of the Celebrity is important. She fills the gaps the best way possible.
Also think also why she is dating you. What is she missing and what can you do to fill it up. For example girls with strict parents lack rebelliousness, Freedom and more.
You date that baddie cause you want love thick ass and a great night together.
If you can’t fill in what she is missing or she has no need to be with you your chances are lower. It’s not a dealbreaker but something to keep in mind.
I learnt this from experience (which is none) but from a book from of a experienced person called the art of seduction.
Great book about love and attraction made by the same author from 48 laws of power.
Wish you the best with tons of love from Switzerland.
Bros got the w advice
Locs are looking nice man
W advice from a wise man
So for example if you get a model car kit but it’s already pre-built and painted you lose interest quicker, but when it’s you get to assemble it, figure out where things go, what It does and then paint it up, it’s more entertaining for the long run
So 85% of these NOs are something im guilty of... 😮
Also that dont talk about yourself that much yeah learnt it by a small but clear change.
While i listened to what she likes her eyes were glimmering and she smiled but when i started talking about myself too much (just a thing i do with everybody😢) that shine and smile faded slowly away😢 but good video that verifies noted mistakes and makes it easier to know what went wrong😊
I can’t be the only girl watching this 😂
bro i am just here cuz it was at my home page.
In all honesty, I’ve never dated in my life. But everything you just said is exactly how I plan to interact with someone I would want to be trying to get into a relationship with. I always figured that maybe I could try getting her to talk mostly about herself since I don’t really have much of interesting things that I can talk about towards myself. But I’m not much for vague and neutral answers. I’m more of blunt and short ones, which I really need to work out of. Also, I’m actually someone who doesn’t try being on my phone around a restaurant anyway. In all honesty, I do it so I’m not distracted when a waiter comes. However, my siblings say that how I sit and walk makes it seem like I’m “on a mission”. Not sure what that means. Also, I definitely understand the table manners. Especially chewing with your mouth closed. I say that because for the past year, one of my front teeth has been getting shorter than the other. No idea why. I even wear a mouth guard to sleep and it’s always the same tooth that none of my teeth can reach and grind down on. Basically, I feel like I look like a hillbilly when I smile.
I will be honest, didn’t think there was a thing as after dinner dates. I’d definitely need to make a plan.
nah the last step is easy for me because me im the most respectful person my parents and friends knows
7:47 - 8:08 I reckon this part of the point is just good for any conversation in general. By that I mean it helps to keep a conversation going and not fall off too quickly.
Perfect timing, summer coming up in a week, bagged her 4 weeks ago and still haven’t been on a date 😭 ima needa take notes on this one
Bro 4 weeks ago?
@@slayr4170nearly 4 weeks+the date been long overdue bc she be busy on weekends bc her dad is a pastor
4 weeks you might have dropped the bag bro but if you didnt and you gonna go on a date with her i wish you luck
Dude 4 weeks?! Ask her out IMMEDIATELY she isn’t gonna stick around forever
@@Hyepr_ true, i asked her but she always has stuff to do on weekends bc her dad is a pastor, and weekdays we have school.
I'm a girl and im still taking notes
Mans giving life tips fr
Thank u berttoooo im a d1 fumbler
Berto, make sure to take the time to add the asking to like and subscribe. When you’re spitting facts, it’s easy to get lost in information but I want to help grow this community! You got videos doing big numbers, we gotta get you the audience
This man’s content is so good
3:59 pause
Bro she asked me to go to a date Berto I’m really scared this vid is gonna help me so much
Berto Is a W mans
W support ❤️
Slipknot beat in the background fire
Im not even going on a date but im watching anyways
0:01 Nah bro your wrong, i dont even have a gf, im just bored
A true masterpiece well spoken
Unrelated but; your dreads are actually so cool, I got starter locs 5 months ago, and im tryna get mine like yours lol
I watched this to see where I went wrong and I’m gonna be honest I’m still very confused
fiiinally my man is back. 🔥
Where are you Berto!!
I just clicked coz of curiosity bro the bloodline ends with my ahh😭🙏
Berto if only I had watched your video I would have had an idea of what to do
No i just need something to watch while i eat
Damn. These are bars fr.
lol bro.why weren't these type of videos around when I was in my early 20's. I would have been so much further ahead in life .
Amazing video you got that sharingan you're so spot on on everything 😅😢.
sloth for ice age
Nah man,I'm watching cause your videos are a massive W🗿🗿🗿
i ain’t doin allat
For the phone one, would it be fine to keep your phone in your pocket; assuming that you don't use it?
I'm glad i subbed fr
No I clicked out of curiosity……..yeah
The goat is blessing us again
I clicked this video after two months of us dating
Next vid should def be story time